Have you been in a state where you were just "high on life"? How did it feel to you?

@DanielleAbigail

3 жыл бұрын

I think I'm in this state now with my career, hobbies, relationships and lifestyle! But I had fallen back into a negative state of mind with ... What is actually a great thing! Having a crush 😂 I told myself this is annoying and I don't need to have a crush on a coworker. But actually it's amazing and fun. I'm gonna enjoy it 😉 thanks Wenzes.

@lindateuling7862

3 жыл бұрын

I often feel a lot of contentment listening to and making music that I like. And art.

@tigre7739

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I experienced this quite often and I've even used those exact words when describing it to others. I tell them that I don't really need to drink or do whatever, that I just can feel a natural high! It does feel good, and I think a lot of people that know me would say, "oh he's so funny and uplifting and positive", and I do feel like I am those things,and I naturally feel like I do that for other people as a natural instinct to make them feel better, but then the reality check does come, and i ask myself, am I really happy? Being in my fifties, and I believe, although I'm not 100% sure that I am an INFJ, it still feels like there's somewhat of a constant struggle as to what I feel sometimes and what the reality of things really are. To me in my mind I came to a realization I think that for me it's about keeping a balance but at the same time at this point realizing that things, sometimes especially tough situations or circumstances, can throw me off balance. But I have noticed that at some point if I feel this then I go into a mode of fighting hard to get back to that state of feeling that natural high but it is about keeping a check on reality and I guess maybe syncing the two or making sure they are in sync.

@JohnDoe-np3zk

3 жыл бұрын

I feel pretty high on life lately, maybe it's smoking a lot of good weed that makes it a natural high. Certainly alcohol never makes me high just dulls me and lowers my energy, so good thing I gave that up. Being relatively healthy and just walking around and yard work and whacking trees and cutting them into firewood, it is enabling vs. disabling. Mostly though is I really don't give much of a shit about my common man/woman anymore, I mean I can be polite and talk with them, but how they react is on them. That's current reality that also is a high and feels good. I mean messing with people in a light way like pulling my mask down 8 feet from the door at the store and the clerk has this oddball reaction because I broke some illegal mandate and just give her a little grin on my way out for example. Hell my ex tenant tried to get me to mask up walking on the school property and I didn't even realize it was her and ended up shooting the stuff for 30 mins no mask while she was "on duty". People realize there is something going on but just so out of touch with what's really going on that makes me high at some point just literally laughing at them. Not a cruel laugh but a belly laugh that hurts my stomach after a while. Actually it's so unreal so 1984 so brave new world order that sometimes I want to go back to the other side. They do want me back I just don't like their evil.

@hamzayusuf333

2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes listening to music in language you don’t even understand but is like can’t even explain it

Dammit wenzes. I didn't deserve this message. Your channel has been intervention in my life. You ask questions I've never considered. Thank you for giving me the tools/questions that I needed to really get a grasp of my situation and what I want in life. You're a hero to me

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

😊😊😊👍

@michelleberryhill8635

2 жыл бұрын

I TOTALLY AGREE!!🙌

Yess I love that natural high and stuff is just in place and you just observe how stuff is actually existing

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

😀👍

That thumbnail... Omg 😂

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

😄

It's a matter of (1) Starting out in the present and (2) counting our blessings.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👍👍👍 exactly

God, Wenzes, get out of my head 😂🤣😂🤣 This is so accurate, it’s truly spooky. I’m so ready for this message, thank you 🖤

Wow, never would have imagined my melodic trance music style being explained by the cognitive functions! That's funny!

Al hamde li Allah. الحمد لله

Have to start where we're at. We love *emotional atmospheres*. Ni is a light state. You have to tap more into your inner ESTP to change your life. But we love that naturally high state. No action = no high. It's about how you experience it. We're really interested in how something makes us feel. So how do we get into that naturally high state without having to constantly re-evaluate what's going on? ( Cognitive dissonance ) At some point, you have a clash. We want to : #1 Make progress #2 Take control #3 Be in a naturally high state So how do we do that? We have to look at our life right now, now what we imagined it to be, not what we think it could turn out to. Look at your current life state. (Job, relationship, income, what do u think) *Once you recognize your current state of life, you have to imagine it never getting any better.* When you do that you have #1 grief, #2 freedom. You have to confront. Feel the emotions and stay above and in control, flow-through and let it go. You have to change the narrative of current reality. "In order to fulfill your dreams, first you have to wake up from them." Look at it from the perspective of how great it is. You're already living better than 90% of people. We can only improve, what we already have. We can only increase, what we already experienced. Focus on the 5% that was amazing. Oh, that was amazing. Remember, you're an INFJ, living in that emotional, intuitive state anyway. And if you combine this with your current reality, you can actually experience it as something fun and amazing. If you ever feel stuck, remember that. Something can only make you happy if you interpret it as amazing.

This is so true, gratitude is the key to moving forward. Thank your you for the reminder. ❤️

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

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That explains why I don’t drink alcohol or smoke up 🤔

I've been accused of being on drugs lol relatable, being happy-go-lucky is a fun mental state to be in

I create eclectic Music mixes that help me to embody, explore, and even discard emotions. For example: I begin with some Bach, Mozart, Wegner, then a mix of Rock, followed by Heavy metal to peak angst, into a jazz song to begin to let go, then a sad song, where I'll find my cathartic release, and finally, I'll listen to Enya, for example, as I restore my serenity. Sometimes I choose to use the juxtaposition of music to switch moods faster. How I feel versus how I want to feel. Just my method. Hope it is relatable. Take care and God bless. ✝️

Payment and there it is folks, I'm infj and I hate money, no we are drawn to frequency.

I had a math test today and halfway through I was doing math problems while thinking about how I would be in a movie 😂😂😂

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

😉

@prathampokhrel8944

3 жыл бұрын

@@Wenzes Also, if an INFJ feels like he is being more sensing or is getting overwhelmed by sensing a lot, how should he/she relax or get in the Ni zone again?

@skam5572

3 жыл бұрын

@@prathampokhrel8944 by getting away from people your mind is telling you aren't good. You need mental clarity to find yourself and be yourself. A clear mind is everything. People can cloud it in your life.

@hamzayusuf333

2 жыл бұрын

Not alone

Well said! Thanks as always.

You cant improve from a place of lack but from a place of abundance. You cant give love from an empty cup - just mybtakeawaybfrom this vid. Thanks much

Thank you for explaining in your videos. I'm new to your channel. Everything makes so much more sense. It helps immensely!

Thank you so much! Just right what I needed! Synchronicity!

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

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Amazing one wenzes!!👏💙

This explains so much. Thank you.

Worth watching many times ... such brilliant teachings, Wenzes! Just when I needed to hear this information, too!!

Gosh, I cried. Thanks for showing us to be more grateful. Appreciated!

Absolutely true, I couldn't have put it better myself. Change can only come from within, I walked out of a full paying job years ago and started my own business, and being self employed I can do what I want and when I want, I have an excellent reputation. I've got everything and I'm constantly happy. Yes there will be bad days but that's a given so yes you could say I live on cloud 9, but you have to want it bad enough and it takes hard work to achieve it. It takes deep trust within yourself and confidence, never lose sight of your goals in life. You can have the world, the world you want...

Discovered your channel today - and have significantly added to your watch time stats! I really appreciate this content - thank you so much for following your calling ☺️🤩

@michelleberryhill8635

2 жыл бұрын

Me too!

The most valuable video I have watched!! Thank you Wenzes!!

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

❤️😊

Thank you for this video, Wenzes. I haven't heard thoughts so wise, useful and practical for a long time. Imagining that my present will be forever is so sobering, so infuriating! That I want to change it.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👏👏👏 you got this

What is above and so below. Very powerful! Thank you

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

😊

Thank you for the reminders!

Thank you. Your channel has helped me so much. I adore you.

You’re very insightful, thanks

Great life info! Even though I live in a shed, I am indeed grateful everyday. However, I misconstrued the 'naturally high' title a bit. I feel like I'm naturally high often and when meeting people who are just awesome and open about who they are, it turns out they are high too. On substances. Kinda sucks that the closeness and camaraderie shared is fleeting and can't come naturally for most.

What about those INFJs who do not live in the industrialized countries?! :(

True happiness comes from being content with what you have and have a growth mind state I think another way to have happiness is to improve yourself and you life that is the true state of happiness.

I say that all the time, you have to heal to feel.

Great video!

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks 😊

I'm an infj and my musical tendencies range all over the map. From Frank Zappa to Vickie Carr.

Good video 👍👍👍

This was so helpful❤️❤️

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

😊😊😊

I had a realy tramatic past and i found weed again at 19 and i got high every day from then to 22. as an infj this threw me on a whole journey, i made it back tho from my thoughts. learned a lot, felt a lot, idk if i needed to know it all but i was forced to to support myself and i think it made me stronger'

Thank you! Very true

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

👍😊

Thank you for everything you have done.

Your videos are very helpful. Thank you so much

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️😊

Thanks you so much for your video ☺️

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

😊👍😊

Wow 💚this content and topic is just unique ... I'm amazed. Obviously , there is suffering but the natural bliss is so powerful. Earlier , there were many people who doubted on me either did I smoke weed ? And since than I started smoking weed but limited , day by day life was getting intense and painful. And without any of these I wouldn't have evolved of a person. Music was my biggest help in learning to accept my emotions , as it has always played a big part in my life and is something I deeply enjoy.

Yes! I love living like I’m flowing...

I love you so much Wenzes. 💙😉

DAMN, listening to this and realizing we actually are naturally a little low-key lazy/passive the challenge for us is making that work for us productively 💀

One of my favorite songs on my list is Vs Sayu from NSR - No Straight Roads, I love her boss theme but tbh they're all pretty wonderful especially DJ Subatomic supernova, and another is Run For Your Life by big grams, I remember the 1st time I heard it on adult swim one night n I was like "Hot damn this is poppin fresh, i WILL have it!! Eventually" but the only song of the 4 was Vs Yinu, that song really hits hard

Meditation is the shit, longest I've gone so far is 38 mins n let me tell ya time seems to pass faster or perhaps is somethin else but 10mins dont feel like 10mins but duuuuuuude its sooooooo relaxin when I come out of it, like ounce I got high n meditated n got so into it I couldn't feel my body, only where my skin was touchin, I love to meditate💙💙💙

True dat

I expect some form of chaos to ensue after feeling like this. Not in a self-sabotaging/ self-fulfilling prophecy sort of way. Just more of an observation perhaps related to the chaos theory of life. So I have learned to enjoy it and use it to energize my progress.

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

😉👍

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@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

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I always just improve 4% at a time 😉🤓

My current state right now: No income, No job and No relationships. I hope is gonna change 🤣 🤣

Many ppl have asked me "What kinda shit are you smokin?" n I say I'm not high I'm just like this all the time 😆😆😆 Now when I'm actually high it's worse because I'll actually get lost because what I'm talkin about is so confusing n complicated 😅 I'm the philosopher pothead type so if ya not prepared to get into a pretty damn deep topic about your soul or somethin else I highly suggest you walk away because nothin pisses me off more when I'm high then close minded ppl

Except childbirth lol no one sits back for that one 😉

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, haha

I don't know. I can relate to a ton of other videos of people who talk about INFJ's, but some of the stuff you talk about just doesn't sound like me at all. Who's on cloud nine? Who can lean back and just observe, and it makes them ecstatic and full of endorphins? Recently, I have been trying to separate and detach, and to be nothing more than an observer, but I don't know where this endorphin high you're talking about comes from? Sometimes, I feel like you're trying to make me (possibly us) into something I just really am not. I'm jaded, unhappy, dark, moody, disillusioned, disappointed with my self and humanity, and I think that beneath the surface of aesthetically pleasing places, be they nature or man-made, there is nothing but looming evil and death. Beneath the surface of the beautiful sea, is an ecosystem of bigger fish eating little fish, and apex predators feasting on baby sea mammals. Behind the wonderous beautiful architecture of the world, are histories of ruthless empires and psychotic dictators. Behind the glittering lights of big cities, are cutthroats. Nothing that I observe in life makes me feel high and happy, because I strip away the make-up, and I see everything for what it is. One of Woody Allen's characters once said, The World is a buffet of death, (Or something of that nature.) Am I an INFJ?

@_DeadlyNightshade_

3 жыл бұрын

I feel what you're saying. I'm an INFJ, I get this feeling when I'm sad and nothing is going the way I want it, especially after putting in effort and not have it amount to anything. Life is a struggle indeed, I just wonder if we'll ever be 100% at peace and having everything we want.

@millertime6906

3 жыл бұрын

It’s a matter of where you put your focus and energy! Just like the yin yang symbol, sounds like currently you’re thinking of the dark side of life. Gratitude is key! Try putting your thoughts towards things you’re grateful for and whatever makes you happy. Attitude and what you put your attention on is a life changer. God Bless 🙏 be strong 💪 I hope this helps in some way, shape or form.

@DaveRod76

3 жыл бұрын

@@millertime6906 I believe in God too. I know Joy is a fruit of the Spirit. It’s just that to cognitively force myself to find something new to be truly grateful for is easier said than done. Of course I’m grateful for my family and basic (although decrepit) creature comforts; and yes, I realize these are first world problems...but even then I say it’s a shame I must struggle in third world conditions in a 21st Century country. Okay, I’m venting way off topic. Sorry bout that.

If only my NI would be less active, my SE would be better...in other news, water is wet..

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

😉 having a strong NI is a blessing...just lean a bit more into SE...you strengthen SE, no need to wish for a weaker Ni

Out of curiosity, what’s your zodiac sign?

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

Aquaius

But why do i find it so tough to be grateful eventhough I've got every necessary material possession. Maybe because I compare my life and things with somebody else who has it better than me... At least from my perspective. For example if I'm driving a Toyota I compare and look at a Mercedes or a BMW that is better than my Toyota even if my Toyota is not that bad.

Wow. Has this just been one of your b st videos or what

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

🥳👍

@khorLDW

3 жыл бұрын

@@Wenzes I cannot see the emoticons you sent, it looks like two rectangles 😂

@Wenzes

3 жыл бұрын

@@khorLDW just "yeeeay" :)

This shortcut of endorphin is not the good way