The Discipline of Finishing: Conor Neill at TEDxUniversidaddeNavarra

If you had €1000 and you could invest that money in someone's future, who would you bet on? Is it yourself? Outstanding speaker Conor Neill from IESE Business School illustrates how to self apply the three criteria Warren Buffett uses to choose the people in which he trusts with his investments.
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  • @davidchandra8722
    @davidchandra87223 жыл бұрын

    "We so underestimate of what we can achieve in a year, and so overestimate of what we can achieve in a day. A page a day and you have a book in a year. You'll never write a book in one day."

  • @davidchandra8722

    @davidchandra8722

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TFrills edited mate. thanks for the correction

  • @sandramacias1060

    @sandramacias1060

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry I do not know what are you trying to say or who are you trying to reach wrong person

  • @kk65275

    @kk65275

    2 жыл бұрын

    thanks, this validated what's been brewing in my mind for a minute

  • @jayarikishii

    @jayarikishii

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have heard from somewhere else that we overestimate how much we can achieve in 1 year and underestimate how much we can achieve in 5 years.

  • @djairalert422

    @djairalert422

    Жыл бұрын

    Damn this was powerful bro, thank you I needed to hear this!💪🏽💻👏🏽

  • @khuynh4378
    @khuynh43783 жыл бұрын

    "Failure is repeated bad decisions! Success is repeated, consistent good habits!" Thank you very, very much, Mr. Neill!

  • @jwh0122
    @jwh01222 жыл бұрын

    Tools/Exercises 14:16 intelligence: write stuff down 15:38 energy: deal with the next unit 18:06 integrity: dedicate your time to things that matter

  • @GInternational

    @GInternational

    2 жыл бұрын

    Good reminder

  • @anakagung7613

    @anakagung7613

    5 ай бұрын

    Thanks. Those three stuff is the meat of this ted talk. I wish there is somekind of summary for this content. 20 minutes lecture is quite long

  • @huzaifashaikh2942

    @huzaifashaikh2942

    3 ай бұрын

    thanks

  • @se7ensavage707
    @se7ensavage7075 жыл бұрын

    I loved this talk. The moment he said that writing a diary entry everyday would let you remember everyday of your life, altered my consciousness.

  • @slackerlifeman
    @slackerlifeman11 жыл бұрын

    I recently started summer courses at college, and combined with my blogging and programming I felt very overwhelmed, and what's been going through my mind lately is "there's not enough time in a day." Yet, when I finally sit down and start to write my code, all of the anxiety of not being able to finish what I set out to, not being able to make a post about it by midnight, it all goes away. All I need to do is stop thinking 15 minutes ahead, it does me no good. Thank you Conor Neill. :)

  • @samueloyelowo3544

    @samueloyelowo3544

    Жыл бұрын

    reading this today and trusting that you've become who you promised to be able to bet on... Your text is a a plus to me after listening tp Conor Neill. Thank you.

  • @Abhinavg07

    @Abhinavg07

    3 ай бұрын

    How is life now? It's been 10 years I see

  • @nickolasnielson4727
    @nickolasnielson47273 жыл бұрын

    Amazing, inspiring talk. I never realized how important it is to NOT look at the finish line. It's all about enjoying the journey. Thank you so much sir.

  • @ConorNeill

    @ConorNeill

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Nickolas - yep, the finish line is for ego, not for the discipline to make steady daily progress ;-)

  • @TheToolsOfWizeChoice
    @TheToolsOfWizeChoice4 жыл бұрын

    This was some serious reinforcement to what I already knew 7 years ago. Watching this for the 10th time in 2020 is just as powerful as the first time i listened to this ted talk. Thanks a million

  • @michaelthompson9579
    @michaelthompson95798 жыл бұрын

    This speech perfectly drives home the power of knowing your audience. Realizing that he is not speaking to native English speakers makes his control that much more incredible. A great tip for most speakers is to imagine the audience does not speak your native language. Would you not also slow down and use simple language.

  • @eddyerle3338

    @eddyerle3338

    6 жыл бұрын

    very valuable remark!

  • @marinagaliatsatou1095

    @marinagaliatsatou1095

    4 жыл бұрын

    Χ μνμΜ. Ψψncc mβ. Μ vvncxv

  • @kennedyifeh3389

    @kennedyifeh3389

    4 жыл бұрын

    You are a genius

  • @thetreasonseason

    @thetreasonseason

    4 жыл бұрын

    Interesting. Please elaborate.

  • @nonchablunt

    @nonchablunt

    4 жыл бұрын

    In the USA i would.

  • @notesmedical7601
    @notesmedical7601 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing. I remember a quote of Jim rohn. Saying. Failure is not a single, cataclysmic event. We do not fail overnight. Failure is the inevitable result of an accumulation of poor thinking and poor choices. To put it more simply, failure is nothing more than a few errors in judgment repeated every day. Incredible Ted talk! ❤️

  • @WilsonSilva90

    @WilsonSilva90

    3 ай бұрын

    I remembered that too. And I can see how this talk influenced the book Atomic Habits. At the end of the day, as Jim Rohn says, there are no new fundamentals. All these authors take each others knowledge and give them their own flavour. But the fundamentals are the same and have been written thousands of years ago.

  • @MarkLugo
    @MarkLugo4 жыл бұрын

    When people ask me how do I drive long distances on vacation. I reply I enjoy every mile of the trip knowing that soon we will arrive at the place we dreamed about going to one day. Take it one beautiful mile at a time.

  • @johnalombardi2951

    @johnalombardi2951

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mark Lugo , thank you for an excellent observation. Best Regards, John Lombardi

  • @drakemattingley8261
    @drakemattingley8261 Жыл бұрын

    I spend quite a bit of time listening to TEDx talks. I started to listen to them in my early twenties and hoped they would help give me insight . Quite frankly my most favorite TED talk ever! I listen to this about once a week and it never fails to inspire me!

  • @Hello_am_Mr_Jello

    @Hello_am_Mr_Jello

    7 ай бұрын

    Did they help you though?

  • @DeadpoolAli
    @DeadpoolAli4 жыл бұрын

    "A page a day you'll have a book in a year. " This!

  • @lynnefreeman7687

    @lynnefreeman7687

    4 жыл бұрын

    ❣️❣️❣️💯🙏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏💋💋💋💋💋💋

  • @kamanuvidiluis3952

    @kamanuvidiluis3952

    4 жыл бұрын

    This!

  • @jennifs6868

    @jennifs6868

    4 жыл бұрын

    Too many books already! Too much possibility! Live your life, ambitious or not. Appreciate the beauty or not; no one should be telling anyone else how to succeed! You do it the way you see fit, and hopefully do not hurt anyone in the process. Namaste.

  • @PrinceUxas

    @PrinceUxas

    4 жыл бұрын

    The miracle of compounding.

  • @CreamIceMs
    @CreamIceMs9 жыл бұрын

    Why does this not have more views!??? It's one of the most inspirational TED talks I've heard! And I've seen quite a few. I've been telling myself all day "Don't stare at the marshmallow" and it has helped me stay on track and not get distracted :) Great talk.

  • @asifexisted

    @asifexisted

    9 жыл бұрын

    I agree, I have listened to tons of TED Talks and this talk ranks very highly among the few very inspirational ones. I am combining the lessons in this talk with Covey's 7-habits and following Julian Treasure's guidelines about speaking. I am seeing the impact in my personal and professional life already. Oddly enough I am a trail runner too; not as hardcore as Kilian though :) p.s. instead of a pocket diary I started a private blog only I can see via blogger. I am using the function to post blog-posts via emails so I can "write" on the go, or from anywhere.

  • @MrInfinityyy

    @MrInfinityyy

    9 жыл бұрын

    This video just changed my life. I've always been a thinker, not a doer. And whenever I had to do something simple like "unload the dishwasher" All I thought about while doing it is it being clean. That's just a drag. I just need to pop in some headphones and think "one more song" :)

  • @aristarkos3303

    @aristarkos3303

    9 жыл бұрын

    Melissa Graham Your comment motivated me to watch the video, and I'm glad I watched it; thank you :-)

  • @MarkWestscoutingmaniac

    @MarkWestscoutingmaniac

    9 жыл бұрын

    Melissa Graham Because nobody likes to start. Starting is the hardest part, keep going is hard, but finishing is easy.

  • @PatxiHastoySocial

    @PatxiHastoySocial

    9 жыл бұрын

    Melissa Graham The title is not helping and the speech is not accessible via TEDx App (I've tried on Apple TV App and youtube). Maybe because people especially young generations are used to quick fix they'd rather get a 3 bullets point... The mastery way is lost, worse it's not even respected anymore.

  • @georgegalamb7523
    @georgegalamb75238 жыл бұрын

    Excellent presentation. Remember, good things comes to those who can wait. He has a very effective way of talking. He's slowly gets to the point, but elegantly and very informatively. He's making sure that no one misses a thing.

  • @faizulazim2906
    @faizulazim29064 жыл бұрын

    Let me confess something, I've watched almost a hundred TED talks, watched a lot of talks from 'most viewed' or 'must watch' recommendations from the sea of TED talks. Sure, in a way they were all good & some of them were extraordinarily insightful, eye-opening & relatable. But, let me tell you something- THIS TALK IS REMARKABLE! It’s remarkable by its topic. It’s remarkable by its clarity. It's remarkable by his way of figuring things & making us understand the facts very easily. & above all, the lesson was remarkable. In a sea of videos,speeches and talks on topics like being effective, working towards goal, ways to be successful & so on, this is one of the bestest talk which carries a lot of insight in just 23minutes. Loved it! Edit: this talk is extremely underrated. They didn’t even put it on the TED app.. So disappointing!

  • @lindasanto7577

    @lindasanto7577

    3 жыл бұрын

    yes absolutely!

  • @exoticjam7176

    @exoticjam7176

    3 жыл бұрын

    The start was slow for me but by the time he's put his point across it made me think, that everything I do and every situation I've been, really has just been a series of my personal decisions. The reasons why I look down on people even when I myself have nothing to prove is just a series of my own personal inadaptability. And even this right now that I am commenting would not have come to fruition had I not seen your comment of full appreciation and so Thank you!

  • @TEDx
    @TEDx11 жыл бұрын

    One of our best TEDx talks at this moment...

  • @-marcel

    @-marcel

    4 жыл бұрын

    Actually some good unoriginal and overused ideas expressed in the worst way and mixed with plenty of BS ...

  • @DrSamsHealth

    @DrSamsHealth

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@-marcel True, but at the same time that was quite moving.

  • @keesdejong4727

    @keesdejong4727

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@-marcel Could have been cut to 3 minutes...

  • @BLackeys2012

    @BLackeys2012

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree hardly

  • @Paulinapazmusica

    @Paulinapazmusica

    4 жыл бұрын

    This js compketelu blown me away, when he asked Who woull you bet on... Mindlessly I thought... myself

  • @thuanthien6199
    @thuanthien61992 жыл бұрын

    What's an inspiring talk! Today is Aug 01, 2021, I dedicate to bet on myself from this day. I would love to applied all the principle that he mentioned in the talk and come back at the next 5 years (01 - Aug 2026) to see the achievements. Who would join me to start this adventure, leave the comments, I would love to have companions along the way!

  • @SkGow

    @SkGow

    2 жыл бұрын

    How are you doing Thuan Thien ? I hope my comment serves you a reminder in your goal.

  • @thuanthien6199

    @thuanthien6199

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@SkGow I'm doing well, thank for the reminding.I'm pretty much on my way to reach the goal. I wish you all the best!

  • @mommyingBetchay

    @mommyingBetchay

    Жыл бұрын

    Aug 4, 2022 - the day I finally listened to this TED talk after putting it in my Watch Later. I want to come back here after 5 years, too. Currently- writing something about my day

  • @Omna_100

    @Omna_100

    Жыл бұрын

    August 19th. I'm in! In 5 years time I will clock in to evaluate my journey. All the best guys!

  • @mebreknourelhouda3354

    @mebreknourelhouda3354

    Жыл бұрын

    Novembre, 13 ,2022 A homework is what brought me to this video, but it's good I guess so I'm joining . See you after 5 years inshallah

  • @coldcoffee9611
    @coldcoffee96113 жыл бұрын

    i would say this was the best ted talk i have ever watched

  • @untitled3478
    @untitled34786 жыл бұрын

    Practical Tools to help you with each of these criteria 1. Integrity- Open their diary and count your hours. The coherence between a diary and your values is where your integrity lies. (When you track your minutes dedicated to tasks, you will know what your current value is and what you need to adapt in scheduling to allow enough time to for the values you tell your self means most to you. Be honest with yourself. If you say something means a lot to you then spend a lot of time on it! 2. Energy- Any task you do that takes time only allow your mind to see 15 minutes. Break and 15 minutes. Repeat and continue. (Deal with one step at a time, do not let your mind to jump ahead see the whole picture). Climb a mountain one step a time. 3. Intelligence- Write down everything. Write down your life and document yourself. Describe the marshmallow

  • @rubycollado5948

    @rubycollado5948

    5 жыл бұрын

    Mohamed Ibrahim iï

  • @Ben-gg9in

    @Ben-gg9in

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's the same thing I do when I run long distances. I just focus on the pace of my breathing in relation to my steps and never look ahead far enough to where the thought of how much further I have to go, will distract me from my complete attention to controlling my breathing so that I can accomplish the objective I have set for myself.

  • @stephenlakin1828

    @stephenlakin1828

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree completely

  • @julianachooi7645

    @julianachooi7645

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the notes, Mohamed!

  • @alcidest.8901

    @alcidest.8901

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this NOTE

  • @Rapidshoker
    @Rapidshoker9 жыл бұрын

    Mr. Conor Neill, you don't know how much I thank you for your speech. For the first time in my life I have realized just how important is to take the time to write things down. I was hoping to find a speech that trully gave me a guide to get the success that I deserve. I admit that my problem in the past was that I kept looking at the bigger picture and not the little details. Thanks to you I now know the three principals that will help me for the rest of my life: INTEGRITY (INTEGRIDAD) ENERGY (ENERGIA) INTELLIGENCE (INTELIGENCIA) Thank you so much for this speech and for the rest of the viewers please help spread the word for others to watch this...

  • @fredrikakarlman4962

    @fredrikakarlman4962

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@ConorNeill THANK you Sir! You just made my day! 🙏👏💖👏👣StaySafe! 🥰

  • @juliaheidihorn
    @juliaheidihorn4 жыл бұрын

    This is like one of the best things i ever listened to in my whole life. I just had the beginning of a panic attack an hour ago. And sometimes because of this issue I feel so powerless, like I'm not able to achieve all of my dreams (and I'm a big dreamer) because I'm too weak. The thing is I stopped smoking a month ago, I stopped Marihuana two years ago (the main reason for the panic attacks, they stay with you, even though they visit you less) and I lost some friends because of that. I don't know what will happen because of me stopped smoking, maybe I have to get distance to other people. Anyway the point is he is so totally right. Human beings aren't perfect. Our nature is weak, but we decide. I just love this so bad. It's giving confidence and hope. Thanks Ted talk for giving the internet a good reason to exist.

  • @princejoe290
    @princejoe2907 жыл бұрын

    First time I clapped while watching youtube. An outstanding speaker. I'll search your other trainings.

  • @bhavnaparasrampuria3748

    @bhavnaparasrampuria3748

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes ,I was clapping loud.!!!

  • @nickrameau938

    @nickrameau938

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha, crazy, I clapped too.

  • @TheNovemberRose

    @TheNovemberRose

    4 жыл бұрын

    Happy to not be the only one having done this...

  • @GallantryX
    @GallantryX Жыл бұрын

    That's one of the best Ted talks I've ever watched, totally amazing, he brought some inspirational ideas that could actually change things in an unbelievable way, Well done!

  • @bettygoncalves8333
    @bettygoncalves83333 жыл бұрын

    This was, by far, one of the greatest speeches on success that I’ve ever heard !! Thank you 🙏

  • @bighugmedia8152
    @bighugmedia81529 жыл бұрын

    He is speaking to a room of SPANISH people. I suspect amongst other things he is speaking slowly out of generous consideration that English is not their native language. This talk is BRILLIANT and applicable for any type of success you might want. Relationship, health, wealth... To bring this back to YOU and the invitation he lays forth.. If you are complaining about the speed in which it was delivered, perhaps your mind is really just creating a diversion, because your ego does not want YOU to pay attention to it. Consider... This may be a way your ego sabotages other areas of your life. Success can be scary :)

  • @eduardomaciel9855

    @eduardomaciel9855

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes, it is, I am from Brazil(speaking Portuguese), so with that manner to speak, I could understand very well

  • @livehappier7706

    @livehappier7706

    4 жыл бұрын

    Big Hug Media THIS!

  • @susana.tresamantes

    @susana.tresamantes

    4 жыл бұрын

    The guy is talking about being present and enjoying the moment, of course he’s gonna be slow and chill af. Also for the language comprehension. I agree with you, people complaining about that are just annoying 👎

  • @zasvedogovore

    @zasvedogovore

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is maximum speech speed to listen and understand (not translate, but understand)

  • @gianmikaeloalegre8500
    @gianmikaeloalegre85004 жыл бұрын

    When he mentioned documenting your life everyday, I came to a realization that the journals I wrote over the years were not a waste. When I read back the things I wrote, I could not believe the history I've been through and the growth I have attained. His point on taking things one step at a time made me re-think about my youth when I used to do that, because I always want the end result now and forget the process getting to the desired result. I would totally bet on myself now. What a brillant talk. One I very much needed especially during this trying time with COVID. God Bless this man.

  • @susana.tresamantes

    @susana.tresamantes

    4 жыл бұрын

    Gian Mikaelo Alegre 📓 🖊

  • @jeskg720

    @jeskg720

    4 жыл бұрын

    Enjoy the process instead. So you not get so dissapointed.

  • @johnalombardi2951
    @johnalombardi29514 жыл бұрын

    Dear Conor, This is a fabulous presentation, thank you for motivating me to take immediate action to handle an important issue. Trust that 2020 will be good to you in every way . Best Regards. John Lombardi Maryland, USA

  • @ConorNeill

    @ConorNeill

    2 жыл бұрын

    A pleasure John. 2020 was an interesting experience!

  • @mellonlemon3819

    @mellonlemon3819

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ConorNeill omg you do replies! I just subscribed to your channel, Conor! Best thing that happened to me this 2021 was watching this tedtalk. Very inspiring. Godbless and take care sir!

  • @ibrahimhcaglayan
    @ibrahimhcaglayan9 жыл бұрын

    I had always wondered what makes some men (or women) great! What is the one thing common in the lives of Churchill, Caesar, Napolean, Ataturk, Ghandi etc etc. I think I finally found it nearing my 60th birthday few years back! It is the fact that they all kept a diary! When I talk to my young colleagues, young engineers at the beginning of their career, I advise them to keep a diary. This holds true for anyone in any profession or walk of life. I wish I had known this 50 years ago when I tossed away the diary my father had given me as a birthday present. He had given me the most important present but I had nobody to advise me about its importance!.... This is an extremely well prepared and delivered TEDx talk!

  • @arsenicpharaoh413

    @arsenicpharaoh413

    6 жыл бұрын

    Churchill was an alcoholic war criminal mate, bad choice!

  • @michaeljohnson2922

    @michaeljohnson2922

    5 жыл бұрын

    The difference isn't s diary, it's the belief that other people matter. When you truly believe other people matter you'll immediately realize that you matter. Now you have something to write about.

  • @grbgeslnger24

    @grbgeslnger24

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’ve often wondered this many sleepless nights 😆🤔

  • @Ikr2025

    @Ikr2025

    4 жыл бұрын

    Or - could it also be that there is someone in the background who is supporting then and doing all the mundane tedious everyday work, so they don’t have to and can concentrate on their career/passion/calling ? Because doing tedious boring mundane tasks for little to no recognition or reward takes a fair bit of discipline as well.

  • @Edelwiess1066

    @Edelwiess1066

    4 жыл бұрын

    For some it's the opposite. Realizing that You matter then leads you to treat others like they do.

  • @karenchristensen408
    @karenchristensen4087 жыл бұрын

    Conor, your message was fantastic! I'm changed. I've been writing every day since listening to your talk and even more importantly for me is that I'm ALL IN now; I know who I'm betting on:). Thank you!

  • @ConorNeill

    @ConorNeill

    2 жыл бұрын

    that is wonderful to hear Karen

  • @johnmariano47
    @johnmariano476 жыл бұрын

    Thanks! Mindtricks to finishing. Anything new to a person will always be vague unless repeated. A good teacher always repeats a lesson or principle until it creates an impression in the students' mind. It is a good thing that these videos can be repeated over and over again until one can recall and apply the lessons.

  • @vaklinpetkov7496
    @vaklinpetkov74964 жыл бұрын

    This was the most helpful and inspiring ted talk i've had the pleasure to witness in a while. Thank you, Conor Neill.

  • @ConorNeill

    @ConorNeill

    3 жыл бұрын

    ;-)

  • @hansgonzaga8786
    @hansgonzaga87863 жыл бұрын

    "We so underestimate what we can achieve in a year, and so overestimate what we can achieve in a day" - Conor Neill When you have a marshmallow don't stare at it. The diet doesn't fail because of weakness of will, the diet fails because the chocolate is there My Favorite line.

  • @ConorNeill

    @ConorNeill

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well summarized Hans ;-)

  • @husainshaikh8724
    @husainshaikh87246 жыл бұрын

    First five minutes .... Okay. This is good. Next five minutes .... This is great. Next five minutes ..... Oh my. This is the best ted talk I've seen. Next five minutes.... I'm having a mindgasm. Next minute.... Put it into action.

  • @marcusbarnescannon7647

    @marcusbarnescannon7647

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! Haven't been this inspired to take action in a long time.

  • @kahoku451

    @kahoku451

    4 жыл бұрын

    Agreed!! He just kept dropping great knowledge and inspiration 🙌🏽

  • @hadrawisarcad5432
    @hadrawisarcad5432 Жыл бұрын

    This is one of the ted talks that forever stays with you. Amazing unique quality of speach, words and importance. This man is truly his speach all the way. Amazing.

  • @blackbeltsecrets
    @blackbeltsecrets4 жыл бұрын

    This has to be one of the most profound Ted Talks, yet! A MUST watch ... When I wanted to become a barrister, I took one day of study at a time - getting up at 3am every day so that I had the time to fit the study in before work. This video is gold.

  • @bryanthsieh8920
    @bryanthsieh89207 жыл бұрын

    One of the greatest TED talks of all time. I felt inspired, felt integrity, I felt energy, and I felt intelligence. I felt a marshmallow. I It gave me goosebumps. It's that good. Thank you, Mr. Conor Neill.

  • @jagadishmadiki8968
    @jagadishmadiki89684 жыл бұрын

    Very rarely I comment on a video, I just wanted to say something about him ... this is one of the finest presentation with good content useful for every one

  • @megabizland
    @megabizland3 жыл бұрын

    When he asked "who do you bet on?" I would say 90% myself. However, if this is 5 years ago, I would never even dare to think about myself to bet on.

  • @dl9484

    @dl9484

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's great to hear. Keep up the positive vibes.

  • @benjaminvenner3500

    @benjaminvenner3500

    3 жыл бұрын

    10% on me

  • @kritiigupta4842
    @kritiigupta48422 жыл бұрын

    Omg.... This is probably the best Ted talk I've ever seen !

  • @sweetycamy
    @sweetycamy4 жыл бұрын

    I just finished watching this wonderful ted talk and I'm in tears. I needed a strategy to improve my productivity. This has been a suggested video. I will watch it again

  • @ivanverdian1
    @ivanverdian14 жыл бұрын

    Tool to maximize intelligence = Writing down any idea or your own life / write diary. Tool to maximize energy = one step at a time Tool to maximize integrity = The coherence between diary with value Success is repeated consistent good habit.

  • @fatiyorokobi6833
    @fatiyorokobi6833 Жыл бұрын

    I'm speechless , this is absolutely the best Ted talk I watched so far

  • @jimmyharris9344
    @jimmyharris93448 жыл бұрын

    I'm absolutely blown away that there are negative comments about this. Starting with zero money and four children and an unemployed wife 20 years ago, I started and still own a small advertising business that more than quintupled my personal income, while allowing me to employ others along the way, give generously to what I believe in, get 100% out of debt, run a marathon and win an international body-transformation contest with my wife - among other things - At 50 years old, I can tell you that my success is in large part based on employing these three principles. My failures are almost 100% related to NOT employing these principles. Going forward, I intend ot focus more directly on these things. I listened all the way through and took notes. I thought his delivery was perfect. Any faster, and it would be hard to think about what he was saying. The people who haven't because it's "too slow" must be either really intelligent, or just impatient.

  • @michelleoneill4867
    @michelleoneill48674 жыл бұрын

    This is one of my fav Ted talks.... Thank you Connor Neill

  • @marcgreen007
    @marcgreen0075 жыл бұрын

    Enjoyed this talk very much. I watched it years ago and the (only) one thing that stuck with me from back then was to focus only on the next step when things get hard. That has been helpful over the years, even though I had forgotten where I learned it. Hearing this talk again has now opened the greater message for me and I am committed to living by this. Thank you!

  • @susangurungart
    @susangurungart3 жыл бұрын

    I am so glad i found this vid at the age of 20, sitting here in my room searching for motivation during the lockdown period. I will again comment in July 2021 to tell you the stuff I have achieved while applying this knowledge. cuz somebody once told me and I wrote in it my diary that ''knowledge is not knowledge unless it is an applied knowledge. ''

  • @NicNicoleta
    @NicNicoleta6 жыл бұрын

    I enjoined a lot ,I learn a lot.thank you mister Conor.The fact that you speak slow,permet me to absorb better the information.Sure I will not forget your talk.Great presentation,high class

  • @MrDivad006
    @MrDivad0068 жыл бұрын

    Best talk I have heared so far, I heared quite a lot. People that are bitching about the length of the presentation didnt enjoy the moment and therefore missed the whole point of his talk. Way to waste 20 min..

  • @NoorMAmen

    @NoorMAmen

    8 жыл бұрын

    it really is the best i heard so far as well ; this should spread .. i think its pretty much undervalued... I've been listening to Tedx talks.. and i just wonder how come i did not come pass this Talk ? +Neil thank you for your Talk. sir ! .. 👏👍

  • @nthabelengkomane7021

    @nthabelengkomane7021

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Lowinator yes it was truly amazing

  • @kaushikhande8460

    @kaushikhande8460

    6 жыл бұрын

    It is the best ted talk so far for me as well

  • @susana.tresamantes

    @susana.tresamantes

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!

  • @ShaNuWaterF.O.Y.
    @ShaNuWaterF.O.Y.8 жыл бұрын

    Learning to say No, I followed Warren Buffet's Strategy. Before that, I was doing everything I could for everyone but myself. I continue learning to have integrity, improve my energy through physical endurance and exercise intelligence by obtaining more knowledge through reading , watching influential, positive and honest people. Namast'e

  • @loveishappiness7330
    @loveishappiness73306 жыл бұрын

    This is a very good speaker and a passionate, intelligent, inspiring talk. I think what he is saying is to be true to yourself, your own values.

  • @angsrudra27
    @angsrudra27 Жыл бұрын

    This is one of the best ted talks! I watched this 8 years ago (2015) and the one thing that stuck with me was write every day. But every time I watch it there is something extra to learn and be inspired by.

  • @roaringrid
    @roaringrid9 жыл бұрын

    One of the best TED talks ever. I want this talk to reach millions!

  • @slavicastepanovic259
    @slavicastepanovic2594 жыл бұрын

    This is one of the most inspiring talks I have ever seen on TEDx!

  • @a3uu
    @a3uu8 жыл бұрын

    This was such a great talk, thanks for uploading. I wrote in journals for a few years but stopped recently; this really got me back into the habit.

  • @IdeasMarket
    @IdeasMarket5 жыл бұрын

    I salute to Conor for his Beautiful, Inspiring, Wisdom words for improving our life towards betterment. Thank You and Bless You CONOR.

  • @GregBFernandezJr
    @GregBFernandezJr9 жыл бұрын

    Just watched this one twice this morning. Thanks for the inspiring talk Conor Neil

  • @psyxoux
    @psyxoux10 жыл бұрын

    Really inspiring and very motivational. I watched it twice. And this is now my third time with my wife. Your words spoke to me, and I am repeating E.I.I. in my head all the time... Energy. Intelligence. Integrity. Best wishes from Lebanon [and my wife's homeland Canada] :)

  • @vimmivimmi3173
    @vimmivimmi31733 жыл бұрын

    Incredible - but true. I had over the years had many motivational speeches but never had this impact. This Gentleman is equipped with the 'art of communication to be listened not heard' - Thank You Sir

  • @shobanbabukommusportsphysi3793
    @shobanbabukommusportsphysi37936 жыл бұрын

    SO INSPIRATIONAL TO LIFT UP ONE'S LIFE TO THE FULLEST BY PRIORITIZING THEIR GOALS.

  • @WhtKnght74
    @WhtKnght749 жыл бұрын

    'Outstanding speaker' is certainly accurate, but it simply doesn't do him justice. For the record, my intro would have been: "Conor Neill should consider changing his name to Obi-Wan Conobi, because the man is a Jedi Master of public speaking." That is, of course, until my editor would get hold of it and hurriedly red-pen the complement down to something less colorful and/or skirting trademark infringement, something more like...'outstanding speaker.' All kidding aside, I've seen most or all of the TEDx talks on self-motivation (yes, including Tony Robbins) during a recent quest for inspiration, and this video is number one with a bullet in my book, both in substance and style. In addition to the presentation's overall excellence, Mr. Neill also aced the most crucial element of such a talk (which, quite inexplicably, is often either given short shrift or even omitted entirely); namely, providing the audience with the practical tools necessary for them to achieve long-term success in attaining each of the provided goals. After seeing this video, I checked out his KZread video series/linked blog on communication skills and personal achievement, which left me similarly impressed; the videos are engaging and succinct (mostly 1-4 minutes, perfect for my ADD self), each providing excellent, practical tools and strategies, and the blog posts provide additional quality advice and strategies with similar brevity. Muchas gracias, Mr. Neill...here's hoping that we have you around to continue providing a positive impact and inspiration to others for many years to come.

  • @studadon1

    @studadon1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bruh get to the fricking point! You have great content but you're dragging it out. 🥱🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @REDROSE-wq4jz
    @REDROSE-wq4jz4 жыл бұрын

    WE ARE BLESSED TO HEAR YOUR ADVICE MAN ALL RESPECT CONOR YOUR AN AMAZING TEACHER

  • @neeleshs2143
    @neeleshs21435 жыл бұрын

    One of the best TEDtalks. Really simple but vital points. Neatly and gradually revealed in a thoroughly engaging manner. A true guru or zen-like manner of bringing home the point. Connor, you're awesome

  • @helenmcallister9249
    @helenmcallister92494 жыл бұрын

    This is a superb talk- I chose my wonderful Best Friend, a Man of Integrity, who is my inspiration and who says "no" so that he can do the now task. Then it becomes a "yes". Thank you Conor Neill

  • @dondreytaylor8001
    @dondreytaylor80019 жыл бұрын

    Wow the delivery of this talk was amazing. Damn right, I'll bet on myself.

  • @marialupi9360
    @marialupi93604 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! You are truly a “gem”. I will be writing a card every day from this moment on. I have a son I want to be a role model. God bless you!

  • @pgh412east

    @pgh412east

    4 жыл бұрын

    How many cards do you have

  • @nouhabhy3067
    @nouhabhy30674 жыл бұрын

    This is one of my best Ted talks 😭😭 It was amazing, I wish it did not end !! Thank you for this man 🥀

  • @Strawbalegardens
    @Strawbalegardens5 жыл бұрын

    This is one of the best TEDx talks I’ve heard. Great delivery, great message, and valuable messages. Well done my friend.

  • @tminev
    @tminev10 жыл бұрын

    This is the most inspiring speech I have had on TED so far!!! Thank you Conor for changing my life!

  • @nikolus2341
    @nikolus23414 жыл бұрын

    I'm love his great heart and his extremely well expressive human product. Lots oflove from me.

  • @KaranShinde0025
    @KaranShinde00253 жыл бұрын

    The best content i have ever seen on tedx talks. The information and knowledge provided by this man is amazing. But somebody must teach him how to speak without putting people to sleep. I'm glad KZread has the functionality to fast forward. I saved 8 minutes of my precious time. Also he said "Who would you bet on?" more number of times than the number of times people said "Covid-19" in 2020. Overall this Talk gets an 8/10 from me.

  • @damiajayi4670
    @damiajayi46704 жыл бұрын

    I've enjoyed & managed my tasks/self-development projects better since I watched this video.

  • @suzwaltz
    @suzwaltz4 жыл бұрын

    At the end of his presentation, one thought, "I love this."

  • @timwoods3173
    @timwoods31735 жыл бұрын

    oh oh oh, I love this talk. Inspiring all the way.

  • @satinrana5192
    @satinrana51924 жыл бұрын

    Just remembered, when Conor says "who do you bet on?" for the first time, I jokingly said "myself". Little did I know that by the end of the video, I will mean it.

  • @susana.tresamantes

    @susana.tresamantes

    4 жыл бұрын

    Satin Rana 🔥

  • @ConorNeill

    @ConorNeill

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good bet! I'll reach out in 20 years and you will let me know how well the bet has gone ;-)

  • @chinleeburgos7602

    @chinleeburgos7602

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hohoho i saw this comment before the final, you spoiled me! Hahaha

  • @light.eternally106

    @light.eternally106

    3 жыл бұрын

    somehow I am different, when he asked in the early of the talk I dont have any answer but somehow after his talk towards the ending when he ask again the same question, I confidently answer myself before he said. Now I felt so inspire to write a diary and understand the importance of writing a diary.

  • @AmandeepSinghTur
    @AmandeepSinghTur7 жыл бұрын

    #16:03 aha, that is the trick. Don't think where you are going or what you will accomplish. Just think what you are going to do in next 15 minutes. About the goals and other stuff, think when you are writing!

  • @monsuur

    @monsuur

    6 жыл бұрын

    Amandeep Singh Thakt’s really about breaking large goals into smaller chunks that are more manageable.

  • @Pavel_Byzov

    @Pavel_Byzov

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, and that;s why you need to plan. The plan is what takes you forward.

  • @nitinissacjoy603
    @nitinissacjoy6038 жыл бұрын

    Probably the best TED talk I've heard.. Thank You!

  • @xaviermatos686

    @xaviermatos686

    5 жыл бұрын

    Nitin Issac Joy I completely agree

  • @smokin8253

    @smokin8253

    3 жыл бұрын

    4 years late but 100% with me as well.

  • @9811267028
    @98112670289 жыл бұрын

    extremely inspiring. I am going to listen to this every single day...

  • @mklik4

    @mklik4

    5 жыл бұрын

    So, are you still keeping up?

  • @pgh412east

    @pgh412east

    4 жыл бұрын

    Doesn't look like it.

  • @eduardomaciel9855

    @eduardomaciel9855

    4 жыл бұрын

    I wanna say the same

  • @prakritisingha6906
    @prakritisingha69063 жыл бұрын

    such a well structured, well spoken and used simple language so subtly and coherently to sum up all we need to be succesful!!! Incredible!!!

  • @imogieabraham9468
    @imogieabraham9468 Жыл бұрын

    I celebrate that teacher who made you write everyday from 14. I believe he/she started you on the journey here. I feel my life absolutely altered by this new understanding.

  • @t.a.hargrove1212
    @t.a.hargrove12122 жыл бұрын

    The irony of me pausing this and adding it to watch later so I can watch instant justice fights while i take a break from my lawn is hilarious

  • @pratikshetty4369
    @pratikshetty43699 жыл бұрын

    This is the best Ted Speech i have ever come across. Kudos to Conor Neil

  • 5 жыл бұрын

    I sincerely admire you way of giving talks.It's a delight to listen to you from your first words to the last ones. And you know what? Your style is a very similar to my favourite speaker's style. Relaxed voice and pace, carefully choosen words, well structured ideas, presented in a captivating way. ... Thank you, for sharing with us your talks!

  • @drmarymusic
    @drmarymusic5 жыл бұрын

    This presentation is much more than the Discipline of Finishing. In fact, that one-step-at-a-time concept doesn't even show up until the last 5 minutes or so. This is one of those that you should take notes and then see how your decisions and life habits add up. One of the most valuable suggestions here is to write it down so you see where your TRUE attention is being spent or wasted. Thank you for sharing these pearls of wisdom with us.

  • @jaskii
    @jaskii7 жыл бұрын

    Lessons learnt : 1. one thing he missed was children who didn't ate that marshmallow, were given another marshmallow (REWARD) after 10 minutes. Patience is SWEET. 2. Break a bigger/TOUGH task into smaller/EASY task . e.g 42000 swimming strokes === stroke, stroke, breathe 3. Create an environment to BREAK bad habits( don't stare at marshmallow) and convert them into GOOD habits. e.g not buying chocolate from supermarket, keeping your running shoes next to your door etc

  • @mrkodak1709

    @mrkodak1709

    6 жыл бұрын

    jaskirat singh mann he said they got two if they didn't eat it

  • @pushpanjalimurmu28
    @pushpanjalimurmu284 жыл бұрын

    "How little power they have on their own nature" , the marshmallow test. Will power is an incredible thing.

  • @amitsingh7684
    @amitsingh76844 жыл бұрын

    Extremely Inspiring. Journaling your life .Its so powerful. and just being present in the moment , focusing on the next 15 mins. I am achieving and accomplishing so much more in my life. Its one of the keys to living a Great life. Yes I am betting on Myself.

  • @heleneofcortina6400
    @heleneofcortina64005 жыл бұрын

    Outstanding speaker, wish there were more like him. Totally present.

  • @danmimis4576
    @danmimis45768 жыл бұрын

    I was searching KZread for "discipline and concentration" and came over this vid and I enjoyed it. It doesn't quite apply to me since I'm a gambler and an inventor, so I'm chasing the Jackpot -- small steps bore me to death. But from that specific angle (based on Warren's 3 criteria) his speech made sense, was even captivating ..

  • @gradingterminal807

    @gradingterminal807

    8 жыл бұрын

    quess how far in speech when read your comment n bet thst as much diciplin to character. ..

  • @danmimis4576

    @danmimis4576

    8 жыл бұрын

    ***** Thanks and Best Regards, Conor!

  • @maximilianlehmann7873
    @maximilianlehmann78739 жыл бұрын

    This was very inspirational and motivational. Thx for this video.

  • @cadusteigleder9648
    @cadusteigleder96487 жыл бұрын

    This one is by far the best presentantion I´ve watched! So many insights. Thanks so much!

  • @kartikaprill
    @kartikaprill3 жыл бұрын

    This is the best ted talk ive encountered so far. so practical n he basically said that finishing is possible altho it may take some time, but it really is attainable. But also reminding me that enjoying the process is important n it shapes how its gonna end. I also love the 3 strategies, made me realize that its necessary to say no to things that dont line up with my priorities. bcus i have this tendency to say yes everytime becus i dont wanna disappoint anyone, but in the end i get overwhelmed n cant finish the task. i very much love this talk. and yes, im also betting on myself!

  • @JuanRios-kh8sq
    @JuanRios-kh8sq4 жыл бұрын

    This video showed up in my feed yesterday. I took one look at the title and kept scrolling. I'm bad a seeing things through to completion. I guess part of me was worried that Id find that I was deficient or broken in some irreparable way and that Id continue to be a poor finisher. This morning I watched the video, challenging myself to confront whatever its contents might be and Im glad that I did.

  • @rafaelfogaca1761
    @rafaelfogaca17614 жыл бұрын

    I came across with his video in exactly at the right time of my life's journey.

  • @partykrew666
    @partykrew6664 жыл бұрын

    this was a great talk. truly inspiring. i just made my first journal entry in a decade. i think this talk has changed my trajectory in some way. really glad to have found it

  • @buzocabezon1
    @buzocabezon15 жыл бұрын

    Great talk on TED. Connor Neil, excellent presenter, as always. Thank you so much for such an inspiring talk.

  • @travissearles23
    @travissearles234 жыл бұрын

    I'm making smores now! Thanks i needed some energy this morning!✌

  • @PepeLePepper
    @PepeLePepper10 жыл бұрын

    For me, it was interesting to contemplate the three points in the context of a similar topic in vogue with charter schools: grit. Grit is a greater determiner of success in students than is natural intelligence. It's often associated with sheer mental toughness. Conor Neill's points essentially describe grit but in a way that really rounds out the definition and gives it these dimensions of integrity, energy, and intelligence. Well done. I'm going to revisit my to-do list for the upcoming week!

  • @eshwarpandey9178
    @eshwarpandey91784 жыл бұрын

    One of the great and powerful Ted talk! Thank you, Cono Neill!

  • @travelingkaspersworld4096
    @travelingkaspersworld40963 жыл бұрын

    There is much more to this message than the initial minutes of the speech show. Only towards the end did everything sink in as I adjusted to the speed of his voice. Very good talk

  • @leoselios778
    @leoselios7789 жыл бұрын

    The frequency of comments remarking upon Conor's sedate and leisurely manner of speaking is truly astounding, in that it substantiates a theory I have. Allow me to reiterate. For in this video, as in many TEDx talks, a fundamental human emotion or characteristic is copiously explored. The characteristics under scrutiny here are patience and virtue. So when Conor presents the issue in the lack of these virtues, to provide analogy to the marshmallow experiment, he gives us a single marshmallow, a glint of success. He then proceeds to wallow about, seemingly aimlessly, and "leaves the room." Following this, all those who are assiduous enough to have watched the full video received the second marshmallow in the form of the formula for success. I do believe that he committed to such an extremely plodding pace for that effect, only those willing to commit were worthy. For under any other circumstances I do believe, based on his prolific affluence and intellectual merit, he could have candidly stated his exigence, candidly stated his findings, and candidly stated his conclusion.

  • @jenniferedmond2897

    @jenniferedmond2897

    9 жыл бұрын

    leoselios778 perfect analysis! a lesson among the lessons!

  • @valeriehiggins947

    @valeriehiggins947

    9 жыл бұрын

    leoselios778 the worst ted talk ever...boring and repetitive..and irritating

  • @BelgianLionSoup

    @BelgianLionSoup

    8 жыл бұрын

    leoselios778 google more words

  • @EmeraldFool

    @EmeraldFool

    8 жыл бұрын

    +leoselios778 I just skipped to the end of the video. You mad?

  • @paxdriver

    @paxdriver

    8 жыл бұрын

    Yeah.. But most people watching these videos there's no epiphany here, it's more like weight to a body builder. Already know how to exercise, the weight is just more convenient. I doubt anyone life is changed by his dramatic performance. That being said, oration is an art form, and delivery is all timing. It's like asking a painter to use less color or variety lol do fuck it, let the man ramble, it's better than Lil Wayne or rhianna

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