The Three Year Rule

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  • @ZacharyLaid
    @ZacharyLaid4 жыл бұрын

    Failure feels better than regret.

  • @mattdavella

    @mattdavella

    4 жыл бұрын

    YES!

  • @fredericorosa322

    @fredericorosa322

    4 жыл бұрын

    Woowww never thought about that

  • @NenaLavonne

    @NenaLavonne

    4 жыл бұрын

    Zachary Laid Finding Freedom great point!!!

  • @kayilla6413

    @kayilla6413

    4 жыл бұрын

    Failure is temporary. Regret is forever.

  • @AusyJo

    @AusyJo

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow, I love that!

  • @monicab5083
    @monicab50834 жыл бұрын

    My dad always told me "The people who say they never got a chance, never took one"

  • @francescafrancesca3554

    @francescafrancesca3554

    4 жыл бұрын

    Your dad is right. Thank you for sharing.

  • @mattdavella

    @mattdavella

    4 жыл бұрын

    Love that.

  • @alfonsmitic1645

    @alfonsmitic1645

    4 жыл бұрын

    African child gets malaria. Shame on that child for not taking that chance 😤😤😤

  • @exe8402

    @exe8402

    4 жыл бұрын

    I read this one from the book "Pour Your Heart Into It"

  • @Dean.AlAmriki

    @Dean.AlAmriki

    4 жыл бұрын

    Happy Potatoe are you one? No, context man

  • @Knowledge_Nuggies
    @Knowledge_Nuggies4 жыл бұрын

    'Most people overestimate what they can do in one year and underestimate what they can do in ten years.' - Bill Gates

  • @5minutesofdailymotivation703

    @5minutesofdailymotivation703

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love that!

  • @rocogaspard9599

    @rocogaspard9599

    3 жыл бұрын

    I needed this comment. Thank you.

  • @OpenWorldGamer-

    @OpenWorldGamer-

    3 жыл бұрын

    I first heard that one from Tony Robbins

  • @ayushpant8290

    @ayushpant8290

    3 жыл бұрын

    I heard this from kobe

  • @5784Eva

    @5784Eva

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bill Gates ??? yuck

  • @karudesu4593
    @karudesu45934 жыл бұрын

    This guy has a lot of rules in his simple life

  • @angelayala7922

    @angelayala7922

    4 жыл бұрын

    he would probably have a complex life without those rules.

  • @NickOloteo

    @NickOloteo

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@angelayala7922 true

  • @Dimasstywan

    @Dimasstywan

    4 жыл бұрын

    With modern civilization it’s very hard to remain simple, lots of distractions

  • @crystalanguiano5815

    @crystalanguiano5815

    4 жыл бұрын

    Its part of having structure in your life

  • @BadBoysHub

    @BadBoysHub

    4 жыл бұрын

    Keeps his life simple, if you’re not disciplined, it could lead to your life spiraling out of control

  • @8bitstella
    @8bitstella4 жыл бұрын

    Let’s take a moment to appreciate Matt’s clip of dropping the phone on his face

  • @mattdavella

    @mattdavella

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. Is there an award for dropping things on your face.

  • @JudithAffran

    @JudithAffran

    4 жыл бұрын

    I laughed so hard and now I feel bad but like not really because it made my day better. Sorry

  • @RealLifeMoney

    @RealLifeMoney

    4 жыл бұрын

    It’s all about dedication lol 🙌

  • @NenaLavonne

    @NenaLavonne

    4 жыл бұрын

    EtaMuTau 😀

  • @totallynormalcat8048

    @totallynormalcat8048

    4 жыл бұрын

    Matt D'Avella probably

  • @lolakellahi1493
    @lolakellahi14934 жыл бұрын

    Matt: "There's this one rule that really changed my life..." Me: "Ah shit, here we go again......."

  • @mattdavella

    @mattdavella

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's deja vu all over again.

  • @michaelsmith3533

    @michaelsmith3533

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haha! First thought I had. So much value in these videos, but it does jump out at you how EVERYTHING is the thing THAT CHANGED MY LIFE FOREVER. I’m sure it’s just part of the whole thing, and doesn’t ultimately detract from the value of the video/message, but it’s funny to notice it from time to time.

  • @gorilla___

    @gorilla___

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have a big penis btw 😤😤

  • @vfiel4111

    @vfiel4111

    4 жыл бұрын

    aka...the "BOHICA" treatment... (Bend Over Here It Comes Again)!

  • @brianluppy4311

    @brianluppy4311

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hahahah

  • @theGhostSteward
    @theGhostSteward4 жыл бұрын

    Usually when you think "it takes too much time, Im not gonna do that" the same time passes and you done nothing

  • @walterwhite003

    @walterwhite003

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is so true. I started my job 3 years ago and wasn't happy with the niche field I was in. I promised myself I'd study to get into a different company/job 3 years ago. I got busy with life, enjoying my first time in my life having disposable income and didn't study. Here I am 3 years later realizing how those small daily commitments could have helped me to change into a dream career. But I failed to do that. Now I can start my next 3 years now...

  • @walterwhite003

    @walterwhite003

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Nikola Stanković thanks for your reply

  • @girlwhowentbazzinga

    @girlwhowentbazzinga

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's so true

  • @thisisaksu
    @thisisaksu4 жыл бұрын

    Short version: Rome wasn't built in a day

  • @RohanSanjith

    @RohanSanjith

    4 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏

  • @ensan4208

    @ensan4208

    4 жыл бұрын

    , but it burned in one.

  • @thisisaksu

    @thisisaksu

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ensan4208 but was that planned in one day? Every creation takes time, every growth needs it. Unfortunately it only takes a few moments to destroy it. That's why it is and will always be harder to build something then to destroy it

  • @Thenamelessgod-cz9em

    @Thenamelessgod-cz9em

    4 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏

  • @arpit.sharma

    @arpit.sharma

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@thisisaksu Woah 💯

  • @AUTOIDTV
    @AUTOIDTV4 жыл бұрын

    My grandad always says: “Anyone that never made a mistake, never made anything”. I think about that every day!

  • @ghassanawwad99

    @ghassanawwad99

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow, I wish Einstein was my grandpa too.

  • @AUTOIDTV

    @AUTOIDTV

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ghassanawwad99 Never claimed he made it up. Just said he always said it...

  • @ghassanawwad99

    @ghassanawwad99

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@AUTOIDTV Right, my bad.

  • @kingleonidas4296

    @kingleonidas4296

    4 жыл бұрын

    I say this when people try to dog on me for making mistakes at work. I usually tell them it’s easy to not make mistakes when you sit on your dead ass all day.

  • @SunflowerSpotlight

    @SunflowerSpotlight

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m really trying to take that to heart. I’m a pedantic perfectionist, and that’s been parlayed into a job as an editor. But... it’s not very helpful in my life in more general ways. When it’s too likely that you’ll mess up when you make a move, you have incentive to stay still, and that’s no way to live. Even in small things like learning to knit, I beat myself up. I’ve only been knitting for three days, and I’m beating myself up for messing up or being messier than I’d like. I’m learning so I can donate blankets and hats and scarves etc to homeless shelters, women’s shelter’s, and the cancer center in my area. I know that if I’m too hard on myself, I’ll just quit, and then I won’t be able to do my part to help. I need to be kinder to myself. What I think about every day is similar to what your grandad would say, but it was a saying of my mother’s. “If you would be encouraging to a friend with the same problem, why is it then okay to be harsh, if the one having a problem is you? Be half as kind to yourself as you are to others, and things will go much easier for you.” I’m in my head far more than any teacher ever could be, and if I’m always ragging on mistakes and not celebrating little achievements, it’s no wonder I’d want to quit. We’ve got bad habits of psyching ourselves out of improving.

  • @rakshrb
    @rakshrb4 жыл бұрын

    The three year rule : Master the art of failure.

  • @dylanrreynolds

    @dylanrreynolds

    4 жыл бұрын

    I love that you brought that specific part out because it is what resonated most with me !!

  • @TallJakeW
    @TallJakeW4 жыл бұрын

    Best quote of this episode: "People expect things to happen over night, not over time."

  • @illneas
    @illneas4 жыл бұрын

    When It Feels Scary to Jump, That Is Exactly When You Jump

  • @DaveOtevrel

    @DaveOtevrel

    4 жыл бұрын

    People on 9/11 be like

  • @francescafrancesca3554

    @francescafrancesca3554

    4 жыл бұрын

    I that idea. I'll teach that, and keep it in mind from now on. So, think you very much!

  • @shallow7060

    @shallow7060

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dave_ Czech Idk if this should be on r/cursedcomments or not

  • @Staci.Gonzalez

    @Staci.Gonzalez

    4 жыл бұрын

    this is most applicable in all scenarios but literally

  • @theclouttheif3290

    @theclouttheif3290

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's how my dog died on a hiking trip

  • @sanchitrastogi55
    @sanchitrastogi554 жыл бұрын

    When are you giving a Ted talk ?

  • @dylanrreynolds

    @dylanrreynolds

    4 жыл бұрын

    OH MY GOSH! I KNOW RIGHT?!!

  • @lucolyx

    @lucolyx

    4 жыл бұрын

    He is the Ted talk :0 ;)

  • @daysandwords

    @daysandwords

    4 жыл бұрын

    Maybe when TED start paying their speakers, rather than charging attendees $10K and selling the speakers "exposure and prestige".

  • @busimo

    @busimo

    4 жыл бұрын

    ted talks are brainwashing propaganda talks

  • @atharvas3841

    @atharvas3841

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@busimo proof?

  • @lightcity8933
    @lightcity89334 жыл бұрын

    i do indeed stay up all night remembering my failures from over 5 years ago.

  • @shakerathamanna4783

    @shakerathamanna4783

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too.. now 10+ years is a different story. I am still trying to sort some of the same problems I had 5 years ago

  • @jauxro

    @jauxro

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mhm. Some are over and done with. Some are ongoing. Either way, they're taking up a little space in my brain.

  • @lauraandevecampbell1661

    @lauraandevecampbell1661

    4 жыл бұрын

    Maybe theres a reason. Have you learnt from it? 'Cos thats the important part.

  • @lightcity8933

    @lightcity8933

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@lauraandevecampbell1661 nope

  • @monkiram

    @monkiram

    4 жыл бұрын

    I literally sometimes agonize over embarrassing things that I said when I was as young as 9 years old. I'm 28, let alone failures lol. I'm not sure if I'm alone but thinking of whether I regret past failures definitely did not help me overcome my fear of failure haha.

  • @ColinDeWaay
    @ColinDeWaay4 жыл бұрын

    This is so spot on. I started fresh 5 years ago at the age of 35 as my family sold our house in MN for a huge loss while I quit my career I hated to start my own business doing what I love in FL. It took 3 years of struggling to start making any real money and now 5 years in I'm literally living my dream doing what I love where I want to live it but man it took a long time and there was so many struggles, but freaking worth it. I always told myself I'd rather give it everything I have an fail than live life with regret wondering. Do it people, he's so right!!!

  • @batirtzeurkiaga4973

    @batirtzeurkiaga4973

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good for you!!!!!🏞️🏞️🏞️🏞️🏞️🏞️🏞️

  • @ColinDeWaay

    @ColinDeWaay

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@batirtzeurkiaga4973 Thanks!

  • @selenalamothe997

    @selenalamothe997

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thats amazing. What is your business?

  • @ColinDeWaay

    @ColinDeWaay

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@selenalamothe997 I'm an online strength and nutrition coach, and thank you!

  • @alicia-hd2cs
    @alicia-hd2cs4 жыл бұрын

    While hes editing this, matt is doing a 30-Day-Spinach challenge.

  • @umaribnali2138

    @umaribnali2138

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @dylanrreynolds

    @dylanrreynolds

    4 жыл бұрын

    HAHAHAHAAH! DEAD LOL

  • @user-wu1us1yh3n

    @user-wu1us1yh3n

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Juan Cortez Muro stop spamming

  • @divyaj3031

    @divyaj3031

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n4 жыл бұрын

    *If it doesn't take time, it won't be appreciated anyway.*

  • @muhammadjoan2753

    @muhammadjoan2753

    4 жыл бұрын

    If it doesn't take time, it won't last long.

  • @kevinmccallister7647

    @kevinmccallister7647

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@muhammadjoan2753 🤣 are you saying Matt's chennal is gona die soon? Jk.

  • @karlos1008

    @karlos1008

    4 жыл бұрын

    In finance there’s a saying, ‘if it grows too fast it’s probably a weed’ and aside from investment, it’s taught me to appreciate the process aside from the outcome

  • @betuna9487

    @betuna9487

    4 жыл бұрын

    O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me verdade

  • @Otakutaanger

    @Otakutaanger

    4 жыл бұрын

    If it doesn't take time, it would appreciate.

  • @donovangg8367
    @donovangg83674 жыл бұрын

    “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take”

  • @teru6579

    @teru6579

    4 жыл бұрын

    -wayne gretzky -michael scott

  • @kbwrr2400

    @kbwrr2400

    4 жыл бұрын

    Elena delle donne

  • @heliaalves9062

    @heliaalves9062

    4 жыл бұрын

    That used to be one of my favourite quotes. Not anymore.

  • @TimeraB

    @TimeraB

    4 жыл бұрын

    How come?

  • @leocantaim

    @leocantaim

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hélia Alves why is that?

  • @dahlia6015
    @dahlia60154 жыл бұрын

    I glowed-up “during corona virus” and lost over 60 pounds, but no one wants to listen when I say I started losing weight 9 months ago, and probably won’t hit my goal (because of skin elasticity and stuff) for probably another 9 months, but I’m ready for this process to take another year

  • @jessicasloan

    @jessicasloan

    4 жыл бұрын

    Good for you! That’s an incredible journey 🙌🏼

  • @alejandraargueta3475

    @alejandraargueta3475

    3 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations!!! Go for it and do it for your health and you will reach your goal.

  • @T1ffy222

    @T1ffy222

    3 жыл бұрын

    Go you :) That's great!

  • @elgielazaga

    @elgielazaga

    3 жыл бұрын

    Proud of you!!!

  • @Xanivert

    @Xanivert

    3 жыл бұрын

    "during corona virus" As if it isn't still going around, even worse. And this comment was two months ago, yikes

  • @TheElenaNumb
    @TheElenaNumb4 жыл бұрын

    "The handsome minimalist that got 2million subscribers in less than two years" Hahaha, that got me xD -Matt d'Avella 2019

  • @mattdavella

    @mattdavella

    4 жыл бұрын

    :)

  • @rebeccasperring1747

    @rebeccasperring1747

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fatima Zahra Vlogs don’t forget the smile at the end. Classic!!

  • @TheElenaNumb

    @TheElenaNumb

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@rebeccasperring1747 He used that Smile to reply loool! I will never edit my comment, cuz I'll lose the heart lol

  • @TheElenaNumb

    @TheElenaNumb

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mattdavella MY GOD, YOU REPLIED!!

  • @christophercabintoy7790

    @christophercabintoy7790

    4 жыл бұрын

    HAHAHA

  • @jordanreader
    @jordanreader4 жыл бұрын

    “How we look at failure can tell us everything we need to know about success”. Boom. D’Avella strikes again

  • @francescafrancesca3554

    @francescafrancesca3554

    4 жыл бұрын

    o:

  • @rosecortcrystal

    @rosecortcrystal

    4 жыл бұрын

    A thesis statement. A vague one, but a thesis statement.

  • @deshira_4991

    @deshira_4991

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jordan you absolute legend I knew you probably watched Matt Davella too!

  • @jordanreader

    @jordanreader

    4 жыл бұрын

    ​@@deshira_4991 Hey Deshira! Likewise fellow legend! 😂

  • @danieldapuzzo3872
    @danieldapuzzo38724 жыл бұрын

    Quick question: what did your financial situation look like when you took the leap? Did you still work part-time to pay the bills? Did you move back home? Borrow money? Live off of savings? Work full-time somewhere else until the side-gig built up? Can you make a video where you interview several youtubers or people that "made it" and talk about what it actually looks like on the first few years? I think many like me get blinded by the end of the story and are clueless on what it actually looks like on day 1 of the journey and the sacrifices necessary. Thanks for you amazing comment!

  • @OfficiallySarabi

    @OfficiallySarabi

    4 жыл бұрын

    This is important! I think a lot of people are afraid to take the leap because they don't have enough money in the bank to pay rent and buy groceries for even one month without their job, so they're waiting for a bullet proof business plan (or better finances)

  • @thefrankmiller5030

    @thefrankmiller5030

    3 жыл бұрын

    Oh my god THIS

  • @MrHupo
    @MrHupo4 жыл бұрын

    “Bran thought about it. 'Can a man still be brave if he's afraid?' 'That is the only time a man can be brave,' his father told him.”

  • @sharik6862

    @sharik6862

    4 жыл бұрын

    Isn't that from Game of Thrones?

  • @MrHupo

    @MrHupo

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sharik6862 Ye :D

  • @CrisOnTheInternet
    @CrisOnTheInternet4 жыл бұрын

    I read somewhere that _we overestimate what we can do in a year and underestimate what we can achieve on a decade_

  • @feeshac1974

    @feeshac1974

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cris wow...🤯 i needed to hear that

  • @Pedrosilva0498

    @Pedrosilva0498

    4 жыл бұрын

    Tonny Robbins said that.

  • @RealLifeMoney
    @RealLifeMoney4 жыл бұрын

    Best advice: There are probably people better than you, but you can still outwork them 🙌

  • @brebytheway

    @brebytheway

    4 жыл бұрын

    loved that part a lot too!!

  • @timothyjohnson679

    @timothyjohnson679

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ooooooooo. I like that! that's always been my life. I'm never more talented than anyone, I always have to be the hardest working one.

  • @nascentnaomie

    @nascentnaomie

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nick Scuderi - RealLife Money 😍😍🎯✅👌🏿

  • @aboycalledfish
    @aboycalledfish4 жыл бұрын

    "There are probably people better than you, but if you can do it the longest than you could potentially win!" Isn't this the entire premise of Tortoise and the Hare?

  • @akhileshsajwan9248

    @akhileshsajwan9248

    4 жыл бұрын

    What I have realized is that the simple stories that we heard in our childhood contains all the life lessons . We just have to keep it simple and should not complicate the things.

  • @papihuey
    @papihuey4 жыл бұрын

    “We keep the same type of haircut over a decade” Are you talking to me 🤣🤣🤣

  • @lucassluijs9290
    @lucassluijs92904 жыл бұрын

    Petition for Matt to make shirts with the quote "just keep trying to do better"

  • @a_handle_that_is_not_taken

    @a_handle_that_is_not_taken

    4 жыл бұрын

    they would need to be grey on grey 😂

  • @lifeshomework8138

    @lifeshomework8138

    4 жыл бұрын

    You make them and we will buy.

  • @alicegiuditta

    @alicegiuditta

    4 жыл бұрын

    or ones that just say Failure or Massive Failure on them or something hahaha

  • @sarathgopinath3096
    @sarathgopinath30964 жыл бұрын

    I had the same bedsheet for a year. I'm gonna change that now

  • @mattdavella

    @mattdavella

    4 жыл бұрын

    Commitment is strong with this one.

  • @sarathgopinath3096

    @sarathgopinath3096

    4 жыл бұрын

    DID MATT D'AVELLA JUST REPLY TO MY COMMENT?

  • @mr.buttercat2797

    @mr.buttercat2797

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sarathgopinath3096 yes

  • @sarathgopinath3096

    @sarathgopinath3096

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mr.buttercat2797 Omg,buttercat also replied to my comment. Best day of my life!

  • @juliakonowrocka9564

    @juliakonowrocka9564

    4 жыл бұрын

    sarath gopinath dude, how is it even possible? You didnt wash it for a year?!

  • @LodeDavi
    @LodeDavi4 жыл бұрын

    100÷ agree My channel passed the 100K subscribers last week. I start in KZread 3 years ago. Literally no one saw my videos. Now everything Is different. We need to be more patience. Greetings from Argentina

  • @elleboogie86

    @elleboogie86

    3 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations

  • @orange-one

    @orange-one

    3 жыл бұрын

    He meant 100%

  • @abhayraj4189

    @abhayraj4189

    3 жыл бұрын

    %

  • @jessmae433

    @jessmae433

    3 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations. Hope you hit 500k soon. God bless.

  • @shraddhashree123
    @shraddhashree1234 жыл бұрын

    The best part him is that, he reflects whatever he says, in his personality.

  • @marienoellebl
    @marienoellebl4 жыл бұрын

    "The humbling experience of realizing that you're not that great, and that there is probably people better than you, but if you can do it the longest, than you could still potentially win." Finishing by PhD two weeks ago, interview for professor position in two weeks, after a doctoral process of SEVEN years: I totally agree.

  • @Jateebasheer

    @Jateebasheer

    4 жыл бұрын

    marienoellebl I was reading this when he said it

  • @docmarmalade5224

    @docmarmalade5224

    4 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations!

  • @francescafrancesca3554

    @francescafrancesca3554

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow. Wowowow. Wow. Thank you so much.

  • @fernandasuguiama1549

    @fernandasuguiama1549

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's greeeat! Congrats!

  • @zeonive1173
    @zeonive11734 жыл бұрын

    Real 3 year rule: food can only stay on the floor for 3 years

  • @brebytheway

    @brebytheway

    4 жыл бұрын

    that's when you know it's ripe 👌

  • @Eunostos

    @Eunostos

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@MyNontraditionalLife Sweets aren't really food though.

  • @seitvalikhan1417
    @seitvalikhan14174 жыл бұрын

    Nobody: Mat D'avella: 2 day rule Mat D'avella: 3 years rule After 5 months: 4 decades rule

  • @alexlorenlee
    @alexlorenlee4 жыл бұрын

    5:50 “Push forward... adjust direction” your b-roll makes me smile every time Matt

  • @toothpaste_tm7323
    @toothpaste_tm73234 жыл бұрын

    Others: "You bloody failure" Me: "Well thank you" :D

  • @mattdavella

    @mattdavella

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes!!

  • @dominostimes2119

    @dominostimes2119

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oscar Holst actually they ´ll feel really dumb after that

  • @BellaMichel

    @BellaMichel

    4 жыл бұрын

    So awesome. I love this. :)

  • @josephhyunsuchun
    @josephhyunsuchun4 жыл бұрын

    I really needed this today. Really hoping I can look back in 3 years and remember the decision I made. Thanks!

  • @mattdavella

    @mattdavella

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks, Joseph!! Good luck!

  • @EmmyHucker
    @EmmyHucker4 жыл бұрын

    I often feel like giving up because I fall into that instant gratification mindset. I only just turned 18 so it's absolutely ridiculous to think this way, thanks for the reminder!

  • @mikellyarte9106

    @mikellyarte9106

    4 жыл бұрын

    Emmy Hucker just remember that you’re young! You have time and you don’t have to accomplish everything before you’re thirty!

  • @TurloughEccles
    @TurloughEccles4 жыл бұрын

    "The greatest teacher, failure is." Master Yoda

  • @zainmoolji2064
    @zainmoolji20644 жыл бұрын

    Matt, you have motivated me so much in life, you are a true legend.

  • @WillReil
    @WillReil4 жыл бұрын

    Matt, you have many rules that have changed your life. You share them with your subscribers in a way that is simple, enjoyable, and educational. I have started to REALLY try and follow some of these rules to try and find productivity in my own life. I just put out my third KZread video and just scheduled the next 3, I plan to just keep pushing and making videos as a way to educate myself and hopefully others. You have been a huge help with making this change in my life :) Thank you!

  • @michaelsmith3533

    @michaelsmith3533

    4 жыл бұрын

    Will Reil I bet it feel good to just create something, regardless of the outcome. A scary step to take (one I don’t have the courage to do) but I think it’ll be fulfilling in the long run. Best of luck man?

  • @WillReil

    @WillReil

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@michaelsmith3533 Thank you very much! I am someone who is by nature pretty anxious and I think the most helpful thing has been taking a step back. I always just try and remember that no single act will make or break my life, the only thing that would is a habit of not trying.

  • @michaelsmith3533

    @michaelsmith3533

    4 жыл бұрын

    Will Reil I feel like I can relate pretty well, as I am generally an anxious person. “Taking a step back” is so effective in breaking that negative thought process.

  • @cheeryblossoms2011

    @cheeryblossoms2011

    4 жыл бұрын

    I've started doing things for my "future self". It's true, some of Matt's suggestions have really helped me!

  • @TravisCollier
    @TravisCollier4 жыл бұрын

    There’s a Brian Koppelman quote that matches this: “If you want to be a screenwriter, read 1000 screenplays & watch 1000 movies. Then you'll have a frame of reference for the work, if you're honest with yourself.” It’s hard to realize you have to dedicate the time upfront, but if it’s hard to start, it’s not a goal you want to pursue. And that-is hard to hear!

  • @NorthBorders
    @NorthBorders4 жыл бұрын

    Feeling inspired after watching this

  • @baltaza

    @baltaza

    3 жыл бұрын

    Keep it up, your projects are great

  • @RafixGameplay
    @RafixGameplay4 жыл бұрын

    "Quitters never win and Winners never quit"

  • @rufuslynks8175

    @rufuslynks8175

    4 жыл бұрын

    But, if you never win and you never quit, then you're just a loser. Chuckle. This came from a poster at Despair.com

  • @christophergreaney4974
    @christophergreaney49744 жыл бұрын

    3 year rule; this video has only been posted 3 minutes ago and I'm already watching.

  • @mattdavella

    @mattdavella

    4 жыл бұрын

    You were supposed to wait three years.

  • @AlexanderRichterTD
    @AlexanderRichterTD4 жыл бұрын

    Wow. I am just starting with my podcast and I was: "This is slow." But this guys made 500 episodes and are "just" around 4k subs and still going strong. Inspiring video and people.

  • @OitaOscar
    @OitaOscar4 жыл бұрын

    There is a saying in Japanese: "Stay on the rock for three years". Basically means the same thing as this video.

  • @elmarajanovic4219
    @elmarajanovic42194 жыл бұрын

    You actually start a lot of videos the same way; "There's one rule that REALLY changed my life..."

  • @mattdavella

    @mattdavella

    4 жыл бұрын

    There's one rule that's changed the way I respond to KZread comments and it's "The Always Be Polite Rule". Thank you for commenting.

  • @chidgeroo6287

    @chidgeroo6287

    4 жыл бұрын

    it’s the one rule he uses for youtube videos

  • @AnnaBarrowMusic

    @AnnaBarrowMusic

    4 жыл бұрын

    Matt D'Avella 😂😂😂

  • @Staci.Gonzalez

    @Staci.Gonzalez

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's never false though and that's what matters

  • @VGCHANEL

    @VGCHANEL

    4 жыл бұрын

    He just uses some lines he has memorized for his videos and daily life to have a minimalist speech

  • @hsrboys9993
    @hsrboys99934 жыл бұрын

    I love that Matt is helping other people's projects grow

  • @MarviaDavidson
    @MarviaDavidson4 жыл бұрын

    So, so good! We need more of this message on patient persistence. Thanks, Matt!

  • @aimemaggie
    @aimemaggie4 жыл бұрын

    Just opened up an online thrift store and I’ve been considering giving up even though I’ve i it been at it for a 2 weeks. Thank you for this video

  • @soulywomen

    @soulywomen

    4 жыл бұрын

    Give it one year before you do anything like that! And expect friends and family to be the least helpful. Market yourself, talk about it, make cards, and go be the next awesome woman in biz! You can do this! It just takes time. 2 steps forward one step back. It's ok. Just keep pushing and learning.

  • @priscillacervantes6174

    @priscillacervantes6174

    4 жыл бұрын

    Micheal Ellis why so bitter?

  • @amandapazherrera8197
    @amandapazherrera81974 жыл бұрын

    I’ve started my 3rd year of my Biochemistry PhD, and this video couldn’t come at a better time!

  • @lucolyx

    @lucolyx

    4 жыл бұрын

    All the best!! ;)

  • @siemelonoranksenamun

    @siemelonoranksenamun

    4 жыл бұрын

    Best of luck :)

  • @tfnvv5469

    @tfnvv5469

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hang in there! I left pharmacy school after 1 year, and it’s always harder after you leave to find something you “love” if you don’t have anything you’re sure you want to do. I’m going back to finish a couple classes I need to get my biology degree and I’m not really sure what science/med related thing I want to do next.

  • @CharlyImsel

    @CharlyImsel

    4 жыл бұрын

    Go for it!! :)

  • @williamtran3728
    @williamtran37284 жыл бұрын

    2:20 Be real, that actually hurt you hella.

  • @mattdavella

    @mattdavella

    4 жыл бұрын

    It did. And this was the second take.

  • @Callistea
    @Callistea4 жыл бұрын

    I am laughing right now, cause this is what I've accidentally discovered for myself on 1st Jan 2020 and didn't think of extending that principle to other areas of my life! I decided to commit to doing yoga every single day for a whole year, at least 5 minutes a day (which I always exceed). I experimented with yoga in the past, but it was never enough to actually gain all of the benefits it has to offer. And the first day during my very first practice, I felt so calm, as I knew I've got whole year to learn everything. I am two weeks in and I have to say that it feels so good to do yoga. I am more flexible, I found my balance, got stronger and my mind is calm. I am just amazed. I also started doing 30 day trials few months ago following advice Matt gave us and it's been incledible - I learned to type with all ten fingers, lost weight by tracking my calories and taking it slowly (after years of trying), tried intermittent fasting which works so well for me, started reading although I thought I didn't have time for that and almost learnt a pull up, an impossible task few weeks ago (still working on it). It's changed my life. Thank you so much, Matt!

  • @adinashaina9977

    @adinashaina9977

    3 жыл бұрын

    ...the most underrated comment...

  • @mikellyarte9106
    @mikellyarte91064 жыл бұрын

    I want to be a novel writer and this video reminded me that writing takes time, sometimes years. I needed that reminder that I shouldn’t feel like a failure just because I’m not finishing a story in three months.

  • @NoraConrad
    @NoraConrad4 жыл бұрын

    It's amazing how many people see instant success after decades of hard work 🤔

  • @HolaSoyGrel
    @HolaSoyGrel4 жыл бұрын

    This is currently what I’m going through 😭 I’m seriously crying right now, I didn’t realize how much I needed this today. Thank you. 🙌🏽🥺

  • @BradFinn
    @BradFinn4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Matt!

  • @garagemdeluxo
    @garagemdeluxo4 жыл бұрын

    I'm the middle of a crisis, with anxiety and other problems. I've been here for a while. Your videos (videos like that one!) are helping me do the littles things, one step at the time. Thank you.

  • @AikiraBeats
    @AikiraBeats4 жыл бұрын

    i just started to dye my hair more often it's interesting to see people's reaction and I also started to go out more by myself and slowly i have more confidence within myself that i know how to be alone and actually feel better about it

  • @jroman5193

    @jroman5193

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same. Except the hair dying part lol Keep building yourself!

  • @ticomico6893
    @ticomico68934 жыл бұрын

    It is amazing how you keep uploading such quality videos in a consistent way. Keep up the good work!

  • @mattdavella

    @mattdavella

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks, Tico!

  • @ulisesr614
    @ulisesr6144 жыл бұрын

    This video came during a critical time in my career. I needed to hear this. Thank you Matt. Much love 🧡

  • @griffduncan
    @griffduncan4 жыл бұрын

    Been watching you for over a year now and this has to be my favorite video of yours yet. This spoke to me so much. You have no idea how much I needed this!

  • @cassiomachado93
    @cassiomachado934 жыл бұрын

    0:38 Matt's haircut from the time he was playing with Green Day

  • @iSketchRandom
    @iSketchRandom4 жыл бұрын

    When I’m feeling good there’s nothing I won’t do to improve myself. And when I’m feeling like shit there’s nothing I won’t do to destroy that progress

  • @darlenepaul2918

    @darlenepaul2918

    4 жыл бұрын

    I totally can relate to this!

  • @sarah-anneperry6932
    @sarah-anneperry69324 жыл бұрын

    I gave myself 3 years for my paintings to get closer to the inner visions that inspired them. It made me enjoy the creative process and learn so much by not being focused on the results so much. It made me be in the moment, deep within the journey. Turns out after those 3 years I even got the opportunity to have my first exhibition. The word failure doesn't even mean anything thing to me anymore. When you get the right mindset to achieve your goals the word failure becomes an illusion and tends to disappear from your perception of how life works.

  • @AnaJuma
    @AnaJuma4 жыл бұрын

    I sooo needed to watch this right now. Divine timing. Thanks Matt, your channel is my fav on KZread!

  • @xxher0zer0zz13
    @xxher0zer0zz134 жыл бұрын

    Im watching you i would say since day one and something in me kept saying that i should go on watching your videos. And that something was right. In some kind of way you helped me setting goals and being continually on my way while always having it right before my eyes. Im waking up early, have a structured day and found a real life goal. Thanks for that matt! Ps: im german so please don’t criticise my bad english

  • @Nickgohcy
    @Nickgohcy4 жыл бұрын

    2 months in since I started my business. 0 sales so far, felt like crap. This video just showed me that I am just not committed for the long term. Thanks Matt! Another Awesome video.

  • @farheenw848
    @farheenw8484 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate you being real with us in this, some times a reminder from people who inspire us is everything. Really needed this today Matt, thank you!

  • @baseball100050
    @baseball1000504 жыл бұрын

    This video was starkly simplistic yet beautifully enlightening. What a paradigm shift! Thanks so much Matt.

  • @xxxYouTunesxxx
    @xxxYouTunesxxx4 жыл бұрын

    At 40 I have no career, unmarried, no relationships.....basically live still like a 19 year old before you get all that stuff...I feel like I am living in a room with no windows. But thanks for being that tiny light man

  • @selenalamothe997

    @selenalamothe997

    4 жыл бұрын

    I hope you start achieving your smaller goals and working your way towards big ones. You are still alive. You still have your time. God bless you and stay safe !

  • @classicalmusiclover4029

    @classicalmusiclover4029

    3 жыл бұрын

    Start by cleaning your room or your flat. Do some sport. Eat healthy. Don’t look on your phone so much. Read books.

  • @xxxYouTunesxxx

    @xxxYouTunesxxx

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@classicalmusiclover4029 How does that change my reality?

  • @tabbywarrior

    @tabbywarrior

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@xxxYouTunesxxx only changes mindset. Mindset changed life.

  • @mr.cinematic
    @mr.cinematic4 жыл бұрын

    This is the one video i'll always thank KZread for recommending

  • @Isaacaraines
    @Isaacaraines4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Matt. Just finished a media detox and this was the first video I watched. This long term commitment idea really gives me a ton of clarity!!!

  • @kierstenseaburg6917
    @kierstenseaburg69174 жыл бұрын

    THIS VIDEO IS DYNAMITE. I needed to hear every word of this. I'm so grateful that you've put this together so I can come back to it every time I need reminded!

  • @UltraHuman
    @UltraHuman4 жыл бұрын

    I was just talking to my Friend about how we’re dedicated to getting out of poverty in 2-3 years. We are both part of generational poverty and have decided we aren’t going to be poor when we send our own kids into the world. We want them to see their parents get out and learn to take care of themselves and be generous and humble people.

  • @TheArtemis1994

    @TheArtemis1994

    4 жыл бұрын

    UltraHuman, I wish the best for y'all!

  • @UltraHuman

    @UltraHuman

    4 жыл бұрын

    Azalia Marie Herebia ❤️❤️❤️

  • @aslye
    @aslye4 жыл бұрын

    Nobody: Matt: You broke the rules

  • @roejieks

    @roejieks

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nobody: Nobody:

  • @SamHolland
    @SamHolland4 жыл бұрын

    I love it. All comes down to patience. Just the motivation I needed now that I’ve just started my channel. Thank you again Matt! 🙏🏻🤩🎥📺

  • @agnieskamiliuskevic2558
    @agnieskamiliuskevic25584 жыл бұрын

    Matt, thank you for making these videos. Its realy relaxing to watch your experiments and try them on myself.

  • @Amanda-qe5lj
    @Amanda-qe5lj4 жыл бұрын

    2:21 imagine having to do that just for the video's sake, Matt is truly a hero

  • @MagicLink43
    @MagicLink434 жыл бұрын

    First few seconds of the video, and I already know this topic is for me.

  • @dariaaleeva4236
    @dariaaleeva42364 жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU, Matt! I needed to hear that!!!

  • @therealpizzapusheen137
    @therealpizzapusheen1374 жыл бұрын

    was super hesitant of watching another a rule video, procrastinated watching this, but was worth it. always helpful matt thanks!

  • @Blackchairwhitecarpet
    @Blackchairwhitecarpet4 жыл бұрын

    I don’t know who you are or how you ended up on my feed ... but after I watched this video exactly when I needed to see it .... I’m Going to binge watch everything

  • @adrienpoirier7709
    @adrienpoirier77094 жыл бұрын

    30 minuts meditation everyday, journaling, reading self development Books, cold shower everyday, gym 6 times per week, perfect diet, enough sleep, no smoke, no alcoohol, facing my fears by approaching women i find attractive in the street. I'm 22 yo. I feel like a superhero and i'm proud of what i'm achieving!

  • @tintinxyzc

    @tintinxyzc

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hey man . I am glad you put this up. I have a question. How do you date chicks if they are a teetotaler . Where do you take em on dates?

  • @createscapedesignstudio8178

    @createscapedesignstudio8178

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@tintinxyzc ask them what restaurants they like

  • @kimbolinarino9
    @kimbolinarino94 жыл бұрын

    I love your content and the people and projects you spotlight. Thanks for creating Matt.

  • @francescadiana
    @francescadiana4 жыл бұрын

    This was so good! I loved how you went back and explained your take on what Josh & Tommy were doing and how you have benefited from it in your career as well. 👏

  • @adg0913
    @adg09134 жыл бұрын

    Patience and Persistence. Got to remember that.

  • @thomazo7179
    @thomazo71794 жыл бұрын

    This is in line with the stoic idea that the people who become succesful are the ones who enjoy the process, not just the result or goal.

  • @anamarie76
    @anamarie764 жыл бұрын

    We need videos like this... As always, great content.always touching and wakes us up

  • @TheBritishActingCoach
    @TheBritishActingCoach4 жыл бұрын

    Love love love this! Thank you Matt! My old high school's emblem and slogan was "Courage and Perseverance". Your video reminded of that x

  • @emergency.jergens
    @emergency.jergens4 жыл бұрын

    Damn... Matt knows he's handsome and he called us out on it

  • @hickorysocks2628

    @hickorysocks2628

    4 жыл бұрын

    Emergency Jergens He’s become self aware!!!

  • @user-ot1jo2mp3h

    @user-ot1jo2mp3h

    4 жыл бұрын

    Just an ordinary looking guy. Nothing outstanding.

  • @hickorysocks2628

    @hickorysocks2628

    4 жыл бұрын

    1 11 Are you kidding me??? I have to lay down a towel every time I watch one of his videos!

  • @marmitechickenlegs8331

    @marmitechickenlegs8331

    4 жыл бұрын

    100th like

  • @user-ot1jo2mp3h

    @user-ot1jo2mp3h

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@hickorysocks2628 It all boils down to ones personal choice. Looks is one thing, but education level and how many languages one speaks plus family background are also points to be considered.

  • @apparently_sonam
    @apparently_sonam4 жыл бұрын

    "The real truth comes through in how people refer to themselves unknowingly, not the messaging they are projecting"

  • @amyhoover9
    @amyhoover94 жыл бұрын

    I came to this video in perfect timing, because I was having these thoughts earlier this morning with my life from a creative and professional perspective. Having goals is one thing, but it's another thing to just buy time with excuses or stretching out time so that you can do nothing. Thanks for sharing this video, Matt!

  • @RaindropDays
    @RaindropDays3 жыл бұрын

    More then help, this was a lightbulb moment for me 💡🙌🏼 Thanks for sharing this Matt.

  • @Tubbeth
    @Tubbeth4 жыл бұрын

    When you're the child of an anti-vaxx mother: The Three Year Rule

  • @SharveshYT

    @SharveshYT

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ultraviolet Lol

  • @MrsStevenBrown

    @MrsStevenBrown

    4 жыл бұрын

    Savage! 🤣

  • @user86794

    @user86794

    4 жыл бұрын

    Offensive but fucking true (i'm a pro vaccinator)

  • @TheMattmatic

    @TheMattmatic

    4 жыл бұрын

    Iiris That’s good, but do we really need a word for not being an antivaxer? That’s like saying ”I’m a non-nazi”

  • @TheMattmatic

    @TheMattmatic

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@TheSupahZ Yes. And I can see the need for the word "Anti-vaxer". But do we need "Pro vaccinator". Btw, I'm "Pro air" and "Pro food" ;)

  • @TinaLeder
    @TinaLeder3 жыл бұрын

    *"Who cares if your first 10 KZread videos get 53 views..."* *Me:* Uhhhh more like *12 views, 10 from me and 2 from my mom.* 😂

  • @popculturecommentary1192

    @popculturecommentary1192

    3 жыл бұрын

    Just make content you love! :D

  • @garvitbhardwaj5478

    @garvitbhardwaj5478

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well now you have 6.58k subs

  • @codevev

    @codevev

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ha! I can relate to that

  • @EricaLucasLoves
    @EricaLucasLoves4 жыл бұрын

    This is one of the best KZread videos for serious, original content creators. I’m on the cusp of 8,000 subs in 2 months time and your video was so inspiring. Thank YOU, Matt.

  • @ConnorRickey
    @ConnorRickey4 жыл бұрын

    SO much value in this. Thank you for making the content you do! Josh & Tommy will be successful I'm sure. Already dropping mad valueeee!

  • @SISILISM
    @SISILISM4 жыл бұрын

    Oh this is amazing!!! Thank you Matt!!

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