Patience is a virtue. I would try to offer my wife solutions too early and she taught me to be patient. When I don't do anything but hug her, she finds her own solution, most of the time and just wants me to support her.
@autotec7694
24 күн бұрын
thanks for sharing ur experience. appreciated 👍
@garyhobbins474625 күн бұрын
Let us not draw conclusions about people until we meet them.
@ghelfling_bunny14 күн бұрын
The conversations he mentioned doesn't need to be stressful of boring. It can happen in a very pleasant and organic way. It is not a monologue either and both can and should speak their minds. I don't want my husband to be unhappy and one day I figger he is leaving for reasons I was not even aware and did not have the chance to address. What has been working for us is a long and enjoyable breakfast in the weekend, only the two of us, with no other appointments to attend in that morning. It is a safe space with no intention to make accusations and no reactive responses. Only the true intention of understand, to feel understood by each other and find solutions (and enjoy our time togheter!). However, it requires a trust that takes time to be buit. Each time we have a conversation and we are not attacked and judged, we feel respected and loved, so the trust gets stronger to continue communicating. This is the way we feel we are connected and at the same page for the last decade. I will say that initially it is a challenge to speak about things that you are frustrated about in a loving and calm way, but just try it. It is surprisingly possible. Also, it is not easy to hear about your own faults and the initial reaction is to get pissed, but it gets easier. I know it takes both to make it work, so if the other one speaks in an agressive way, you can stay calm and point it out. If you are the one who spoke aggressively just try to calm down and say sorry. Have patience, don't let things escalate, and teach those skills to your children. When no one is competing, both win.
@steven167119 күн бұрын
I’ll listen to them, just as I do to everyone 😂
@justtekina670919 күн бұрын
thats not listening, thats, guiding a woman, he said a woman tell you about a problem but you are not supposed to resovle it right away, because the woman in question will still feel as if there is problem, even tho you solive you have to listen to uncover her whole heart of fears so to speak, and reasure them to be false to her, which i agree with, its the reason why women go 180 on men, when you think things are okay but they are not.
@AFO_AnalyRics22 күн бұрын
Doctor Jordan Panderson in the flesh.
@pwnagenuss21 күн бұрын
Listen to them lie? No thanks
@justjoking584121 күн бұрын
So from what i am gathering here... Be a bit more patient and dont jump to any conclusions before the problem actually presents itself. Much like examining an engine to see what the real problem is before jumping to fix things lickity split out of a sense of emergency. 🤔
@andulasis6283Ай бұрын
As a very feminine man who sees himself in the role JP described, what’s the procedure there? 😅
@philippfollmer
Ай бұрын
If you’re the one seeing the problems first: fix them
@claudiamanta1943
28 күн бұрын
Make your bed. Or sumthin’
@anthonyhughes8026
28 күн бұрын
That depends on if you are talking to someone predominantly in the feminine aspect. If yes, the recommendation may apply. Do your own research using behavior experimentation when it’s safe and appropriate to do so. Godspeed, lad. 🙏🏼 Cheers
@ZikoMarioАй бұрын
How is the song in the background called?
@fffff2521Ай бұрын
Fine, you have to consider woman's thoughts. Of course. But never ever submit to her in your decision making.
@anthonyhughes8026
28 күн бұрын
I think you’re wanted over there 👉🏼 💊 (red) instead of 👉🏼 🧠
@ariot2398
24 күн бұрын
Submit, no. Consider her perspective, that's in your best interest, as long as she can accept you not choosing her perspective.
@MOH10492
20 күн бұрын
The key is to be honest with yourself and see if they actually bring up genuine concerns or are just nit-picking and being unreasonable. While simultaneously making sure we don’t make irrational decisions just because our woman says something. Honest and unbiased analysis of the situation is required.
@pawelpawlowin9528 күн бұрын
Only simps and betas do that.
@maxranierus3574
23 күн бұрын
He became a boot licker to woman to stay mainstream....
@James_3624 күн бұрын
Who are the best men for attractive women… bad boys.. fact. Do they consider this? I think you know the answer lol
@maxranierus3574
23 күн бұрын
Oscar Wilde writed it: handsome women are with the criminals.
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Patience is a virtue. I would try to offer my wife solutions too early and she taught me to be patient. When I don't do anything but hug her, she finds her own solution, most of the time and just wants me to support her.
@autotec7694
24 күн бұрын
thanks for sharing ur experience. appreciated 👍
Let us not draw conclusions about people until we meet them.
The conversations he mentioned doesn't need to be stressful of boring. It can happen in a very pleasant and organic way. It is not a monologue either and both can and should speak their minds. I don't want my husband to be unhappy and one day I figger he is leaving for reasons I was not even aware and did not have the chance to address. What has been working for us is a long and enjoyable breakfast in the weekend, only the two of us, with no other appointments to attend in that morning. It is a safe space with no intention to make accusations and no reactive responses. Only the true intention of understand, to feel understood by each other and find solutions (and enjoy our time togheter!). However, it requires a trust that takes time to be buit. Each time we have a conversation and we are not attacked and judged, we feel respected and loved, so the trust gets stronger to continue communicating. This is the way we feel we are connected and at the same page for the last decade. I will say that initially it is a challenge to speak about things that you are frustrated about in a loving and calm way, but just try it. It is surprisingly possible. Also, it is not easy to hear about your own faults and the initial reaction is to get pissed, but it gets easier. I know it takes both to make it work, so if the other one speaks in an agressive way, you can stay calm and point it out. If you are the one who spoke aggressively just try to calm down and say sorry. Have patience, don't let things escalate, and teach those skills to your children. When no one is competing, both win.
I’ll listen to them, just as I do to everyone 😂
thats not listening, thats, guiding a woman, he said a woman tell you about a problem but you are not supposed to resovle it right away, because the woman in question will still feel as if there is problem, even tho you solive you have to listen to uncover her whole heart of fears so to speak, and reasure them to be false to her, which i agree with, its the reason why women go 180 on men, when you think things are okay but they are not.
Doctor Jordan Panderson in the flesh.
Listen to them lie? No thanks
So from what i am gathering here... Be a bit more patient and dont jump to any conclusions before the problem actually presents itself. Much like examining an engine to see what the real problem is before jumping to fix things lickity split out of a sense of emergency. 🤔
As a very feminine man who sees himself in the role JP described, what’s the procedure there? 😅
@philippfollmer
Ай бұрын
If you’re the one seeing the problems first: fix them
@claudiamanta1943
28 күн бұрын
Make your bed. Or sumthin’
@anthonyhughes8026
28 күн бұрын
That depends on if you are talking to someone predominantly in the feminine aspect. If yes, the recommendation may apply. Do your own research using behavior experimentation when it’s safe and appropriate to do so. Godspeed, lad. 🙏🏼 Cheers
How is the song in the background called?
Fine, you have to consider woman's thoughts. Of course. But never ever submit to her in your decision making.
@anthonyhughes8026
28 күн бұрын
I think you’re wanted over there 👉🏼 💊 (red) instead of 👉🏼 🧠
@ariot2398
24 күн бұрын
Submit, no. Consider her perspective, that's in your best interest, as long as she can accept you not choosing her perspective.
@MOH10492
20 күн бұрын
The key is to be honest with yourself and see if they actually bring up genuine concerns or are just nit-picking and being unreasonable. While simultaneously making sure we don’t make irrational decisions just because our woman says something. Honest and unbiased analysis of the situation is required.
Only simps and betas do that.
@maxranierus3574
23 күн бұрын
He became a boot licker to woman to stay mainstream....
Who are the best men for attractive women… bad boys.. fact. Do they consider this? I think you know the answer lol
@maxranierus3574
23 күн бұрын
Oscar Wilde writed it: handsome women are with the criminals.