I was robbed of $20k from a contractor. Ruined my life for years. I’m sorry this happened to you too. You’re doing great though. It took me years to get to this strength to talk about it.

@recynd77

6 ай бұрын

We lost (hold onto your hat) $240k on a full house remodel. Then Covid hit. We filed (and won, with no recompense) complaints with the CSLB and in Superior Court, but the guy was judgment-proof. Only now is our home getting back into reasonable shape. It was awful, and my heart bleeds for all victims of this kind of fraud.

@thecamillarose9806

5 ай бұрын

​@@recynd77why no recompense if you won?

@dontworryaboutit4255

4 ай бұрын

​@@thecamillarose9806 Well when you sue people, they actually have to pay you or you get nothing unless it's through an insurance company, in which case the insurance company pays you out. Otherwise, it's a criminal case and the state pays you, which means they will be in jail and you sue the state as well. It's complicated and it all depends on where you live, how you sue, etc. etc.

You can get in touch with your states Attorney Generals office. They can advise you as to what to do next regarding these scammers!

@melco326

11 ай бұрын

Yes! I came here to say this. Find your State’s Attorney General.

@debbiemoreton2372

11 ай бұрын

Also the Better Business Bureau and local news station

@kateshaw1581

8 ай бұрын

Just what I was going to say. This happened with a roofing company here in maine. Also call media and have them spotlight ur story. I'm so sorry for this. I really like watching you!❤ I hope things get better for you hun♡♡

@LawofMosesHere

6 ай бұрын

@@debbiemoreton2372sadly most businesses don’t care about their BBB rating or reviews

@vkngwmn6636

5 ай бұрын

Roofers are usually methheads and they charge way too much for the work ​@@kateshaw1581

I’m sorry to hear that this has happened to you. I hope that you are able to locate contractors who will not take you for granted.

@emilyrayna

11 ай бұрын

I did find some! They are so amazing and have been trying to help me get in contact with the people who messed this up ❤ thank you

@melzk748

11 ай бұрын

@@emilyrayna I commented a tad bit early, but was so thankful towards the end of the film that you had been able to locate another contractor. As a fellow neat freak, I understand and can empathize with the stress and emotional turmoil that the house being out of order has caused. I’m excited to see the progress of the house being completed now that you have competent contractors involved, and I truly hope that you are able to have some relief from the stress soon. ❤️

@sidoniahijuelos3281

11 ай бұрын

U r awesome This, too, shall pass, and things will come back to normal. Thank you for sharing your story.❤

@susansharpe7464

11 ай бұрын

Trauma comes in many forms. It affects us mentally and physically. Take care of you, because you inspire me.

@Kate_P

11 ай бұрын

@@emilyraynahave you reported the former contractors to the police? The doors alone are theft (and knowing how expensive doors can be probably a pretty decent amount) on top of the scam of the contracting work.

I’m sending you so much love. I am a designer as well and our firm has had to sue multiple contractors for terrible quality work OR due to half finished work left and never finished. I’m not sure why certain “contractors” feel they can treat folks this way. Unacceptable!! I will say, NEVER pay more than 25% of your contract up front and have inspections done throughout. Lessons I’ve learned the hard way…

@jacquelinegreen7796

7 ай бұрын

Because some people are heartless. But, they have to look themselves in the mirror each day. Shame on them. Stay strong. Much love. X

@andreas_adventures

6 ай бұрын

Good advice

My family also dealt with a super sketch contractor. It was so disappointing knowing how hard it would be for my grandma to get justice. It’s so expensive, and the dudes crazy.

@DogHairRules

11 ай бұрын

That's part of the problem -- once the state starts going after them they usually move somewhere else and change their business name. It's so disheartening.

@CraftyMagicDollz

11 ай бұрын

It should be under $60 to sue. Especially in small claims, You can typically file hardship paperwork and in some states you can file small claim suits for free. You do not need an attorney, You only need to have proof of what you paid and any evidence you have as far as correspondence that you had with the person who promised to do the work.

@natalie.natalie.natalie

6 ай бұрын

Just found you here 🎉 Awesome that you do what you do ❤

You are NOT an imposter, you are the real deal, but you do change and grow. That is what's happening.❤❤❤❤❤

@KimOrlandini

11 ай бұрын

Amen! We are considering an offer on our dream home and I am like, “only if I can hire certain designers and architects to make it truly mine!” She’s on the list! 🥰

@Dyejob01

11 ай бұрын

@@KimOrlandini You should only have 1 name on that list. Congratulations 🎉👏❤️

I could tell you horror stories about the construction company that scammed me. They shut down their company and moved out of state to get away from the people they scammed. It will get better for you. You're not alone in what you're going through.

My mom was scammed by a cabinet maker I worked for! He finished but it took over a year for her to have a proper kitchen. I blamed myself for years. Thank you for saying that it’s not our fault. But wow did it take a lot of my energy. Your vulnerability and honesty is why I follow you. Don’t stop. It is very different to lose money and having these issues when there’s no backup or infusion of money from generational wealth.

Bad contractors are very good at hiding that they are con artists. I had a bad experience with a contractor who I hired to redo my ceilings. Lesson learned for me was when it's possible only use contractors who your friends and family have had positive experiences with.

@FlyingWonderGirl

6 ай бұрын

Word of mouth is so so important!

@possumfriend2335

6 ай бұрын

Even then, research some more. I got taken by a fake contractor for my roof after he did work for my parents and even my neighbor, but he took my money and disappeared. 😏

I believe people that do this should be charged with criminal damage! Genuinely. My sorries don’t mean anything as a stranger, but you have my support 😊

I know you said you don't want to talk about it anymore.. buuuut. I think it would be so helpful to make a video sharing the red flags from your contractor experience. Based on the experience you are having with your new contractors and what happened with the scammers, what are things someone should look out for? I'm sorry this happened to you! No one deserves it, and I think I speak for all of us when we are grateful to feel part of your life, no matter what you share. I try to remind myself that hard times are sometimes blessings in disguise. We do have to suffer, but in the end, it makes us strong, better and wiser.

I was incredibly concerned for you over the past year. Thank you so much for giving us an update when you felt READY. Please don't ever apologize for setting boundaries and taking time to heal. I'm sending you as many good vibes as I can muster. The last year of my life has also been absolute shite in so many ways, so I can totally empathize. Here's to dawn after the darkness, babe. ❤

@jacquelinegreen7796

7 ай бұрын

Gather strength from your experiences and change any part you need for your future. Give yourself praise at the end of the day for a good job done. I literally pat myself on the back because noone else does but I try my best and its good enough for me. Take care, stay strong, lots of love. X

@FlyingWonderGirl

6 ай бұрын

Dawn after darkness is a good phrase!

girl this happened to me! long story short, I started my channel and then part of my house burnt down due to negligence of my landlord and I was confined to a few spaces that looked normal and have been roughing it. It is getting better though and I do believe things will turn around for you!! keep the hope alive!! you can do hard things. ❤

Sisterhood unite…..let’s help this wonderful young lady… she has lightened up my life through all her videos. So amazing Emily that you shared your story… this is the real side of renovating and quite honestly life😩…

Morgan Adam’s is renovating a house and she experienced similar things with her first contractor but she eventually found a good one 💛 you’re not alone!

Im so sorry, my heart goes out to you. You are so strong for pulling through and getting help when you needed it. Thank you so much for being so honest and open, that takes a lot of courage!

@emilyrayna

11 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤ I was originally just planning to fix it all in private and keep moving forward without sharing, but it has been infinitely harder than I expected. I figured it’s time to be honest and there must be people out there who can relate

@soiledpetals

11 ай бұрын

I can definitely relate to a few things you brought up. It helped me feel less alone 💞

I’m so glad to hear someone else talk about not having family money, many people don’t understand the struggle of being on your own. Sending love your way ❤️

❤ I’m glad you found a contractor you can trust. This is monumental chaos you shouldn’t have ever had to deal with. I totally get not having any kind of back up plan or money to fall back on. I hope you get some wealthy people to donate to you because you deserve it.

Emily, we love you! We don’t need “happier” content from you… we like you just the way you are, especially when you share with us your authentic self. I’m really sorry you’ve been struggling with this. Disappointment hits so so hard, and even more so when you know you’ve been doing everything right, working hard, and it all just falls apart. It’s the most intense emotion for me, personally. I know you didn’t ask, but there are many of us who would love to help you if you made a go fund me ❤

Girl, the transition to working in an online space must have been SO TOUGH. Our bodies and brains were not made for the online world! You have been THROUGH IT. I'm glad you're sharing and working with professionals now for both mental health and your house. Sending love.

@ctedias

8 ай бұрын

This is so true!

Damn. This is SO relatable. I started a renovation in 2020 and got scammed by contractors too. Not as bad as you but bad enough to impact my mental/physical health. I now learn to do everything myself but sometimes it's so slow so living in construction for so long. I've been thinking about sharing my designs and work but I've just felt so unhealthy that I'm afraid to share with others.

I hear too many stories like this. All these types of companies need to be better regulated and side-eyed regardless I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I've been there and I'm there again in a slightly different situation this time. It's not just learning how to trust, but looking for/identifying red flags that can help with whom to trust ❤🙏

@CMLink

11 ай бұрын

In Canada we had a whole tv show about shoddy & scam contractors called Holmes on Homes. They would go in and gut everything wrong then do the job right. It happens way too often. 😔

Im from an area that experiences hurricanes, and it is insane how many people get scammed trying to repair their homes after they flood. Im saying this to say that you are not alone, you are not crazy. I’m so sorry that this happened to you, and I hope these new contractors are as good as they seem, and hopefully even better :)

I’m shocked no one in the community has come to help or at least give you advice about how to handle your situation but I’m glad you are able to talk about it now praying for you ❤❤❤❤😊

@miniciominiciominicio

11 ай бұрын

She hasn’t shared any of her troubles which is why no one has come to help. I hope that changes now that she has had the courage to share!

@ashleyprice9487

11 ай бұрын

@@miniciominiciominicio same here because I believe their someone that could help her because that’s crazy what she has go to thru with her house

@miniciominiciominicio

11 ай бұрын

@@ashleyprice9487 I’m counting on @hankgreen or @johngreen to highlight her video and get hundreds of thousands of new eyes on it. There will be a few viewers with deep pockets, I’m sure.

Your TALENT and SPIRIT are why I watch you! You could renovate a cardboard box and I would watch it. The only difference between you and other influencers is that you are being honest and vulnerable. You are APPRECIATED!

You are very resilient Emily. Most people our age need help from our parents to even THINK about buying property. I did and I'm not even ashamed of it, because it's not my fault the market is fucked. But you didn't, you've done everything on your own and I'd be damn proud if I were you. Scammers are the scum of the earth. I'm sorry you lost your money to those losers. That is not your fault at all. Don't give money upfront going forward, and as much as I hate to say it... have a male friend or relative with you when you get quotes. It sucks that we even have to think like that but it's a man's world... I wish you all the best and I'm excited to see what this house can become.

@bellablue5285

6 ай бұрын

The last bit honestly applies to even more than potentially being scammed... I was quoted 5k to have a tree removed (small tree but tricky location). My father called and he was quoted $800 🤦

i feel you. we've been scammed by several contractors and it seems like i cant get anyone decent in our area. its hard to live in an unhabitable house and it really fucks w your mental state

thank you for sharing- i am so sorry this has happened :( as a disabled person, physical spaces *absolutely* affect our physical and mental health and i truly hope things work out okay.

You posting this actually helps me, I’m 18, 19 in December but I was scammed and lost all my savings for collage but I can make it all back. But With you it’s so much worse and it makes me feel horrible for you but makes me realize it could’ve been worse in my case. But I really appreciated you posting this so much!!

You should call the police or sue the former contractors! Glad you found a quality contractor now… 🤗

I knew something was going on and I thought it was you shifting work from social media to other branding. This is probably one of the most real and important videos I've watched this year. Thank you for sharing this. Have you ever thought about grabbing this situation by the balls and claiming ownership over at by making a series about what you should and shouldn't look for in contractors and what can go wrong using your house as the perfect example. This is one side of home renose that no one shows but it's real and I'm sure people like myself would be eager to see it and it could save someone from going through this again and most importantly, help you through this process mentally.

@emlevy5792

11 ай бұрын

Same

@PRETTYASSP

10 ай бұрын

This right here! I’m not a home owner but I’m I’ve been invested in her and her house since day ☝🏾 😢 I would definitely watch! I know others will’s definitely watch fasho. She should definitely do this so she can monetize frfr

Thank you for sharing your story. We all love you and the beautiful work you do. You deserve all the love ❤ and happiness 😊 you can find. Please know, YOU did NOTHING WRONG. You trusted the people around you. Like most of us do. It's never the victim who lied, cheated and stole. It was the CRIMINAL.

It takes so much courage to share such a traumatic experience but you aren’t alone. You’ve created a supportive network online and we’re backing you. The home of your dreams is right around the corner and we can’t wait to celebrate all the bittersweet moments you share from here on out ❤

Please know.. you are so obviously talented and skilled at this, it’s never going to feel like you’re duping is or faking to not share personal details. We don’t deserve anything you don’t want to share for any reason ❤

Ugh I hate sketchy contractors. There's just too many of them out there. Its upsetting having grown up with a carpenter for a father who took great pride in making his work perfect and making every house he built beautiful and safe. There's no excuse for what those people did to you. I am so glad you've moved forward from this! I've only recently found your videos but your videos make me so happy and your designs in your house are just stunning. They give my brain so much dopamine. So much inspiration for my future space 💙 You're so creative! You're not an imposter. Keep at it girl!

Small claims court was made for scammers like that, fwiw. I'm really sorry you're going through it, thank you for sharing.

Every time we open a wall in our house we encounter insanity. I get your frustration!!!

The best advice my Psych gave after a skydiving accident destroyed my spine: "You can still have the same. It just might look different" ...and she was right. I still formed a family, have a home etc. Life is tricky & different to what I was close to achieving, but I have all the things that were most important to my heart. Never give up friends 💖💖💖 Big love to each of you xo

It takes a lot of courage and support to be honest like you were here. I hope you’re so proud of all the growth you’ve had and how you were able to ask for help and support! Wishing you the best!

Thank you for being so open and vulnerable, I know it isn't fun or easy. You've been through a lot, im glad you finally found a team of people you trust. ❤

First, I’m so glad to hear from you! I’ve been worried. Secondly, I am so heartbroken for you. I’m glad this journey is turning a corner, and that you have a good MH support team. I look forward to whatever you want to share whenever you feel like sharing it. Lastly, take care of YOU. Those who truly care, truly want good health and happiness to be with always.

I am so grateful you’ve found a reliable construction crew. That’s is invaluable ❤

I’ve have been through a similar thing with contractors, I still have three rooms which need to be finished, which I haven’t been able to afford to finish. Life comes in waves you just have to ride it to get back to solid ground. Sending lots of love! You are so incredibly creative & you can do this girl! ❤️

I'm so sorry this happened to you. My family had a bad experience with contractors that were supposed to re-do the our driveway and we definitely learned from that. It's incredibly frustrating that these people took advantage of you, presumably because you're young and they thought they could get away with it. You've been incredibly strong and you WILL get through this. You're incredibly talented and I have been loving your videos! I hope you spring back from these bad experiences. I'm glad you seem to have found people who you can trust now. I hope everything works out

I didn't follow you from the beginning, so I've never really known much about your journey, but I've always been so excited to see your content! I never had any judgement when your content has been few and far in between, but I've always waited patiently to see what you'll do next. Your work is really so amazing, and I can't wait to see what you'll be able to accomplish very very soon!!!

I really appreciate your vulnerability. And I think you were so graceful in how you have shared this information. I’m so sorry about your experience and as someone with celiac disease and ulcerative colitis I know how hard it is to navigate heath stuff.

Thank you for being open and sharing your experience! It’s so disappointing that people would do this to someone when renovations can be so expensive! I’m glad you are doing much better and found someone more reliable. In the future, I would love to hear how you found the new contractors that will be helping you and any other helpful tips. ❤

Rooting for you! Honestly all of this just makes you more relatable … when I see your work, it’s clear you’re working class and budget-conscious and I really, really love that about your work. Take care. I can’t imagine the stress of this.

Excited to see this place take shape! You are a very strong person to have survived all that chaos! I admire your grit and ability to move forward, you're an inspiration!

Its so irritating and depressing that there are awful horrible people out there ready to just rob people blind. I am so sorry you went through this.

You are so sweet! I am so glad I found your KZread. Your voice always reminds me of Shailene Woodley’s. ❤️ I am so sorry that you have had to go through so much stress on top of the usual remodeling stress. We were scammed by a contractor who we hired to build a custom shed for us. Then he stole our money and died of a drug overdose. 😅 His friend who he worked with and vouched for him and ended up signing our contract with him, well we took that guy to court and we won. We have still not been paid a penny back. It was a lot. 💔 The entire situation is heartbreaking. You can do sue diligence and still get scammed. I am so glad to see you in a position to try and share again. Thank you!

This is so hard to hear. I’m so sorry that there are terrible people in the world that would scam a young woman. I see this is 9 months old so I’m praying you are in a better place.

So sorry to hear about these troubles. There is something so awful about having your home out of order. Such a helpless, crazy, chaotic feeling. It is so hard to look at Instagram and KZread and see all the “perfect” all the time-when we know that life is so frequently messy and hard. It took a lot of courage to share this but I can’t help but think it’s going to shine a light for so many people to realize they/we are not alone in our struggles. Keep going, life always smooths out eventually.

I’m so sorry this has happened to you. I’m happy you’ve been able to find a contractor that you trust and feel comfortable with. I look forward to see what’s to come.

I cant express how much i admire you for sharing this. I'm glad you are in a space where you will see progress. I'm sending as many virtual hugs as i can!

Hugs from afar! 🤗 Getting scammed is so traumatizing! I am glad that you are in a healthier mental space now. And soon you will be in a healthier physical space too! We are all rooting for you!

Usually a silent supporter, but popping in to say it takes so much strength to share all of this! You are so creative and talented and it does not go unnoticed. Thank you for being vulnerable, I am wishing you the best of luck!

As difficult as it is to share, you could be saving someone who watches this from being scammed as well!

It's beyond me how people can treat others like this, and I'm so glad that you're finally getting proper help with it! Thank you for sharing! 🙏

Omg!!! That is totally awful and I'm so sorry you have to go through this all!!! :( you seem like such a lovely person and I found your channel a couple months ago and I'm so glad I did. You deserve a safe, well-done space and I'm glad you're finally getting it. I'm looking forward to more updates and I'm so happy you're getting help for your mental and physical health bc it is so important. You deserve your space when it comes to social media and don't ever feel bad for it! You are a rockstar and you're an amazing designer. You got this girly!

It's so hard to be so honest when you feel like a failure. You are so strong to post this in the face of the shame and embarrassment... I'm not alone in appreciating your relatable candor. So happy things are looking up for you, and I CAN wait patiently for your inspiring content for when you're ready to share

I'm so sorry about all that you've gone through! It sounds like you're healing and moving into a better space mentally and physically. I would just like to add that your voice is so calming and soothing. I would love to see you start another KZread channel with book reading, story telling, or guided meditation. Good luck with everything!!!!

I’m so glad to hear you’re moving forward and glad you shared your story!

We are so similar, it’s scary. I am glad you have a platform for yourself at least. We’re here for you. You’ll get through this because you’re strong af.

All the hugs. I get it. I sat here cringing with the images you showed at the start. I’m no contractor, but grew up in a house that was in perpetual repair/improvement. I was my dad’s little helper, so I learned a LOT from him. I’m glad you have found a new contractor. It really does only go up from here. Keep going. I love your style and passion. ❤

I'm so glad things are looking up for you. Situations like those just feel.. so scary. I haven't been in that exact situation, but have had a lot of issues with my home and it just leaves you feeling nauseous and feeling bad all the time. I ended up getting sick and losing my job because of it, so it really does become all-encompassing. Just like for you, it's looking up for me now as well.

Emily, my heart goes out to you!! When you showed the house and how you've been living, especially after talking about how environments affect you, I just felt that so much. Seriously, so much love to you, things will absolutely go up from here! ❤

Im so sorry this has happened and this is your experience. Take the time you need to focus where you need to. Your fans will still be here waiting for you. Thank you for being so vulnerable

Girl you’re doing better than you think you are. Don’t allow self potty. You’re a strong talented woman. Own it.

Huge congratulations for being able to pick yourself up, you're doing so well and I am so proud of you. Your house will happen and it will be your safe place, not your nightmare

How brave of you to share and be willing to be so vulnerable here. I’m so sorry you’ve gone through all of that, nobody should have to experience that. I just want to send you a virtual hug! I wish you all the best with your home and your health and I can’t wait to see your designs come to life! You have such a cool design eye. Also, your voice is very pleasant to listen to. You could podcast if you wanted to, haha. Anyway, have a nice day! ❤️

rooting for you emily! you got this!

Sorry for your losses. Here's a tip if out sourcing in the future... go to a local lumber yard and ask them for references for good contractors. Also, you'd be surprised that about every person has a bad contractor story! I'm glad you shared your story and I hope it helps. And your talent isn't fake. It's part of who you are. And sending prayers for you to feel better. 🙏

YOURE BEAUTIFUL! hope things are getting better!

I had something very similar happen to me and the contractor scammed me out of approximately $50,000. Devastating! I’m so very sorry about your experience. You are extremely talented. I hope you can take one step at a time, stay safe, and begin to thrive again. I hope you can get back on social media and share your beautiful talents. Stress is a killer. Take time to breathe and calm your mind. I’m so glad you are able to get therapy. You will recover and become stronger. All the best to you! 🤗🤗🤗

That's what I felt a few yrs ago. People had amazing homes, vacations and awesome family while I was struggling to even get out of bed. I'm glad your sharing this with us, things will get better, things will I know!!! Keep on going girl your doing great!! Thanks for sharing!!

Thank you for sharing this with us. Don’t worry about other people and what they think, you’re journey is yours and social media is a highlight reel. Heal and let things happen as they can. You got this. We enjoy your authenticity and we’ll be here to cheer you on even if it takes another year and a half ❤

I'm so sorry you have had to deal with this - it's. breaking my heart to know someone took advantage of you and treated you this way.

I rarely follow to KZread from tik tok but oh sweet girl, I’m so sorry you’re going through that. Your house will be so worth it, when it rains it pours ❤ but there’s a rainbow! Been following since 2020 and look forward to watching your home come to life the right way!

Oh Emily, my heart hurts for you that you’ve had to go through this experience. Sending you lots of positive energy that this next stage of renovations is a positive experience and you have a home you feel safe and happy in. ❤

i’m so sorry you had to endure such a nightmare situation. you deserve to feel at peace in your home. wishing you the best of luck with your new contractors. ♡

You've got this! I'm so glad you were able to share this, and I'm so sorry youve had to go through this! Much love!

Bless your sweet heart - I’m so sad this happened to such a great person. I know it will get better and better. Thank you for being open to tell the story. It does help others so much when we are open. Major props to you for speaking out! Here’s to a beautiful home in your future and the re-assembly of your life. Much love! ❤

really proud of you for trying again with new contractors! i'm so excited to follow along as your house comes together at last

I’m so sorry for all that you’ve been dealing with…praying that things get better….it was so brave of you to share…

Thank you for speaking up about your hardships. It's really rough out here when you aren't starting life with the same resources and generational wealth that a select few have. You are really making the best out of a rough situation and it is so good to see you are prioritizing your health, protecting your energy, and it sounds like you are putting in hard work to heal. I'm sorry that some very awful things have happened, but like you said, you're starting to come out on the other side of it and grow in a more healthy way. Great job and I hope nothing but kinder times are ahead for you!

First of all, thank you for sharing your story and opening your heart to us, its not necessary but it is appreciated. Im 24, I have chronic pain and other health issues too and I completely understand the frustration and fear that comes with it all, you are NEVER ever alone and the people here are your tribe! We love your work but I must be honest it should never come at the cost of your health. I want you to know wholeheartedly that we want you to be happy and healthy for the remainder of your home journey! We will always be grateful for your videos no matter the format, I know that id personally love videos showing your design process so that we can work this out ourselves and be inspired to renovate our own spaces x

So glad you are in good hands now Emily & excited for things to start getting better for you. I’m here to watch YOU because of your genuine warm personality & your incredibly creative designs. Renovations are always a rollercoaster, but it will all be worth it in the end. Then you & Lou can finally enjoy the space together. We are your squad & we’ve got your back. 🥰

I appreciate hearing your struggles. While I don’t want anyone to struggle, sometimes its hard hearing and seeing these people who seem to have everything at their fingertips create their dream homes with no outward expression of gratitude for the privilege they have.

You're strong and inspiring and pretty awesome. So happy that you've started demo!! It's such a strangely stressful yet exciting step!

I love you so much for being so open and honest I hope you can get through this. I can really relate to the stress of living in a chaotic environment. It can be really defeating and unmotivating when you dont have resources to just fix everything. Thank you so much for making this video.

Thank you for sharing a little bit of your ups and downs with us. It's extremely freeing to give an explanation. I'm very excited for you right now!

Please keep being vulnerable with us! It means so much and actually helps other people. You don’t need to suffer alone. We have your back!

Thank you for opening your heart to us and telling us your story. I'm really sorry that all of this has happened and put you through the wringer in literally every way possible... but you saying that that chapter is over gave me so much hope for you! You're picking yourself up one thing at a time and I love that for you 🤗 hang in there! I can't wait to see how it all turns out!

There´s a part where you mention how you feel like you failed for being in renovation for so long. It´s very natural to feel that way but i want you to know that you are no alone in that!! many members of my family have built their own homes WHILE living in them. Some have yet to fully finish them. Their childhood home was so long unfinished that it had a renovation haha. But they say, that as exhausting as it is, they wouldn´t change a thing. I´m glad to hear that you´ve been doing better and hope nothing but the best to you!! ❤❤❤

My family and I also went through a scammy contractor - had 8 months without a place to live when we were told renos would take a month or 2 max. It's been over a year and stuff still isn't done. It makes zero sense to me how people can just be so careless and inconsiderate and take advantage of people like this. It's hard to think of any sort of bright side or lesson learned, but I can say you must be incredibly strong being able to navigate and get through this as such a young independent. ❤

Thank you for sharing when you felt ready, I truly hope the rest of the projects go smoothly and that the contractors work quickly and professionally on it and that you have your peace restored. 💖💖💖 You are not alone

Thank for being so transparent. I’ve heard such big ideas for my house and how to make it something I will love and can enjoy with my toddler, but, have been overwhelmed. It’s nice to see your vulnerability and be reminded that life overwhelms us all Also f*ck those peoples. I’m so sorry that happened to you

Your vulnerability is amazing. I'm sorry this has happened to you. You are so amazing. We respect and appreciate you.

I am SO sorry to hear you going through all this stress and trauma...you are such a lovely TALENTED woman...you have done amazing transformations and designs...your art blows me away and I love watching your videos and progress...no matter how long it takes, it's going to be so worth it in the end! So PLEASE don't let those bastard scammers get you down...Karma will catch up with them!!! Stay strong Gorgeous Girl and I look forward to seeing you HAPPY in your beautiful home xx