Stop Lying To Yourself (DEF04)

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  • @teresahemingway4577
    @teresahemingway45773 ай бұрын

    I'm responsible for everything in my life. Say that to yourself before you get out bed everyday.

  • @frankiewilson6001
    @frankiewilson60015 ай бұрын

    “You are the General and the Soldier”. Kill. Love it. Thank you

  • @bootstraphan6204
    @bootstraphan62045 ай бұрын

    All that comfort seeking behavior could be a sign of depression. Comfort itself can be a trap, an addiction, etc... This is where religion, spirituality, and personal development can help you figure out what you want to look like in the world and what you want the world to look like.

  • @SubliminAL-ql7go

    @SubliminAL-ql7go

    5 ай бұрын

    Jesus says that he will send the Comforter which is the Holy Spirit to dwell in you. This is how you become a disciple, which comes from the word discipline. To gain supernatural power in order to walk in discipline, otherwise you will do inconvenient things like overindulgence and sin to gain a temporary comfort

  • @YELLTELL

    @YELLTELL

    Ай бұрын

    " All men are the same except for their belief in their own selves, regardless of what others may think of them. " ~Miyamoto Musashi The Book of 5 Rings

  • @YELLTELL

    @YELLTELL

    Ай бұрын

    ​@SubliminAL-ql7go " Be sober, be vigilant; because your advisary the devil, like a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking from whom he may devour. " 1 PETER 5.8 " Therefore take up the whole armor of GOD, that you will be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. " Ephesians 6:13 ☆ECCLESIASTES 3☆

  • @Mike-108_v_
    @Mike-108_v_3 ай бұрын

    Jocko- My bro-in-law who is retired , 20 years special forces Air Force gifted me the DEF book... years ago... I can see how it helps Men... and my discipline back when I was in my 40's paid off big time. Now in my early 60's ... I'd have to say these things help me WITH the discipline: Gratitude (for a small home) Minding my own business-(sort of speaking) Solitude There are 2 kinds of speaking- (partially from a book) : Commencement Speaker vs. 1 on 1 choosing your words wisely and listening. Apparently some people dislike others who are constantly in "Commencement Speaker" mode- you feel me. Keep up the great work- great podcast Mike in Pennsylvania

  • @Canopusparadise
    @Canopusparadise5 ай бұрын

    You are the general and the soldier, Discipline is immediate willing obedience to all orders from yourself. Don’t lie to yourself, Comfort brings Lies. Don’t question the general.

  • @roninsoniii6670
    @roninsoniii66705 ай бұрын

    "Success will test a man as surely as the strongest adversary."

  • @anxen
    @anxen5 ай бұрын

    One time my aunt asked me "Arent you feeling lazy or resentful when it is time to do chores?" And i was genuinelly puzzled - why would I feel that way? All the stuff is for my own benefit plus i find it enjoyable. Fast forward sevetal years and I am incapacitated by a chronic illness. It hurts so much to do these things now and the discipline is in letting the chores pile up. There is now a battle between my mind and my body. I want to do things so much but I cannot. Now I do feel resentful and wonder if being lazy is the state of your mind and your body not being aligned.

  • @warriorsinagarden

    @warriorsinagarden

    5 ай бұрын

    That sounds really tough, I hope your body heals and you feel better

  • @shelbycarr4682

    @shelbycarr4682

    5 ай бұрын

    I agree with your theory. When you're medically not well, like chronic autoimmune issues or bad gut, I think it has a domino effect on everything. Mood, emotion, mental status, drive, energy, will. It's like having the difficulty settings of life cranked to max. It's not impossible to overcome, but it sure as hell feels that way.

  • @shyamlynn243

    @shyamlynn243

    5 ай бұрын

    Doing anything within your capabilities especially the things you'd rather not do but can will move you forward in discipline and better state of mind I think. Easier said than done but hey why not try it, especially if its on your mind. We are all at very different situations and levels in life. That doesn't mean we can't learn the same lessons and obtain the benefits. Wishing you well .

  • @amirsafwan4013
    @amirsafwan40135 ай бұрын

    I have DEF manuals , I really appreciate it Jocko when you eloborate further on the topics 🙌🏻

  • @dannymac777
    @dannymac7775 ай бұрын

    I hear audio now

  • @rec-itgaming4153

    @rec-itgaming4153

    4 ай бұрын

    Good.

  • @AjaychinuShah
    @AjaychinuShah5 ай бұрын

    Thanks for your Service. We appreciated it.

  • @catstickler
    @catstickler5 ай бұрын

    Ah the immediate excuse came in my mind that "oh well, I got in an accident and my PT says I need to relearn how to walk properly before I can get back on the kickboxing mat," but I've been holding on to that excuse for the last two months and it makes me feel like shit, so I'm telling my physical therapist I'm going back to training today. I also see how I've been using my chronic illness as an excuse to sleep and rest more each day, but when I give in to the fatigue and stop fighting against it, I end up feeling terrible and can't do everything I need and want to do simply because there's not enough time or energy to get the stuff done since sleeping/resting saps my energy and drive to do stuff when I'm awake. It's a tricky balance because I've pushed myself genuinely too hard and ended up in the hospital, but coddling myself isn't doing me any favors either.

  • @andrewjackson9948

    @andrewjackson9948

    Ай бұрын

    Being able to walk before you run...or in your case...kick is kind of important. Discipline is also being able to take the proper steps to ensure success despite wanting to do something else...especially when you arent ready. I feel your pain though

  • @user-yb9sm5jp5u
    @user-yb9sm5jp5u5 ай бұрын

    So inspiring 🙏🙏 avid listener from the UK 🇬🇧🇺🇸🇬🇧🇺🇸

  • @PeterDeMarco-fk1ph
    @PeterDeMarco-fk1ph5 ай бұрын

    Thank you very much!

  • @bneyens
    @bneyens5 ай бұрын

    “Hard Work Sets You Free”

  • @shyamlynn243
    @shyamlynn2435 ай бұрын

    Okay I signed up, I'm in. A bit scared and intimidated for reasons I won't bother to mention but I am thankful for the opportunity to get some things in my life squared away with a push and help of leaders I respect. ...Here we go!

  • @AudraT
    @AudraT4 ай бұрын

    Good video. I was wracking my brain thinking what else could possibly be making a happy person feel like they need more discipline? It might actually be he really is happy but he learned this mindset that he could never be good enough. I remember this church I used to go to where the pastor was very authoritarian and preached as though God was always disgusted and disappointed in you, even when you were sincere and obedient to God. After a while people started to feel like God was always unhappy with them, they could never be good enough, and God would always be a mystery no matter how sincere they cried out to Him. This caused a lot of self doubt in people and in their own salvation. Once people started leaving this influence most of them started to have a much more balanced and honest view of themselves. I know this other person that grew up in a legitimate cult. The cult wasn't like those Hollywoodized TV and movie cults. In this real cult everyone moved into this private trailer park and eventually the ministry started abusing people (nothing sexual). Beating kids and such. It was the single older women and widows who blew the whistle on everything. So this guy got out of this cult when he was a kid but he says he still battles some unhealthy mindsets, like feelings of inferiority and such.

  • @MrIF123456
    @MrIF123456Ай бұрын

    Wish I was born with level 7 discipline

  • @manfredullrich483
    @manfredullrich4835 ай бұрын

    Most people can "truly" do better, and yes, they actually believe that. And guess what, they may not take the actions necessary to "do better", and - they are still fine. There is no "need" to be the best possible version of yourself, for whom and for what? If you are doing alright, and are content or even happy with where you are at right now, why changing? Usually change or even improvement comes with a certain risk. Goals set too high may actually harm.

  • @xxx_rayden_xxx
    @xxx_rayden_xxx2 ай бұрын

    respect sir!!!

  • @healthycomments
    @healthycomments5 ай бұрын

    This is really good.

  • @treydixon5399
    @treydixon53995 ай бұрын

    Instant obedience to orders, sir. Good times

  • @HealthZo
    @HealthZo5 ай бұрын

    4:23 awesome always great knowledge 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 4:41

  • @StayFun00100
    @StayFun001004 ай бұрын

    Happy New year, gentlemen. The Netherlands

  • @davido6880
    @davido688017 сағат бұрын

    Nothing wrong with occasionally skipping discipline. Give some fun and relaxing time for yourself or you can burn out. Been there.

  • @FINALLYOUTAFTER6
    @FINALLYOUTAFTER64 ай бұрын

    18:32 “ it’s such a lie I’ll find some time” he just explained my entire fuck up

  • @MekaMekaMeka_.01
    @MekaMekaMeka_.014 ай бұрын

    We lie the loudest when we lie to ourselves 💪

  • @healthycomments
    @healthycomments4 ай бұрын

    “Comfort breeds lies and breeds a lack of discipline” wow🤯

  • @brianbachmeier34
    @brianbachmeier345 ай бұрын

    We're all gonna make it brahs

  • @FINALLYOUTAFTER6
    @FINALLYOUTAFTER64 ай бұрын

    9:59 i like that line.

  • @dcal8141
    @dcal81415 ай бұрын

    Jocko your podcasts are changing my life by changing my actions ,thoughts, and the way I looked at things. I have struggled with a serious drinking problem since I was 18 my least drink I tried to take my own life and my brother turned me on to your podcast and I been sober ever since. I can’t tank you enough

  • @baldrickization
    @baldrickization4 ай бұрын

    "Embrace its cold and relentless power hah hah hah..hell yeah, i like that line" i love it when we see a little flash of Jockos dark side 😂 yes he's a very cool, helpful and great guy but under no circumstances fuck with this person 😬😂💪

  • @johnsharpnack4983
    @johnsharpnack49835 ай бұрын

    This is really good

  • @marcoleonel-vi3xq
    @marcoleonel-vi3xqАй бұрын

    So good

  • @MiguelMartinez-il9vs
    @MiguelMartinez-il9vs5 ай бұрын

    Bad ass content !!!

  • @Mike-108_v_
    @Mike-108_v_3 ай бұрын

    Henry Rollins music video from 1994 - "LIAR" - IF the Liar is a separate entity that resides "IN you" ...just as the Coach does.... don't be a "Sucker" as Henry says.

  • @xvsj5833
    @xvsj58335 ай бұрын

    Great content Jocko ❤🫶🏻💪🏻

  • @user-sg5vc3bp6m
    @user-sg5vc3bp6m5 ай бұрын

    The DEFreset a strong buyin by Jocko and Co. it's free and it works as well as you work it. Would be awesome if the DEFreset was quarterly. Truth is sometimes you have to muddle around to rebuild foundations that crumbled

  • @TheGuitarChief
    @TheGuitarChief5 ай бұрын

    How do you stay disciplined when you lack hope?

  • @HA-fd7xr

    @HA-fd7xr

    4 ай бұрын

    Create the hope

  • @danialmalikofficial

    @danialmalikofficial

    4 ай бұрын

    Breath hope!

  • @andyd834

    @andyd834

    4 ай бұрын

    Jocko would definitely have some words. But underlined would be take ownership, and put in the work no excuses.

  • @iro4201
    @iro42015 ай бұрын

    Cool.

  • @Nathan-ls4xt
    @Nathan-ls4xt5 ай бұрын

    Please keep doing more of these.

  • @andrewyuzwa5840
    @andrewyuzwa58405 ай бұрын

    I had to restart my phone in order to get audio

  • @hippomancy
    @hippomancy3 ай бұрын

    should hurt a little bit...? maybe hurt a lot, initially, if you have not been honest for a while. the first discipline is honesty...

  • @ExcitedCoyote-ow4vl
    @ExcitedCoyote-ow4vl4 ай бұрын

    I wish I could discuss my options with you personally. Nothing more that I want then to get involved and unlock my potential. I know I’m a failure but because I’ve been a failure, if I’m given the opportunity I would utilize it. I’ve had some decent successes with discipline and education in the past. However, poor decision making ruined my life. Any input is much appreciated. Thank you.

  • @kenroc546

    @kenroc546

    4 ай бұрын

    Man, I can relate. Failures are things that happen, failures are not people. Where's does your hope rest? Who do you have faith in? A broken and contrite heart, God will never dispise. Only Christ gives us hope and faith and that makes our heart strong. There will be more failures in life, but in Christ, He gives you the inner strength to get up and move foward.

  • @rushikeshmirge7613
    @rushikeshmirge76135 ай бұрын

    No Audio 😢

  • @BenjaminJLadd
    @BenjaminJLadd5 ай бұрын

    You’re my personal trainer whether you realize it or not, Jocko. Semper Fi, (Fat) Link New Year’s Resolution: Stop lying to myself and become (Lean) Link. Run another 1st Class U.S. Marine Corps PFT and be within weight standards. Then become the best swordsman in the world. Learn to fly. Write a letter to Congress to become an Aviator.

  • @gursevakdcsingh5457
    @gursevakdcsingh54575 ай бұрын

    discipline: imitate willing obedience to obey all orders

  • @spinesword9178
    @spinesword91785 ай бұрын

    I doubt you'll see this, but I want to order some of your fuel products, but shipping alone costs $180 Canadian. Is there any other way to get some?

  • @thundergrace
    @thundergrace5 ай бұрын

    we are all hypocrites..

  • @MichaelLeopold1
    @MichaelLeopold12 ай бұрын

    Well this was an honest one

  • @simhajr
    @simhajr5 ай бұрын

    LETS GOOOO

  • @katepavelle9465
    @katepavelle94654 ай бұрын

    Welp…sounds like I lie to myself an awful lot! Time to cut that out. Thank you!

  • @danepane527
    @danepane5275 ай бұрын

    Shit.. yea this is me

  • @PolynesianShooters
    @PolynesianShooters5 ай бұрын

    Whoever can’t hear isn’t signed up for DEF reset

  • @PolynesianShooters

    @PolynesianShooters

    5 ай бұрын

    On a real note, I can hear

  • @vickysama88
    @vickysama884 ай бұрын

    What is the magical book about discipline?

  • @herdbull
    @herdbull5 ай бұрын

    Over the target as usual.... thx

  • @kevinhelfend555
    @kevinhelfend5555 ай бұрын

    I saw the thumbnail and I felt uncomfortable. Dam this one hit home

  • @d_doctrine5901
    @d_doctrine59015 ай бұрын

    No audio

  • @jameskeating4719
    @jameskeating47194 ай бұрын

    Yooo ECHO CHARLES got a movie ❤ coming out soon how bout that

  • @tinytim71301
    @tinytim713015 ай бұрын

    Hit the Bullseye with a vengeance.

  • @highflyer13131
    @highflyer131315 ай бұрын

    I get the lack of sleep before missions as a soldier. As a civilian we don't have the fear that our slacking off will get us killed. This leads to a lower bar where we are happy. This doesn't mean there isn't room for improvement. Human nature seeks homeostasis, and the path of least resistance. We may achieve a God state in life, but we also as humans want more! Greed,just, and eny are real!

  • @TheMyrmidon22
    @TheMyrmidon225 ай бұрын

    We lie to ourselves about being happy, because we measure ourselves against the individuals we spend time with. The we look and listen to social media and become disconnected with our great lived and this is where the lying begins. Are we really living, or could we be more responsible with our time and abilities. Does this sound like a dumb thought?

  • @keepitsimple3856
    @keepitsimple38565 ай бұрын

    No audio :(

  • @shrekscousin1389
    @shrekscousin13893 ай бұрын

    Stop lying to yourself, and decide

  • @thundergrace
    @thundergrace5 ай бұрын

    Give me my children! I want a cybertruck and a log cabin far away in the woods.....

  • @yduronerom6380
    @yduronerom63805 ай бұрын

    I'd like to be content. It's in us all to want to improve upon our previous selves. It's hard to be hungry when you are always stuffing food down the throat....

  • @user-xo2rb5oo7o
    @user-xo2rb5oo7o4 ай бұрын

    Look for something that bothers you and see if you can fix it.

  • @jeanpaultongeren125
    @jeanpaultongeren1255 ай бұрын

    Goggins will just call these things demons

  • @mattmoore1882
    @mattmoore18825 ай бұрын

    AMEN. Stay ahead of the wave or get rolled. Hey you guys wanna walk my dog I just inherited from my late Uncle at 3 AM every day? BOOM

  • @jamajnasoares5702
    @jamajnasoares57025 ай бұрын

    LFG

  • @LanaALaBonte
    @LanaALaBonte5 ай бұрын

    USAF here & we’re the hardest on ourselves!! 🎉🎉

  • @meinking22
    @meinking225 ай бұрын

    Leave it to Jocko to break ChatGPT 😂

  • @MrDanielvass

    @MrDanielvass

    5 ай бұрын

    I love that chat gpt is based when it comes to working out

  • @lowkeydriftg4228
    @lowkeydriftg42285 ай бұрын

    Stop making excuses to ourselves. Beware rationalizations.

  • @rodwheeler6438
    @rodwheeler64385 ай бұрын

    No, that’s the devil that massages lies

  • @understandingyourself

    @understandingyourself

    5 ай бұрын

    The devil is the father and chief of all lies

  • @ChristopherMartin-lh1lc
    @ChristopherMartin-lh1lc4 ай бұрын

    Im dead as shit i dont live in fantasywood

  • @reknirbecurb
    @reknirbecurb5 ай бұрын

    Yeah I liked what Leif said, do your F’n best and go to sleep.

  • @craigcrawford6749
    @craigcrawford67495 ай бұрын

    "Punk" lied to himself when he thought Dirty Harry only fired five shots instead of six.

  • @rodwheeler6438
    @rodwheeler64385 ай бұрын

    Yeah, it’s nice paddling out in the dark until a shark eats your ass

  • @jamalevans5240

    @jamalevans5240

    5 ай бұрын

    Guys like you aren’t meant for it

  • @defenderofwisdom
    @defenderofwisdom5 ай бұрын

    You don't want to hear the truth dude. That, every US military opertion in the past 70 years was futile, that a hundred years of national ambitions were a waste, and that there is going to be this bloody collapse that became certain between the 60s and 80s. And that ain't my fault. I just fought to fix it.

  • @willivonen3886
    @willivonen38864 ай бұрын

    Ai over reach. Not walking a world in constant audit. Evil.

  • @defenderofwisdom
    @defenderofwisdom5 ай бұрын

    Ooh! You mean about the symbolism and emotional exhaustion comment. No, I'm not lying. I'd expand, but, why? lol. I overthink things don't I... Thinking you're playing wei chi when it's still chess...

  • @rushikeshmirge7613
    @rushikeshmirge76135 ай бұрын

    Second

  • @JohnDoe-pu5zd
    @JohnDoe-pu5zdАй бұрын

    Meta just released their new AI, their AI gives you a reason to not workout. Meta is against humans becoming better. They want humans to be cyborgs 🤣

  • @ramblr5900
    @ramblr59005 ай бұрын

    First

  • @shilohstodolka
    @shilohstodolka4 ай бұрын

    Whatever Joseph trouble maker

  • @Satoshi-Nakamoto.
    @Satoshi-Nakamoto.4 ай бұрын

    Are you lying to yourself how somebody found you and made you relevant ....

  • @JOMOPressureWash
    @JOMOPressureWash5 ай бұрын

    I liked my own comment