So hard to gain that trust back too!

@6lick

Жыл бұрын

Don’t worry about that now

@keepitforreally4501

Жыл бұрын

That is true, but if we are really honest, we all have lied and hurt and damaged And that’s when it’s hard to trust our own self But it’s never too late to change

@DivineHellas

9 ай бұрын

@@keepitforreally4501To different levels yes. By this logic Hitler can protect himself by saying that everyone has hurt others. Yes it’s true, but there are levels to it.

Exactly “just wait until you get in real trouble”. Spot on.

@JohnBrown722so

11 ай бұрын

I'll never be ir angel

"we are masters of our unspoken words but slaves to the words we speak."

@hughjanus5336

Жыл бұрын

- Winston Churchill

@tyleramaral1961

8 ай бұрын

Fax

@DCrane925

4 ай бұрын

That's amazing love it

"Trust, once lost, is very hard to regain" - A. Human

"You just wait until you get in real trouble.". I've listened to every single lecture of JP's and nothing gave me more chills than that single moment.

Well that escalated quickly..

@thehikerboy1

Жыл бұрын

Life can escalate quickly.

@sademccall6838

Жыл бұрын

Your comment made me smile thanks

I think some people have lied to themselves so much they don't know how warped their soul really is.

@KM-oy5yh

8 ай бұрын

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@lol-wg6gu

18 күн бұрын

Majority of USA

Yep. The truth is enough to remember, adding a bunch of lies only makes it that much harder to keep your stories straight. It's why most liers get found out, their story gets convoluted and impossible keep straight.

@KM-oy5yh

8 ай бұрын

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

Right lies of any kind are bad to tell

"You just wait til you're in real trouble"

Being lied to by a a friend of over 10 years brought me such pain. To were i dont think i can trust anyone

@KM-oy5yh

8 ай бұрын

💯💯💯💯💯💯

He has a way of explaining the simple or complicated in ways that’s incredible. I’m Brazilian and I came to the US in 1987 legally and I went to school. Many times I could not understand the teachers, I had troubles understanding the meaning or foundations of what they where saying

@jimhughes1070

Жыл бұрын

My apologies for our educational institutions... They purposefully don't make sense or cloud anything truthful so it makes it difficult to grasp... We've been infiltrated by communist for over 100 years

@carolinemaybe

9 ай бұрын

Don’t learn from Jordan. He’s a grifter con artist who just bamboozles people.

@ingrid5944

5 ай бұрын

Oi brasileiro! Que legal saber q tem brasileiros q gostam do Jordan Peterson! Realmente, ele tem uma forma de falar muito inteligente, simplifica de uma forma q todo mundo entende! Gosto demais dele!

@nv_chino

5 ай бұрын

Now look at you. Your English is better than mine.

Whoa that ending with the zoom and everything. Scary shit.

Some are so good at lying, so much so they even manipulate they are minds intp thinking the lies they tell are true. It makes them sleep at night.

It is possible that blatant liars do not ever visit the clinical psychologist...ever. And so that is why JP has never seen any such liars ever in his clinical practice.

@jimhughes1070

Жыл бұрын

I think he just gave sufficient information to let us know he's met many!!! That's what he's talking about! And those are the people that would be most likely visiting him... Because of all the trouble they've caused... I've met many myself...

@hardpathpoet2859

Жыл бұрын

@Jim Hughes One could make the accurate argument that the biggest liars are psychopaths, and psychopaths are the least likely to seek psychological help. JBP is really an expert in normative personality, and is now just getting into exploring dark tetrad personalities. His teaching speaks to the majority, and the people with truly dark personalities don't care what he has to say.

@Star-qh5wp

Жыл бұрын

@@hardpathpoet2859 I think many liars and the like are so arrogant and they go for help to improve the shit thier life was made by their actions but they count on their smarts to be able to paint themselves as innocent and plan to lie to the person they go to. That’s how many liars end up meeting someone like Peterson

Once u burn that trust bridge. You truly NEVER gain it back. There will always be that though in that persons head that was done dirty.

Never still that inner voice that argues with you, that voice helps your conscience

Yup, very true !

This guy is from the future I swear, time we started listening.

He's right folks, I've learned from experience.

@nv_chino

5 ай бұрын

That’s good. Truth is better than lies. No matter how difficult it may seem to you, it’s better to live that way and stick to it.

Well said ! Tell it like it is Jordan . God is with you 😊🥰

Amen

I've been manipulated for years

@nv_chino

5 ай бұрын

You’re not alone. Me too. I hope you make it stop and get yourself out and heal yourself. I think I may be done for, the way these vampires zombie demons are.

Honestly, people suck.

@nv_chino

5 ай бұрын

Humans are amazing, some people suck

Thank you.

Rev Calvin Robinson says "Amen!"

💯

What’s with the guy in the white suit just standing in the front?

@LightS_bRight

Жыл бұрын

It's strange.

@jimhughes1070

Жыл бұрын

Probably security... Lot of people don't like truth

@SpeedFocus

4 ай бұрын

His definitely security

Garbage in. Garbage out.

I need his help then because people are lying and trying to destroy so I'm suicidal

@sovereignbrehon

Жыл бұрын

Remember they can't hurt you, Love is the best answer, love yourself so fiercely that your haters get choked up.

@jimhughes1070

Жыл бұрын

Whoa whoa whoa!... It's like I tell my grandson... And he doesn't like it... But it's still true..."your peers are morons"... And if your stalkers and bullies aren't your peers.... You need to do some side stepping... Somebody out there already loves you... Crab walk till you find them... If you keep going the way you're going... The evil is going to be there too... You got to change directions new schools new habits new habitat!! New ways of thinking... Find some more Jordan Peterson videos.... The right words will give you the right mindset.. The right mindset will help you make the right decisions.. The right decisions are going to create good habits... Good habits are the epitome of a good life... A good life... That's what you're looking for... Correct? Don't be alarmed if it sounds simple... It is 🙏... If you put a negative in front of each protocol.... That's how you get where you are... Live long and prosper... So you can teach your grandchildren before they get trapped

@areez22

Жыл бұрын

@@jimhughes1070 Good reply

@SpeedFocus

4 ай бұрын

I am also being lied about and there’s attempts to destroy me😢

My mother is a pathological liar. She has a good heart, but she cant help it. She has to always change the versions of anything she says. Adding or exaggerating details that werent there or even come up with something as she talks to save her arse. Consequences: first, i doubt anything she says. I cannot just listen to her without thinking that what she is saying is false. So we argue all the time because i contradict whatever she says by asking questions to dismantle her narrative. It drives her mad, because she isnt smart enough to bounce back, but i just cant sit and pretend. Other consequence is that i have zero tolerance for liars in general -not only her. If i ask you a question and you lie, you are wasting my time and breaking my trust and i'll resent you for that. Honesty, with tact, over lies, even white lies. But people will say that they hate hypocrites but still prefer lying over saying the truth just to be appreciated. It is despicable.

@JC-ji1hp

5 ай бұрын

I’m sure you’re perfect

@nv_chino

5 ай бұрын

@@JC-ji1hpand I’m sure you’re not

@nv_chino

5 ай бұрын

I feel that except this wasn’t my mother and I agree with you on what you said

Problem is, catching a lie is easy enough.. finding out what is really going on instead is more difficult. Particularly not fond of filling the gaps myself. Any ideas?

That was clear.

@FaithHopeLove999

10 ай бұрын

Chrystal

But dont we have to sometimes be deceptive to protect ourselves from those that wish us harm,its not like you'll just tell a stranger everything about yourself from fear of being judged or discarded.So i feel like sometimes to protect oneself or even the ones we love we have to lie.

Bro about to get me fired but okay I’m ready

Lying to one's partner is an invitation to destroy all that has been built together.

As police officers, we can avoid lying, but sometimes we must lie in the course of investigation. It would be wonderful to find your insights on policing.

@lawofliberty3517

Жыл бұрын

Lying is sinful and pigs are ungodly creatures in all forms

@minifalda6611

Жыл бұрын

Must you lie ?

@LightS_bRight

Жыл бұрын

You don't need to lie to get the truth.

@potapotapotapotapotapota

Жыл бұрын

I think JP's advice only applies in common contexts, not in situations like interrogation. I mean, if you think all lying is sinful then people like Corrie Ten Boom and Irena Sendler would have been in the wrong for lying to the Nazis to keep Jews safe. And you definitely shouldn't go near any kind of game where lying is a big part of the fun. No don't be absurd, lying is only a sin when you lie for personal gain or to hurt or cheat someone and to avoid the consequences of your actions. In this talk in particular JP is talking about the kind of lie someone tells to avoid being persecuted by people who would hurt you for believing a certain thing. By lying about the thing you end up digging yourself into a hole because by supporting the very thing you didn't believe in you allowed it to become a much worse situation than it was before. Like, if you don't stand up for what you believe in then you may avoid being hurt in the short term but you have enabled your enemies to subjugate others and take authority and will suffer the consequences of their power position in the long term.

@hardpathpoet2859

Жыл бұрын

Investigating criminals and psychopaths puts us in situations where we have to lie. Unless you want thieves, rapists, child molesters and murderers to just keep getting away with it. And apparently wanting to do what it takes to stop them makes me an ungodly pig.🙄

Mr. Peterson, my name is Ariel and I'm on my daughter's father's tablet, (John Allen), because I don't have a phone. I have been listening to your videos for awhile now. I am a Born again Christian and have known the Lord for a very long time. But, I really respect your intelligence. I need help and have Soo many questions and wish I could talk with you face to face. Anyway, I live with a narcissist and have been learning as much a I can about narcissistic behavior as well. Anyway, thank you for taking and teaching about the things I need to know. God bless you and keep you 🙏. , Ariel.

What actually happens to pathological liars?? It seems that my ex got away with it fir years!!

I will unfortunately have to disagree. Liars, deceitful people never face consequences of their disgusting acts

@SpeedFocus

4 ай бұрын

I see this often lies destroy lives😢

@cheymcloughlin6366

Күн бұрын

They most definitely face consequences. Either directly or indirectly it comes back around to bite their arse, in all sorts of ways.

I am so happy I have Jesus Christ. He says “I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life” and the security I get by trying to emulate Him, knowing I won’t be able to but trying to anyways out of my love and appreciation and respect for Him, it matches nothing. Having prayer time with a pure belief that Jesus Christ is listening to my prayer and bringing it to the Father, because I won’t ever be enough alone. I and my Father are one. Such comfort knowing I can have a relationship with Truth

I think a simpler turn of phrase would be, " a lie constitutes bad information and with bad information bad decisions are made".

One of my close friends lied about having a girlfriend for 2 years. My friend texted his supposed girlfriend and she didn’t even know who he is.

"Contaminating your soul with deceit. Sheesh, that's exactly what the devil wants. That's why the Bible calls him "The Father of Lies."

So what happens if I lied about my age ? What should I do ?

@Therealhtrinity

4 ай бұрын

The truth sets you free

@SpeedFocus

4 ай бұрын

Don’t tell people your age just say you don’t want to answer nobody can force you.

Even NaMoji is like a principled Hitler...

It’s just not worth the web that you get caught in lying causes a kind of hell for you and for everyone else. That’s why it’s such a serious sin.

My boyfriend is a compulsive liar, and even made up his boss's race n age. I found out at first he said "what does it matter"? "Why you so jealous"? Now i dont trust him at all. He lied in the beginning about having no kids. I found out he has 3.."its my past, none of my business" he seems to think lying is okay, unlike me who values honesty. He did apologize but then will lie again. Y lie in the first place? Exhausting!

@dallasjansen2226

5 ай бұрын

Run.....

Mr Peterson. Jesus Christ is the only way

Ya no kidding

Maybe I’m too young to understand, but I don’t believe that peoples lies cheat him up to them. Too many lives have been broken beyond fixing because of malicious lies.

Jordan what do you think of people who babbel due to a head injury & they aren't sure whether they are right or wrong but they need to talk it out... is that bad or wrong?

U say you've never seen anyone get away wth anything, I say its bc you've never known anyone that's been gang stalked for @ least 45yrs...😧😞😱

@jimhughes1070

Жыл бұрын

Dang!... Well I think he ought to get a pass on that!... Gang stalks me for like ...an hour?... That's what the extra magazines are for! 👍WTF?

@jimhughes1070

Жыл бұрын

Also, because I have a memory ...still.... I've done a lot of crap... And I have paid for every bit of it... And hadn't seen anybody else get away with anything either... No worries... It's easy... This universe is built on cause and effect... Everything you do will produce an effect.... Do good 🥰

JP.!.... You like stuff out so simple, that even us hillbillies declare "damn why didn't I know that!"??... But the comments have revealed... Still not simple enough yet 😃😳😭😭😭🍼

And the belief in a god is not self-dishonesty. Please, Jordan, give us all a break.

Lol emotions is a women thing

@Abstractthoughts007

11 ай бұрын

It's actually a human thing. Men have feelings too

@SpeedFocus

4 ай бұрын

Yes men have emotions too

Pride as well don't you think, pride is the real poison, so stop being that egoistic.

I have grandkids that are consistently lying on almost every subject. I call them out on it & implement consequences however it hasn’t stopped. They go to church to learn right from wrong but seem to not care either. They cry when punished but that’s them feeling sorry for themselves. They are void of feeling guilt for what they have done, disrespecting & disobeying their single dad or me. How do you get thru to kids on the cusp of puberty. Things will get far worse if I can’t nip this now.

Jordan, I have heard you’re kind of high on your own supply. They say it’s kind of bad. How big an influence do you think you are? And, how brilliant? What do you ascribe your brilliance to? The way you craft your thoughts? I myself am trying extra hard to put my skills where they’re useful. I guess, showing people the hand of God at the moment.

Some don’t change, they just find new ways to lie… Once a liar, always a liar? To an extent, but liars and change doesn’t happen overnight. To hide 1 lie you have to lie hundreds of times, and the thing with that is liars often lie so much that they can’t dis earn fact from fiction because they believe their own lies. Secondly, there are two types of liars: 1s that tell little white lies (petty) 2nd that lie about everything and anything (learnt from childhood) to avoid any consequences to that said action What liars often forget is to tell the truth even if it hurts is temporary, but lying and standing on it is permanent. Lastly please remember: Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future

Not saying what was true back then, 30 years ago?

Remember what you said

@JC-ji1hp

5 ай бұрын

Hahah

How do you respond the truth?