We have to disappear yes, but if they don’t come around please don’t go after them after a certain amount of time, Respect their decision and respect yourself.

@user-ho5sh6fw2b

8 ай бұрын

i know i hate that part it pisses me off,, because someone at some point will get my girl

@TheDevineFempress

3 ай бұрын

@@user-ho5sh6fw2bif you believe that yes but factually you do manifest your reality. I downloaded a picture of a man … to prove this was fact 6 months later the man I placed on my vision board walked up to me and said I love you.. we dated until I broke it offf with him. There’s no way that could have “just happened” the thing that made it even freakier is that I’d just moved to a new city and he had just had a contract end in the city I moved from which according to him “just stopped it was weird … so I had to come back….” I’m no bot the law is real. Focus on what you want and it MUST come to you … I swear this on the breath I take while writing …, it’s REAL.

@peacheedandee

Ай бұрын

Planet Earth is full of fucking games when it comes to relationships. I don't doubt that any of this advice is true. But life is BS when you think about all we go through just to get our desires, and then we die and it never lasted that long. All this discarding in relationships because someone is selfish, and then ghosting, no contact, etc and making sure you really do disappear just to keep your dignity. So much precious time wasted when people who are supposed to be together, really should.

They all come back when they see you’re better and changed without them. Just go no contact, work on yourself and live as everything you want, wants you back. There’s a big probability you’d not want them anymore because you’ll be already to good for them. ❤

@bluebellbeatnik4945

6 ай бұрын

how will they see you though? what if you don't do social media?

@bethechange2529

5 ай бұрын

​@@bluebellbeatnik4945its energetic they feel it

@peacheedandee

Ай бұрын

@@bluebellbeatnik4945 My thoughts exactly. If they don't live in the same town (like they're 45 minutes away) and you're not connected to them on social media, and they are too chicken to reach out, then what?

@lailahbhana5449

19 күн бұрын

Yhoo0} ú5😂knoo

If someone ghosts you, respect the dead and leave them alone. Same goes for when they decide to leave you behind

@Swiss_Girl

3 ай бұрын

yes, I like to say, ghosts belong to the cemetery

This is so true, ive started new hobbies and am even in the process of buying a property all by myself. Something that I thought wouldnt be possible. I feel so confident reading all these legal documents all by myself. No help. Ive done it. ❤

I have been working on myself. I have been getting stronger and less up and down. This morning i did feel a bit down. This was the pep talk i needed. Thanks, Natalie!!! ❤❤❤

@Ch2.0ris

11 ай бұрын

Same

@guardianoftime2

11 ай бұрын

Same ❤ we got this, love!

@thebird9766

11 ай бұрын

Be strong my friends

@dolcecorazon76

11 ай бұрын

@@thebird9766 thanks so much!

@mlong506

23 күн бұрын

Any updates here? How are all of you guys making out?

Thank you Natalie!

So much love and appreciation!! ❤

You are incredible! Thank you! Your video is helping a lot!

Thank you Natalie ❤. This is incredibly helpful.

Thank you ❤

Thank you so much Mam.. I am really very greatful for your help...I will follow everything as you said..

Well said

Great video thanks Natalie❤

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

You’re very welcome and thank you

I made a great achievement by taking good care of myself and not contacting him, thanks to you Natalie x

You are awesome ❤

Hello from Los Cabos Baja California Mexico,I fallowing you since few days ago, I like this blouse that you are wearing ❤, thanks for sharing I can feel your honesty

This was on time

I needed to hear this and now I'm "doing the work" 👍🏻

I got to the point I accepted it!! I couldn’t do that before he saw me a couple times out he said I looked nice, he’s be texting me on and off checking see how I’m doing. 😊

Great advice

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

❤️

Love you Natalie !!! I am back on the beam again self love !! I'll get it not stopping 💕💕

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

Yay 😀

It works Natalie ❤is awesome !

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

Yay 😀

Man so on time thank you so much. Wife left me for something so stupid and petty. Thank you for confirming she said the exact same thing. She don’t want the relationship. I will accept it

And just like that! Always choose yourself, your life is not over when your realation is over, write your new story, and always love yourself. 😎💪 Thanks Natalie 🙏

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️

Phew I'm glad I saw this. I almost was going to send a Christmas card.

Natalie!!! You are a godsend! So today, I saw my SP watched the recent TikTok I posted yesterday. I feel gratitude 💕 and then I saw you posted! I accept it 100% before I watched this, your rawness, your beautiful soul which I can see and feel, I'm happy to have dedicated myself to study under you. 💕

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

Thank you and well done you

It’s so hard, you want your SP and that’s all you can think about so you work on your self concept and feel good about yourself so you start dating again to stop thinking about SP and find you are just ghosted by randoms on dating apps, it’s so hard to keep the faith im deserving, I am lovable, I am worthy when your SP has used you and said they don’t want you and after all the work on self concept randoms on dating sites don’t want to talk, it’s so hard to keep going

yep walk away and work on self love We have to accept the no they give you . been thinking of him in a kind way when he crosses my mind, Detach and self love is the key ..thank you so needed this today

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

Amazing and youre so welcome xxxx

I love the stall and the ' I don;t care .....I just...I don;t care.....' ps. she speaks the truth by the way too :) !

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

❤️

I listen to this video over and over it’s so motivating for me, just keeps me in line for what I’m am supposed to be doing!! Thank you soo much Natalie.🥰

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

You can do it!

@victorianorris1916

11 ай бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Thank you so much Natalie, you just don’t know how you helped me and a lot other people your surely God sent!!

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

Wow ❤️❤️❤️ thank you

I Interpret this more as you getting yourself back. Of course, you attach yourself or part of you to them and when they leave they take that with you. Then you feel you want them back. But really you need to rebuild that part of you which was developed with that person. Its the tension between attachment and authencity. When they leave you need to rebuild your authentic self with attracts the opportunity to form a new or old attachment.

Thank you... You just saved me from total selfdistruction about this breakup that I am going trough.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

Sending you lots of love ❤️

@michaelmiczo3947

11 ай бұрын

totally opposite here, its been two years since she left, we are still married since 1993. i can't take it much longer everwhere i go everything i see their she is can't stop thinking about her. i love her so much!!!!!

Just hoping that I can apply the same principles to SP, someone who I wasn't in a relationship with, but had a very strong, undeniable, unspoken connection with - that even though was not directly addressed, was obvious to others around us. If anyone watches US Office, just think Jim & Pam 😂 "circumstances" mattered to me back then, those years ago, before I understood that I can have what I deserve and believe in.

@NKbutnot

11 ай бұрын

No hoping, have a inner knowing. You see someone you like, you set your goal that you will go for him, then allow your universe to bend to your will accordingly. It all starts with a declaration in your mind, speak it to make it feel real in your projection, but it is always the vibration of your mind, that voice that’s always speaking to you within, which you must announce your intention. The opening will be there, and I Will go for It.

Unrelated but i love your hair its so pretty ❤😊

Great content as always but wanted to say that blue shirt is a gorgeous color on you!

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

10 ай бұрын

Thank you xxxx

My punjabi prince keeps coming back to me trust me if he loves you he will always come back to you 😅

@shonaboris6832

11 ай бұрын

@@BABAEHIMEN thanks but im not interested in a psychic reading

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

I blocked them

I miss Her Natalie it’s been 9 months my heart isn’t giving up on her . But everyday without her hurts . I’m doing my best to work on myself but some days are better then others. You give me hope and faith Thank you 🙏

@yes1256r

11 ай бұрын

Bro u got to let it go and change the way u think, when a thought of her comes in your mind think something else, its not the end of the world, u have to relax and try doing something new in life get busy bro.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

Self love ❤️

@isaacjacobs3785

11 ай бұрын

Only advise for you. You have to remember you, not her. She is gone and you are still emotionally with her. Move on, honestly, close that chapter of the book, life is everything when we accept ourselves as the most important factor. They are gone, let them go, all the way.

@thomesc6214

11 ай бұрын

I think that ship has sailed mate. After the 3-4 month mark it is usually less likely they come back but you should be thinking of yourself not them anyways. It is hard I know but work on yourself and good things will happen. Good luck.

@kellyjford1

11 ай бұрын

I’ve had an ex come back after two years wanting to marry me. (Happening right now). I totally let that ex go and once I did is when she came back.

My soon to be X wife is actually a solid person BUT when she left me it was over at that moment. I will never understand why anyone goes back to someone who left you

I’m just watching this whilst chilling out having a glass of wine 🍷. Loving the content and my SP can have all the space she wants until she comes to me the way I know she can be but until that time then I’ll be here watching these videos and growing day to day and living my life to the fullest. I have disappeared from her life.

@tasfiatasnim6812

5 ай бұрын

Update?

Yeah they say exes come back oftentimes ..but tbh after almost 6 months and she started to date someone new apparently, don't think this is happening in my case. We had a little contact here and there over the months (usually once every month) but she always ended ghosting, so from this week I have decided to cut off all contact and focus on myself... Hurts, but eyes front

I’m struggling at the moment to be honest and just trying to process my emotions. I miss my boyfriend so much the pain in my heart is overwhelming. 😢

@fridar3267

11 ай бұрын

Me too. I’m so heartbroken but I know it’s going to be okay and we’ll be good no matter what

I would never ever ever go back with any ex. You had your shot, you messed up. Done.

Great pep talk just after my gma told me to forget about them, he doesn’t want me! Urgh! I worry though, if they don’t come back, I haven’t done the manifesting right or well enough x

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

5 ай бұрын

Focus on loving you and seeing your worth and value and then it makes it so much easier to see that they will see it too. I’ve just launched a new service for support! Manifest from your Pocket. If you need extra guidance check it out! Xxx links below

It's been 5 wks since the last text and 7 wks since we have spoken on the phone.

A guy disappeared on me a few days ago for the second time, the first supposedly was because his phone broke which sure is valid since he came back all apologetic after. Talked fine the next few days up until he disappeared again over the weekend, we aren’t labelled or anything but idk what’s going on.

Me and him on dating site 2 yrs, he wont get off after constant fighting, so i went mia and 4 days later hes texting me but i havent answered and wont for a month so i can feel what its like to be without him to make final decision if i want to be with him or not. 2 yr of cry hurt pain, he will not exchange contacts and play the field denying it, hes not worth my time! Lots money wasted!!😢

I am leaving the country. We used to go out as friends for a year. I have waited and waited and waited for so long. Now he has a new woman and he has blocked me on everything except emails. If he wants to come back he will have to beg me.

Would you agree that truly responsible no contact means not only don’t contact them but don’t even think about them more than absolutely necessary? Not thinking about them gives them even more space?

@dolcecorazon76

11 ай бұрын

Yes, they can feel us energetically even when we are just thinking of them.

@ghcxlmbx1061

10 ай бұрын

@@dolcecorazon76so how do you keep up with your affirmations for example but not think about them

Do you want them back a big question. I think I’ll like the option but possibly not. Cheers for the video.

Can you make a video what to do when you're in NC but you work with your ex and sometimes we end up sitting together in the lunch room on the table and it feels awkward not talking

I need your coaching

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

All my coaching solutions can be found in the link below the video lovely ❤️

What if if u realise the importance of space after reacting ...and later working on self ..

What can I do if the story of him and I have been so rocky and everyone knows it? I have been doing the work in my mind, I have been doing my self concept, but we have a child together so no contact is really not an option here. We have broken up multiple times and I see now how much of a bigger part I played in us breaking up. This time around, he found another person and assures me he is very happy without me all the time. It has been 2 years now. Thank you

Hi Natalie, I always watched your videos and followed your guidance . My sp just told me again that he is not ready for the " relationship stuff" I know I shouldn't look at the circumstances but what can I do when he reiterates not wanting a relationship and even told him I wasn't interested to keep being fwb that I want something meaningful and I was seeing some else right now. And he replied "that I deserve to be happy and hopes this guy makes me happy" why my manifestation didn't work? 😭😭😭

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

Hey why not look at all The coaching solutions I provide and we can figure this out xx

@pm1610

11 ай бұрын

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop yes I think is best, thanks Natalie.

I have always wanted a personal trainer....

I never understood … if you don’t “need” somebody why would you be with them. If it doesn’t hurt when they are gone what is the point. Unless it’s transactional…

We see each other every week. We have 3 kids. How would this work?

Natalie, I want to book in some time with you but I can’t see your reduced prices for July. It’s not on your website. Where can I find that information please? X

How much time do you think that it takes from a man to call again?I didn't reach out to him since March when we broke up, the problem with me is that I spent to much time in my world that is why we broke up any way I just want to know how is he,but I don't want to be the first one to reach out

Do you have any advice for the situation I’m in where I still live with ex? Chances are we’re going to be living together for the next couple of months at least. I’d like to try and bring him back before I leave if possible. Thank you in advance x

What if we did all of this. Gave space, didn’t contact, didn’t inquire about them, no social media checks, nothing and they still didn’t come back?

@jamiekbutterfly3138

11 ай бұрын

And I’m not talking about a few weeks. I’m talking about over 6 months; no contact

@mlong506

23 күн бұрын

Have you been working on yourself as well?

Will this work even if we were only in early stages (9 months and long distance so not a very strong emotional connection yet) + I messed up a bit so I am not sure if that works

What do you do when you live together.

What about the affirmations and manifestation. Here. Living in the end and such. Cause that what I'm turn into like this let go off or affirm . I manifested him back a few times and he left again. So I'm thinking about it. If its better to affirm and assume or just let go and do nothing at all....just know he will come back and work on me.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

Why not join my free Facebook group (links below) or look at coaching options (also links below) or join the badass Manifesters community on my KZread members only channel? Again all links below lovely and all to guide you xx

What if you live with the person?😢 I'm still supporting her financially and I can't kick her out. Yet it's so hard having her around and telling me she sees me as just a friend and how I need to move on and date other people.

Hi @natalie, What do you do when they do msg you again after they’ve had some space? He’s an avoidant & he tends to only respond in the evening right before he goes to bed so there’s not much chance for proper conversation on text. (Though I noticed he’s responding a little more frequently.) I don’t want to play games, but should I be waiting until the next day to respond to him?

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

Change the story about him! Love you and see your worth! Message back if you want too! It’s what feels right for you

@thekristiepalin

11 ай бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop thanks so much for your reply x Would love to have sessions with you only I could afford it!

What do you do when they only come halfway back? Like saying they don't want to move back in, etc.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

Focus on you and change the story

Still wait since 7 months on my sofa she comes back. She is still not here

@azazel3944

11 ай бұрын

Stop waiting just move on with your life

What if I texted rotten things I didn't mean and apologized later?

@DAN-lo5db

11 ай бұрын

But I'm staying in no contact unless sp contacts me

How to go for a no contact when you work in the same office?

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

I did so you can too lovely! just focus on you!

Can i block him... Because it makes me anxious and then i can't focus on my manifestation...

Can I reframe this with an SP I wanted to grow a relationship with (not ex)? :)

Hard to do this when you have a child together but I never initiate contact. We are in the same meet-up groups. Should I leave them as well? It has been three months.

I got a question I yesterday was on break while at work and noticed my ex unblocked me on TikTok I only know cause her photo popped up all sudden while I was trying to find something to watch as I ate but what's that mean if it's exactly happens on the 2 month odd part she has a primary and backup and it's her primary where she day before made mention of me regarding a touchy topic for her like in my opinion I shouldn't had been brought up in that video I will say I been no contact practically since may of the end of the month and yes I've been doing the hard work and feel good I should say what that video she made was about it was about how her ex husband which they been apart many years was lying and with holding all hers and there little girls property and how she found that out nearly a year after hurricane Ida took everything she then brought me up saying we don't talk no more and went our own ways but I would pissed if I saw that video

I understand this but what happens when they do come back and we are on good terms. I feel like things will go good but than they will do something like make plans and than just not show up. Than they will come again. I have put up with this going on 4 years off and on

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

Keep telling the story of what you want

Hello Natalie. I’ve been watching your videos lately,all very good information.Would this one also apply in. LDR friendzone situation? At one point she was interested in a romantic relationship,then I started becoming needy/clingy for a short period.We had a disagreement about 2months ago,she got upset and told me to “leave her alone”!! I have not contacted her,and she hasn’t reached out to me at this point.Thanks

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

10 ай бұрын

Self healing and focusing only on what you want xx

@alvonblair4251

10 ай бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop So this video does apply to my situation also?

I am not a social media person at all. What should I do?

@lena-Ramone

5 ай бұрын

Pat yourself on the back!! You are a mature adult ❤❤❤ social media is the devil

Dear natalie i have a question about manifesting. I write my affirmations , i do my visualization, im not worriy about the result and i let go the result . But my specific person is on my mind most of the times but im not thinking if him in sad in desperate way just thinking. Is it a problem??

What if they are contacting you ?

If they are sending me things on social media and memes, should I just ignore it? Can I like what they send me?

@damien4v3

11 ай бұрын

Just like it . Don’t respond in message . So you’re being nice but your inaction in not responding will be attractive to her to the point where she will have to message you .

Wanted to ask a question you said disappear I go to karaoke about 2 times a month he’s always there that’s we’re I met him at should I just stop going all together, I’m trying do it right this time around!!

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

Give it a go for a couple of months! See what happens xx

@victorianorris1916

11 ай бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Thank you soo much Natalie, I’m starting Friday!!

but are all women the same? for some this might work, but some women want to be contacted. And ignoring them will push them away. am I wrong?

In no contact what if they reach out through out.. surface level … while seeing others .. how long no contact?how do you do no contact if you don’t talk they wonder were you are .. but more like a self esteem boost for them ?

Hi Natalie I love hearing your advice. How do I get him back when he left me for a younger woman and he has instigated divorce. Also he does not message me anymore.

@R33t1

11 ай бұрын

It will take time. It won’t happen when you want it to.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

Why not look at my coaching solutions xxx links below

@courtneycole8825

11 ай бұрын

​@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop🎉

What should I do if my gf hasn’t broken up with me but has went silent for days while I’m visiting family out of state. I asked her why she wouldn’t talk to me and there’s been no answer even though she’s posting online and still sharing her location with me. I’ve stopped trying to contact her at this point. We live together and rent is due this week. Do I still send my half of the rent to her and should I return to our home when I get back in town or just find another place to stay?

@stephanys6509

6 ай бұрын

😢😢

I am somebody's X and I have Exes...Yes all of them they come back but once i am heal I don't want that person anymore 😂...

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

5 ай бұрын

🙌 The love it when people realise they have a choice! Once they are healing. Them or someone better such a healthy place to be when you know you have a choice xx

So while doing these steps, can we do affirming like living in the end

@lild-qi3rg

7 ай бұрын

Also, do robotic affirming?

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

7 ай бұрын

Yes

🌸🙏🏻🌸

Is it possible that it'll take less than a month or two?

What if they stopped talking to you? It’s been awhile now and I have given the space he wants. (I can only assume space is what he wants because he’s stayed so quiet). Does that mean I don’t reach out for any reason?

@glogurl73

10 ай бұрын

@amandaabellando1519. You know why you are not getting your SP to show up how U want because you are manifesting no contact . Your assumption is he wants space and you are manifesting that!!!!! If you believe in no contact then that's what U will have in your reality. Work on your subconscious mind and create a new story with SP get rid of the old relationship story it no longer serves U. Isn't it wonderful my so and I are in a passionate and deep living commited relationship 👍

Any advice for me? I want my wife back, I ended it, but we’re still living in the same house with our kids for now.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

9 ай бұрын

Manifest it how you want it to be! If you need help you can get some time with me! Links below the video lovely xxx

@darrenbetts2987

9 ай бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop I have been but I’m asking if I should fully stop now and start living life for myself to get her back.

What if you have children with the person? Not having contact isn’t possible.

@lena-Ramone

5 ай бұрын

Grey rock

How can you go no contact when 4 kids are involved?

@lena-Ramone

5 ай бұрын

Just grey rock as much as poss

What if the ex is still approaching and there is no contact, what is the goal now

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

What you want it to be

Hello Natalie, my ex broke up with me almost a month ago,during the break up I tried to make her reconsider but she didn’t agree cause we’re “incompatible “ after the break up I immediately went no contact, deleted messages and unfollowed her on social media, the issue is that we’re both on the the same university and the same class, how can I make her come back to my life please?

@user-dx4sg5rp2i

11 ай бұрын

Hey man, I went through something similar a little over a month ago and wanted her back so bad after she told me she didn’t feel a connection to me. I know it’s hard but you gotta move on man, she chose to walk away from you so why would you want her back? Work on yourself and grow. Maybe she’ll come back when she sees you level up or maybe she won’t but I guarantee you if you focus on improving yourself someone better will treat you much better because the right one for you won’t even let the possibility of losing you happen

@user-dx4sg5rp2i

11 ай бұрын

I know it’s probably not what you want to hear but she decided that her life was better without you in it. You shouldn’t let someone treat you like that dude. Find someone who genuinely cares for you and wants you in their life. It’ll take time but put yourself first

What if you have a daughter together and have to see them every 2 weeks?..

You mentioned a few months or 6 months they come back when doing you 100% what about a if it's year or so ? Same thing ? They will become interested in where you are ?

@stormholland4036

11 ай бұрын

Yes they can.Time is an illusion.When you work and focus on yourself.They will feel the difference.

@Bond10000

10 ай бұрын

Time doesn’t matter at all! I’d love Natalie to talk about manifesting exes back after a long time apart.

You are a lovely angelic lady,100%

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

11 ай бұрын

🙏

i hate that part by bothering her, because im trying to fix it , but yea its making it worse, like i called her ,i got 2 words in and then she beat me up for 28 minutes that its allll my fauuuult WTF SO UN FAIR natalie help me

@lena-Ramone

5 ай бұрын

You were trying to fix not bother.. good way of seeing it

How do u not talk to them if you have children together?