For those disliking the talk for seemingly like a "no big deal" thing: It's not about she being gay; in fact, that is absolutely no big deal. The problem is when you're gay in an enviroment that is anti-gay - which most heterosexual people don't get, but is an EXTREMELY difficult situation to deal with. In some countries, still today, there are people being sentenced to death simply for being gay. I speak for self experience: Where I grew up, there wasn't really any hate towards gay people, and I had lovely parents - people just made jokes about gays once in a while - but even then, for me it was like a secret, a shame, it lowered my self confidence, made me so unsafe, and I suffered a lot because of it. I can't even imagine how it would've been in a less receptive enviroment.

@PeepsILoveEllie

8 жыл бұрын

+Dhiego Bersan yes! thanks for the comment :)

@damascus5134

5 жыл бұрын

+Dhiego Bersan Are you gay? Because you look too cute!

@Allaboutbaby24

5 жыл бұрын

@@damascus5134 what are you trying to imply with this? Even if not meant that way, the logical reverse of this would mean all gays to you must be not cute, but ugly? Maybe you do not mean harm, but your comment sounds unkind - I assume you were trying to pay a compliment, which would be lovely so even lovelier if it doesn't seem like a backhanded compliment :) Also Dhiego well done for keeping faith in yourself and for the great comment!

@damascus5134

5 жыл бұрын

@@Allaboutbaby24 What I implied by that is that many gays look more beautiful than non-gays. Afterall who holds the rainbow colours, needless to say!

@Allaboutbaby24

5 жыл бұрын

@@damascus5134 ah OK, I get it. Thanks for taking the time to explain :) Love the thing about the rainbow! I haven't noticed that about the level of beauty , but everyone has different experiences so I think neither of us is wrong or right! Have a great week

One of my favorite quotes is: "Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

@mistyo2158

3 жыл бұрын

One of the best quotes ever me too :)

@astghiksimonyan653

2 жыл бұрын

P Pp

@astghiksimonyan653

2 жыл бұрын

L000

@mikyhtomit

2 жыл бұрын

Be like Christ

@coloradocool5947

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think you fully understand that quote. That quote means to be yourself, it doesn't mean to act like a deviant in public or torture one's parents with your new found artificial sexuality and it sure doesn't mean to go to some crazy extreme and it certainty don't mean to be so ridiculously forward and defensive about something that you chose to be. We do not have to accept or talk to you especially when you act like the above. You want respect? Then give respect. I don't want to walk into a men's room to realize two boys are in the stall stuck together..

This to clear things up. This video was intended to inspire people to accept themselves, not about her trying to get attention.

@AlvinaYunoa

4 жыл бұрын

Sadly that's what most people say, "it' just for attention."

@theenchantedforester4661

3 жыл бұрын

@@AlvinaYunoa may be that is the reason behind their actions and project it onto others.

Straight, cisgender people - some of you don't think this video is very important or worth watching. Thing is, it's not all about you. This video is about a particular kind of coming out process that you will never experience, and that you have no right to denigrate. Coming out isn't easier because "you" think it's "not a big deal." It isn't about gaining approval from you. It's an intensely personal journey that shouldn't be brushed aside as "navel-gazing", or reduced to some performance for a (oh so tolerant! so kind!) heteronormative audience. This is about one woman's story and what it can mean to people in a similar position, potentially affected by similar difficulties, and the responsibility invested in "coming out" in order to effect social change, sometimes at great personal cost.

@charlottef6148

9 жыл бұрын

Well said, my friend

@terryh.9238

9 жыл бұрын

exactly! this should be top comment

@terryh.9238

9 жыл бұрын

***** thanks for informing me it's top comment now! faith in humanity restored

@LittleTed1000

9 жыл бұрын

Perhaps if you want to address me honestly you should drop the monickers like cisgender and heteronormative. You've got a bit of a chip on your shoulder it would appear. That chip hurts you and it alienates you - it doesn't effect me in the least.

@terryh.9238

9 жыл бұрын

***** you make no sense because you were clearly talking about sexism.

Whenever you get a little too optimistic about humanity, you can always count on youtube commenters to drag you back down into the dark, cynical pit again. What's especially depressing is the amount of thumbs ups that all these unempathic and outright mean comments get. It really shows the true side of people. Whenever most people sit down behind a keyboard, they show their true ugly selves.

@terryh.9238

9 жыл бұрын

so true, anonymity seems to bring out the worst in people.

@krislanc1239

9 жыл бұрын

and there are so so many terrible qualities about human nature. I wanna stay positive but I can't, majority of people are spiteful, jealous, mean,insecure take pleasure in other people's misery, and just dumb. sooo dumb. it's absolutely depressing.

@purpquoise

9 жыл бұрын

I agree, I get all happy/positive watching motivational TedTalks only to read negative comments under video right after which drags me back down again.

@spidey.6843

9 жыл бұрын

I find it sad how often I see someone complaining about KZread comments. You should have to get a licence to internet.

@ninahallen3615

9 жыл бұрын

Spidey. Thank you for reinforcing my point.

I just want to be straight. I wish I was normal at least in that aspect. I'm tired of hiding, I'm tired of coming out to people and regreting it because I find out they can use it against me. I just want to be normal.

@meda3062

5 жыл бұрын

You ARE normal. There's nothing wrong with you. I know how you feel and trust me, one day you'll find the best people that will help you in your hard times and that will accept you. Just like I did. It will take its time, but one day you Will have those people around you. They will love you and they won't care about you being different

@alicecoakley5427

4 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. I'm too scared to find a girlfriend.

@hylenelim2549

4 жыл бұрын

@@alicecoakley5427 I'm not scared to find a partner but I'm scared to be cheated and get hurt. Common denominator, we all get scared one way or another. We are scared of being dumped and unaccepted.

@alicecoakley5427

4 жыл бұрын

@@hylenelim2549 that's exactly where im at right now. I'd love a girlfriend. I dont know whether i could cope with being hurt or becoming dependent on them though 😔

@hylenelim2549

4 жыл бұрын

@@alicecoakley5427 honestly, I'd been through tough times few months ago but slowly I've gathered my shuttered self and obviously become whole again. I realized one thing, I just need to love myself first. Self worth doesn't depend on others. Even if you're dumped, do know that your value doesn't change at all..... Oftentimes, it takes bravery to face the world, so be brave! I know you are. 😊

"Since it doesn't affect me directly I don't care nor I believe it to be important" -The comment section.

@theenchantedforester4661

3 жыл бұрын

some kind of a sociopath would say that I'm sure

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

Then get off the fence. When you start accepting lies is when you stop recognizing the truth. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is a CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide. ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions.

Why do people even watch these talks of they're unwilling to learn anything? I, for one, like to see every perspective, and be presented with new ideas that challenge the status quo. I don't come here to listen to my own ideas, I come to hear someone else's.

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

Then get off the fence. When you start accepting lies is when you stop recognizing the truth. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is a CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide. ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions.

@user-el9uw1yw9l

17 күн бұрын

@@beantrader4723 Prove it. Prove you know the truth, prove that the Bible is accurate. Stop being so prideful and show us the proof.

you first have to come out to yourself then every one else i had the most trouble with the first part

@yuhboris304

3 жыл бұрын

Coming out to yourself is the hardest part. I got there just a few months ago and that could not be truer

@robertjackson3552

3 жыл бұрын

@Robbie Amadeus Stoly well done “Every time someone steps up and says who they are, the world becomes a better, more interesting place.” Captain Holt, Brooklyn Nine Nine.

@user-el9uw1yw9l

2 ай бұрын

@@beantrader4723 why do you place such blind faith in the men who wrote that book? theyre just people. they can say “god” told them what to write but that doesnt make it true. use that powerful brain of yours and do some real introspection and investigative work. you deserve freedom from your fear of the unknown.

Well... It actually makes me sad to see the comments on this video because the point was missed completely. Hiding a piece of yourself (for morgana it was her sexuality) is physically, mentally, and emotionally harmful for people. She was hoping to inspire a sense of strength in talking about those dark corners of ourselves to help us realize we aren't alone, there are other people like us and it we don't talk about it how are we ever expected to change. Personally speaking as a GLBT member unless u have felt the anxiety of coming out you have no idea what it feels like to have your entire support network completely turn on you. I was young when I came out lost my job, my family, where I was living, and all in a matter of two hours of coming out and I live in Canada where GLBT rights are pretty awesome! Although I looked to rebuild my network and that's honestly what saved me. So whether it is GLBT stuff or mental health issues there are people out to help u!

Inspirational, and very brave. Thank you Morgana. You are one of many, who now start to step up and stand up. Its about time the rest realize exactly how hard it is to live as part of the LGBT community. To face the massive and pervasive ignorance that exist out there.

@thmstbst

9 жыл бұрын

I agree :)

@Miranox2

9 жыл бұрын

Most minorities face discrimination. However, even that is child's play compared to what they face in the 3rd world.

@angelic8632002

9 жыл бұрын

Miranox True. Doesn't make it any less real for the people involved though.

@troycambo

9 жыл бұрын

Serah Wint simple asnwer: yes

@troycambo

9 жыл бұрын

being a lesbian is par for the course these days. you should try being heterosexual

Only on the internet will someone pull out something negative from a speech like this. I wasn't feeling the talk all that much in the beginning but then it crept in and felt really powerful because I thought about what I was hiding and I'm glad Morgana gave her talk. Good Luck

The real struggle is always with oneself, isn't it? Thank you for your courage. I would love to know where you finally found the courage the be able to speak the words.

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide.

@laravioliiii2832

3 ай бұрын

@@beantrader4723 It's clear that you're extremely filled with hate, and using religion to justify it. Please try to better yourself. Jesus would hate seeing Christians judge other people.

In my country, being gay is something bad and gay people are still not accepted. And the people who just act like they don"t really care if you are gay or straight totally lost the point. LGBT community can be acceptable in your countries but sadly, there are somewhere on this planet gay people are even sentenced to death. The main point of the speech is that she wants people to treat with LGBT more fairly. The talk WAS NOT for herself, its for us in order to help us know more about LGBT community. So to the people who couldn't watch all the video: Please don't judge a book by its cover. And if you hate someone for no reason, try to get to know more about them and be more sympathetic before you speak up for attention and give them cruel words. Just imagine walking a mile in someone else's headline. Thanks for reading and sorry for my bad English. Lmao I'm not a native speaker.

@tkphudu

3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your comment. Your English is great :)

@minhhoangngo1785

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your comment on this matter. You don't have to worry about how good your English is, just keep trying.

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide.

@tracygeddes5867

Ай бұрын

@@beantrader4723you quote Paul and even that is a corrupted translation made in the 1800’s ,not god. But I guess that is of no interest , when to acknowledge the sin in another causes the spotlight to be turned back on your own corrupted nature, stoned anyone lately, of course not but cherry picking gross errors that suit your anti gay proclivities is ok.

The dislikes and harsh critics for this talk are mostly from selfish people who say they don't "care" because it didn't serve their situation - really they simply can't RELATE. Someone who's faced with the same problems Morgana has faced (I'm sure there's plenty out there) will find this immensely useful. That took a lot of balls Morgana. Good job.

I cried because I related so much. Seriously thank you. Any thing that means a lot to someone or is part of them should not be a shameful and painful experience. But, it is. And, oddly some ppl do just well expressing themselves with no problem and that is beautiful and I respect them. This isn't just about the fact that this woman wanted to say I'm a lesbian. It's about dealing with what happens when you realize something about yourself that scares you. Some people suffer from depression and fear telling anyone because they don't want people to look at them as attention seeking and just need. That's certainly untrue but in a personal mental battle I can comprehend what this occurs. I've lived it. Just like a person who has been raped may fear getting help or just opening up in fear of judgment about how they were somehow at fault for the truamatic abuse they were subjected to. Because, unfortunately this does happen to rape and abuse victims. So, this isn't as shallow as some people have perceived it. Speaking up and accepting yourself or something you have experienced is important. It does improve not only your life but someone else who may be terrified to do so. Living with chronic anxiety and stress but repressing part of you is harmful. To you and those around you. If an addict never says they're an addict do you think that's a strong foundation for recovery? No, it's not. And the fear to say that can cause death. This is more than just some coming out story to get cheers and clapping going. It's just the beginning of how fear in oneself causes negative reaction to yourself and others. I think that is the message people have missed reading some of the comments. And, it makes me wonder if the people being critical in a non constructive manner are possibly living with fear as well within. Maybe, they are afraid of being emotional. Maybe they struggle with feeling not good. Or another view maybe they don't care and that is a fear. I don't know but I do know this. It's not selfish to feel better and be authentic within yourself. You are stuck with yourself from birth till death. Create the you that brings light into you and others and you can get through some pretty tough stuff.

@theemilyhall9665

6 жыл бұрын

And yes there are some clear typos but hey it'll be ok flaws and all

@flannel2699

5 жыл бұрын

The Emily Hall . I realise I'm a little late to the party but I think you are probably right on all points. It's ironic that the negative commenters are co-creating the very same hostile environment that keeps them hiding themselves. It's so messed up! I'm not gay but that doesn't stop me from understanding and appreciating this talk. It's not a question of sexuality, it's a question of imagination and compassion. Surely there is nothing threatening about hearing an inspiring coming out story unless we don't want to be inspired ourselves..? Anyway, thanks for your words, it reminded me of some important stuff.

@flannel2699

5 жыл бұрын

The Emily Hall ..and yes it is perfect, flaws and all and so is mine (probably)

@Shinkajo

5 жыл бұрын

@@theemilyhall9665 it could do with a few paragraphs though

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom?

I hope to see the day when someone says "I'm a lesbian" or "I'm a gay", there is no need to clap because it has already been normalized, the time when this isn't regarded as an act of bravery but a normal one like saying "I'm straight." 🙏

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide.

@popiko282

9 ай бұрын

​@@beantrader4723I stay sinning,father

@helenalovelock1030

9 ай бұрын

@@beantrader4723. Boring Bible Bashing Bigot. Gay people are NOT sinners.

@laravioliiii2832

3 ай бұрын

@@beantrader4723 I'll keep being Naughty, Daddy.

This is one of the few jems out there when it comes to coming-out-stories in my opinion. I love that it's authentic, genuine, emotional and raw but well put together. I love the fact that it's showing a woman in her 30s/40s, that is open about struggling with her sexuality and at the same time has matured over the years and has had a lot of breakthroughs. I love that it's not just your typical motivational uplifting ted talk, that should leave you motivated, hyped and ready to be out and proud no matter what. She's being real about the downsides and about the good things and shows you that you can balance both things inside of yourself and that's maybe healthier than denying your right to go through your own process on your own terms.

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide.

There needs to be more acknowledgement of the bravery of older members in our society in coming out. They grew up in a much more homophobic setting and it is ingrained in their psyche that being gay is a negative thing no matter how far into the 21st century we go. Thank god for the Millennials who are - in every sense of the word - helping the older generation enjoy life a little more by knocking down nonsensical taboos. Every come-out story is a tragedy turned right, and Morgana deserves applause for her courage to come out on a stage and serve as an inspiration to people still deep in the closet. There are people who sacrificed the best years of their lives to conform to society's expectations, these are married people with kids who don't even believe in the liberating power of being true to themselves at this point. Some of these comments are disgusting and nihilistic. I would guess they are all from heterosexuals who completely take for granted the status of normalcy bestowed upon them by their society at the (often violent) expense of everyone else. It will always remain a big deal to come out as gay if you grow up with even a hint that being different is a bad thing.

It actually gives me comfort to know I will have 12 less years to be miserable.

@avrilelizabeth9637

7 жыл бұрын

If you ever need someone to talk to for a positive outlook on you situation im here

@alicecoakley5427

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah i agree with that 😂👍

@davrosdarlek7058

3 жыл бұрын

Well no because you either kill yourself or you don't. You'll either live normal life expectancy -a bit for stress but the real statistic is when people kill themselves before being 30.

Good for her though, people should not have to live in fear because they are simply different.

@Oberon117

9 жыл бұрын

Thank you, interesting research to say the least.

@thmstbst

9 жыл бұрын

She mentioned it in the video, and if you really want to thank me you could edit your comment. Just please take out the "12 years? What scientific evidence is there to suggest that? " part. Thank you

@Oberon117

9 жыл бұрын

thmstbst No, she mentioned the results of said research, not the method. And okay, jeez no need to be snotty about it.

@thmstbst

9 жыл бұрын

I didn't mean to come across as snotty. I just think you should change your behavior based on evidence. Honestly, thank you for editing the comment :)

@Oberon117

9 жыл бұрын

I'm just skeptical of research when it's cited, I always like to see the evidence for myself rather than someone read out the results. But it's fine, sorry for calling you snotty. And no problem :)

Oh my god, I'm so happy for and proud of her.

SHOW SOME FUCKING HUMANITY GUYS! To all assholes in here, I listened to this talk, not because I am gay, not because I have anyone in my family who is, but because I believe everyone's story of struggle and triumph is worth hearing even if it does not affect you whatsoever. Her speech made it clear that these sorts of talk, to us may be 'blah' but to other people, whose stories are alike, whose lives are affected, are very important. I don't have the right to judge you but all you but I just have to say that we're supposed to be all in this together. It doesn't affect me as a straight girl but it's a very different story for people whose identity are always in question and suffers judgements.You don't have to listen to it but why the fucking rudeness?

This woman is all too inspirational. As a young adult venturing out into the world, I know the struggle of trying to fit in, to conform to expectations and to ultimately survive and it is overbearing. So I've began to stop following the crowd and instead, began to follow my intuition. It feels lonely at times and for Morgana to come out today and share with us her experience and her dedication to follow her intuition to help others is a blessing.

ICONIC! Queen of courage and vulnerability has arrived!!!

Heartfelt and inspiring, thanks for sharing Morgana. I got a problem with the format of TED, because 10 minutes seems awfully longer than KZread's 3-minutes format, and yet every time I make the "effort" to start a vid, it teaches me stuff and inspires me. Thanks for making the world a better place, TED & all of the speakers :)

I really felt connected to Ms. Bailey and it's so relieving to know that other folks went through the same thing that I'm going through. She's a wonderful speaker who delivered her message concisely, coherently, and fluidly. The way she delivered her speech made me able to relate to her experience: it is tough many times and there is always the fear of how other people - even friends, loved ones, and colleagues - will react. Bless your heart, Morgana. :)

I'M A LESBIAN TOO!!

I damn near got teary-eyed when they cheered for her.

Hey thank you, you did make a difference. I've been feeling the same, I'm gay, 20 years old, and have come out to most people around me but not to everyone. Thank you for your words, they're so encouraging! Hiding this part of my personality is still really difficult, I'm slowly opening up, and your story really did remind me of the fact that I'm not alone. The life expectancy thing is mind-blowing. Also, I loved when you said that hiding consumes your energy, cuz it's so true... Love you and thank you so much!! Dave

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide.

A lot of hate going on here...Why? If you're straight and are saying 'who gives a damn that you're gay' you're missing the point. You have no idea what it means to 'come out'. You really don't. Make your jokes, make your snide remarks. But you don't. And for those saying that they're not your true friends if they don't like you being Gay, you're right. But it doesn't make that moment of saying the words any easier. Maybe this video means nothing to you, but maybe it does to someone else. So just keep your hatred and ridicule to yourself please.

Why are there so much negativity on this video? There is one element that repeats itself in every Ted talk, the story a person shares is based on his or her experiences. The personal story is then reflected back using some statistic or fact in some part of the talk, which Morgana has done.(83 percent of-) A speaker wouldn't talk about something that hasn't impacted him or her. Ted may be ideas worth spreading but in the description box it also said "TEDTalks is a daily video podcast of the best talks and performances from the TED Conference, where the world's leading thinkers and doers give the talk of THEIR LIVES in 18 minutes (or less)." Some examples: Amy Cuddy: Your body language shapes who you are Amy talks about body language and how it shapes how we feel about ourselves and how we see other people. In the beginning she gives the facts and then she mentions her personal story. The hidden meanings in kids' movies | Colin Stokes | He talks about what movies are teaching the audience about gender roles. He included facts and also how it stumbled on the idea-when he was watching the movies with his children. This formula can be applied to a lot of Ted Talks. Yes, this 2015, but it doesn't mean that it can't be beneficial to people in the LGBT community. Stepping away from sexual orientation, someone struggling with one aspect of their identity may find this encouraging.

I know how hard to say "I'm a lesbian" cause I am and like the speaker said, I don't want to be refer as one, as I'm afraid of unacceptance and judgement. Happy for you, you have that courage for after 16 years of hiding. Still don't have that courage to finally speak up and end my whole life pretending that I am not into girls, that I'm not a lesbian. Hope one day, I will stop myself denying and stop them denying the real me. I know they have doubts of my sexuality, but they don't want to entertain it, as they always say and believe that what I felt is just a phase. But it's not. It's not changing. I'm not changing. I still prefer women.

@afriendofmara

2 жыл бұрын

And it gets stronger every day, the awareness that we're only into women (and nbs, for me), that we can never even think of going back into the closet, never think of all those times we suffocated in there, living a lie.. currently what i am going through being 16.. but i'd like to hope it gets better

@f-zerogx4752

2 жыл бұрын

I am a lesbian that still has to go back in the closet. I hope one day I can come out but my situation is too dangerous right now to come out.

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide.

@imgray143

Жыл бұрын

@@afriendofmara I hope you'll get better. You aren't alone and you aren't that different. Everyone have the right to love. Goodluck 💗

@imgray143

Жыл бұрын

@@f-zerogx4752 I am hoping too! Keep safe

That picture on the mountain? Such a lesbian. Girl, you're so one of us. Love it.

Thank you Morgana. Brave, courageous, authentic woman. This goes a long way to be of influence for those that need you. What a celebration of your true self!!!

I totally admired you Morgana. You are brave and kind hearted for coming out and being honest. It is funny, I'm watching this. I found a series last night titled: Gracie and Frankie. Middle age women whom husbands were cheating on them with each other for 20 years. This needs to stop happening. We are I 2018. Morgana' s speech can save many people from having to be told after 20 years of marriage: I'm living you for my best friend. Him and I have been together behind (no pun intended) your backs. There should be a law that gives jail time to these type of lies. Wasting someone's LIFE. This video needs to go viral!

Very brave of you, Morgana. Speak your truth and be glorious.

Very inspiring! I can so relate to everything you're saying too. "To remain silent is to give consent". Thank you for breaking your silence :)

It is so brave of her to come out to such a large crowd, about such a big part of her life at the same time. I can’t relate to this, but I really admire her strength.

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide.

@dgyhuopijgdtyuio

Жыл бұрын

@@beantrader4723 is this the only bullshit you can say?

I feel similarly with regards to my disabilities, with both my mental health and physical health, I read somewhere we lie by omission and I never tell people who or what I am facing as I feel a lot of shame with regards to how or who I am both physically and mentally. If I can I try to “pass”

As a wlw i can strongly relate to this ted. I live in Poland, where you can never really know who’s supportive and who’s homophobic so instead of saying “I did this and this with my girlfriend” or “I went there and there with my girlfriend” I always switch it up with a simple “friend” so that they could never know that the girl on my Instagram photos is my actual partner

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide.

I love the comments on both sides, you got the seemingly straight people saying it's no big deal blah blah blah, and then you have the straight, gay, and bi (who knows) people interpreting the whole thing completely wrong, by saying oh no this is a lesbian thing or a gay thing. You know since a straight person or some other sexuality can't have something inside that they hide from other people that could make a difference or help some cause, if they were more upfront with others. Yeah this is totally not a relatable thing, I personally saw this speech for what it is not something specified or tailored to specific cause but a broad cause for anyone who may be hiding from themselves, and not showing their true selves, be that someone similar to her who is lesbian and is afraid to let others know or a male who is used to acting tough instead of letting other see his soft side inside, because of fear of judgment. It doesn't matter your sexual orientation, or color of your skin, none of that is needed to relate to this all you need is something that you yourself have been hiding from others and have been afraid to let others see to be able to relate to this video

It can be so hard for folks to come out... I applaud your courage! Now... go on with your bad self!!!

thank you for being something to aspire to .that was a very moving speech ,i felt like it really spoke to me .

Some of these commenters here need to get a life. Ignorant trash. Thank you to Morgana. I appreciate you.

GIRL YES ME TOO 👩‍❤️‍👩🏳️‍🌈

Really Kansas? Really? God damn it Kansas...

@kirby570

9 жыл бұрын

SangoProductions21 Closet Chronicles xD

@SangoProductions213

9 жыл бұрын

talking about the bill, but lol

@kirby570

9 жыл бұрын

SangoProductions21 I know, but couldn't resist :)

@shucksful

9 жыл бұрын

kirby570 LOL. Talk about the "Point of know return!" hehehe..

i wish i was as brave as her

i identify a lot with this. i dont want to have to come out to people over and over and over again, i just wanna be me. but your story about your friend's dad who had the vote really spoke to me.

This resonates so much with me. Even living in NYC I find myself conforming unconsciously. This really makes me think a lot about how I want to present myself and live my life. Thank you!

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide.

she is so brave to stand out. respect

Thank you so much for posting this video! I enjoyed it soo kuch and I really needed it in my life I just discovered you in 2023. I hope you're doing amazing! Congratulations on your PHD! Love from Mexico!

This is extremely important. We are worried with the IS, but the terror and discrimination imposed by religions based on guilt has been leading people to suicide, or worst, to live a sad lonely life, even among marrieds. For nothing. Congrats for the speaker.

i could see it in her eyes at the end that doing this talk felt right for her maybe more right than anything else that she has done in her life.i wonder what that must feel like.i live in a very homophobic environment and can't imagine if i ever get a chance or build up courage to be outspoken like that.

Fantastic and importaint, one of the best TED talks I've watched in a while

Very brave of you to very publicly be honest with who you really are! It will help people especially younger people be brave enough to come out and just BE!

It's like why me... It's like i am carrying this huge huge baggage of suffocation...it drains so much so energy out of me...i wish i was normal...

Thank You for your personal bravery and for deciding to be an agent of change and informing the conversation on diversity. The 12 years stat was alarming to me and I think it shows that this conversation needs to be advanced for there is still much work to be done.

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide.

This video helped me work up the courage to finally come out to my mom. Thank you

I'm trans male, writing a presentation about the dangers of a single stories about LGTBQ+ and was looking for videos to help me. He words did not only helped me with the writing process, but that I shouldn't keep who I am from my supporting father, and from my transphobic mother. A few weeks ago, I had written a song about wanting to come out. All I gotta do now is make the instrumentals, sing it, and send it to my parents. Thanks to this TED talk, and the many amazingly supportive comments, I have gained the courage to be my true self. No more hiding. I'm done cowering in the closet.

@remnotrem9962

2 жыл бұрын

also a trans dude here what you are doing sounds great!! I wish you the best

Excellent. Well done. I hid my true identity as a gay man for 63 years. When I was younger, being gay was illegal. I am still married to my wife after 51 years and I cared for her with MS for 23 years. She is in a nursing home now and nearing the end of her life. I don't have a boyfriend and probably never will. Too old now.

@rayac578

Ай бұрын

i hope you're having a good day, ron.

I’ve been closeted for 5 years. Still gonna keep going

@BellaHiew

3 жыл бұрын

Good luck, the struggle is real, I’ve been for only 2.

@superanto8763

2 жыл бұрын

Caesar was gay af tho

@zebrabitch7821

Жыл бұрын

Hey, how have you been holding up?

That's great!.i believe that you changed will create an extremely effect to other. Thank you for shared.

I love this talk, thank you so much. 🙏🏼☺️

Gratidão! É o que sinto agora ao ouvir exatamente o que minha alma precisava! ❤️

why would anyone vote negative on this!?

Thank you this can really help someone.

It was quite inspirational, thank you!

For all the people who say that it is not such a big deal to come out, it probably is because they haven't done it. It is extremely hard in some cases, especially when you know that the people you love wouldn't accept it. Also, people don't clap because they are happy that she is a lesbian, but that she was brave enough to admit it. I just encourage everyone to be true to themselves and to do what is best for your mental health. Sending all the love in the world your way ❤

@LeighLim

Жыл бұрын

Francesca --- I look forward to the day that each human would understand the damage done by Entitled Men when they engrained in society for millenia that a woman is 'less than' and therefore shouldn't be allowed agency. You are right that there are cases where the people who are supposed to love you unconditionally....don't. I wish I had the answer that enables every parent out there to be accepting to their kids...but I don't. Because there are those who just struggle to hear a point of view different to their own. PS: I'm lucky that when the realisation that The Bible has been put together by at least one entitled man and thus likely distorted the message that it was supposed to convey, it was easy to accept that any interpretation that supports oppression (especially homophobia) is not accurate. Plus the fact that there likely were no women there to refute any distortions.

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide.

I’ve gone back-and-forth for 4yrs whether I was gay or not and I’m finally willing to admit to myself I am truly gay and this inspired me to NOT care what others think

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide.

WOW! A standing ovation!! Mike in Oregon

It was quite obvious to me that the universality of this talk is that it can be physically and mentally dangerous and shorten your life span to spend your energy hiding fundamental truths about yourself because of fear. What isn't relatable about that? The fact that there's a bunch of you who are reacting extremely negatively to her proves her point; if all of you feel the need to criticize her "self indulgence" and let her know how much you "don't care" and make sure we all know that this subject could NEVER be relevant to YOUR life; that shows very clearly the existence of the very toxic environment which caused her to stay in the closet in the first place. This could have been about an invisible disability, or a childhood trauma she never told anyone about; or the fact she never wanted to have kids; or maybe she's on the Autism spectrum; or maybe she feels she was really a man born in a woman's body; or she has dyslexia or another learning disability, or maybe her father or mother was black or Jewish or something else other than white and christian; or any number of other things people might hide about themselves. THAT is why it is a Ted Talk; and THAT is why it is universal.

Everybody hides their personality a bit at work. It's not specific to persons of a particular sexual orientation. How many people keep their mouths shut at work when their first reaction to dealing with idiots in their regular non-work life is to cuss them out? But you don't want to lose your job so you keep your mouth shut and let the anger bubble in your stomach. How many people dress conservatively when your true nature is to wear neon or baby blue but it wouldn't be considered business-like in the office? How many people are closet cross dressers? I could go on. But we all tone down and hide ourselves for work depending on the job you're in and camp it up on weekends and evenings

2:28 oh i was just waiting for those words

this has helped me come out to my friend and family very helpful at work also

Thank you, I needed this!

I wish soon I could be like her. I'm so proud of her❤

Accept your own body, that's the message. Those who reject their own body have an increased risk of depression

Well done Morgana, well done, better to have done it than never to have. Very beautiful speech. We will always love you.

te felicito por aceptar quien eres, eres una mujer valiente y das un buen ejemplo a seguir. saludos y un abrazo desde venezuela !

This Ted Talk changed my life.

Her basic point (from some other commenter): "If you don't tell people who you really are, when you're ready to do it, it might be too late." - her point is then reaffirmed by her statement "my closest friends were against gays.. and I didn't know, until it was too late. he voted" -- just my two cents lol.

"When someone isn't allowed to express who they are inside, we all lose" South Park.

The bigots come out of the woodwork for this one. The idea of TED talks: "TED is a nonprofit devoted to spreading ideas, usually in the form of short, powerful talks." And "...We believe passionately in the power of ideas to change attitudes, lives and, ultimately, the world." The idea that Bailey is communicating is as the description reads: "Silence has personal, professional and societal consequences." I think she does a nice job of it. I guess many choose to believe that Bailey is somehow being selfish for proposing that idea. But none cab substantiate this claim. When a TED talk isn't interesting to me, I either won't watch it or will stop it midway through. If I've watched the whole thing and found it didn't really appeal to me, then oh well! But see how important it is for some to build straw men, chastise, demean, and otherwise spew garbage when they could have actually just said nothing at all?

I’ve been hiding for 4 years, but 16 years? Really? That’s a long time, I feel so bad for her.

@alicecoakley5427

4 жыл бұрын

Nikki tutorials, 16 years as trans. It's so awful I hope i am braver than that.

A minute in and I knew we had a verr very similar experience

😢😢😢Omg, I feel similar with depression in a society thats soo afraid of it and wants it nonexistant... 😢😢😢

Thank you for your bravery, ma’am. ✊🏼❣️❣️❣️

I am a gay woman. i now accept and love that about myself. it has been a long journey. i am home now. i have the opportunity now to show that love to the world. being in the closet for me was a form of self hatred. i stand taller now. any homophobic slurs now slide like warm icing on a cake.

Her anxiety is palpable. Her bravery; compelling. I am proud of her. ♥️

Good lecture!! Hiding themselves by not identify who is are you, or what your fear for!!! You hid some thing for good reason!?

The negative comments below are absolutely shocking. If this speech did not catch your attention or you felt you couldn't gain from it, move on. There's no need to be so negative towards a woman who is very respected for trying to make a difference so that the next generations ahead of us can live in a much more peaceful and accepting environment. I personally loved it! She sends out a great message, and I hope it can inspire people the way it has for me. :)

I KNEW IT I knew she was gonna say she was a lesbian! Good for her! It's people like her that inspire us to not hide who we are!

She touched my heart, I don't understand what it is like to be lesbian but I've been through similar situations. Situations in which I've hidden myself cause I was afraid to make mistakes and people not accepting them. So, this video was really helpful.

@beantrader4723

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ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom? The very first thing Adam & Eve did when they sinned against God was to hide.

Thank you Ms Bailey. As somebody who lived in the closet for 26 years, you're speech means so much to me.

Thank You.

This hit me :')

The applause after " I am lesbian " is the best thing in the video. It made me emotional that people are now more acceptable

@beantrader4723

Жыл бұрын

ALL sin affects the entire world negatively. God said that sin enters the earth through man's thoughts, words, & actions. Choosing to sin against the teachings of God is not a 'mental disorder', it's CHOICE to go against the authority of God & become a law unto each individual self. The Bible is the Word of God who created all things, & the only firm foundation to which all things can be weighed & balanced. That's why God gave man 'his' teachings, laws, Commands, judgements & the historical account of creation. God put all these instructions in the hearts of man so that they are always aware of their 'choice' of serving good or evil, right or wrong, what is allowed or forbidden. Only sinners, who lie to themselves, & 'hide' from God, pretend they don't know the truth. Is God a liar? Or is man a liar? It is an 'impossibility' for God to create a human being with an unforgiveable sin, call it a hated, abomination, or then deny him access to Heaven. Impossible! God said, "Neither homosexuals, adulterers, fornicators, murderers, liars, thieves, gossipers, usurpers, blasphemers, nor idol worshipers will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Sin is not OF God; sin is OF Evil. God will not allow Evil into Heaven. What kind of world would it be if liars, adulterers, murderers, etc. designed their own flags, held their own parades, adopted innocent children, taught them how to steal, lie, murder etc., organized themselves into gov't. positions to change their crimes into acceptable laws, then forced the world to accept the accumulation of their sins as 'normal'? Would it be like Sodom?

@akanshgandhi4061

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@@beantrader4723 I genuinely do not even have the energy to explain to you that you're wrong on so many levels. I think there is something going on in your life that you feel others deserve the hatred that you've been giving. I hope that gets well soon. Apart from that i am from India and i am a Hindu. In the Hindu mythology if you see, homosexuality is celebrated and given complete rights but with the colonization of our culture by so called British and Christians,homophobia set into our country. Apart from that, homosexuality is not a choice adultery and robbing are,that is how they're both different.

26 years I was hidden and the moments I told people I regretted nothing more

@tula1433

3 жыл бұрын

You are loved. And special.

What a relief for her, giving away those baggage. You're brave!