Hey everyone! This is your boy "Pirate King" Here :) Oh my god, I was not expecting North to actually read this one, let alone so soon!! My hands are actually shaking right now. Thank you to North for reading out this epic, and to everybody for listening to it, and commenting. Your laughter, reactions, and sympathy mean so much to me. I love this community. I'll provide edits, answer any questions, and reply as I listen to the video. Take care all o7 EDIT: 1:07:57 the "moment of peace for Mike" left me in stitches! And you hit the nail on the head about the "raft that had grown teeth"/"dodged a massive bullet". Thank god I see all of that now in hindsight. EDIT 2: I've ordered Meditations! Looking forward to reading it-- it should go well alongside the Total War: Rome 2 campaign I've got going right now ;)

@Kazad22

Жыл бұрын

Boy, after hearing this, I join in pain and understanding. We care. It's great that you wrote, I just finished listening to this essay and I am healing myself with stories on this channel. Be strong.

@beardfistthegoldenone7273

Жыл бұрын

Buddy, this was a doozy of a life story 😆 Your battle brothers have your back though. Keep your bolter loaded and purity seals fresh!

@HipsterCthulhu

Жыл бұрын

@@beardfistthegoldenone7273 @Kazad22 thank you, Battle Brothers! o7 No pity, no remorse, no fear!

@AdamMichalMarkowski

Жыл бұрын

Oh boy, that was one hell of a story. All I can say is that I hope you will keep your strength and get better. North is 100% right when he says there are bunch of broken people in the community and while we do not share all the stuff you went through we understand your pain and daily struggle of going through each day despite lacking energy or will to do it. Stay strong and DO NOT GET BACK WITH THAT BITCH.

@jaytwokay3265

Жыл бұрын

Hope ya doing good homi. o7

This whole story is "But wait, there's more."

@laytey22

Жыл бұрын

Could also summarize it with "And then it got worse."

48:48 😂 *Scarcely contained rage* *Pause* "... Sorry." It's ok North were all here with you.

@SymbioteMullet

Жыл бұрын

proper dragonball moment.

@superspecky4eyes

Жыл бұрын

​@@SymbioteMullet Anger levels over 1000!!

48:38 - Jesus, I think he turned super sayain.

This video is something else. I don’t think we are ever going to top this one. But the kid eating fries with the shattered remains of his front tooth is a close second.

This sounds like a Charles Dickens novel come to life. Incredible that he survived, takes great strength 💪 ! ! !

Worlds healthiest theatre kid relationship be like...

For the first part, the disapproving family is relatable. And for the second part i was thinking "no dude, you deserve way better then your ex who says that she deserves better"

The toxicity here would fell one of Mortarion's Unbroken Blades. I'd rather date a Real Doll hooked up to Chat GPT. He should have attached some pictures of this woman and then *maybe* we could understand the choices he's made here.

@HipsterCthulhu

Жыл бұрын

Pirate king here :) I was tempted too, haha. Just picture Daisy Ridley (from the new Star Wars films), they look almost exactly the same. 🤦‍♂ Thank you for listening, and I promise I'm a hell of a lot wiser now in hindsight.

@RSBurgener

Жыл бұрын

@@HipsterCthulhu forgive my humor if it's a bit black, this subject brings it out of me. I've been through it myself, with a girl aged 17-21; lying, cheating, totally selfish and thinking she was Edie Sedjwick in her prime. She suddenly felt tied down after 4 years and having moved in together. I was in pretty bad shape for a long time after that. I think there comes a point where a man's fate forces him to be alone so he can cultivate the thing that women really want, which is him not caring whether he's alone or not. If you *need* them, single girls of a certain age can sense it and they'll turn aside. But if you're plenty happy without them because you've got shit going on, then they want to be there. That's what it took for me. I'm glad you've got it straightened out. I think you can build up an immunity to that kind of situation once you've gone through it.

@HipsterCthulhu

Жыл бұрын

@@RSBurgener Thanks, mate, and don't worry I've got my own dark sense of humour so I appreciate it ;) Sorry you went through that, that sounds eerily similar... but I get what you're talking about with "fate forcing a man to be alone to cultivate what women really want..." Or even just cultivate what HE needs first and foremost. I don't blame myself though- my therapist and old school mates helped me see that even if I wasn't so mentally unwell and "didn't need her" she still would've done this, just much later on. So at least I was able to dodge a bullet, and learn. It's just a shame it had to go down that way, you know?

Jordan Peterson isn't that bad, he gets an unfair rep these days

When you grumbled I instinctively shouted get in the sea! Oh man what a ride

Oh god the punching the school bullies and piss poor teachers hits close to home for me, Most of them are fat, unsuccessful or single parents now atleast 🙌

48:40 DAMN BRO, I thought you were going to turn into The Incredible Hulk ! ! !

25:00 Yeah, those teachers are a bane on society, on children. They tell the bullied kids to not hit back for then being "as bad if not worse than the bully" - they gaslight us into becoming doormats, slaves to tyrants and despots. Is it any wonder we let so much corruption pass in our society? Bullies don't stop if you ignore them, and their forced apologies are non-apologies, as they go back to the exact same behaviour the next day. They know that words are not consequences; but the teachers psychologically torture you if you don't accept the fake words they force out of them, as if you're the worse kid for not accepting lies and subjecting yourself. I once believed they don't know what they're doing, and that may be part of it, but really I believe the problem lies deeper: Women, and most teachers nowadays are women, 1) don't understand violence (the difference between real and play) 2) are total cowards and more afraid of the bully, and thus instinctively, unconsciously also rather interact (negatively) with the bullied kid rather than reprimanding the bully. They seek to sweep the problem under the rug or look away entirely. They never solve problems they just want them out of sight. I have seen the same pattern repeat in my 20ies when I ran a chapter of a new and upcoming party (that was later completely taken over and run into the ground by political extremists of exactly the same mentality; although they were completely fine with intimidation, bullying and violence against anyone not thinking like them, to the point of harassing their employers, and just running defamation campaigns, that are really hard to fight off when everyone just caves to them out of fear to be the next target. In Germany we're told to "beware the beginnings" and that's that, the beginnings. "The Wave" has been taken off the curriculum, and if that's not a canary in the coalmine I don't know what is. Same ideology that told the female teachers to tell the kids to not fight back against tyrants (ie bullies) and instead roll over and become submissive doormats. It's the same dynamic that happens in abusive cults. The same dynamic that happens in abusive families. I'm not unfamiliar with it. Remain steadfast.

Oof… this story. I live in his city and would reach out and offer him a game to help take his mind off the demonic crone that is his ex. But man oh man, he let himself become a punching bag. He should stay away from romantic relationships for a year or two after that one.

@HipsterCthulhu

Жыл бұрын

Hey mate, Pirate King here :) I'd love to have a game and meet more people in this community here! are you on the discord?

@ieatmidget

Жыл бұрын

@@HipsterCthulhu no I’m not on there at the moment. I suppose I should because I’ve been listening to this guy for over a year while I’m at work. I’ll check out the discord today.

@HipsterCthulhu

Жыл бұрын

@@ieatmidget Sounds good. I'm relatively new to discord too, so I think you can find me and DM me there?

"Mike wasn't on medication" ... yet. RIP Mike. I hope she was worth it. But Pirate King, I really hope you've learned to stand up for yourself since then. One of the shit things about life is that you have to teach people - particularly the ones you date - how to treat you, and if you don't, they won't treat you the way you want or deserve to be treated. Learning how to walk away from the ones who don't treat you well enough is really tough, but it's more or less literally the best thing you to do to preserve your quality of life.

As a one completely destroyed man, I hope Pirate king gets his life together after that hell. I know exactly how he feels, but I never recovered, my life is destroyed and have to constantly fight the urge to neck myself. I hope some day I get my shit together.

@BuckNut-ck1sl

4 ай бұрын

I hope so too mate.

Hahahaha hearing you growl made ma day

No job I ever got was good enough for my dad. He'd always direct me toward something that pays more but is completely outside the scope of my interest/capability and when I told him I wanted to write fantasy books he humored me for about 10 minutes before telling me "Just get a real job."

@20:50, I'm not a garbage man but in the land of Down Under, they get paid well and i've always met dudes in that line of work that are quite happy and enjoying it.

@HipsterCthulhu

Жыл бұрын

Pirate King here :) It's a noble profession! Like I said my family was... weirdly elitist and needed a decade of therapy. Thank you for listening o7

I think chaplain Exile are right. Marcus Aurelius could be a good, well, mentor. Just remember that he wrote it in his own diary, for private use. It were never meant to be public. So when it feels like he is being an arsehole to the reader, he is that to himself. I also recommend that you keep painting. Right now, your in a dark hole of depression. So paint. One miniature at the time. It might feel like your not doing anything or achieving anything, but with each painted model, you take one step forward. Soon you will be able to see that you are creating somthing. And for all that’s holy on holy terra, and unholy in the eye of terror, DONT TAKE UP CONTACT WITH YOUR EX. She’s a slaanesh deamon from the garden of nurgel himself. Read The Horus heresy first 3 books, legion of one from the Garro series, and Luna mendax. You are broken, you need to heal, rebuild, and cut of the toxic from a continent away.

@HipsterCthulhu

Жыл бұрын

Pirate king here :) Thanks for the advice mate, and way ahead of you- I just finished listening to Horus Rising after about two decades of putting it off, and Holy Emperor, chef's kiss! I'll remember that point about Marcus Aurelius when I start reading that as well. And I've 1000 points of unpainted templars and 500 points of guard to get through, so I'll force myself into the painter's chair as well. Thanks also for your other reading recommendations, and I'll keep taking the time to heal!

This story has Borderline Personality Disorder written all over it, not Pirate King, the s.o. Also, the film industry/acting is a freaking magnet for people with BPS, be really, really careful of the people you meet in it.

@HipsterCthulhu

Жыл бұрын

Hey, Pirate King here-- thanks mate, I appreciate you listening and commenting. BPS is something I only recently heard about, by chance on youtube. I think I'm going to read more about it, it seems freakishly close to both my ex and my grandma. And you're spot on about people in the entertainment industry, I've been in it for 10 years and most of them I never could get along with, especially back at drama school. Most actors I met from the UK had their heads screwed on right, though. They had a real "blue collar, just do the work" mindset which I really subscribe to. I'll be more careful moving forward, and use the hobby and other interests to meet a wider variety of people moving forward o7

7:20 Yeah, she sounds like the real type, before pretending to be a nerd became fashionable. I remember the German Goth Scene until its late stages in the late 00ies, early 10s. There were still those that were well educated, knew the arts with substance, as well as history and philosophy, genuine interests in such subjects. Wonderful conversations over exquisite drinks, long nights, and equally sophisticated fashion sense. But those were the last years before the pseudo-intellectual immitation-culture that everyone knows and mistakes for what Goths were, began to dominate. That's where you find the cluster-b-girls with questionable taste, that's at best an excuse for bad punk-rebellion nonsense whilst claiming to be individualistic while looking like a copycat of every other "individual" in that captured scene and with those same mental issues. Compare that to the prior Goth generations over here and it's like night and day. Imagine it like Nerdculture before and after "Big Bang Theory" where a similar thing happened. Goths in Germany could go to the Opera (especially fun coinciding when opera festival fell on the same time as the Wave-Gothik-Treffen in Leipzig, for which also all museums and historic sights are open, included in the ticket, and the media wanted to make a circus of it, portraying as the Goths ruining the Opera for the high society; when instead the finely dressed older women all fawned over the sharply dressed young men, but oh I digress again) and be catch smiles instead of being out of place. I was told a similar discrepancy about the beatniks and the hippies being the intellectual original vs the pseudo-intellectual mass-copy-imitation, but have never looked deeper into that. I do know from the German punk scene that their generation zero was asketic, no drugs, not even cigarettes or beer, and they refused social security as well, and also adopting any ideology, including the left wing dogmas and advertisements. They were true individualists, you could say the closest thing to a real anarchist. They even had a code for begging: Never the old, for they had little and needed it, never the young, because don't have anything yet, never from others who looks poor or sick or on the street either, only from the middle aged employed looking. The next generation of punks was immediately laxer and already tied to ideology. Now what calls themselves punks sits in the pedestrian zone, with some pity-dogs, mainly approaches people like themselves for sympathy/rapport bonuses, or those looking sicklish and poor themselves (can attest), while sipping beer, smelling of weed, and afterwards going right into the New Yorker (fashion chain) to buy the new Punk-Style pants for 80 bucks with the daily bonus income from begging on the street. These guys and gals take all the social benefits they can get ("to harm the oppressive system") and then beg from people who don't get a dime more, knowing how little they have, on top. If the other things I was told are true, then that implies a cultural cycle of new small authentic and sophisticated subcultures popping up, that later are imitated by phonies for narcissism or virtue points or whatever you want to call it. "I am also the cool thing outside the normals!" when they don't even have substance. They just roleplay infinitely instead of beginning to be. Why make it, when you can infinitely fake it? - In most cases I believe that can be attributed to ignorance. But the corruptors are malicious types, on the B-spectrum, in my experience. The worst, most malicious and most crass iteration, parallel or allegory(?) to this process might be Münchhausen-Syndrome. Those types also warp what the actual thing they claim to have is really like or about, when anyone with the real issue (or training) can tell that it's just lies to fit the personal inability to fill the mold of that claim. Imagine the nightmare of having more people with Münchhausen about a thing, than people suffering from or of the actual thing. . . Most great Goths of the time I only see at festivals now. They tend to stay at home. It seems to be a dying generation/subculture. No wonder with how schools in our country too are failing the children... thanks Ministries of Education. I wonder who's running those. . .

I feel sorry for the guy. It's hard to let go off something you've spent years working so hard trying to make work.

There is always two types of people in an open marriage. One who goes out and gets some and one who cries themselves to sleep every night

"If you're looking for a step-dad, you could do a lot worse son" LOOOOOL

Dang, North is based when it comes to relationships ❤

A lot of this i just thought was normal, especially the school stuff. I still have trouble thinking that it isn't. If Pirate King ever visits Scotland he has a roof here.

North I will say I do agree with you most of the time my one thing is in the moment those going thru the shit just don't realize it at the time. it took me years to realize my life was not normal until I met my now wife who is so supportive and has family that doesn't treat each relationship like it's a transaction. after I became aware of it I demanded to be treated like a human being

Problem why people cling to their abusive relationships and have hope for change is that they are not in love with the person that's abusing them, but the illusion they've cultivate, that was cultivated in them about that person in the formative years or months of the relationship. They're in love with an illusion, someone who doesn't exist, they keep seeing in the abuser, no matter what the abuser does. I'd say there's an extremely famous instance of this very pattern with a Mr Smith, who I can only hope realizes this at some point and doesn't break from the pain of the realization and world shattering. Even when the subconscious already seems to know, the fear of that world shattering admission keeps you in cognitive dissonance and clinging to perpetual false hope.

I needed to hear this today thanks northern and pirate king for Sharing More so the relationship part of the story rung home true happily been split for months now but at times it crosses my mind best thing rip the plaster off holding onto a bad hing due to having so much bad stuff go on in life your just causing more agro for yourself needed to hear this from someone other than my friends and my dad

I love the bit where he says Mike isn’t on medication and I just think… Yet 😂 I wish all the best pirate king. I hope he’s thriving in Vancouver!

Was there ever confirmation of a US affiliate store?

Merch link not working fyi Also very powerful story struck more than few chords with me. Wish him the best

I do want to say the "you had 5 minutes between class to use the bathroom" thing. Yea i did and so did all the other 500 kids around me with the 3 total bathrooms with 2 toilets and 3 urinals each. Sometimes it just didnt happen lol😂

Dang I'd love to watch you interview this guy

@HipsterCthulhu

Жыл бұрын

Pirate King here! Really? I'd be up for that if so! :)

Black Templars again, oh yea ! ! !

Is there an achievement we unlock for sticking this one out?

The rage when you hear she was basically making him a cuck was hilarious lol😂

"this distant relative was my mother" SAFE bruv be a good lad tell her to bang my line- Northern Chad Exile.

I haven’t finished the entire video and I know this is late but here we go. I’ve been in a similar relationship and here is my take: You have to define exactly what “cheating” is. In her mind, she didn’t cheat, meaning she may or may not have had sex with someone. But they may have done other things which in her mind was not considered cheating or she’s trying to lie to herself that she never cheated. She didn’t change, that was all regressed until she found something completely new in Japan and that old life and relationship was reminding her of her past. And her past in general is something that she is trying to escape from. So essentially in Australia, you were her world and she felt like she had to make it work, even by suppressing her emotions. When she moved to Japan, she found out that her world could expand, she no longer needed or wanted you to be in it, basically she felt like you were always holding her back. It sounds like a movie cliche about the “ugly/broken” duckling finding out that she can be a beautiful swan and suddenly shun her old friends or love interests. But it does happen. The unrealistic part is expecting that swan will learn her lesson and come back to her old life and friends like how it was before. I’m not saying it is impossible, but it is a lot of work to stay with that person and have a happy ending for both of you. Edit: Finally. Also I do know people who moved to LA. Don’t. Move to Georgia, many productions are starting there because it is cheaper. Hollywood is extremely toxic and you will probably end up throwing away all of that therapy.

disturbing. i had a VERY similar ex. the punching themselves in the face, roaring at you like an animal. literally theres no way to win when theyre set off. it makes my heart hurt with anger that anyone else ever had to have this experience. i really appreciate what you do here north and pirate king, im glad you survived ❤️

@jakepeat690

5 ай бұрын

is that you mike?

"Its like talking to a foetus that's made of shit...." Wow, bravo, sir

Everybody needs a binman

1:02:50 It's even more extreme than that and a by now ancient but still accurate joke in Germany: We have antifa groups and Neonazi groups in major cities. Usually several of the former who all hate each other's for having the wrong idea about the ideology (just as it was during the French Resistance) and only coming together for big events, and the latter usually being tiny and blown out of proportion, but nobody really ever hears about them (when that happens it's headlines everywhere for months). Now the funny thing that happens every once in a while is that when someone gets into such a big argument that it effectively leads to ostracization or self-imposed exile, the switch right to the other side - because in the end, their politics really are that similar, that they only disagree on details. Not just from antifa-group to antifa-group, but from neonazi-group to antifa-group and from antifa-group to neonazi-group. Somehow that still is not enough to wake people up that we're just caught in a civil more between two major denominations of the same ideology that try to make us believe that we can only choose between them or stand between them, instead of moving outside out of that stadium and leave them to their most stupid version of sportsball, and instead playing something else. Like Warhammer.

My thoughts the entire time he talks about his girlfriends insane anger. "Actors; am I right?"

Lol North nice to see that stoicism is sometimes hard to maintain for you too.

Hope you get back to getting painting your Imperial guard Army and move upward & forward with ur life..best wishes & god speed dude 🙂

The aunt who took me in after my mother went to prison told me I was too stupid to go to college, that kind of thing sticks with you especially from family that you rely on.

I see a whole Lotta pathological jealousy in the story.

Awesome job, Northern.

I feel sorry for your crabpot family. Instead of raising each other up, they keep pulling themselves down, including you.

@HipsterCthulhu

Жыл бұрын

Pirate King here-- crab pot. Good way of looking at it. Thank you for listening, and your sympathies, it gives me strength :)

What so literally every person in this guys life was a monster? Uh huh.

What's the game in the background?

48:50 fucking hell. What a ghastly woman.

@grisch4329

Жыл бұрын

Borderline Personality Disorder. Look it up.

‘It’s like talking to a foetus made of shit’ lovely

I have never subscribed to two KZread channels quicker in my lifetime. Hope you’re doing well, pirate king!

You declared a Waaagh!

Pirate King's family members are just like the ones on my biological mom's side. She and those family members kept telling me I'd never amount to anything. Thank God I never listened to them.

Man that was frustrating to listen to. You're a good man though North. And Pirate King, one little bit of advice from me is that no relationship is worth your own mental wellbeing, prioritise yourself and get yourself fixed up

Damn I felt that frustration

So much more than a gaming channel ❤

Be like Perturabo and remake your strength not like Angron

A classic case of love causing someone to rationalise/justify/forgive their partners horrific behaviour. She was a horrible person but he made one terrible decision after another.

Think there was a dig at Ben Shapiro there.😂

She was definitely purposely trying to sabotage the relationship, she found someone new in Japan and didn’t have the heart to break up with pirate, probably because she felt guilty. Edit: nvm she’s just a crazy beach,

46:51 I have a feeling that when you said it you were looking at your wife/girlfriend

After all this story......i hope that he's getting back is life! He deserve it!

Not a guy but there you go : I had the best long distance relationship during a couple of years. She was in a really shitty broken family, but we visited really often and all was the best. But when she moved to uni in my hometown, literally as soon as she'd unpacked her stuff she turned toxic as hell. Within a week she smacked me in the face and accused me of being weak for not hitting back. I took my toothbrush my dirty socks and left. So that long planned new life together crashed badly one week in 😂 Only for me to bounce into my best years of my life as I to was starting university 🎉❤❤❤❤🎉 It's only later that I got back into the hobby so you'll have to wait for a hobby nightmare ! That scream though! 😂😂😂😂😂

Every kid deserves a parent. Not every parent deserves their kids.

Even the merest mention of letting someone else into your bedroom or an "open relationship" is always translated as "I've got bored of us/you and our relationship but I want to have a bit of fun or do something exotic before I walk out of the door". If your partner ever suggests such things, your relationship is essentially over already. If you want to sleep around, that's fine, but do it normally, as in- don't try to combine an otherwise conventional relationship with it. Don't keep someone (who is essentially an ex-with-benefits at this point) tethered to you as a backup in a weird limbo when they're still emotionally invested in you. It's genuinely cruel.

@HipsterCthulhu

Жыл бұрын

Pirate king here :) Agreed. I actually meant to rewrite that part where I talked about open relationship "rules" and instead just say "If your partner suggests an open relationship- LEAVE!", but I must've forgotten to do that, because the story was so long. You hit the nail on the head there, and I only realise that now :/ Live and learn 💪

Relationship was great untill the last 3 years. Bro thats almost half of it. That relationship sucked.

EFF ME....nuff said...nackered here........

@jccraftmage2313

Жыл бұрын

Right? Frik...

@richardbradley2335

Жыл бұрын

@@jccraftmage2313 Makes me glad ive never had a relationship !!!

Meditations helped me so much. I needed that book and believe it is the book every young man should read

His girlfriend sounds alot like my first one as well. I left a year after she started that behavior. I didn't know there was a better option.

One day we will discover that north is secretly one of the world's greatest therapists, and his specialty is to secretly give everyone free sessions in the form of KZread videos to help us reflect on ourselves and find solutions to our problems. He obviously won't show his face on here because he doesn't want us finding out he actually has 3 Nobel prizes in psychology. Thats my newest conspiracy theory and I'm sticking to it

This one got me right in the feels.

As an australian can confirm our women are phycos, I've knows 7 people like the one described here. Haven't dated in 5 years bcease just had to many bad experiences... Its not just the bugs and animals that are vemomus here in aus. The open relationship thing made me so mad to, this poor guy man... "I need to experience sex with other people" I hope she gets a STI. That guy needs to experience a normal life let alone relationship with a normal person just so incredibly selfish. Hope he recovers. Another thing is don't blame him for wanting to stay with her as stated she was one of the best things to happen to him, why cant women brake up with guys, instead they just do this shit play games and ccasue more damage insded of just saying were done, if ur guy inst getting the hint he wont get the next one u need to end no go thermonucler and destroy someone mental state that's actually evil. Mentaly ill women can be given everything and still find a way to make it abuse when they are the abusers...

Kind of hope Mike went crazy, like actual crazy.

So this is the infamous pirate king

More Black Templars, yea ! ! !

@Northern Exile, do you remember the story of the army veteran that flipped on me in a hobny nightmare? Looks like the video is gone

To the Pirate King. Do NOT move to Los Angeles. Please. I listened to your whole story and my jaw dropped when you mentioned that. I live in CA and avoid LA and SF like the plague. The people i know who are orbiting around the movie industry there are miserable. The city is filthy. Its absolutely overrun with homeless and drug addicts. Plus hollywood is undeniably dying. Many creatives have already moved out of the city there, and other cities are seeing a boom (like Atlanta). I sincerely hope you stayed in Canada.

watching this a year later. epic

---> 48:45 Is that your: _'Happy Closet Fun-time Punch~Yourself~In~Tha~Face' _*_Impression,_*_ * North (?) (* if so: _well done;-)_

ALL PRAISE THE MIKE ! ! !

There is a thriving film industry in Vancouver. He should just stay there. Its objectively better in terms of quality of the city. And PK got rid of the STI that is his ex girlfriend so don't catch that crap again.

people are mean in LA

To be frank I think a lot of that story was embellished, it's what creative writers do, usually.

Gods speed Mike!😂

Why did it take you so long to just sack her off... jeeze 😂

One of the 3 reasons I believe in the idea of heaven and hell is because it means people like this guy’s family will be burning in hell like they deserve

Anyone got any idea how he’s doing these days?

@northernexile

Ай бұрын

Last time I spoke to him via email he was doing really well :) Not spoken in a while I need to reach out.

Build yourself up & change the kind of women you pursue that's what I did & I've been happily married 12 years now.

Bro, that island is really something... Misery loves company. Also, seems to me that the girlfriend got a case of extreme feminism, hypergamy, extreme liberalism, started hanging with the wrong crowd and monkey branching. Plus mental issues. I had my share of women with problems, but yours was something else.

That's how my toxic ex left me as well just about cheating on me & I left telling her new bf good luck.

hey northern, is this person from an asian background, asian as in chinese, vietnamese etc. This has a very asian vibe by listening to how you described what they have said. Very unlikely to come from an anglo saxon type family...

Telling him to replace Jordan Peterson is bad advice. Telling him to come back to JP when he is better able to handle it is better advice.

Engagement

I don't agree that you should stop reading Jordan B. Peterson, the amount of people he has helped, and still is, is astounding. All I would say is its worth reading other things as well.