you might be able to revoke his psychology license, but you'll never be able to revoke his rizzology license

@user-du4gw

Жыл бұрын

LMAOOO

@tommckellen4289

Жыл бұрын

Most people don't really understand the manosphere stuff. I once read a few pick up websites and books together with a female friend and we both agreed that some of the core principles are actually just 'redressing an imbalance' of male low self esteem. Yes, you might be reflexively thinking 'aren't those books more about confidence tricks and suchlike'. However, the point is that this is not entirely the case. For, example, one manosphere female attracting tip; not reflexively saying excessively negative things about yourself when on a date is (apparently) something the modern woman knows by instinct yet this is clearly not so well understood by men (perhaps because the male on male culture is revels in brutal forms of humour). Also, remember, sometimes these seemingly 'surface' techniques do actually address something deeper. In this case, disciplining your internal monologue (about yourself) can build genuine self esteem, even though it is a 'technique' of sorts. Many manosphere sites recommend being healthy, in good shape and programming your subconscious mind with various positive scripts. Once again, none of these things can be seen as particularly shallow. They are ideas which the modern woman knows will make her more appealing, but the modern man might have forgotten. Even the more 'technique' driven side of flirting with women such as 'be cocky funny', 'have a sense of humour' 'negging' etc. I would suggest there is an unnatural but also a natural side to this. There is also a naturalness via unatural learning aspect to it, as with many things in life. For example, I do not particularly like the concept of 'negging' (nor being cocky) but men who are grounded and have a healthy sense of reality know that no woman or man is beyond seeing themselves in a humorous light. When a person is seeing you as a human, you are less likely to be spooked out by them, be they male or female. Therefore 'kind negging' is not really a technique, it is something which occurs now and then in real interaction. If some men don't realise this, having the 'technique' handed on a spoon to them, might make themselves see the obvious. Some of these manosphere dating sites also, to get across their methodology, borrow from comedic techniques such as lateral and associative thinking under pressure which is absolutely not inherently superficial. Again, if you are a wallflower who doesn't realise why you can't spit anything out when around women (or men), these manosphere blogs are showing you things which are used in the corporate world, in business, in marketing schools etc to coerce the subconscious mind to fluency. A lot of people these days lack general fuzzy logic. Western society itself sometimes can be quite 'deontology seeking' at times when fuzzy logic would serve them better. To apply some fuzzy logic to this topic, you don't have to see the manosphere so cynically if you take a broader view and accept it what it has to offer within a wider gestalt. It's often, for those who dip into it, just a bridge to psychically rebalancing and returning to timid men a bunch of concepts which are obvious to women and confident people. (Peterson hints at this by saying that wallflowers could benefit from a degree of psychopathy, though you could express this in less pejorative ways too. Not that I am criticising his use of terminology, it is perfectly valid) Once these timid men realise that they can have success with women, then they can ask themselves more specific questions about exactly which type of woman would suit them in the long haul. 'Genuine competance' is clearly an aspect of attraction between both men and women, but I don't think any aspect of male dating advice would contradict this. If you look at ancient myths and narratives there are many heroic characters who were wild, free, confident and conquering and who are both lovers and fighters until they aren't. Even Shiva, one of the highest deities in the Hindu pantheon was this way. He is said to find the woman who allows him to express his broad and complex nature whilst being with her. The 'how to attract women' aspect of the manosphere, to reiterate, if we apply some fuzzy logic, has its part within the wider gestalt. Indeed, many men leave the manosphere, one hopes, having grasped the deeper side such human psychology centered milieu. Namely, develop a genuine connection to your subconscious mind in a way which makes you an overall life winner.

@baltimorewhisperer

Жыл бұрын

@@tommckellen4289 omg you wrote an entire essay 😂

@pej8777

Жыл бұрын

@@baltimorewhisperer lollllllllllllll

@prabhsimransingh3074

Жыл бұрын

Foreign nation should give him license if Canada denies him for political reasons

The fact that nobody talks about the book Casanova Playbook of Magnetism speaks volumes about how people are stuck in their dating life

@ioannisiatridis2579

25 күн бұрын

Where can I get this book? I only found one or two sites that look like a scam..

@GHotSauceAnd1

23 күн бұрын

@@ioannisiatridis2579That’s because it is a scam. Any time you see a comment expressing disbelief over how people haven’t read a certain book, it’s almost always a scam. You’ll see it a lot on finance/self improvement videos.

@ricaudypaula1570

12 күн бұрын

​@@ioannisiatridis2579it is a scam. Probably the OP is a bot

@mmr4882

7 күн бұрын

2k likes and no comments. Robot users liking this post.

@EvolvedBonobo

6 күн бұрын

Evolution of Desire by David Buss is your best bet in this domain.

How on earth people call this man a misogynist is beyond me. He quite literally says women need to be picky about men. The reason people hate him is because he cares about men, he tells them to grow up. He WANTS men to be better and do better.

@Zbeeeb

Жыл бұрын

nobody actually think that about him. it's the cancel culture AKA media trying to brainwash ppl as usual cause he doesn't fit their narrative

@arbokshoes

Жыл бұрын

They call him that because most mainstream media outlets endless vilify and lie about him. They are radicalising otherwise intelligent young people into thinking that saying normal things about human behaviour and desires = problematic. They are basically scum.

@har.19

Жыл бұрын

Too true bro

@kelmusic7988

Жыл бұрын

And the system wants us weak!!!

@conorbrown792

Жыл бұрын

That's so true. It's like all positive. People completely misunderstand what he's actually saying.

Lmao at the end, so good to see JP laughing and healthy again

@lartdesenrichir6871

Жыл бұрын

He looks like he's dying

@poisenwhafflechicken

Жыл бұрын

very wholesome isnt it

@tommckellen4289

Жыл бұрын

Most people don't really understand the manosphere stuff. I once read a few pick up websites and books together with a female friend and we both agreed that some of the core principles are actually just 'redressing an imbalance' of male low self esteem. Yes, you might be reflexively thinking 'aren't those books more about confidence tricks and suchlike'. However, the point is that this is not entirely the case. For, example, one manosphere female attracting tip; not reflexively saying excessively negative things about yourself when on a date is (apparently) something the modern woman knows by instinct yet this is clearly not so well understood by men (perhaps because the male on male culture is revels in brutal forms of humour). Also, remember, sometimes these seemingly 'surface' techniques do actually address something deeper. In this case, disciplining your internal monologue (about yourself) can build genuine self esteem, even though it is a 'technique' of sorts. Many manosphere sites recommend being healthy, in good shape and programming your subconscious mind with various positive scripts. Once again, none of these things can be seen as particularly shallow. They are ideas which the modern woman knows will make her more appealing, but the modern man might have forgotten. Even the more 'technique' driven side of flirting with women such as 'be cocky funny', 'have a sense of humour' 'negging' etc. I would suggest there is an unnatural but also a natural side to this. There is also a naturalness via unatural learning aspect to it, as with many things in life. For example, I do not particularly like the concept of 'negging' (nor being cocky) but men who are grounded and have a healthy sense of reality know that no woman or man is beyond seeing themselves in a humorous light. When a person is seeing you as a human, you are less likely to be spooked out by them, be they male or female. Therefore 'kind negging' is not really a technique, it is something which occurs now and then in real interaction. If some men don't realise this, having the 'technique' handed on a spoon to them, might make themselves see the obvious. Some of these manosphere dating sites also, to get across their methodology, borrow from comedic techniques such as lateral and associative thinking under pressure which is absolutely not inherently superficial. Again, if you are a wallflower who doesn't realise why you can't spit anything out when around women (or men), these manosphere blogs are showing you things which are used in the corporate world, in business, in marketing schools etc to coerce the subconscious mind to fluency. A lot of people these days lack general fuzzy logic. Western society itself sometimes can be quite 'deontology seeking' at times when fuzzy logic would serve them better. To apply some fuzzy logic to this topic, you don't have to see the manosphere so cynically if you take a broader view and accept it what it has to offer within a wider gestalt. It's often, for those who dip into it, just a bridge to psychically rebalancing and returning to timid men a bunch of concepts which are obvious to women and confident people. (Peterson hints at this by saying that wallflowers could benefit from a degree of psychopathy, though you could express this in less pejorative ways too. Not that I am criticising his use of terminology, it is perfectly valid, coming from his clinical know how) Once these timid men realise that they can have success with women, then they can ask themselves more specific questions about exactly which type of woman would suit them in the long haul. 'Genuine competance' is clearly an aspect of attraction between both men and women, but I don't think any aspect of male dating advice would contradict this. If you look at ancient myths and narratives there are many heroic characters who were wild, free, confident and conquering and who are both lovers and fighters until they aren't. Even Shiva, one of the highest deities in the Hindu pantheon was this way. He is said to find the woman who allows him to express his broad and complex nature whilst being with her. The 'how to attract women' aspect of the manosphere, to reiterate, if we apply some fuzzy logic, has its part within the wider gestalt. Indeed, many men leave the manosphere, one hopes, having grasped the deeper side such human psychology centered milieu. Namely, develop a genuine connection to your subconscious mind in a way which makes you an overall life winner.

@lartdesenrichir6871

Жыл бұрын

@@tommckellen4289 Dude get a life

@tommckellen4289

Жыл бұрын

@@lartdesenrichir6871 Why do you think it takes a significant chunk out of my life to write that?

When I listen to Jordan, I feel a great surge of gratitude and respect for men. If you are a man, please know that I appreciate you and I’m glad that you are a man. And even more so, if you are a man who is willing to do the hard yards to become a confident, competent, generous person. Thank you for the small and great things you do everyday to make our society functional, safe and ethical. Please don’t underestimate your impact, for us all. With gratitude, Kate 🙏🏼

@LB-qu2oq

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Kate That’s a powerful and inspiring thing to say. I imagine you’re awesome 😊

@s1monch1n

Жыл бұрын

What a wonderful woman you are, and very brave by the current standard. Thank you.

@s1monch1n

Жыл бұрын

What a wonderful woman you are, and brave by the current standard. Thank you

@charmainemiles4089

Жыл бұрын

I love your comment, as good man are why we have this world functioning the way it does and good fathers make for a wonderful happy wife and children. And a roof over their children heads , so many in this world over look great man, and we never should as they are magnificent when in their masculine power of strength , and hard work, and good principles, that's when they should always be head of the table and everything thing right happens right for his wife and his children,

@Kevin-jc1fx

Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much Kate. You can't imagine how encouraging and heartwarming such a message is. This society shouts so often at us that men are the cause of every problem and the reason for everything that goes wrong and that society would be better without us. It's awesome to know that there are still women out there that are balanced, secure and confident enough in themselves to understand that men are not the enemy, they are part of team needed to build a strong family and thus a strong society. God bless you Lady.

As an engineer, that story was too real.

@GS-qe3pt

Жыл бұрын

Same. I'm studying bioengineering and there's a lot of female students, but with my friend we send them to hell (with arguments) when they want to keep up with some technical debates lol

@primozmokorel3589

Жыл бұрын

Yep. Cinfirmed. We are hopeless...

@xiomaraamvs6440

Жыл бұрын

I agree, as an engineer

@PDaddy0120

Жыл бұрын

Lmao I'm a engineering student and people always act like it's something special.. tbh it's was easier than I thought coming from a harder job In welding

@Dartht33bagger

Жыл бұрын

Yep. 30 year old engineer with everything going for me. Still can't figure out how to convert the success into a relationship lol. Dates here and there, but not relationships.

Watchig Jordan Petersons lectures feels like a standup sometimes,loving it!

@tiefblau2780

Жыл бұрын

.... Why Jordan why, if you dont give them attention then they will give all the attention they can give to anyone who wants it, on the last breath of *Child* *Support* or whatever it is *That* *by* *Marrying* *gives* *them* *50%* *without* *having* *to* *work* *A* *DAY* *IN* *LIFE.* Other then being taught how PRECIOUS THAT THING IS in between their legs... Small P Energy? more like *SMALL* *V* *ENERGY* LoL You are taking it too seriously, can you save something that *DOESNT* *WORK* *TO* *LIVE?* Thats just *Liability.....* Is what I am saying wrong? And yall say *HONESTY* *IS* *KEY* *2* *FRUITFUL* *RELATIONSHIP*

@paulbulva9131

Жыл бұрын

I dont even think thats funny...dumb people who cannot understand the real deep meaning of those sentences just laugh

@tommckellen4289

Жыл бұрын

Most people don't really understand the manosphere stuff. I once read a few pick up websites and books together with a female friend and we both agreed that some of the core principles are actually just 'redressing an imbalance' of male low self esteem. Yes, you might be reflexively thinking 'aren't those books more about confidence tricks and suchlike'. However, the point is that this is not entirely the case. For, example, one manosphere female attracting tip; not reflexively saying excessively negative things about yourself when on a date is (apparently) something the modern woman knows by instinct yet this is clearly not so well understood by men (perhaps because the male on male culture is revels in brutal forms of humour). Also, remember, sometimes these seemingly 'surface' techniques do actually address something deeper. In this case, disciplining your internal monologue (about yourself) can build genuine self esteem, even though it is a 'technique' of sorts. Many manosphere sites recommend being healthy, in good shape and programming your subconscious mind with various positive scripts. Once again, none of these things can be seen as particularly shallow. They are ideas which the modern woman knows will make her more appealing, but the modern man might have forgotten. Even the more 'technique' driven side of flirting with women such as 'be cocky funny', 'have a sense of humour' 'negging' etc. I would suggest there is an unnatural but also a natural side to this. There is also a naturalness via unatural learning aspect to it, as with many things in life. For example, I do not particularly like the concept of 'negging' (nor being cocky) but men who are grounded and have a healthy sense of reality know that no woman or man is beyond seeing themselves in a humorous light. When a person is seeing you as a human, you are less likely to be spooked out by them, be they male or female. Therefore 'kind negging' is not really a technique, it is something which occurs now and then in real interaction. If some men don't realise this, having the 'technique' handed on a spoon to them, might make themselves see the obvious. Some of these manosphere dating sites also, to get across their methodology, borrow from comedic techniques such as lateral and associative thinking under pressure which is absolutely not inherently superficial. Again, if you are a wallflower who doesn't realise why you can't spit anything out when around women (or men), these manosphere blogs are showing you things which are used in the corporate world, in business, in marketing schools etc to coerce the subconscious mind to fluency. A lot of people these days lack general fuzzy logic. Western society itself sometimes can be quite 'deontology seeking' at times when fuzzy logic would serve them better. To apply some fuzzy logic to this topic, you don't have to see the manosphere so cynically if you take a broader view and accept it what it has to offer within a wider gestalt. It's often, for those who dip into it, just a bridge to psychically rebalancing and returning to timid men a bunch of concepts which are obvious to women and confident people. (Peterson hints at this by saying that wallflowers could benefit from a degree of psychopathy, though you could express this in less pejorative ways too. Not that I am criticising his use of terminology, it is perfectly valid, coming from his clinical know how) Once these timid men realise that they can have success with women, then they can ask themselves more specific questions about exactly which type of woman would suit them in the long haul. 'Genuine competance' is clearly an aspect of attraction between both men and women, but I don't think any aspect of male dating advice would contradict this. If you look at ancient myths and narratives there are many heroic characters who were wild, free, confident and conquering and who are both lovers and fighters until they aren't. Even Shiva, one of the highest deities in the Hindu pantheon was this way. He is said to find the woman who allows him to express his broad and complex nature whilst being with her. The 'how to attract women' aspect of the manosphere, to reiterate, if we apply some fuzzy logic, has its part within the wider gestalt. Indeed, many men leave the manosphere, one hopes, having grasped the deeper side such human psychology centered milieu. Namely, develop a genuine connection to your subconscious mind in a way which makes you an overall life winner.

@phasespace4700

Жыл бұрын

@@tommckellen4289 Also, adopt a meat-only lunatic diet like Peterson and whatever you do, NEVER go near apple cider. 😂

@tommckellen4289

Жыл бұрын

That too

As an engineer myself, that little story really opened my eyes. We get so hyper analytical trying to find reason that we forget how actual people talk to each other and joke/entertain artistic thoughts

@RR-et6zp

11 ай бұрын

Pre selection and social proof . Read the unplugged alpha by Richard cooper

@SmallsGang_773

11 ай бұрын

Read the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

@RR-et6zp

11 ай бұрын

@@SmallsGang_773 its mostly bs, read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper

@SmallsGang_773

11 ай бұрын

@@RR-et6zp you sound like the engineer... The art of seduction teaches you not to be argumentative and be smooth and seductive.

@SmallsGang_773

11 ай бұрын

@@RR-et6zp kzread.infoUgkxMUaBOHqpFf9TrJ22y3ctAgxIf8lacaVJ

The story about the engineers made me laugh out loud 😂😂

@mayam6678

Жыл бұрын

And he's right on with them too... lol...

@MaghrebProductions

Жыл бұрын

Same story happened to my college nerdy self of mine countless times - was too late to figure it out.

@kuko6

Жыл бұрын

as an engineer its funny and true... sadly

@peteonealdating

Жыл бұрын

@@kuko6 how can you relate to this? curious to know

I can so relate to his engineer story. As a healthcare professional, even though I was shy and insecure as a teenager, the profession obligated me to interact with many people, young and old, men and women. And it obligates you sometimes to empathize with even young attractive women. This teaches you skills that can also help in a social environment. Engineers don't have that. So in my late 20s I could see how it was easier for me to stike up a conversation with young women, in a nice manner without looking like a creep. My engineer friends were frecuently awkward and totally clueless. JP is right. It was sometimes painful to watch.

@rebinu

7 ай бұрын

yea but at the same time they're tripling your salary bro

@NanaWilson-px9ij

5 ай бұрын

There's not enough money in this world.....

Sharing his knowledge with the audience, while roasting them politly... What a brilliant man!

I am always impressed with his suits.

@kevins4213

Жыл бұрын

P.S. that was a lovely comment about Mrs. Peterson "I chased her for a long time then she caught me"

Seems like a genuinely well balanced guy with his head firmly on the shoulders. God I wish I had the money and time to attend his talks. Also I suspect everyone who attends his talks wishes they could be like him as well.

@kevinkelly2162

Жыл бұрын

Maybe if you could touch the hem of his garment?

@raulpaulinho

Жыл бұрын

I actually went to one of his talks, they're really rubbish, you can barely hear or see him, but worth it just for one visit

@IVLxJAK2

Жыл бұрын

@@raulpaulinho Do you think that might've had something to do with the seat you bought?

@raulpaulinho

Жыл бұрын

@@IVLxJAK2 no, I'm not gonna lie, I love dr Jordan Peterson, but seeing him live was a massive disappointment, I found it hard to listen to him and I couldn't see his face. but if you want to just see him in person then it's worth it cos it only costs £60

@Wildminecraftwolf

Жыл бұрын

@@raulpaulinho Seems like you got a trash seat lol, thats not his fault lmao.

I have been listening to Dr Peterson for about 5 years. My grandson connected me with U-tube, and Jordan Peterson was the first person I heard speak at University. I was immediately in agreement with his philosophy about the value of men. I have been married 52 years. My grandson was 25 years old. Instead of giving him a lecture I would text him a message to listen to Dr Peterson. I love Dr Peterson’s family💖

It was refreshing to see Jordan Peterson telling a story like a normal guy. Just being funny and relatable and not so overly intellectual.

That was a particularly nice clip of you, Mr Peterson. Made me feel good to see you in such high spirits. 😎👍

So good to see him smile and be happy , there is always blessings that came out from my heart for this man ,may God bless their family ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I love listening to him. To see him happy and lighthearted is a bonus.

"Engineers are the only men who never figured out how to turn social status into mating opportunities." - Jim Keller

@OveranalyzingEverything

Жыл бұрын

You sure it wasn't sun tzu?

@pizzaparkerhotdogmaguire3225

Жыл бұрын

Still engineers are single af.

@user-xh3kj8mf3i

2 ай бұрын

@@pizzaparkerhotdogmaguire3225 😂😂Oww man God bless you, you made me laugh!

Wow!!! So lovely to watch and listen to. They are both so happy with each other. I love them 😊❤

Definitely clean, competent, confidence, cheeky and caring.

@greyngreyer5

Жыл бұрын

Definitely agreeable face proportions and bone structure and levels of body hair, oh and don't forget the requirements down below.

So delighted to see Dr. Peterson In a such a great mood, laughing and enjoying the time with his wife and the audience. God bless you Sir

I can relate to the story of the engineers because I’m one of them. 😂

Teaching us the ways of rizz. Thank you man

@baltimorewhisperer

Жыл бұрын

you might be able to revoke his psychology license, but you'll never be able to revoke his rizzology license

@fairshareofdrownedsouls

Жыл бұрын

Using the word rizz is neither funny nor helps with the women thing.

@boombadoomba14

Жыл бұрын

@@fairshareofdrownedsouls L opinion

@baltimorewhisperer

Жыл бұрын

@@fairshareofdrownedsouls L opinion

@thenoobalorian6523

Жыл бұрын

@@fairshareofdrownedsouls L opinion

Good to see him healthy and relaxed :)

When I was a young lady, I was often very attracted to the kinds of guys he’s talking about here. But I never dated any of them. Because this thing would happen where I started to think about all the fun we’d have and the excitement that this guy might bring. But then a vision of all the misery he’d cause me would rudely interrupted my thoughts. I think of it as my guardian angel. I even once got to see a guy I had known in high school. Years after and he was with his apparent girlfriend and their young kids. He was being very rough and nasty with her. She had visible bruises on her. I felt so sad for her, but I also felt that I had been saved from that situation. Especially after seeing this, I trusted this intuition. I’m happy married with kids and really glad I gave my husband a chance. Because honestly, he didn’t come off as exciting at first as some other fellas. But we’ve had a great marriage and family and a lot of excitement to.

@kaberigomes2117

Жыл бұрын

Attracted to what kind of guys? Can you elaborate. Like guys who rode bikes, sounded like they enjoyed life more than responsibility, played the bad boy role?

@proudatheist2042

Жыл бұрын

Did you contact the local police for the battered woman?

@fabiofanucci

Жыл бұрын

Mother Nature has devised the most effective and direct ways to ensure the survival of the species and one of those is to fall in love with the person we believe has the best genes and can guarantee the best offspring. Young women are attracted to self-confident and charming men because they appear to have excellent genetic structure. There is nothing wrong with that as these are very powerful mechanisms forged by evolution. Mating with a loving and respectful person is another kettle of fish.

@kaberigomes2117

Жыл бұрын

@@fabiofanucciThe mistake Mother nature made was, she didn't take narcissism into consideration. You see, the 90% percentage of women who claim they been fooled by men who only portrayed as the productive, best genes guys. It's because some men, who are Charming and self confident, but their confidence doesn't come from skill or talent, but simply narcissism.

@fabiofanucci

Жыл бұрын

@@kaberigomes2117 I understand your temptation to define this natural tendency as an error, but we should all accept certain mechanisms and behaviors that have their roots in biology. If young women are so attracted to the narcissists then there will be some good (biological) reason. For example, it occurs to me that narcissists are able to defend themselves very well and this alone is no small thing. Many men are as nice as they are unable to protect themselves, let alone others. Furthermore, charming men are often also beautiful, a trait that predicts the goodness of genes and they become very self-confident and narcissistic also because they perceive the physical attraction they exert on women. We should all humbly take these behaviours, without giving them a moral label.

"Women are female humans. If you were a woman you'd be just like a woman." JP with the hot takes as usual

@maewest68

5 ай бұрын

but it cuts both ways.

It's so nice to hear him laugh. The weight on his shoulders is unimaginable, and he bares it for our benefit. He deserves every moment of relief from that burden he can find.

What a great stand up lecture Jordan

I am so grateful to be able to watch the best QnA parts of Jordan’s talks. Bless the KZread, as strange as that sounds

A stand-up gentleman. How could anyone hate this man?

There’s something so powerful about the way he pauses to collect his thoughts before he speaks/answers. His brain is fascinating

I just love your honesty and wisdom. You could be a stand up comedian too.

This was awesome!

Love Dr. Peterson & his family + 99% of what they do!

I love how much fun Jordan is having here.

"Turn Yourself To Worth Being Around" - Dr. Jordan Peterson

This was fantastic

Love this! 🙏

Totally enjoyed this Beautiful couple ❤thank you

Thank you Jordan. Great soul!!

" She caught me !......" Best line ever Sir. Thank you. At 52 I still have a shot ! Cheers from Australia ! 👍😎👍

He is so wonderful to listen too...

I am 67 years old. At my age it's really easy to allow yourself to become a lazy, worthless piece of shit. I mean why not I have nothing I need and nothing to prove to anyone. "Why not" is because to be a happy and satisfied man, and therefore to be of any use to you, I have to have a decent amount of self respect and to have that I need to know I am making an effort always to be as good as I can be. Once you get your head around that simple reality it stops being work and starts being the necessary basis of a worthwhile life life.

@GoldenMushroom64

9 ай бұрын

That’s an excellent way to put it. I’m 30 and have only just become used to the idea of putting in at least some degree of work on myself every single day because it’s just what’s required regardless of how you feel

It’s so amazing to listen mr Peterson he’s so right and funny. There’s a lot of real nice women and men out there. Let’s improve and make a difference.

@phasespace4700

Жыл бұрын

Too bad Peterson the lying Nazi con artist isn't one of them.

Love this so much

LOL, great talk. And Mrs JP is a gem too. Great couple.

It's good to see jordan relaxed and chuckling while delivering ice cold truths

"You bloody engineers, you wonder why it's hard for you to mate" ...He called us out 🤣🤣

Happy to see that he's doing soo much better

Wonderful advice

God bless you and your family Jordan, Amen.

Dr. Peterson is a gem and his wife is a lovely partner for him. 💙 Thank you for making the world a better place.

@denverdon3450

9 ай бұрын

If he has his way, the world will NOT be a better place.

@NanaWilson-px9ij

5 ай бұрын

Why is that? Is it because he won't allow the government to control his speech?

Oh God bless Jordan Peterson, its so nice to hear his laughter, I wish more years of life for him and his, we need his teachings

With competence. I always see that clearly when I go skating. My skill is obvious and the gazes from everybody are warming my heart😁👂✌

Probably one of my all time favorite JP clips 😂

Yup, it did take me a lot more practice in front of the mirror and emotional maturity to: 1. Withhold the urge to correct her if she's talking about my subject of study and realize she's doing this to have something in common with me; 2. If she's really attractive, withhold the urge to melt right there and keep a composed, confident persona instead of dancing like a little boy finding his favorite shell at the beach. Now I'm happily married but I still remember how hard it was when I was growing up from a boy to a man.

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This is GOLD

it's simple but takes work. Be able to look after her (money and resources), be Physically strong enough and SMART enough to protect her and the child (physical strength and intelligence to navigate the world). Once you have those your confidence will automatically improve and attracting a girl will be easy pz. When they say confidence is wat they find most attractive they dont lie. It's just that in order to be truly confident you need to tick off certain things.

@GoldenMushroom64

9 ай бұрын

I’m trying so bloody hard my guy. I have anti depressants for my anxiety because otherwise this world is just too overwhelming for me. But once I get on the meds I should be a-okay. I have a job at least, gonna save the money and try to improve myself either going back to school or a trade, and continuous workouts. It’s just frustrating when things get in the way like anxiety or the family holding you back or whatever.

@MrJabbothehut

9 ай бұрын

@@GoldenMushroom64 good. At least you are trying to move forwards which is a start. First port of call should be to get to a stage where you can ditch AD's as they really fuck you up in the long run. Any idea why you get such insane anxiety?

my boi Jordan in absolute fire, very funny and I'm glad he looks so healty now :D

Just saw this man yesterday in austin. Good speaker

GOLD!ACTUAL PSYCHOLOGICAL GOLD! I'm Loving This❤️❤️❤️

Matt Walsh’s question answered! Thanks Jordan

The laughter at 2:56 is so adorable ❤ I'm going to use it as notification sound for new videos of him 😊

@GoldenMushroom64

9 ай бұрын

It’s precious

This is so good.

Nice to see Jordan riffing with the crowd. Great advice, too!

This man is a legend.

42 year old here with anxiety issues all his life, my god I wish I could show my 18 year old self this video.

@tomaskysela9389

Жыл бұрын

It’s never too late man. Hard to say for me, I am though exactly 20 years younger and made very bad decisions in the past 3 years and I wish I could show my 15 year old self Jordan’s lectures. But I just have to get up and start

@jameseyk1

Жыл бұрын

@@tomaskysela9389 well I'd tell my 22 year old self the same thing, better to fail and learn from it than just wonder what if for the rest of your life. And Jordan is right competence/confidence goes a long way. Hope you learn a lot from this man and good luck :)

@tomaskysela9389

Жыл бұрын

@@jameseyk1 Thank you very much. I wish you the best too. By the way what helped me with anxiety was sports. I’m not sure how it goes for you, but moving my body around even when I don’t feel like it always makes me a bit euphoric after.. Hope you will do well.

@Vugen18

Жыл бұрын

well its not to late. also i think alan watts is better for anxiety issues. check him up when u got the time

@brotherbroseph1416

Жыл бұрын

A 40 year old dude who is attractive and has things together should have no trouble finding a woman in here mid to late 20s who wants to start a family.

Nice to see Jordan's sense of humor every now & again...he's usually as serious as his subject matters

Intelligent, articulate, humorous and independent minded. Total legend 🙌 They can drag him all they want, game will always recognize game.

An outgoing personality is a great help in the ability to talk to women. I'm an Engineer not the best by far but never had an issue with ladies maybe that's why I became a Sales Engineer. Enjoyed meeting new people.

I'm just happy to see jordan smiling again..

It makes me super happy when he laughs and giggles, because I usually see him depressed.

amazing guy!!

I sincerely enjoy this man’s work.

Jordan Peterson, you are a wonderful human.

It’s especially difficult for us engineers when we are around other engineers! I am somewhat socially skilled, but it’s something I continually have to work at. I grew up with sisters who taught me how to empathetic and engaging in social situations. If it were not for them, I probably would have been hopeless.

@GalryZ

Жыл бұрын

You are hopeless

@general9043

Жыл бұрын

Well... who cares?

@user-vy9uy3tq7n

10 ай бұрын

Are male engineers able to talk to female engineers without an issue since they are both engineers?

Competence, 11/25 2:24 confident (not affirmations but proof/evidence that you are who you say you are), productive (not lazy, has aspirations/goals/purpose and works towards them), generosity (brings community/family up through humility and self sacrifice) 2:46, 3:14, 4:29 not troublesome or useless (opposite is competent, problem solving, and useful/beneficial to have) 4:53 be the person = do, work, do the work 6:04 sociability is apart of that work/competence

Gold. 🙌

I love when people are intellectuals but also have a sense of humour

Alway be looking to create value in some way. This attracts both money and women.

@MsQ275

Жыл бұрын

Amen

He is so good,greetings from Sydney

This is so honest

This was a fun clip. Glad to see both of you laughing and enjoying it. Confident, productive generosity. This is good. But this is only one side of the equation, and I think it’s the side that KEEPS the woman once she has been attracted. In the other videos is the side of the equation that attracts her (which narcissists fake); being dominant, retaining authority, and being about your purpose as men (well that perhaps was productivity). If he is confident, is he going to chase her? Maybe, but it doesn’t translate as confidence. It just doesn’t. This is where your ‘meaning’ message is so important for men. Be busy being productive and let her come to you. Another commenter said this and I think he’s right-on about that. Don’t chase or it comes across as lack of confidence and desperate. Are werewolves and vampires desperate? :) Ha, those five types crack me up… Generous, dominant, authoritative, purposeful (productive) men. Be aggressive out there in the world, you know, 'naming the animals’. Also, we’d love to hear from Mrs. Tammy on this. You said finally, ‘she caught me’…..the answer to all of this could be in those three words! She came to you then? You chased, she ignored, you went on with your purpose??? And then….where is he? What is he doing? Where is his attention going? Then she caught up to you real fast and took you off the market:) What happened there, she has the key that I’m trying to tell you! I”m guessing, but now I’m curious what happened, lol. There are levels of attraction: behaviors that will attract, and behaviors that will retain/sustain the relationship. These are different, both are needed at the right times. However, his purpose and seat of authority must run through the entirety of the relationship. That’s my take. But you know, what the hell do I know!?

@rhysoliver227

Жыл бұрын

I bet you've read the full Rational male series. Takes one to know one.

@parasoul26

Жыл бұрын

I think it depends on how you "chase" a woman. I believe in the concept of courtship, and no matter how much red pill content out there is that tells you that the man is the prize, I wholeheartedly still believe that women are the prize as they are the gatekeepers to creating new life. What's missing in dating advice for both men and women in the world today is the word "good" before the word "man" or "woman". If you meet a good woman, who shares your values and respects herself enough that she doesn't sexually objectify herself to the world, I would say she is the prize no matter how you look at it, if you are a good man. Real social skills are learned in real-life interactions with women when it comes to dating. Social media has distorted those skills and now people want instant gratification. Real relationships rely on observing, spotting, and reacting productively to what is not being texted, messaged, posted in your timeline, or even through video calls. Knowing how to navigate to what is not being said is what is called a connection to your partner, and it won't happen if you rely on social media. It is something you build by physically being with your partner and experiencing things together. I consume a lot of red pill content as well, and I believe they make a lot of sense. But what sticks out to me when they talk about relationships is that they discuss it like it's an ongoing transaction when it needs to be willfully reciprocal. Radical feminists have become more than materialistic in their view of men, men should not behave the same if red pill believes that women are not expected to have value financially, otherwise men will look at women as mere commodities to acquire and trade. If you approach a good woman, "chase" her with respect, fully aware of your boundaries as the stronger sex which automatically makes you a potential threat, when you "chase" but have wisdom and humility in you to know when you should give up, I think this is a more honorable method of trying to find a partner in life. You don't treat it like a game and instead approach it with sincerity, seriousness, and generosity. It will be hard I think, but it has always been hard to find a good man or woman to live the rest of your life with. Just like I believe there are good men out there, I still believe there are good women out there as well. They just need to look for one another in the right places, which definitely means not in nightclubs.

@iceman4094

Жыл бұрын

@@parasoul26 I thought red pill believed that women are the prize and are born with value because they can create life, and men are born worthless/ valueless. So men need to build themselves up to be higher value than the mass majority of men, then they become the prize to women. Since they also believe women all chase the top 10-20% of men, that are the "prizes". So since women chase she's 10-20% of men, building yourself up to be a high value man will cause you to be chased.

@parasoul26

Жыл бұрын

​@@iceman4094 Logically it makes sense, that's why I also watch a lot of red pill content to gauge whether humbling these modern delusional women is starting to work. Building yourself up and achieving is absolutely correct and is needed advice for our young men. It is also true that the top percent of high achieving men are the "prize". But people NEED to put it into context. If it was for the sexual marketplace, absolutely the top percent men are the prize. But for solid, traditional relationships where genuine love is present, they are not at the apex. For us "regular people(the overwhelming majority)" who lived in a two parent household and grew up with values, our model for relationships has always been our own parents and/or grandparents. They were not at the top percent of anything. Just regular people. Think of it this way, take the good and throw away the bad from any idea being espoused, whether red or blue pill, left or right. In short, think for yourself. That's the first. Second, red pill criticizes women whenever they ask for traditional men when these modern women themselves are not traditional. Ask yourself if you truly want a traditional woman. Why? Because if you do, then you need to be a traditional man. It is a two way street. Now if you are looking for a good woman, the highest likelihood is that she is a traditional woman. Bold statement I know, that's why I said "most likely". Now if you want a good woman, you should know that a good woman will never chase a man. A good woman will look at a man, firstly make sure the man is not a threat to her safety, evaluate him, know more about him for a period time until she knows his values and if those values align with hers. A good woman who values herself will never give herself to any man easily, even to a top percent man. So the reality is that men actually DO need to chase if men want to marry good women to bear their children. But like I said in my previous comment, make the approach and "chase" with some class and honor to take your Ls with dignity so that you won't be ashamed to try again until you find your match.

@ashleygatewood

Жыл бұрын

​@@parasoul26 I've been out of the dating scene for decades, thank God. I don't know all the current lingo but if this philosophy is working for you, then that's great. Whatever works best for the individual. The great thing is this, in whatever manner you approach relationship, if the philosophy has been honed and matured, it will auto-exclude the women/men who are not a good match for you. The rejection should come early (from either party), the rejection is more easily accepted (your philosophy has done the work for you and IT has been rejected) and that's less time wasted. It's also more accurate...you won't end up chasing only your attraction when the values are misaligned. Or (arguably) worse; settling when the values may align but there's no chemistry/attraction on your part.

One thing I would highly recommend young men do is to become a volunteer firefighter. If I could go back 20 years and get certified at 20 instead of 40, I truly believe this will make a huge difference for young men. You learn so many cool things, develop confidence, learn things from older mentors, ect. You get to help people and run towards danger. Plus when you tell a woman you are a firefighter, she’s all yours man.

@nathanpeacock9978

Жыл бұрын

Been a firefighter in a big city for 35 years. You speak the truth.

@fletchong4110

Жыл бұрын

In the face of inflation we can’t afford to do low paying volunteer work if we want to be able to afford a family

@michaeltagor4238

Жыл бұрын

@@fletchong4110 well that's why he said to do it as soon as you can, so you have enough time to do everything else later or while you're doing it cus you sure as hell wouldn't do that many things at the same time when you're old

@mr.metamovies2419

11 ай бұрын

Don't you need a driver's license?

Smart answer

first 12 seconds.. smoooooth af wow hooked!

I like JP is simultaneously giving great advice and Roasting us at the same time. We call that "Tough Love" lol

Damn it's so simple! I like to think I've been applying this well, I guess I've just not been in many social scenarios to actually engage and women, but that's down to focussing on my goals and so forth

such a good video

As a woman I have never felt so seen by an older man. Thank you for your wisdom Dr. Peterson😂

King.

Wow!! 😲😲😲First vid where I see Jordan laugh! 😲And so much! 😲 Good to see this!

I love when he smiles and is happy❤❤❤❤❤

Just like most women dosent want a young man, most men don't want an old woman, but he forgot to mention that... Afraid of being cancelled?

It’s not about finding “the right one” it’s about becoming “the right one”.

It's very nice to hear Dr. Peterson laugh

Learn to listen. Best advice I ever got.

Was at that show. Was amazing. But as an engineer I felt called out lol. Our social game is nonexistent.