I just started reading Carol's book "Mindset" and at age 56 a lifetime of anxiety and crippling fear of failure has evaporated. I'm halfway through the book and want to cry because I have literally floundered for half a CENTURY in mediocrity, despite being very talented as a holistic wellness practitioner and emotional healing coach, because of being hamstrung by low self esteem following a really difficult childhood. It's virtually gone. Guys. EVERYONE MUST READ THIS BOOK and embrace it's logos.

"Why does feeling stupid exist?" Now that's a thought-provoking question. Dweck's answer was better than expected.

Carol's book changed my life. Thank you for such an amazing interview

@niclasnorby

6 жыл бұрын

Can you please line out specific what have changed?

@laurenceguimaraes9199

6 жыл бұрын

It removed me from a self pity mentality, I'd think the world was out to get me. Now it matters very little what the life throws at me, because I'm the one that controls how I feel about it, and if know I an get through tough things and grow, well then, come at me.

@niclasnorby

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks. Will the book provide any valueable knowledge besides having a growth mindset? Some reviews suggest you get the same benefit from watching the Ted X talk. Best regards

@laurenceguimaraes9199

6 жыл бұрын

Both are valid forms of acquiring information, you have everything to gain trying to extract knowledge from both these sources. In the end it just matters what kind of information you are looking for, though the book focuses mainly on the growth mindset the implications on life of having such a mindset are much deeper then simply "I want to be better", it's understanding that having this mindset can make you see life in a dramatic new angle. Though I should say that not everyone reacts the same way, this book having such a deep impact on me (because it applied directly to my life) might not have such a deep impact on you, that is why you should understand what you are looking for so that you can look at the information and understand if it suits you or not.

@nomsayolisa1804

4 жыл бұрын

@@laurenceguimaraes9199 thanks for the great clarification

I would love Carol Dweck as a professor. I would understand everything she would be trying to teach. She's so soft spoken and filled with knowledge and wisdom. #blessher ❤

Her book really helped me grow. Thank you Carol! 🙏🏾

Wow. Cant believe this is here. Tom, I watched you on Rich Roll's podcast where you said Carol's book Mindset was the most important book in the English language. I ordered the book right away after your endorsement and am half way thru it now. So true....the fundamentals in Mindset are necessary in self discovery early in the process. Once you have this foundation, all books you then read afterward and learning you do will come from the proper "mindset" to have lasting effects.

"Yet" is such a powerful word.

I have listened to Tom talk about this book mindset in many of his other discussions. This is the video that finally had me commit to purchase it from audible.

Life is about the contribution you make and knowing that when you look back you went for it

I have just realised that the historical phenomenon that civilizations that were freer in their mindset, attained the most is still latent. It is not about the learning, it is about how free your mindset is to do so... Can you learn from your failures and from what the whole world offers you?

I worked for over 20 years with a fixed mindset company. The leader was a growth mindset for his own ideas, but never conveyed that to the rest. Secrets, blame, and relations, got into the main company's fixed mindset. Even when bought out this remained. No consequenses for bad behavior.

I'm here from Rich Roll's February 26, 2019 podcast where you said Carol's book "'Mindset' was the most important book in the English language." That was a fantastic podcast! Teach the children! That's where I feel the greatest impact for the growth mindset can occur. Teach the teachers and the parents that will become 'growth mindset' people that will influence and teach the children, who will become the leaders of tomorrow. A growth mindset curriculum ought to be made mandatory for all schools (and to teach immigrants who desire to become American and Canadian citizens). Think of all the international students who come through North America for education, who will then go back to their homeland and become parents, CEOs and leaders of their country. Here is a *specific idea*, donate some books to teachers, principals, school boards, the minister of education, policy and bill makers. Write in the book your testimonial, the link to this interview as well, write "Pay it forward", as in donate the book to someone else once the reader has read it. That's my creative idea/contribution on what I think you can do @Tom Bilyeu. That's how you can "give back". Even though I am paralyzed by fear/anxiety/trauma, I will order me the book and then pass it on once I'm done with it. You made me want to believe I can change myself. Thank you for being you.

Thank you so much for uploading this video and all the old interviews from IQ! I've been looking for them like crazy and it seemed such a waste for them to be completely erased. Thanks a lot :D

@TomBilyeuClassics

7 жыл бұрын

Not a problem! I know how much this content changed my life, so I wanted to bring it back so it could do the same for others.

@lawrencecornacchia4406

5 жыл бұрын

I want a list of the books in each video. I would love a list of study words.

Thank you so much for the way you asked her question. it really brought out useful information from her. good questions leads to deep answers . thanks

Tom this is brilliant and life changing.

Got chills the moment she began speaking - SO GOOD! I LOVE HER BOOK SO MUCH!!!

Enjoyed this very much. Thank you!

"people don't realize their entire life is structured to make them feel good about themselves". hmm so good. thanks Tom

Thanks so much. This interview was so helpful for me.

Carol’s book is amazing. I read it before watching this video and I’m glad I did. Carol is such a graceful and intelligent woman. Thanks for doing this interview!

Tom, THE best interview to-date! Let's get more people to see it! Wow! Thank you! Blew my mind. - Greetings from Mexico.

Thank you so much for posting these videos! I replace my usual TV show with these & I feel my life has changed since watching (and applying) the lessons I learned from these vids. more power uploader and may d Almighty bless u always

Loved that bit where he talked about himself and his company for ages and ages then asked a question about the middle east.

I've been watching and learning from Carol Dweck videos and I have been using the Not Yet with my students. It's done wonders in the library and I see the students feel better of themselves and reading more. Thank you. I love watching your videos. Thank you!! :)

@MsCaterific

4 жыл бұрын

This, you, your process, deserve a gazillion "likes" {(👍)⁹⁹⁹⁹}⁹⁹⁹⁹⁹

This is incredible. I just ordered to book Mindset halfway through listening to this.

What a powerful information in one talk, thank you you very much wonderful man.

Many think this ( People think being alone makes you lonely.....but I don't think that's true .....Being sorround by the wrong people is the loneliest thing in the world 😱😇

@charliechase7390

6 жыл бұрын

Solution is to enjoy being alone and find others that enjoy similar interests.

I agree with what some other people said, Carol Dweck’s book completely changed my life, so much so that I’m passionate about speaking on the growth mindset! :)

Looking forward to reading her book one day. After seeing so many impact theorys, cool to see Tom formulate a lot of ideas that would eventually become standards for him

Her voice is very calming.

After reading this amazing book I told my partner who then gave it as a gift to her sister in Spanish. This could really create massive change and improve people's lives, like it has mine. It took me 50 years to understand what I had been doing to myself for so many years. I am so thankful I read this book. Imagine the change it could make to the minds of school children and by proxy our 🔮!

I am excited about shifting myself and spreading your ideas.

Apart from what Carol says, I also love the way she talks. Totally embodying the latest quote on my mirror: "Slow down to the speed of wisdom".

Thank you. Could you give me advice, how grow my self esteem?

Thank you!! ❤️

I freaking love her body language and hand gestures!!!

When Carol said, "People prematurely conclude they have a growth mindset," Tom was like "YEAH!"

Amazing!

@Tom bilyeu: Thanks for the great content you are putting out there.Just a clarification: it is not a "jews-palestinians" conflict, it's an "israeli-palestinian" one,judaism is a religion, there are many jews everywhere in the world, in arab countries too, and they don't necessiraly have problems with palestinians, in fact there are many that are against that political(not religious) conflict too.

As her book impressed you I see you impressed her. She's a charmer

We invented "stupid". Omg. Mind blown. It's as if "stupid" was this dark, looming mountain all my life. And I just found out that all it is, is a shadow created by the fixed mindset of society. I can walk by and through "stupid" now and it has no effect on me. SO RAD!

Learning point - to not be so fixed in my mindset, but believe in the possibilities and execute x

Growth mindset all the way

AMAZING

Is any where I could find the "ask carol" section which is previewed in the end?

I loved the content and appreciate Carol's global contribution. I think Tom talked way too often and too long at some points. Much opportunity was missed to see Carol speak into the organization and unleash her expertise. Overall, good work!

My entire family has a fixed mindset. They are good people, but, they are closed minded. My mom's advice to me is "don't say anything". I'm done voicing my opinion to my sisters and brother. One of my sister's is two years younger and looks way older than me. I think she resents me for taking care of my health and exercising. I look super young for my age and she looks her age.

Wow this Edna Mode looking lady spitting out facts ❤️

I want that book Tom!

'often these evolutionary explanations are not testable, so is the story that I tell better than the story you tell?' Carol Dweck

Never saw such powerfull stuff

I would like to understand what "praise the process" means. I cannot comprehend how intelligence or talent shouldn't be praised. What is the "process" that is referenced?

How do you measure "contribution"? I am lost about it.

The enthusiasm tipped into lots of monologuing in this interview ( I'm a fan of enthusiasm, but I also like interviews where the interviewee does most of the talking).

Am I the only one that thinks Tom should try to get the 80 year old guy that changes his career every 10 years and won the Nobel prize in science? I believe we could learn some things from him.

@KaoXoni

5 жыл бұрын

Maybe Tom is already trying!

Can you share the reading list of books :)

@TomBilyeuClassics

6 жыл бұрын

impacttheory.com/reading-list/

Haha - write a book, start a Show...I see You took the advice. Well done.

Mistakes are my friend..

ITFK!! Be legendary

Do you have new episodes of Inside Quest?

@solstice7827

6 жыл бұрын

Kristovsky his channel is now Impact Theory

7:25 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

Success or failure ,,there's a lesson and it's all humbling .😇

I love the voice this cute lady Miss Carol ( grateful ) look very prestigious .😱superb her personality 😱😇

18:50👍

This should have been seen by MILLIONS not 2821. If you watch this please share.

Idol Tom great this Miss Carol .She's open her opition as good as well.( Salute )

I think women like her are super BEAUTIFUL instead of the clowns we have as celebrities but what would I know I'm just an intellectual

wow

Here ( knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom 😇

20:00

Idol Tom and Miss Carol ( to be honest ) I love your voice and all words from your lips ..😘😱👏 Salute)😇

greek philosophers had a different name for growth mindset

@daniellc1331

5 жыл бұрын

Ricardo Cabrera what was that name ?

Miss Carol and Idol Tom __ ( here ) If two people are meant to be together ,,they will eventually find their way back into each other's arms ....No matter what !!!!!!!!😱😄😍😘😎😇

shyam kumar from india ..

Miss Carol love your good opition ( promise I want to meet you one of this day being my good mentor ) 😄😇

Wow interesting from Miss Carol words ( but I share one interesting words to ) take every risk ( Drop ) every fear ( think we have eyed always not sleeping ) 😇

( Now is true love ) ( that's ) not fade away ?😄😍😘😇

This new generation on top is more kids ( being an instruments for spell the good lesson from good breed parents ) 😇

Sure, this comment only has one like. But I believe in its capacity for incremental growth.

If you have a good enough experiences from many struggles ( you will be a good survivor ) it's your weapons in this universe to be a strong and brave ..( with God's will ) 😇

In order to succeed,,your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure .😑

It makes me cringe reading a caption like "solve Middle East peace", and seeing the photo they picked. First it assumes the middle East wants to have anything solved by the West, that I'm sure they dont. Im not entirely sure who came up with this but it's an awful choice and doesn't even reflect the substance of this interview.

Being a low profile and down to earth attitude ( yes I want to change this world ) but only one my body and one brain .( Only one powerful in heaven my inspiration )(+😇

Miss Carol to be honest ( i'am what I'm ) very natural attitude and behaviour ( only my weapons ) simple , humble ,honest ,kind .😃😇

im sorry but tom voice stress me out lol her voice helps me understand this better

I believe to the voice of the kids in this new generation and the good advocacy and vocation from good breedings ( children's ) they called gifted child from god 😇

Oh u lost me at the Middle east part. Occupation is real and you can't change the situation simply by teaching people to have a "growth mindset"!!!!!

@neilwilliams2883

5 жыл бұрын

I'm always amazed at how Americans just skip over occupation and war profiteering to suggest that the solutions to these issues are simply intrinsic to the people in of the Middle East as if war does not affect people

The elephant in the room is the battle between two different mindsets: Management and Leadership (emerging). If we listen to experts on fasting (reduced eating) we quickly learn that the world driven by money - does not want us to be healthy!!! If we look at the Iceberg model of change we realize that the world we take for granted consists of many layers, the deeper we go the more profound the impact: 1. Events (visible), 2. Patterns, 3. Structure, 4.Vision and 5.Mindsets (I have swapped 4 and 5 from the original). Many management job titles have somehow been reworded to read Leaders. However, if we take John Maxwell's paradigm of 5 levels of leadership we soon discover that the bottom level leaders i.e. "Position (People follow because they do not know any better)" require no effort or ability to achieve it!? It can be given to anyone based on appointment. And that is where Management trying to mean "Leadership" ends. Management and the real Leadership are not complementary mindsets, they are worlds apart. In the Management defined world, we find many "management" bodies of knowledge, courses, certificates that break down the process/technology/people world into disciplines like: Business Analysis (BABOK), Change Management (CMBOK), Project Management (PMBOK) etc. Then each of the disciplines gets further broken down into chapters and subchapters. For examples, CMBOK consists of 13 chapters divided into 53 subchapters. The authors who wrote those bodies of knowledge have read a lot of books. This is the world of money for the money sake. In the real world, the trick is to "connect (all those) the dots", hence huge failure rates. Instead, find a good author, then follow a "gold vein" of other authors with real life stories, not some "processed knowledge". Real life stories are much healthier "foods". Carol Dweck's Fixed vs Growth Mindsets, Liz Wiseman's Diminishers vs Multipliers, Traditional vs System Thinking, etc all essentially provide further evidence of this great divide between Management and Leadership. We could also mention Stephen Covey's 8 habits of highly effective people, W.E.Deming's 14 critique points of management, Chris Argyris' Defensive Routines, etc to further emphasise the need to abandon Management mindset in favour of Leadership mindset. Management implies a ceiling, blame, problems, whilst Leadership does the opposite: thriving, sincerity, psychological safety etc. Business Analysis, Change Management, Project Management are all misnomers. We should advocate for Business Acumen, Change Leadership, Project Leadership etc. Make the switch!

Amazing!