THE REALITY 12 || Why marry a divorcee??

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  • @gamerabossb1777
    @gamerabossb17777 ай бұрын

    7 years later... Both are still world-class. May Allah bless and reward them both.

  • @konstantinosskordos8645

    @konstantinosskordos8645

    6 ай бұрын

    world class>???meaning??

  • @gamerabossb1777

    @gamerabossb1777

    6 ай бұрын

    world-class (adjective) · worldclass (adjective) (of a person, thing, or activity) of or among the best in the world: "a world-class player" · "British science and technology is world class" @@konstantinosskordos8645

  • @AP-mv4yz
    @AP-mv4yz8 жыл бұрын

    Ali, I swear I am a single divorced mother of two children, and the tears steamed down my face when I watched this video. I truly make sincere dua for you Ali Dawah, may Allah Taala keep u on the siraatul mustaqeem, and may He bless you with a pious wonderful wife who is the coolness of ur eyes, and may He bless you both with pious offspring. And may the duas of your parents always be with you. You r such a sincere and caring and mature brother, your concern for the sisters is truly from the heart and we do appreciate it, only Allah can reward you online behalf.

  • @AliDawah

    @AliDawah

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Smap Petal Asalamu alaikum my dear sister May Allah swt grant you Jannah for your duas and kind words, all praises belong to Allah swt. May Allah swt make it easy for you in sha Allah be strong sister. ameeeeen

  • @shazalibnmushtaq444

    @shazalibnmushtaq444

    8 жыл бұрын

    May Allah make everything easy for you

  • @seta-san2149

    @seta-san2149

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Smap Petal have you ever considered dating outside your religion? it's clear that your religion doesn't actually want you. They have decided that you're used up trash. Despite what this guy is saying... no Muslim man will take you except as a man takes a hooker.

  • @shazalibnmushtaq444

    @shazalibnmushtaq444

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Seta-San Why should one always have dating in mind? For those who have greater purpose in life and value time and authority and position much, they get to marriage soon. And brother, don't you think it'll be difficult to marry someone Not of your religion. I mean, not just what the Qur'ān says but even life becomes difficult. TRULY, ISLAM MAKES LIFE OF BOTH THE WORLDS SMOOTHER

  • @seta-san2149

    @seta-san2149

    8 жыл бұрын

    how would you know? have you tried a different religion?

  • @hadjarmeftah1676
    @hadjarmeftah16763 жыл бұрын

    My first husband taunted my parents that nobody would want me after him because I was like damaged goods. The irony was that he was a divorcee himself when we married. After that Allah bought me someone better than him, younger than him, more educated than him. And this second time round, I was his first. Alhamdulilah all praise to Allah. I would advise all brothers to search for piety. Whether a maiden or a divorcee.

  • @rashid6437

    @rashid6437

    Жыл бұрын

    All praise is to Allah

  • @SaodatMahmud-qc5iw

    @SaodatMahmud-qc5iw

    4 ай бұрын

    Alhamdullillah ❤

  • @arabqueenofengland1527
    @arabqueenofengland15277 жыл бұрын

    this is new to me , I am divorced with children. I am crying all the way with this talk. Alhamdulliah nice people do exist😭

  • @unes7930

    @unes7930

    7 жыл бұрын

    Allah is with you don't worrie

  • @mounirartists7409

    @mounirartists7409

    5 жыл бұрын

    Arab Queen Of England don't worry my allah be with you it life you must know we have faith

  • @ikramikram9140

    @ikramikram9140

    3 жыл бұрын

    Marriage me

  • @CowvertedHindu.

    @CowvertedHindu.

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ikramikram9140 😂🤣🤣

  • @kutthroat2735

    @kutthroat2735

    11 ай бұрын

    @@ikramikram9140🤣🤣🤣

  • @hamdiharako1085
    @hamdiharako10858 жыл бұрын

    prophet Muhammad(salalaahu Aleyhi wa salim) was 25 years old when he got married to his wife khadija.She was 45 and divorced woman.

  • @SizShi

    @SizShi

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lacey Daley wrong. He kept Khadijah as his sole wife. After she died he had multiple....

  • @whathappenseveryday2024

    @whathappenseveryday2024

    5 жыл бұрын

    Every women is not khadija or aisha that's where a lot women of today's society get it wrong, but continue please...........

  • @DARTH-R3VAN

    @DARTH-R3VAN

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know I'm answering late but, Khadija RadhiyAllahu Anha was not divorced. Her previous husbands died.

  • @amirahabdi

    @amirahabdi

    3 жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately we don’t have nabi Mohamed s.a.w in our life time and men like him are rare

  • @najmaahmed530

    @najmaahmed530

    3 жыл бұрын

    Khadijah AS wasn’t a divorcee she was a widow

  • @muhammad180
    @muhammad1807 жыл бұрын

    Brother ayman looks very handsome mash'Allah but his character is even more beautiful. AlI also looks good and he has good character. May Allah give them and those who struggled in this dunya jannah

  • @alaaahmedahmed7473

    @alaaahmedahmed7473

    6 жыл бұрын

    Muhammad Salallahu Alayhe Wasalam Mashallh they both are cute

  • @danielleterry2783
    @danielleterry27838 жыл бұрын

    I'm a revert of 5years now alhamdullilah and a single parant, thank you akhi for your views it really made me happy listening to you. I am a soldier and this is my jihad. may alaah bless you for your videos and may he keep ur heart good.

  • @barabebe
    @barabebe8 жыл бұрын

    Masha'Allah, very true but for me my divorce was the best experience of my married life as I would have been on the road to hellfire if I still was married to him. Today I am much closer to my deen, I am raising my little one in a happier home environment as a single Muslim woman, I am myself teaching him how to pray and handling all of his needs with the help of Allah... I rather have the best husband in Jannah if it means to never get married in the dunya again...if it is Allah's will any woman who went through a divorce will remarry insha'Allah, regardless of culture or any dysfunctional belief. JZK

  • @Kedda486

    @Kedda486

    6 жыл бұрын

    Barakatou Kone alhamdulilah blessings to you sister ameen

  • @aminasharif5856

    @aminasharif5856

    5 жыл бұрын

    I agree he humiliated me in the entire city. Said nasty stuff about me he made me think I am crazy or I have jinn in me then he made me look like a liar a thief then he divorced me while I was pregnant.

  • @moodmeditation4458

    @moodmeditation4458

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@aminasharif5856 Typical and in the end they want sympathy and act like wives are not fulfilling what can we do with these drums with abnormal desires and rotten cores.

  • @cameroonbeauty4ever
    @cameroonbeauty4ever8 жыл бұрын

    aww the part he praises his wife!! mashaAllah :)

  • @fanforeversrk
    @fanforeversrk8 жыл бұрын

    His story of how he got stabbed is the most touching story ever, it will bring tears to the eyes. May Allah heal him and grand him and his wife jannah al firdosa.

  • @westyorkscharvah

    @westyorkscharvah

    10 ай бұрын

    Ameen

  • @mosaviola1178

    @mosaviola1178

    2 ай бұрын

    Aameen Yaa ALLAH

  • @Lavin.
    @Lavin.5 ай бұрын

    I am watcing this video in 2024 and wow has akhi ayman changed into a much more confident individual. so happy for him to see him now and watching his videos about islam motivate me to do whats right

  • @ikram2719
    @ikram27196 жыл бұрын

    I didn't think that guys like him still exist in this world.

  • @84khadijah
    @84khadijah7 жыл бұрын

    Asalamalaikom as a divorced revert sister with children. This video gave me a boost of confidence alhumdulilah. InshaAllah there's more brothers out there like these. Who accept and understand. Allahumma barik!! May Allah guide us all.

  • @jonnamjonnam1084

    @jonnamjonnam1084

    7 жыл бұрын

    Jody Boisson May Allah swt bless you sister.

  • @84khadijah

    @84khadijah

    7 жыл бұрын

    Jonnam Jonnam JazakumAllahu Khairan wa Allahumma barik 😊

  • @Islamis4all
    @Islamis4all5 жыл бұрын

    A marriage is more successful when both spouses love each other and they have the same lifestyle and similar ambitions.

  • @moodmeditation4458

    @moodmeditation4458

    3 жыл бұрын

    Right understanding is the key and both should be granted the same respect with no men superiority as if wives are to serve only. Both should focus on their roles women are burdened to carry both the roles just so she can stay safe with so called man beside her sucking on her.

  • @CowvertedHindu.

    @CowvertedHindu.

    Жыл бұрын

    Not always

  • @prizma45

    @prizma45

    5 ай бұрын

    a marriage is successful when the man is 10 inches taller than the girl

  • @nadinads9556
    @nadinads95568 жыл бұрын

    Jazak Allah Khair for this. I've written top scholars to talk on this matter but they have not. May Allah continue to guide and protect you all. Well said.

  • @ilikecookies6406
    @ilikecookies64068 жыл бұрын

    My right ear enjoyed this 👂

  • @CHEBOYKA

    @CHEBOYKA

    8 жыл бұрын

    My left one.

  • @alishbah090

    @alishbah090

    8 жыл бұрын

    StrongWOLF my left too ahahaha

  • @JustinCredible786

    @JustinCredible786

    8 жыл бұрын

    +StrongWOLF I thought it was raining but turned out it was the sound of my right headphone lol, but the sound came through my left ear too aha

  • @marym6823

    @marym6823

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Ilikecookies lol I kept taking out my headphones tinking theres summat wrong with em - my left one!

  • @babiemazzy5051

    @babiemazzy5051

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Mary M LMAO Same! and I have just bought these earphones, I thought great, been a few days and these earphones busted already. :')

  • @mohsj88
    @mohsj888 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree that inferior look of society towards divorcee's is stupid and we should put it aside. But one important thing is never get involved in a relationship or marry a person just because you feel pathetic for them and want to help them out or just to prove that your not racist for example . You should only marry a person that you like as a person and for her deen regardless if she's a divorcee or not . Pathetic relationships will be cold and won't last it's also part of looking down on the person .

  • @asifgoldmine228

    @asifgoldmine228

    8 жыл бұрын

    dw bro you'll find a wife relax

  • @asifgoldmine228

    @asifgoldmine228

    8 жыл бұрын

    sisters contact ur wali n holla at this don he's thirsty

  • @mariamwakeel2887

    @mariamwakeel2887

    8 жыл бұрын

    I agree and this is actually true .. Love a person for who he or she is and not their situation and condition

  • @firstnamelastname4427

    @firstnamelastname4427

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Asif Goldmine Lmao

  • @mohsj88

    @mohsj88

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Ayman Marwa Dude are you the brother in the video ? If you are then you 100% misunderstood me and i don't blame you for being angry , but i swear to god i wasn't talking about you neither your wife at all , i don't know your intention and i will never judge a person like that . I'm sorry for your misunderstanding, i was only speaking in GENERAL not about you , because i was afraid people may get ali dawahs words wrong by him encouraging marriage from a divorcee . You don't marry a divorcee or any other girl just because you want good deeds "ajr" out of her thinking your helping her out and looking down on her , thats not a type of relationship that would last , and obviously from the video you love your wife why would i judge you and get into your intentions? May allah forgive me and you bro .

  • @thamina25
    @thamina257 жыл бұрын

    For so long I've been angry at society, at my life and at the world for being a divorced Muslim woman. I've been living with the stigma for over nine years. This video gave me a new perspective on myself. Society was chipping away my self respect even though I know I done nothing wrong. After watching this I regained my self respect.

  • @wonderwoman7969

    @wonderwoman7969

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why mr Aweful are you a divorced woman?

  • @ikramikram9140

    @ikramikram9140

    3 жыл бұрын

    Remember you have kids u don't know the world wee live in full off child abusers this lot don't now sheet nobody is going to look at your child the same way as theres

  • @rashid6437

    @rashid6437

    Жыл бұрын

    @@wonderwoman7969 what kind of question is that?

  • @MohammedAli-ho3kf

    @MohammedAli-ho3kf

    7 ай бұрын

    Hi

  • @2020Wanderlust

    @2020Wanderlust

    5 ай бұрын

    Salam my sister, please do not EVER be ashamed of anything or let anyone make you feel that way . Allah knows what is best for us all. May Allah (SWT) keep you strong and close to him always inshallah 🤲🏽❤️🌻

  • @marosjl5781
    @marosjl57817 жыл бұрын

    Ali, May Allah swt grant you and your team Jannah in sha Allah . You guys have changed me as person so much in a very great way . Forever thankful to you all my brothers .

  • @cutemochi56218
    @cutemochi56218 Жыл бұрын

    This episode made me had tears. Jzk for speaking out for sisters like us. This means alot to me.

  • @johannaliceaga5936
    @johannaliceaga59368 жыл бұрын

    Ali dawah you have really changed a part of me with this video, you have noooo idea how important this video is to divorcee single mothers as myself!! may God reward you immensely for this I am in tears... I can never thank you enough for this video really...

  • @mdgfosho
    @mdgfosho8 жыл бұрын

    Subhanallah what an amazing couple. May Allah grant them both jannatul firdous!

  • @fatimxh

    @fatimxh

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Sundus ameen

  • @MsRamy92
    @MsRamy928 жыл бұрын

    Wow when he was talking about his health I realized that you never really know what people are going through. Be kind to one another.

  • @Monkiii2
    @Monkiii28 жыл бұрын

    I'm a revert, also a single mother who was never married, and even though I am not looking for a husband and I accept my current situation, it is pretty nice to see men like yourselves who would not mind marrying someone who is divorced and has a child. someone once told me that in order for me to find a husband I'd need to accomplish the unthinkable so I can be worthy, but I realized that marriage isn't for everyone and now that I think about it, maybe I gave up and closed my heart for a potential husband with the excuse that it's better off for me to be alone learning my religion on my own. Additionally, I would like to thank you for commenting on traditions that are mere cultural and not Islamic. I have not found a community which could teach me Islamic traditions and knowledge vs cultural traditions.

  • @912deborah

    @912deborah

    6 жыл бұрын

    Monkii marriage is apart of the sunnah . To say marriage is for everyone is a fallacy. Allah made Adam for eve and everything that exists has a pair. We are human and not made to live alone.

  • @Kedda486

    @Kedda486

    6 жыл бұрын

    Monkii allah will guide you please keep praying mashallah

  • @anisoibrahim5279

    @anisoibrahim5279

    5 жыл бұрын

    That’s true allah said in surah عم وخلقناكم از واجا please sister keep that in mind remember prophet Muhammad’s scw that get married at the age of 25 so don’t think just that marriage has been late for it don’t mean that no one wants to get married to you

  • @mohamedsidi5097

    @mohamedsidi5097

    Жыл бұрын

    Monkil I would encourage to delete the part where you stated " I am not looking for a husband". Marriage is Sunnah and be optimistic about marriage as a muslim. It protects your from every evil in this society. I am divorced but I still value marriage as it will open me furthers doors in terms of my imaan.

  • @sijoka2008
    @sijoka20088 жыл бұрын

    Masha'Allah brother. You are so brave to make this video about this sensitive subject. It's refreshing to see two young brothers talking so beautifully. This is very personal to me. I am revert to this beautiful deen. I am 45 years old. It has been so difficult. I take this as a test from Allah. I did marry 2 brothers that treat me as such :(. So yes I am that divorcee :(. Now I am traumatized. I am so very scared even to get confronted by a brother for marriage. I ask Allah swt for wisdom , peace of mind and clarity insha'Allah. I know Allah swt is with me and that's all that matters. Great video brother. Allah bless you both ameen.

  • @keamoussaoui13
    @keamoussaoui138 жыл бұрын

    ÄsalamuÄelaiköm I wish more brothers would hear this. Especially the color part... I'm a black, divorced, mother of 4 and I swear brothers speak to me like I'm a prostitute. Like I'm a lowly street hustler... I'm a Muslim revert and I feel like wow what makes you think I want or need to give you sex to only get married? This is a very sick, demented, twisted, evil form of nafs. To all my sister's going through this, hold your head up. Ąlläh swt knows our struggle.

  • @hawagiwa4283

    @hawagiwa4283

    8 жыл бұрын

    Where u from sis?

  • @keamoussaoui13

    @keamoussaoui13

    8 жыл бұрын

    I'm African American what about you?

  • @keamoussaoui13

    @keamoussaoui13

    8 жыл бұрын

    +salman yusuf thank you... NshąĄllah my situation will get better

  • @keamoussaoui13

    @keamoussaoui13

    8 жыл бұрын

    +salman yusuf what race are you, no man should have a hard time marrying a good sister... Most divorced sisters come with a family, divorced men do not. The UK is great for variety of cultures. MashaAllah I love it.

  • @keamoussaoui13

    @keamoussaoui13

    8 жыл бұрын

    +salman yusuf wow I'm so sorry to hear your also a divorcee, but I'm glad you're happy. NshąĄllah may Ąlläh provide you with immense wealth. Caribbean ohhh wow, my step dad is from the Bahamas love it!

  • @Ayubyboss
    @Ayubyboss8 жыл бұрын

    The guy on the right is beard goals ما شاء الله

  • @bluegem1928

    @bluegem1928

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @katerinaarif1053
    @katerinaarif10537 жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah I was able to meet sister Marwa (the wife of brother Ayman) on a piknik for sisters and brother Ayman is completely right. Sister Marwa is real gem ❤️ May Allah always guide them, ease their health conditions and grant them Jannat ul Firdaus

  • @swafaasalim9802

    @swafaasalim9802

    3 жыл бұрын

    SubhanAllah my name is Marwaa too.. may Allah Grant him en his wife Jannah

  • @zarinamalik1010
    @zarinamalik10105 жыл бұрын

    Assalaam o alekum I cried watching this because I am a single mum and because of family I have to remain silent about my feelings in regards to finding a husband. I just focus on my kids, my Namaz and make Dua to Allah Taalah .... Ameen. He knows best 😊 💚

  • @CowvertedHindu.

    @CowvertedHindu.

    Жыл бұрын

    Are you married now?

  • @Jb-ws9je

    @Jb-ws9je

    Жыл бұрын

    😢💔

  • @MohammedAli-ho3kf

    @MohammedAli-ho3kf

    7 ай бұрын

    Mashalla

  • @MohammedAli-ho3kf

    @MohammedAli-ho3kf

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@CowvertedHindu.5:47

  • @husseinibra6039
    @husseinibra60398 жыл бұрын

    Ali Dawaah my favorite, keep up the the good job and May Allah give you shifa in sha Allah

  • @liyasamat2447
    @liyasamat24476 жыл бұрын

    I'm a single mother..I'm crying while watching this

  • @yumchi09
    @yumchi096 жыл бұрын

    Subhan Allah the way the brother described his wife's skin tone was so sweet masha Allah :)

  • @LaLa-qn6gk
    @LaLa-qn6gk6 жыл бұрын

    Masha'Allah, we divorced sisters with child/children, need more brothers like you. May Allah swt bless you.

  • @hs-freepalestine
    @hs-freepalestine8 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah... very inspiring person (brother Ali) Jazakallah :)

  • @afiabegumahmed4794
    @afiabegumahmed47948 жыл бұрын

    Subhan'Allah Brother. Ja'zak'Allah khair for backing up women like us. may dua will always be with u from now. Honestly made me cry today...Ja'zak'Allah khair brothers!

  • @CowvertedHindu.

    @CowvertedHindu.

    Жыл бұрын

    Assalamualaikum

  • @Aliwiinter
    @Aliwiinter4 жыл бұрын

    Masha'Allah! Subhan'Allah Alhamdulillah Allahu akbar, this is a great advice and reminder for those who are arrogants and ignorants. May Allah swt protect and bless you all brothers!

  • @moeas2467
    @moeas24678 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah may Allah reward you both for this video. I was divorced once, I appreciate everything you said in this video. Jazak allah alf khair

  • @mariamwakeel2887
    @mariamwakeel28878 жыл бұрын

    very touching story .. I seriously enjoyed every second .. May Allah guide this Ummah to the straight path and thought too ! keep the greatness up :)

  • @zaraiqbalbw

    @zaraiqbalbw

    8 жыл бұрын

    Inshallah

  • @ChamakbyH
    @ChamakbyH7 жыл бұрын

    What u said about men saying they might marry you as a second really hit me! Been there, heard that, and it kills until this day. More than being a divorcee with 3 kids i think those words caused more pain. Love this video. May Allah Bless You

  • @MrSbhussain

    @MrSbhussain

    6 жыл бұрын

    sisters would rather stay single with 3 kids than have halal relationship that could help other sisters out too, unless its for a full scale marriage!

  • @seangaw6429
    @seangaw64295 жыл бұрын

    Brother Ali your follwers are increasing everyday. This is Allah's blessings coming to your way due to your justified heart warmning view and truthfulness. Love from Toronto Canada. May Allah bless you.

  • @nadiramartinez4351
    @nadiramartinez43518 жыл бұрын

    Ma sha Allah ! It reaches the bottom of my heart :)

  • @shortmaster101
    @shortmaster1019 ай бұрын

    This is what it looks like when someone is sincerely listening to you❤❤ pure love

  • @diamondsweetful1
    @diamondsweetful18 жыл бұрын

    I personally don't even like culture . I like the food culture but the moral culture towards people of different race, class makes me sick .

  • @kingkatiin2658

    @kingkatiin2658

    5 жыл бұрын

    It is kinda haram too lol

  • @danceillusions13

    @danceillusions13

    3 жыл бұрын

    I like food culture 😂💚

  • @kingkatiin2658

    @kingkatiin2658

    3 жыл бұрын

    @I.Am. Abd She was describing racism and I was just saying her not liking should be the standard cause racism is Haram and we should dislike the Haram

  • @user-nt7ts7ct5y
    @user-nt7ts7ct5y7 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah.. 😊👍 Alhamdulillah for everything.. ☺ The way he is talking about his wife.. mashaAllah 😢😍😍

  • @shafiq154
    @shafiq1548 жыл бұрын

    My wife is going to leave me with two kids after 10 years of marriage !!!!! 😢please pray for me to find a divorcee cos I wanna live and spend rest of my life with complete deen inshaa-Allah, thanks for clip.

  • @somaliyahh

    @somaliyahh

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mohamad Sekandar what did you do

  • @alidasher

    @alidasher

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@somaliyahh why does it have to be something he did? this mentality is rotten. a woman or man can be at fault. It is not always that a man is at fault.

  • @somaliyahh

    @somaliyahh

    5 жыл бұрын

    alidasher Most women don’t go around leaving their husband of 10 years. They’re most likely to stick out and stay in a toxic relationship, if not for anything else but for the sake of their children. This is not to say women can’t be at fault but it is unlikely, especially in Muslim households. So I ask again, what did you do?

  • @alidasher

    @alidasher

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@somaliyahh do you know most women? I could sit here and say most women are reason for toxic relationships as well and men stick it out for sake of kids but that would be wrong. Please we need to stop with assumptions and asking questions where you already held someone guilty because of their gender. You could've just asked him what happened instead of your line of questioning. There is a reason he hasn't responded to you in all this time.

  • @whathappenseveryday2024

    @whathappenseveryday2024

    5 жыл бұрын

    Shafiq your wife soon to be your ex... in few years she will be watching this video getting all kinds of emotions about the hash reality.

  • @UmmSakinahJamilah
    @UmmSakinahJamilah6 жыл бұрын

    As salamu alaikum dear brothers, your clip made my heart melt. I'm a divorcee with 2 Kids (and a revert) and I'm treated, especially by muslims, like damaged goods. Most of the ppl I meet they want a divorcee and even less when I mention my beautiful kids. SubhanAllah, that makes me very sad. I didn't expect that by "so called" muslims. But Allah knows best. May Allah grant you Jannah...Jazak Allah kheiran.

  • @dali338

    @dali338

    5 жыл бұрын

    N M may Allah swt give you the righteous spouse

  • @mechtron2544

    @mechtron2544

    5 жыл бұрын

    May Allah bring a deserving husband into ur life. Im a divorcee too. I got divorced 6months into my marriage. I dont think i will ever marry ever again. Because im too scared nd ofcourse because of what everyone thinks of me as. Allah knows whats in my heart. My divorce has given me a different kind of purpose in my life. Im thankful fr that

  • @Theshowoffcollector

    @Theshowoffcollector

    5 жыл бұрын

    You can't make takfir on them just because they don't want to marry a widow hahaha

  • @reezis1619

    @reezis1619

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mechtron2544 Why did you divorce?

  • @naimaabdul2030
    @naimaabdul20303 жыл бұрын

    I saw brother ayman’s video as i was scrolling thru youtube i rem crying so hard that my family thought i was having problems from that day on u became a big fan of the brother .may Allah bless you abundantly ❤️😭🙏

  • @safurafathimaquadri
    @safurafathimaquadri8 ай бұрын

    Akhi ayman such a simple, soft, kind person, may Allah bless you bro and give u a quick recovery from whatever u are going through ❣️❣️❣️❣️

  • @pennyaa2
    @pennyaa28 жыл бұрын

    Subhan Allah I'm glad you spoke on this and may Allah reward you both ameen. My husband married me even though I am older and a divorcee as well.

  • @zainabadeyemi5264
    @zainabadeyemi52648 жыл бұрын

    my mums divorced i needed dis thanx

  • @IbnSaifi
    @IbnSaifi8 жыл бұрын

    This was my grandmother. Divorced, she brought up my father and his 3 siblings single handedly and did it with such success Allah yer7amha. My father is a better man for not having his own father growing up al7emdulillah 3la kol 7aal and I wish I could be half the man he is today. May Allah grant him jannatul firdaws and insha Allah one day be united with his beloved mother, mother of 4, grandmother of 9. A great jihad indeed. May Allah reward all single mothers around the world. Jannah is beneath their feet.

  • @human_being99_3
    @human_being99_38 ай бұрын

    May Allah reward you abundantly for talking about this it was eye opening to me 💚

  • @AAMKH488
    @AAMKH488 Жыл бұрын

    Walahi brother Ali Dawah I misjudged you before. This video and your sincere genuine concern for the sisters is truly a breath of fresh air. When divorcees and single mums are teared down left right and centre from our brothers you come up with this heartwarming video about marrying divorcees

  • @lisal440
    @lisal4404 жыл бұрын

    May Allah reward you guys for speaking the TRUTH!!!! Men need MEN to speak up and say the obvious because no matter how many women speak they don’t listen!!! JazakhAllah khair!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tracywade2652
    @tracywade26526 жыл бұрын

    Thank Allah for you to share your life story with us. Alhamdulilah I'm praying for you and your family. Alhamdulilah

  • @mummylina
    @mummylina7 жыл бұрын

    As a single mother of 4, I was thinking about alot of issues you have raised in this video just the other week. I was listening to the stories of our mother Khadijah r.a and thought SubhanaAllah. It's really sad- we facing the same problems in Aus. The things ppl think you'll do just cause you are a divorcee is really sad as well. May Allah keep us steadfast and guide us back to the pure teachings of Islam. May we live our life by our great examples. آمين يارب العالمين

  • @user-eb7dm6ti3m

    @user-eb7dm6ti3m

    9 ай бұрын

    HI HOW YOU IM A SINGLE MUSLIM MALE WOULD YOU LIKE TO CONNECT

  • @dulcebombon007
    @dulcebombon0076 жыл бұрын

    MashAllah.....May Allah swt continue to bless us with amazing spouses....In Shaa Allah...and may Allah swt..also continue to bless you with a wife who you will guide you to jannah...In Shaa Allah....

  • @shamzf1116
    @shamzf11168 жыл бұрын

    i love you alo dawah, your videos inspire me so much, i am watching them everyday and benefit from them everyday, allahamdulliah..

  • @hannak6460
    @hannak64608 жыл бұрын

    Thank God I'm Somali, this taboo prevalent in South Asian and Arab communities doesn't exist within the Somali culture. We have a saying that says "silac ku nool, sodaan jir guurso baa ka roon." which translates as "Living in oppression? The one who marries 30 men is better off."

  • @SudaneseChamp
    @SudaneseChamp3 жыл бұрын

    advantage of marrying someone divorced is that they won't have that expectation of having this perfect Instagram marriage.

  • @soubermed2175

    @soubermed2175

    7 ай бұрын

    Not all divorced women are sunshine and rainbows, BTW, for she or her ex-husband divorced for a reason. So I would look at what leat to that, if it wasn't her fault then no problem however if she had part in it then mate why would I set my self for failure. Marrying a divorced woman, there is always some trauma that comes with it.

  • @SamaraTrollero
    @SamaraTrollero8 жыл бұрын

    The sahaba would die to marry a divorcee? They would put their life on the line only on the battlefield and to protect the Prophet (peace be upon him)... Just be careful of overdoing it.

  • @lailamuller3006
    @lailamuller30066 жыл бұрын

    SubahanAllah. What brilliant gentlemen. May Allah reward you both...

  • @UndercoverHijabi
    @UndercoverHijabi8 жыл бұрын

    This akhi is inspiration! 👌🏽

  • @maryammonroy1435
    @maryammonroy14353 жыл бұрын

    All the man should follow the steps of our profet peace be upon him, he was the best man ever 🥰

  • @strivingsister1784
    @strivingsister17848 жыл бұрын

    I ask Allah SWT to cure you brother Ayman and may Allah Bless your marriage, you are inspiration. Your video made me and my sister cry. Brother Ali and your team may Allah reward you for what you do Amiin.

  • @Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
    @Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Жыл бұрын

    This was absolutely beautiful ma sha Allah allahumma baarik

  • @wonderingstar29
    @wonderingstar296 жыл бұрын

    Your a good man! May Allah bless your marriage abundantly!!

  • @tracywade2652
    @tracywade26526 жыл бұрын

    Inshaallah it's not easy but Allah give us the strength to keep moving on. I'm divorce and alot of men mistreat us and treat us like we are nothing to them. It's very hurtful. I'm dealing with chronic pain in my body but before when I was working people use me to help them but now no one wants to be with me because of this issue. But I trust Allah to keep guiding me and I'm patient and I know Allah will bring someone that will love me and treat me the right way. Alhamdulilah I'm so happy that Allah has bless you with a wife that will love you for you and help you to grow in the way Allah will bless you both. Alhamdulilah

  • @terintiaflavius3349
    @terintiaflavius33495 ай бұрын

    My ex husband was a drunk who tried to kill me several times. I have a scar on my palm from where i was cut holding a knife back from my throat. The stigma is real, i wish people would get to know the divorcee before judging. Allah does not want us to be tortured and abused.

  • @ghostwriter4620
    @ghostwriter46208 жыл бұрын

    Subha Allah this very beautiful speech Masha Allah . May Allah bless you all

  • @imanliban8274
    @imanliban82746 жыл бұрын

    Ma sha Allah my brother Ali may Allah bless you and shower you in His rahma. I completely understand the subject you are talking about subhana Allah. Please my dear brother make a video about men asking divorcee sister to marry them in secret telling that they want to do ihsan or favour for her but they have a wife they don't want her to know. I am mother of three children and that is what I heard for the past 11 years while struggling with these little children. Alhamdulillah Allah saved me from that but it hurts me. Jazakumu Allahu khairan my brothers carry on the good work and may Allah make it easy for you aamin

  • @noonafatima4566
    @noonafatima45668 жыл бұрын

    Akhi I can't stop watching your video "why marry a divorce" I keep rewinding it. That was the best video you have done according to me. So beautiful Ma Sha Allah. May Allah bless you Akhi. And am waiting for more videos like that In Sha Allah.

  • @user-eb7dm6ti3m

    @user-eb7dm6ti3m

    9 ай бұрын

    HI MRS FATIMA IM A MALE LIVING IN CANADA I WANT TO TALK TO YOU WOULD YOU LIKE A PEN PAL

  • @anonymousshahana9134
    @anonymousshahana91343 жыл бұрын

    When my grandfathers 1st wife died he married my grandma .He had 3 children from 1st wife.So he kept a maid to help her care for kids .My grandma loved the 3 children ,her parents too loved them ,gave them gifts later my grandma gave birth to her own kids she said every tym if i planned to give somethg to children 1st i would give to those 3 children than my own.I feared Allah 2 treat them bad or b unjust to them.

  • @JDNR30k
    @JDNR30k8 ай бұрын

    Mashallah this guys is now a Sheikh giving bayan

  • @marinemariam3448
    @marinemariam34488 жыл бұрын

    Great video Ayman should do more videos for Muslims to learn from his experiences mashaAllah

  • @haleemfarid
    @haleemfarid3 жыл бұрын

    My mother had a forced marriage at 15 and she was divorced by 23 with four children (sons) without no family support and the amount of agro we had growing with harassment and the struggles she had trying to marry somebody. It’s given me an insight of how things are in society. Divorce women are looked down upon!

  • @Jb-ws9je

    @Jb-ws9je

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry 😢

  • @CherilovesLi57
    @CherilovesLi578 жыл бұрын

    His story on the other channel was so inspiring, love videos like that!!!!!☺❤ Ameen.

  • @krispy395

    @krispy395

    7 жыл бұрын

    where you from princess?

  • @ramzanzahra929
    @ramzanzahra9293 жыл бұрын

    Barakallahu feekum for you both brother Ali and Ayman . Just seen this video after 4 years but really make sense in a Muslim world bcs lots of brother out there still judge the sisters without analysing our stories. And trying forget the sunnah of our prophet Muhammad ( pbuh) . This matter still exists and should pass on from time to time . RasoollAllh ( pbuh) left us a beautiful message before he passed away that noone is superior to anyone bcs of his or her colour of the skin but many Muslims are still racist. I, am sorry to say this but it's evident and it still exist .

  • @KamranKhan-pg3vp
    @KamranKhan-pg3vp6 жыл бұрын

    Salaam alaikum Wr Br I married a divorcee , and WALAHI best choice i made.

  • @Abdullah12794
    @Abdullah127947 жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah very beneficial video, I agree a lot with with brother Mansur said. He's so funny. Love you all brothers. Jazakumullahu khayran

  • @abdulmahamadi4276
    @abdulmahamadi42768 жыл бұрын

    mashallah brother imran at the end brought balance to the whole thing brother ali was making it seem like its easy thing to pick a divorcee over your parents jannaah lies at the feet of your mother no woman will come before my mother

  • @moonraker008

    @moonraker008

    4 жыл бұрын

    The Hadith is not authentic, the virtues are highly commandable.

  • @LoveStruckGR3Y
    @LoveStruckGR3Y8 жыл бұрын

    you should have kept the discussion at the end longer bro. we enjoy the discussions between u guys it gives more of an understanding. jazak'Allah khair

  • @officialyusra
    @officialyusra9 ай бұрын

    aymans still happily married and has 2 kids mashallah may allah bless him

  • @johnnywalker4897
    @johnnywalker48976 ай бұрын

    Am proud you guys are having these type of talks to adress some ignorance

  • @InstinctiveMuslim
    @InstinctiveMuslim9 ай бұрын

    Watching it after 7 years. Subhanallah

  • @afiabegumahmed4794
    @afiabegumahmed47948 жыл бұрын

    He reminded me of Allah (swt) more even though I always did remind myself. But I've come to realise that the thought of him would only bring me closer to Allah (swt) and call upon him more often than I did. He has guided me towards Allah (swt). May Allah bless him always...Although he has a lot to learn...He has shown me alot than he believes he has and I hope that I too can do the same thing for him one day. Bring him closer to Allah (swt) I love u Mr Shaju Ahmed for showing me how to love myself and Allah (swt) and like I've never imagined I could. Helping me to understand Islam and Prophet Muhammad (saw) and his Hadith and about how he is about the Ummah! We need more people like u. You don't know it yet but you truly are very special. ❤ And I am the luckiest person standing. Thanks to Allah I have you. And thanks to you I have Allah on my side even more now. Alhumdulillah 😊

  • @queenieislam204
    @queenieislam2047 жыл бұрын

    Ali dawah mashaallah may Allah bless you for speaking the truth and being honest love you for the sake of Allah

  • @ruhelmiah10
    @ruhelmiah108 жыл бұрын

    This brothers beard is on fleek , mashallah

  • @fatimxh

    @fatimxh

    8 жыл бұрын

    +ruhelmiah10 Allahuma Barek Lahu

  • @ritageraghty1601

    @ritageraghty1601

    8 жыл бұрын

    What is a fleek?

  • @ruhelmiah10

    @ruhelmiah10

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Rita Geraghty it's slang language in London, the phrase "on fleek" is similar to the expression "on point" or "on form" .

  • @ruhelmiah10

    @ruhelmiah10

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Mustakeem Ayuby yeah I completely forgot that, it originated there if I'm not mistaken, JZK

  • @nachosost8247

    @nachosost8247

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Rita Geraghty fleet kind of means on point

  • @mumtazkhanum3594
    @mumtazkhanum35947 жыл бұрын

    This so true I'm 33 divorced with two children from UK n over years of searching for a partner I have always come across negativity n it makes you think twice. We are like any other women...sad times. May Allah reward those who marry divorced women with or with out children Ameen

  • @mounirartists7409

    @mounirartists7409

    5 жыл бұрын

    Mumtaz Khanum don't worry my sister our allah is great we have faith ....

  • @zakiyah-kanizbarakat3790
    @zakiyah-kanizbarakat3790 Жыл бұрын

    Salaam It’s nice to see a positive video, instead of some negative videos that I’ve seen saying don’t marry a divorcee or a divorcee with kids or who has a girl child.

  • @CowvertedHindu.

    @CowvertedHindu.

    Жыл бұрын

    Bullshit

  • @bergkamp4928
    @bergkamp49288 жыл бұрын

    I love the way imran always jumps in from nowhere, keep up the good work ak

  • @ftounisi5844
    @ftounisi58447 жыл бұрын

    I respect everything you brothers said deen and culture are 2 different things

  • @fhdujdjdjdudjud7534
    @fhdujdjdjdudjud75344 жыл бұрын

    May Allah grant you’s jannah InshaAllah, and may he make it easy for the brother with his marriage InshaAllah

  • @mmalik2023
    @mmalik20238 жыл бұрын

    Masha'Allah beautiful video✨

  • @enjoininggoodandforbidding8918
    @enjoininggoodandforbidding89185 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu Alaikum wrwb dear brother I just came across this vid and it was really relatable and an inspiration for me that you discuss this issue being a divorcee myself with a child. some of the things you say really brought tears to my eyes subhanallah I really thought I had no where to fit in in todays society being from a Uyghur (old Turkish) background. subhanallah what the brother said also about her current wife was really emotional for me. please make dua for me in sha Allah to settle with a righteous spouse ameen. jazakallah khayran

  • @mounirartists7409

    @mounirartists7409

    5 жыл бұрын

    Munira Idrees my allah give you better soon I'm mounir from Morocco

  • @varin1052
    @varin10529 ай бұрын

    Love from Kurdistan! 🤍 Allah bless you my brothers

  • @johnnywalker4897

    @johnnywalker4897

    6 ай бұрын

    FREE KURDISTAN ✌️

  • @mkahn5822
    @mkahn58228 жыл бұрын

    It may be true that a lot of brothers or people in general look down upon divorcees, but with respect my dear brother, you're making it look as if it's only a problem with the males of this Ummah. Wallahi there's many, many sisters that would prefer not to marry a divorced brother and if he's divorced with a child, then without a shadow of a doubt it's a no. Something else that's noteworthy is the fact that you mention the Prophet (saws) and the Sahaba rushing to marry divorced women which is true. I do however feel that you're not looking at the bigger picture my beloved brother which is that they had multiple marriages and even women the right hand possesses. So many, (in fact, it's safe to say that almost all) had multiple polygamous marriages and relations with more than one woman. Therefore it is equally important that sisters understand that they should also be accommodating to the fact that polygamy is indeed permissible in Islam and to say you dislike it or disagree with it is Kuffr by the Ijmaa' of ahlul ilm, because Allah has explicitly mentioned that you may wed 4 should you wish. If there were more sisters that were willing to be part of a polygamous marriage, you'd see less unmarried divorced sisters too in my humble opinion. But the fact is that a lot of sisters in general (including divorcees), will unfortunately refuse to be another wife as many sisters find the prospect extremely distasteful. There's a lot of sisters who openly proclaim that that they perceive the brother as being a pervert and look down upon a brother that seeks a second or even third wife. SubhanAllah fear Allah! Allah has made it Halal and if you have a problem with this, you should seriously look at the state of your heart and rekindle that light of Imaan in your heart! I recall a sister once tweeted: "If you love your husband and truly desire for a fellow Muslim what you desire for yourselves, you would happily share your beloved husband with your equally beloved sister in Islam." Ultimately Allah knows best.

  • @queen_haya
    @queen_haya6 ай бұрын

    For all the sisters out there who’s doing through the difficulties of divorce may Allah swt make it up you don’t ever blame for ur for others mistakes only u and Allah know best what u have been through so stay strong I’m sure ur Mrs right will come soon in sha Allah

  • @w.m.aslam-author
    @w.m.aslam-author7 жыл бұрын

    Every man should watch this.

  • @leeshabeaumont2863
    @leeshabeaumont28635 ай бұрын

    I really needed to listen to this

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