The Journey Back to My True Identity - Walt Heyer & Kathy Grace Duncan (Part 1)

Walt Heyer and Kathy Grace Duncan share their transgender journeys - Walt lived as a woman for 8 years, Kathy Grace lived as a man for 11 years.
Walt describes how his sexual identity confusion began very early due to a grandmother who made him a purple evening dress plus sexual abuse from a family member. Walt began identifying as a woman as a way to be safe and affirmed.
Kathy Grace observed how her father abused her mother, and decided she’d rather be a man; worthy and strong, rather than weak like her mother. She started living a double-identity life before Kindergarten.
Walt and KathyGrace describe how God began to intervene in their lives, and how pastors and churches offered them help to transition back to their biological sex. Both Walt and KathyGrace share powerful transformational stories about how God healed them. They also discuss how normalizing and affirming people who experience gender confusion ignores the underlying wounds and disorders they are experiencing.
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  • @MrsRildaReads
    @MrsRildaReads3 жыл бұрын

    "What happened that caused you to not like who you are?" That is the ultimate question to ask.

  • @heatherrae4126

    @heatherrae4126

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s a lie from the devil

  • @ruthwilson5515

    @ruthwilson5515

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@heatherrae4126 amen 🙏🏻

  • @joybeum7177

    @joybeum7177

    3 жыл бұрын

    They both answered that question during the interview.

  • @MrsRildaReads

    @MrsRildaReads

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@joybeum7177 Yes they did. I'm thinking of what it means for me and others as we encounter those who have not considered this question. Transgenderism is an suicide attempt that you live through.

  • @rosemarymckinnon7517

    @rosemarymckinnon7517

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@heatherrae4126 exactly

  • @lindoskyi
    @lindoskyi3 жыл бұрын

    "None of this actually changed me". I'm glad this is discussed out of love and not finger pointing

  • @Julie_Truly_in_KY

    @Julie_Truly_in_KY

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s a universal struggle, isn’t it? We all think that one, elusive desire, if attained, will fix us, when the only Fixer is Christ alone! 🧡

  • @miryambarnabas2424

    @miryambarnabas2424

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Julie_Truly_in_KY Amen!

  • @estherkeeling777

    @estherkeeling777

    3 жыл бұрын

    Linda what do mean without finger pointing.

  • @lindoskyi

    @lindoskyi

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@estherkeeling777 I mean it is discussed without condemnation.

  • @SonyaHudson

    @SonyaHudson

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yessss... Linda. I agree with you. One ought to discuss this in love and not out of judgement.🙌🏾

  • @raeannaroylance5401
    @raeannaroylance54013 жыл бұрын

    An innocent, stable, loving, safe, happy childhood is worth more than gold!

  • @prisonerohope6970

    @prisonerohope6970

    3 жыл бұрын

    Truly! And even more valuable is when you return to that childlike trusting state with your Heavenly Father. A love that will never be betrayed.

  • @raeannaroylance5401

    @raeannaroylance5401

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@prisonerohope6970 “become as a little child”❤️ Yes! I love that you brought that up!

  • @SevG85

    @SevG85

    Жыл бұрын

    Hallelujah 100%

  • @valerieirvin249

    @valerieirvin249

    Жыл бұрын

    It's unfortunate that it is the exception rather than the rule.

  • @EscapeFromCrazytown

    @EscapeFromCrazytown

    Жыл бұрын

    Focus on The Family is at the forefront of the battle for healthy families. Be sure to support them.

  • @carlacafarella5203
    @carlacafarella52033 жыл бұрын

    Let’s not fool ourselves and think this is not a topic for the young. Kids in public elementary school hear about this all the time. We need to talk about this in our families.

  • @simplycj5460

    @simplycj5460

    3 жыл бұрын

    And in our churches.

  • @FreedomNationFiveGandmore

    @FreedomNationFiveGandmore

    3 жыл бұрын

    People do not realize that the radio waves the temp guns are unzipping our DNA expressions.

  • @kathydheming7470

    @kathydheming7470

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @thesaintmustwalkalone708

    @thesaintmustwalkalone708

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why would anyone send their young child to a place to be exposed to this?! We are parents... We are to protect our young ones, and as they grow, use experiences in the world to teach them, but I would never take my child to a bar to explain to them alcoholism, nor would I send them to a pagan institution to learn about evolution and transgenderism. Talking to our children even an hour a day about it cannot combat the 8 hours of influence a day they have with our children. I agree with them... This is not a topic for young innocent minds, nor would I want to expose my child to it. As they grow and I have trained them in the Lord, I will teach and they will already know it is evil.

  • @Haddasa

    @Haddasa

    3 жыл бұрын

    True, kids today aren’t as naive as we were as children.

  • @girlinterrupted9145
    @girlinterrupted91452 жыл бұрын

    We had a client who started investigating the life of transgenders , getting on social Media- meeting people who felt different, like him . He had been rejected by his mother , his and his father’s maleness criticized on a constant basis - where the girl’s were more accepted - though mom was probably abusive to them in different ways. He began to try on women’s clothing, experimenting with makeup , searched for female hormones ... Eventually he was counseled concerning this belief that women were better than men- that if he was a woman maybe his mother would have treated him differently , and maybe if he becomes one , she will finally accept and love him. Long story short- he was very hurt , felt like no one would ever really love him, desire his company, and accept him for who he is . Today he is married and looking forward to having a child. He is fully male and married to a woman.

  • @aysacanon3544

    @aysacanon3544

    11 ай бұрын

    😑🙃😫

  • @lilCaribbean77

    @lilCaribbean77

    11 ай бұрын

    VERY VERY TRUE!

  • @cyelgreen4655

    @cyelgreen4655

    10 ай бұрын

    That is wonderful.

  • @sweetpeasandyarrowaranchdi8327
    @sweetpeasandyarrowaranchdi83273 жыл бұрын

    This isn't all about the natural world, it's also about the spiritual world. Doors are opened and people need deliverance.

  • @chynnadoll3277

    @chynnadoll3277

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re absolutely right about that.

  • @WarpaintFTW

    @WarpaintFTW

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes!!

  • @margochanning6868

    @margochanning6868

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not at the expense of our children. Narrow is the way. You have to repent to enter the narrow gate. Read Pilgrim's Progress.

  • @SleepySylvanians

    @SleepySylvanians

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @ruthwilson5515

    @ruthwilson5515

    3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely!!!! Amen 🙏🏻. It’s a generational curse passed down from birth & they just need deliverance.

  • @laurascott9484
    @laurascott94843 жыл бұрын

    It breaks my heart that a pastor would tell someone they are not welcome in church. I love Mark 2:17 : When Jesus heard this, he told them, “Healthy people don’t need a doctor-sick people do. I have come to call not those who think they are righteous, but those who know they are sinners.”

  • @stefanielozinski

    @stefanielozinski

    3 жыл бұрын

    This whole thing was full of sad parts, but that has to be close to the top. Lord have mercy. What a terrible thing.

  • @kathleenking47

    @kathleenking47

    10 ай бұрын

    @@stefanielozinski what happned to Bruce Jenner though

  • @annfuller7399

    @annfuller7399

    9 ай бұрын

    Whoa to you leaders who stopped my little ones from coming to him!

  • @passionforyarn1990
    @passionforyarn19903 жыл бұрын

    Kids need to know this. My Grandson's teacher told the class that if they didn't like their gender that they can change it . He came home confused and we had to explain it to him. He was very upset about it, he was just 9 yrs old when this happened just a yr ago

  • @KellyGallowayloveslife

    @KellyGallowayloveslife

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s sad you can’t talk about Jesus if you’re a teacher in public school but you can tell kids things like that.

  • @home4life505

    @home4life505

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@KellyGallowayloveslife my sis and I were talking about that a few days ago. And it's sad b/c others dont see this.

  • @ninstone3457

    @ninstone3457

    3 жыл бұрын

    it is a shame that people who apparently have no knowledge of children are in a position to "teach" them

  • @christinalw19

    @christinalw19

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s why we put our children and grandchildren in Christian school. There are ways to budget to afford it.

  • @passionforyarn1990

    @passionforyarn1990

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@christinalw19 my teen daughter started homeschooling before the pandemic. I have been trying to convince my eldest daughter to do the same with my grandson.

  • @beckyboomershine5633
    @beckyboomershine56333 жыл бұрын

    We have an 11 yr old that is transitioning from a boy to a girl. Hearing the perspective of the affirmation of “what’s wrong with Walt” I see where I have failed. Going along with the acceptance of the beautiful pink dress for Christmas was unintentionally saying this is so perfect. And what he heard was you’re not perfect as a boy-this dress makes you the perfect girl. And I know it wasn’t one person and one incident. But as a family we’ve all done the wrong thing for what we believed to be the right reasons. Thank you for having these amazing guests. Your opinions are powerful. Such strength and courage. ♥️

  • @handledotcom

    @handledotcom

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh dear. It is not a pink dress that ''makes a girl''. Superficial, and VERY damaging, in my opinion.

  • @hparr3016

    @hparr3016

    2 жыл бұрын

    So sad 11 years old how sad is that how can she no she wants to be a boy??? She is a girl

  • @heathers4961

    @heathers4961

    2 жыл бұрын

    Put it in Jesus's hands. Have you been born again?

  • @sophiehawkins7178

    @sophiehawkins7178

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@amandamartinez8777 be careful who you listen to, particularly teachers and counsellors in the school system.they are pushing this gender bending agenda onto young children.

  • @Annette64772

    @Annette64772

    2 жыл бұрын

    Shame on you ……! Who are you to make a decision like 13 is young .

  • @SciFiGirl007
    @SciFiGirl0073 жыл бұрын

    "Messy people" is a beautiful phrase. Jesus sees that and looks past that! Isn't that wonderful?

  • @god-loverlisa8120

    @god-loverlisa8120

    3 жыл бұрын

    Truly wonderful!!!!

  • @iluv2worship

    @iluv2worship

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are all broken humans in need of a Savior. Jesus died for our sins, so we don’t have to stay that way. Once we are born again, we are no longer a sinner! The Lord refers to us as Saints.

  • @thegracetofollow4194

    @thegracetofollow4194

    3 жыл бұрын

    No JESUS doesnt look pass it he deals with the issue and corrects it I hope i understood you right if i didnt my appologies

  • @natalievidal8114

    @natalievidal8114

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@thegracetofollow4194 I think what she meant was that Jesus looks past our sins and sees our future potential

  • @maggiehendon9946

    @maggiehendon9946

    3 жыл бұрын

    JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY. 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 (KJV) Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:

  • @lexlynirvana
    @lexlynirvana3 жыл бұрын

    Jesus is in your corner, no matter what circumstance you might be in 😭❤️

  • @margochanning6868

    @margochanning6868

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jesus commands us to DENY SELF, take up the cross, and follow Him. Denying self, taking up the cross and following Jesus is the only way that Jesus will be "in your corner."

  • @JacGBoots1

    @JacGBoots1

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@margochanning6868 you're coming across as pretty judgmental~ The LORD actually helps us to grow into who we were originally intended to be!

  • @loyevangelists

    @loyevangelists

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JacGBoots1 i think that i might understand where margo is trying to come from. to say that jesus is in your corner can sound like you have your own plans and jesus is there to help you achieve your plans. when in biblical reality we are supposed to surrender our own plans to the lord. allowing his plans to lead us and not our own. i think that is what margo is trying to say. i think

  • @rebeccagutierrez1960
    @rebeccagutierrez19603 жыл бұрын

    I once sat on an airplane for 4 hours next to a transgender individual and this person confessed to me that his father sexually abused him for 15 years and he felt it caused him to be the way he was. After our literally 4 hour conversation "he" made a decision to behave and accept that he would behave as a female. Which is how "he" was born. I was so taken back I almost couldn't believe it! It was actually a wonderful experience- a real learning experience for me. This was a biological female. I think that I influenced the decision.

  • @jasonbryan9056

    @jasonbryan9056

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are you doing 😊😊😊👋👋

  • @taylorbaxter2006

    @taylorbaxter2006

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ridiculous.

  • @YeshuaKingMessiah

    @YeshuaKingMessiah

    Жыл бұрын

    So she confessed, her father abused her. She was a female the whole time you two were talking. One of you was simply deluding herself she was a guy. Don’t give delusional ppl support by agreeing with their delusion in any manner.

  • @OddOne251

    @OddOne251

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, that happened..... 🤦‍♂️

  • @mmaemserna9696

    @mmaemserna9696

    Жыл бұрын

    We're you calling it through its Biological gender? I didn't know what gender the person was assigned cause first you say him he then at the end you said female. Please don't feed into the craziness of America. I was confused for a bit but decide it was a woman going man. I do pray for it to find their Happiness through Christ

  • @robinmaze2188
    @robinmaze21883 жыл бұрын

    I respect their honesty. I have not heard this dialogues like this before. It makes sense.

  • @jazzstylin666

    @jazzstylin666

    3 жыл бұрын

    You dont hear dialogue like this because the lgbtq control the narrative. There is a whole detrans movement and other movements talking about this issue that the lgbtq attack mercilessly..."equality you know"

  • @robinmaze2188

    @robinmaze2188

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jazzstylin666 I think I get it. I just thought that the stories of their childhoods were interesting. I was certainly watching, listening carefully for any influencing. I am not saying all LGTBQ need to think the same, but to hear them say that changing physically did not change who they were was interesting. I was mistaken for a boy as a child because my hair was thin and short. It bothered me, but I knew who I was. Of course, as I got older, I could grow my hair long, problem solved. Not the same for transgens. Was just interesting.

  • @carolheppner4363

    @carolheppner4363

    3 жыл бұрын

    F

  • @diane7352

    @diane7352

    3 жыл бұрын

    Walt and others who detransitioned have videos on YT. Very interesting.

  • @diane7352

    @diane7352

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@robinmaze2188 That is why so many who transition committ suicide. They still don't feel "right" inside. Very sad.

  • @user-vp2yg4yl5o
    @user-vp2yg4yl5o3 жыл бұрын

    This is the problem that we still think it’s not appropriate for children.. to talk about ..this week a Canadian father is in jail for opposing his 14 yr old girl from changing to a boy..forced by government, school social welfare. The children need to hear and see this

  • @Whisperbutterfly

    @Whisperbutterfly

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true, they are going after our children!

  • @annieb7919

    @annieb7919

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Israel Israel The statement Must be made, or KZread will cancel the program. By the way, Israel Isreal. (Smiles!) Shalom

  • @maggiehendon9946

    @maggiehendon9946

    3 жыл бұрын

    JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY. 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 (KJV) Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:

  • @proudrosemom
    @proudrosemom3 жыл бұрын

    I can testify that Walt is the real deal. His kind and nonjudgmental spirit is Christlike

  • @estelleschneider9033

    @estelleschneider9033

    3 жыл бұрын

    Loved His reply to Pastor who said.. That He does not want His kind..and he said what kind do you want.. Is not the church a hospital for sinners. John 8:7 KJV So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her Luke 5:31-32 KJV 31 And Jesus answering said unto them, They that are whole need not a physician; but they that are sick. 32 I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.

  • @laurahayward3443
    @laurahayward34433 жыл бұрын

    The love of Jesus drew me out💜🙏 brings tears to my eyes

  • @jamarehire2011

    @jamarehire2011

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed! Just as He has done for every one who names the name of Christ. He drew us from the muck and mire of our sin.

  • @joybeum7177
    @joybeum71773 жыл бұрын

    Walt and Kathy are so brave and smart. Their insight and their relationship with Jesus saved their lives here and their souls forever. My thanks to both for sharing all this.

  • @chris-tfs9074

    @chris-tfs9074

    3 жыл бұрын

    My sentiments EXACTLY ... they're truly converted souls in God's Truth. What's even more miraculous & truly representative of God's Grace & LOVE is their commitment to a calling to help others that are stuck in deception! They are in my prayers!🙏❤🙏

  • @ummuhajar558
    @ummuhajar5583 жыл бұрын

    I’m a Muslim and I thank you for showing this video.

  • @akoden2667

    @akoden2667

    3 жыл бұрын

    It makes sense you’d be against it, Islamism is oppressive

  • @mariachipande

    @mariachipande

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ummu hajar ❤

  • @akoden2667

    @akoden2667

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mariachipande meow mix

  • @ummuhajar558

    @ummuhajar558

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@akoden2667Against what? Don’t these two people have free will?

  • @jesussavedme6260

    @jesussavedme6260

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bless you, I hope you know Jesus loves you very much

  • @anneerickson6347
    @anneerickson63473 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for addressing this topic. I’m the mother of an adult child who identifies as transgender. As a mother, I have offered love and emotional support. I feel it is important not to create a divide in our relationship because my goal is to draw them to Christ. It’s definitely walking a tightrope between affirmation of sin and modeling Christ’s love. Unsure what is right but doing my best.

  • @askseeknock7

    @askseeknock7

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mine is 17. Same. She wants me to affirm my helping her get physical medical help, but I see it as a superficial fix for an inner challenge. She is not physically disabled nor born with deformities but she wants me to help her as if she was ❤️ this just feels so much like a spiritual battle

  • @millier.206

    @millier.206

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@askseeknock7 It’s so hard to be a woman. People associate strength and confidence with being a man often or even freedom. I can see why they might feel that way, but I wish they could see some strong women that choose their own way and are confident. I’m a female mechanic but I didn’t do it until I was 35 because I thought it was just something men did. I really want to go out and talk to young girls and show them they can do things that are considered masculine and still be a woman (and even a feminine one at that).

  • @onThisJourney

    @onThisJourney

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@askseeknock7 it would be the same as buying street drugs for your child and who in their right mind would do that? This is an addiction or obsession and you shouldn't enable them to do something harmful.

  • @bethanysmith6284

    @bethanysmith6284

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beth burns you are way off base and clearly have no clue... You really need to educate yourself...

  • @jill2393

    @jill2393

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lifting you and your family in prayer. Praying over all the families that are struggling with this issue. May the Holy Spirit fill you and guide you , grant you strength and wisdom.

  • @wccroft2009
    @wccroft20093 жыл бұрын

    I love the wisdom Walt states at the end. Jesus wants all of us, not just our sexuality. So TRUE! This is a daily struggle for anyone. Trust our Father in heaven or trust our emotions that are on a rollercoaster? The Word is living water. The bible brought me the peace I was looking for all my life! Thank you Jesus!!

  • @maggiehendon9946

    @maggiehendon9946

    3 жыл бұрын

    JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY. 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 (KJV) Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:

  • @bellaa9703

    @bellaa9703

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @k3of5ks
    @k3of5ks3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Walt and Kathy for your love and ministry to others. ❤️

  • @joybeum7177

    @joybeum7177

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @cristalscott3309

    @cristalscott3309

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes ❤

  • @ElainahTru
    @ElainahTru3 жыл бұрын

    Yes...We need to address the brokenness before we address the transgender topic. ❤️❤️❤️🙌🌿🌿🕊️🕊️

  • @shelleywilliams3371

    @shelleywilliams3371

    11 ай бұрын

    Exactly! Transitioning is just a symptom of the real problem. It’s not the problem.

  • @angelicaflores-cisneros1601
    @angelicaflores-cisneros16013 жыл бұрын

    I am so glad they are having these talks. I applaud you, FOTF...❤

  • @NoTrashInHeaven
    @NoTrashInHeaven3 жыл бұрын

    It's vital that we hear people's stories & try to gain understanding of their choices made from their places of pain & brokenness . Thanks to all for this much needed discussion!

  • @jclilstar1973
    @jclilstar19733 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for allowing both of your speakers to share their message. We need more messages like this to reach more Christian's to understand how to reach out to those who have indenity struggles.

  • @maggiehendon9946

    @maggiehendon9946

    3 жыл бұрын

    JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY. 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 (KJV) Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:

  • @janonthemtn

    @janonthemtn

    3 жыл бұрын

    Walt did an excellent interview with the Heritage Foundation on you tube.

  • @hannahcrumley3103
    @hannahcrumley31033 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for shedding light on this subject! And especially for giving a platform for those who have walked this path and suffered through it!

  • @elenakasa5264
    @elenakasa52643 жыл бұрын

    So thankful that FOTF is discussing this. Supporting you prayerfully that you would continue in confidence of Christ's truth in these controversial issues. It's so important to be prepared, especially as we move into a future filled with adults who were encouraged or empowered as children to make these life changing medical decisions.

  • @maggiehendon9946

    @maggiehendon9946

    3 жыл бұрын

    JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY. 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 (KJV) Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:

  • @destressfrlyf843
    @destressfrlyf8433 жыл бұрын

    "JESUS is in your corner, no matter what circumstance you're in." So True So Wonderful

  • @Phoenix-lc7jv
    @Phoenix-lc7jv Жыл бұрын

    This issue isn’t about judgement: it’s about compassion. The panelists present a balanced view on this topic. We cannot always accept what people are; but we can approach what we don’t understand or know well with compassion.

  • @catmations5631
    @catmations56313 жыл бұрын

    I’ve only watched 10 min and I am already crying. The concept that Kathy and Walt shared of having one’s identity so abused and marred that you will do anything to escape it breaks my heart. It also angers me, that the devil attacks the soul of a child or adult in this way. Lord help me be an instrument of love and healing to others and help those whom the enemy has tried to destroy. Let the love of Christ reign! Let the people of Christ rise up in true power and anointing from the Lord to be used in Jesus’s work of reconciliation and redemption.

  • @mablack8813
    @mablack8813 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, all of you, for being so open and willing to share and talk about. As a 76-year-old Christian, I have rejected homosexual and related situations as just being immoral, but until; today I never understood the pain and brokenness that can lead up to such a strong desire to change genders. This gives me a lot of understanding and compassion for the many people who have lived through these terrible experiences. When my nephew was just three or four years old, his parents took him to a psychiatrist because he apparently exhibited behavior that was very girlish. H eventually became a very feminine personality and behavior and is now part of the homosexual community in Mexico City. I have no idea why this happened to him, but your presentation has given me a better understanding. Thhankyou from the bottom of my heart.

  • @jenniferboan9755
    @jenniferboan97553 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this conversation. The church needs to hear this.

  • @sweetlampe

    @sweetlampe

    3 жыл бұрын

    And the world needs to see and hear it so much more.

  • @judygarcia1299
    @judygarcia12993 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this show.. This is not the time anymore where we hide these important topics and discussions from our children...they learn this and more at school and youtube...We have to discuss these things!!!

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas49883 жыл бұрын

    The body of Christ Needs to act like Christ Love Compassion kindness forgiveness Lord help us to be more like you Amen

  • @overcomer4226

    @overcomer4226

    3 жыл бұрын

    I would add TRUTH TRUTH TRUTH to that.....

  • @nj8215

    @nj8215

    3 жыл бұрын

    Jesus forgave but He also said ." Go and sin NO MORE"

  • @jessyjonas4988

    @jessyjonas4988

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nj8215 Amen

  • @joybeum7177

    @joybeum7177

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @akoden2667

    @akoden2667

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s be nice to see you all do it and not only talk about it ty

  • @wairevival4552
    @wairevival45523 жыл бұрын

    I met Kathy Grace this past weekend. Her story is story amazing! She gave me some resources to help those that I fellowship with. This is absolutely for young adults and teens!

  • @mariaanvanderwalt4445
    @mariaanvanderwalt4445 Жыл бұрын

    I am watching this in 2023 and boy this was so touching. These 2 part series realy gave me a different perspective on what these people went through. Even the comments are so heart breaking and boils down to 1 thing that everyone of us want to be accepted and loved and Satan comes and steal from us and plant these ideas in us that we have to do all these weird things to be accepted. Thank you so much for this open and honest interview. I pray that people's hearts will be touched in such a way so they can feel God's Love for them in the mids of all their pain.

  • @kathleenking47

    @kathleenking47

    10 ай бұрын

    Now, SOUND OF FREEDOM Is out..to stoo this, or be aware

  • @1susiemusic
    @1susiemusic Жыл бұрын

    This open dialog is so nice to hear. We the Christian community have to be a safe place to help ppl who struggle with conditions related to gender. We have to be a place they can come for help and be lead to Christ ❤🙏

  • @sunnyskye1106
    @sunnyskye11063 жыл бұрын

    No stories have just shook my world to its foundation than to hear the stories of these warriors that put one heck of a whoopin on the enemy like these are. My gosh. Wow. 💪🏻❤️💪🏻

  • @squirrelandchick9484
    @squirrelandchick94843 жыл бұрын

    Thank you to your brave guests for speaking out on such personal issues. It is sad that their voices and experiences are seemingly being silenced by media to fit a new narrative, and what appears to me to be an unfolding social experiment causing long lasting hurt for many.

  • @JacGBoots1

    @JacGBoots1

    3 жыл бұрын

    yes! and sadly there are those who wholly exploit vulnerable people simply for money!

  • @mrstaylor8947
    @mrstaylor89473 жыл бұрын

    Brokenness causes so much pain.. People in prison are there through Brokenness, Family breakdowns are due to brokeness, etc....

  • @janonthemtn

    @janonthemtn

    3 жыл бұрын

    Some people in prison are just EVIL. I know, I worked there. There is evil in the world and that fact must be dealt with.

  • @jilloverlock8238
    @jilloverlock82383 жыл бұрын

    Thank you both for sharing your stories! This is a topic that has touched both my church and professional life and I yearn to react with the love of Christ as well as gain understanding. Thank you for being so courageous to share your hearts and experiences!

  • @jukes243
    @jukes2433 жыл бұрын

    This was beautiful. Jesus makes the difference. Thanks to Walt, Kathy Grace, and FOTF.

  • @LifeoftheSnobbit
    @LifeoftheSnobbit3 жыл бұрын

    This was an incredible conversation. Thankyou for hosting these two guests. What a relevant conversation. I found it clear, helpful, and life-giving.

  • @dianethompsonbusch6005
    @dianethompsonbusch60053 жыл бұрын

    Jesus loves us all and has the best plan for our lives. He is the only one that can truly fulfill the heart, mind and soul.

  • @karenthompson9692

    @karenthompson9692

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen!!

  • @theoriginaltamiz6891

    @theoriginaltamiz6891

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen!!!

  • @throughfaithandgrace2970

    @throughfaithandgrace2970

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen sister!!!

  • @chynnadoll3277

    @chynnadoll3277

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen, amen, AMEN!! 👏🏻👏🏻🙏🥰

  • @In_time

    @In_time

    3 жыл бұрын

    I don’t feel fulfilled at all. In fact, I’m miss my old life _bitterly._ What now?? :/

  • @lilacspring2556
    @lilacspring2556 Жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate the respectfulness and humility shown by the presenter. I aspire to be like that

  • @julieredmond8271
    @julieredmond82713 жыл бұрын

    Bravo to both of you, Kathy Grace & Walt for speaking out for our Lord & Savior and helping others!

  • @gracecrosbytv
    @gracecrosbytv3 жыл бұрын

    In the beginning of this video it is was stated that "This video is not for young viewers"... With all due respect and concern, I say that this is the BIGGEST problem with the church right now. Young people are finding out about this topic from the world first and from the church second after they have already formed an opinion or even a lifestyle based on what the world taught them. We don't need to wait to talk to youth about this. In fact, they, more than anyone, need to hear this and they need to hear it FIRST from people like the man and women in this video who were set free through God's Love. We have to wake up as the church and give children TRUE information on all topics NOW, because the world is and they are not waiting at all.

  • @danielescamilla4076

    @danielescamilla4076

    3 жыл бұрын

    gracecrosbytv I totally agree with you.

  • @Veronica.John10-10

    @Veronica.John10-10

    3 жыл бұрын

    They have to say it in order not to get complaints and get sued.

  • @Nikki30288

    @Nikki30288

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well said.

  • @jamarehire2011

    @jamarehire2011

    3 жыл бұрын

    It should be at the parents discretion though. I appreciate the disclaimer but agree kids do need to be educated Biblically on this and all issues.

  • @whisperstv2888
    @whisperstv28883 жыл бұрын

    Wow, that was so powerful when he said you can’t affirm that it’s ok to be this way without affirming there’s something wrong with who you are now🤯🤯🤯That really is the truth.

  • @debbiegum2226
    @debbiegum22262 жыл бұрын

    Thank you to both of your guests and their courage to share their stories, speak the truth, and share hope. I’ve heard Walt speak before

  • @joymychoice
    @joymychoice3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for telling your stories Walt & Kathy!!

  • @mariatopczij4525
    @mariatopczij45253 жыл бұрын

    The personal testimony is so powerful. Thank you for the courage to share your story. Thank you for speaking on the tough topics.

  • @elissabellajoy
    @elissabellajoy2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing. I feel very much left alone and abandoned by the church for wanting to reach the LMBTQI community with love (writing from Hungary, Europe). I'm so encouraged when I see more and more influential Christians embrace this community with the Love of Christ. Thank you. Please, pray for me 🙏🔥💞

  • @focusonthefamily

    @focusonthefamily

    2 жыл бұрын

    Elissa, we truly appreciate your heart and desire to reach out in Christ's love. You are in our prayers. May the Lord be your source of encouragement and guide you in the days ahead! Blessings!

  • @elissabellajoy

    @elissabellajoy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@focusonthefamily thank you so much. I really appreciate it - and all the wonderful content you create for us. Blessings 🙏🌞

  • @ofeliasanchez2603
    @ofeliasanchez2603 Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful, honest message, full of love and grace as Jesus is.❤ Why label it as improper for kids if the confusing opossite side can even teach and confuse our children in their schools even from kindergarten?

  • @emagard8076
    @emagard80762 жыл бұрын

    Thank you to Walt and Cathy for sharing their story. Knowledge is power :)

  • @ClaritySinger
    @ClaritySinger3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this truthful, compassionate conversation.

  • @stephenoni2019
    @stephenoni20193 жыл бұрын

    gotta have these discussions saved for when KZread decides to take this down

  • @1Nida
    @1Nida3 жыл бұрын

    I love what she said about the first thing is deal with the brokenness. ❤️🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @jasonbryan9056

    @jasonbryan9056

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are you doing 😊😊👋😊

  • @holasirena
    @holasirena3 жыл бұрын

    Wearing a purple dress did not cause your uncle to abuse you. Getting abused was not your fault and was not your affirming grandmother's fault. The abuse was the uncle's fault and the uncles fault alone.

  • @deachristiancatlady5435

    @deachristiancatlady5435

    2 жыл бұрын

    But it's his story and my opinion is that wearing the purple dress put him on his uncle's radar...made him a target. The uncle had issues for sure....but people who are sick, as the uncle was, do not victimize people with a secure reality. The purple dress was the target.

  • @holasirena

    @holasirena

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Vera it's his story and we should respect it. I agree. I don't agree with his internalized misogyny that makes him feel at fault.

  • @holasirena

    @holasirena

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Vera ♥️

  • @tiger751

    @tiger751

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@holasirena...... What?

  • @tiger751

    @tiger751

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@holasirena internalized mysoginy? Are you serious?

  • @marianaccari8854
    @marianaccari8854 Жыл бұрын

    I really miss waking up daily at 6:00 am with words from “Focus on the family” on my radio. It was a great start to my mornings.

  • @janonthemtn
    @janonthemtn3 жыл бұрын

    🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻for people going through this. I can’t imagine the pain they live with. Thank You Father for helping and healing all of us🙏🏻✝️

  • @Weissguys6
    @Weissguys63 жыл бұрын

    Thank you from the bottom of my heart to these dear people for sharing their testimony and helping us all better understand this issue. ❤️

  • @jasonbryan9056

    @jasonbryan9056

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello how are you doing 😊👋👋

  • @barbarag.roland7281
    @barbarag.roland72813 жыл бұрын

    This has been to long, we have needed these conversations for so long. thank you focus on family and Walt and Kathy grace please keep on doing these.

  • @evelynreyes6716
    @evelynreyes67163 жыл бұрын

    You’re both so incredibly brave for sharing your story! But thank you because it gives me hope for friends who’ve been walking out in this lifestyle.

  • @rachael5023
    @rachael50233 жыл бұрын

    This was great. I love hearing from people who have struggled and went through these issues themselves. It brings the needed perspective

  • @Outlander_1st
    @Outlander_1st3 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful open, honest, respectful discussion. Glad I listened. I want to understand, be compassionate and insightful about the struggles of someone with transgender issues. Looking forward to the next show.

  • @muddbrinigar
    @muddbrinigar3 жыл бұрын

    This IS a topic that should be discussed with children.

  • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
    @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals3 жыл бұрын

    I am a Jew and thank you for showing this video.

  • @sunnybajoras4364
    @sunnybajoras4364 Жыл бұрын

    Between avoidance and not knowing what transgenderism is, the truth to set us all free can't be ours. Precious lives are lost for the Kingdom and all of eternity. So thankful for this gracious interaction shared with us!

  • @myrtle1234
    @myrtle12343 жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry that a pastor presumed to tell him that he wasn’t welcomed in the church. The pastor was wrong and does not represent all Christians.

  • @diane7352

    @diane7352

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, quite un loving. I think I might have sat down with Walt when he had time and try to learn. Then I would have shared with Walt where the congregation was on the topic. There is no reason he couldn't try to broker this opportunity for learning experience for everone. No guarantee but it would have been heard ans seeds planted.

  • @janicechobaniuk4632

    @janicechobaniuk4632

    3 жыл бұрын

    This used to be the prevailing opinion in straight laced conservative christians. It wasn't ever brought up because this was the expected response.

  • @valeriebroom7824

    @valeriebroom7824

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah totally

  • @jgil1966
    @jgil19663 жыл бұрын

    I love Focus on the Family so much!

  • @janinevanreenen9470
    @janinevanreenen94703 жыл бұрын

    Thank you both for your courage, testimony, and work on behalf of those hurting.

  • @amyrae1087
    @amyrae10873 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing your stories and welcome, welcome welcome into the family of Christ!

  • @zeropointenergy1574
    @zeropointenergy1574 Жыл бұрын

    Intelligent and kind interviews. Blessings to Focus and their guests.

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas49883 жыл бұрын

    Amen Jesus is in our corner Well said Jim

  • @rena6895
    @rena68953 жыл бұрын

    This was so beautifully addressed with love and compassion ❤️

  • @jasonbryan9056

    @jasonbryan9056

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are you doing 😊😊👋😊

  • @beda3623
    @beda36233 жыл бұрын

    I think that kids, as young as they can understand life, NEED to listen and know about this, make no mistake.

  • @marjoriefrench9579

    @marjoriefrench9579

    3 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with you. There is a little boy 7 years old think he is a girl in a boy body. So children do need to hear this with an adult.

  • @AMonikaD

    @AMonikaD

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thats exactly the comment I made after you. This should be a mandatory material prior to signing any papers.

  • @thesaintmustwalkalone708

    @thesaintmustwalkalone708

    3 жыл бұрын

    What? Why expose innocent children to such evil?

  • @TheKlh54
    @TheKlh543 жыл бұрын

    Praise the Lord! He redeems us from anything and everything!

  • @jasonbryan9056

    @jasonbryan9056

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are you doing 😊😊😊👋👋

  • @girlmeetshomestead
    @girlmeetshomestead3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for having this conversation. Very insightful. 🙏🏼

  • @nicolepreou6754
    @nicolepreou67543 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Focus on the Family. You have been bringing Gods truth in love to families for so many years. Please keep shining for Jesus in these important issues 🙏

  • @carolynmorehouse3919
    @carolynmorehouse391910 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this conversation! I have Walt's book and it's great to see his face. Blessings!

  • @helenmclaughlin2361
    @helenmclaughlin23613 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Walt and Kathy Grace. You are amazing!

  • @joirrgang
    @joirrgang3 жыл бұрын

    I so appreciate you folks for dedicating yourselves on the front line of society today! We need you so much! Bless you abundantly!!

  • @jasonbryan9056

    @jasonbryan9056

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are you doing 😊😊😊👋😊

  • @joirrgang

    @joirrgang

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jasonbryan9056 fine

  • @jasonbryan9056

    @jasonbryan9056

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@joirrgang Where are you from if i may ask?

  • @joirrgang

    @joirrgang

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jasonbryan9056 NC

  • @jasonbryan9056

    @jasonbryan9056

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@joirrgang I'm from key West Florida

  • @mvj1153
    @mvj1153Ай бұрын

    “You can’t affirm somebody in a different gender without at the very same time saying there’s something wrong with you the way you really are.” So correct!

  • @florangelramos9724
    @florangelramos9724 Жыл бұрын

    I enjoyed the peaceful and professional conversation that these loving people had. Our youth is suffering right now and it is our fault. We hand them a weapon to harm themselves when we bought them a cell phone with access to all kind of information.

  • @maryaldaco7228
    @maryaldaco72283 жыл бұрын

    Many years ago I knew a woman who had 3 small boys with a married man and wouldn’t end the relationship. This woman wanted a girl so once a month she would dress her youngest 2 year old son as a little girl and call him Chrissy for a full 24 hours. She was a head case. The little boy hated this , the woman thought it was funny and cute, and said this was the only way she could have a little girl. I told her she was crazy as a loon but she wouldn’t stop. I was 19 at the time. I know this went on probably until the child was old enough to do something else, I’m sure it caused him a lifetime of mental suffering. How can people do such things to their children.?

  • @teresahawker8941
    @teresahawker89413 жыл бұрын

    Thank you both for your transparency helping us to help those who are hurting

  • @lynnfox2359
    @lynnfox23592 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this sad, yet revealing video. I am so sorry for these people and thank you for opening my eyes and ears to what they have to say. I am humbled.

  • @esterveldman4983
    @esterveldman49833 жыл бұрын

    This is such an eye opener thank you for this programme

  • @andrewhe9560
    @andrewhe95602 жыл бұрын

    Please help pray for a family in my church, that has a young daughter that have changed name and identifies as a boy. That she will, by her self, find what she really is in christ.

  • @focusonthefamily

    @focusonthefamily

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello, Andrew. We appreciate your concern for this family. Please be assured of our prayer for them. May God fill them with His wisdom and peace and enable them to seek His direction in the days ahead. If we can be of any further assistance, please don't hesitate to call 1-800-A-FAMILY. God bless you.

  • @pelonehedd7631

    @pelonehedd7631

    2 жыл бұрын

    In Jesus Holy Name I Pray for the young girl in Andrew He’s Church that she be Delivered from the confusion regarding the topic of this video and finds Gods Healing hands to guide her. In Jesus Holy Name I Pray. 🙏🏻

  • @gayemarianesfox2405
    @gayemarianesfox24053 жыл бұрын

    Amazing stories and, as always, compassionate hosts!

  • @apricotreewellness
    @apricotreewellness3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for talking about this.

  • @fpoil376
    @fpoil3763 жыл бұрын

    This is a great adult conversation. So much truth. ❤

  • @Phoenix-lc7jv
    @Phoenix-lc7jv Жыл бұрын

    6:42 Wow, this question is so timely and apply to a wide variety of emotional challenges: “What happened that caused you not to like who you are?” This is the question nobody is asking. We are afraid to ask. But it’s the root of almost all emotional issues one can experience. I’m thinking about drug abuse, gambling, low self esteem, you name it.

  • @nlh5992
    @nlh59923 жыл бұрын

    Wow , the honesty of your guest

  • @Renewed85
    @Renewed853 жыл бұрын

    I disagree with the opening. Why shouldn't children hear this? They need to know. The war is on the children. They are the target. Playing this and my kids will hear it

  • @amandaa1989

    @amandaa1989

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think they put the advisory for parents to watch first, and decide if they feel it appropriate for their family. I will show it to mine, but If someone has not encountered that up close in their personal life then they may not be ready for those kind of discussions, especially with younger children. But I wish that I had seen this years ago before my girls were teenagers and realize the importance of this conversation with them. Because they're has been a lot of influence that I did not like in their lives. This is also why we have decided to pull them out and continue their education at home. Teachers who have overstepped their bounds to try to affirm ungodly things in my children. Something that years ago the parent would have gotten a call about. But now the conversation has flipped in a different direction and the teachers encourage children to keep secrets from their parents.

  • @thesaintmustwalkalone708

    @thesaintmustwalkalone708

    3 жыл бұрын

    Because we should shelter our children from sin and teach them truth.

  • @humbleorgins4125

    @humbleorgins4125

    3 жыл бұрын

    Corri ten Boom has a great illustration as to why children should not carry burdens they are not equipped for.

  • @domicellahuisman1471
    @domicellahuisman14713 жыл бұрын

    Jim Daly is so cool and has so much knowledge.

  • @stephaniewhitt7661
    @stephaniewhitt76613 жыл бұрын

    This is an INCREDIBLY helpful tool to minister to those in our circles of influence who struggle with this or similar issues!

  • @tinaabbott4815
    @tinaabbott48153 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing their stories. Their heart, honesty, and openness really brought some perspective to me on this topic.

  • @missmlb3842
    @missmlb38423 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely loving how you are going at this issue with such real life people who are redeemed !!!

  • @debbieaylaian2402
    @debbieaylaian2402 Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful interviews, thank you!