I used to feel like if I let go of the pain, I'd have nothing left. The pain of losing them was the only connection to them I had. I've changed my thoughts, but I remember how much I needed that pain.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

9 ай бұрын

Sending you big hugs xxx

@stephaniegordon834

6 ай бұрын

Omg I've been thinking the same thing if I stop thinking about them or if I step out of the pain then it is over bc that's all that I have of them but I'm working on all of that

@stephanied.2488

2 ай бұрын

Wow. So profound! ❤

This is exactly where I am at ! I deserve to feel happy not to get him but because I DESERVE IT I know that I deserve to be happy and to have self love because I am me I deserve it period

fear is the path to the darkside, fear leads to anger, Anger leads to hate, Hate leads to suffering, let go of all that you fear to lose

@donaldpump3072

Жыл бұрын

Suffering is a good thing it builds character

Thank you Natalie! Me and my girlfriend broke up on September 15th. We been together for almost 4 years. I’ve truly been obsessing on getting her back and it’s driving me insane. I’m going to stop obsessing over her and truly work on myself only. Thank you for your advice. I truly believe in all what you said in this video will come true. I believe things will work out the way they are suppose to without me forcing anything. 🙏🏾

I had to give up being a "nice Christian." I kept forgiving, forgiving, forgiving, and they kept rejecting, rejecting, rejecting. I had to come to the point of saying NO MORE to the NEED to keep sending my love 'out there'.... No more. Hell no. And much stronger words than these. Turn to myself, start taking care of my health. Losing weight. Joining a gym. Starting to run. Ran two marathons in my 60s, having only begun to run in my late 50's. And I'm only just beginning. It is nothing less than changing my inner identity from depressed, to warrior. Thank you Natalie.

I'm struggling so hard with blaming myself and my anxious attachment style and fear of abandonment for the breakup, and though I did play a huge part in it at the end of the day a relationship is 2 parties and if he really cared and wanted to be with me he would've tried harder to make it work.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

You have the power of choice! Choose you and fall in love with you now xxxx

When they left the hardest work to do upon oneself is to get ride of the suffering. The suffering within deep inside the heart.

I choose ME!! Magnetic, safe, loving, overflowing, open... I CHOOSE! ❤

Thanks a lot! I will try it! ❤

I choose and prioritise myself. Thankyou ❤

I choose to release my childhood trauma, I choose to put me on a pedestal, I choose me ❤❤

Thank you, sounds like great information. My intention is to work on myself. If they come back so be it.

I claim this video, you are so right Natalie, when you feel enough is enough it makes you put all the focus on yourself, i choose to fill my own cup up, thank you ❤

Thank You Natalie for this inspiring video ❤

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

V welcome xxx

What i love about ur style is how u repeat and emphasize key words back to back. It s smart and needed because as we are comprehending new concepts ..we cud not hear them. Or if we ve heard them our whole life we still may not yet connect w them. Meanings hsvent landed since we are in old beliefs and have trouble relating.

True ...u receive what you are,not what you want

I’m here within the first hour!! Yay!! Love your videos 🎉

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

❤️🙏

Your voice is so beautiful,your words full of emotions. Thank you❤❤❤

Thank You so much, you are such a lovely spirit.❤

Preach ❤. I'm ready to let go and work on myself ❤❤❤

I choose and prioritise me, i choose and feel secure in a loving relationship.

Thank you so much for everything you give us..

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

❤️

Thank you Ms. Natalie

I honestly did struggle for a long while with people that I wanted not wanting to be in my life but now I can gladly say that I really don't care it's me first!!

Thank you Natalie

Thank you so much I definitely needed this. Going through a break up now and trying to heal from it ❤️

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Sending you lots of love ❤️

Thank you. It's been about 4 weeks now since the break up. I didn't know her for long, but it really threw me. I couldn't believe it. I'm returning to your videos when the anxiety returns. The positive sign is the bursts of anxiety are reducing intensity and becoming more intermittent. I have my affirmations and self love plan in place and am doing it everyday. Thank you again.

Well done. Thanks

I learned a few years ago that when I became good with whether someone wanted to leave or stay; I noticed more ladies were interested in me. I also learned it isn’t selfish to consider your wants and needs . It’s self respect which is attractive.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Totally!

@grahamanderson7717

Жыл бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop ❤️

@simonthomas4630

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for such an eye opening video , when self worth is something is lacking rock bottom is not far away! You are helping so much ❤

wow! so helpful

I really like your message, the cadence of the delivery and of course your accent. All very helpful & soothing. BRAVO! Well done.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️

I choose to live my best life starting at this very moment. Thank you for your expertise advice. ❤️

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

❤️

This is the most amazing content I heard for a while as a Divine Feminine. Thank you my dear

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you xxxx

What you have said in this video is exactly what has happened to me when I was younger, in my early 20's. I had been dating girls that would break up with me in the end and i felt worthless. I have recently broken up with my girlfriend after 2 and a half year of being together, and i feel like i'm back in my 20"s again. I'm 48 on Wednesday 26th July. It feels like history is repeating itself.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry this is happening and if you’re recognising a pattern then maybe it’s time to look at why this is happening for you? Xxx❤️

I Thank God I FOUND this video. I needed this today

@Ortiz1602

Жыл бұрын

I hope you are doing ok

there are lots and lots of motivational spiritual talkings videos etc but yours my dear, are the most realistic and touching ones. thank you for sharing and your efforts.. means world to me

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Wow thank you so much ❤️

Loved your video ❤

Wow! Loving this video... thank you!

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

Thank you so much for this! I took to very heart that she needs to see my full and natural energetic state

Love this!!! Claiming this end❤❤❤❤

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

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Thank you Nat……… I’ll get there one day😊

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Keep moving in the direction your headed beautiful one

That pink looks so beautiful on you Natalie!

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Xxx

Buietyful words of wisdom from a Buietyful women. God bless you and your work.

Natalie! “Im somebody!” has got me giggling!

Me too. She is amazing

I am glad you do one on one coaching. I am going to book soon, I really like your approach ❤

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

I love you , thanks so much

That's what I want for myself and she never seemed to see my true worth. I'm letting go and pouring into myself.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Yesssssss

I needed to hear this today

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

I love your name ❤️

@nataliecamacho6235

Жыл бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop jeje 🥰 same to you! Your videos resonate so much with me at this moment of my journey ✨ I appreciate what you share!

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

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I’m definitely Team Natalie! There’s some other coaches which are pretty fine but Nat always hammers it down right on point. Thank you

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

@martyseehusen1945

8 ай бұрын

Same here

I'm a former foster youth and have been struggling with self-love. My wife walked out of my life and I had to learn that it was ok. Right now we are unsure about us, but the Childhood trauma is something I need to heal from.

You are an amazing person… thank u ❤

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

I claim this video!!!!!

"Enough" was enough. I went all in on myself because I had no other choice. Been 2-3 weeks and I feel GREAT! I lover her, I want her but I don't need her!!!!

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

5 ай бұрын

Amazing ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Natalie, you are gorgeous and stunning. It’s hard to think that a man wouldn’t choose to be with you or would treat you poorly. You are beautiful. 😊

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Thank you. Xxxx

I love all your videos ❤❤

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

Thanks Natalie. You have helped me a lot.

You're a great speaker.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

6 ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏

I've let my sp go. He deeply and truly loved me but couldn't be consistent toward me because of my old past beliefs. So I let him go 2 months ago and I've been feeling way better since then. My beliefs about love and my lover have already changed for the better❤🙏🏻 I know I'm going to attract the great love that I deserve and desire. I'm so glad I watched this video. And I love you ❤

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

❤️🙏

@sateshemrit

Жыл бұрын

Deeply and truly loved you? Wtf are you talking about ? You Sounding a bit narcissistic and stupid

Thank you.. thank you.. thank you.. thank you so much.. I need healing now... Thank you so much..

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

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Thank you

Absolutely Natalie. I have pulled my energy back and focusing myself. I have gone through abandonment trauma as I entered my teenage years. Now my ex man keeps coming back around now, but i have realised that I need to have bigger boundaries, as I easily fall back when he goes cold. I am healing and I am working on loving myself and my life again and doing better, because yes it’s enough. If there anything else I can do to maintain this boundary with him? PS - I love these new colours you’re wearing now… 💗

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

❤️❤️🙏

@rockymountains3704

Жыл бұрын

Butterfly goddess, I am in the exact same boat as you and have the exact same question.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

To you and butterfly goddess keep telling the story of how you want to be how you want to be seen and how you want to see them! And stick to boundaries! It says so much about your worth xxxx

@butterflygoddess2436

Жыл бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Thank you Natalie… I am doing this, even when anxiety hits, I remind myself of how amazing I am. We sometimes forget we are, because our focus is on the man. I’m not going back, I tried many times with him because he was the most wonderful man in the past, but now I’m done. I’m detaching and letting go because I deserve to be in a loving relationship… thank you for your love and reminders Natalie… 💗

@butterflygoddess2436

Жыл бұрын

@@rockymountains3704 You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who is so sure that it’s you he wants. He may have been the most wonderful man, but you have to accept he isn’t anymore. I’m blocking my ex man, because he doesn’t deserve to have access to me, just when he feels like it. It’s hard, but now I’m putting myself first. It took me months to get here. I used to wonder why this happened, if I wasn’t good enough etc etc. and still have my moments, but you know what… sometimes you need to think f it, I know my value. It’ll be hard, but train your mind as Natalie says with a new story and you and I, we will be ok. 💗 I’m sending you so much love.

I AM VALUABLE AND WORTHY. I DESERVE A HIGH VALUABLE SOULMATE ❤❤❤

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

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THANKS. You're believable and you help me so much!!

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

5 ай бұрын

❤️

I chose to be magnetic and magnificent 👍🏻❤️🙏

I choose me!!!!!!!! ❤❤❤ thank you

Love your videos ❤

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

10 ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏

I claim, my soul wants the best for me.

I feel I push people away. My vibration is really high, and maybe they don't know how to handle that

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Change that story

I claim this video

Nice weather! It’s 98 degrees here!

This what she say is fuking truth, believe guys, she really honest, more then that if you think you come out from that hell jail and now you can live life free the way you like ❤

Thanks

I love the UK. I miss it and I know I'll return soon.

She is right 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

Luv your work Natalie! Thanks 🙏 A bit of a catch22... So how do i live in the wish fullfilled & disconnect energetically from my SP at the same time? I accept my SP does not reciprocate my love & im ok with that, theres plenty of fish in the sea & the only person that needs to luv me, is me. I'm doing what you mentioned... self luv, self concept, meditation, exercise, diet etc. 1) But I still have feelings for them. So everytime they come to mind I gently acknowledge it with luv & let it go. A part of me is annoyed because I don't want to luv someone that doesn't love me & choose me. Im happy to move on but I wish I had a switch to turn off the feelings. 2) When I try to move on, manifest a new love or my future relationship, every time I do scripting, or meditation, or living in the wish fulfilled etc. I start imagining my SP because the feelings wont go away🤦‍♀️ I'm stuck in limbo.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Make a decision that’s your power. And go with that! With faith

About a month ago I was fired from my job due to cutbacks following the Insufferable war here. I'm still in mourning. Angry and wants to go back. I wonder if the amazing things you teach can also work in a workplace? I do think there is an opening for a return considering the nature of the place (media). Besides, you are charming and really put me in a good mood and encourage me in these difficult days :) Thank you

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Ай бұрын

It’s all the same process for anything lovely. What if this happened for something better for you? Maybe think that way too xx

@netapeleg7721

Ай бұрын

Thank you ❤you totally right ​@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

I don’t have traumas or wounds from my childhood I have wounds from my ex wife. Her judgment and avoidant personality made it difficult to no feel rejected and condemned because I wasn’t on the same Protestant belief as her . What my problem is, Is how does one not understand unconditional love and know how to appreciate a good man?

I just decided to choose me and accept whatever happens if he comes back he comes back if he doesn't he doesn't. I'll be fin either way I was good before him and I'll be fine after him

I choose me!!❤

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌❤️

I am going through the same thing with abandonment and my husband left Friday morning for work and I haven't seen him since. I've been taking anxiety medicine for it.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

❤️

This is the second time he's broke up with me over the last 5 years through his depression which seems to be same thing again bit like deja vu. This happened only a few weeks ago so I'm in the process of self healing right now and trying to watch my engery ❤

I choose and prioritise me

I’m in Manchester today, it’s bootyfullllllllllll weather 💕

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Woooohoooo xxxx defo need to get up there soon xx

Hi Natalie, Thank you for this. I have been in no contact for 9 weeks after he broke up with me 2 months before our wedding. I am living my life, taking care of my health, healing my childhood traumas through courses and therapy and somatic healing, building my business, meeting new people, doing things that never imagined to do and a whole lot more. But my question is sometime I feel so much pain that I cry up to the point that my chest and my back is hurting, sometimes I think about him more than I want to. Does it mean all my work is in vain and the energy I am sending is negative? Thank you for answering my question, I am grateful for all you do. Kris

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

You need a self love practice to heal Lovely xxxx

i choose me

Hi there! If men are not showing up for me - not in the previous relationships and not now - what is there to fix to my self concept to change that?

I choose to let go. I choose God. I choose myself. I choose to not be needy anymore. I've been watching these videos for weeks now, but I keep trying all this stuff out of my own neediness to get her back, and Ive been so needy that Ive noticed Im even pushing other people in my life away who werent even going anywhere in the first place, and I see it now. I've spent so much energy, time, and $$ just to get nothing back, and now I'm finally getting it.. I'm worth more than this. Everything I've done for her and forgiven her for only proves how awesome I am, and if she don't want awesome, fine..bc I want awesome, so why wouldn't I choose me first?

If we're manifesting for them to come back but maintaining no contact and getting on with our lives, does this still count as sending needy energy out?

Thank you so much ,could you please do a video about how is possible that I am able to manifest a text message but not love? What am I doing wrong? thank you so much I always feel like that it is a half manifestation. Thank you Natalie

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Beliefs about you. Get a session with me I’m free from End of May now xx

How do I pull my energy back like how do I stop thinking about it or attaching to the idea of getting them back

Hi Natalie...it's me ..the Italian guy from NY..lol. I will set up another coaching session with you soon... I agree if they want to leave let them go but what if I was the one who messed up... and then they left? How do I forgive myself for messing up

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Lol! Couldn’t keep quiet till Tuesday? Lol only joking beautiful. You didn’t mess up. We are all doing the best with the tools we have. Now you know what to do.….forgive yourself if you need too but know you’re and we are all doing our best and its time to learn and grow within to love - to return to love ❤️

Hi Natalie, I have done so much work on myself in the last 5 months.... I lost 30lbs and won 4th place in my first fitness competition and I'm currently travelling through thailand by myself and happier than I've ever been in my life. Yet I still struggle wanting my sp. I am magnetic to everyone else. I can manifest everything I desire. What am I missing?

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Why don’t you get a session with me and we can look at it in more detail lovely. Links below video! Enjoy your travels xxxx

Thanks Natalie. My Ex left me for someone else, relationship lasted 4 years, She left me. Now im having a hard time with so much pain.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

It’s not always easy! But it’s time to focus on you! I offer so many solutions for that too lovely so take a look xxx below video

@markkiroro5433

Жыл бұрын

​@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDropthanks natalie. Feeling more better now watching your videos

I choose me

I did push him away and then i grovelled once. he said there is someone else now. i have gone into no contact. Still think about it. its not about my worth after i ruined things its about how long it took me to find one person with potential.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

Forgive yourself and keep loving you xx

Kind Natalie I appreciate you a lot as I m new of this law I ask you kindly the way to manifest is become the petson who already got the wish fulfilled so tell us a new story till it harden into fact? I m doing it but I also ask you a thing for a dear friend of mine she has been trying to manifest for many years nothing If a person is really in the wish fulfilled so she he feels a new person thus since long since many years why he she obtain no tesult? As this fruends of mine depressed i cannot see them so thanks much Natalie I love you

hi natalie! thank you for this video. something you said makes me wonder: how can a person "accept is over and done" at the same time they "live in the end"? dont those two things kind of contradict each other? its two different feelings. how to have both feelings? is letting go enough so a person can take them off their head? or if one stops "living in the end" that will keep them from returning some day? 🙏🌹

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

As I did. Just without the need xx

@keenah1111

Жыл бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop im grateful for your reply. too bad for me it doesnt answer what i asked and leaves me with even more questions about it... regardless im grateful for the acknowledgment 🙏

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

It does if you allow yourself to sit with it . I do my best to answer you all. I really do. I spend a lot of time on replying. If you’re not happy with the response then I’m sorry about that.if you need more then I offer coaching and that is available for everyone xx

@keenah1111

Жыл бұрын

@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop i never said i was not happy. im sorry you misunderstood and took it that way. i actually said i was grateful. once again, thank you and for taking the time to acknowledge each and every one of us.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

Жыл бұрын

You’re welcome lovely

He went out and never came home. Do I pack his stuff? Omg

I'm curious in the letting go stage, do you not at that time live in the end (ie living as if you are with them again, creating scenes w feeling states)... is there a progression where you must not do any "live in the end" feelings with them in order to fully let them go? I get confused on that.

@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop

6 ай бұрын

It’s energy!