The Silent Power of Narrative to Get Her Chasing

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A lot of guys get girls giggling, a lot of guys get big reactions. Some guys get attraction based on excitement or "buying temperature" or emotional spikes. But that sort of attraction fades quickly. If you want things to last, you need a story behind the attraction. You need narrative. For more, check out:
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  • @stephanfajardo3851
    @stephanfajardo38515 жыл бұрын

    7:55 Todd: „You are absolutely ridiclous. Literally.“ *Dramatic bass drop*

  • @xXHotaroXx
    @xXHotaroXx6 жыл бұрын

    Narrative - The story in her mind why you are a win for her. Powerful! Great Video overall, thanks for the insight.

  • @Li72428
    @Li724286 жыл бұрын

    Hit like if you'd like to see a video on Demonstrating High Value through "Body Language"! You talk about adding more and more to the program and Body Language is something that PUA's BARELY talk about or demonstrate examples and I know that alot of people would like to hear from you regarding this topic. Great video as usual, Thanks.

  • @TheSingleGuy

    @TheSingleGuy

    6 жыл бұрын

    Perfect dude! I just posted a video on this exact subject to answer this problem kzread.info/dash/bejne/payXvI96h9Gxj8Y.html

  • @mitrayar

    @mitrayar

    6 жыл бұрын

    Watch this video on Gary Vaynerchuk kzread.info/dash/bejne/d3h9k8SelMzTmKw.html

  • @calabaza1702

    @calabaza1702

    5 жыл бұрын

    he is still dropping lines in this interaction, I never do this, just keep the conversation interesting and moving along then you could ask her if she wants to go elsewhere

  • @snowman01
    @snowman016 жыл бұрын

    Whoever does the intro/outro music for these nails it _every_ time

  • @highvoltagee
    @highvoltagee6 жыл бұрын

    Every single word that comes out of your mouth is perfection in this interaction. Brilliant.

  • @MrHav1k
    @MrHav1k5 жыл бұрын

    Todd putting out the best pickup content EVER. I shudder to think how many more girls these guys who have been consuming pickup content for the past decade would have picked up had your content been available earlier. There's hope for me yet!! That said, attraction is a composite score and the primary component of that attraction is looks, money, and status. Game plays a part, but it might be 10-15% of the total package. It won't put you over the top, just enhance what's already there. I believe in the 80/20 rule where 80% of your output will come from 20% of your input. That doesn't mean don't learn game, but most of your results with women won't be because of game, they'll be because of other things. Working out, grooming, dressing well, earning more money, and expanding your network will do more for you than simply learning game. Thanks again Todd!!

  • @jasmanrautella3422
    @jasmanrautella34226 жыл бұрын

    The concepts are explained so well even in these demo youtube videos I can't even imagine how good the full version will be. Definitely buying The System!

  • @dimk7510
    @dimk75106 жыл бұрын

    Content is amazing...straight to the point, technical and what actually helps people when going out.

  • @RebelionFiscal
    @RebelionFiscal6 жыл бұрын

    Oh boy, been waiting for a new todd video

  • @lilteddyfragrancereviews7272
    @lilteddyfragrancereviews72726 жыл бұрын

    That first line is a line that sums up Todd's style to a tee.. dope vid!

  • @SimplyPolarized
    @SimplyPolarized6 жыл бұрын

    Appreciate your level of honesty and transparency, that not everything is a marketing scheme. You make a great product done to perfection, not taking advantage of others, but for a mutual trade.

  • @jarnohealth
    @jarnohealth6 жыл бұрын

    If i can afford it and it's not too much i will definately buy your new product "the system" Todd.. your content lately has been some of the best, more clearly explained and practical advice i ever seen that would actually help me when going out in the field.. and i've seen alot over the past 10 years but never bought any programs from anyone.. I'm very excited KEEP IT UP !!!

  • @steviealexsoski5116

    @steviealexsoski5116

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jarno praying that it’s not overly priced

  • @danielmedina3128

    @danielmedina3128

    5 жыл бұрын

    $1997

  • @ToddVDating
    @ToddVDating6 жыл бұрын

    I've mentioned the idea of Narrative in previous videos, but I haven't gone into much depth on it. There's a lot to say, but you get some idea of it here. There is a lot more on this concept within The System, but basically it's a huge part of how I get girls to chase super hard, even in interactions that seem like they're going nowhere at first. systembytodd.com

  • @uzoigweray1
    @uzoigweray16 жыл бұрын

    This is epic can’t wait for THE SYSTEM

  • @mel1113
    @mel11136 жыл бұрын

    I watched all Todd's videos for years and I'm still not sure what color his eyes are... Great video, BTW!

  • @tomektomalos9088
    @tomektomalos90886 жыл бұрын

    Please, adopt me Todd.

  • @davids5529
    @davids55294 жыл бұрын

    I love the In field footage. It’s honestly easier to comprehend for me then implement

  • @pashaboss6
    @pashaboss65 жыл бұрын

    Todd I'd really like to see how you start the interaction with the girl from the very beginning because that's my weak point honestly !!

  • @donaldbiden9492
    @donaldbiden94926 жыл бұрын

    Todd is a beast but sometimes these videos and things I've witnessed personally just make me feel bad about the current mental state of Western women.

  • @__ash13__

    @__ash13__

    6 жыл бұрын

    AJ, this is sad actually

  • @KindlingEffect

    @KindlingEffect

    6 жыл бұрын

    AWALT: All Women Are Like That I live in a third-world country, and believe me AWALT.

  • @everydaymanfit5840

    @everydaymanfit5840

    6 жыл бұрын

    the fact that you think it's 'sad' implies that you believe that high quality women (or men) should react the same to every person who approach them. Imagine being a person who get hit on left right and centre every social setting they go to (let alone on fb/ig). Wouldn't that be fucking tiring or risky to herself? You can either complain or see it for what it is. PS, it applies to high quality women in every country, not just western.

  • @SammyCee23

    @SammyCee23

    6 жыл бұрын

    This is true. Somethings up with White girls...

  • @dudemeister421

    @dudemeister421

    6 жыл бұрын

    well i find it fucking sad that we have to sit down and study game just to get laid, which is the most instinctual thing we can do. Dark times we live in.

  • @speedx7
    @speedx76 жыл бұрын

    One response... Alpha Male Strategies. Hate to do this cat and mouse game, cold approaches are not even worth it IMO. If she is showing you choosing signs then totally go for it! If not, I’m sure they’ll be more attractive women to pick from. I was in Colombia for a 2 months not that long ago, and let me tell you fellas women there are much more approachable. You just have to remain cool, have a good conversation, don’t act thirsty, and treat her like a human being. The things I learned in my trip there I have been applying here, it’s not much more different then over there. A very interesting thing I noticed was that Colombian women are far more appreciative/grateful, easy going, and overall more open. I was even told by many of them that by me being/acting relaxed when we first would meet, allowed them to drop there guard and be far more responsive. Regardless it’s up to you, besides women in Colombia are far more attractive IMO...so the hot girl complex is not as prevalent there. Cause think about it: there are SO MANY beautiful women in Colombia that it will only hurt them not you. Hope this little bit of insight helps you out my brothers!

  • @mayanboricua

    @mayanboricua

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fuck them hoes to sleep!

  • @blackpele
    @blackpele6 жыл бұрын

    This is game at the highest level possible........

  • @SammyCee23

    @SammyCee23

    6 жыл бұрын

    One word: Narrtive!

  • @movement2contact

    @movement2contact

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ummm, club sluts are highest level..?

  • @shrimpysquad5821

    @shrimpysquad5821

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@movement2contact who knows?

  • @movement2contact

    @movement2contact

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@shrimpysquad5821 I do- they're not... they are the opposite of that, which is the LOWEST level of non-prostitue women you can get...

  • @shrimpysquad5821

    @shrimpysquad5821

    5 жыл бұрын

    movement2contact ok bud, where are these "highest level" woman at exactly? And why can't they be seen in the club? What's your experience in the club and with "highest level" women? Go.

  • @kpjlflsknflksnflknsa
    @kpjlflsknflksnflknsa6 жыл бұрын

    This analysis is truly on another level.

  • @jad7397
    @jad73976 жыл бұрын

    Last girlfriends i had was because of this narrative i learned in the Course Women ! Thanks Todd, keep it up :)

  • @AestheticDelta
    @AestheticDelta6 жыл бұрын

    construct the narrative by making statements of premise rather than questions one by one etc. Its an actual skill to rephrase questions in your mind about her..

  • @Georgious
    @Georgious6 жыл бұрын

    When her Friends ask; who is this guy? What is his job? What is he about, WHAT IS THE EXPERIENCE OF HIM? Wow.. That really hit me hard.

  • @Trizzer89
    @Trizzer894 жыл бұрын

    I didnt understand the importance of narrative until an hour ago, and now I feel like an expert about it

  • @milezero2221
    @milezero22215 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful video. Keep it up man

  • @darkheart3770
    @darkheart37706 жыл бұрын

    Are you in the UK right now, Mr Valentine?

  • @junedarius254
    @junedarius2545 жыл бұрын

    Todd V’s narrative is by far the best

  • @depredador93
    @depredador936 жыл бұрын

    Todd! What happened to the text and dates machine website? Tried to access it after a year or so and it's giving me a 403 error.

  • @urib101
    @urib1016 жыл бұрын

    Yas Todd thanks. Almost 40k subscribers btw

  • @TheMaleRoleModel
    @TheMaleRoleModel6 жыл бұрын

    How are you not dancing to that first song? My head was bouncing and i had to shazam it :'L

  • @hugo3796
    @hugo37966 жыл бұрын

    ahah Todd, we caught you immitating a voice, something you said you were not good at int the "Never run out of things to say Manifesto" congrats for doing it nonetheless, but indeed you are not good at it... messin with you. cant wait for the system

  • @andrw265
    @andrw2656 жыл бұрын

    Is the system only dedicated to night game? Is there like a day game section?

  • @T1cTacToe1
    @T1cTacToe16 жыл бұрын

    How to purchase? What's the price?

  • @AestheticDelta
    @AestheticDelta6 жыл бұрын

    Rogue/rustic game combines slow methodical buildup with little sparks of premise or intent to compliment the narrative. very powerful to use pauses too

  • @WYTBLACCSONTV
    @WYTBLACCSONTV5 жыл бұрын

    The 808 be blasting!

  • @charlesluberisse4737
    @charlesluberisse47376 жыл бұрын

    So I'm at the bar the other day trying a social circle experiment but opening multiple sets. I was a wing man for this guy who never goes out and ended up out gaming him. I had a bar hook up in my face and i didnt close because it wasnt the frame of relationship that I was seeking. Are there any specifics to closing tactics besides show me the bathroom?

  • @marekbukovsky5631
    @marekbukovsky56315 жыл бұрын

    What is the name of that last song? Its awesome

  • @tonyfromthebronx8191
    @tonyfromthebronx81916 жыл бұрын

    I’m still lost. Can’t comprehend any of that

  • @juanmanuelpena9676
    @juanmanuelpena96765 жыл бұрын

    I have yo say I crack laughing with the second line, strong game!

  • @rippedreaper7279
    @rippedreaper72796 жыл бұрын

    The 2nd phase kinda hit me hard. I was talking to this girl yesterday (a solid 9) and after we were done setting up the date she goes "I thought you were gonna make me chase you a bit but you were easier than I thought". I deleted her number and flaked on her cold turkey.

  • @l3oozer
    @l3oozer6 жыл бұрын

    Whats the song at the end of the video? Its rad

  • @mustaphaberradi9691
    @mustaphaberradi96915 жыл бұрын

    What does " building a narrative " means ???

  • @johanneshansen852
    @johanneshansen8526 жыл бұрын

    What do you think of the concept "believability" as a way to build narrative in game? I've heard of "BT" and excitement as a way to build value, but that it must transition to more connection and a sense of investment from the guy, in order for this value to stick after the interaction is over. Also what are the signs that a girl is bought into a narrative? Like qualifying is really good, comliance is really good, but she might be rather quiet and be kind of logical, but still have a lot of narrative at the same time. Like she be not be gesturing and screaming and everything, but still be bought into the narrative. What are the signs for that? And also, I imagine this is also how you know if you succed in social circle seductions, since it's not always calibrated for the girl to be super hyper around you just because shes attracted to you. Here it's again signs that she buys into the narrative of you and indicators that she sees you as a win for her. What are the signs of that.

  • @KindlingEffect

    @KindlingEffect

    6 жыл бұрын

    Well, compliance doesn't just mean she's giving huge, loud, positive IOIs. Compliance is anytime she adjusts her behavior in your favor, to: - help you with sleeping with her For example, you lead her to a venue change and she complies, you tease her in a sexual way and smiles or giggles, escalate sexually and she does the same. - or to help you get closer and more intimate with her For example, you move her around and she comes with you, you escalate physically and escalates back, you leave pauses in conversation and she talks to avoid the awkwardness, you playfully attack her strong beliefs and she doesn't fight back to keep the peace. But, the biggest IOI of all is that she's still there. She can leave at any time, yet she chooses to stay with you, even if all she's doing is standing there.

  • @luialexander8854
    @luialexander88546 жыл бұрын

    Todd you always talk about premise. Can you do a video on that??

  • @KindlingEffect

    @KindlingEffect

    6 жыл бұрын

    He already has. Check out this previous video on his channel: The P Word -- How to "Show Intent" the Right Way Or, just get The System, where I'm sure he explains it in more detail.

  • @mkooij
    @mkooij6 жыл бұрын

    Yoo.. using Chicken Lips - He Not In during the intro? That's instant plus points

  • @brandondaniels9471
    @brandondaniels94716 жыл бұрын

    Todd is a modern day GENIUS!!!

  • @andrewchenpounjoe2298
    @andrewchenpounjoe22986 жыл бұрын

    difference between calibration and settling in game ??? and how they differ from one another ???

  • @mrwilson4572
    @mrwilson45726 жыл бұрын

    Anyone know the intro / outro songs?

  • @JohnDickDingleJR.
    @JohnDickDingleJR.6 жыл бұрын

    Track: Mark Knight-Your love

  • @marketingjustice677
    @marketingjustice6776 жыл бұрын

    I felt this video was lacking in examples on how to execute the concepts... a lot of explanantion... but duplicatable structures makes this somewhat difficult to apply... maybe he's saving it for his program

  • @batista9322
    @batista93226 жыл бұрын

    Todd whats your nootropics stack?🤔🤔

  • @adityaajmani1211

    @adityaajmani1211

    5 жыл бұрын

    K

  • @Anamoly_
    @Anamoly_5 жыл бұрын

    Put a high-pass filter on these club videos around 150Hz

  • @shrimpysquad5821
    @shrimpysquad58215 жыл бұрын

    There's so many many ways to win, you just have to pick one and commit and own it over and over and, sooner or later, you get to this combination that grants the ability to be able to have combinations of tools within game and, hypothetically speaking(?), game get's deadly good

  • @maxpayne8636
    @maxpayne86365 жыл бұрын

    Im 22, and i have always been bad at getting girls. I have slept with only 4 girls in my entire life and never had a decent girlfriend. I have never really been popular, and i have such bad social skills that it's crazy. I dress good, i smell good, i workout alot, and i attend in a good college and im taking a high education. But still i suck at getting girls and friends, and i have litterally gived up. The sad reality: my youth is almost over and I'm about to lose my chance. Through my daily hours i never have social interractions with girls. Sure, I approach girls whenever I get the chance... but truth be told. I'm sick and tired of small talk. tiny interactions which never goes any further. I have been experimenting with this "game shit" since I was 15 till now, and it never worked for me. Dont get me wrong. Everything Todd says about game is true. But it only works for people who are naturally good at socializing. I have attended alot of events where girls are present during my life(parties, festivals, schools, libraries, cafees and bars, going to the beach etc) and I have tried thousands of millions of different ways of game teqniques and manipulative ways of showing body language, but it always ends up in complete failure. I'm not saying that it is impossible to improve yourself, because off course it is. If I hadn't made an effort in doing these things over time, I would never sleep with those 4 girls I mentioned above^^. But the problem is the fact that I actually made an effort to get with those girls. See confident people and people who are good at socializing don't make any effort talking to others and getting attention. It comes naturally. As I said previously, I have literally given up on getting girls. Because I don't really give a fuck any longer. I just want to be there for my family and I'm done chasing girls. What's the point chasing someone who doesn't deserve your attention. Those who care about me Is my family and those few friend that I have. Fuck everyone else . You guys should stop this nonsense too. Stop wasting your valuable time watching stupid pickup videos on KZread and spend tons amount of time running after bitches when you can do so much more. If she likes you, she will automatically be clingy and seek your attention. If she doesn't like you. Get over it and continue your life. Go out, be successful in whatever you do and concentrate on yourself and the people in your life that actually deserves your time. I'm sorry if my English sucks in any way. English is my native tongue.

  • @jybuys

    @jybuys

    5 жыл бұрын

    22 and your youth is over.... ? You are just starting.

  • @K4113B4113

    @K4113B4113

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah and some people are born into families with money so why should we even bother with getting a job and having to expend effort earning money? We should just give up and go and live on the street. Why should we work out when some people naturally have bigger muscles than we do and we have to expend effort to get to their level? We should just give it up and never experience the health benefits of working out becouse there are people who have it easier than us!! Such a defeatist attitude. I tried to convey how ridiculous that line of thinking is through those examples. Also the "But it only works for people who are naturally good at socializing" was kind of funny. Isn't the whole point of learning to understand social dynamics to get good at socializing? Of course it is! Most of these instructors (if not all) are NOT naturally good at socializing, but they chose to learn it. But hey, if you don't wish to learn more about social dynamics and how to relate better to women, then thats completely fine. But your whole comment screams of an underlying resentment towards women and towards "naturals" in a similar way to those incel, schoolshooting teenagers. I'm not saying that is what you are. You are probably a good guy, but beware of that unresolved anger. P.S. humans are contrary to popular belief, quite capable of of sensing energy of other people (often subconsciously) and so if you are having trouble making friends and talking to women, that may be becouse they can sense your resentment and anger even if you aren't showing it to them. No one wants to be close to a person like that becouse they might get shot when that person finally snaps. Wish you all the best in letting go of old harmful emotions and thought patterns and finding a sense of peace.

  • @maxpayne8636

    @maxpayne8636

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@K4113B4113 It goes basically like this. You can either: 1. Naturally have good social skills and be popular regardless of your looks = you get girls 2: be very good looking regardless of your social skills and popularity = you get girls ( and get guy friends because some of them will kiss your ass by the fact that you get alot of attention from the opposite gender) 3: you can have a talent (like singing) and become famous = you will probably get alot of girls (high social status= getting girls) 4: you can be ugly and have no social skills = loneliness, lack of sex and attention with the opposite sex, being socially avoided and neglected. I know this is harsh. But the sad truth does hurt, and this is how the world is. You can either accept it or make yourself feel better, by making non-factual assumptions of how the world really is, when in reality the non-factual assumptions are what you wish the world would be like. That's your call as an individual. I prefer to see the world as it really is.

  • @kylepowpow

    @kylepowpow

    5 жыл бұрын

    Very well said Max

  • @mcearl8073

    @mcearl8073

    5 жыл бұрын

    Max Payne What the actual fuck are you on about? I only slept with a handful of girls by 22, probably not many more than you. I had my best years later, like 26,27,28. The older you get the better off you’ll be. You’re talking like a poor little boy so you’re probably coming off that way to girls too.

  • @DmitryHimself
    @DmitryHimself6 жыл бұрын

    What is the music at 0:40 ?

  • @kurtosterkamp7905
    @kurtosterkamp79056 жыл бұрын

    I'm not really advanced at this game stuff, but I want to share my thoughts. I think it all starts with taking ownership of your mindset. There is so much negativity out there and it's so easy to succumb to it. You have to take all that and move forward in life. Try to be as positive as you can. I'm working on that. Also, try to get to know the girl. Really be interested in her life and stuff. Be OK whatever the outcome is. If she wants to be friends only.... cool. If she wants to be more than that.... cool. Anger that we suffer turns into bitterness. Bitterness makes us tired and unable to move forward. I'm trying to look forward to all the possibilities in life and not thinking about the past. I think women can't really fill the void in our hearts that we are seeking to fill. Having been in relationships with personal demons did not help me solve them. I just brought them with me and I still had them. I have hope that we all can make a better future for ourselves and for the people around us. Women will not solve our problems, but they can be a great addition when we are comfortable with ourselves. That is what I am working on. Being better and happier today.

  • @vicerock353
    @vicerock3536 жыл бұрын

    I really need this

  • @viswavijeta5362
    @viswavijeta53625 жыл бұрын

    Visible Thoughts- Dont learn lines, learn AND understand concepts. After using the concepts over and over they will get into your subconscious. The basic structure that you go through with any interaction from the start: 1. Be fun- ''Law Of State Transfer'' if you'r happy the other person will want to be around you to be laughing as well. 2. Demonstrate value- show confidence, share stories, opinions, 3. Build Trust- Share and compare perspectives, beliefs or anything that is more personal, deep and intimate. Moving From stage 2→3 is basically getting to know each others more personally which takes. Now some essential Tips particularly for a romantic relationship between men and women: From the beginning establish a feeling of ''us'' instead of single individuals. Its like setting the scene in a theater play. After showing some value sexualize the conversation to make sure this is more than just a friend to friend relationship. ↓↓↓ The balance: Throughout the interaction show interest (compliment ect.. push) and then disqualify (teasing ect.. pull) as if its a rollercoaster with ups and downs. This builds tension and creates emotional spikes which is important as women are more ''feeling'' than ''thinking''. Set your alpha position: You'r the buyer having the power to choose. Become a source of validation. ↓↓↓ Don't be the easy catch: Why does self cooked food taste better even if its worsely cooked? because you needed to work for it. You are a high value person that has better things to do than to only get girls or guys. Work on all areas of life: Using game and flirting is not lying its showing your best version. Work on yourself: Health, Passion, Finance, Spirituality not only on social skills. If your only focusing on one area you are not balanced. Hope you can take something from this.

  • @janM9881BA
    @janM9881BA5 жыл бұрын

    epic music for the vid Tod

  • @AHMspadina
    @AHMspadina6 жыл бұрын

    Really appreciating the content Todd. I`ve watched lots of PUA videos but have never purchased a course. I`m at a stage in my life where I`d love to develop this skill and have a feeling The System may be the best tool for doing so. Look forward to hearing more about it in the coming weeks.

  • @jhoncusackk5445
    @jhoncusackk54456 жыл бұрын

    Hey Todd. How's the biz going? I know a lot's been said about gym game in the comunity and that the general concense is to avoid it, but I wanna know if you or ur circle have new insights on this. Tnks Cheers

  • @wisemonkeys4511
    @wisemonkeys45116 жыл бұрын

    Intro song please?

  • @kevinshen3221
    @kevinshen32216 жыл бұрын

    thumbs up for the subtitles gg todd

  • @kirandas6996
    @kirandas69966 жыл бұрын

    Your FRED system is the best .

  • @tshepomatlou4141

    @tshepomatlou4141

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kiran Das what's the Fred system

  • @KindlingEffect

    @KindlingEffect

    6 жыл бұрын

    @Kiran Das FRED/FAME model is Todd's model for hooking. It's like level 2 in the hooking sequence. Level 1 is you just being self-engaging/self-amusing and the hook happens naturally. But, if the hook isn't happening naturally, you move on to the FRED/FAME model. Level 2 doesn't work without self-engagement/self-amusement (Level 1) already being present in the interaction. So, you can't just skip L1 and start with L2. F.R.E.D (Focus Relevance Emotion Decision) is the process that SHE goes through to get hooked. F.A.M.E. (Focus Arrogant Maintain Escalate) is the process that YOU have to go through to hook her. You going through FAME forces her to go through FRED.This way, if the hook isn't happening naturally, you can know exactly… - Where you're at in the Hook sequence., - What you need from her next (FRED), and - What you need to do to achieve it (FAME). ==> F.R.E.D. FOCUS: Get her attention, and keep it through the entire interaction. Do you have her attention? Good, move on to Relevance. RELAVENCE: People will pay attention to things that are either of value or a threat. Value: A person's hobbies, likes, dislikes, goals, etc. are all good relevant topics, hence of a value to her. You can use them when you've figured out what they are, but they take time to figure out. A shot-cut to relevance is to talk about her (cold read), or better yet, about you and her i.e. the relationship between you two, because the one thing that's relevant to everybody is themselves. If someone's talking about you, it's either of value to you, or signals a threat to you. Threat: Break rapport tonality creates a sense of threat, but said with a smile, is how high-value people talk, and hence also of value to her. Statements of judgement ("What was that expression?") also create threat. So, make sure she cares about the conversation by making the conversation about something that's relevant to her. Does she care to listen to you? Good, move on to Emotion. EMOTION: While Relevance was about, "Does she care?" emotion is about, "How much does she care?" You can create emotion by a lot of ways: - Heighten the relevance. - Motion creates emotion: move her around, dance with her, physically escalate, etc. - Emotional spikes. - Getting attached to her ego, or sense of validation. - etc. Is it more than just interesting to her? Does she care a significant amount? If yes, move on to the next level of the hook sequence. Side note: - FRE doesn't happen without self-engagement/self-amusement. That's why it is Level #1. - FRE taken together is what "being at the cause, and not the effect" means. DECISION: Emotions are chemicals in the body. They get flushed when you stop creating them, and she forgets that they were there. That's why girls flake. That's why they're "different" the next time you engage them - even if you reengage them like 5 minutes after her friends dragged her away from you, because she's experiencing a different set of emotions after being with her friends. A decision lasts even when the emotions fade away, because a decision is an action in the real world. It's human psychology to be consistent with your actions: If she decides to not sleep with you, she has to justify to herself the various reasons why you're not someone she'd sleep with.If she decides to sleep with you, she will justify to herself the various reason why you're an amazing guy. For example, she's more likely to respond positively to you the next day, even if she's not feeling the emotions, if you've slept with her. So, don't waste the emotion you've created; turn it into a decision. A Decision, in this hook sequence, is anytime she adjusts her behavior in your favor, to help you with sleeping with her or to help you get closer and more intimate with her. Examples: > "Hey, you. Come here." and she comes. > You: "You don't have to talk to me. You can go." Her: "No, it's good. I'll talk to you a little while longer." > You: "Aw, looks like you like me." Her: "Yeah, I do." > "What do you like about me?" She starts listing qualities. > She has a really strong belief, and you attack or make fun of it, but she doesn’t stand up for herself because she doesn't want to ruin the relationship by creating tension. You can use the FRED model all throughout the interaction to reach further and further hooks/decisions/compliance, if they aren't happening naturally. You can look at the entire process of game as getting higher levels of relevance, higher levels of emotions, and when that's the case, getting higher levels of decision… rinse repeat for deeper and deeper levels of decisions. If someone's actually reading this long-ass comment and I'm not just wasting my time writing this out 😅, I'll explain FAME as well in the next comment.

  • @kirandas6996

    @kirandas6996

    6 жыл бұрын

    Well, thanks for the exposition on FRED system. Still, I think F stands for Framework or the mindset with which you do the rest steps. I may be wrong. Anyway, your comment will help revise everybody's concept here.

  • @marsgalbis8849

    @marsgalbis8849

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ankit Malasi this great man

  • @tedzhou1120

    @tedzhou1120

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ankit Malasi explain fame brooo

  • @nathane2890
    @nathane28906 жыл бұрын

    understand the narrative concept but Don't understand from the infield how to do it!

  • @FinalCurse
    @FinalCurse6 жыл бұрын

    todds opener is a mouthfull, does it have to be this complicated?

  • @KindlingEffect

    @KindlingEffect

    6 жыл бұрын

    When you approach a girl, she's probably not be mentally prepared to hold a conversation. So, you'll have to carry the conversation completely by yourself for 20 secs to a few minutes. So, get used to talking and talking, either through just free-flowing (from the right frame) or mouthful openers.

  • @FarasensTv
    @FarasensTv6 жыл бұрын

    Todd any chance we could work together?

  • @zizou500
    @zizou5006 жыл бұрын

    Gd stuff Todd

  • @curiousperson575
    @curiousperson5755 жыл бұрын

    I 'm preparing notes.hell complicated subject.

  • @AronPowa96
    @AronPowa966 жыл бұрын

    I'll buy this

  • @Zacksleeps
    @Zacksleeps6 жыл бұрын

    Can you talk about how on EARTH people are meant to memorise all of these lines and concepts? Which ones are vital too a successful interaction and which ones are just icing on the cake? When i'm talking too a girl my mind is overloaded with ''Ok, I need to show intent but in the correct way. Shit, what were those ToddV 'intent lines'? And what was the order of them? Wait. I need to use the 'us' frame soon. What sort of things do I say again? Damn, I completely forgot to use 'future projection' Can I cram it in now instead or is that the wrong part of the interaction?? Oh, and how to do it again? Am I showing her that i'm the prize and making her chase? I remember Todd done a vid on that but I can't remember the content now! Damn. Is this conversation 'emotionally stimulation' for her? I can't remember the tricks to make it so. Shit, I also forgot to use the cold read lines about how she's got a good girl face but a bad girl vibe or whatever'' Maybe the set will end there. I'll go home and realise I also forgot to neg her, forgot to tell her that I wasn't sure about her at first but she won me over, forgot to make our interaction have some sort of 'story' (''boy meets girl, girl hates boy, girl likes boy'' or whatever) and a million other things that i've read about or watched vids on. As you can imagine, my head is spinning trying to do all of this stuff. Maybe we need a 'script' with like 30 lines that we can memorize that will 'cover' every single concept and push the interaction forwards and we can all get laid with 10's like robots using the same scripts lol. Also, I note that sometimes people get laid in infields with doing about 2% of the overall stuff i've seen vids on, so I guess only a small percentage of this stuff is actually important and a lot of is just 'extras' but how do we know which is which

  • @ToddVDating

    @ToddVDating

    6 жыл бұрын

    Try to implement one small piece at a time... be patient with yourself. You'll never have a perfect interaction, so stop trying to. Just get 1% better each time.

  • @Kenny-Alpha
    @Kenny-Alpha6 жыл бұрын

    Fuck! Todd is just releasing killer content after content! As an advanced seducer and coach, I still find myself learning some tips or 2

  • @leonwillett4645
    @leonwillett46456 жыл бұрын

    oh my fucking god you're in my city! Are you doing a workshop?

  • @olb47
    @olb476 жыл бұрын

    what's the song when the title The System is coming?

  • @olb47

    @olb47

    6 жыл бұрын

    Your Love (Original Club Mix) - Mark Knight. Found it :)

  • @chrism8311
    @chrism83115 жыл бұрын

    Hey dude I hope you pay the camera guy well haha.

  • @AshTheDuke
    @AshTheDuke6 жыл бұрын

    "aeroplanes" lol

  • @martinhs1232
    @martinhs12325 жыл бұрын

    yo anyone know the song at 00:19. that'd be dope

  • @martinhs1232

    @martinhs1232

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Bryan XD shazamed it but thanks anyways!

  • @TheFucker669
    @TheFucker6696 жыл бұрын

    I se this video from Todd and I see next to me a video from Max titled " You are not her psychoteraphist" and I can see the ocean of difirecene, is like RSD teachs you how not to suck so much while Todd accualy wants you to be great

  • @ipponsuki
    @ipponsuki5 жыл бұрын

    Dude! You're in LA.

  • @njpme
    @njpme6 жыл бұрын

    I need the name of the Lil Wayne song at the beginning of the video.

  • @kawasaki450fast

    @kawasaki450fast

    5 жыл бұрын

    that's shit is a classic song

  • @njpme

    @njpme

    5 жыл бұрын

    kawasaki450fast what's the name of it?

  • @brettawesome

    @brettawesome

    5 жыл бұрын

    A milli

  • @njpme

    @njpme

    5 жыл бұрын

    brettawesome no that's not a milli

  • @brettawesome

    @brettawesome

    5 жыл бұрын

    I stand corrected, it plays around 7:49 . (I think)

  • @thatdude744
    @thatdude7446 жыл бұрын

    Hi Todd

  • @msaidely
    @msaidely6 жыл бұрын

    Very interesting +1

  • @Babayaga57898
    @Babayaga578986 жыл бұрын

    Set Narrative: Convey yourself in a higher value guy everytime, build "narrative of us" where she chasing and it should be favourable to her. Make her more invested if she thinks she is HV than you then create a narrative your HV. So Disqualify yourself and let her qualify for you. Make yourself higher value is an evaluation phase.

  • @commentaccount9372
    @commentaccount93726 жыл бұрын

    nice break down. why didn't you include the pull though bro

  • @ToddVDating

    @ToddVDating

    6 жыл бұрын

    It's right at the start ;)

  • @commentaccount9372

    @commentaccount9372

    6 жыл бұрын

    very good. you are an inspirational man that has improved the dating lives of many men around the world. because of you, we now have a clearer picture of how exactly to fuck girls and get the girls that we want. the value you continue to add to this cause is immense and is very appreciated. i commend you for that

  • @Surgicalsensei
    @Surgicalsensei6 жыл бұрын

    Do you prefer to talk more about yourself rather than asking her questions about her and getting to know her? So focus on displaying higher value by talking about fun things I like to do and things that attract me

  • @issac7787

    @issac7787

    6 жыл бұрын

    Darts personal rule of thumb would be don't overtalk about yourself, as it may come off as showing off.

  • @Menown7
    @Menown76 жыл бұрын

    This video was kinda confusing I get the narrative thing but your mixing up the rest..? Todd could you try and keep it simple?

  • @wickedhyperstyler

    @wickedhyperstyler

    6 жыл бұрын

    I also found it a bit all over the place, because we didn't see the beginning of the interaction, but he was referring to it. So it wasn't as easy to follow. I hope it will be clearer in the full program.

  • @ArtosFIN
    @ArtosFIN6 жыл бұрын

    The best

  • @SammyCee23
    @SammyCee236 жыл бұрын

    One word: Narrative.

  • @JWard2
    @JWard26 жыл бұрын

    Am I in the twilight zone? Did he not ask her a yes or no question with "do you speak Spanish?" Because I could've sworn he's mentioned in other videos to make statements instead of ask questions.

  • @Shribble11
    @Shribble116 жыл бұрын

    Forget the girls. I'd be dancing to that Chris Brown music!

  • @issac7787
    @issac77876 жыл бұрын

    I get that presenting your best high value self for her to perceived sleeping with you is a win narrative, this is good cause being the entertainer and get girl excited is tiring. But Todd it's honestly hard to phantom that set is an f-close. It just felt so platonic the level of exchange. There's no kino escalation whatsoever?

  • @KingBowserVlog

    @KingBowserVlog

    6 жыл бұрын

    I'm assuming the full breakdown is in the System. I guess we'll see if he shows it in its entirety and if he fcloses.

  • @JWard2

    @JWard2

    6 жыл бұрын

    I don't believe he f closed that night. I'd be very surprised.

  • @KingBowserVlog

    @KingBowserVlog

    6 жыл бұрын

    Todd did imply that he showed this example exactly because it was low energy and not all over the place. If he f-closes this set it would be a perfect demonstration of the power of narrative. We'll just have to wait and see if there's more in the System

  • @KindlingEffect

    @KindlingEffect

    6 жыл бұрын

    He explains why this is so in the Winner Game.

  • @issac7787

    @issac7787

    6 жыл бұрын

    Well the intro did showed Todd leaving with the girl, it just that personally it's hard for me to grasp this kind of monotonous level of exchange interaction can equate to successful closing in the end. Despite displaying your highest value on the table.

  • @tonyjohn1395
    @tonyjohn13956 жыл бұрын

    Trafalgar Square 🇬🇧

  • @redfolgers2233
    @redfolgers22336 жыл бұрын

    Todd has great perspective on game...this stuff works but he likes to idea bash other pua's thats a turn off

  • @tikobrohan5755
    @tikobrohan57556 жыл бұрын

    great song choice, Eric Prydz rules

  • @AE-hx7wy

    @AE-hx7wy

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ah so it's Eric Prydz, which track?

  • @tikobrohan5755

    @tikobrohan5755

    6 жыл бұрын

    you're a music expert here to tell me its not prydz/pryda/cirez-d

  • @1EMANIAC
    @1EMANIAC6 жыл бұрын

    5:40 song titlle anyone?

  • @mrwilson4572

    @mrwilson4572

    6 жыл бұрын

    1emaniac Lil Wayne - 6 foot 7 foot

  • @1EMANIAC

    @1EMANIAC

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ann Ahl Thx man .

  • @emprendedoressueltos
    @emprendedoressueltos5 жыл бұрын

    Little hint. Implying you are scarse is equal to implying you are high value.

  • @shrimpysquad5821
    @shrimpysquad58215 жыл бұрын

    It's this narrative game that get's em' wet. Just the other day I started talking to this girl who was with her friend and it ended up being that after I very smoothly sat against the bar table top on the upstairs balcony and introduced myself to both her and her friend, this girl, after talking for a bit, excitedly said "lets dance" as she got up with her friend and I walked in behind them. I started dancing with her and put myself in a start of leaderly frame by lending my hand and having her do twirls and then I went for the friend for some twirls to both get her to have more fun and to get some competition between them going. She may or may not have liked that as the girl that said "lets dance" and was in to me told me that "she is engaged." Anyways, we ended up dancing and even kissed a bit and I made sure to give her plenty of hugs and kisses whilst also pushing her away at times to balance it out and be able to say "I'm able to walk away" implicitly. But anyways, I knew I had to pull the trigger on this one so I asked "are you trying to get outta here" and that's when it all ended in the sense that it didn't "sorta just happen"(?) Or I didn't give her enough "knowns" about logistics is what I'm pretty surely thinking (hypothetically speaking for myself prior to actual experience) may have been a alternate, more thorough approach with that . Anyways, not too long after that I found out from her friend that she actually had a Fiance and was engaged when she had told that of her friend, lol. Maybe a planned escape tactic, maybe. All I know is what I know now about game and how it goes down. I've been studying the likes of this channel and Tyler from RSD and EvolutionDaily for combined effect and the tools that are taught in these channels are pretty kick asz. Anyways: build, build, build, BUILD, and keep on BUILDING, and then BUILD some more narrative on top of narrative on top of that as well.

  • @Cloud21x
    @Cloud21x6 жыл бұрын

    Great vid can't wait for the system to come out since RSD fucked me on Todd's last product "women"