Don't trust someone who never answers your call yet when you are with them they are always on their phones.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Omg 😳.. great comment 💯💯

@dawnloscri8355

2 жыл бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you Andrew!

@Elysion404

2 жыл бұрын

And yet they have no problem answering the phone when other people call them, and talk for hours on end. Even with you in the same house with nothing to do except wait for them to get off, and they have absolutely no problem calling you when THEY need something. It's completely disgusting.

@suziew1267

2 жыл бұрын

Very good point!

@blackwindsignomancy8429

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!

Narcissists HATE boundaries. You set boundaries and they run the other way...that is my weapon against these socio/psychopath soulless monsters.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Agree completely ☀️🙌💪💪💯

@ss9756

2 жыл бұрын

I have the opposite response. You set boundaries and tell them no. They go into full temper tantrum and find a way to be vindictive and petty all fully calculated.

@Apixi

2 жыл бұрын

He didn't run the other way, he ran through my boundaries like I hadn't said a word 😤

@annekerotterdam7499

2 жыл бұрын

@@ss9756 Some do indeed! It depends on the kind of relationship and narc your dealing with.

@annekerotterdam7499

2 жыл бұрын

@@Apixi Yes, same experience here. Creepy nah? Hold on to your boundaries.

Very true... a narcissist would almost rather die than not have access to their smart phone.

My narc husband broke the bedroom door down and attacked me to get his phone back. This is a fact. He had multiple social media accounts.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this Dee..🙏🙌☀️

@mariagargus7726

2 жыл бұрын

Stay safe 🙏🏼

@thingsarecrazy

2 жыл бұрын

Ha ha u got him and I applaud u it was worth seeing his panic and buy a new door all worth it

@cookiecookie1834

2 жыл бұрын

He broke your door? You should have broke that phone.

@kathyburton3951

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you immediately left!!! My heart goes out to you.

Social media and dating apps are literally like a candy store for the narcissist. There are endless possibilities for their next source(s) of supply. He was addicted to his phone and his behavior was not only disturbing and disgusting, but it was so hurtful.

I left my narcissist after he spent our last day together watching KZread videos for 19 hours straight and didn't say one word to me that whole time. The last silent treatment he ever gave me. He even slept with his phone in the bed lol. I hope they have a happy life together 🙂 Thank you for telling people what to look out for, hopefully the narcissists time is almost up.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this.. I appreciate your insight.. 🤗✊💯☀️

@kkitten8183

2 жыл бұрын

Truth💯

@wavyblkqueen

2 жыл бұрын

My ex did this too. I remember sitting next to him in silence for hours and I finally said "you're breaking up with me aren't you ?" This silent treatment felt different. And I knew when he couldn't look me in my eyes I knew we had met the end

@phoenixmode6909

2 жыл бұрын

Mine did this too. And even if I spoke to him while he had his face in the phone, it was as if I wasn't even there. I began stopping mid-sentence, and even sometimes walking out of the room, when he behaved this way. After he had serially cheated on me 20 years ago, before he had a smartphone, I had no more trust anyhow. His phone behavior the last several years became the nail in the coffin, and I ended the 36 year marriage. I was tired of doing all the work to hold the shallow relationship together. I feel better now, though at times, like watching this video and remembering the past, I feel physically nauseous when I recall all of it.

@kimgordon3695

2 жыл бұрын

Awe. 😢

My ex narc uses his phone to watch porn, stalk women on social media and cheat. Horrible!

@katieburns3058

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously Andrew..narcs are becoming BORING..Thank God!!

@minyme

2 жыл бұрын

My ex did the same stuff

@hollykins2145

2 жыл бұрын

Samsies!

@loverules802

2 жыл бұрын

Lol they are Soo weird and weak period

@gemimapuddleduck28

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, same here, and used it to hook up with prostitutes and escorts 🤦‍♀️ 🤢

This is so on point! My ex narc was literally glued to his phone, being online 24/7 - checking stuff all the time, even in bed/late at night, in the bathroom, you name it. Pretending to be on Twitter and other similar apps. He would be active on ALL the possible apps-I never understood that. Until I found out he reconnected with his ex and started liking her old pictures and finally, I found out he was cheating me with a brand new supply. On the other hand, this same person never posted anything on Instagram and his FB Account was the most secretive account I have ever seen. Now it all makes perfect sense-the dude was pretending to be single for the majority of the audience while constantly chasing the supplies online. Sick devil.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I understand this completely.. thank you for sharing 💯🙌🙏

@nenar.902

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us! 🙏♥️

@cbninastolt952

2 жыл бұрын

@Nena R My narc did so too - every day in our 12 years together. I find out in the end of our toxic relationship. I'm out now since 14 month. I just walked Away ... Not even Saying a Word. Open the door and left.

@mariacarter3797

2 жыл бұрын

Oh my, I thought it was just my imagination. It’s like a knife in your gut even tho your gut was telling you this is not right. My eyes and brain are now open and working. I always felt so alone and had no one to talk to

@Dee-xs5yy

2 жыл бұрын

Fb is evil and a playground for them

My latest former spouse had three phones, it's always business. 6 months into the marriage he broke my phone in Walmart! I gave him grief , I wanted a replacement for my phone. He gave me one of his. It was full of trash porn, I deleted all that. In the end, 8 months later I left before he could discard me. I didn't have Onstar subscription, they allowed me to make emergency calls the night I left. It was a blessing. I was gone 7 weeks at my safe house. I am safe at home, Divorce is over. Physical no contact for 7 months and I am doing ok. The hard part is accepting I am Empathic and I have beautiful traits. I am truly grateful for Andrew's teachings. It put me well on the path to healing. Tears come and go, but they are healing too!

There is another dimension to the smartphone with the narc -- it gives them the ability to look stuff up quickly, so they can PRETEND to be "smarter" than thou.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Interesting point 😉💯☀️

@countrygirl4213

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!they fact check on Google about things you say,to make you feel dumb. Totally degrading behavior. Do it right back to them..it's sweet to see the stupid look on their faces lol

@stoptosmelltheflowers

2 жыл бұрын

My ex did that all the time! He always tried to make me out to be so stupid

@michaelcollins2399

Жыл бұрын

Tik tok is a narcissist playground

Nothing like the panic attacks from hearing them get a message notification, especially in the middle of the night.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Wow this brought back memories for me.. thank you 🙏 💯💯

@victorruzicka6648

2 жыл бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone I just found your channel, I'm 6 weeks out from our 30th breakup. That means we got back together 29 times. Your videos are incredibly helpful, thank you very much for posting them. 💖🏆

@miyabell8979

2 жыл бұрын

Smh yes terrible

@SelaciousCrumb

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! And when you ask as poitelty as possible if they can put the phone on do not disturb if they have to use it in the middle of the night and they get so angry

@heidilight3636

2 жыл бұрын

Yep

“The smartphone is their dungeon.” 👏🏼 👌 💯

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Yes 🙌 thank you Dina 💯

@vaughn7130

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@oliviavaldez6574

2 жыл бұрын

Andrew, they also use it as a weapon against you. I can still hear the Narc in my head saying..."I'M RECORDING YOU RIGHT NOW!" So I turned around and started recording them too!!

@rosierb852

2 жыл бұрын

@@oliviavaldez6574 recorded my mental break down when I was suici..al. I was crying and was in emotional pain. The Idiot didn't realise that it would've made him look bad to be mocking someone that was in mental distress.

@HighSpeedNoDrag

2 жыл бұрын

Right On and Smart Phones usage while driving contribute to more deaths now than drinking and driving.

You just explained why there's an explosion of narcissistic activity since like 2005. It wasn't always this bad. Thank you for all of your videos!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome 🙏 😉😉

Go with your gut on this one, their smart phone is their Achilles heel that will expose them.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Completely agree..💯💯

@truffaut650truffaut6

Жыл бұрын

I cannot have his smartphone. Its locked like fort knox.

Sewer of supply. When he got his smart Phone and The internet was one of the downfall of our marriage.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I can relate here.. completely

I used to call it his "magical" phone. He would say, "I didn't look at that. I didn't put that on there." What a crock....14 months free and every day is better. Thanks for educating us.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you JAK.. I appreciate your kindness and support ☀️💯🙏

@joann5465

2 жыл бұрын

I heard that many times as well!!!

@tyyneviljakainen5108

2 жыл бұрын

Mine keeped phone screen down ...a good guy...😂 Yeah maybe if we compared people like that to a Ted Bundy 😂

@noracharles9366

2 жыл бұрын

@@tyyneviljakainen5108 the police told me to study Ted Bundy because they knew how serious the situation was/is ⚜🗡🖤

@katarzynadunn6059

2 жыл бұрын

I am 15 months free too. And my daughter and I really love it

The one that gets me is when they have a picture of themselves on their screen saver. That's always been the weirdest thing to me. I believe these social media platforms breed narcissistic behavior.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your insight and sharing 🙌🙏

@ingridhaughney3645

2 жыл бұрын

Dating Apps are Sweet Shops fir Narcissistic individuals. I think they school each other so they all have the same creepy approach

@chrisharris2367

2 жыл бұрын

#100

@DrPhilGoode

2 жыл бұрын

FOR SURE!!! I am 39. I had FB for about 4 months at one point, and Twitter for 3 months at another. I found myself watching my real life go by all while getting worked up over things that didn’t matter. It’s weird how I live in my own little world since deleting those apps years ago. Everywhere I go people discussing some “topic” that is social media based. No thanks. Give me the simpleton life. Every time I am somewhat negative about those platforms, I am treated like the old man that yells at kids for being on his lawn. I want to shake them and say “Do you not see what this is doing to us?” Comparing your life to another’s perceived life will bring nothing but envy, greed, selfishness, and a complete lack of peace.

@imasurvivor3470

2 жыл бұрын

Mine did that too! Another red flag I missed! Never again….

I will never feel at ease again with someone who disrespect me with that dreadful thing specially if using during a conversation

@frankdavf4599

2 жыл бұрын

I believe that thing helped destroy my marriage and family. Cause if shenarc wouldnt had that accrs to so much people and things i think she would had stayed controled. But exacerbated her cravings. Its an OUTRAGE!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Stay strong Francisco 💪☀️

The narcissist will use the smartphone to cheat on you, to flirt with others, love heart the posts of other women. They live a second life through their phones. You may hear it ting late at night, or while your speaking to them late other women are beeping through (no mates would’ve been messaging that late!). My narc ex’s phone was always face down when it wasn’t in his hand and locked up like Fort Knox. I managed to look briefly inside his messages once when he had been drinking. Within a the few seconds that I had to look I was able to see the cheating messages.

@annacarter4879

2 жыл бұрын

So true

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this.. it’s how they live.. manipulating and destroying..

@user-oi5wm1od2k

2 жыл бұрын

He would never like or heart a post..his other supply might see it..😂😂

@kenedrisanderson4404

2 жыл бұрын

Mine had a second phone

@tyyneviljakainen5108

2 жыл бұрын

Mine did lock his phone but forgot to lock his iPad ....and on same day when he said that I am only one he got 47 new matches on Tinder in ...one day!!!! If I mange to do my own channel his nickname would be one position wonder...🤣

All so true. I finally got away from the narcissist 2 days ago. I feel so fresh and clean, as well as at peace - finally!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful to hear Shari ❤️🙌☀️

@resilience_onward

2 жыл бұрын

I kicked the narc out after I looked in his phone. Now the healing is not a destination it's a journey bc these narcs will jack your head up. You're strong for yourself. Love and light to you. ❤

@frankwhitezreviews

2 жыл бұрын

Shari I'm really happy that you have your energy back peace and Love ❤️

@sharonshim5046

2 жыл бұрын

Amen🙏🙏

@heidilight3636

2 жыл бұрын

It’s a peace beyond

Crazy how this is all so real because I lived through this all!!! Thank god I getting out.. I was lucky enough to escape

This is 100% correct. I’m so speechless after listening to Andrew! The smartphone is exactly how I found out the truth. What Andrew said about needing to flirt and talk to other women without the need to physically meet is disturbingly true! This video has been invaluable for me. Thank you Andrew!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome E..🙏🙌💯

@Qunomnds

2 жыл бұрын

Yup me too! But he actually physically met them too!

@waterbaby6786

Жыл бұрын

I was so stupid ! I trusted ! Hurts like hell

@RioJudy

Жыл бұрын

I am speechless as well. He nailed smartphones. Mine had one I knew of and paid for and two others that were “burner” cells that I didn’t know of. Rechargeable. SECRET! No accountability. He even alienated my adult kids from me by giving out the burner cell numbers to them so they would think I told him he couldn’t speak to them because I hated them. A fabulously orchestrated plan to make my kids despise me.

@annettegutkind

Жыл бұрын

The smart phone 📱 taught me it wasn’t just women - it was anything or anyone with a pulse - gender was irrelevant (whole other issue here) - possibly even a bot 🤖- all the same - supply - The smart phone 📱 is smart 😎

Yep, my narc mom LOVES her iPhone. I mentioned I'm going to get rid of my smartphone, and it upset her. For me, the negatives of a smartphone outweigh the positives. I can't wait to hook up a landline with an answering machine, the narcs are going to have no way to harass me. I already stopped carrying my smartphone outside of the house, feels liberating.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

This is empowering.. great outlook Kira 🙌💯🙏

@LeafsIn2024

2 жыл бұрын

When cell phones first came out, we used them for emergencies like car break downs or medical help. Please consider personal safety as a sole reason. You can even get pay as you go still. You don't have to tell anyone and still keep yourself safe.

@jshowy7053

2 жыл бұрын

The flip phone is more practical, in my humble opinion.

@ironlady6897

2 жыл бұрын

I started leaving my phone home when there was no good reason to bring it along. When the ex discovered I was doing this, he told me to bring it, I didn't comply, and he went into this lovely 6 a.m. yelling tirade. I took it to shut him up--and began covertly packing later that day. Got out a couple of months later, two days before Independence Day. That's going to become a long weekend holiday celebration for the rest of my life! Oh, and now he is blocked on that same phone! No Contact is the best thing that ever happened to our relationship. LOL

@Apixi

2 жыл бұрын

When I refused to replace my cell for six months, I was so liberated. He used my cell to keep tabs on me, constantly changed settings, the works. Ugh!

This is so true. Exactly. I know two narcissists they treat women like toys, like objects. They play with them for a while and when bored they pick up their smartphone or tablet or computer and play with it for a while or hours. They are addict to the technical devices. Even in church or in bed with you they pick it up to look for something exciting to them. It is disgusting. I like to know if they are maybe completely immature or empty creatures? Who are unable to really love another human being?

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this.. they need supply.. new things to keep them engaged.. it’s a cycle for them

@kimgordon3695

2 жыл бұрын

It's heartbreaking 💔

@sweeta17

2 жыл бұрын

@@kimgordon3695 just the word being classed a suply is sickening . even when they have a partner at home and even if the partner is giving his / her all in things ....do they still need and want others ?

Wow. I got into a physical fight with my ex narcissistic bf because I saw him texting another girl and tried to grab it, he threw me across the room. He was always so guarded with it… this video makes so much sense

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

They are helpless without a phone..

@angelcakesxXx

2 жыл бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone wow yes… it all makes so much sense now 🤯

@Gellybeanb1974

2 жыл бұрын

Oh my god mine was like this

@heidilight3636

2 жыл бұрын

So sorry

@sgtmuffinbadger6147

2 жыл бұрын

My ex did this as well

Exactly how I found out my narcissistic EX was cheating the smartphone!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this.. 🙌💪☀️

So true, married for years and on his phone when we are out. Absolutely addicted to his phone. His phone is dual sim too. When he’s not on his phone he’s scanning the room or area and staring at young females.. if I challenge him he denies it and says he doesn’t know what I’m talking about. Totally, checks out even when sitting with his children too. Doesn’t listen to what they are saying. Great video. Thank you.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome 🙏

@joanieks3945

2 жыл бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you 🙏

@katalynbabe

2 жыл бұрын

Yes they're predators

@joanieks3945

2 жыл бұрын

@@katalynbabe Totally 💯 September Rose X

@katalynbabe

2 жыл бұрын

@@joanieks3945 understand theyre ran by demons!! Its demonic.

That is where they get Supply!!!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Always ✅👍

My narc husband won't let anyone touch his phone, but takes mine because he says it takes better pictures, texts my family on it likes he's me. On family outings, he stays glued to his phone and never interacts with me or our children. Your channel is really opening my eyes to the severity of my situation.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

🤔😉💯💯

@clairejohnson6522

2 жыл бұрын

Suspicious and totally disrespectful.Why are you with him,you deserve better,as do your children.He is no role model by the sound of it.Sorry that you are all treated like that.You shouldn't be disregarded like that,it is sad for you and your children.Look after yourself and I hope you find someone who loves you and shows you respect.Best wishes.

@calgal7828

Жыл бұрын

🙏

@jostafford3367

Жыл бұрын

💯 he has a whole other personality on that phone u need to get the exit plan going cause I can gaurentee he’s cheating with multiple people !!! The narcs are all the same

One time I was out with a 'friend' that had a mobile phone. I didn't have one. Whenever I would call the 'now ex', they would answer with 'Yah what?' in a very grumpy manner. I thought that they always answered the phone like that. But that one time out with my 'friend', I needed to call and she let me use her phone. I didn't know they even knew each other. The 'now ex' answered with 'Heeeyyy, hey hi, hello, what's up?' very cheerfully. That was a wake-up call for me ... that they saw who was calling before they answered, and thought it was her calling, duh. Such a smart phone!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this MAX.. I appreciate your honesty and insight ☀️🙌🙏

Instead of saying, "just answer it," he started taking it into the bathroom, while showering. I might be a little crazy (in a good way) but I'm not stupid. Thanks again, for all the info. Stay Blessed.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I understand completely 😉😉

@suziew1267

2 жыл бұрын

It is sickening when they take it to the toilet and you hear a text notification

I can definitely relate. I felt so lonely going out with him on dates since he was 99.9 percent of the time on his phone, laughing, giggling, etc at it. And when I asked him something he would not listen or he would say, "did you say something?" Not even looking at me. I would just be looking at people at the restaurant and see everyone engaging with people at their tables, and there I was, alone and miserable.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

🙏☀️🙌

@suziew1267

2 жыл бұрын

I can so relate

@teresadvorak6145

Жыл бұрын

U should have accidentally spilled your cold drink on his crotch. He would have had to respond to U 😅

@Lala89856

Жыл бұрын

@@teresadvorak6145 hahaha yeah, 😆

@stephaniesamra7960

Жыл бұрын

Ahhhh that’s really sad - hope you left him and 💯 per cent happier I know what I wd have done -either walk out or take the phone and put in a jug of water (betr go for option A)😋

My narcissist had a second phone and when I discovered it he denied desperately even though I saw it. He twisted it in a such a way that I even second guessed myself if what I saw was a phone or not.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

This is how they manipulate people.. gaslighting 💯💯

@ingridhaughney3645

2 жыл бұрын

It’s crazy, using Smart Phones with Multiple SIM slots you just think they are off Media but they certainly are not. They just bank data as storage into their Hidden Folders.

They need an audience for their huge ego and there's a lot of them on Facebook. Very sad .

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Completely true 💯💯

Took me over 2 years before i noticed he was addicted to his phone. That's when i started investigating him. Found narcissism on my phone. Oh the irony

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Wow 😯 that’s incredible ..

@misfit7866

2 жыл бұрын

They live on that phone!

Once my husband got his first smartphone, our relationship has deteriorated. These are such eye opening topics. Thank you.

You are 💯 right about the smart phone and all the hidden apps! My ex was on his phone all the time he told me he was playing games which was a lie.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

They hide .. manipulate.. and deceive.. always 💯

@ScottishLeo

2 жыл бұрын

Omg that's all I ever see, is his "games" esp when I'm on my feet walking around, when I get close to him he hits that home button so quick 😆😆

@loverules802

2 жыл бұрын

Lol

@andreapellechia7702

Жыл бұрын

Same here.

@truffaut650truffaut6

Жыл бұрын

Yes. Its always nothing.

We were together long before the smart phone existed. The discard began when the smart phone began. Then the headphones went in…and the rest of us became an annoyance.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I understand this completely 💯💯

Thank you Andrew,this is the favorite toy for this evil monsters

Wash, Rinse, Repeat 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂. I love that description for a Narcissist.

This is so accurate..oh my god. It's actually my Ex's phone content that made me break up with her. It's too much of a violation of what you would call a loyal monogamous relationship.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😉💯

@vidyaroy1627

2 жыл бұрын

Me too 🙏

@rhondadurbyn6363

2 жыл бұрын

Know exactly what you're talkin about very true that's not a relationship

@rodneyvail2908

2 жыл бұрын

I too experienced this to a T .Both sexes do this nightmare .Yes I agree smart phones escalate this mental illness .

@gregorysmith5685

2 жыл бұрын

Same here

My ex narc ate, breathed, and lived his smart phone

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Yes 🙌 I understand completely

Hi Andrews, I’m from France . Thank you for all your precious videos . It helps me a lot . I left my narcissist husband 4 months ago( got divorced 1 month ago) after less than 1 year of marriage. Unfortunately I didn’t want to see the red flags at the beginning of the relationship. I wanted to believe in love story ( he did everything to be the perfect guy ) and I decided to give a a try and let him a chance because I found excuses for him about his trauma childhood ( here is my empath side 😅) I wanted to save him but I learned I couldn’t… Today I’m proud of me , I know that I took the right decision but I still ruminate sometimes. I’m not angry but so disappointed. Such a disillusionment.. I know time will do his work . And yes, he was addicted to his phone and video game ! He was upset if he lost and insulted people if he lost ! A little boy in an adult body 😒 Thank you again 🙏😊

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome to the community Laetitia.. thank you for sharing this.. my hope is you improving and growing.. I appreciate your kindness and support ☀️🙌🙏

@sandyo1063

2 жыл бұрын

Make sure he didn’t put a GPS app on your phone. My sister in law put one on her husband’s phone. The minute I get around her she is always checking her phone to see exactly where he is at....She then says I just love this app!!! YIKES. How crazy is that? I would never allow it! Also when we are doing Bible study every week for a couple hours, she has her phone on and it dings, or rings and she picks up phone and stops the Bible study. Then she looks to see where her husband is at. She is definitely a Narcissist.

This is absolutely true. My ex-narc was furious when i searched his phone. I saw horrible things in his phone.

This is exactly what happened to me, the parasitic insect would never leave it's phone unattended, both the insect and it's phone was constantly on silent, after trying to hold on because of our then young son I had enough and left because the shady behaviour and the silence. It turned out it was having an affair at work however it kept me around as I was useful and I still would of been there had I not listened to my sixth sense.

@sgtmuffinbadger6147

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@dragonmom495

Жыл бұрын

Same here, too.

Bingo ... this is exactly what happens. The moment their eyes open they reach for that phone. I am out of that cycle ... feel's beautiful to feel alive again. Not dating ... just working on me, so that eventually I can be beautiful with someone else. I love your channel... so sorry you suffered like this too. Be happy, be safe.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙌💯

What I uncovered on that phone - was beyond anything I could have imagined. Way beyond swiping left and right

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

Жыл бұрын

🙌💯😉

My ex narc used to bring it into the bathroom, kitchen anytime he was out of my view or when he went across the room. I called it "the phone of sin"...and he would just laugh. The disrespectful liking of nasty women on IG when I told him it bothered me...but he didn't give a damn. He always would say "mmmhmmmm" when I was texting my family, but yet ding, ding, ding went his phone...which he said was his family texting. It could of been true but I don't believe anything that comes out of his trash mouth! He can go to hell or die...I don't care. Even his mother is addicted to her phone and she's narcissist trash like her son she raised.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this Amber.. I appreciate your honesty.. 🙌☀️🙏

@sgtmuffinbadger6147

2 жыл бұрын

Damn mine did this exact thing. Phone down. I walk by immediately locks it. Claims it's family

@amberparedes875

2 жыл бұрын

@@sgtmuffinbadger6147 He would claim it was a family text when the notification dings kept going on. Then would be irritated that I would say something. 🙄

@sgtmuffinbadger6147

2 жыл бұрын

@@amberparedes875 same mine during the discard phase made me sleep on the floor after screaming at me and cussing at me so she could text her side piece

@amberparedes875

2 жыл бұрын

@@sgtmuffinbadger6147 Dang, that's horrible. I think mine used to go to sleep to make me sleep, so he could do the texting all the other supply. He would always be up before me with phone in hand. Creeping silently around. He would allow other people handle his phone but never me.

I agree that our smart phones have worsened narcissism and damaged authentic engagement with other people. I like what you said about them also being helpful for the world.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

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Yes, I will agree. My narc always had his phone glued to him, face down, never face up! Always making excuses why that are so lame now that I went through what I went through I now know! My narc is being charged with Torture, assault with force, great bodily injury and rape! So, be very aware of the narc!

@noracharles9366

2 жыл бұрын

😦🖤 take care YOU ⚜

@lucyt-c8092

2 жыл бұрын

i am sorry you went through that

My ex narcissist was always flirting and cheating with others using his phone and he kept it totally guarded. He kept different memory cards for different girls so that I wouldn't find the pictures of when he was out with someone else. It was cruel.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Christina.. my hope is you are doing better and maintaining awareness and your boundaries 🙌💯

You nailed it Andrew,, you are complimentary to them. The smartphone is their first priority but they need you as a top up for what they cannot get on their phones.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

Жыл бұрын

🙏💯😌

Mine had 3 iPhones. I am free of all that crap now except the mental, physical and emotional Abuse I’m trying to heal from and you all know, it’s a daily struggle .

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I understand this completely 🙌🙏☀️

Yup! Ex had 2 phones that I knew of and find out about a 3rd. 2 for NY and one for JA. Always on the phone and when he put down its face down. Not to mention taking the phone to the bathroom with him at all times.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds eerily familiar.. 😳

@bondeappetite703

2 жыл бұрын

Yep mine did that. Phone down on silent. Never left he’s side. But wanted to look through mine constantly. Then would say couldn’t reply as no phone with them lol.

@user-kx6tw3fo1e

2 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately I can relate to that ridiculousness.

You are so right…password protected…all secrets in it…..thank you so much all the information.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome 🙌💯☀️

Perfect spy tool for a narc ! They also get OTHERS to spy on you after the discard too , even though you might have gone , it still gives them a sick sense they still have access to information , which is a form of control 🙄😝

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Spot on 💯

@katarzynadunn6059

2 жыл бұрын

Yes they do. This is why you block them all on social media . And this is the safe way

@amandajohnson-williams7718

2 жыл бұрын

They also create fake social media profiles and cyber stalk you, as a means of checking up on you. Especially when you're in devaluation, they are desperate to know what you are up to, and to maintain a form of control over you, even when you have gotten out of the relationship. They approach you on dating apps with multiple fake profiles, determined to screw with your life. Sending you insulting msgs knowing you dont know its them!!! Why do they need to do this??!! My ex did this for 2+ years after I ended things, it ruined my chance of engaging with anyone new so much so I just came off the dating sites, and then you feel quite isolated!! Unable to restart your life!!

@katarzynadunn6059

2 жыл бұрын

@@amandajohnson-williams7718 this is why you block your account from people. Only you can invite people to your account. I was helping lady in Poland with her husband and we always found easy to block him from every side. Do you know grey rock method. If now learn it

@amandajohnson-williams7718

2 жыл бұрын

@@katarzynadunn6059 I think you're missing my point, I'm saying when you have blocked the narc and gone no contact, they make a fake profile to contact you on, pretending to be someone else. It's called cat fishing. You dont know its them, until after sometime as the person starts off being friendly and pleasant, but then turns suddenly nasty, and says something in a message that makes you realise, it's probably your ex catfishing you! It kept happening to me on a dating site, that he knew I was on. It ruined my chances as I was never sure whether the person messaging me, was in fact my ex in disguise, getting a thrill out of communicating with me in disguise!! Its abuse by proxy.

You can notice the difference in their attitude as soon as they find a new supply. If you pay attention. Someone new to stroke their ego.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

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@librascorner2271

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!! They start to change again.

You are on point with this video. My narc supervisor would send me text messages and if I didn't respond, he would try to punish me at work. Keep in mind, there is no policy at work that requires employees to communicate with management via text message or by phone. I put him on block and he was having other employees contact me on his behalf. He realized I was not going to play his game and that's when the punishment came. This is a boundary that I created and we all know that narcs hate boundaries!!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Monica this is empowerment.. fantastic ☀️🙌🙏.. you are amazing 🙌

They lose their mind over the phone. Their eyes will get big and you will never ever get to do that again

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

4 күн бұрын

😌😌💯

Hello from Florida. I...was recently thrown away by my husband of 19 years. It is, very hard to admit he is a narcissist, and was mentally abusive. This, is so very accurate and I wish I had this information sooner. Thank you for what you are doing.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome 🙏💯🇺🇸🇨🇷🙌

This is so true! The smart phone is how I found all of his dirty little secrets and everything he was up to. My ex narc had 2 phones. Awesome content and new subscriber.

@ingridhaughney3645

2 жыл бұрын

They actually use smart phones with two or three SIM slots they can switch between their various supplies and it looks like they are never using WhatsApp or whatever.

Lol... he'd look at mail-order brides from different countries.. I'd laugh at him, and tell him " You know those women have opinions and needs too, ..they won't be obedient either!!".

You are helping me so much to get through this. Thank you....

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome 🙏

When the narc wants to talk to you they don't ask permission they just spit it. On the brief occasion you try to speak to a narcissist even for 30 seconds or a minute they are always preoccupied with something going on with their phone. It's like always saying that what they've got going on is more important than anything you have going on. I don't even try to speak to my cousin who is serious narcissist anymore. Not even Small talk which I found out is virtually impossible with most narcissists. It's only a chance for them to degrade devalue and become argumentative with you, even if you're talking about mowing the lawn or anything, it will become some kind of issue. Very smart of us too gray rock and be silent and not get drawn into conversation with them. Thank you for another great video

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this insight Rex…🙌💯😉

My ex narc boyfriend was always on his phone, flirting on Facebook, stocking peoples Facebook pages. Texting for hours with people across the country or in other countries. Always getting texts at all hours of the night. I was so frustrated by this behavior until I learned it was narcissistic behavior. I am so glad I got rid of him! So annoying and disrespectful!!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this 🙏💯🙌

Crazy how my wife would berate and shame me for being "on my computer ALL the time". But, she would be on her phone 24-7, always on her phone no matter what. But, I am the worst person in the world for being on my computer...working on an online masters degree, but that just means im selfish and am taking time away from the family.

@originalcopy1288

Жыл бұрын

Master's Degree?! You GO SIR!!!🙏🙌👏👌❤️

@damonw2286

Жыл бұрын

@@originalcopy1288 Thank you FBI :) I just finished my last class and got that MA...appreciate the encouraging support friend.

@originalcopy1288

Жыл бұрын

@@damonw2286 CONGRATULATIONS!! Also I - am - jealous. Lol

@Frosty859

Жыл бұрын

Did you end up devoricing your wife

So true...even when Im driving hes texting...always on his phone constantly...Apparently I was invisible...

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I understand this completely..,

Yep. He was on escorting websites and had women sending him good morning messages and asking for money, calling him Daddy 🤮 sad. He said he'd never physically met. It was still grim.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this 💯💯

Smart phones have made it incredibly easy for narcissists to cheat on their partners. These phones also have an ability to create layers of passwords whereby even if you check their phone…their secrets can be easily hidden away in an unknown volt somewhere. Talk about using technology for corruption.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

There we are.. thank you Nahla 🙌💯

@ingridhaughney3645

2 жыл бұрын

The new smart phones can have double SIMS so switching you off to go cheat is so easy. I know my Narcissistic ex stopped using WhatsApp as he switched to the other SIM

@Resiliant777

2 жыл бұрын

@@ingridhaughney3645 unbelievable!😕

@resilience_onward

2 жыл бұрын

Mine was stupid thank God! Because it only took one password for me to get in and see it all. I was heartbroken.

@ivonnepinkaszepeda6954

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!!!

My friend...you are right. Nailed it...Ignoring is an understatement! That was a constant...never had a pleasant date night. Went to Cancun and my GF didn't have service...she lost her mind for four hours. I have never seen anything like this. Dating apps continued to be active while dating. (I didn't find out until later). Just messaging a friend, I was told...I feel used, dirty and untrusting at this point. I'm exhausted. My heart is broken. I'm lost and angry.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this Mel..🙏💯🙌

These facts are SO hard to swallow.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Education is empowerment.. 🙌🙏

Thank you for your video Andrew. I remember when the Narc use to pretend his phone wasn't important but deep down I knew this was a lie. It was his treasure. While this toxic, abusive, twisted degenerative was telling me how much he loved me and that he couldn't wait for us to have our own cosy place together, he was indeed cheating on me and also on dating/sex sites. He had two phones, one for me and pretending how innocent he was, and the other phone was for, all I can say is disgusting carry on. When I found out Andrew, even though my gut instinct was crying out to me for at least weeks if not months, I was devastated. It almost destroyed me. Looking back now I do believe my higher power was indeed looking after me. I have come along way since then Andrew. Lisa

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

God bless you Lisa.. fantastic progress.. you are doing great 💯🙌🙏

@harleyquinn5269

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, a narc gets away whatever is allowed, and its not something I delight in revealing, but the more you apologize and forgive, or reconcile for a "misunderstanding", the absolute WORSE the narc's behavior and interactions are. Bc they feel you let it go before, they just get to do whatever THEY WANT. BC WE DON'T MATTER. 13+yrs, and here we are. They would DIE without their smartphones, REALLY. Without a computer as well. You all don't believe me, let's set up an experiment. ALL supply, go on strike and get the narcs to leave their phones in a vault or something and TRY to go a WEEK without them raging bc they can't use YOUR phone, bc they can't live, like literally, live without technology, bc its constant supply. Discord, all game chats. They used to NEVER use the stuff...but then YOU became interested... what did they do??! Suddenly, it's stupid, or they NEED to chat with strangers playing these games. It's bc they CAN'T live without supply of random validation or admiration. Even negative supply. Bc they see it as a challenge.

@lisasweeney8789

Жыл бұрын

@@harleyquinn5269 Hi Harley, ohh yes I found this out the hard way. He used one phone for me acting all innocent and another phone for his supply/supplies. He actually got worse as he aged and was absolutely vile. Future faking while up to all sorts. It's amazing I took every form of abuse going but once I found out about his dirty filthy cheating that was definitely the icing on the cake. He actually did me a favor looking back now. While the soulless degenerative was accusing me of cheating he was doing it himself, typical Narc behavior. I immediately went No Contact and changed emails and got a new phone. Think he ran away anyhow. Life today is much more peaceful but at the time it was horrific for me. I'm still healing after a year but my life has definitely taken on a new meaning. I also think he must of being paying for it as he was definitely not a looker that's for sure xx

My narc ex was always a victim of his phone. He often claimed the phone changed his text, was out of battery, is planning on using his personal info against him, on and on…

My narc would lay on the bed with his back turned on his phone playing games and whatever else while I was watching TV like we're not even in the room together..I would say something for tired eventually.... Finally two weeks gone!!

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏

@collectiveconsciousness.

2 жыл бұрын

Me too

This one really hit a spot…. How stupid they think we are! I love you videos‼️ They get to the point unlike so many others that drag it out‼️ Love you too, thank you so much 😊

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Wildflower 🙏🙏☀️💯💯.. love you too 😊

At age 50 most of my experiences with people aren't very fruitful anymore anyways so the phone sadly is replacing things I sort of used to do with people. And sadly lots of lots of others are secretly thinking this way too.

She would always have her phone with her on silent. Her ex kept messaging her so i asked her to block him which she did. A few months later i found out she had unblocked him and was messaging him again.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

All about supply and the narcissist having no boundaries.. they do what they want always

He always would say he was playing his brain game.

@resilience_onward

2 жыл бұрын

Mine too I'm just playing my games! he'd say. Oh boy was he!

So true and so sick on the phone all day long...sick souls

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

10 ай бұрын

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The phone is like GOLD to the narcissist!

I'm just broke up with someone and I swear your videos are about her. It's uncanny. Like everything. Especially this one. Crazy how systematic and predictable this all is. It's like uploading a patch into an AI like west world or something. Really making me question the nature of existence and freewill. Really great insights

12 year marriage her phone was always on silent mode

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate you sharing this.. I understand

Sometimes they turn them off when you’re around them. That’s when they have numerous active supply contacting them.

Its so true. My ex narc was sick one summer and I needed to pick something in the store and he rushed me to go out at that time which I never suspected, until later on I found out he was waiting for me to go so he can call a woman he used to be with.

Crikey Andrew, the more i see you, the more boxes get ticked. Mine has spent at least 3 out of 4 evenings this week with his face stuck to his phone, smirking and giggling. This is becoming normal, tho i get told to leave mine alone when i come home after a 13 hour work day, check my alarm is set and catch up on work messages. Thank you once again for enlightening me 😊🙌

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I am grateful to be able to share my experiences and insight with you Deborah.. continue to become educated.. ☀️💯🙌

@deborahbather7808

2 жыл бұрын

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone thank you. Its a painful learning process, but necessary 🌻

This is so spot on! I thought it was just my Narc’s obsession but this REALLY makes sense

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate you sharing this 🙏🙌☀️

I was tracked, and investigated and every contact male or female used against me. The truth becomes lies and the lies become truth. Its heartbreakingly, mindboggling, freaky traumatic experience.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

🙏☀️🙌

Mine claimed he was addicted to ‘adult’ dating sites and talking to women. This sounds just like him. You are a beautiful person and deserve better. We all do.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

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Amazing what I am learning here. I researched a couple months ago about my husband and what he is and Hoovering narcissistic came up. Long story but yes, one of the things he has is multiple phones. Didn't know why but now I know. Thank you again...

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome 🙏

God forbid you’re on your phone - all hell breaks loose.

Again…right on point! So accurately describes my experiences is scary! Mine went beyond cell phone, though. Between work and personal devices, he would have three monitors, one 42 in TV with 5+ sports going at the same time, three laptops, a tablet, two phones and an iPad, and his earpiece all connected and going at the same time. I hated going into the basement when the times forced him to start working from home. Our family room turned into an electronic nightmare. And that’s not including the teenagers computers and monitors and tablets and phones that were down there too. And when I would complain, he would accuse me of doing nothing but being on my phone and watching TV all the time…hum, wonder how the kids got fed and had clean clothes and got homework done if I never did anything but be on my phone? Lots of projection, blame shifting and gaslighting going on. Now that he’s left, the house is much quieter and there is a much more peaceful atmosphere. Before, you could literally feel the toxicity whenever he was home and all those devices were going.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this insight 🙌☀️🙏😉

Thank you for your video Andrew! Yes 💯 True, my Narc found a New supply on social Media from Korea and Thailand, its so painful, during Devaluation stage and the final discard and silent treatment last March, i left him since August, i was so broken and my heart hurts so much after 29 years married, i went full no contact.this is so helpful for me to try to stay strong but Most of the time im so Feelings down.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Rebecca.. I understand.. this will take time.. a lot of time.. please embrace your emotions and understand things do improve.. ☀️🙌🙏

@rebeccawallner2798

2 жыл бұрын

God Bless you Andrew🙏! So helpful and thank you much appreciated.

@dawna4185

2 жыл бұрын

sending big hugs....it does get better after some time xoxo

Yes, just survived a widow maker heart attack. For two days in ICU everything I woke looked over at him... legs crossed scrolling his phone. Not once did he ask if I was doing ok. When he left nurse said no good bye, no hug, just walked out. Just like at home.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your kindness and sharing this..💯🙌🙏🙏

@readytogo8533

Жыл бұрын

I nearly died at 33 with a blood clot, was in icu for a week after two emergency surgeries and then a regular room for nearly a week where it was touch and go if I could keep my leg and he never showed, not once. Once I got the regular room I started calling bc I couldn’t believe he hadn’t come yet and I was worried something happened. But no, sadly he just didn’t want to come and used the children as an excuse.

@readytogo8533

Жыл бұрын

I even had to beg him to even come pick me up and when he finally did he didn’t even hug me and tell me he’s good I’m alive or anything. It’s insane how cold they are. Up until that point I was with him from 16-33.

@billindawatts5502

Жыл бұрын

@@readytogo8533 so sad he was like that with you, but better you found it out at 16-33 than from 19- 69. You still have a chance at a longer better life. Me not so much long, hopefully better or at least happier. I hope we both heal our hearts soon.

This describes my ex perfectly. Called him out to his face one time, and told him he would still have his phone to keep him company long after I was gone.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

🤔😉💯

So true it's so annoying...every single morning he's on his phone straight away! Lives on his phone! We don't talk anymore & when we do he's so angry! I want out of this 9 year relationship but don't know how 🤔 we have a two year old.

One of the biggest shocks for me was realizing just how often her smartphone was in selfie mode when she was staring at it.

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

Жыл бұрын

😉😉

My narc first got his phone . Immediate he set it for thumb access . He had it locked constantly . He grabbed mine and deleted his pics and his family pics .. but I never seen his pics .. or his contacts .. of course if I asked he fly into rage .. he was constant on it and ignored me 24 hrs

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

Always a one way relationship with the narcissist..💯💯

Instrument of abuse and torture when used by narc.

Mines kept his notifications off so it wouldn’t pop up… I’m so happy I’m free! It hurts to realize the reality but I’m glad it’s over. I would love to experience a healthy relationship one day

@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone

2 жыл бұрын

💯🙏🙌

Yes speed. The narc thought he was Tom Cruise