The worst kind of loneliness is when your surrounded by people and yet cant talk or share what's really on our minds and feelings

@YM-eg5jv

3 жыл бұрын

I totally get it

@thereisnosanctuary6184

3 жыл бұрын

Not the worst. Sealed in a cave is worse. But, I get what you're saying.

@fridolfgranq

3 жыл бұрын

@@thereisnosanctuary6184 I've experienced both. They're the same. Both have pros and cons. I can't go outside anymore, but atleast I'm not stressed about masking my loneliness

@The59thHooh

3 жыл бұрын

That’s why I try to be that person for others. I may not be able to perfectly relate or make that feeling go away, but I’m not gonna shoot anybody down.

@himeko_nya6812

3 жыл бұрын

True...

"Getting out and meeting people" means being lonely in crowded places.

@TheHumbuckerboy

4 жыл бұрын

@ Paul Moore .... Your comment makes me think of the following song line from 'Dance Away' by Roxy Music ... " Loneliness is a crowded room full of hoping hearts turned to stone, all together all alone" .

@cristianacretu8585

4 жыл бұрын

I know that feeling....

@walternavarro1106

4 жыл бұрын

i agree, i try to mingle with people, go to malls, go into social media; but i still feel lonely and desperate...

@zdaniel

4 жыл бұрын

That's the realest thing I've read today!

@certainlyjoel7778

4 жыл бұрын

Doesn't have to be man

I don't remember where I've heard this, but it's true: "the worst thing about loneliness is that you get used to it".

@masterenos

2 жыл бұрын

No you dont

@dylak4560

2 жыл бұрын

@@masterenos I did

@DaisyCasillas

2 жыл бұрын

I got used to it, but it affected my bones - they started to hurt so bad I got a bone scan. The scan came out fine and I realized it was buried loneliness. My bones stopped hurting at that realization, but now the loneliness persists.

@Absof--k-nlutly

2 жыл бұрын

Way to used to it, to the point you don't want anyone around anyway

@happymemories_videography

2 жыл бұрын

Being alone isn't scary. Being lonely isn't scary. No one noticing that you are alone and lonely, that, that is scary.

Its sad the fact that the only people who can truly relate to you aren't your family, friends, but people on the internet going through the same struggles you are going through

@cbcbmail1125

Жыл бұрын

I always wanted a group to come together…without fb, in a safe space and meet and communicate 😍

@donnamariedavidson5065

Жыл бұрын

@@cbcbmail1125 yes me too

@paprikapaprika2227

Жыл бұрын

@@cbcbmail1125 I agree with you

@momdad1818

Жыл бұрын

@@cbcbmail1125 i have that right now and its the best thing ever

@deaanugrahs

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree 😢😢😢

People don't care when you're alone they care when they are alone

@beths1498

3 жыл бұрын

That's so true.

@shahrizajuliana7803

3 жыл бұрын

That's true. 😭

@Novastar.SaberCombat

3 жыл бұрын

Not true. I have ALWAYS cared when my friends in the past felt lonely... But it is ALSO TRUE... that now that the tables are turned--I can find no such help, solace, etc. NO ONE calls me. No one. I used to call everyone. Now--they don't pick up for me. Makes sense. Fate is sometimes not without a sense of humor, and... there are some Fates worse than Death. Mine.

@rosehill664

3 жыл бұрын

Prakhar Sharma Everyone is selfish these days. Ignoring us and hanging out with their friends, they just walk over us.

@bizarrehuh8076

3 жыл бұрын

do ur bit to change that then. call someone you think is lonely

This woman sounds like she is about to burst out crying any second.

@Lokk54

4 жыл бұрын

probably because of the anxiety of being in front of a crowd

@benalexander2104

4 жыл бұрын

She's doing a marvellous job nonetheless. I think it just makes her delivery more powerful.

@LogitexG

4 жыл бұрын

Because she i nervous and norwegian haha

@BillClinton228

4 жыл бұрын

@@benalexander2104 Yes she is definitely doing a fantastic job... and in fact I would argue that Tinder is one of the biggest contributors to loneliness, people on the app actually believe they can find a supermodel (male or female) and so normal people in their social circle are no longer good enough. So now you have people that stay single for longer (not withstanding one night stands of coarse) waiting for that "perfect" person.

@RahulUpadhyay-xj2cw

4 жыл бұрын

i find her adorable

Her eyes speak how painful it is to be lonely. A huge respect for her.

@paulcooper5748

Жыл бұрын

She really is beutiful a woman of substance.

@saysyke2867

Жыл бұрын

I mean how can she be lonely like seriously come tf on

@paulcooper5748

Жыл бұрын

@@saysyke2867 Why do you say that.?

@conforzo

Жыл бұрын

@@saysyke2867 its more common than we realize. We guys experience a different kind of loneliness, but a beautiful woman still feels it.

@Umairy76470

Жыл бұрын

@@paulcooper5748 May she get lovely beautiful and caring soulmate

The worst type of loneliness is having "friends" but at the end of the day feeling like they wouldn't notice if you were gone. Like you don't really matter

@mindthegap1669

Жыл бұрын

So true. It is a terrible feeling

@nathanrallibaf8014

Жыл бұрын

Yeah-- ik how that feels.. even though my friends would say they missed me, but it didn't show.......... I'm just used to be all lonely with no irl friends, and even when I wanted to make friends, they wouldn't mind me much anyway... because they are "taken" I always hated it when the "popular" ones would only take the glory---

@a64738

Жыл бұрын

It is now years between when I hear from my "friends" now after I gave up trying to keep the contact...

@letmobilet

Жыл бұрын

exactly

@wordswordswords8203

Жыл бұрын

Yeah. I think we all need love and meaningful relationships where someone really knows us and cares about us. Casual social stuff is good but it's not enough.

died at 18 buried at 65.

@idontgetlaidbut

5 жыл бұрын

Smh, you're trying too hard

@mrgcharecter2322

5 жыл бұрын

Too long to be buried

@vinodkumaraug

5 жыл бұрын

So it's not a crime to shoot you because basically you are a zombie

@anyatranter3984

5 жыл бұрын

Same here but rebirth can come

@grishmashah6791

4 жыл бұрын

For me its like 14

the pain in her voice...

@sunayanimukherjee

5 жыл бұрын

I was just thinking about that...

@hipnhappenin

5 жыл бұрын

Pain or nerves? I didn’t know

@godyboy252

5 жыл бұрын

Bit of both

@mrconsistencyza7334

5 жыл бұрын

You can feel it...

@menacr

5 жыл бұрын

i think its just her accent

The type of loneliness that hurts me the most is when you finally open up to someone you care about and thought you could trust, and then they betray you. Because what is the point of sharing in order to not feel lonely, if it makes you end up in an even worst place?

@flowerofash4439

2 жыл бұрын

agree, i keep it with myself, life is a suffering anyway, I die one way or another

@vghr6100

2 жыл бұрын

Pain is inevitable, but suffering is a choice. Be more positive.

@beth.5986

2 жыл бұрын

@@vghr6100 you’re right

@beth.5986

2 жыл бұрын

@@vghr6100 you’re right

@anonymous-fw8ib

2 жыл бұрын

It happened to me so many times 🙂

She's talking with tears in her eyes and trembling hands, yet give such a great message to the world. Mad respect to her.

@elizabethharvester6111

Ай бұрын

She is nervous that's why

I can’t be the only one that spends my day job being incredibly nice to everyone, putting on a massive happiness front, then goes home every night to nothing and nobody? Netflix is my best friend these days 💀

@BishopPL

3 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️

@lorihale129

3 жыл бұрын

I do the same then go home to a cat..I plan outings by myself..I have tried to plan trips & things w others...I still do things by myself😔 You gotta keep going😨

@michelleg5109

3 жыл бұрын

This is my exact existence. The other day my workplace told me that I didn't have to stay late. I said, "It's OK, I'm just going home to an empty house." 😔

@mattbritz5066

3 жыл бұрын

Its because they can sense thay it is a front and not who you are. Thats why you are lonely

@haritnaik7423

3 жыл бұрын

Same with me

Her solution to loneliness is to call a friend as she says in the end of her video. Some of us aren't even fortunate enough to have even that luxury.

@Santana-Rose

4 жыл бұрын

Reality Check Truth!

@psychobotLoL

4 жыл бұрын

So many people are saying that, but you clearly missed they point. She wasnt saying that to people that are lonely, but to all of people. It was call for action to people so they reach out to other people.

@cq33xx58

4 жыл бұрын

or the blessing not to have one... but then again if you never had a friend how you can tell

@justinnaarden9290

4 жыл бұрын

Calling a friend isn't gonna help you..... What will help you is working on your self worth.

@SamuelHill94

4 жыл бұрын

@0000 I came to the decision that relationships (not romantic necessarily) online can be just as valid as relationships in the physical world. I looked at the time the people I spent with people who wanted to talk to me online, and I looked at the time that people who wanted to spend time with me physically, and those online outweighed the time of people in the physical world. Therefore I think that if somebody online consciously makes the decision to spend their time with you, make the most of it. Everyone only has so much time in this life, if they're choosing to spend it with you, then why should their friendship and companionship be any less real than those in the physical world? I'm not disputing that relationships are the healthier option if possible, the way we are wired is to engage all of our senses in the way we communicate, but that's no reason at the same time to dismiss online relationships.

“You all have that friend...” actually no we don’t all have that friend.

@nnzrsinanovic2772

2 жыл бұрын

I will be your friend, unfortunately I can be only online friend bcz most of my friends are from Philippines, Vietnam, Jordan, West Europe but I live in southeast Europe. Most of them have loneliness problem wich mean they will never 1st send msg but I send them, so keep trying u must believe in yourself 🙂. I hope this comment make u happy at least for 10seconds untill u read them.

@justrohit-uc7pn

2 жыл бұрын

Hey. I would like to be your friend. Just don't feel alone. I don't know how i can reach out to you, but if there's a way, Lemme know.

@theyescapedtheweightofdarkness

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@7YBzzz4nbyte

2 жыл бұрын

True.

@selenerainey8406

2 жыл бұрын

@@nnzrsinanovic2772 your a wonderful guy

but the bad part of loneliness is when i try to talk with strangers and they think i'm freak or intrusive😐

@exceptionaltalentspc4954

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. It's a cultural thing. In my home country is totally normal to approach a stranger and strike a conversation. In a bus stop, ride sharing, waiting rooms, etc... anywhere we go, we can talk to anyone and it does not feel awkward at all.

@andrewcollins5388

2 жыл бұрын

@@exceptionaltalentspc4954 What country?

@heatherm8736

2 жыл бұрын

Right? I have given up on making friends

@bjbjn8730

2 жыл бұрын

@@heatherm8736 Never give up🙏🏽

@Bully_who_made_goblin_Jr_cry

2 жыл бұрын

y

The thing SHE doesn't understand is that we can feel lonely even around people. Loneliness is not a lack of people around you. Loneliness is a lack of connection to someone OR something.

@Halloween111

4 жыл бұрын

Sadly, being hitched, is not a guarantee. I don't know any happy married people...including my own parents. Seems like it too often makes a bad situation worse. Then they get the bright Idea to try to stick a relationship together with a baby. Usually, its bad luck for a baby.

@bbudimanalqodri

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe she suggest people to start build the connection...

@Octavio12341000

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. We are losing our human side

@saraf5414

4 жыл бұрын

THIS. YES!! I live with my family and am always surrounded by people who care about me. Yet they can never understand my loneliness and wouldn't be able to help even when they do understand.

@loukes116

4 жыл бұрын

@@saraf5414 Exactly. I'm in the same position. I hope it gets better for you, I know how you feel :( I've started playing piano and that's made me feel connected to something.

*Watches video to feel better* "You're going to get dementia and heart disease" nice

@xMrJanuaryx

5 жыл бұрын

hahaha XD

@viz4884

5 жыл бұрын

@@xMrJanuaryx Lol that means we get to die earlier right? RIIIGHT?

@beatrix778

5 жыл бұрын

Lol

@MaxRdWarrior

5 жыл бұрын

Yup well i guess ill be dead before reaching 30 yrs old then 😅

@Kyle906-Q8

5 жыл бұрын

maximillion2k haha dont worry qt least we not alone

"There's nothing cool or brave or great about going through life alone."

@flowerofash4439

2 жыл бұрын

but that is how society want men to be you will say men have wife and kids, but in practice men are all alone they have been told to keep it by themself, they give not receive, regardless if they have a family or not. maybe that is one of the main reason why they die faster than women

@jewelslove2200

2 жыл бұрын

@@flowerofash4439 No it's not. That is bad programming and unhealthy upbringing. Men are human just like women and they all deserve and have the right to have needs to feel and speak up.

@archtura7276

2 жыл бұрын

Hang on so what's your point You're going to go comfort a bunch of lonely people?

@jewelslove2200

2 жыл бұрын

@@archtura7276 read my comment. I said they can feel and cry because they’re human. Also, there are social workers and therapists for a reason.

@archtura7276

2 жыл бұрын

@@jewelslove2200 whoops I think my reply was meant to be to the main comment not your comment

It is almost a crime to be lonely. Everyone pretends to be cool and have friends, because otherwise people will think that there are something wrong with you. There are way more lonely people than we can imagine.

@tulipfewer5998

Жыл бұрын

It takes an unbelievable amount of courage to just admit" "I am lonely and I need help."

@elpacho....9254

Жыл бұрын

You’re too pretty to be lonely.

@instgtr5200

Жыл бұрын

Agreed when i hang out with other people, i could sense their loneliness just like mine. But we are just kept silent about it to each other and decided to have a usual meaningless small talk

@Kirsten4260

Жыл бұрын

@@elpacho....9254 that doesn’t even make any sense

@elpacho....9254

Жыл бұрын

@@Kirsten4260 it makes sense to ilma.

She looks nervous but I admire her courage to stand up in front of that large crown and speaking.

@aiahzohar5636

3 жыл бұрын

This x 10^6

@andydixon2980

3 жыл бұрын

She is very courageous and delivering a heartfelt message to us all. To reach out to each other more.

@aiahzohar5636

3 жыл бұрын

@@andydixon2980 I get the feeling, Andy, you don't have any trouble with people reaching out to you. :)

@andydixon2980

3 жыл бұрын

@@aiahzohar5636 I know what its like to feel lonely(i think we all do), and I think its something we all have to deal with, come to terms with etc. The secret is(in my opinion), to not try to avoid it but to realise that time alone is important, to learn about ourselves and what makes us happy, rather than attempt to seek happiness through someone else. It's better to be alone and grow stronger in yourself than to hang out with the wrong people, just for the sake of company. :)

@2jcward

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, she seems stressed out which is making me stressed out.

so much sadness in her eyes, so much stress in her voice.. i wish random hugs on the street were just as normal as taking pics of the food you're eating and sharing it on insta. i'm sending a hug to every person that is reading this, you are not alone

@solomonmufasa5374

3 жыл бұрын

i wake up every morning wishing for a hug but don't know who to get it from...

@tabbypanda82

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t think I want strangers touching me🙄

@angelfrm3261

3 жыл бұрын

*virtual hug*

@wafferking2123

3 жыл бұрын

Hugs to you too, kind samaritain

@KohaAlbert

3 жыл бұрын

@Fu Manchu Tears sells good

I often think, why in this world with billions of people, we can't find one friend?

This woman is visibly terrified, her voice is shaky, she's obviously way out of her comfort zone, yet she's still speaking. Her need to communicate a message she believes in, wins over her fear. Ladies and gentlemen, witness courage in action.

I believe loneliness is caused when there is a lack of vulnerability in friendships, they are only surface level and has no depth and true feelings and thoughts are not shared and known but instead shallow conversations and topics are entertained.

@sarahsfairytale

3 жыл бұрын

I very much agree with your statement!

@sadgurl4753

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my god you have just put in the words an idea I have had in my head but could not express it

@AlexWolpers

3 жыл бұрын

Jeff Hook nah, that’s why my girlfriend *stayed*

@AlexWolpers

3 жыл бұрын

@Jeff Hook good luck on finding your own - or a culture where that is normal

@joshuaragon6676

3 жыл бұрын

Have to have friends to begin with. I don’t have friends. Never had a gf and probably won’t ever have either. Life has been nothing but cruel. And I’m 29 already. Been alone for more than 10 years now without 1 friend. Every potential friend has always left in some way. Heck the best friend I had from kindergarten all the way through high school graduation acts like I don’t exist anymore.

that moment when you are sitting by you'r self drinking coffee in a crowded place , watching couples walking by you is the the most loneliness moment ever .

@chans_babycurls

3 жыл бұрын

Yes this.

@ashlice9849

3 жыл бұрын

every fu*king day !!

@sw-hg8eq

3 жыл бұрын

Whenever couples see me, they start making out. Why they do that? LOL

@Sigma4_

3 жыл бұрын

@@sw-hg8eq They wanna tease you don’t mind them lol 😆

@j_Uy_8qwi8HbC9XLt4kpvQ

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

Me reading the comments and finding all the friends I never had. Loneliness is a lack of connection and here is a place where we all connect with a common suffering across countries and cultures. Sending you all love. Even in the comments section of a KZread video can we find just a little more hope out there.

@rhodamwende1736

Жыл бұрын

Hi

@usifelnobi9682

Жыл бұрын

@@rhodamwende1736 hi

@enneaf1676

7 ай бұрын

Hello, that was a wonderful insight

Sending out hugs to anyone that feels lonely right now . Remember , you aren't the only one going through this. And YOU WILL overcome this and find better days.

@Abshir.Yariis

Жыл бұрын

thank you

@CarterWills1

Жыл бұрын

The fact that I am not the only person going through this makes it worse as it shows that it is not going to be easy to no longer be lonely.

@1MrBanff

Жыл бұрын

@@CarterWills1 Someone once said , God gives his toughest soldiers the hardest battles . Perhaps you’re dealing with your issues because a lesser person wouldn’t be able to handle it . You got this friend! One day you’ll look back and help someone else going through the same thing.

I hope that after this speech someone gave this girl a hug.

@patrickshenton769

4 жыл бұрын

I'd like to give her more than just a hug.

@baskeplaye009

4 жыл бұрын

@@patrickshenton769 Me too, I'd give her a high five and a thumbs up. Ooh and maybe a fist bump. I'm glad I'm not the only one who wanted to give her more than just a hug.

@AndreasDelleske

4 жыл бұрын

Her beautiful smile breaks through very often, as if there is no problem..

@thenextbigthing1393

4 жыл бұрын

@@patrickshenton769 LoL

@samanthaleon1886

4 жыл бұрын

Or a pet

sometimes I feel selfish reaching out to people as if I am using them as a cure for my loneliness even though I do care about them.

@coolboy5965

6 жыл бұрын

Alex S. No never think like this, this is not true,

@foxtrotecho9530

6 жыл бұрын

Alex S. If you do care about them, then is not selfish to do what you do, don't worry 😋

@hgzmatt

6 жыл бұрын

There is an element of "selfishness" to it. We have that need to socialize and we need to fulfill it. But it's neither good nor bad since all of us have it. Just respect the fact that not everybody wants it right whenever you want it.

@alexs.3383

6 жыл бұрын

@ hgzmatt that makes sense

@AyeshaSeerat

6 жыл бұрын

Alex S. its a two way thing. social interaction is always a two way thing, it cannot be benificial to you without being beneficial to them. and if there is no connection you both are suffering!

I dream every night of all the people I've met in my life and I wake up craving them so much that I'm physically in pain. How did I get so isolated

@Amysmith29

Жыл бұрын

I know how you feel, I haven't even spoken to someone my age for three years.( I'm 14)

@wordswordswords8203

Жыл бұрын

so sorry.

@erikaloyo4987

Жыл бұрын

same here

@pinkfuture8275

Жыл бұрын

Me too 😔 I dreamed that figurines turned to humans and dogs I hug

@sd5458

5 ай бұрын

I think about all the people I've known about in my life too and how they've come and gone. After all these years, I think it's me. I've come to that realization. One thing I think not talked about enough is the fact that even friend relationships take work. They require investment and checking in on someone otherwise that person will stop caring about and checking on you too. That's the sad reality- you get what you put in. But for some of us, we don't find ourselves in the social interactions enough that foster friendships being made. And that's unfortunate.

I think something that makes this even worse is that people who are more socially awkward, and therefore tend to avoid social interactions, will be more likely to be lonely. Then, if they try to connect to people, they feel awkward, and with the lack of practice, will seclude themselves again, and continue to silently suffer.

@wordswordswords8203

Жыл бұрын

Yes.

@rol407

Жыл бұрын

Well if people were friendly and not cold abusers that wouldn't be a problem in the first place

@wrathofatlantis2316

6 ай бұрын

​@@rol407Exactly. The reason they make you pay for every little mistake is they have bad manners. And people with bad manners are quite objectively worthless.

Even KZread recommendation knows I'm lonely 😂

@user-xz4ck8zs2u

4 жыл бұрын

bruh it's no news that google is listening to your microphone, and spying on you

@Shrek-pu8uu

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-xz4ck8zs2u Omg, I knew it. Hide everyone.

@ME-yy9wg

4 жыл бұрын

FBI OPEN THE DOOR!!!

@SideEffects297

4 жыл бұрын

@@user-xz4ck8zs2u google listen to what? there is no one to talk to. Even google would get bored spying.

@surya7930

4 жыл бұрын

Omg ! I thought about the same

I told my mother jokingly one day that if i die nobody will know until the neighbour would complain of a foul smell coming from my apartment. we both laughed but deep inside i knew that that was the truth.

@joseaguilar-oh6nf

6 жыл бұрын

Don’t feel like that I too don’t have anybody

@evacookie2194

6 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a change is needed

@mathewhill5556

6 жыл бұрын

fish and banana How much of the social disconnection is due to economic pressure?

@midnightblue1031

6 жыл бұрын

fish and banana 😔😔😔

@frequencyfuct

6 жыл бұрын

Ask yourself how many people's lives would be adversely affected by your death. If they are not dependent on you every day, then their lives would not be affected much. A wife would certainly be emotionally and financially affected by her husband's death, and vice versa. Dependent children would certainly be affected by a parent's death. But the lives of aunt, uncles, cousins and other family members who don't depend on you every day, will not be affected to such an extent. For them life goes on tomorrow just like it did the day before, with your death having little actual impact. So when you think of how many people's lives your death would affect . . . probably not many. So say a prayer for the people in you life for whom you are dependent on every day, for they are the true blessings for which you should be thankful.

Lonliness hurts so damn much, I wish I can cry for no reason at all because I'm so damn hurt. Being alone amongst people and being misunderstood is the worst pain I've ever felt.

@pixieheart9303

Жыл бұрын

I've been misunderstood my entire life. I'm also lonely.

@mattsyson3980

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for saying that. I feel most lonely when I am in a crowd.

@wordswordswords8203

Жыл бұрын

Me too. And we don't connect with everyone. There has to be some kind of commonality and chemistry for friendship. It's not easy to find, even when you are trying, it can't be forced.

@wordswordswords8203

Жыл бұрын

@@pixieheart9303 sorry. I think I know what you mean. I have been an outsider my whole life. It's hurts and makes me frustrated and angry. Just not fair.

the pain in her voice is immense. she is hardly fighting her tears back. Loneliness is like living with a chronic debilitating disease and intolerable constant pain and darkness.

@tulipfewer5998

Жыл бұрын

I quivered as she talked nervously

Anyone else feel like they've just got so used to being lonely that it feels normal now? Like waking up, going to work or school, coming home and seeing 0 messages on your phone, zero missed calls. No plans for the weekend or nights. No success with dating apps and other shallow programs claiming to "connect" individuals. Going out to a club only to just stand there awkwardly with a drink in your hand watching groups dance and thinking "how do they reach that point?" But strangely enough still feeling content with it. Because it makes every meaningful social interaction much more memorable and important. I think people take social attention for granted. Most people aren't interested in making friends unless it's somewhat beneficial to their reputation or provides. It's similar to what this woman said about technology. It benefits those who need it the least. And leaves the ones who actually need it most behind even further. Being lonely is so common because it's a status that severely impacts the ability to make connections. You can't connect the dots if you don't even have any.

@Electrikal_Practikal

4 жыл бұрын

How do they reach that point?.. I ask same question

@johnD1998

4 жыл бұрын

@@Electrikal_Practikal yea that's how i feel. The loneliness is pretty much normal to me now, For me it became normal just by living in it for about 2 or 3 years. Now its been 6 years and i do have suicidal thoughts sometimes. I don't know how to get out of it.

@joshhenderson9108

4 жыл бұрын

I really get that man, I never get messaged by anyone. Weekends I sit at home and do nothing. My soccer coach even knows that I have no friends. The only time I really talk to people is if my twin brother asks them to get on xbox. I have no friends of my own but I don't feel like putting in effort to try and make any friends. I always think to myself man if I just had a girlfriend I would be fine but Ive only ever tried to talk to two girls and it was just a big waste of time. Ive got zero confidence to even try a dating app. I can't even take a picture of myself because I hate the way I look and I feel like it won't matter because no girl will message me.

@Turanic1

4 жыл бұрын

@@joshhenderson9108 I can suggest a few things, 1) join a card game club or a werewolf social game club 2) start doing good outdoor photography( mountains, lakes etc) 3) buy a drone and do some aerial footage, edit videos and show to friends 4) invite people to the trips ... Works for me, but now I discovered I prefer to do this alone most of the time :DD ... In fact I relized I generally hate people, I just need a girlfriend and a few buddies ...

@joshhenderson9108

4 жыл бұрын

Tony Light thanks for replying man! I would do that kind of stuff but none of it really interests me. My only hobbies I guess are soccer, sorta cars and video games. I’m really only super invested into soccer. I play at a college but the only people that I’m really friends with on the soccer team are internationals and they are all leaving as well as I am leaving. I know I should branch out and try and meet new people but I just don’t have the drive to I guess. Thanks for the tips though maybe I’ll give it a try when I have more motivation to

Legend has it, that audience is still raising their hand.

@abandonedarts4812

4 жыл бұрын

There's one girl on the right who puts her hand down.

@PatrickGuitarz

4 жыл бұрын

Between all the comments of people being real with themselves and truly expressing their emptiness, we all need comments like this which make our shallow lives a bit more entertaining. You won this comment thread, sir.

@N0URii

4 жыл бұрын

thanks you make me laugh when the comment section is full of depression story :'D

@Nokss87

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😏

@edreanhenrytombaga562

3 жыл бұрын

You are not alone on this one...

Me reading all the comments thinking I'll never find someone who feels how painful my loneliness is and wanting to cry cuz i read your comments and thats exactly how i feel..maybe that's what they mean with " you are not alone" ..here's a big tight warm hug for you all.

@tulipfewer5998

Жыл бұрын

You are not alone

@wordswordswords8203

Жыл бұрын

Right back at you Hala.

It takes so much courage just to admit that "I'm lonely and I need help!".

Her: Loneliness makes a 29% increase in heart disease and a 32% increase in having a stroke Me: good so I can die faster

@katharina7770

3 жыл бұрын

I know this was probably a joke but every joke has a little truth in it. Please don't give up on life you are valuable and so is every human being. It breaks my heart to see people talking about their lives like that. God really loves you💕.

@katharina7770

3 жыл бұрын

@@DdD-om1mr I know that this is how it seems to be sometimes or for some people even most of the times but thats not true. If I wouldn't believe in God I would probably say that too. But since I do I really believe that there is hope and no matter how hard life is Jesus can and will save you if you just want to. Romans 8:38-39: ,,For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord."

@saints82

3 жыл бұрын

@@katharina7770 Jesus is the friend that sticks closer than a brother. He will never leave you or forsake you. Call on Him Kathdi! I did and l know. 🙏

@neerclemons7199

3 жыл бұрын

This is how much lonely I feel all the time 😭

@dr_afraamohamad6650

3 жыл бұрын

Same every day before I go to sleep my last prayer is I hope to die now I'm done I had enough

I think the worst part is not being able to share with anyone around you how lonely and horrible you feel , even if its eating you alive.

@TheBlackSheepDiaries

3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes, pretending nothing is wrong. Raised in the south, it's all I've ever known, but I'm trying to show folks what it looks like, and how I've been dealing with it. Come on over and visit here if you get time.

@jericoba

2 жыл бұрын

Yep. I know. Involuntary loneliness.

@beth.5986

2 жыл бұрын

And even worst than that is when you do share, and they don't even care or leave you lol

@paulgray2928

2 жыл бұрын

@@beth.5986 😭😭😭

@saszy5198

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah :(

I love when she says "just be bored together"

The worst loneliness for me is the feeling that no one has ever fallen in love with you. I have been alone all my life and losing my mum recently has made it worse coming home to an empty house. I think this comes out in my own music sometimes.

@Dzanarika1

Жыл бұрын

Sending you hugs 🤗 🤗🤗

@renacleerican7824

Жыл бұрын

I send you Love❤ Believe it doesnt mean that you are not lovable! It means that we are too many on earth, and most of us are blind.

"Call that one friend you know you have." Me: .... 😥 That was a big assumption.

@linsay3574

4 жыл бұрын

We have the same initials, so we're destined to be friends:)

@AABTBS

4 жыл бұрын

Yes - The moment she said that my heart broke even more, it was painful

@esaurita8427

4 жыл бұрын

What friend?

@kitsune-san739

4 жыл бұрын

Pretty bold of you to assume I had any friends in the first place

@greggeverman5578

4 жыл бұрын

Cheers, bud. Great comment, btw.

When you feel lonely, it becomes so uncomfortable to be around people. I have never been able to pick up the phone and call someone else when I want to talk or vent. I never had anyone to reach out to either when I attempted suicide. I am always the listener, available to those who aren’t to me. Yet if I try to talk, I feel too selfish to have someone listen to me that I just back away and hold my tongue back.

@myaccount235

5 жыл бұрын

Life really can be the cruelest teacher. But that last statement speaks volumes, "Yet if I try to talk, I feel too selfish to have someone listen to me that I just back away and hold my tongue back." I won't pretend that I know you, but from one stranger to another, you have self-worth. And in realizing this, understand that compassion for others doesn't just extend towards other people, but also for yourself. Be kind to yourself, be loving, it isn't easy but it's always worth it. *You* are worth it.

@linaa.4481

5 жыл бұрын

Ostrum Tempus your response means a lot. Thank you, life is defeating and it becomes hard to love myself during that process but you just made me realize that if life can’t be kind to me then I must give that kindness to myself.

@samilleexplainsitall

4 жыл бұрын

That is so crazy how we operate! I feel the exact same way. My phone dont ring...just to say hi! Its more like they may need something. I just wish things were different because I am a nice person.

@Justsomeguyyoutubing

4 жыл бұрын

When I started standing up for my happiness, I started losing people all around. I was isolated. But it was better than being alone in a crowd.

@mikkos8636

4 жыл бұрын

You gotta learn it's ok to be selfish. I tell you something I learned, I was much like you in some aspect in life on that unhealthy amount of unselfishness, but then I read one simple sentence that changed it for me. It's ok to be on the receiving end of good things, beneficial for the giver too, because by seeing how happy you are from receiving their thing, they feel like they've done something good and that will make them happier. Both with. It's quite easy to get along to people no matter how introverted or whatever you are, after you learn the balance of talking and listening and be yourself and go with the flow in the positive way, and restrict going with the flow when things take a negative tone, but don't judge those negative things either. Just accept them as a part of life. They won't weight so much after you let them be in their natural place and then fade away.

My mum had cancer for two years but couldn't get treatment because of Covid restrictions. My Mum's mind went with the isolation of not getting out to meet her friends. My Mum was my best friend and Hero and I loved her so much ❤. My Mum took her own life in January 2021 she was 74. The lonliness without her is horrendous, I moved back to my apartment. I find my lonliness has caused a lot of anxiety and depression and my blood pressure is through the roof. I set up meetup to try and meet people and get new friends. But I find in society now people just think of themselves and are not looking for friends but for intimacy from people. It's so hard to find genuine friends, I find every single person wants a partner and not a friend.

@nyc1223.

2 жыл бұрын

I wish you find a good friend

@kleinesbeissendesschildkro9861

Жыл бұрын

I‘m so sorry for your loss :( I wish for you to find genuine people in your life ❤

@noviaparamita

Жыл бұрын

i can be your friend!

@Barbbfly

9 ай бұрын

Im sorry . That is very sad . My mom took her own life when i was 11 yrs and I am 66 yrs now . She was a wonderful person just got sick and had trauma as a girl . Apt was bombed by nazis when she was 4 yrs old in England . for eg. I have felt alone since then . I have Jesus which helps a lot but not the social support or ppl I can talk to other then professionals . I have ppl that care about me but i FEEL lonely anyway . I want a friend not a partner lol. GBU dear. Take care .

@abbybilbeisi

4 ай бұрын

I went through simular situations as yours in the same time range, I have never really connected with women even though I am consistently kind, accomplished, etc.

I've been lonely for my entire life. Honestly, it never gets easier. Although, I would much rather be alone than be surrounded by people who make me feel lonely.

I've died many deaths because of loneliness, rejection and depression

@juliepeterson4905

4 жыл бұрын

Learn to value yourself, no one's opinions are worth anything, pray and exercise

@krystalsunshine7412

4 жыл бұрын

Jesus is here for you

@paulcooper5748

4 жыл бұрын

I can relate.

@krystalsunshine7412

4 жыл бұрын

@Stevo so sorry. But know that Jesus is here for you .

@andychauhan6544

4 жыл бұрын

If they ask for volunteers to goto Mars...I'd raise my hand.

This comment section breaks my heart... May all the lonely and kind people find happiness. Know that when you feel lonely, you're not the only one in the world feeling this way at this moment. Love you all

@brianchen5606

5 жыл бұрын

And to you too.

@viniciusgermano4334

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@anirudhsrinivas1534

5 жыл бұрын

Added this video to my playlist just for the comment section.

@ellw7830

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you. It is people like you that are solving this problem, one kind word at a time. :)

@petras01582

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, we can all be lonely together, knowing nothing about each other, on our separate devices our only point of contact being a single comment section that will inevitably be drowned in the ocean of the internet.

There's a difference between loneliness, and disconnection. You can be surrounded by people yet feel isolated and not belonging.

@bryanbenson6551

2 жыл бұрын

That's exactly it. From being so isolated and living alone, when I occasionally say, go to our local bar to try to mingle, I ALWAYS fell disconnected from everyone! Almost like I'm not even human, watching all of these humans interact with each other, laughing, talking about things in common or trips e.t.c, while i just sit there and listen and try to get in that head space, yet i can't relate!

@user-ry2qs7xf9k

Жыл бұрын

@@bryanbenson6551 people are fake,you're looking for perfection,no wonder you feel isolated,may God bribg you peace

What if there is no one to call? People always assume everybody has friends as if this is mandatory. There are no friends to call or talk to.

@Mr.EeToMyself

5 жыл бұрын

Lyrkel R After divorce especially. Who would bail me out the next time. Child’s birthday is today. No contact at all. Fifty fifty custody. But what da ya do. Had lost them in night a few back. Never was the same. Any friends that helped her had done damage. Won’t have them back.

@lyrkel

5 жыл бұрын

@@Mr.EeToMyself I am sorry to hear that. I do hope you can get your family back. People destroy things by complicating everything. If it is fifty fifty custody you have the right to take part in the child's life. I pray to God to help you solve all that.

@randomstranger5

5 жыл бұрын

Lyrkel R exactly...

@lyrkel

5 жыл бұрын

@Mark s I'm so sorry about that. You can talk to me if you like. Facebook messenger or somewhere else

@bidishabanerjee1204

5 жыл бұрын

Same here.... .

KZread said and I quote "people like you watched this"... Even KZread knows I'm lonely.

@glitchinthematrix555

5 жыл бұрын

Paul Cozens yeah google monitors your browsing habits via artificial intelligence. Everything you do online is recorded.

@hamiltonatthedisco8823

5 жыл бұрын

@@glitchinthematrix555 Nothing new there

@kassachap

5 жыл бұрын

It's ok batman's groin!!! But seriously Paul get out there man, join some groups!!!

When she mentioned dementia, it reminded me of my mom’s who’s was lonely trying to raise me. 😢

We are all scared of sharing our real feelings with others because we fear that others will betray us because we have been betrayed our whole life.

@raees6330

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@lazarusblackwell6988

Жыл бұрын

@@raees6330 Thank you for your kind reply man.

I'm fine with being alone but going alone in places where there's a big groups of people around you can be haunting.

@cd0u50c9

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, I can relate to this.. Sometimes you need a dose of interaction but it doesn't happen when you need it the most.

@spets5355

4 жыл бұрын

yeah, i hate crowded places. Apart from music shows, that's where i don't mind being among other people

@subhadravm9973

4 жыл бұрын

This is why i dont attend any family functions and get togethers

@meowth8050

4 жыл бұрын

Keep your head up

@obstantiadiscindo

3 жыл бұрын

Don't think that everyone there is happy...there'll be many who are married, but lonely with their partner; others with a group of friends but not feeling a connection...some content to have company, but bored by it. I'd bet there'd be several people there who felt at least as lonely as you, and trapped. It's human nature to think everyone else has it sussed. They don't 💗

I started growing plants to cure my loneliness.. what Ive learned was to properly care for the plants and started caring myself.. started cooking and eating healthier again..

@LinnyStrawberry

3 жыл бұрын

I too have been doing the same with my plants. I love my plants. I have also broadened my skill sets in arts & crafts and baking which are hobbies I am only now developing because I have stopped caring about the fact I am lonely and have no friends. I use my hobbies to keep me happy.

@nganly9305

3 жыл бұрын

I raise a pet to cure my emptiness. A little happiness in life help me ease the pain inside my soul.

@channelfive7883

3 жыл бұрын

@beep boop Beep You should all be friends you all like the same thing

@markdemell3717

3 жыл бұрын

Get a pet also.

@linguinepast3743

3 жыл бұрын

I like that.

So sad to see such an attractive and intelligent young woman struggling with loneliness. Loneliness sucks :(

This made me cry. Just the way she was talking, like she was on the verge of tears and talking about loneliness in a real way. Believe me, I know. It's the most painful thing there is. I was diagnosed with cancer last year and it's worse than that. It's worse than death. It cuts you right to your core and brings you to your knees. And no one wants to talk about it or admit they are lonely. I'm not sure everyone has a friend that they can call, and I also don't necessarily agree that technology is that helpful. I think technology can make it worse because it's like when you are starving eating a candy bar instead of a good meal. I think another thing that people could and should do is REACH OUT to those who are alone. If you know someone lives alone on in your neighborhood and you don't see them having any or very few visitors, stop by. Bring them some nice baking. Invite them over for coffee. Offer to mow their lawn. Smile at them and say hi when you see them outside. Let them know you are available if they need a ride to the doctor or shopping. Stuff like that is life saving to lonely people. It's hard to reach out when you are the lonely one because, she's right, you are so depressed and screwed over by it that it's too much for you to do and to risk another rejection when you are feeling so bad isn't worth it. I honestly don't expect to survive much longer. I'm only in my 50's. But in addition to the cancer, I can feel how toxic the loneliness is to me, to my body, mind, spirit. When I see people walking together or in family groups, it just makes me feel worse. I feel like an outcast, like a freak, a reject. So I would say, take it to the very local level. Look around your neighborhood. If you see someone living alone, esp. if they seem withdrawn or aren't coming out of their house much, go ahead and reach out to them. About a week ago, the neighbor across the street came over and brought me a little bag of candy for Thanksgiving. We talked for a couple minutes at the door. It really made me feel better. And I used to have another neighbor who said hi to me every time he saw me. That was good too. It's just nice to know there are people around who SEE you and are there to help even if it is just for an emergency or to help you with your yardwork or something. Anyway, I guess that's it. It's so sad. Being alone is so sad and so painful and so shameful. No one should have to go through that. If anyone read this whole thing, thanks. Take care people and take care of each other.

@skippy7208

10 ай бұрын

Hi there I can’t see you, but your your words have touched a nerve and I just wanted to reach out and say hello, how are you doing? You sound lovely and I’d like to be your friend 🥰

@mjmyangel-priscilla1176

7 ай бұрын

My oh my. I read your comment 👌thank you so much

@jimmytwo-times4394

5 ай бұрын

You sound like the type of person the world desperately needs more of: a truly kind one. If you’re interested, I highly recommend Victor Frankl’s “Man’s search for meaning.”

I spent 15 years of depression but now im over.... i dont care anymore. No sadness and no happiness. Just empty.

@Bazza5000

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that Ya Hilal. I struggle with depression, though it is somewhat less. I can see that you're numb.

@sarahsfairytale

3 жыл бұрын

I know what you mean. Step out into life, go on a walk, meditate, see new things, put yourself in social settings around people, your feelings may change. try painting what "empty" looks and feels like. It may help you within. :) remember a lot of people likely feel as you do. Youre not alone.

@sarahsfairytale

3 жыл бұрын

Jan Schlossar who are you to tell me what I know and don’t? I live in my head, while you don’t.

@rebellion8303

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly how I feel!

@katenka_ana3997

3 жыл бұрын

Stop consuming (or just cut it down) youtube/netflix/video games/weed or whatever else you use to numb the pain. This is important because these things mess with your dopamine-levels and well, numb you. I've always been called a "stone" for not feeling. I've spent massive amounts of hours on the internet it's saddening.. Also, when you are constantly in this sort of transe-state you might experience derealisation. So confusing...

I want to give her a hug

@hosseinghanaati728

6 жыл бұрын

same here :))

@Giannis-zm5no

6 жыл бұрын

Julian Voth me too 😇

@Paramitacdewi

6 жыл бұрын

yeah not until they decide suicide is the only way to remove the pain

@edgeofthemed3011

6 жыл бұрын

peter england did you watch this video?

@jonyphoenix

6 жыл бұрын

Me too, and the talk hit me ... damn

She is so brave. I can't thank her enough.

What a brilliant, sensitive, beautiful woman.

She said lonliness has become a pandemic, she predicted 2020

@MM-vs2et

3 жыл бұрын

Loneliness has been a pandemic since civilization my dude. Ever since social structures rose, people have been lonely.

@criminalchicken499

3 жыл бұрын

Loneliness is a bigger epidemic than obesity

@ellw7830

3 жыл бұрын

ik.... wish i had come back to this earlier in the pandemic. i think it would've helped a lot of people.

@MiyahSundermeyer

3 жыл бұрын

This social distancing have been really hard on me

@Bristecom

2 жыл бұрын

@@MM-vs2et Have you researched how previous societies worked? They were much more interdependent than they are today. Today technology largely replaces the need to interact with people.

She is great...She took the stage to speak her heart out...I respect her courage !

@JLamstudio

5 жыл бұрын

Vivek Singh The emotion in her voice is almost unbearable.

@vikplaysguitar

5 жыл бұрын

Jason Lam When you speak the truth from your heart, it is obvious to be shaky. But Being vulnerable is being strong, you should speak anyway. Most of us shout out behind the veils. Be the change ! Forever respect for the courage she has shown :)

@paulcooper5748

5 жыл бұрын

Shes realy beutiful a woman of substance.

The worst kind of loneliness is the fact of being somewhere and feel uninvited , excluded and have nowhere to go

@johenderson3742

9 ай бұрын

And disrespected.

@stephenhowes8937

2 ай бұрын

Most people don't understand about exclusivity.

Imagine being on work everyday and be happy with collegues, after heading back home every night, you dont have any one to talk to. Its really sad.

@happymemories_videography

2 жыл бұрын

It's why I started Journaling. It helps but, it's not be all, end all solution.

I'm kind, witty, interested in people and good company, so I'm constantly told. Yet no one calls and I'm always alone. Why? Because *THEY* are *NOT lonely* so they don't need to call anyone. That's all. If someone has a partner and kids, they are busy. If they split up, they'll call you. This is the good news: it's not about YOU. But that's also the problem: _sometimes it needs to be about YOU_

@kalakritistudios

4 жыл бұрын

goldeneddie Jesus Christ! You're so good!😮 TBH, this comment alone can heal many!

@manishachakraborty9977

4 жыл бұрын

So true!

@subhadravm9973

4 жыл бұрын

Very true...

@perciousmatter7001

4 жыл бұрын

I guess so but not totally

@bbudimanalqodri

4 жыл бұрын

Deep

I'm 32. I've felt lonely my entire life. It started sometimes after elementary school. Ever since then I've never had any friends. Never understood why up to this day. Always felt like something was wrong with me but could never figure out what. It's very frustrating each and every day especially on days where you are really trying to feel connected to other people and them to you but for some reason you can't. It leaves you thinking "Why don't people like me?" every day but too scared to vocalize it for fear of sounding insecure and juvenile. It hurts the more you get older.

@ayyappatirumalasetty8033

5 жыл бұрын

This is the absolute same feeling i have. I am through the same situation I fail to connect to people and they to me.

@user-wo2jp2kz1x

5 жыл бұрын

Jay P 😥😥😥😥😥

@chandi015d7

5 жыл бұрын

Same....

@faust011

5 жыл бұрын

I'm in the same position. Though for me my isolation is a result of shyness, social anxiety, generalised anxiety and introversion. Never had *any* close friends. Only feel somewhat comfortable around my parents & brothers but can't see them everyday.. I don't think I'm a bad person, but it gets harder to justify to myself of that the older I get.

@blueeyes3655

5 жыл бұрын

I'm feeling lonely too, It has not always been like that for me, but I fail to keep the connection with people, and as time has passed I don't feel like I have anyone to talk to anymore, no one to call when I get this overwhelming feeling of loneliness. Sometimes I realize that I haven't talked to anyone for several days, it scares me :'( It also scares me to write it down, it becomes too real, you know.?

Her voice already sounds so sad, I think she has internalized those loneliness into her personality, like many of us 😭😭😭😭

I’ve been married for 31 years. I’ve been lonely for at least the last 15 years.

@tom4412

2 жыл бұрын

How’s that, don’t you talk to your husband

I was crying by the end of that. I'm sure my depression is from loneliness. I've been lonely for a very long time now.

@Islander185

5 жыл бұрын

Art - Thanks for your reply. I'm doing volunteer ambulance officer training all weekend. My loneliness is from years of childhood abuse, I'm working through it but I'm behind on lots of life skills, socialising and dating being the big ones. I guess they will come but it's slow going. Wishing you a wonderful day :)

@karliegilbert3917

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Tim. I’m Here to talk.

@Islander185

5 жыл бұрын

+ Adventures With Karlie, Hi, Thanks for the offer. I think the best long term solution for me is to become happy alone. Being alone as long as I have has messed me up in bad ways.

@spearmint4093

5 жыл бұрын

@@Islander185 you seem like a good guy. Sorry that happened to you. Where do you live?

@Islander185

5 жыл бұрын

@JE ENN - Thank you. Most people are surprised I have never had a relationship before now (I'm 40). I live in rural Australia so there's not many options around. I left it too late, most people here find a partner in their 20's or move away.

Being hitched to the wrong person is way more lonely than being single...

@lizzee3727

6 жыл бұрын

Tim Prendergas, or in an unhappy relationship. I totally agree.

@atozedism

6 жыл бұрын

Haha I know. When she said that..I had many examples of married couples in my mind,ready

@bonniebianco5918

6 жыл бұрын

Tim Prendergast I get lonely in crowds in cities.

@silveriorebelo8495

6 жыл бұрын

what do you mean by wrong person? there's nothing wrong with those we chose to love.

@TimPrendergast

6 жыл бұрын

There are those that are not who you think they are... and you try anyway.

If a woman this attractive is that lonely, then I am screwed.

@exceptionaltalentspc4954

2 жыл бұрын

hahahaha Exactly my thought. Imagine me being a not so good looking female on her late 50's. Now, that's really fckd up.

@boballen2930

2 жыл бұрын

76 year old single male perspective: The only cure for loneliness is loving and caring for others, sometimes random acts of kindness. Always focusing on self is probably going to result in some sort of inner pain or delusion.

@robyndismon394

2 жыл бұрын

@@exceptionaltalentspc4954 But it is not about looks.. Clearly that's not the answer to anything. Why do we even THINK that handsome and pretty, (whatever that means to you) is a panacea. Its not. Never has been. WHO are you and what are your values? That is what's important!

@WillBlindYouWithLight

2 жыл бұрын

I guess not, because it's mostly hot chicks that feel this way. Other girls are jealous and so are men. Besides, maybe you should research Marilyn Monroe.

@exceptionaltalentspc4954

2 жыл бұрын

@@boballen2930 Loving should be a two-way street. The heart is like a bank account, you need to replenish in order to get something out.

Saddest part of being lonely or loneliness is, you can't share or talk with anybody all those beautiful thing, your happiest moment in life, your saddest moment and knowing that if you are gone, no one will miss you and being completely alienated by society.

@kissa7709

2 жыл бұрын

I agree

@allaboutlife2837

2 жыл бұрын

@@kissa7709 hope, you are living your life happily 🙏♥️

@kissa7709

2 жыл бұрын

@@allaboutlife2837 🥺 yeah hope eventually ..I wish you the same!

"Im always here for you" "U shoyld seek proffesional help" These are words that people say before they leave you

@tedmalley7636

3 жыл бұрын

So called "professional help" doesn't always help... remember, a therapist is a person who is paid $ to pretend to care about helping you... there are no real feelings of care , concern or compassion.... regarding my experiences with therapists is that they exacerbate one's pain and suffering..

@thereisnosanctuary6184

3 жыл бұрын

@@tedmalley7636 Better than nothing. But, selfish people want you to "get therapy" when what you need is simple kindness.

@aiahzohar5636

3 жыл бұрын

@Zan YUP! :)

@orton4357

3 жыл бұрын

@@tedmalley7636 beep wrong. Therapists help you solve your psychological problem. I have to say it again your "PSYCHOLOGICAL" problem

@Arcaryon

2 жыл бұрын

Professional help is often exactly what you need because a lot of the time, you just need someone to talk to but may not have that kind of trust for one reason or another to regular people in your social life.

She’s so sad and nervous, she sounds like she is about to brush out crying any second .

@dirtydan9856

3 жыл бұрын

she needs a hug

@MrFerriirawan

3 жыл бұрын

@John Gatselis 🤣

@MrFerriirawan

3 жыл бұрын

@John Gatselis *granpa

@markdemell3717

3 жыл бұрын

She is beautiful ,but lonely .

@martijn2246

3 жыл бұрын

I feel like she is just shy and scared of standing for big crowds

that's so true, I've never felt so alone.

"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel alone." - Robin Williams

I'm lonely and have no friends. I guess you are all in the same boat too, since you're watching this? Lol. edit: well, you can all be my friend. :)

@lindachkadi5563

5 жыл бұрын

Jimmy Stone sure

@raspberrynation

5 жыл бұрын

Would like to

@POPDATA

5 жыл бұрын

I can be your friend ❤

@tonywalker1954

5 жыл бұрын

I'm lonely but it's not Because I. Isolate myself it's because people live in the digital world instead of the real world.

@jennybugsification13

5 жыл бұрын

Let's do this!!!

She sounds like she's on the verge of tears the whole time. I just want to give her a hug and be bored together ;)

"Loneliness is a barrier that prevents one from uniting with the inner self." - Carl Rogers

46 yrs old here. Been lonely my entire life. No relationships. No marriage. Major depressive disorder, chronic severe anxiety, OCD, PTSD, and agoraphobia. Dimensia is all but inevitable. 👍🏻

@tom4412

2 жыл бұрын

I’m looking for a friend.

Loneliness has been killing me for several years. I feel it. I know it.

@killswitcher7797

5 жыл бұрын

Just hold on. It'll get better...

@atheris1641

4 жыл бұрын

Diana Liech hi

@paulcooper5748

4 жыл бұрын

Your awesome.

@greggeverman5578

4 жыл бұрын

Start by telling your sub conscious that you’re happy. Dr Bruce Lipton could tell you how to do this.

@marnomaleux4818

4 жыл бұрын

Imagine living for 10 years in loneliness, you might just die or go insane or something. thats real loneliness. I've lived extremely lonely for a year bc of anxiety, i still am afraid to go out the door alone. Gaming is always on my mind, food and alcohol en medication too. u just become addicted, although i lost weight i still have alcohol problems. i barely sleep at night. im always on edge.

I'm so lonely it's starting to scare me. My depression has now caused me daily, severe chronic pain. I'm in pain constantly, I have no shoulder to cry on, I've never been loved, been single my entire life and I'm scared Ill die this way. I feel the effects of lonliness on my body, reducing my life span more and more. I just want someone to love. I'm terrified. edit: thank you for all the support! I'm now in my first relationship at age 23 and still can't believe it. Im happy and finally have support but still scared of what will happen if I lose him. Im soo thankful. I still deal with depression and severe chronic pain but my life has changed for the better with love in it. He was truly worth the wait. If I found love, you all will too!

@videoman191

3 жыл бұрын

I’m right there with ya just in a different room. Stay strong we got this

@alba4962

3 жыл бұрын

hey how are you? do you need to talk? im here if you need someone to talk

@adriancaldwell

3 жыл бұрын

I understand you

@gowtham6822

3 жыл бұрын

Every day in the morning I would be waiting to get up from the bed bcos I have literally nothing to do. Loneliness is not my problem. But life without purpose is.

@SRBOMBONICA86

3 жыл бұрын

I am sorry you feel this way ,I personally have God to fill the void in my heart ,hope you find something to love that gives you peace in your soul 💜

it honestly makes me so sad that people don’t even really allow you to talk about it. I remember when I was really struggling with loneliness and tried to talk to my ex-gf about it and she accused me of trying to make her feel bad when I was literally just expressing my emotions 🥴

@beth.5986

2 жыл бұрын

I can relate :/

@chungchung9103

2 жыл бұрын

That's painful nd i can feel that...

@granniefromky

2 жыл бұрын

Haha, cold coffee is what I love!

@somethingunusual8456

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I though after the pandemic people would be more empathetic. But finally entering uni I found out they aren't. You're viewed as less and someone to be pitied having no connections.

@wordswordswords8203

Жыл бұрын

I know what you mean. People don't want to hear about it. They are busy with their own lives. It's awful. Awful.

I know it. I just feel so helpless. I feel like I need someone to help me or encourage me which ironically won't happen when I'm alone.

Loneliness happens in all ages. I am 48 and I've never felt lonelier in my entire life. My mother passed a month ago and she was the last person I could always call and talk to. People mostly hurt me in life, and I just had enough. I don't want to be hurt anymore, that is why I am alone.

@legendkillersshittyduffleb932

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry too hear this i lost my mom at 15 it really sucks most humans only care about themselves

@tsesfs

2 жыл бұрын

🤗

@lornakurien7962

2 жыл бұрын

Trusting people is a big issue, they can betray you or leave you.

@memyselfi2005

Жыл бұрын

Feel the same about my dad. No matter what I could call him and talk to him and he would try and help me with whatever I was going through. He truly had unconditional love for me. My mother is the surviving parent who has not loved me since I was a small child. Once, she sat down with me at the kitchen table, looked me straight in my eyes, and told me she hates me and has for years. She hates me and that she will never love me again. So the rare times she says that she loves me now, I don’t have any reason to truly believe that. I think it means- I love you for now. My aunt? She used to tell me she loved me, back when she used to talk to me- she’s made it plain she hates to talk to me. One of the last times she phoned me, I asked her why she was calling because she never does. She made her voice sound very self important as she replied “I called you because I had a weak moment”. I am tired of the abuses that come from wanting connection, being told I’m not good enough to deserve it. And I’m tired of the pain too.

@jayaybe1

Жыл бұрын

I don't want to appear to be Mr Quickfix or anything, but finding people in your area with similar interests would really change things for you. It could be a book club, hiking group, aerobics class, chess club, cycling club photography, anything. Or do a course where you'll meet people with exactly a common interest - the course. It sounds simplistic but it could literally be a life saver for you.

I feel more lonely when there r people around than when im alone

@Nokss87

3 жыл бұрын

Introvert?

@fama2534

3 жыл бұрын

Ye

@fama2534

3 жыл бұрын

@@Nokss87 ye

@conscioussoul4963

3 жыл бұрын

It's because the people around are not of your choice.

@thehitman6963

3 жыл бұрын

It’s because the people around you aren’t real friends.

I am 30 years old. Have no friends or partner. Nobody to share, hang out or travel. Sometimes i enjoy the solitude. Sometimes it's worse. Depression is crawling beneath skin. I trying to hold, fight back. Tried suicide many times. Still i have hope to live.

@flowery666

2 жыл бұрын

hope is what keeps me going too

@flowery666

2 жыл бұрын

be strong, it has to be better one day

@tom4412

2 жыл бұрын

@@flowery666 thanks it will get better as you learn more

“Be lonely together” that was so cute ❤

When Lonliness is recommended to u by KZread .

@hero9610

4 жыл бұрын

that means you have no life KZread knows that atleast

@simonwenzowski9148

4 жыл бұрын

@@hero9610 hahaa! That was unexpected lol

@MrFerriirawan

3 жыл бұрын

@@hero9610 🤣the heck

@ankavoskuilen1725

3 жыл бұрын

Ok, KZread had that right!

@SR-pw6pi

3 жыл бұрын

😂🤣🤣🤣😅

Having a pet helps remove the loneliness. You also meet more people by walking around with your dog.

@-._.-._.-._.-._.-._.-

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, but when you have a cat you only have more fur stuff on your keyboard.

@seniintan6855

5 жыл бұрын

Very true, having pet also can make us forget the sad thing in previous life.

@elliot43289

5 жыл бұрын

i'd like to buy a Shikoku Ken.

@tiffanytaylor1502

5 жыл бұрын

@@elliot43289 a who? Hee❤

@elliot43289

5 жыл бұрын

@@tiffanytaylor1502 Shikoku Ken it's a dog. Google it.

someone said that it is much worse when you start getting addicted to being by yourself. I've felt that. It was a period of time when i didnt have time at all to go outside cuz i had so much studying to do and it started getting addicted. When I could go outside I wasn't in the mood at all, I didn't want to talk to anyone and I wanted to sit home by myself with no one to care about me but it did hurt and I am still feeling this from time to time. Being single actually has a massive impact especially when you cant be with the one you love and the only thing you can think about is them but not with you. It hurts but we just have to go on with our lives and push ourselves out of our comfort zone,the right people and person will eventually come but only if we do our part as well

I like being lonely but sometimes I want someone to be lonely with me...

@theseproblemsmatter1

4 жыл бұрын

You don't like being 'lonely' you like being alone but after awhile when you feel lonely you want to be with someone

@cq33xx58

4 жыл бұрын

@@theseproblemsmatter1 he just pointed the reason he is lonely without even realising it

@peterrosqvist2480

4 жыл бұрын

That’s called mental illness

@theseproblemsmatter1

3 жыл бұрын

@@cq33xx58 true haha

@anniekaniu1020

3 жыл бұрын

I understand

I manage my lonliness with meditation, healthy diet and exercise. I really don't know what else I can do. The only real cure for lonliness is other people. And that's completely out of my control But I still have control of my mind. If nothing else

@atozedism

6 жыл бұрын

Same here! Though that isn't the motive for me..I meditate, exercise and eat accordingly cuz it makes me feel light, active and good. I think I suffered from loneliness when I was a teenager and that's when I started exploring my mind, being at one with nature. I have several happy moments in a day that doesn't necessarily involve ppl..dogs, cats, nature around...I love sunsets...a simple cool breeze makes my day. I also think that when we directly work at eradicating loneliness individually, it MAY be a lil disappointing. I rmmbr times when I would scroll thru my contact list so that I could talk to someone who'd understand or just listen. I couldn't. Not that I dont have good frnds. Loneliness is a treasure we think needs to be shared with someone special.:( So instead, I've learnt that u need keep investing in urslf. Do things that you want to do...like join a book club, sports club, treks, travel, learn new languages and that is where u will find like minded ppl...u will discuss things that add to Ur knowledge, and also don't have worry about what u shud talk about.... So yeah, for me approaching someone because I'm lonely has only disappointed me. But when I invest my time in me, I get productive and loneliness is gone with productive self nourishing work.

@galcverseau

6 жыл бұрын

Sometimes helping others, humans or animals, can help us reconnect with life (ex; volunteering for the homeless/with kids having difficulties with homework/in elderly homes/animal shelters etc.). I wish you well.

@benjaming7325

6 жыл бұрын

Galc verseau absolutely. I work with special needs, actually spend more of my time around them, then I do other people. And yeah it helps.

@benjaming7325

6 жыл бұрын

atozedism I alos meditate and live other for the other benefits derived from those activities. But I do feel those things help me deal with the lonliness and stay sane.

@YourOwnange

6 жыл бұрын

Join a club

Feeling deeply lonely it is basically seeing the truth. We are nothing in the universe. And this is absolutely unbearable.

@katiesalib9409

2 жыл бұрын

Very true.

@prat_0501

9 ай бұрын

True 😮😢

@spreefeech7634

5 ай бұрын

Absolute truth

She was INCREDIBLY brave talking about this. Much respect

Loneliness to me wasn’t being alone, it was a feeling of nobody understanding how you feel I’m around people all the time and that’s when I feel the loneliest, because I don’t think any of them could comprehend how I feel But loneliness can be subjective, it affects us in ways that people can’t understand

@jaycousland9835

3 жыл бұрын

If you have no one that matches your depth it's lonely,whether that depth is emotional,intelligence,compassion,reason,feeling etc.With knowledge comes suffering.

@patrickegry4237

2 жыл бұрын

I feel exactly the same thing in school these days. I fortunately have a couple of really good friends and my family is also there, but almost all of the time I go to school I start feeling lonely and depressed because there is no one around there that I can match with in almost any level. I have been dealing with this feeling for almost six months now, and it has been eating me alive all the time. I sometimes have not even been able to take school, because I stayed at home crying without an end. And there is really no solution to this, because this people will never change, and I still have one year and a half to go until I get out of school, and that is if I'm lucky and end up in a university where there is people like me. I don't know how I can even get up early in the morning and do work anymore, I was actually really happy in the pandemic because there was no one around that made me feel alienated or misunderstood, but I was just staying at home, easy, doing some work as I like to do, staying occupied, drinking some hot chocolate and listening to music. After all I've been through, I really want to just either stay alone at home forever, at peace, or find "the one" (which is impossible) and then actually be able to live happily the rest of my life. I know some people have the exact opposite problem, them not meeting enough people, but I swear it is just as awful as staying in a crowd of teenagers and feeling like no one wants to actively talk to you, or knowing that they don't care about the same stuff that you do.

@nikkusonmandorein1613

Жыл бұрын

@@patrickegry4237 damn dude, puting down the thoughts I could never say. You pretty much got it spot on.

@nikkusonmandorein1613

8 ай бұрын

@patrickegry4237 Damn bro, I was just looking at old comments that I made, and found this. And it's absolutely crazy how it's almost the exact same thing for me. But, this year I've decided to do things differently. And I think it's kind of working (then again the school year just started). But I wish you to find those who don't alienate you or misunderstand you.

who else is facing depression because of loneliness?? 😃😃😃

@PuNkIsNoTdEaD01

5 жыл бұрын

Im severe depressed but because loneliness fucks anyone obviously but at the same time i feel like i hate everyone.

@snitox

5 жыл бұрын

I am pretty much accepted I would be depressed for the rest of my life. I am in awe of happy people.

@ericsingh503

5 жыл бұрын

Me. I have no friends and dont have a girlfriend probably will never have nobody to love or to love me

@kobiporat62

5 жыл бұрын

joel rengasammy Hold on stay strong ! Wish you best of luck!

@ericsierra-franco7802

5 жыл бұрын

It usually is the other way around inasmuch as depressed people isolate themselves.