The ONE THING You Should Do When Talking to Girls - Night Out With Todd

For Coaching Info Check Out: www.toddvdating.com/coaching
📑Outline
00:00 - Take risks.
01:58 - Moving things forward
03:14 - You HAVE to do these things.
05:47 - The mentality you need.
7:53 - Getting a solid foundation.
8:30 - Talked to her for 2 hours?
11:40 - Risk losing to win.
12:55 - Use this.
#ToddVDating #Dates #OnlineGame

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  • @ToddVDating
    @ToddVDating Жыл бұрын

    Hope you guys like the new video style. I was really happy with how it came out, but let me know. And the lessons for this bootcamp in Phoenix are definitely ones I see often with students, so there is a good chance it applies to you! This video was taken at one of my live bootcamps: www.toddvdating.com/coaching

  • @mr12aT

    @mr12aT

    Жыл бұрын

    👏

  • @chr1staki

    @chr1staki

    Жыл бұрын

    I like this style. First time I’ve seen you with your arms uncrossed 🙌

  • @Bloodcurling

    @Bloodcurling

    Жыл бұрын

    As long as this doesn't replace the standard videos, then this is a great addition

  • @scowlistic

    @scowlistic

    Жыл бұрын

    💥

  • @Roshea

    @Roshea

    Жыл бұрын

    I wish I had done a bootcamp/coaching back in 2014 during Todd’s old managements. The free tours & hotseats were godsend at the time. Phoenix is a fun town and a hotspot for some very beautiful young women compared to most of the east coast.

  • @MrAdversarie
    @MrAdversarie Жыл бұрын

    That’s what took my game to the next level is taking risks. It’s a mindset shift you have to consciously make. I went from sleeping with about 6 girls a year to like 30 just from making that small tweak. Women want you to lead them to the bedroom, it’s the burden you take on as a man. You can have the best verbal game but if you aren’t taking risks you’re not even in the game.

  • @oeckstei

    @oeckstei

    Жыл бұрын

    When taking a risk just feels like getting a cup of coffee then you’re doing it right. Practice !

  • @MrAdversarie

    @MrAdversarie

    Жыл бұрын

    @@oeckstei exactly brother, taking risks has to be the equivalent of just breathing. Because you have to get the job done

  • @brandonmiller2171

    @brandonmiller2171

    Жыл бұрын

    I would love to learn how to do this successfully and learn to be more sexual in my game with women and not be boring. I'm actually a twenty-seven-year-old virgin and I would love to use this as a way to lose my virginity and get more women attracted to me and get more dates throughout the week since I haven't gotten a single date on any of the three dating apps that I pay for every month.

  • @javilo2797

    @javilo2797

    6 ай бұрын

    What change?

  • @sauron9326
    @sauron9326 Жыл бұрын

    "basically you need to get to the point where you'd rather hear 'f**k off' than 'nice to meet you', because you have heard 'nice to meet you' too many damn times"... 👏👏

  • @morganlilly4527
    @morganlilly45279 ай бұрын

    As a woman I love watching videos like this lol. I feel bad men have to think so hard about how to get us. We really are complex beings 😂

  • @JM-rr3qw

    @JM-rr3qw

    3 ай бұрын

    I can see that you are keen to flatter yourself, but calm down, it's okay. Even girls suffer from social anxiety. And ugly girls have to put in more work than ugly guys. So let me rephrase it for you minus the sexism: humans can be complex beings.

  • @darkraft1020

    @darkraft1020

    3 ай бұрын

    Yea, even harder if you're a guy who is a bit on the spectrum.

  • @robertweaver9058

    @robertweaver9058

    2 ай бұрын

    Women are not complex just freaking insecure, emotional and constantly need male validation..

  • @ChicagoJ351
    @ChicagoJ351 Жыл бұрын

    Todd, anytime you can post videos of you coaching, that’s the best content In my view. It’s instructive and we don’t always need lots if technical details. Even if it’s just infield if you approaching and pointing out a simple concept to a student, that’s gold.

  • @dethangell117
    @dethangell117 Жыл бұрын

    I like the new video style, it shows you how you guys prepare before going to a new set, and its interesting to see the reactions of your students.

  • @abunchofiguanaswithinterne2186

    @abunchofiguanaswithinterne2186

    Жыл бұрын

    Was about to say the same thing, its also cool to see Todd teach differently when hes in state.

  • @OzHunter

    @OzHunter

    Жыл бұрын

    Seems like KZread has eased, this is how videos used to be in the 2015-2018 era.

  • @franbatista9062
    @franbatista9062 Жыл бұрын

    The mentality is everything in order to take risks confidently. Remember a month ago I approached 2 hottest girls in the club, where they were about to leave with some random dude. Just approached Guy first, then entered the Set, conveyed Value and the girls stayed, while the guy left. Ended up hooking up with the hottest one that night, and another night before she left the country. Mindset and taking risks is paramount to get what you want!

  • @arshie26
    @arshie26 Жыл бұрын

    LOVE the takeaway about taking risks! I feel like Todd's just kept on getting better game wise and coaching wise

  • @TheLimitlessExperience
    @TheLimitlessExperience Жыл бұрын

    Yessir ingame footage is always the best. Todd is one of the only ones left still doing this

  • @karantiwari9196
    @karantiwari9196 Жыл бұрын

    This video was awesome Todd. I was hooked from the first minute. More please!

  • @prashunpcchakraborty70
    @prashunpcchakraborty70 Жыл бұрын

    I think this is the most complete night game mindset video. Great stuff.

  • @xristoskostoulas9841
    @xristoskostoulas9841 Жыл бұрын

    So many lessons in such a short time Todd! Reallyyy nice job!!! Wish we have more of that

  • @Paul-yk7ds
    @Paul-yk7ds Жыл бұрын

    I truly feel like I'm watching an all-time great basketball coach or team captain talking to his players during time-outs

  • @dragonninja598000
    @dragonninja598000 Жыл бұрын

    Crazy video. Loving the new style of video.

  • @gs8777
    @gs8777 Жыл бұрын

    This style is fantastic.

  • @kaizoku9641
    @kaizoku9641 Жыл бұрын

    love the new video style! Thank you sir

  • @justinlemieux5189
    @justinlemieux5189 Жыл бұрын

    Yesterday I ran into a beautiful girl I used to work with 8 years younger than me (she's now 20) at a cafe, we gave each other a hug and went our own way to study/read, then a couch opened up and I said hey I'm going over here come sit with me when you're done (with a little grin), soon after that she did, she was a little shy and nervous but we were bantering back and forth and there was attraction, we made more small talk then she started hinting that she was available ("oh im home for break, ill be here for a while, i wish there was more to do, i love this area") and I just was like yeah it's a great area, I love going here and here have you been? - no no! I haven't been!... - oh... hey what are you doing tomorrow afternoon? there's this holiday thing I want to check out, you should come with me... - yeah okay! - cool I guess I can give you my number blah blah blah... she came over saw my place then I drove us, it was a great date, kept building attraction, very pretty girl used to being pretty and I just kept playing it cool, went back to my place and got physical and just kept leading the interaction where I wanted it to go and she let me, she liked teasing and giving some shit so I just would give it back like it didn't bother me... the point is that I could have just said it was great seeing you maybe we can hang out while you're home, or just did nothing and said goodbye, but I decided what I wanted and kept slowly moving my way towards that while not seeming too interested and making her come to me. I mean it also helped that we already knew each other from work but it was years since I last saw her and there is big age gap, but those are things I can either let hold me back as excuses or use them to my advantage. I feel like some of these few principles are almost all you need to have success in game. Taking risk also just shows confidence when it's delivered the right way like Todd said, most will respond positively and they want you to take that risk and you might have a few that just aren't feeling it... Playing to win, man you have to decide to go for it and get out of your head, the worst she can say is no and you're exactly where you were, the more risky thing is actually doing nothing if you think about it and doing nothing is a guaranteed loss. Todd is just such an expert at this that he can walk up any girl with the confidence that no matter what happens he's going to be fine, guys, you are the catch, you are the prize. You got this kings!

  • @Javasboi

    @Javasboi

    Жыл бұрын

    What happened? Did you close the deal and are you dating now?

  • @justinlemieux5189

    @justinlemieux5189

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Javasboi we hung out and had fun and stay in touch but she's still in school so it would be a long distance thing. Still meeting and connecting with lots!

  • @RhetoricalMuse
    @RhetoricalMuse Жыл бұрын

    I'm 42. I remember Todd from back in the day More like Yoda now.

  • @l80sman104
    @l80sman104 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely LOVE this video style!

  • @ZomBoyKilledIt
    @ZomBoyKilledIt Жыл бұрын

    Wow, this looks badass. It’s like I’m there with Todd. I’ve always been curious as to what happens on these immersions.

  • @Paul-yk7ds

    @Paul-yk7ds

    Жыл бұрын

    I think this is gonna really sell a lot more people on doing an immersion with Todd. Kinda makes me want to.

  • @ece-57-sumitkumarpandey80
    @ece-57-sumitkumarpandey80 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing video! I learned alot.. thanks todd

  • @bbking006
    @bbking006 Жыл бұрын

    Great video - this is exactly what I need to work on. You have to convince yourself that not trying is a greater failure than anything else.

  • @wrappedinblack8937
    @wrappedinblack8937 Жыл бұрын

    Todd's hair is so Nostalgic it reminds me of his hot seat in 2014

  • @abdul.arif2000
    @abdul.arif2000 Жыл бұрын

    2:35 I can’t decide whether I love you. I hate you is a dope line

  • @wilsonhemingway3635
    @wilsonhemingway3635 Жыл бұрын

    Ciao from Finland! The style of the video is dope af! ^^ I'm afraid now i'm more and more interested into some bootcamp stuff from this point of view this video gave me Been watching your videos for 2+ years now and you have made a significant improvement to my life :> As a sales coach i find the stuff you create simply inspiring. Learning the game, getting to be my best self, enjoying the company of the women i want and overall learning to be succesful in life is such a blast

  • @smorzys
    @smorzys Жыл бұрын

    I love this new video style, gives us an idea of what you do on a bootcamp

  • @greytoeimp
    @greytoeimp Жыл бұрын

    Love the format of this video. Very exciting and informative!

  • @ToddVDating

    @ToddVDating

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @scowlistic
    @scowlistic Жыл бұрын

    🐐Status confirmed.

  • @adibhutani9977
    @adibhutani9977 Жыл бұрын

    Felt like I was part of the group. Won’t mind this style of videos

  • @mystery3129
    @mystery3129 Жыл бұрын

    for some reason i find it really entertaining seeing todds eyes looking around screening for hot girls haha

  • @svenphil8879
    @svenphil8879 Жыл бұрын

    woo hoo some nightlife footage after ages, seems like Phoenix is lit

  • @danytalksmusic

    @danytalksmusic

    Жыл бұрын

    it's a dope place to meet girls. they're mostly laid back and friendly.

  • @joshspiker

    @joshspiker

    Жыл бұрын

    Eh, it used to be better. The girls are not laid back and friendly here; they're actually pretty stuck up. And it's actually Old Town Scottsdale in the video.

  • @SuperCoon88
    @SuperCoon88 Жыл бұрын

    Love this style of video. It feels like an useful link between theory “lecture” style vids and pure infield vids.

  • @ToddVDating

    @ToddVDating

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad you liked it!

  • @nickp3949
    @nickp3949 Жыл бұрын

    Bro…girl at work was showing big signs of interest. Even rubbed my arm while teasing me. I asked her out next time I saw her and I got an “oh I’m gonna be very busy, but I’ll let you know” kind of thing. Literally makes no sense.

  • @CoolGobyFish

    @CoolGobyFish

    Жыл бұрын

    makes perfect sense, lots of girls flirt because they are bored or just wanted attention

  • @Qdawwg

    @Qdawwg

    Жыл бұрын

    You escalated too quickly. Even if she thought she was using you, you can easily flip that around and get her to qualify to you. Or maybe it was genuine, either way you should have played the long game especially at work where she has consequences. You need to not ask if she wants to go out, but rather when are we going out because you are so sure of her answer before you even ask.

  • @polarbear3710

    @polarbear3710

    2 ай бұрын

    No don't ask her when you are going out. That's giving her power and frame control. You should have asked what are you doing this time or that time and if she says she's busy don't ask her out at those times. If she says nothing just say hey cool we can go do this or that then.

  • @thegibbehhh9430
    @thegibbehhh9430 Жыл бұрын

    Random question: What's the name of that black jacket you wear? Looking for something like that myself.

  • @Zsaqwes8
    @Zsaqwes8 Жыл бұрын

    On sort of the same topic can you make a video on being more decisive/bold?

  • @tonyg4058
    @tonyg4058 Жыл бұрын

    Is this Scottsdale Todd? I'm from the UK I went to Phoenix back in 2018 and I couldn't get enough of it for some reason haha. I have been watching Scottsdale and Tempe videos the last few days wanting to go back and now I see this, maybe it's a sign I should sign up to your bootcamp lol. I am actually half interested. Will you be doing another bootcamp there?

  • @ToddVDating

    @ToddVDating

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, it's on the schedule at: www.toddvdating.com/coaching

  • @aromero9243
    @aromero9243 Жыл бұрын

    That complicated chess scenario where you must take a high risk is called the queen's gambit. That's at least one scenario of many high risk moves 😉

  • @Roj871
    @Roj871 Жыл бұрын

    Todd da 🐐

  • @woodytaves5691
    @woodytaves5691 Жыл бұрын

    Great !

  • @snpz97x
    @snpz97x Жыл бұрын

    most valuable advise I've ever heard 11:41

  • @user-zm8gk6hv3y
    @user-zm8gk6hv3y Жыл бұрын

    Todd is the goat

  • @RS-wp5xs
    @RS-wp5xs Жыл бұрын

    I gotta know : where exactly is this kind of environment ? It looks like a club scene but they are outside yet there are people chilling outside the club. Did you just go to a club only to stay outside and approach the people coming in or out?

  • @TheTurmericTrail
    @TheTurmericTrail Жыл бұрын

    Todd, the last of the Mohicans

  • @rauln9273
    @rauln9273 Жыл бұрын

    Where is the video title 3 day method or something like that

  • @andrewjordan4811
    @andrewjordan4811 Жыл бұрын

    Goat

  • @Nacho-zj6pw
    @Nacho-zj6pw Жыл бұрын

    Great video man. Do you plan to add more content to VGA at some point?

  • @neilo8b
    @neilo8b Жыл бұрын

    Todd's on point ,celebrate the failure,builds character,leave your ego at home,sometimes I wish I was single,starting over again it's fun

  • @aymanhimself
    @aymanhimself Жыл бұрын

    Video looks old, am I right ?

  • @kendawg44
    @kendawg44 Жыл бұрын

    Todd out here looking like a 1990s wrestler.

  • @Colin_Lawlor_Audio
    @Colin_Lawlor_Audio2 ай бұрын

    Todd: "I am introverted" Also Todd: (Loudest person outside the bar even louder than the women shouting....)

  • @chr1staki
    @chr1staki Жыл бұрын

    Play to win 🏁 I like that

  • @gouravthakur8094
    @gouravthakur8094 Жыл бұрын

    There's this friend of mine, we've been VERY good friends for a very long time. Now I want to escalate, I don't just want to be her friend zoned 'close-friend' could you make a video on how to build intimacy with your your friend, it'll really help me

  • @Paul-yk7ds

    @Paul-yk7ds

    Жыл бұрын

    Search Todd V friendzone here on KZread and he's got a couple videos on topics like that.

  • @polarbear3710

    @polarbear3710

    2 ай бұрын

    Just start putting premise into it. Make it man to woman. Like say wow I just noticed how sexy you really are. But use a push pull and right after say but it could never work were just to good of friends. Then just drop it and keep talking about what ever you were talking about before. And just keep using push pulls with premise. Then you are going to have to start taking risks and escalate. I can't decide if I love you or hate you. Sometimes I think we would be great together other times I think it would never work because of this or that thing. Eye contact 90, 10. Move 90% for the kiss let her go the other 10. Start touching her in certain ways and gage her response

  • @gouravthakur8094

    @gouravthakur8094

    2 ай бұрын

    @@polarbear3710 It's been over a year already, and so many things have happened, I don't even remember the last time she crossed my mind until you posted this comment. Anyway, it was a great walk down memory lane, Thanks Stranger.

  • @polarbear3710

    @polarbear3710

    2 ай бұрын

    Well that's good advice for next time. I'd also suggest to you put them in the friends zone for real however do it with premise make it man to woman and just say things with a push pull. Like when you see her in something hot like you look sexy in that, to bad were such good friends we don't wanna mess that up. Or I'm not looking to be in a relationship with a woman I just want friends, however continue to flirt with her, and tease her as well. Keep watching Todd!!!

  • @stevenvicijan4338
    @stevenvicijan4338 Жыл бұрын

    At the Rising of the Sun

  • @cakeboss1721
    @cakeboss1721 Жыл бұрын

    It's literally middle game which is not being taught by any channels including this one . Is anyone else at the point where they can get numbers and attract them but then they flake?

  • @OzHunter

    @OzHunter

    Жыл бұрын

    It's just either building rapport or creating a massive FOMO via your social media. It really depends on your situation what's best though. if you are in town for the week, you should do high risk/high reward and volume. if you are playing home, you should focus on building a reputation in the venue. If it is the first part of the night, you'll likely get flaked as well.

  • @jeroenbauwens1986
    @jeroenbauwens1986 Жыл бұрын

    10:58 "No you're fine" am I crazy or was that a premise line for the waitress

  • @alejandrofrade325
    @alejandrofrade325 Жыл бұрын

    Make noises?

  • @Trump-A-Bad-MF

    @Trump-A-Bad-MF

    Жыл бұрын

    Fart noises*

  • @timgarrison8097
    @timgarrison8097 Жыл бұрын

    Those loud beeps super annoying for me. After a few of those in my ears I couldn't watch anymore

  • @mitotv6376
    @mitotv6376 Жыл бұрын

    Nice

  • @EmperorLVL999
    @EmperorLVL999 Жыл бұрын

    You should go on Fresh and Fit Podcast! They are very Pro Pickup! And they will help your bussiness!

  • @SuperSymbiote1
    @SuperSymbiote1 Жыл бұрын

    Return of the long hair

  • @ethanz3837
    @ethanz3837 Жыл бұрын

    Saying one thing is underrated. “You want to bang?” Or “you want to go out?” “You’re hot” whatever line is easiest for you. Just say one thing. It’s easier. Society tries to push us into polite small talk. Nobody really wants that. It’s a terrible pressure I’ve dealt with a lot. Don’t be respectable. Don’t be polite. Being afraid of approaching sex, the one topic you both want to talk about, is, I’m assuming, self-sabotage. Just be honest and direct. If you’re not smooth and clever, just say it all in one sentence at the beginning.

  • @ibrahimshehu8677
    @ibrahimshehu8677 Жыл бұрын

    I understand that nowdays you cannot say anything anymore, but censor "sex" is a bit extreme, don't you think Todd?

  • @chrisjfox8715

    @chrisjfox8715

    7 ай бұрын

    KZread monetization issues

  • @RuyLopezCUH
    @RuyLopezCUH Жыл бұрын

    👑

  • @ashog1426
    @ashog1426 Жыл бұрын

    Hes my pick up guru lol

  • @Ry4nWTF
    @Ry4nWTF Жыл бұрын

    Its funny, going all out, like risking it with a wild take or being more cexual, its a big plus. But what then? You're still stuck at the club with chcik. Do you then ask lets go back to my place or what do you do?

  • @chrisjfox8715

    @chrisjfox8715

    7 ай бұрын

    Keep pushing... Keep escalating the tension. Keep leading the interaction to the next place, whether it's some place else in the same club or some other club or somewhere else entirely. A girl agreeing to go elsewhere with you is a sign that she's willing to stick with you, but you can't know unless you ask/say so. Me personally, I'm not one for keeping the connection going in one place for too long. The sooner I can pull her elsewhere then out of wherever we are the better. Less need to drag out the encounter, more direct, shows you leading, and makes for meaningful feedback regarding how well she's responding to my lead.

  • @chrisjfox8715

    @chrisjfox8715

    7 ай бұрын

    Granted of course there can be friends and other distractions to deal with, but that's part of the whole point of trying to pull sooner than later. Not instantly necessarily..but sooner than later. To answer your specific question tho, I'm not a "let's go back to my place guy" as much as I am a "let's go" / "we should head over to xyz" kinda guy...then heading wherever the wind blows as we head in that direction

  • @MuhammadMusthakeem
    @MuhammadMusthakeemАй бұрын

    Focus on soul purification and you will automatic attract an alpha chaste keeper women for marriage when times comes. Don't waste time sinning through (PUA) it’s all fake deceptive and kills your spirit leaving you broken in the end. Research on quran and read it. God has revealed souls commandment for lasting happines. ✨

  • @bigboi4858
    @bigboi4858 Жыл бұрын

    W rizz

  • @Heeect00rrr

    @Heeect00rrr

    Жыл бұрын

    🤓

  • @toobalkain
    @toobalkain Жыл бұрын

    he's quite bold for a 50-year old chubby guy.

  • @mchammer3180
    @mchammer3180 Жыл бұрын

    todd v so old now its cringe seeing him game lol . sorry just being 1000

  • @ChicagoJ351

    @ChicagoJ351

    Жыл бұрын

    “Cringe” is just social conditioning. It may seem strange to you, but it isn’t to many other people. We can’t all live our lives worried about what other people think.

  • @mchammer3180

    @mchammer3180

    Жыл бұрын

    @@iyiyl ok damn i get no bitches lol

  • @user-zm8gk6hv3y

    @user-zm8gk6hv3y

    Жыл бұрын

    Think from first principles. Can Todd still close these girls? Absolutely. So his age is irrelevant

  • @mchammer3180

    @mchammer3180

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ChicagoJ351 to mainstream narrative its just uhhhh and frowned upon. blame on todays woke era

  • @TheActionTourist

    @TheActionTourist

    Жыл бұрын

    Who fucking cares tbh, assuming its even true

  • @erdal0
    @erdal020 күн бұрын

    grown men running behind girls like they are 16

  • @DickTracy978
    @DickTracy978 Жыл бұрын

    I look a lot better than Todd thanks for giving me my game

  • @DickTracy978
    @DickTracy978 Жыл бұрын

    I had a dream I went out last night it was great I was Todd’s wingman I always get 3 girls numbers everyday