The Science of Heartbreak

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Why is a 'broken heart' so painful?
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Written and created by Mitchell Moffit (twitter @mitchellmoffit) and Gregory Brown (twitter @whalewatchmeplz).
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Why Does Social Exclusion Hurt? The Relationship Between Social and Physical Pain
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The Broken Heart Syndrome
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  • @herbestt
    @herbestt8 жыл бұрын

    When you're heartbroken over someone who was never yours :(...

  • @tanrenxiang8274

    @tanrenxiang8274

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Dark Wolf same....... thats y im watching this video

  • @Sumi-e1999

    @Sumi-e1999

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Jordan parker Alright guys leave a space for me,im joining in

  • @lianoxortaroudia450

    @lianoxortaroudia450

    8 жыл бұрын

    ........its like meeting the man of my dreams.. and then meeting his beautiful wife..

  • @lumabuni

    @lumabuni

    8 жыл бұрын

    Literally what I'm dealing with right now

  • @lisajxn9613

    @lisajxn9613

    8 жыл бұрын

    Tell me abt it.. I've been liking this guy for 4 years and I can't put into words how hellish it has been

  • @christianfuentes4136
    @christianfuentes41367 жыл бұрын

    Seeing the person you love happy with someone else is the worst

  • @gringobingo471

    @gringobingo471

    5 жыл бұрын

    Your comment is so true that this happened to me today

  • @ronimand

    @ronimand

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@gringobingo471 gurl it happens to me everyday

  • @gringobingo471

    @gringobingo471

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@ronimand It hurts like hell sis 😪

  • @kipperthedog789

    @kipperthedog789

    5 жыл бұрын

    Christian Fuentes it hurts me too, but at the same time I feel happy for my crush.

  • @gottahglosumday2876

    @gottahglosumday2876

    5 жыл бұрын

    I felt that.... 😖💔

  • @cutieprincess431
    @cutieprincess4316 жыл бұрын

    I never realized how awful heart break was. After the breakup my heart was beating so fast and so "loud" for weeks. The first week, I couldn't even hear people at work because my ears were filled with the sound of my heart beating. I constantly felt like I was going to vomit or faint. I also could not eat. Food tasted like nothing. I could not sleep so I was also delirious and erratic. The crying and lack of food/water left me dehydrated.

  • @firstname5135

    @firstname5135

    5 жыл бұрын

    cutieprincess431 dude is that what it was , idk I was more deaf than usual like the whole world went silent or I shut myself off

  • @syndilm5418

    @syndilm5418

    5 жыл бұрын

    cutieprincess431 i feel you..

  • @ReasonablePerfection

    @ReasonablePerfection

    5 жыл бұрын

    I guess everyone who truly loved someone went thru this. Tell me how do you feel now after 1 year? Time can change such feelings, is it the case with you?

  • @fauxcommander

    @fauxcommander

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel like that right now and it feels like it’s never going to end

  • @Dontrolling

    @Dontrolling

    4 жыл бұрын

    When I was heartbroken all I could do was nothing but eat junk food yet I'm still 118lbs smh fast metabolism tingz

  • @mckenna4238
    @mckenna42387 жыл бұрын

    Who here went through heartbreak and is here in the comments, feeling better now knowing you are not the only one?

  • @meenakshirajesh7347

    @meenakshirajesh7347

    5 жыл бұрын

    McKenna Absolutely on point :)

  • @potatertots2060

    @potatertots2060

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @Moonlight-cu8tk

    @Moonlight-cu8tk

    4 жыл бұрын

    😞😔 I’m 18 and I’m still not feeling better at all 💔

  • @whodatgurl13

    @whodatgurl13

    4 жыл бұрын

    Meeeeee.

  • @lex2158

    @lex2158

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me...💔

  • @Soloworth
    @Soloworth7 жыл бұрын

    It's frustrating to hear "someone better" will come along when the person you lost is the best person you've ever met... and the only one you have any interest in spending time with. Nobody else even LOOKS attractive anymore.

  • @Shox2727

    @Shox2727

    7 жыл бұрын

    Soloworth I feel the same way I can't get her out of my head it's like I was waiting my whole life to meet her but it's all over now she moved away

  • @StermaPerma

    @StermaPerma

    7 жыл бұрын

    Natalie Soloworth I think it just takes time but someone will eventually make you feel love again.

  • @ravenroth9891

    @ravenroth9891

    7 жыл бұрын

    Natalie Soloworth... Are you mr or am I you? cause I feel the same way

  • @123imdead1

    @123imdead1

    7 жыл бұрын

    Natalie Soloworth yes. thank you. preach. this is exactly what im going through right now lol my friends trying to introduce me to new guys but honestly im not even interested anymore

  • @MsDeonder

    @MsDeonder

    7 жыл бұрын

    I feels you girl 😢

  • @Diaming787
    @Diaming7878 жыл бұрын

    Like me, sensitive people feel deeper love and deeper pain.

  • @serenity7185

    @serenity7185

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Diaming787 yeah dude, I get ya :( ;__;, and actually, I might recognize who you are from other comment Sections, but wheteves

  • @pires4641

    @pires4641

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Diaming787 Sometimes having a good heart can really turn on you....

  • @chancegarratt-dahan5213

    @chancegarratt-dahan5213

    8 жыл бұрын

    Yeah why do nice people always come in last

  • @statelesscaesar9682

    @statelesscaesar9682

    8 жыл бұрын

    Yes, we sure do...

  • @bubsbuhzero

    @bubsbuhzero

    8 жыл бұрын

    Amen, brother. Amen!

  • @dreck2103
    @dreck21035 жыл бұрын

    I’m so heart broken right now that I’m literally scared to fall in love and get attached to someone again.

  • @jja2094

    @jja2094

    5 жыл бұрын

    It’s like I want to fall in love again so I can get love back but yet it’s scary that it could be taken away again.

  • @lukeskywalkerjediknight2125

    @lukeskywalkerjediknight2125

    3 жыл бұрын

    DRECK same

  • @AmadeuShinChan

    @AmadeuShinChan

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yea f'ing mass-psyhosis going on or some sh' like that. Horrible

  • @dileepyellu

    @dileepyellu

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are you doing now.. it's been a couple of years..

  • @dreck2103

    @dreck2103

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@dileepyellu now I’m doing great I found the love of my life we been together for about 3 years now I guess you just gotta be patient and let that person come with time

  • @Lucy-to3iz
    @Lucy-to3iz7 жыл бұрын

    The part that hurts the most when you find out that they don't love you anymore ,leave you for someone else or even cheat on you. The part that hurts the most is when they promise you that they will never leave you, and love you till' the end.

  • @kenjaku_

    @kenjaku_

    6 жыл бұрын

    Agata Paszek happened to me today. She left me

  • @janiesfuneral

    @janiesfuneral

    5 жыл бұрын

    happened to me today. my whole body is hurting from this shit

  • @Lucy-to3iz

    @Lucy-to3iz

    4 жыл бұрын

    Just found my own comment 2 years later. Guess what happened again guys B)

  • @L490sr

    @L490sr

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nero again! Oh my :(

  • @lesleyrealit8422

    @lesleyrealit8422

    4 жыл бұрын

    😭😭

  • @osiris_blanche
    @osiris_blanche8 жыл бұрын

    Physical Pain *eventually* forgets. Emotional is forever.

  • @counterfeitfenty2414

    @counterfeitfenty2414

    7 жыл бұрын

    If my emotional pain was physical, I would've already died from my injuries.

  • @aaahah9931

    @aaahah9931

    7 жыл бұрын

    i would have died the most brutal my pets will always be in my heart curse cars

  • @alduindovah656

    @alduindovah656

    7 жыл бұрын

    Bullshit

  • @mayarshaheen4934

    @mayarshaheen4934

    7 жыл бұрын

    No no emotions only needs to be practiced and taken seriously

  • @yourmomsboyfriend3337

    @yourmomsboyfriend3337

    7 жыл бұрын

    Until you learn to love on or let it go. You're only hurting yourself, if someone leaves you, it was meant to be, someone better will come along

  • @zoesmith693
    @zoesmith6937 жыл бұрын

    I wonder how biology can explain the physical pain you feel in your chest when all you want to do is be with someone.

  • @FREDSPASSWORD

    @FREDSPASSWORD

    6 жыл бұрын

    fruit in all caps I wish it would stop

  • @beavinator420

    @beavinator420

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's adrenaline, fight or flight response because your life purpose to procreate is threatened

  • @angelicamiranda7525

    @angelicamiranda7525

    5 жыл бұрын

    PHAN

  • @bm6891

    @bm6891

    5 жыл бұрын

    PHANNNN

  • @nyct0phile

    @nyct0phile

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@beavinator420 What about depression or trauma? The feeling of being physically weighed down..where does that come from?

  • @bushdid911jetfuelcantmelts4
    @bushdid911jetfuelcantmelts44 жыл бұрын

    Sleep is the only escape I get from my heartbreak, but sometimes that doesn't even help because I'll see her in my dreams. EDIT: 4 years later it definitely gets easier haha; smoke weed, hit the gym, make money and hang out with your friends

  • @yaboitoast6425

    @yaboitoast6425

    4 жыл бұрын

    Never have I read something more true than that.

  • @mythiccwindow8307

    @mythiccwindow8307

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah it is the only time I can escape this painful existence

  • @lynxb8300

    @lynxb8300

    3 жыл бұрын

    same bruh

  • @williamsamy8072

    @williamsamy8072

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mythiccwindow8307 Do you want your ex back?. I know someone who can help you get your ex back

  • @magnoliaaaaaaw

    @magnoliaaaaaaw

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @aubreyprettyman6375
    @aubreyprettyman63756 жыл бұрын

    It's been over a year and just as I thought I was over it, I'm right back to the pain of realizing he will never choose to be with me.

  • @DannyM.D.N.A

    @DannyM.D.N.A

    2 жыл бұрын

    I fear this will be me! It’s been 5 weeks and they’ve been the worst weeks of my life ! I really do feel I’ll never be over this pain

  • @jinfin221

    @jinfin221

    2 жыл бұрын

    How's it now? After 4 years

  • @TigerwomanXsweden
    @TigerwomanXsweden8 жыл бұрын

    I wish I could stop crying...

  • @AwkwardHypernerd413

    @AwkwardHypernerd413

    8 жыл бұрын

    I wish I can stop the pain, the depression, the reoccurring memories...........

  • @spicynoodles8855

    @spicynoodles8855

    4 жыл бұрын

    TigerwomanXsweden ahhh me too

  • @chrisamaya9139

    @chrisamaya9139

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dont worry you will❤️

  • @phonossmith1310
    @phonossmith13108 жыл бұрын

    I was only 15 and I visited this girl nearly everyday. Her name was KZread

  • @marcuswhittie5807

    @marcuswhittie5807

    8 жыл бұрын

    lol

  • @phonossmith1310

    @phonossmith1310

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Yashfi Aariba dammit, I knew there had to at a billion other people she was seeing I KNEW IT!

  • @emmadavis2000

    @emmadavis2000

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Phonos Smith shes cheating on you with me

  • @infamouslyred5708

    @infamouslyred5708

    8 жыл бұрын

    SHES CHEATING WITH EVERYONE

  • @bunnniana

    @bunnniana

    8 жыл бұрын

    +InFamouslyRed so true

  • @user-nc1ow9zg5r
    @user-nc1ow9zg5r6 жыл бұрын

    I just recently had my heart broken. My first relationship, the first person I've ever loved in a romantic way, all of those memories are thrown away forever. I'll never be able to experience those memories with them again, things will never be the same between us even though we've agreed to stay friends. The absolute worst is hearing that "it's not you, it's me" when you know deep in your heart you could've done something to change the outcome, and to hear that person say "you'll find someone else" is heartbreaking because it feels like you were matched with the perfect person, and now they're gone forever

  • @WillyWankstain

    @WillyWankstain

    4 жыл бұрын

    ♥ ѕку ♥ the same exact thing happened to me just yesterday, she said she isn’t ready for a relationship, after 2 years of being together, I feel so distraught and confused and shocked and empty, everything feels like a nightmare, and I feel like I need to cry every second, even though I spent about 15 hours straight crying last night. If you don’t mind me asking, were you able to move on?

  • @Martin_xd69

    @Martin_xd69

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@WillyWankstain it happened to me, today

  • @WillyWankstain

    @WillyWankstain

    4 жыл бұрын

    Martin xD we may be hundred of miles away, but we share the same pain. Good luck to you man.

  • @unclesback8101

    @unclesback8101

    4 жыл бұрын

    I get what you feel like and yeah it hurts when you did nothing wrong and it’s ripped all away because of the other person then being told you’ll find someone else when you want to be with the person you were with before

  • @unclesback8101

    @unclesback8101

    4 жыл бұрын

    And I get that that makes people feel like shot

  • @hanarune4564
    @hanarune45645 жыл бұрын

    I'm not sure if anyone is still visiting this video, but if you do, I just want to wish you a happy 2019. Heartbreak is painful-may you have the strength to carry on. May the force be with you.

  • @adrianarreola7467
    @adrianarreola74677 жыл бұрын

    This comment section makes me wanna cry cause it's a saddening section. Hope all goes well for everyone out there

  • @kezbancomak3453

    @kezbancomak3453

    7 жыл бұрын

  • @iamstupidbut5043

    @iamstupidbut5043

    7 жыл бұрын

    Adrian Arreola no it won't get better

  • @mailife2875

    @mailife2875

    6 жыл бұрын

    *What I dislike is how the majority thinks everyone should get over getting hurt, especially guys, no way, I relish in it, I remember the pain everyday, I don't want to forget, I want to remember.* I'm focused, I'm excelling, and I have an understanding that what I want in a companion is a friend who will support(what I wanted at first, but that was in a traditional manner)me when I'm older, with no sexual constraints, while as I enjoy my prime womanizing as much as I can, relieving myself of the pain through each sexual encounter, in which I don't at all care about the person, and finding comfort in knowing I will never commit myself emotionally to anyone.

  • @jja2094

    @jja2094

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aww don’t give up. I was committed to someone and she left me. I would never do what she did to anyone ever.

  • @imsavage4859
    @imsavage48597 жыл бұрын

    "Surround yourself with friends" to combat the emotional pain. My closest friend just kissed my girl. I've never felt so low in my life. I feel beyond low..

  • @Asya008

    @Asya008

    7 жыл бұрын

    I'm Savage Ayy must indeed suck really bad. Keep being yourself and better time will come again!

  • @sparkatorch

    @sparkatorch

    7 жыл бұрын

    I'm Savage Dude i wish you the best.

  • @wcstevens7

    @wcstevens7

    7 жыл бұрын

    I'm Savage ..Life can be unbelievably cruel....and so can people.

  • @tonalddrump7225

    @tonalddrump7225

    7 жыл бұрын

    I'm Savage Dude i feel you my bro got together with my girl in October....he was like my brother... I can't stop thinking about her also...

  • @billybrandt355

    @billybrandt355

    6 жыл бұрын

    Solution: 3 sum

  • @pilotsthatpanic-1215
    @pilotsthatpanic-12156 жыл бұрын

    Heart break is like being stabbed in your stomach then kicked in the face 20 times, while being beaten with the metal part of a belt.

  • @madcowrebel4216

    @madcowrebel4216

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'd prefer that to what I feel right now.

  • @halfdanhjberg4540

    @halfdanhjberg4540

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@madcowrebel4216 same man

  • @sine9596

    @sine9596

    4 жыл бұрын

    29 stab wounds!!

  • @mythiccwindow8307

    @mythiccwindow8307

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s better

  • @pahriz

    @pahriz

    3 жыл бұрын

    If only it hurt that little...

  • @pradeepb6428
    @pradeepb64285 жыл бұрын

    I feel so better to know that I'm not the only one going through a Heartbreak. All of you are my brothers and sisters now

  • @JT-jd7sz
    @JT-jd7sz8 жыл бұрын

    *gets heartbroken* Normal people: cry with chocolate and netflix Me: looks it up on ASAP

  • @spiderflame04

    @spiderflame04

    6 жыл бұрын

    Replace Netflix with KZread(I’m broke) and I can be both people.

  • @alexyelado491

    @alexyelado491

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jenna Taylor normal people drink me

  • @pocariii3596

    @pocariii3596

    5 жыл бұрын

    signs you may be intp

  • @strawberiv2501

    @strawberiv2501

    5 жыл бұрын

    and me: *listen to sad songs and performance eating anxiety*

  • @sal4538

    @sal4538

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pocariii3596 lmao

  • @richbermudacp
    @richbermudacp7 жыл бұрын

    Anyone wanna come over to my house and cry with me?

  • @JerryxTC

    @JerryxTC

    7 жыл бұрын

    Fan Pop I'll be over in an hour

  • @avidominatestea411

    @avidominatestea411

    7 жыл бұрын

    Fan Pop I will come too 😩

  • @onlyangel152

    @onlyangel152

    7 жыл бұрын

    meeee

  • @bethxx1058

    @bethxx1058

    7 жыл бұрын

    Fan Pop whats your address?

  • @joeysalinas4987

    @joeysalinas4987

    7 жыл бұрын

    JerryxTC pick me up

  • @duartepereira2717
    @duartepereira27174 жыл бұрын

    This video: surround yourself with friends Me: Cries in quarentine cause of Covid-19

  • @cristinax7504
    @cristinax75045 жыл бұрын

    I'm done with having people around me, I'm done with talking about my feelings. Every time I thought I met someone good, I screw up, I'm not going to have another relationship or friendship. I'm done with those fake things. I'm tired of everything and everyone.

  • @henrylung3250
    @henrylung32508 жыл бұрын

    U cant surround urself with friends if u don't have any :/

  • @shawn01234567890

    @shawn01234567890

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Sunshine rose Girl come on you can't say that I'm sure you just need someone to open up themselves to you.

  • @snsdlover69

    @snsdlover69

    8 жыл бұрын

    Yoona snsd :)

  • @pyrokatarina

    @pyrokatarina

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Yoona A or ur family

  • @someone-ou3ht

    @someone-ou3ht

    6 жыл бұрын

    family is stronger bound

  • @lukeskywalkerjediknight2125

    @lukeskywalkerjediknight2125

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sunshine rose Girl lol

  • @stonecoldluv
    @stonecoldluv7 жыл бұрын

    my now ex boyfriend just left me 4 days ago and it hurts so much. we were best friends before we got together and now it hurts to look at him or think about him. i act fine around him and my friends but as soon as im alone im a wreck. love hurts dude.

  • @Coco-je3oc

    @Coco-je3oc

    6 жыл бұрын

    I feel you, the guy I like/had a thing with is dating this girl, while months ago he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship. But I can see he changed his mind now..

  • @alicksu571

    @alicksu571

    6 жыл бұрын

    Coco honestly I hate when people give another person an excuse like that. Just say it to their face and just end the pain and suffering for them in the long run.

  • @brookesweedar

    @brookesweedar

    6 жыл бұрын

    shoshanna boucher I hope things are better for you now

  • @williamsamy8072

    @williamsamy8072

    3 жыл бұрын

    Do you want your ex back?. I know someone who can help you get your ex back

  • @emmagustfas3753
    @emmagustfas37535 жыл бұрын

    Sending love to all the broken hearts out there in the world ❤️

  • @shea7618
    @shea76187 жыл бұрын

    its crazy how one person can make you feel like you lose everything.without him you feel like theres nothing in this world.thats im feeling rn

  • @stickytoastcrunch5500
    @stickytoastcrunch55007 жыл бұрын

    Me and my ex-bf broke up like 7months ago, but I still want to cry about it. He's the most amazing person I've ever met, and I just wish I never met him, so that it wouldn't be so painful

  • @pwincesshXxXtanz

    @pwincesshXxXtanz

    7 жыл бұрын

    Dark Cookie that's exactly how I feel

  • @ciarabegley11

    @ciarabegley11

    4 жыл бұрын

    for me it's been nine months, i remember the dates of our first date, when we met, when we broke up. Everything. it hurts so much and i hate everyone telling you to get over them when you cant. There's just something in you that won't let you do it. You can't forget the people you loved. Never.

  • @Assault_king

    @Assault_king

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ciarabegley11 help me

  • @kvlefr

    @kvlefr

    3 жыл бұрын

    same here

  • @soraflower9308
    @soraflower93087 жыл бұрын

    What if my ex is someone i want back more than anything? What if my ex is someone I love more than anything? What if I'd give it all up to hear him say "I love you" one last time?

  • @NotYourFri3nd

    @NotYourFri3nd

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sora Flower exactly what I’m going through

  • @dhruvikadhamija4265

    @dhruvikadhamija4265

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sora Flower I read in the acknowledgement part of a book this quote that said 'For (name) who loved me enough to let me go' and I never thought I'd be comforted right at the acknowledgements while reading a book. But it's true, if you really love them you have to let them go and if they come back, it was always meant to be. If they don't, accept it, and find consolation in everything else. Know that your heartbreak will teach you more about you and your life than being in love did and that's the silver lining even if you don't see it now.

  • @Manny29

    @Manny29

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sora Flower welcome to my world

  • @arjunriyal5515

    @arjunriyal5515

    5 жыл бұрын

    To get over something you have to move on then and there. No wanting him to say I love you one last time. Forget everything about that person then and there. There is no one last time when moving on is the correct thing.

  • @potatertots2060

    @potatertots2060

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same I’m gonna try to get him back even though he’s a douche

  • @ABCstockholm007
    @ABCstockholm0076 жыл бұрын

    I am heartbroken since my crush showed me I am not as special to him as he is to me... It hurts so much. I give him a lot but not receive much. 😔

  • @maggielou17
    @maggielou175 жыл бұрын

    The person I’ve loved since 6th grade just ghosted our whole relationship when it was better than ever. I feel like I’m dying.

  • @rocklover5259
    @rocklover52597 жыл бұрын

    why they pretend to love us just to cause us pain and leave ? I ll move on when I ll find the answer

  • @sick0delic639

    @sick0delic639

    6 жыл бұрын

    Because they’re ducking selfish

  • @manifestationhappiness705

    @manifestationhappiness705

    4 жыл бұрын

    Because deep down they came straight from the pits of hell

  • @mikoletea

    @mikoletea

    4 жыл бұрын

    they most likely have never experienced real love or nurture because their parents were negligent or not there at all

  • @mythiccwindow8307

    @mythiccwindow8307

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I get that feeling, I’m crying myself to sleep everyday just because they pretended to love me

  • @intheclear3492

    @intheclear3492

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same thing happened to me

  • @SouthCalifas619
    @SouthCalifas6199 жыл бұрын

    So if someone is a loner without friends or attention or affection and tries to find love but keeps getting played led on and heart broken do they die?

  • @lpsbelieve

    @lpsbelieve

    9 жыл бұрын

    Yup because they commited suicide of bullyness

  • @Tsinibor

    @Tsinibor

    9 жыл бұрын

    Lps SnowTV Not just suicide. They can be stressed out to the part they die of heart attack. It's most likely to happen to old people whose lifetime partner has died recently.

  • @SouthCalifas619

    @SouthCalifas619

    9 жыл бұрын

    Im gonna die then :/

  • @fishworshipper

    @fishworshipper

    9 жыл бұрын

    SouthCalifas619 Everyone dies, silly.

  • @throatsingking

    @throatsingking

    9 жыл бұрын

    SouthCalifas619 immune system will become weak. not having friends can be as damaging as smoking a pack of cigarettes a day.

  • @huanneflores1712
    @huanneflores17126 жыл бұрын

    After I was heartbroken a year ago, I was experiencing heart pain physically. My heart would actually heart a few times.

  • @flexonjackson8581
    @flexonjackson85817 күн бұрын

    ⁠I always forget what it really feels like and when it happens it’s like I lose any emotional intelligence I’ve ever had. Seeing other people give advice and talk about similar experiences really helps ground me and understand that they just weren’t the person for me no matter how much I may have loved them or wanted them to stay.

  • @iesitax
    @iesitax9 жыл бұрын

    "Surround yourself with friends and family" Error 404 :/

  • @acejohnson4665

    @acejohnson4665

    9 жыл бұрын

    Family: Not found Friends, confirmed: Not found.

  • @truepersian405

    @truepersian405

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Andrea while(!friendsFound()){ searchForFriends(); }

  • @issaduran5079

    @issaduran5079

    6 жыл бұрын

    Too true, too real. 💔

  • @pscraft1337

    @pscraft1337

    6 жыл бұрын

    same here 😢

  • @blackribbon4576

    @blackribbon4576

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aww😥

  • @linnjansson3737
    @linnjansson37378 жыл бұрын

    Is it normal to feel heartbroken from a friendship? I lost the first person who ever genuinely cared about me (except for family) after that I felt as though my heart was being ripped out, but I was never in love

  • @kadicat8903

    @kadicat8903

    8 жыл бұрын

    It's totally normal losing a friend in my opinion at least can sometimes hurt as much as a relationship heart break

  • @SarahDarkhand

    @SarahDarkhand

    8 жыл бұрын

    Yes, and friend breakups (at least for me) are 4 times as hard as boyfriend breakups

  • @AwkwardHypernerd413

    @AwkwardHypernerd413

    8 жыл бұрын

    All my friends are assholes, BEST FRIENDS HOWEVER........

  • @antoniaordenes9990

    @antoniaordenes9990

    8 жыл бұрын

    yeah today was my friends last day at my school and i cried my eyes out

  • @DiddyBohlen

    @DiddyBohlen

    7 жыл бұрын

    The cause for actual pain is that after something extreme either psychological or physical, the body is producing an immense amount of stress hormones which then can cause negative reactions to your heart. So a friendship can definitely be a cause for that. This syndrome is not related to any specific thing. It could even be the loss of something you value like a an object.

  • @0.1.feb.
    @0.1.feb.4 жыл бұрын

    If they really want you, they will still be with you. Everything else is just an excuse. Take a long break from dating. You'll need it.

  • @emilranfors4540

    @emilranfors4540

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks bro. Theres always a bro popping in with some truth.

  • @Tobzzzz_

    @Tobzzzz_

    10 ай бұрын

    I needed to see this. Thank you.

  • @ian9700
    @ian97006 жыл бұрын

    I was hurt so much because of the relationship, I keep smiling to the people around me even tho I was already DYING inside of me....

  • @brendanbrady1000
    @brendanbrady10009 жыл бұрын

    Christ, I miss her too much.

  • @nikolozpetelava7101

    @nikolozpetelava7101

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Brendan Brady i can relate...

  • @kingisaiah1560

    @kingisaiah1560

    8 жыл бұрын

    yeah...

  • @brendanbrady1000

    @brendanbrady1000

    8 жыл бұрын

    I think anyone that searches up 'The Science of Heartbreak' will relate.

  • @connorchin-quee9850

    @connorchin-quee9850

    8 жыл бұрын

    Everyone be happy! :) It will be alright. Things will get better:)

  • @brendanbrady1000

    @brendanbrady1000

    8 жыл бұрын

    ***** All relationships are doomed from the start, doesn't mean I'm not gonna enjoy the ride.

  • @josephBo
    @josephBo8 жыл бұрын

    Girlfriend just cheated on me... Worst part is knowing i'll feel this pain for a long time again. Physical pain is so much easier to cope with

  • @Kevin-mo5jw

    @Kevin-mo5jw

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Kai You I know how you feel dude, not going through this alone. Trust me.

  • @josephBo

    @josephBo

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Kevin Marroquin we'll make it bro.. Its just so painful but ive been through this before. thanks for replying

  • @Kevin-mo5jw

    @Kevin-mo5jw

    8 жыл бұрын

    Kai You i'm basically in the same situation. To put it simple I really love this one girl and she made me smile every day. We dated and stuff and eventually she was not interested anymore and decided to end it. I feel so lost without her and it sucks. It's very painful especially since it was the only real friend I had. I can't take my mind off it and whenever I try to it doesn't work. It'll pass I know, time heals everything. But I just wish I didn't feel like this. I miss being happy

  • @josephBo

    @josephBo

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Kevin Marroquin My girl would talk about marriage with me and tell me how she knows im her last boyfriend and that shes going to have a future with me. Now shes with another guy who she cheated on me with and her words are meaningless. I think about the time we first got back together after our first breakup and it was the happiest day of my life. that was only about a month and a half ago. My happiness is dead. its nonexistant now. I just want to be happy again.. Idk how i can ever trust somebody again..

  • @Kevin-mo5jw

    @Kevin-mo5jw

    8 жыл бұрын

    Kai You Damn dude, I know how it feels. The girl is moving and it hurts because you see her moving on and you staying and trying to get her back. I still love her, it's hard not to. Me and my girl talked about marriage too. I met her parents and her siblings and went to family reunions and her family loved me. My family knew her and she went to my family meetings. So it's hard as hell, even after a month of us being apart. I understand how you feel. It's hard for me because this was my first love and it's heartbreaking. We'll get better soon. Be strong dude, try to think about something else. There is someone out there better than her waiting for you, trust me.

  • @Anonymous_moniker
    @Anonymous_moniker6 жыл бұрын

    when i'm going through hard times or heartbreaks I prefer to be alone. It helps me get a better perspective of myself than me surrounded with people and ignoring the issue only to make it worse.

  • @pivotresearchfoundation
    @pivotresearchfoundation13 күн бұрын

    "Human beings would prefer to be inflicted with physical pain over feeling social occlusion." That is both profoundly sad, but also shows the beauty and importance of relationships of all kinds.

  • @Thespongeeguy
    @Thespongeeguy9 жыл бұрын

    I literally just felt really sad when i realised how lonely i am...

  • @brendametti7267

    @brendametti7267

    9 жыл бұрын

    Ur not :/

  • @workz780

    @workz780

    9 жыл бұрын

    I'll be your friend :)

  • @Thespongeeguy

    @Thespongeeguy

    9 жыл бұрын

    yay!

  • @diaz121799

    @diaz121799

    9 жыл бұрын

    Thespongeeguy You are not alone as ironic as it can be

  • @workz780

    @workz780

    9 жыл бұрын

    Hey spongeeguy. Hru holding you?? Just want to say hi and have a great day ahead Take care :)

  • @ceecee685
    @ceecee6857 жыл бұрын

    when my boyfriend passed away from cancer last year, it literally felt like my heart had been ripped out of my chest. I still can't believe the physical pain I felt, as if the emotional pain wasn't bad enough! when we met and fell in love I couldn't believe the feelings I had for him. I honestly didn't know love like ours existed until "we" happened. It was like we invented love. I miss him so much and seriously hope theirs an afterlife where he's waiting patiently for me when my time eventually comes. I'll love him until I die and beyond. Friday (March 3, 2017) will be one year without him. I LOVE YOU, P.T!!! 😢💖💩🏈🏂🎱🍷🍻🍍🌴🌅🐶🐱🐾🍀💖

  • @skyrup102

    @skyrup102

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear that, rest in peace to your fellow boyfriend. I hope you feel better, i know u cant erase the pain, make him happy by seeing u happy, I'm pretty sure he doesn't want to see u miserable. Take care for yourself, and pray cuz we all obey to God,who will surely get some of our things but return to us much more than what he took from us. Peace up :)

  • @drew8914

    @drew8914

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry and I hope you're feeling better. He's your angel now. When you said "it was like we invented love" it really hit the nail on the head for me.

  • @anajimenez8330

    @anajimenez8330

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry. Even though this is an old comment, it probably still hurts. That’s a really sad story... He will be always taking care of you up there❤️

  • @ClairvoyantDreams358

    @ClairvoyantDreams358

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cee Cee R.I.P. to your boyfriend,. I hope he’s in a good place now.

  • @max-iy2xf

    @max-iy2xf

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow loyal to the end you my friend deserve more likes

  • @mustasaiyajin2765
    @mustasaiyajin27655 жыл бұрын

    I was antisocial, but i tried to jump in love and find hope, but i got heartbroken :(

  • @jasonmaldonado9756
    @jasonmaldonado97567 жыл бұрын

    I'm going through something right now but seeing this helped. this emotional pain persists longer than physical pain, but any bit of social interaction helps a lot. Thank you for making this video.

  • @skyangel9884
    @skyangel98848 жыл бұрын

    It took me 2 years to get over an internet relationship.. What am I doing with life.. How am I going to live like this

  • @skyangel9884

    @skyangel9884

    8 жыл бұрын

    +IWatchWeirdVideos Yea.. I'm ok although I still remember him. Thanks for understanding. But I am in love again and soon to be in a relationship.. :)

  • @skyangel9884

    @skyangel9884

    8 жыл бұрын

    +AngelFlower nvm got freaking friendzoned. Fml bye

  • @skyangel9884

    @skyangel9884

    7 жыл бұрын

    +IWatchWeirdVideos thanks.. you too

  • @stephanihayes1517

    @stephanihayes1517

    7 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @kylerouce7924

    @kylerouce7924

    7 жыл бұрын

    Yeah me to it was 😭

  • @galaxysapphire
    @galaxysapphire7 жыл бұрын

    I found out the guy I loved for a year stopped loving me back one day. All feelings for me, gone. I was heartbroken. Couldn't eat. BUT now I'm eating and I'm moving on :). Thought I would marry that guy even. I was wrong...but the man I WILL marry is out there somewhere :).

  • @dreem1514

    @dreem1514

    7 жыл бұрын

    Sarina you just need to keep your ex's number for the rest of your life. Send them pictures of your hot future husband/wife (whatever your preferences are) and send them the middle finger emoji whenever you're angry. If they're too mental to recognize what they're missing out on, it's their fault. 🖕Screw 'em.

  • @seanmoloney7797

    @seanmoloney7797

    7 жыл бұрын

    Sarina W, it's hard, and it stinks. I'm still stinging and it's been a couple months. There's no miracle cure, and it gets worse before it gets better. Just try to keep moving forward. Do things you enjoy and focus on the positive things that you have. At some point it gets better. Hang in there.

  • @medea9715

    @medea9715

    7 жыл бұрын

    C.benson how can you think like this ? Im in pain. I dont want to love anymore.

  • @houaher4659

    @houaher4659

    7 жыл бұрын

    I have felt this pain before. When you loved someone so much, and one day it ends, your heart hurts, time feels like it stopped for a moment, and days feel so long. I too thought that things were going so well. My ex and I dated for almost 2 years. Eventually, you learn a lot from the break up. Word of advice, don't force yourself to be happy. If you do, you're really just hurting yourself even more. To be truly happy, you'd learn to move on and accept that everything happens for a reason. It will always be a lesson of learning. I am in another relationship now, but it took me a while to move on before getting into another relationship. You don't always need get into another relationship to be happy. It's always nice to bring positivity here. :) It may take time to move on, but you will soon learn to see what's better for yourself. Eventually you'll find someone new and maybe even be happier than the last relationship. If not, you can love yourself as in making sure to take care of your needs. Don't forget those around you that still care for you. Life goes on, and so do we.

  • @sick0delic639

    @sick0delic639

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mellough hi, how are you?

  • @Rachel-uq1bn
    @Rachel-uq1bn7 жыл бұрын

    I met the one but we were too young and messed up our relationship beyond repair... now 5 years later realised we would never be happy as a result, and agreed to break up I feel so lost ;-; how do you just move on after so many years ?

  • @TiffanyWestNyc

    @TiffanyWestNyc

    6 жыл бұрын

    Rachel same I'm going through it now it's hard worst pain I've ever felt

  • @soph5ie
    @soph5ie6 жыл бұрын

    I'm really heartbroken because the boy who "apparently" loved me has FEELINGS for his ex and has pretty much forgotten about me and I don't know what to do! I loved him tones oh well 😭💔

  • @anushkashrivastava25

    @anushkashrivastava25

    2 жыл бұрын

    EVEN MY STORY IS SIMILAR LIKE YOURS MY BF USED TO LOVE ME SO MUCH EVEN HE WAS EXTREMELY POSSESSIVE ABOUT ME BUT I SUDDENLY LEFT OUT FROM THE SCHOOL NOW I M GETTING HIS DATING RUMORS JUST FEELS SO BAD BECAUSE I LOVED HIM SO MUCH AND I WAS JUST SINGLE FOR HIM ONLY 😿😿🤮🤮

  • @tycarni
    @tycarni7 жыл бұрын

    I'm really really heart broken

  • @essaessa4615

    @essaessa4615

    7 жыл бұрын

    Nerdy_depressed_girl I'm here for you

  • @saraneguss125

    @saraneguss125

    7 жыл бұрын

    Nerdy_depressed_girl I feel you... It sucks...

  • @rallygeorgieva5476

    @rallygeorgieva5476

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same..

  • @manifestationhappiness705

    @manifestationhappiness705

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m in pieces I don’t know what to do

  • @williamsamy8072

    @williamsamy8072

    3 жыл бұрын

    Do you want your ex back?. I know someone who can help you get your ex back

  • @psychogrizzly9146
    @psychogrizzly91467 жыл бұрын

    why am I watching this I've never even had a relationship lol

  • @DanielJones-bj9fw

    @DanielJones-bj9fw

    7 жыл бұрын

    Lmfao thank you for this. I was in a really depressed state when I read this and started laughing. Still sad...but the laugh was needed

  • @psychogrizzly9146

    @psychogrizzly9146

    7 жыл бұрын

    +Daniel Jones aw glad I could help :))

  • @itzzzsss

    @itzzzsss

    7 жыл бұрын

    rejection after relationship maybe. mutual separation after ongoing feud is different

  • @fernandaaguirre9223

    @fernandaaguirre9223

    7 жыл бұрын

    Psycho Grizzly

  • @psychogrizzly9146

    @psychogrizzly9146

    7 жыл бұрын

    Fernanda Aguirre what about my channel name?

  • @simonalaniz1192
    @simonalaniz11923 жыл бұрын

    "Surround yourself with friends" Bold of you to assume I _have_ friends

  • @BigFatPandaaa

    @BigFatPandaaa

    3 жыл бұрын

    same T.T

  • @auwalidris4306

    @auwalidris4306

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello dear,I recommend you Dr Ezekiel,he was the one who help me restore my 6years broken relationship,he can make your ex come back to you, begging you for a second chance, Also Dr Ezekiel always keep to his promise,I will advice you seek his help, thanks.

  • @auwalidris4306

    @auwalidris4306

    2 жыл бұрын

    Message him on Whatsapp

  • @auwalidris4306

    @auwalidris4306

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2347054407388⏩⏩⏭⏭

  • @StopFear
    @StopFear3 жыл бұрын

    Around the time after I turned 30 I started to feel exactly what this video talks about. In the last I felt very defined emotional pain and physical pain. They were always separate and different. But when I started to experience some anxiety or having episodes of depression after my 30s I felt a very clear type of physical pain. It feels kind of like every muscle in your body at once hurts. Not as intensely as individual physical pain, but because it’s everywhere at once it feels very bad and severe.

  • @camisbeckk934

    @camisbeckk934

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @brookeblackmon7685
    @brookeblackmon76858 жыл бұрын

    What if you don't have any friends

  • @ibravosp5

    @ibravosp5

    7 жыл бұрын

    I don't even have a good enough family to connect myself with

  • @ibravosp5

    @ibravosp5

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ignoring the profile pic it's true

  • @Thtkoi

    @Thtkoi

    7 жыл бұрын

    I was going to say the same thing

  • @generalgoa6148

    @generalgoa6148

    7 жыл бұрын

    +IWatchWeirdVideos i have no friends and my family dont care about me what do i do then ?

  • @djuroslav782

    @djuroslav782

    7 жыл бұрын

    +IWatchWeirdVideos You sir,are awesome. Thanks

  • @randomtube8226
    @randomtube82267 жыл бұрын

    Im suffering emotionally, but I have no family and friends to turn to for support

  • @e.almanzar7640

    @e.almanzar7640

    7 жыл бұрын

    talk to me...

  • @randomtube8226

    @randomtube8226

    7 жыл бұрын

    Elizabeth Almanzar Hi, but how

  • @e.almanzar7640

    @e.almanzar7640

    7 жыл бұрын

    Eamail..

  • @nickgonzales8390

    @nickgonzales8390

    7 жыл бұрын

    Random Tube bro that sounds really terrible and what ever you do, do not give up on any cause you've been through that's saddening or on your life always fight for your life because your not alone so keep fighting no matter what OK and i really hope and believe that you'll have good family and friends sooner or later in life and don't worry your not the only one so keep on fighting no matter what OK peace love bro peace and I hope everything goes awesome for you. ;)

  • @atumhotep833

    @atumhotep833

    6 жыл бұрын

    Random Tube I support you. I am going through the same thing right now

  • @theevilempire6935
    @theevilempire69355 жыл бұрын

    When your heart drops that’s a deep feeling

  • @random1477
    @random14778 күн бұрын

    I thought I was okay, it's been 3 days no contact and he seems so fine, it makes me feel like he never cared about me in the first place

  • @Forrest911Gump
    @Forrest911Gump9 жыл бұрын

    I've liked a boy since kindergarten and we were great friends, I was about to tell him how I felt but he asked a girl to yesterday's dance as I was walking up to him. I thought i found true love. He was the only person that could really make me laugh and smile since my mom died. I could talk to him about anything and whenever he was sad he talked to me. I finally felt like I found someone who liked me.

  • @justachocolatechipcookie8508

    @justachocolatechipcookie8508

    9 жыл бұрын

    Awwwww that's so sad ;-; Maybe he is trying to make u jealous. Keep looking on the bright side :)

  • @tristanmoller9498

    @tristanmoller9498

    9 жыл бұрын

    Never forget! U meet every person for a reason!

  • @jademorgan3250

    @jademorgan3250

    9 жыл бұрын

    Awww I know how that feels but don't worry just tell him how you feel I told my crush that and now we're together:)

  • @kvbowfmfa225

    @kvbowfmfa225

    9 жыл бұрын

    Tell him how you feel. You'll be surprise at what might happened. Trust me.

  • @eljoshsfgaming6335

    @eljoshsfgaming6335

    9 жыл бұрын

    Maybe the other girl liked him also. Maybe she told him how she felt about him, just before you were going to. The thing about guys, is we are terrified of rejection. Especially in front of others. If you tell him how you feel, if he likes you back, he'll ask you out. Guys just don't want to get rejected especially in front of other people.

  • @mustaineforpresident
    @mustaineforpresident8 жыл бұрын

    Heartbroken. I still feel a lot of pain. Nobody will ever be like her, I hope we'll meet again. She promised. But for now, I'm under pills and social support. Damn, it's so painful.

  • @mustaineforpresident

    @mustaineforpresident

    8 жыл бұрын

    ProGames107 Thanks man

  • @gatoperson97

    @gatoperson97

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are you now?

  • @Cefon2121
    @Cefon21212 күн бұрын

    This is my first heartbreak and all I feel is numb like I can’t even cry

  • @cutekawaiiclay1107
    @cutekawaiiclay11076 жыл бұрын

    My aunt died not even a month ago very spontaneously. No one expected her to die, and she was young. One day after her funeral my uncle (his wife) died. We found out he had a broken heart, and literally couldn’t be alive without her.

  • @carsontroeh127
    @carsontroeh1278 жыл бұрын

    damn these comments are pretty hardcore

  • @risingstars3478

    @risingstars3478

    6 жыл бұрын

    Carson Troeh fr boi

  • @Sugarwuff
    @Sugarwuff8 жыл бұрын

    This explains why I have depression and anxiety, yay.

  • @snsdlover69

    @snsdlover69

    8 жыл бұрын

    I could relate

  • @Max-jp5dm

    @Max-jp5dm

    8 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @Sugarwuff

    @Sugarwuff

    8 жыл бұрын

    Astrus No need to comment then.

  • @Sugarwuff

    @Sugarwuff

    8 жыл бұрын

    Not really, people can agree if they think the same thing, and this is my own comment that you're commenting on, so yeah. Also, people could have also gotten a diagnosis from an actual doctor and also commented here, so it wouldn't be a self diagnosis.

  • @Sugarwuff

    @Sugarwuff

    8 жыл бұрын

    You can say what you want on your own comment out of someone else's thread.

  • @surbhirawat5199
    @surbhirawat51992 жыл бұрын

    To anyone going through a heartbreak. You deserve the world and you are perfect just the way you are. It may seem like this pain won't go away but trust me this too shall pass and you'll be your best self again, may be even better🥰🌸.

  • @blessingsakadu1918

    @blessingsakadu1918

    2 жыл бұрын

    ±2348102689570⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

  • @gregcarter2433

    @gregcarter2433

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate

  • @gregcarter2433

    @gregcarter2433

    2 жыл бұрын

    He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay

  • @gregcarter2433

    @gregcarter2433

    2 жыл бұрын

    Whtsaap him"**

  • @finisher6963
    @finisher6963 Жыл бұрын

    Neglected, stuck on homeschool, and I'm not allowed to hangout with friends unless my parents get to know them, they don't care enough to get to know them. Now I remember why I promised myself to not get into a relationship, and I shouldn't have broken that promise 💔

  • @MrsKoldun
    @MrsKoldun9 жыл бұрын

    I am suffering from a broken heart right now, and it is bad, really bad. He was the first person that I really loved, he was the one person I could talk to about anything in the world, he was the one person that made me finally understand the true meaning of love songs and romantic movies. Fullfilling his wishes and needs and making him happy was the best feeling in the world. Everything was perfect and it seemed like it was meant to be, but then he said he needed time to get his feelings straight because he never really had time to work through his break up with his former girlfriend. He broke up with here two weeks before met met. Yesterday I found out, that they are kind of working things out so they can get back together. I am miserable right now and I feel taken advantage of.

  • @ELdASenSei

    @ELdASenSei

    9 жыл бұрын

    Lane Moje I know how you feel. Know that you're not alone. When you're going through hell, keep going. You're not done yet.

  • @LexusFox

    @LexusFox

    8 жыл бұрын

    I understand, don't listen to the cliche and overrated "You're not alone, smile." phrases. Use your pain to become a powerhouse and eat everything that stands in your way.

  • @whitneyv9484

    @whitneyv9484

    5 жыл бұрын

    pretty much the same story for me. sorry you had to live that too, it sucks. some days are better than others :(

  • @kerlawliet9494

    @kerlawliet9494

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am probably replying too late but I am almost going through the same thing. I met this guy who broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years (they lived together for 3) a month before we met. I broke up with my ex too because I wasn't in love anymore (yeah, broke his heart too...) so when we met, it was pure attraction. We became friends with benefits and everything was good, but then we started spending time together and the months past. At the end we would meet and not even sleep together, we would do normal things like cooking, working out, going to the theater. And eventually we talked about it and we stated that I was going in the same direction, we were beginning to feel like we could at some point start a relationship but we wanted to wait. Then one day he comes to me and tells me that he can't be with me and give me a serious relationship right now, so he kept his distance for a week. Then he came back and we tried it again as before and then finally he admitted to me that he wanted to try it with his ex again. So puff.. Everything disappeared as if it were nothing. Aand I am so sad, we shared so many good things we laughed together all the time, we did stupid things together and I truly had hope... But he was just thinking about her this whole time....i just want the pain to be over

  • @jinfin221

    @jinfin221

    2 жыл бұрын

    And now??

  • @pfcking597
    @pfcking5979 жыл бұрын

    Its a shame, that moment in your life when you realise you are wasting the only time you have here alone. And you try to change that by trying to start living life, but you can't really find anyone to experience life with. Then your stuck at the beginning with the thought of wasted time in your head. The time in your life when you realise this is so tough.

  • @lanacastillo49

    @lanacastillo49

    9 жыл бұрын

    I know that feeling. It's like you're always on the outside looking in, wanting to fit in, to feel normal, to be part of something but just can never be so.

  • @adriandumitru9023
    @adriandumitru90234 жыл бұрын

    I started dating a girl, and I slowly fell in love with her, and I thought she felt the same, but yesterday, when I got home, I saw her instagram story ... she was kissing another guy GOD IT HURTS SO MUCH

  • @craig7405

    @craig7405

    3 жыл бұрын

    she belongs to the streets

  • @deeznuts8659

    @deeznuts8659

    2 жыл бұрын

    Don't even speak to her again, she doesn't deserve to hear your voice

  • @PlayboiiRiv222
    @PlayboiiRiv2222 жыл бұрын

    I always underestimated ppl who said heartbreaks were hard, yeah i’d already been through one but it was different It took me months to heal and I did but it didn’t hurt as much as this one. Every time i see this persons story or with their friends I get sick to my stomach , it hurts so bad I wanna cry but cant anymore it hurts so bad that my whole body aches. Heart breaks are incredibly hard and to this day those who get over it or find each other again and it works I admire bc it is hard going from all the time to nothing anymore and having that boundary of just friends. They always say if your friends with an ex you say you loved you either never rlly loved them or where deeply in love and tbh your first love will hurt bad bad. It hurts so bad I just wanna curl up and cry but I cant.

  • @faithvictor7160

    @faithvictor7160

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, get anyone you love or(SP)attracted to you and also get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second Chance through the help of Dr BEN, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship also Dr BEN always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks

  • @XLifeLongLearne
    @XLifeLongLearne10 жыл бұрын

    Losing someone hurts BUT it is necessary for progress.

  • @blueveins3238
    @blueveins32389 жыл бұрын

    I've never been in a romantic relationship in my entire life, but for some reason, I have this vague, lingering feeling. I watch tons of heartbreak-related music videos, and it engulfs hours of my day sometimes. It's so irritating, and so weird.

  • @juliopedrogasparetovigollo706

    @juliopedrogasparetovigollo706

    9 жыл бұрын

    check out Syd Matters - Obstacles (I really understand you)

  • @valerierapp8963

    @valerierapp8963

    9 жыл бұрын

    Lights Blade you can be happy with that.i would choose that,if i could.......my heart is broken,i can not stop crying right now and it is basically the worst feeling on earth.

  • @mizaramirez2513
    @mizaramirez25136 жыл бұрын

    To all the broken hearted people on here and in reality. All we want is to be loved and accepted. Through all the mistakes we make, through all the pain we go through. We must be there for one another no matter how alone we feel. Through heartbreak we are united to comfort those who are hurting because we are going through it with them.

  • @honeybunny9260
    @honeybunny92605 жыл бұрын

    I feel intense pain when I’m sad, and my parents gave my Cat to the spca recently and I feel so much pain. But I have no friends and my family isn’t their for me

  • @codelyoko363
    @codelyoko36310 жыл бұрын

    I think heart broken is the worse type of pain :(, how would I know this, well because everyone says its horrible and im heart broken right now :'(

  • @FingerAthLEET

    @FingerAthLEET

    10 жыл бұрын

    There, there. See, I'm socially supporting you. Feel better?

  • @DiogoSilva-xl3hv

    @DiogoSilva-xl3hv

    10 жыл бұрын

    FingerAthLEET lol

  • @naomi9742

    @naomi9742

    10 жыл бұрын

    FingerAthLEET awww that's very sweet of you!! lol :D

  • @deepikareddy9987

    @deepikareddy9987

    6 жыл бұрын

    I feel to diee but I can't..

  • @nathanjessup6263
    @nathanjessup62639 жыл бұрын

    I once heard that "You are able to close your eyes to the things you don't want to see, but you can't close your heart to the things you don't want to feel." Emotional pain hurts more than any physical injury you can fathom in this ever unfair world.

  • @djordjestojanovic2901
    @djordjestojanovic29016 жыл бұрын

    the feeling when you dont get a chance is killing me rn...

  • @Rawan-sl1ms
    @Rawan-sl1ms6 жыл бұрын

    My friend and I were watching this video together and the video said you will find it hard to survive and reproduce if you are alone and I was like you can't reproduce when you're alone

  • @gerrkofs7323
    @gerrkofs73237 жыл бұрын

    I found out my crush got a significant other already this morning I was crushed

  • @isaakisabel9517
    @isaakisabel95177 жыл бұрын

    Oh geez so many sad stories. Well guys don't worry, the people here'll help ya.

  • @wahmanwahman386
    @wahmanwahman3866 жыл бұрын

    the worst part is you still being heartbroken where as they just... move on knowing they lied to you.

  • @dreamlandosceola471
    @dreamlandosceola4715 жыл бұрын

    literally crying my heart out 10 minutes ago *sees this* Are they reading my mind?!

  • @seanmoloney7797
    @seanmoloney77977 жыл бұрын

    It's not cool that so many people feel like this, but it is nice to know I'm not alone in feeling like this. Hang in there everybody. We'll all get through it.

  • @thatbitch9983
    @thatbitch99838 жыл бұрын

    I cried watching this , my heart hurts so much

  • @gbinking5200
    @gbinking52004 жыл бұрын

    I confessed my love when they were in a bad time, it was my first time I gave my heart to someone, and they weren’t ready so they said “let’s stay friends” after dating for some time. I am crying, my heart is ripped, and I can’t do anything.

  • @kawaiilegend8609
    @kawaiilegend86096 жыл бұрын

    Hey, yesterday I went through a heartbreak and I have been experiencing heart pain since then. Emotionally I feel a lot better today but my heart still hurts. Is it getting dangerous or it will go with time?

  • @corzzabear9030
    @corzzabear90307 жыл бұрын

    its taking me 2 months so far to get over my ex I still feel for him...

  • @seza9240

    @seza9240

    6 жыл бұрын

    corzza bear shit it’s been a bit over a year and I’m still not over her...

  • @crazycracked3121

    @crazycracked3121

    6 жыл бұрын

    Its been 8 years and I'm not over my crush with my best friend who was there for me since childhood... Mostly cause he lives across the street and when I see someone i like my feelings don't leave....that and it hurts more he was my best friend that now rejects me in his life as soon as he found out

  • @Prince_ee

    @Prince_ee

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's a short time. You are lucky 😭

  • @mistermyron9174
    @mistermyron91748 жыл бұрын

    why does it have to hurt so much, when someone leaves you.

  • @Miss.Melody83

    @Miss.Melody83

    8 жыл бұрын

    Because no one likes rejection. That's all. You will heal though. It takes time.

  • @AwkwardHypernerd413

    @AwkwardHypernerd413

    8 жыл бұрын

    It takes a really long time though, so get comfortable, heh.........heh........... 😔

  • @jja2094

    @jja2094

    5 жыл бұрын

    Because you cared and put effort time and love into that person and then he or she betrays you.

  • @mickenzie19
    @mickenzie193 жыл бұрын

    Just feels like constant loss. Literally feels like my person died and I’m grieving their death, but they are very much alive.

  • @tessycarmen8095

    @tessycarmen8095

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Dear use Dr Greg to reunite back with your ex easily, I'm a testimony of how he restored back my broken relationship of 4 years by helping me to get back with my ex💝🌹💞♥️💕

  • @tessycarmen8095

    @tessycarmen8095

    3 жыл бұрын

    WhatsApp//...him

  • @tessycarmen8095

    @tessycarmen8095

    3 жыл бұрын

    ___+2::3::4::90::56::21::43::73

  • @arabianconjure8415

    @arabianconjure8415

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him

  • @arabianconjure8415

    @arabianconjure8415

    3 жыл бұрын

    Whtsaap him**

  • @hollowshore80
    @hollowshore804 жыл бұрын

    I’m crying every single night. I hate how much it hurts. When you love someone and they just leave and act like it wasn’t a big deal it makes me wanna kms. Every other girl I see doesn’t compare I don’t even care about looks anymore because I know they won’t make me as happy as she does.

  • @nicoleoracav3803

    @nicoleoracav3803

    4 жыл бұрын

    Falling in love with the wrong person- ;(

  • @hollowshore80

    @hollowshore80

    4 жыл бұрын

    Raven Purple 😢

  • @hollowshore80

    @hollowshore80

    4 жыл бұрын

    Braden A everyday for one year i tried to give my heart... but she doesnt even care. now shes dating someone else and they already broke up after 3 weeks. i supported her but i guess she doesnt even care.

  • @hollowshore80

    @hollowshore80

    4 жыл бұрын

    Braden A thank you... ill take the advice and apply it. but i really hope you find true love and someone thats willing to spend time with you... but as of right now we are fallen soldiers and we need to rise back up.

  • @BansariNaik
    @BansariNaik8 жыл бұрын

    being with friends and family= being more social = more chances of getting hurt by people = depression. instead of that.. try working on something which u love..I think that can help!

  • @NikolaiTedeschi4
    @NikolaiTedeschi49 жыл бұрын

    What if this reality is a dream and when we die we wake up?

  • @FlorianEagox

    @FlorianEagox

    9 жыл бұрын

    Well, I guess life is a Nightmare and Heaven is that mom waking you wen you are screaming after dream death

  • @christiansalomon4958

    @christiansalomon4958

    9 жыл бұрын

    matrix. o:

  • @anobodyfromnowhere8427

    @anobodyfromnowhere8427

    9 жыл бұрын

    Christian Salomon It has the concept of "INCEPTION" more than "MATRIX".......Well..i know that's what you think and every body thinks differently but just arguing with you cause i can....:)

  • @chrisw5139

    @chrisw5139

    9 жыл бұрын

    This is by far the best comment a video like this could ever hope to get.

  • @abinaya276

    @abinaya276

    6 жыл бұрын

    I've always thought that. My whole life, I've always believed that. It's amazing that someone else feels the same way.

  • @susigau8015
    @susigau80153 жыл бұрын

    Have you ever wanted to cry but no tears came out, so you just stare blankly into space while feeling your heart break into pieces?

  • @C280S
    @C280S2 жыл бұрын

    Heartbreak has to be real. I just lost my friend yesterday and my chest has been tight ever since i found out 😣 Life aint fair

  • @sadgamingcommunity1747
    @sadgamingcommunity17478 жыл бұрын

    2 year relationship, we talked everyday up until one day she started ignoring my messages and then 2 months later she had a new boyfriend... 💔

  • @akkez6314
    @akkez63147 жыл бұрын

    i have no friends and my cousin died today :(

  • @jasna1039

    @jasna1039

    7 жыл бұрын

    Humpty Dumbtee i am so sorry to hear that, everything will be okay💕

  • @Asya008

    @Asya008

    7 жыл бұрын

    Humpty Dumbtee Im so sorry to hear that, stay strong and seek support from loved ones! Take care

  • @babypandas806
    @babypandas8065 жыл бұрын

    My heart got ripped out of my chest when my crush told me no to not going out with me because he was in love with a close friend of mine. I still love and think about him every single day. It really does hurt seeing walk right past me just looking forward. Not noticing me. Not talking to me.

  • @insomnia9999
    @insomnia99994 жыл бұрын

    It’s like a painful pit in your stomach and an outer body experience

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