This is sooo true, it’s been 12 months since he dumped me and said he didn’t want to be with me. Been working on myself, listening to your videos, working out, been on dates here and there, got to the point I don’t want him back. Guess what, he came back. After 12 months telling how I’m glowing and how beautiful I am. Telling me, he misses me and pursuing me none stop. My feeling for his has gone, I can’t believe I was so obsessed with him. It was my love that made him look special. Your videos are live changing Natalie. Bought couple of your self- study programs too. I truly appreciate you ❤

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

❤️

Yes 100%. Thank you for this video. Four months of no contact, I bowed out gracefully. Saw each other recently at an event. I was different and it was very clear to him. I pulled my energy back, I'm healing, I'm feeling much more grounded, much more secure. If I had kept contacting him, trying to convince him to be with me, I would not have gotten to this point in my life. I know in hindsight, we had to part ways, and we both had to grow. I'm not the same person I was 6 months ago. And this had to happen for me to grow this way.

@Any66134

Жыл бұрын

9 months no contact , but I'm afraid to face him , because my pattern is that hw is going to be negative against me ! Although I don't know what the reality is ... We did apart in Peace I have showed him I do want him and I gave the best parts of me ! But still have that negative thinking that I don't deserve him , even if he was not correct ... I feel he talks behind my back and crap like that 😮

@michaelmich00

Жыл бұрын

4m nc? and he still doesnt want u?

@MIMIDSH

Жыл бұрын

@@michaelmich00 Yes and no. He'll always want me. We both know we had something special. I'll always want him too. But we were on a different path at that time, so we had to have this break. I needed to stop with him to grow into my new life, and he needed to explore a career path and grow into his path. We'll be back together one day. Him, or someone better.

Since what we believe is true, I adopted the belief that fighting for him, texting him pouring my heart out etc. And then stopping has worked. It was my final fight, no regrets. Plus its too late, i did embarass myself but MAYBE he will think about it and no ones ever done that for him before and its what gets him. Rarely does anyone just say ok when being broken up with. I agree dont if you can help it but its a natual response when youre blind sided.

My worst problem is thinking I messed everything up. Nonstop psychoanalyzing every thing I said or did. I was too available and too easy. I wasn’t physically needy, as in over texting or opening my heart, but I know I gave off that needy energy because I was so nervous. No girl in my entire life ever made me feel that way. Literally got clumsy around her and everything.

@joygladies5438

10 ай бұрын

Mee too. Am self pitying myself I made mistake I did hurt him, I messed up etc. I take his pain too and feel it additionally. Hope we get what we want soon and everything falls into place as we wished for 😊

@MissBluebirddays

6 ай бұрын

I did the exact same thing. Went from being put on a pedestal to putting him on the pedestal 🤪 Once that happens they lose attraction pretty quickly. I'm hoping I can bring it back but currently in no contact and working on myself

I was in that situation after the break up, however, I pushed my ex away that very last night we talked. I told her that she deserves love and respect that she truly deserves. It's been 9 months with NO CONTACT, I know that I want her back however, I'm better off without her. I'm been making great strides in my personal life and work with my job and I feel great. I accept being single and really happy about it

Self care is so valuable!

I am so thankful for finding your channel!! xx

Thank you Natalie, I learned so much from you ❤

In hindsight you made me understand why I did all the wrong things. I had anxiety, made calls, got depressed. It was terrible! I wanted my life to change & I thought he was the answer.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

10 ай бұрын

Well done on your awareness beautiful soul xxx

❤ thank you Natalie you always make my manifestation come true!

Yes! Yes! Yes!!!! I’ve done all of this and now I’m the one who dumps the men because I love my life single. Not settling for anyone less than I deserve.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Yesssssss xxxx

Beautiful video ❤. Thank you so much I’m going to start now practicing all the tools you have said 😊 x

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

These past few months, I have been working on myself. The environment we live in many changes have taken place changes I know were necessary, and that she was asking for our communication is far better than what it was when we were together this third-party she is with I’ve been manifesting that he pretty much doesn’t exist in my mind although difficult to do your video has help me.

I really needed to hear this now. Thank you so much

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome xxx

It's unbelievable how you are so relatable and so encouraging. Every word and sentence speak so much to me, and surely to thousands of others.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Thank you xxx

I love this video. ❤ Just one thing. I haven't moved out my stuff yet. I'm with my parents 10 hours away from my (ex) SP. But I only planned to go back for my stuff in a month. And starting today, no more contact with him because I am worthy.

Yo, your first three and a half minutes of this video is spitting some serious truth, and once again time after time over the last 3 weeks or so your videos have been hitting the right square in the chakras

@raymondfranklin5013

2 ай бұрын

Never mind, the first 8 minutes that is perfectly parallel with my experience because all of those things that you mentioned that we do to try to get our specific person back, I did in a row over a period of a week in december, some of them I still do but every single thing you mentioned I was saying check, check, right, guilty,.. Uggh😭

When they’re done, they’re done. That’s great advice though. She’s teaching you a good way to let go and move on with your life. Cause that’s all you can do. You can’t make them want to be with you so you have to learn to be happy with you cause that’s all you have now. Of course you have friends and family to lean on. And God! Yes, I’m going thru it now. 18 years.. separated for a 5months now. Signed papers a month ago. I’m devastated. Full of regret! I chased and begged. So stupid!!

This is so true. I sabotaged my latested relationship by believing I wasn't good enough which was then reflected in my SP. I know that this is not true now! I wish I had known this before!

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Circumstances don’t matter

This may resonate for someone: we need to learn how to live with a feeling, or let the emotions pass through us. Love is about know yourself better, and know that person better. But, unfortunately we spend our energy on that person, not THAT person. Most of us really need to go through the journey alone for a time. I've watched a video some days from here like 3f times in a row. And my self love and healing practice(specially self compassion) has just started. And since they say no or just ghosted me, I've feel destroyed, but moved on. we really need to quit parts and versions of us. That is so much MAYBE in love for us to feel uncertain about ourselves, and our body and mind and heart is always trying to tell us something, in every aspect of our life. Love is something that we build and allow, not something to crave, so don't just take your hear with your bare hands and be on your knees to give for anybody. I had really triggered situations TWICE these week...and I allow myself to put ME first, and it was beautiful. The person that I saw would see anything I post in social media, but I left social media for a while. My point is: claim the warrior you are to break cycles in your life, even emotional cycles. Say out loud what YOU DID, and what THEY DID, FACTS. And how'd you feel about it. Then ask for whatever you believe for more of what you're lacking "what can I do to love/like myself better, to feel joy for me, gratitude, compassion", and trust and allow yourself to be cure. To manifest something that is lacking in us is exhaustive. That's so much beauty out there, but what about the inner beauty, our beauty? Anyway, your content is really assisting me in my healing process. And I congratulate myself and you!! Much love from Brazil ❤

I needed this today ❤❤

Spot on Natalie one hundred percent!!!

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️

Really helpful thanks so much.

Natalie does give a shit..... I have personal experience that chimes that bell loud and clear! She also knows her 'shit' and is a down to earth, no bs, manifesting guide who will help transform your life! I could end by saying something like 'Good luck', but it is not about that in my view.....so, "Good ACTION" to ALL and Lots of LOVE!

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Wow thank you! Can’t wait for our next grant and natalie session lol! ❤️❤️

Thank you Natalie. I needed this today, after 24 years married, 8 months ago she left, the no contact is a struggle daily. Confused, hurt beyond words, but still trying. Your words help more than you could imagine.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Thank you and i am pleased they are helping! Sending you so much love xxx

@mitthrawnuruodo1730

Жыл бұрын

Why did she leave?

I really.. really appreciate that you’re putting yourself in while you’re coaching and giving advises to your subscribers. Instead of patronizing do this do that behavior, you’re giving examples from your own experiences and about your life, pain.. This deserves so much appreciation. You’re opening your own experiences and fragile moments without hesitation. Thank you. Means a lot.. really. On the other hand instead of using gender roles I am so happy that you mention people as partners in your videos. Thanks for the inclusivity as well. ❤

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

I always want everyone to feel on this channel it is all inclusive! That’s the plan! Sometimes I slip but I’m always doing the best! In august I have a video we’re I share something so deep that you’ll see the tears in my eyes! But it’s all from a place of sharing! Knowing what I allowed and never being that person again ❤️❤️ so no one deals with what I went through ever again! Self love is the most fundamental key to all of this! Thank you for your comment xxxx

Thank you, Nathalie for giving us strenght and motivation. I found out he has another and I am very heartbroken, because he now only sees me as a friend. Some part of me wants him and knows we belong together, but other part hates this version of him now and doesn't want anything to do it with anymore. When I am ready I will remove everything of him. I deserve better and If he comes back it better be the upgraded version. I don't want this bs anymore.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that I really am! Turn away from it and take one day at a time and put it all into you loving you and creating your best life ❤️❤️

@michaelmich00

Жыл бұрын

rebounds always fail

You should do a crossover with Evie's Way!

Natalie Thank you !!

Thanks Natalie! Can you speak about Self Concept that model influencers/ instagram influencers have about themselves to continue to create a great lifestyle and confidence etc and the lead up to the following? x

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Not sure what you mean? Can you explain please? Xxx ps sorry long day recording lol xxx

@LouLou-ew6jw

Жыл бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Its ok ! I mean by how their thoughts create their reality, what type of inner thoughts they have about themselves to create that life? Will they speak highly of themselves for example...Hope that explains better lol! xxx

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

@@LouLou-ew6jw yes! The successful ones for sure! How they see themselves is how the world will see and respond to them xx

Brilliant ❤

This is the perfect video. ❤

I sometime struggle with letting go of “mistakes” I made with SP. ….wishing I had known then what I know now and would have handled it all differently…..better. Any advice on how to handle all of this?

Thanks Natalie, awesome video.. good reminder and run through of the structure of it all .. understanding all this should be as important as falling in love .. like similar energy .. so you always have a good healthy structure of crazy little thing called love.. all sides of it.. great video! like.. you are professional at your job.. be professional at your love life when its needed type thing .. hope it makes sense

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

What you mean is take responsibility for your life xx

@soulfate2

Жыл бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop well said yes! It’s fantastic how you lay things out in order Natalie thanks!

Side note ....I love your hair color

Have not seen him in person since last september. No contact since February and nothing. Trying to let go, but cant stop thinking about him.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Time to pull back and love you! Xx

My SP broke up with me exactly a year ago. I didn't contact him for the exception in February to ask him if he wanted back his clothes. However energetically i was doing numerous things to try to manifest us back and it's been an interesting path. Now that we reached a year from the breakup, i finally stated to the universe that i am done waiting. I stated through visualization what i want with my SP so it's out there. But I'm done. The last few days i have had intrusive thoughts of fears I've always had with exes in the past and i simply say "good for him, hope he's happy. Good riddance" and keep going. I don't want to be bitter but i certainly didn't deserve making myself wait or the pain the breakup brought. So at this point I'm not even sure i even want him back. Not sure if these would be new statements that will manifest later on, new seeds, but i do deserve understanding, good communication, true genuine mature love, support and appreciation.

I did this she hasn't replied to my messages in ages so i gave up and started to find someone else tonight i though of her i felt i needed to ask if she was ok and she replied no not really then went quite again.

I'm proud of myself for not texting or calling him. It is so hard. 5 weeks since a text, which was kind of important. And 7 weeks not talking on the phone. However ,I have been hanging out doing things with a guy I dated 12 years ago. We happened to run into each other. Great guy, but not for me. But, I still miss my sp so much.

My boyfriend left 5 weeks ago; been broken ever since. I feel so helpless and what scares me is that I keep tracking the time since I last saw him thinking he’ll forget me and move on although we were together for almost three years 😢

@symrahayat5262

3 ай бұрын

Did he come back

@cyberaga20

3 ай бұрын

@@symrahayat5262 no 😫 but messages here and there

Last time when I let go of my sp within a few weeks she came back, I never worked on me deep down tho and we parted ways again but now I feel stuck because I know what I did last time but don’t want to do that either

I’d like to take a moment to thank you your videos are very educational. My particular situation is different than what I’m seeing here and was wondering if you can help me discern a path to getting my ex back. so this situation she is seeing someone else someone new, but we are living together under the same roof, so I’m not quite sure if everything I’m learning can be applied to the situation because the no contact doesn’t exist. We are in contact basically every day she still has love for me. I was never unfaithful to her very loyal and committed, but we broke up for other reasons, and I had to do with family situation, and I childhoods.. We have 9 1/2 years together, and since May we broke up, and since September, which I learned that she started dating, I’ve been fighting to get her back

I unfortunately chased for communication post breakup, I fear that this made him date someone else so quickly...

What about if it is a situationship and she decided to stay with her current boyfriend because she just couldn't handle it anymore?

How can I go no contact if we have kids together? Any help here?

Say my SP is using this method on me? Cutting off all contact in order for me to do exactly what I want them to feel/reach out to ME. We will be in stalemate. How will I know?

Love your videos! What should I do if we had 4 months of no contact, but he did not stop writing me by mail.. I didn’t answer in all that time.. he hurt me a lot, so I had to broke up with him, we were together for almost 4 years. A couple of days ago, I saw a instagram story with his new girlfriend, and I text him, he answer, but I ended up blocking him. He didn’t text me anymore since around 15 days

@samanthapalma533

Жыл бұрын

Please I need help 😢

it's true 👍🏻

What if they blocked you on social media?

What if you've removed most social media from life as a conscious cleanse?

"They will check your social media." How so? I'm blocked. Fully blocked. This is someone is extremely, extremely fearful avoidant. I doubt she's checking my social media out.

What if they don't have social media? 🤔

Who the hell wants their ex back? These coaches are making a lot of money from broken hearts and inability of people to accept reality.

Thankyou so much ❤ I’m not doing great at the no contact 🙈

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

You got this!

I did this recently I tried reaching my sp and all that did was getting me blocked on everything 😂😂😂

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

You know what to do xxx

@jennyramos7102

Жыл бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop absolutely now I do thank you so much for this video it was really helpful 💯🩵

why would i want to get back involved if i finally am able to loose interest? Each time I have this painful cycle starts all over again.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

You have a choice! Xxxx

I am not exactly manifesting an SP but there's this guy whom I have recently started liking and my male best friend and this guy share the same name. So last week 5-6 times, I just affirmed out loud that this guy is gonna ask me out for dating by the end of the week. Cut to the middle of the week, it was my best friend who called me and wanted a relationship. That's not what I had in mind. Before this, I was manifesting my old SP for like 2 months but then stopped doing everything since May end. However, right after I stopped manifesting I saw so many BBL all throughout June yet there are no signs of him. Even today when I visualize or try affirming.... it's his name/face that pops up more. Any ideas/suggestions?

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Why not join my free Facebook group for that manifestation support lovely of go to my website and have a look at all the coaching solutions I offer xxxx❤️

He gave me 7000 rs for emergency purposes in the early stages of dating... And I said I'll return when I'm capable so What if I need to return that? We've dated for 7-8 months and after that I confessed my feelings but he rejected after that too went on a date where we got physical and by returning it was me who started NC from my side so now it's been 3-4 months of NC... He unfollowed on social sites after 3 months so Any advice? Thank you! 🥺🥺🥺

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Follow the steps in the video xxx

How to let go of that old story . Been doing hoponopono. Then it brings those thoughts up where the old story is showing. I just say it’s ok. They did nt know what they were doing. Let them go. They will realise. I just want to forgive n let go of the old story completely. Pls help.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Why don’t you get a session with me? And i will be able to guide you all links below xx

With the ‘no contact rule’, what about if they text you with something quite insignificant… would you recommend not responding for X amount of time? I assume you wouldn’t recommend sticking to the ‘no contact’ if they reach out first with something trivial?

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

10 ай бұрын

You can view it in different ways. You can get coaching with me or you can join my free Facebook group for support links below x

Agreed

How can you make them miss you when you still live together

What if I work in the gym and he trains there so I have to see him?

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Put your attention on you

Yea but if you have kids… then can’t step back fully

what about sp affirmations , meditations and imaginations? should we stop it in this time?

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

???

@marwaalshwiki7127

Жыл бұрын

I mean should we stop doing affirmation about him and the relationship during the separation time?

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

You have to do what is right and what feels right fundamentally! ! It was all natural for me because I didn’t know what I was doing! I just knew I had enough! I pulled my energy back I created a better life and when I thought about him it was only lovely thoughts! But I didn’t do it to get! I did it because it was right for me! When you know who you are and are loving you…feeling stable within then I would do more but until then make it about you mostly xxx

@marwaalshwiki7127

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much darling ❤️😘😘

How do you forget them and not think about them and still try to manifest them?

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Make it about you and think about them lovingly and kindly but keep coming back to you! It’s all about your energy! When you fall in love with you loving your best life….you will then only think about them lovingly or not at all and it will be about you! It really is a process of falling in love with you! Knowing your worth! Loving your best life……the more you do the less you will think about them and that’s when you giving them space will get them thinking and missing you

@JonUrquidi-jt6uv

Жыл бұрын

Thank you. I guess I am confused by doing a manifestation to bring them back and then not thinking of them at the same time. Isn’t that a bit counterintuitive?

@JonUrquidi-jt6uv

Жыл бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDropthank you! Tough few months. Hard to not contract her with kids involved. But I will try to shine love in them and into myself

How about when ex and I are is living together?

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

10 ай бұрын

Focus on you!

Someone that's someone she don't know how to handle your head what could I do

@jamesrs6150

Жыл бұрын

Someone manifest my wife and she's going

So what happens if you don't have social media and no other way to see what either one of us is doing?

@MissBluebirddays

6 ай бұрын

That's fine, will increase sp's curiosity as you'll be more of a mystery

@cherylu9716

2 ай бұрын

​@@MissBluebirddaysI don't think that's going to work bc he would have to contact me. I know him so well and the only way he'd contact me is if I contact (text) him 1st

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Can say about self concept??

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

?

@meghnasharma3785

Жыл бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop what is self concept n it works so fast people say that

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Self love and self concept is how you speak about yourself think about yourself feel about yourself look after yourself and how you allow others to treat you! When you love you….you’re always in the driving seat of your life! Xxx

@meghnasharma3785

Жыл бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop i love u mam u r best ♥️

Social media? Not a fan...

What if you have a child together.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

It’s energy xxxx

My ex had sex with me twice. Then said he can't offer sex cause it creates a bond and responsibility and he wants to stay away from it. He is divorced. We were in relationship for 6 months, know eachother for 30. Now he slept several times with a woman he was sleeping before. Then called me for sex once again when I said "do you want to leave me for good?". Watches my stories. .... and sleeps with that other woman. Then wrote to me that he is thinking of me. Any advice please?🙏🙏🙏 I don't reach out myself.

@NKbutnot

Жыл бұрын

Why are you letting this man use you for sex ? Why are you having sex with him in the first place ? Is he paying ALL of your bills ? If so get someone else to do it. We really need to love ourselves. Block delete and go heal babe. You are hurting your own feeling sitting around waiting for someone who has clearly time and time again told you and show you he doesn’t want you. It feels amazing to be wanted and cherished but it will not happen until you cherish yourself. A doormat is something ppl walk all over. Pick yourself up, spend time doing things you love. Let that man go, practice self love so that the man who loves you and care about can find you. That will not happen until you make room for it. The only way to make room for something is by removing and trashing what is no longer working. In how many languages should he tell you that he doesn’t need nor want you. Of course he’s going to call you for sex. He knows you’re weak and have no boundaries. He is horny, let him waste somebody else time. I bet you your timeline is full of video of how to manifest a SP back, that’s the last thing you need love.

😂😂😂😂well it’s been over 3yrs since she moved out and well damn I fucked that up I reached out and called and bought presents for her and her daughter and about 3 months ago out of no where she blocked me so ya I fucked the whole process up oh well FML

Natalie what if it’s not us, surly we can’t all be like this. What if it’s them with these thoughts because I still see myself being married to my SP and this is even whilst she’s acting the way she is. She tells me she loves me but yet I’ve not heard from her since Tuesday and I’ve not tried to contact to her because I’ve done nothing wrong. We went out last Saturday night and she loved it, she rested her head on my shoulder throughout the play and afterwards told me she loved it and loves me so much but yet I’ve no idea why she’s reverted back to being distant. Anyway I’m carrying on with my life. Last Sunday I was in Oxford just to get away from Stoke and travelling Down on the motorbike I had a great time and tonight I’m going to the cinema. Natalie is right let them go. The first time my SP left I went into no contact and when she came back she said that’s the best thing I could have done was to leave her alone, the thing is I’m going through my 6th separation

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Why don’t you join my free Facebook group lovely? That’s where you can get your questions answered? Or my members only channel link below xx

@MrTheomighty1

Жыл бұрын

I’ve just joined your facebook group hunnie x

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Yay!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌🙌

But we have a child.. how do no contact :(

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Why don’t you join my free Facebook group to get that question answered lovely! Links below everything is possible xx

@sofiazendejas7292

Жыл бұрын

Yes can we talk about this!! My SP is the father of my child and I am constantly battling feeling the need for him, as every moment as a mom I am being reminded I am single

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

There are loads of people on there that can support xxxx

This works even with a FWB situation of almost 2 years? It seems that the reference is only serious relationships?

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Anyone

@jenniharvey143

Жыл бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Okay. Thank you. 🥰 ❤️

And for how long 5months still nothing so tell me now what to do because I don't know still hurting

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Get a coaching session with me xx

@johnberry4728

Жыл бұрын

Can't afford it sorry will just have to wait till I can

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