If He Blocks You, He Loves You? Here's The Truth

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There seems to be a dangerous misconception making the rounds on the internet lately. It’s this idea that an ex (or a guy) who blocks you, actually loves you.
As if they’re just playing some weird reverse psychology trick on you. Well, today I’d actually like to peel back the layers on this onion and take an in-depth look at what’s really going on with a guy when he blocks you.
So, I’d like to divide this article up into three distinct parts
Answering The Question On If A Man Blocking You Actually Means He Loves You
The Important Role Avoidant Behavior Plays Into Blocking
Why The Mere Act Of Obsessing About This Is Setting You Back

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  • @cherylthompson2731
    @cherylthompson2731 Жыл бұрын

    It is sad if anybody thinks blocking someone is an act of love.

  • @omodaraseun8984

    @omodaraseun8984

    Жыл бұрын

    Lmao I’m that delulu

  • @nbee6217

    @nbee6217

    11 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 absolute delusion

  • @mariannavenera1508

    @mariannavenera1508

    11 ай бұрын

    It’s true , I’m a girl and I only block when I really care or love them , boys I don’t like I wouldn’t even bother to block I just don’t care

  • @ranyadhellecabahug845

    @ranyadhellecabahug845

    10 ай бұрын

    I think there is a point youre missing.

  • @dillo5881

    @dillo5881

    9 ай бұрын

    @@mariannavenera1508my girl blocked me after a fight, said she hates me and to “go get a new bitch” how do I get her back? Help please 😂

  • @elibenjamen8729
    @elibenjamen8729 Жыл бұрын

    if he blocks you, he wants you, but he probably doesnt want to want you. hes most likely in emotional pain

  • @valyuen915

    @valyuen915

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@Alice wish I could think like this unfortunately I can't

  • @Kyle-pj2vc

    @Kyle-pj2vc

    Жыл бұрын

    ​​@Alice but you clicked on this video, people who don't care aren't watching breakup videos.

  • @buildwithbless88

    @buildwithbless88

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Kyle-pj2vc lol

  • @YoureNotBetter-o4c

    @YoureNotBetter-o4c

    Жыл бұрын

    @Alice And we don't care about your opinion, we're here to share experiences, not to talk about the egoistic opinion of everyone of us

  • @koshinwarsame8430

    @koshinwarsame8430

    10 ай бұрын

    You’re smart, that’s exactly what I did today and how I’m feeling 😅

  • @SadeSherrisXO
    @SadeSherrisXO9 күн бұрын

    Anyone they blocks you, is bothered by you. You’ve gotten to them in a way that they can’t ignore unless they block you.

  • @khart1825
    @khart1825 Жыл бұрын

    I blocked someone for my own well-being. Tired of being contacted only when he wanted something. Will not unblock and invite more of that behavior.

  • @abigaildiaz8237

    @abigaildiaz8237

    3 ай бұрын

    Exactly !

  • @uberbabe585
    @uberbabe58511 ай бұрын

    When he blocks you, he is a control freak, an egomaniac. Leave him alone and move on, preferably with someone else.

  • @mayajasinski5972

    @mayajasinski5972

    Ай бұрын

    Oh yes you are absolutely right! That's what my ex fiancé who broke up with me yesterday and blocked me on everything did! He is a control freak and an egoist. He even said so himself that he is an egoist and expects his ego to be rubbed. He was an ahole.

  • @SaintlessRex

    @SaintlessRex

    Ай бұрын

    I blocked my ex because she couldn't respect my boundaries and would do this to punish me like ghostIng me, and guilt trip me.

  • @ivia_ol8356
    @ivia_ol8356 Жыл бұрын

    Blocking is for children. I don't expect that type of behavior from a grown up man. Incredibly embarrassing whoever does that. Says a lot about them not being able to handle situations, lack good communication skills and emotionally immature. Grow up.

  • @roser8911

    @roser8911

    Жыл бұрын

    My ex does that! He is 62 years old lol 😂

  • @Elementt4life

    @Elementt4life

    Жыл бұрын

    A bit overboard

  • @jasminejohnson8723

    @jasminejohnson8723

    Жыл бұрын

    @@roser8911 😂😂😂😂

  • @roser8911

    @roser8911

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jasminejohnson8723 yup… he’s looking for me everywhere now… he’s been showing up in places!! So annoying! I don’t even want him. I’m so embarrassed 🙈… 62 years old? Really lol 😂

  • @lisaanna2899

    @lisaanna2899

    Жыл бұрын

    Did you tell him you didn't want him? Then it's a problem..If you didn't then you can't blame him for trying to catch you on your whereabouts... I hope you both find someone your own age! 🙄😣

  • @sassylillady1740
    @sassylillady1740 Жыл бұрын

    My ex of 4 years blocked me and it took a week for me to try and call him to even know I was blocked to begin with. I admit it hurts and he is constantly on my mind. But deep down I know that even if he was to contact me after a month that if we got back together the moment he does not get his way...he will pull this shit again and again. It's about power and control... As much as this chapter hurts me and I am listening to break up channels to cope... I know this pain and rejection wont last forever. It's sad to say but I hope that he does eventually try and contact me... Just so I can be the one to not respond ever again taking back my power. Is it childish??? Yup. And if he never reaches out...well then I am already prepared.... Part of me will always love him and miss him. And some days will be better then others.. Tonight I am strong... And I know it will get better.

  • @jennifernixon563

    @jennifernixon563

    11 ай бұрын

    Yes same in my situation

  • @sassylillady1740

    @sassylillady1740

    11 ай бұрын

    Update my ex moved on to greener pasture after almost 5 years together. After breaking up 2 months ago. I'm replaced. He did reach out thou this past Sunday. I did not reply. I instantly blocked him. Therefore taking back my power. I was able to read the messages he sent in my block messages....without him knowing I read them. It hurts...but not as much as it did 2 months ago. I am free now. To my fellow heart broken peeps reading this... It will get better!!! 😘💕 from NY

  • @ebony3186

    @ebony3186

    11 ай бұрын

    thank you for this. much needed

  • @Missybella92227

    @Missybella92227

    7 ай бұрын

    @@sassylillady1740 Happy for you lovely lady👏👏 Great you found your worth!

  • @hichk1991

    @hichk1991

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@sassylillady1740toxic mindset...

  • @mauricesowerseliii3413
    @mauricesowerseliii3413 Жыл бұрын

    If I block you that means I want nothing to do with you.

  • @APsGTG

    @APsGTG

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly 😂 it’s got nothing to do with love. I just don’t want you in my life. It’s a message of “stay in the past. You’re a problem”

  • @uberbabe585

    @uberbabe585

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@APsGTGor you just want to be chased. Lol.

  • @APsGTG

    @APsGTG

    11 ай бұрын

    @@uberbabe585 not to burst your bubble, but the girl I had in mind when I made this comment 4 months ago has stayed blocked and I'm much happier. I still don't plan on ever contacting her again. so no, I didn't want attention. I don't know for your situation of course, we're all different. Maybe your guy is different to me. But for some advice - don't push men to their limit to the point in which they block you. A lot of us when we're done, we are absolutely done and will stand by it. But discern the man you're dealing with too. make sure you're not dealing with a childish pos. Deep down inside, you know whether you're rocking with & chasing behind a solid dude or a fairy ass poser. Be wise. If you know the dude is a waste of time long term, leave him alone. you'll have a happier future

  • @lulubelle24

    @lulubelle24

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@puffjig7143 Or they can't handle being told a few home truths, so block you to avoid confrontation.

  • @mauricesowerseliii3413

    @mauricesowerseliii3413

    8 ай бұрын

    @@lulubelle24 or block you to avoid having to put a body in a dumpster somewhere.

  • @daughteroftheking6402
    @daughteroftheking6402 Жыл бұрын

    If a 37 year old man is consistently blocking and unblocking me on social media and texting off and on. I’m good. I’m done with games. If I don’t answer he blocks me than comes back days or weeks later. I don’t tolerate that. Be a man and talk. So I don’t chase, text or call or anything.. if you can’t communicate, we aren’t on the same page.

  • @Kyle-pj2vc

    @Kyle-pj2vc

    Жыл бұрын

    Depends if you were the dumpee or the dumper. Dumper always does the chasing because they rejected the dumpee, lol.

  • @amyg995

    @amyg995

    3 ай бұрын

    Exactly @daugheroftheking6402 💯 agreed 👍🏻

  • @Hazelnut_Sage
    @Hazelnut_Sage Жыл бұрын

    Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago, he did a hard block on me and his whole personality changed. I did the no contact… he hates me even though I loved him a lot he just became really nasty towards me… his personality changed to “I love you want to be with you forever” to “pretend I’m dead and never ever talk to me again” and he is an avoidant but yeah he was very very harsh to me. I am broken but have accepted it. But yeah sometimes people do come back… but sometimes they don’t it’s just the way things are.

  • @lucywood4988

    @lucywood4988

    Жыл бұрын

    My ex did same 3 months ago

  • @hj7508

    @hj7508

    Жыл бұрын

    why soooo angry on u? did u even do anything to justify it

  • @led3355

    @led3355

    Жыл бұрын

    Look up narcissistic personalty disorder sounds exactly like these men

  • @Mixedbeauty11

    @Mixedbeauty11

    6 ай бұрын

    Mine, did that I left him finally for good. He, can’t handle me moving on in 2024 without him. He, makes up lies about me on his Facebook I’m still on his mind. When. I was the way left him for good. He, kept playing games unblock me then block me again

  • @amyg995

    @amyg995

    3 ай бұрын

    Same happend to me to, it starts out as blocking unblocking then at the end he blocked me and acted like I didn't exist 😔 very hurtful, but I had to move on that's the only way ❤ (never chase after them) a men who loves u wouldn't risk letting you go!!

  • @SherryMiller-mc6rf
    @SherryMiller-mc6rf Жыл бұрын

    Unblocking means nothing , just that they're ready to start the cycle again

  • @basicinfo2022

    @basicinfo2022

    5 ай бұрын

    They cant start the same cycle if you raise your standards and stick by them.

  • @cma7501
    @cma75014 ай бұрын

    he blocked you to get over u

  • @MacyLuv
    @MacyLuv11 ай бұрын

    Needed this. Blocking is a bit extreme and super immature

  • @kirstytekauru2385

    @kirstytekauru2385

    6 ай бұрын

    No it's not its cutting off a toxic narcissist

  • @Darkempress45

    @Darkempress45

    2 ай бұрын

    Nah sometimes you gotta do it to prevent the other to stop contacting you. And it’s to help you stop obsessing over them and to just leave them alone

  • @mayajasinski5972

    @mayajasinski5972

    Ай бұрын

    Hey. Not everybody is a toxic narcissist. I blocked my ex because he hurt me. It is important to stay off social media after a break up and block your ex's accounts. That is mature in this case. You're not supposed to see them.

  • @jojobrown2504

    @jojobrown2504

    21 күн бұрын

    It’s not immature at all. Unless you want that person back I don’t see why you wouldn’t block

  • @neressakotas4396
    @neressakotas4396 Жыл бұрын

    if he makes that decision to walk away just let me go. don't worry about him or what he is doing. get on with your life. if he does contact you. talk to him. is is your choice if you want to get back with him or not

  • @danielborrowdale3903
    @danielborrowdale3903 Жыл бұрын

    No if he blocks you he doesn't want you. If you have to play a game to gain a relationship be prepared to play that game forever to keep that so called relationship alive.

  • @mayajasinski5972

    @mayajasinski5972

    Ай бұрын

    You are absolutely right, I tried doing what you said and he didn't change unless I played the silent game as he was doing to me.

  • @mrreddington777
    @mrreddington777 Жыл бұрын

    I got ghosted by my gf of 4 years and it was because I complained that we never see each other and she takes forever to respond to my texts. So instead of talking about it she said she was going to the movies and I said ok bye. That was it. I didn’t contact her and then she blocked me after like 3 weeks and then I noticed her friend would see my stories even though we aren’t ig friends and now she blocked me as well. Honestly don’t beg for these types to get back with you. They left so move on.

  • @sassyEmpress24

    @sassyEmpress24

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounds similar to my story, except he didn’t block me, just took weeks to respond or never read my msgs. Treated me after the break up as though he caught me cheating or something , meanwhile i just wanted more time together as well. I guess ppl want what they can’t have… Sorry about your situation as well. I hope you’re feeling better day by day.

  • @micperez819

    @micperez819

    6 ай бұрын

    If she isn't trying to see you and is taking long to respond to texts it's because there's someone else . It's a sad truth but I been through it before

  • @kyleeosburn
    @kyleeosburn Жыл бұрын

    Hello, I found your channel today. I've been watching a few videos and I really love the concept you preach about understanding your own self-worth and improving yourself after breakups. I'm 23-years-old and I've been through a handful of breakups and other difficult situations involving men in my life. I actually started seeing a therapist for awhile from about 19 to 21-years-old which was incredibly helpful. I really like the solar system analogy you made. In a way, that same concept is what gave me a healthy perspective when dealing with all relationships, including getting through some rather difficult breakups. This is the same mindset I had adopted when I unintentionally met my ex and began a relationship with him. I genuinely believe this is the first healthy relationship I've ever had in my life. I was working full-time, going to school full-time and raising a new puppy when I met him. We started dating and everything had been great. My friends and family, as well as his, both made comments to me all the time that his world revolved around me... and that scared me because I've been on the opposite side of that situation in the past. Without compromising my own values, I made every effort to make sure we were equal partners in the relationship. We never had any huge fights, only minor discussions that would be quickly resolved at most. Last week he told me he loved me for the first time. Then, two days ago he broke up with me via text out of the blue with absolutely no reason except some vague version of, "it's not you, it's me." I responded with "okay, thanks for letting me know." The only time I've seen/talked to him since then was to pick up my apartment keys. I truly don't know if I would want to get back together with him and I don't know if his reasoning would make a difference if that's how he chooses to handle problems (that apparently I'm unaware of). However, I am honestly very confused. It's like he just flipped a switch. Do you have any advice on how to go forward?

  • @kyleeosburn

    @kyleeosburn

    Жыл бұрын

    For reference, this was his breakup text: "Hey Kylee, so I’ve given it a lot of thought. And my head is really not focused on our relationship at all. I’m sorry I think we need to break up. You haven’t done anything wrong. This is all me. It’s just what I want and I’m sorry."

  • @cherrycola3653
    @cherrycola36534 ай бұрын

    I blocked him because it hurts too much to hold onto hope, and i rather pulled the bandaid off and dealt with the pain and not have the temptation of looking at his pictures. He was a real inconsiderate person anyway. I am trying to work on my situationship anyway. Hope is gone for my ex lover. He was too selfish, and he was hurtful. He won't upgrade himself for the better of us.

  • @casebycase_904
    @casebycase_904 Жыл бұрын

    Does it matter? For whatever reason, the relationship ended & so has communication. Whatever the reason is, i wouldn't waste my time and feelings into people or organizations that won't reciprocate!

  • @mrdaveylh1
    @mrdaveylh19 ай бұрын

    If someone blocks you, it's not that yhey don't care or not love you, but from what I've noticed (been blocked between 2-3 months) is that i was too needy, clingy and someother things. She actually pointed out somethings to me that i didn’t even notice i do until she told me. I kept bugging her, leaving messages blah blah blah, then she said that i need to focus on myself (self change), my family and whatever else. I will call you when I call you, and i will check up on you, unknowingly. So.... I'm working on me, she is working on herself, starting a brand new spark and yes... I have faith, in what she said, but not expecting anything, so don't judge me... I will be ok.

  • @basicinfo2022

    @basicinfo2022

    5 ай бұрын

    Sounds like anxious attachment and self sabotage. Inner work helps

  • @anakatana80

    @anakatana80

    2 ай бұрын

    Sounds like you should find someone who respect you

  • @jud2152

    @jud2152

    Ай бұрын

    Sounds like anxious /avoidant relationship. Yes, work on yourself but she needs to work on herself too

  • @Patcha-hg3nn
    @Patcha-hg3nn4 ай бұрын

    She blocked me so i blocked her too 😅 this is not love this is control and mind games.

  • @motowngirl5891
    @motowngirl58918 ай бұрын

    IF SOMEONE BLOCKS YOU,YOU CAN OVERBLOCK Go to your block list put in their name and block, when they UNBLOCK you they are still BLOCKED You have the POWER

  • @kirstytekauru2385

    @kirstytekauru2385

    6 ай бұрын

    Oh give it a break lol who want to unblock him. By the time he blocks then unblock he'll still be blocked from day one

  • @cuteminx121

    @cuteminx121

    6 ай бұрын

    Agree with the over block! LOL

  • @xyzzXeau

    @xyzzXeau

    5 ай бұрын

    why? you don't need to play stupid games like them .. if they unblock you first listen what they wanna say then you can block them anytime

  • @kentpirate2411
    @kentpirate24116 ай бұрын

    “It’s not me! I identify him as loving me when blocking me. Identity is no longer trapped within a person it’s out! Running around all over the place! Projected!

  • @PersonslityType
    @PersonslityType4 ай бұрын

    I just wanted closure and he blocked me. I just wanted to close the chapter for good.

  • @latashakendrick9709

    @latashakendrick9709

    3 ай бұрын

    Same here...

  • @luvngold1

    @luvngold1

    2 ай бұрын

    Same. He deleted everything and changed his number

  • @andrim9931
    @andrim9931 Жыл бұрын

    I was blocked on messenger but she kept watching my snapchat story for weeks until I asked her to stop. We worked together and she's always looking at me and trying to hear my conversations with other people, but still blocked on messenger

  • @lmf458
    @lmf458 Жыл бұрын

    I applied and paid for EBR 3 weeks ago and requested to join the private Facebook community. To date I haven't been accepted.on FB. Is there still a FB group, which is supposed to support us through NC and after?

  • @lucianewell6084
    @lucianewell60847 ай бұрын

    He keeps texting me telling me he's gonna block me but he doesn't...I know for a fact he's in love with me but he hates me at the same time

  • @mayajasinski5972

    @mayajasinski5972

    Ай бұрын

    How can you love and hate someone at the same time? Impossible. He either loves you or he either hates you. And unfortunately, it might be that he hates you. Leave him and find someone who treats you better.

  • @gianmarcodeluca6912

    @gianmarcodeluca6912

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@mayajasinski5972Ever heard of the poem "Odi et Amo" from the latin Catullus?

  • @Bryan_Lion
    @Bryan_Lion Жыл бұрын

    Blocked her cause she broke things off and don’t feel like seeing her in my feeds.

  • @tiselectric
    @tiselectric5 ай бұрын

    Broke up. Immediately rebounded. Blocked me. Dumped her 6 months later. Immediately unblocked me. Got back with her a month later. Didn’t block me. Waited 3 months. It’s now been almost 9 months no contact & he has blocked me again out of nowhere. I haven’t spoken to him since May of last year. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @nothingwhats628
    @nothingwhats6286 ай бұрын

    I got blocked for no reason out of the blue, it’s weird, wish he come back but i don’t think he will

  • @chloejones9647

    @chloejones9647

    3 ай бұрын

    Same, we’re in the same boat lol.

  • @nothingwhats628

    @nothingwhats628

    3 ай бұрын

    @@chloejones9647 lol it’s been three months and he didn’t come back

  • @mehedihasan-ui6qt
    @mehedihasan-ui6qt2 ай бұрын

    I agree with Chris on this as a guy. It depends on the girl that guys are breaking up with. If she is the kind of girl who is more likely to make her ex boyfriend jealous after the break up by posting stuffs then,out the thought of annoyance or that possibility, many guys nowadays, including me..blocks their ex girlfriend. Someone would only want to take such action when he's sure he had seen enough of her & wants no more. Another thing is that, after some time when they unblock any girl that doesn't mean he's again interested. Many times, when guys are into a new relationship-they just dont want to keep any girls name in the block list just to keep it clean.

  • @shanicehunt9548
    @shanicehunt9548Ай бұрын

    He blocked me because he's insecure and can't offer commitment because he simply doesn't care enough to. It all good I'm making my peace with that...

  • @dittelarsen7319
    @dittelarsen7319 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Chris. My Boyfriend broke up with me yesterday because he thought that other boys had touched my hair. My sister and him was texting each other and he told her that he was busy because there were a girl in his room and sat on he`s lap but then my sister asked him about me or other boys can touch my hair or I can do it to they, he said no and then he said if I/ they did he will break up with me then after a while he told my sister he will dump me and he did and he blocked me on Messenger and TikTok.. He told her that he can`t trust me and it was only a test there was not a girl in his room. He called me for a cheater but I am not a cheater we had been together before. I`ve been crying over 3 hours and I don`t know what to do anymore can you help me?

  • @usash19
    @usash195 ай бұрын

    I just blocked my boyfriend because he disrespected me and when i confronted him he started blaming me and he gave me the silent treatment. Im in alot of pain, but better to swallow this bitter pill now.

  • @niqabi_diaries
    @niqabi_diaries Жыл бұрын

    So wouldn’t you block someone if you do not want to see them anymore 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @luxuryqueen42

    @luxuryqueen42

    9 ай бұрын

    If they block u, they have issues. It’s not you, its them.

  • @pecarito1
    @pecarito111 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video ❤

  • @neressakotas4396
    @neressakotas4396 Жыл бұрын

    I haven't blocked him I just don't see the point.

  • @roxillia5763
    @roxillia5763 Жыл бұрын

    He always. Block me. ,unblock me,,block me. Unblock me. He always do like this

  • @classydyme113086

    @classydyme113086

    Жыл бұрын

    Seems like someone is confused

  • @MissMotshabi

    @MissMotshabi

    Жыл бұрын

    So draining. Now he doesn't even respond to texts. I'm over it. It's so draining

  • @5ArticWolf1997

    @5ArticWolf1997

    6 ай бұрын

    mine never unblocks me

  • @basicinfo2022

    @basicinfo2022

    5 ай бұрын

    Dont react. Wait until he makes serious direct effort to meet first.

  • @neressakotas4396
    @neressakotas4396 Жыл бұрын

    yes he did wanted to get back with me well. he should not leave in the first place. it didn't work out just make everything worse.

  • @qxnna
    @qxnnaАй бұрын

    my ex is a narcissist, he blocked me because he said he doesn’t wanna hurt me anymore so a month goes by i checked to see if im still blocked but instead he unblocked me. what does this mean?? im confused

  • @lmfisher650
    @lmfisher6507 ай бұрын

    My husband blocked me after he realised I deleted him off FB. I think he was hurt yet he was the one who dumped me for the coworker.

  • @rumaakthar4494
    @rumaakthar449410 ай бұрын

    I started of as friends we dated for a year I realised our relationship was based on lie he never loved me he just used me he blocked me more than 3 times he always goes after other girls his so immature I know his never going be happy you can’t be happy jumping one person to other now his blocked me so not bothered I’m used to it I will never give him chance

  • @palmerphil0901

    @palmerphil0901

    9 ай бұрын

    I couldn't agree more and his loss as you are gorgeous!❤

  • @luxuryqueen42

    @luxuryqueen42

    9 ай бұрын

    My BF blocked me lol. He’s got anger issues and he’s stingy and an indian giver. He would start fights over nothing. Good that he blocked me cuz he needs to work on himself. I have standards and he wanted me to lower my standards for him lol

  • @chiangliya
    @chiangliya5 ай бұрын

    The guy is a coward , just move on and I think it's a blessing in disguise

  • @dimitrijeteodorovic6204
    @dimitrijeteodorovic62043 ай бұрын

    It's the opposite,it means leave me alone.

  • @hansolo4575
    @hansolo457514 күн бұрын

    I’m an Anxious Preoccupied. I unfriended on social media and blocked her number because i realized it was unhealthy or toxic. I did it for my own mental health because I refuse to put up with her toxic behavior. I love myself more… I feel so much better. She’s a severe dismissive avoidant and she was going to find a way to get me to leave reaffirming her core attachment wounds and beliefs about herself. I don’t feel sorry for her because she’s very unwilling to heal her childhood trauma and decade long abusive relationship. She has a pattern of treating people poorly and loosing people. And even if we ever got back together she’s likely to break up again at different stages of commitment. She doesn’t reciprocate my love or want to make me a priority.

  • @loveislouderrrrr
    @loveislouderrrrr4 ай бұрын

    Y’all, I don’t like Thais Gibson or most of these attachment style channels. Grifters who profit on APs being trapped by their abandonment wound. But he is the truth. I did all of this and he’s so right. It’s sad so many of yall are still missing the point- still discussing blocking and unblocking and your ex and Chris is saying FOCUS ON YOURSELF.

  • @subashinithivakaramurithi5721
    @subashinithivakaramurithi572128 күн бұрын

    in my case my boyfriend was fine in the so called morning. But suddenly in that evening he start avoiding me stop message me when i asked him he said his mother saw another girl for him n he asked me to forget him.. i know he is laying to me well how come in a fraction of second someone can change just like that.. his face don't seems to be fine.. and when i ask him he said nothing.. i can feel there is something in that nothing.. and when i start keep on asking him he try hide himself from me and ask me to go away n threaten me that he will block me... i don't know whats really going on ... anyone could give me suggestion .. im totally under confusion ..

  • @mayajasinski5972
    @mayajasinski5972Ай бұрын

    Before he became my ex-fiancé he blocked me on everything. Blocked my phone number, facebook, LINE and just because I called him, he blocked me. I kept walking on egg shells. Don't go back in a relationship with someone who is capable of easily blocking you if you mess up. If it was meant to be, it will be. Because once you get into that relationship with them again after a fresh start with new adventures, yes they may be nice to you again, but in another 5 months, they might be horrible and mean to you and the cycle will start all over again. He isn't meant for you. You weren't meant for each other. I know it's hard and right now I am trying my best but it's time to move on. Look forward to the future of finding someone great.

  • @designhub360customapparel
    @designhub360customapparel10 ай бұрын

    What about blocking you on social media but still talks to you on the phone.

  • @micperez819

    @micperez819

    6 ай бұрын

    They are seeing someone else but trying to keep you as a back up

  • @kirstytekauru2385

    @kirstytekauru2385

    6 ай бұрын

    Bill crap lol. They can't handle seeing your beautiful face is the real answer

  • @ohdear2275

    @ohdear2275

    3 күн бұрын

    They are hiding something from you or someone else

  • @daredevil7501
    @daredevil7501 Жыл бұрын

    For me its happening again and again and again... Every month i get blocked and unblocked another 9to 12 days of talking then ....fight ... Blocked.... Repeat... Seriously dont know how to deal with this.

  • @MB-Music23

    @MB-Music23

    Жыл бұрын

    Maybe there’s a deeper issue? Mental health or substance abuse? Sounds extremely erratic and perhaps not so much about you?

  • @MB-Music23

    @MB-Music23

    Жыл бұрын

    Do nothing. Have healthy boundaries and don’t get drawn in to provocations. Been there

  • @daredevil7501

    @daredevil7501

    Жыл бұрын

    I dont know how to stay calm at these extreme... Cause everytime it hurts. Now im doing nothing as you said. Its been 22 days of fight and block

  • @jamesdeek7039

    @jamesdeek7039

    Жыл бұрын

    Go to the gym and move on with your life my friend

  • @daredevil7501

    @daredevil7501

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jamesdeek7039 gym dosent help us to move on 😒😒... Our mind will help bro

  • @misswynter111
    @misswynter1114 ай бұрын

    He blocked me but he is still calling me his girlfriend why????

  • @jamesdeek7039
    @jamesdeek7039 Жыл бұрын

    Take the hint, move on. My ex blocked me on messenger, and her main Instagram, but still has her stalker profile. I just move on

  • @mmdehnmm
    @mmdehnmm13 күн бұрын

    This is someone that I lived with for 14 years. I raised his children with him. Yes we had problems like everybody does now. We live in separate states and work in completely different ends of the US... Our jobs are seasonal and on his way. He stopped by and visited me about 2 months ago after 7 months of separation. Of course there was lots of sex for 3 days and after he went on to this job he blocked me out of nowhere. Now I have them blocked for 3 months and I'm losing my mind...... Hurts more than anything else than has ever happened between us. I want so badly to drive 7 hours to the place. I know he is living in right now with my name on it and go see him but I am terrified of the outcome and what I will find there.

  • @andrewgarcia158
    @andrewgarcia1582 ай бұрын

    Blocking doesn’t really mean anything honestly, it’s just a sign they still care and have love for you, Unless if there’s a good enough reason then by all means necessary, they block you because they don’t wanna face seeing ur posts or for old feelings to come back so either way we win, you don’t need to block an ex to get over them.. just face it and move forward etc let them see what they truly lost I mean what do you have lose? 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @thebackbencher005
    @thebackbencher00511 ай бұрын

    Look I can’t say about others but I blocked my ex- girlfriend who dumped me for one simple reason on social media is that I don’t want her to think in anyway that I’m still interested as you know how dumb the frnds suggestions algorithms can be .... I don’t want to get insulted any further. I just want my self respect intact . It’s No emotional decision

  • @df6265
    @df6265Ай бұрын

    I got caught up in a situation ship I should never have started 4 1/2 months It took me to finally end it and I had to block him to do it. 😢

  • @thisloop
    @thisloop Жыл бұрын

    I blocked the dude because i dont wanna talk to him, i dont want him to contact me and i dont wanna be his friend no mo.period. He'll stay blocked forever 😊 rude n disrespectful dude gotta stay in rubbish bin

  • @neressakotas4396
    @neressakotas4396 Жыл бұрын

    he is not willing to talk about the reason he wants to leave. he doesn't want any drama. well I not a good idea as I do not like being ignored. the best thing to do is be honest with your partner in your relationship. finding a easy way out by blocking you

  • @AbianahAlmeida
    @AbianahAlmeida2 ай бұрын

    He blocks me then unblocks me over and over he’s a coward. Yet he was reminiscing with me last night and talking about how I’m a work of art and all this other crazy crap. He’s a little coward but he will be back. We have been messing with each other for 4 years.

  • @enzee27
    @enzee27Ай бұрын

    Hey guys help me analize my case . My ex broke up with me and after a week she tell the truth that she cheated on me making new account but the man she chat with is long distance. I do no contact for 30 days and after that i reach out . She reply to me but not too much and then when i decided to meet her she didn't seen my messages after 2 days i noticed I've been block . 1 day later i called her she answered and we meet up for last time in private place . She seems aggressive but in the long run we had a sex that day because of me trying to make her agree . After that she told me to move on and there's no chance that she'll come back . I ask why she blocked me she replied because her chatmate told her so that's why . I decided to do no contact again for atleast 2-3 months . She seems happy after break up and i didn't feel she had a grief phase like they said

  • @mohsinzawiyar2081
    @mohsinzawiyar20812 ай бұрын

    So now he blocked me becasue we finnly decide that we will look after our 11 month child...we decided then he told me i am going to block u....

  • @Marialaguarda
    @Marialaguarda10 ай бұрын

    Even gone 2 years

  • @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387
    @Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387Ай бұрын

    What if she blocks you

  • @AmaliSaid-xz1dr
    @AmaliSaid-xz1dr3 ай бұрын

    Hello, when some one block they hate you, keep away. Amali Melbourne

  • @ness-lu6pl
    @ness-lu6pl Жыл бұрын

    If you wanna know if your partners ever cheated go to the block section and see who they blocked and work it out from there .😬

  • @priscillarodrigues7599
    @priscillarodrigues759922 күн бұрын

    He blocked me and after two months and a half he unblocked me and reached out to me himself. Yes chris is right dont do anything at all.

  • @lifux4161
    @lifux41615 ай бұрын

    bruh he blocked me after 5 months of no contact LIKE WHAT??

  • @DeliaHerz

    @DeliaHerz

    5 ай бұрын

    Because he can't handle seeing U Happy lol, he still Things about ,ou alors other than that he would do nothing. He is not indifferent.

  • @olgatitzenthalerova4722
    @olgatitzenthalerova4722Ай бұрын

    Hey part of the video was shooted in Prague

  • @KNineRecords
    @KNineRecords Жыл бұрын

    Where is if she blocks you

  • @basicinfo2022

    @basicinfo2022

    5 ай бұрын

    I've blocked short term like a few days as negative reinforcement if he has been treating me poorly or taking me for granted. I've blocked men for years if they were narcissistic and didn't deserve access to me.

  • @kimsummers9283
    @kimsummers9283Ай бұрын

    My ex blocked me via text, then emailed me lol

  • @user-pz8fj8rx3c
    @user-pz8fj8rx3c2 ай бұрын

    I've blocked the woman who wants to marry me. She's in prison for years. I've blocked because she created 2 dating sites I'm like are you serious. Men and women. No I don't play that. She had the nerve ask for my number. I did respond back she can text me. But still I explained to her I'm not her option. Or Bank.

  • @Sandrahans
    @Sandrahans6 ай бұрын

    He wanted sex on first date I told him to go slow and wait for sex . Got blocked next day but we stay in same building flat

  • @zepherreload
    @zepherreload5 ай бұрын

    Why do you always do he?? My ex SHE was horrendous. I'd like you to talk about women! My ex blocked me every time we broke up, she got more and more nasty when we broke up, rhis time, she got so nasty I hated her for a while.

  • @Bikegypsy-ji7xs
    @Bikegypsy-ji7xsАй бұрын

    I block women when I get tired of their games. It’s not indifference, far from it, it’s deleting disrespectful people. Keeping disrespectful people in your social media is akin to never cleaning your bathroom.

  • @msbronzegoddess3166

    @msbronzegoddess3166

    21 күн бұрын

    How many women do you date on your social😂...I never even followed my ex of 20yrs lol.

  • @Bikegypsy-ji7xs

    @Bikegypsy-ji7xs

    21 күн бұрын

    @@msbronzegoddess3166 I’ve dated about a dozen with whom I’m still in contact on social media, including my ex wife. Those are fine. It’s the attention whores who I get rid of.

  • @attitudeonaltitude..3507
    @attitudeonaltitude..35073 ай бұрын

    A don't block, i delete...!!!

  • @msbronzegoddess3166

    @msbronzegoddess3166

    21 күн бұрын

    When you block on fb it automatically deletes.

  • @lovelyu4325
    @lovelyu43257 күн бұрын

    Very awful do not block. You can’t block in person think about it it’s not humane. Technology is to blame for these cruel antisocial behaviors. And it’s just so selfish putting someone through that as well as a breakup! Tf.

  • @fckinasshoe17
    @fckinasshoe17Ай бұрын

    This is a fact. If he blocks u he wants to attack u cuz he feels like he cant have u. Unless u did something violent or illegal

  • @Fatchosen
    @Fatchosen17 күн бұрын

    I’m just manipulative

  • @chrome8729
    @chrome8729Ай бұрын

    Ahh no. I disagree with this video according to my own experience of why I blocked my ex. She's a no good, manipulative, revengeful, gaslighting, immature mindgame Narcissist!! And i will never, and mean EVER unblock her!

  • @lilacfairy.
    @lilacfairy.2 ай бұрын

    Hmm my crush from childhood never liked me and when i found him on instagram he blocked .m.e. Sooo it clearly means He hates me.. so I'm okay with that 😢... i will always wait for him... even if im married and have my own life, i still think of him often, but now I'm over him...and let it be... I do hooe he's happy in life. (◍´ω`◍)

  • @edwardshall5162
    @edwardshall51622 ай бұрын

    No he doesn’t love you if he blocks you, it’s shows he not the guy and if he unblock don’t take him back

  • @Kimii767
    @Kimii7673 ай бұрын

    I block the one i hate

  • @bellabriggs1393

    @bellabriggs1393

    Ай бұрын

    Hate and love are very close feelings

  • @VictoriaHannah-xx1qe
    @VictoriaHannah-xx1qe2 ай бұрын

    My ex blocked on Facebook he in relationship he happy

  • @itachi2829
    @itachi2829 Жыл бұрын

    Guy or girl ??? Here girl is doing

  • @technoutopia4687
    @technoutopia4687 Жыл бұрын

    These are getting worse and boring

  • @florinaldea7094
    @florinaldea70946 ай бұрын

    but what about when SHE blocks you?

  • @basicinfo2022

    @basicinfo2022

    5 ай бұрын

    She's probably mad at you for something you did wrong if she blocks for a few days. However if kept blocked long term then she thinks youre toxic and wants to move on completely.

  • @florinaldea7094

    @florinaldea7094

    5 ай бұрын

    @@basicinfo2022 she blocked me forever and for no reason. I did not write her any message.

  • @basicinfo2022

    @basicinfo2022

    5 ай бұрын

    @florinaldea7094 maybe she wanted to test how you would react or hurt you. She could also just be immature or have no feelings at all for you.

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