I agree that we have zero standards. We are taught to accept whomever and build with him. No, sis. Choose quality.

@johnstegalljr1198

Жыл бұрын

Build with good men not with bums and if u decide to wait at the finish line for a man just know that he might cheat

@laplusbelle7982

7 ай бұрын

@@johnstegalljr1198 A man build on his own, he doesn’t Need the woman help and just majority of males will cheat poor or not

"You are a slave to your words and the owner of your silence" -idk who said it But it is true🌸🌸🌸

@NitRaSit

2 жыл бұрын

@@NeemahSpeaks she talking to you.

I have standards as a black women and men will meet them if they want yoi

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Period sister Gloria 🙌🏿🙌🏿😘

Thank you for this Neemah! STILL learning the art of SHUTTING UP! I will now be keeping my mouth shut because I learned a lesson!

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

I am so happy sister Synthea. Though it might be hard it’s important to master it😔

@MrSynhair

3 жыл бұрын

@Free Palestine Thank you so much ♥️

@YellowStarrx3

2 жыл бұрын

Same sis!!

I’m so happy you ae speaking on the behavior of dealing with white women, silence with them will confuse them into depression. We need more conversations about how to deal with them quickly and swiftly.

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Yes it is important that we learn on how to deal with other races of women without looking a fool 😬

@gentledove1177

4 жыл бұрын

It's honestly such a problem for me!🤦🏾‍♀️ so glad she addressed this

@asmerasmith3724

4 жыл бұрын

Yes!!!

@tabitaeguangs

3 жыл бұрын

This is extremely true

@madamelogicbombdropperblac7799

2 жыл бұрын

Black women listen up! If, and only if, want to break the generational curse of what our mothers, grandmothers, and back many generation of women have gone through before us, we must think outside the box, and we must take the road less traveled, and we take advantage of all the opportunities we have before us in this day and age. This generation of non black men are not like there fathers, grandfathers, or great grandfathers. This generation of non black men are waaaaaay more open to dating and marrying, and building loving kind romantic relationships with black women like never before. When people tell you that no one wants you, or the only men who will take you are black men know that is a bold face lie. There are about 24.5 Million black women in America and globally over 3.1 Billion men on earth: Black women today in 2022 have more options in picking men of our liking like never before so why not go for it? I mean, what have you got to lose? 🤵🏻🤵🏻👰🏾👰🏾💍💍❤❤💗💗💞💞💖💖

The power of silence! That hit, stop telling people your plans

Moved to Mexico and no longer feel a need to be a "tough cookie". Turns out it's so much easier to be feminine, soft, and grow gracefully when you're not under constant attack. Self love + moving to a less toxic environment does wonders. It's more critical to love yourself than to prove yourself

Thank you. We don't have to be social warriors. We need to stop that behavior of supporting others when we have no one coming to our defense when we are in trouble. Yes, to leveling up, no to strong black women. Let's present ourselves as the feminine black goddess the creator made us. That melanin is gold.

Your graphics are superb. It feels great to see so many refined beautiful dark skinned black women in these pictures.

@sm-yj7nu

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

Non negotiable - do not entertain dusty men - do not hold onto the past

I have high standards. Some say I’m high maintenance 💅🏾

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

You keep your high standards love. Do not let anyone try to break you nor shame you.

@doll9763

3 жыл бұрын

Same sis

I am very new to the level up game/my femininity journey. I am so glad for videos like these. They are so helpful. Thank you!

🌋 it’s fundamental to have a personal standard. Many black women lack such necessity due to how society has positioned us as the always angry, aggressive and talking too loud type.

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely correct🙌🏿

Level Up on the Low. Power of Silence 🤐, Keep This Journey A Secret. 💎💎💎

“10 ft tall and a 13 pack” 🤣🖤🙋🏾‍♀️

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

I know sis🤣🤣

I made it to the end 🌋 ! Great great tips especially number 2 for me with letting go of the past and living in the moment. And I definitely agree with keeping our level up a secret. Let’s just use this space for encouragement or motivation when leveling up because you are correct some people don’t want to see you shine that’s close to you.

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Omg yesss you are are real one 😉😉 it is so important to keep it private because you will not know who wants you to fail 😐

I often hear people say that black women are beautiful facially, have beautiful bodies, are confident, are strong, are funny and are smart. I was surprised to know when I went to the US that some people disrespect black women’s looks including so called pseudo studies that don’t seem scientific at all. I am sure many people in the US also believe black women are great, high level, smart, beautiful women and currently there is a tanning and non western, exotic features, body types trend.

We don’t like our OWN selves but not all of us are bad. Create more UNITY amongst ourselves and the dummies will follow suit. Start building your tribe... Statistics show that if you have a good amount of support from real friends you have a better quality of life. We need a video on this. Great idea on the video about the hobbies Black women can pick up ❤️

@dominiquewyatt6704

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you ❤. Us black woman must have unity, and work together to change our image in a positive light. No longer allowing others to stereotype us in away they want us to be or think we are.

Your Family Doesn't Want To See You Successful and Succeed. Master The Art of 🤐 Silence. 💎💎💎

@NeemahSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

💯

Thank you for this sis. I’m going through a heavy healing process where I’m learning to be less defensive and learning to be so settled within myself and my own peace that I don’t respond from a place of wounds if at all. This happened to pop up on my feed and I’m glad it did. Definitely subscribed!

I remember when a former coworker of mines talked about being in the police academy. He said a man kept getting mad at the training officers dying obscene language. He pulled the guy aside and said we all in here doing this work and these officers do not know your mom. I learned a listen that day. No one does not care to upset you plus they don't know you. Also, the police academy was preparing these officers in training for the real world encounters.

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Woow that is harsh but yes it is so important for us to learn to listen. It such a small concept that we don’t seem to gasp

@angelawatkins8554

2 жыл бұрын

000+~~+

I hold onto the past WAY too much. Now i am 49 trying to claw my way out of "BAD" thinking patterns. BAD datimg patterns, horrible abusive jobs. i suffered A LOT in the past. But i survived i need to move on and stay in the here, now and present. My therapist says this all the time!! But i promise myself, in the long run i will WIN. 🏃 🏆

@selenemiller9976

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed you will ❤

I'm so glad I discovered this channel. I NEEDED TO HEAR ALL OF THIS!

I love this video l. I’m definitely soaking all this in. I’m really changing my perspective in life. This was recommended to me and I thank u for making and sharing this video. I have been staying to myself and I’m definitely leveling up. I’m coming up with more and more positive tasks and daily ha outs and I love it. I feel amazing! I wish I could give a thousand likes.

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

I am so happy that it helps 🥰🥰🙌🏿🙌🏿

Dressing in pjs and not looking put together is not a black female issue. I see almost every kind of woman dressing like that.

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right sister Emily. But when black women do it it get magnified because we do not have enough representation to combat that image. Other women have positive uplifting images to combat this.

@EllaMuna.

2 жыл бұрын

She's talking to her fellow black woman. Just accept the mistakes women do, but only she choose to talk to us, nothing big here

@darealestsamurai3565

2 жыл бұрын

Yall need to cut that they do it too bullcrap out. WE GET IT. But she's talking to US, black women. Stay IN black women's business and out of other women. She doesn't need to all lives matter the topic

@embracelifewithemily

2 жыл бұрын

@@darealestsamurai3565 Lol, ok. I just wish black women had the permission to not only be excellent and queens, but also imperfect too. We’re not given a lot of grace and we’re held to a very high standard to the point in which I think it’s unfair.

@darealestsamurai3565

2 жыл бұрын

and like she said, white women have the Kardashians but they also have Madonna, drew Barrymore, and taylor swift to combat the Klan to the point where what those women do don't even matter to the white community. WE don't have that balance, its unfortunate but it's true. our image is DESTROYED by our own community especially the men and we are stuck

I DONT UNDERSTAND HOW THIS AMAZING CHANNEL HASNT REACHED 100k subbies. I love you NEEMAH!

She’s dropping gems man 😩

I love when Neemah says “NICE NEE-ASTY”

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

HAhaha everyone love my accent 😂 I guess I am special 😌

Nothing but facts spoken here. Thank you.

I DEFINITELY see you sis! And I’m grateful for you🥰

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

Heey Heey Giirl❤️ loooove all your tips and I will put them to practice!! This marks my first day of my rebirth.

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Yes 👏🏿👏🏿 let’s get to work 😊 I am glad sister Jeaniie you are going to put all of these tips into practice 😫😫

Thank you for this video sis! 🤩👏🏽

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

No problem sister Nicole 🥰🥰

Neemah that study first came out in 2011 and comes out here and there after every few years. when that study came out I was also somewhat angry, because it was a low point in my life, neglecting myself, physically and mentally. Nowadays,because I am working on myself mentally and physically. I know that I am pretty and I look pretty. Black women got angry because let us be honest, many of us do not take care of ourselves physically and mentally. I keep on saying this, obesity is not pretty, sorry black women, but obesity is unhealthy and very unnattractive to look at. Obesity in my opinion is actually extreme self hate. Yes Neemah you are right, the art of silence is important. Some BW chat too damn much, and tell others their business to show off and end up flat on their face. Hobbies and activities are very important for self growth and if you network with the right people you can got places you've only dreamt of. It is so to hear tips on how I ,, me personally as a BW can level up

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Lin for mentioning that if first came out in 2011 but there was another one in 2018 and I remember black women were so upset. I am happy to see that you are a bigger enough person to admit your mistake. Because most of black peoples it either their way or the high way and they are never wrong it always someone else’s fault. Yes and we do chat way too much and can be used against us 😐😐🌚

Everything you said is true!!! 💕 Thank you for this.

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

No problem love🥰 the truth and only the truth shall set BW free 😊

I think I'm addicted to your voice :D I'm in love with the way you speak and the advices you give, I also find you super funny lol, can't leave without subscribing, I personnally think black women are so beautiful and I was shocked when you said people consider you as the ugliest, I've never heard this before, I'm from Paris and black women here are way more feminine than French women themselves, much love your way xo

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Merci sister Mya. Yes we are considered the ugliest here. And I am glad you get my sense of humour 😊

@Mya-Elba

4 жыл бұрын

@@NeemahSpeaks sister, ugly hearts see ugliness everywhere even in gems, i appreciate the effort you make to empower girls of your community, keep up the good work, have a great day xo

🌋💥 I loveeee your work💗💗💗thank you so much !!!

Thank you Sis for hobbies, I'm starting to level and learn to play 🎾 tennis to add to Me. Loving this space point blank period 💕 😍

I’m glad I saw this Chanel, I’m learning a lot

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

your so welcome 🥰

This is great advice Neemah, got hit the rewind ⏪ on this video. 💎💎💎

It is so so very important to develop tough skin! 💎💎💎

Amen, most of us don't have any standards!! Come on and teach!!

Use The Power of Silence 🤐 To Your Advantage. 💎💎💎

Our girl Neemah just said love you in Swahili! So cool! 🤍

Hobbies That Add Value To You. 💎💎💎

Ok. Mrs Thang...you got my attention 😳🥺🤔🤔🤔🤔

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Yesss 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

Love this! Thanks

Thanks so much for your words may God bless you. You are bringing light to us

Thankyou so much for this much needed . After 8 year of relationship my bf don't have any courage to ask his parents for our marriage , so he is going for arrange marriage . I don't want to feel down about myself, I needed to hear something then this video was on my recommendation . I know he will never going to find a woman like me , finally I'm Letting go of the situation 💜. I'm not going to fight about this with him , I don't want to force anything to anyone the things I deserve. If it is meant to happen it will happen .

watched some of your videos in the past & i just noticed 2 vids in tonight that i wasn’t subscribed 😭 omg my mess sis 💕 hitting that 🔔 NOW!

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

wait you subscribed now right? 😉

You put a lot of work in this video. I am going to subscribe.

I'm new here boy I'm I glad that this was my first lesson. Thanks sis

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Welcome abroad sis 🤪

Good material here just found channel today!

@NeemahSpeaks

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome aboard!

Wow this is gold!💕💛 Love all your tips! Seriously helped me so much. I currently live in a upperclass neighborhood with doctors and higher rank military families and I learned the hard way not to be too nice😅 I always tried to wave to my neighbors and they just acted like how dare me lol and just make faces at me literally make faces.. Also all the caucasian moms always group up aswell and have never tried welcoming me. It's only the females that treat me like that too🙃 it's the same exact way at my sons private preschool. I just learning to stop being nice lol Maybe it's because I'm still young living in a half a million dollar house idkk. Ever since I've lived in "higher society" I guess we can call it. The more unfriendly the people get... It sucks 😩

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Omg first of all yaay you are doing so well and I am Happy for you sister Passion. And you are absolutely right. It’s also due to the fact that they feel threatened so they do not want you to join the “inner circle” 😬

@MegaEpicZero

4 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry you're being treated so passive aggressively by your "neighbors". True neighbors would be more accommodating- at least that's how it is in my area. You don't have to be nice- they aren't even properly acknowledging you when you acknowledge them (waving and greeting them)! You can be courteous, but I'm so glad you will not bend to their disrespect. I look up to you. I have a half a million dollar house I'm looking into myself- you inspire me! God bless you and your son~!

@matthewmiller4834

4 жыл бұрын

Be silent. Continue to up grade spiritually financially they are protecting them self protect your self too

@orangeblossom9279

2 жыл бұрын

Hey girl! Be careful about tarot. Watch Steven Bencarz’s channel

Well said sister...

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

Tooo many bars 🔥

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

I couldn’t help it 😫😫

I love your channel Neemah

Please keep these up ❤️

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you love 😔

Know how to play the silent game is a game changing because if you want someone to tell you the true just said “ I know what you did and I am wait for you to tell me” And be silent and look at them like you are waiting for something

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Yes sister that works wonders. They will be so confused because they are used and waiting on you to "pop off"

Neemah your accent is so cute ☺️

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Ayee thank you 😊😊

@boipelomohlakoane7959

4 жыл бұрын

Right? Omg❤️

@jm3850

3 жыл бұрын

Love this video. Great discussion. Ps. It’s waste man dem. Toronto slag is based off Jamaican patios.

@Dr.Babe__

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it is🙌🏾🙌🏾 especially in the video where she was talking about baby face privilege. In my mind I was like, girl your baby face goes with your cute voice. No wonder baby face privilege is so strong😂🙌🏾❣️

Neema, Excellent! I liked, subscribed, and heard the entire video. Lol! 🌋

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Yes sister Naira welcome to the sisterhood 😊😊

Asante sana Dada! Unasema kweli kabisa! Nakushukuru! These are things I wish to teach my daughters 💙🙏🏿

@ashawango7881

3 жыл бұрын

Inshaallah Inshaallah

Thanks for sharing, I am new to your channel and am loving it...my name is Ronna lol... sending you love and light from Zambia.

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Welcome Ronna!! And thank you for subbing

13 pack! i loved this video!

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣 I couldn’t help myself 🤣🤣

Nimependa point zako❤❤ love from Tanzania 🇹🇿

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Ayeee Asante sana Dada Leonilla ☺️😘

@vegan4c65

3 жыл бұрын

WaSwahili wenzangu!!! ❤️

Are non black, Arab Berber Mauritanian women welcome here? I love your videos. Keep up the great work ♥️

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

all are welcomed babes 🥰

@ytb8361

3 жыл бұрын

@@NeemahSpeaks thank you babe 🥰

I lmao when you said c-c-chiiille hahaha. Keep up the good work.

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🤗

I'll say it...don't date a guy that doesn't have a full time job and can't keep consistent employment. It's that simple. If theres no guys then stay single until you can move to a better area.

Girl your from Toronto?! Ahhh lie... oh my I have so many ideas in my head. More prosperity. More love ❤️

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Haha I love how excited you are ♥️

@IamKarryanne

3 жыл бұрын

@@NeemahSpeaks I’m only excited for YOU, cause it’s clear Canadian KZreadrs don’t get the same recognition.

😍😍😍Information appreciated! The checklist wasn't available. 🌋

💯👏🏾

Néema I just love your vibe

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much love

Toronto in the building 🇨🇦

@audreyc1091

3 жыл бұрын

yhup

💥🔥

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Ayeee 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 😉

I'm a Mexican sister and I love your videos

All facts

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks love 🥰🥰you know it 😉

I see you sis.

I think standards are important but it’s also important to remember you never know what someone is going through , that mother could have a story or situation that no one knows about . I personally think the principle shoulda left her alone unless she was revealing or inappropriate

Thank you 🙏❤️

New subbie sis 💗

Toronto get that slang from the Jamaicans there.

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Yes that is true

nakupenda pia ❤ from 🇰🇪 nairobi,kenya #eastafricabby

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Asante sana dada Hafsa. 😘

Nakupenda pia, asante sana kwa haya mashauri yako

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Ayee hello dada Tracy😊 Asante kwa kuangalia video hii 🙌🏿🥰

@ashawango7881

3 жыл бұрын

Mashaallah Neemamah sauti nzuri sana

This is good

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

Hey I saw in the description that u wrote "nawapenda Sana" I wanna ask if ur learning Swahili or u come from a Swahili speaking country. Cause I'm Tanzanian😁and I speak Swahili. Thanks for the advice btw really helpful

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Ayeee Asante dada na Mimi naongea Kiswahili 😊😊😊

@allthingdranabeauty

3 жыл бұрын

Neemah Speaks karibu dada ahhhh

Thank you

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

You're welcome

💥

🎉🎉

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Ayee 🙌🏿🙌🏿😉😉

I affirm 💝💖

So pretty

My love thank you for this video babe. I’m a new subscriber and so happy I found you mama 🖤👸🏾✨💕

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

No problem sister Monique welcome to the sisterhood 😘

Neemah I love that video the art of nice nasty, in fact my favorite quote you said: "you have a great face for radio. Say this when someone calls you ugly, lol 🤣😆🤣🤣😆🤣🤣😆😆

I like her

🌋

💥☄️🔥🌋

When someone call you the n word just said ( I don’t fell save voice ) “Omg what are you doing” “Don’t you know it is not save to do it” And wait a see how people are looking at the person who said the n work because she will said something as people are looking at her and she would expect it because she expects you to screen at her. Can her loud like she is a threat to everyone and if you have to fake cry cry my little sister ❤️😂😂

@NeemahSpeaks

4 жыл бұрын

Yes I love my tears 🤣🤣

@With-maya

4 жыл бұрын

Dreamer 😂😂😂😂 word *

@irrelevance3859

4 жыл бұрын

Completely agree 'Why would you call me that?' 'Why would you say that to me?' 'Please don't call me that again!' In a loud damsel in distress voice works really well too, this can work for the N word or any insult in general.

When you say 'QWHITE' women. I love it!

@AussieGirl235

2 жыл бұрын

What is the actual word she’s saying?? I can’t get it

🌋 🎊 🥳

Trying to access the blueprint checklist is there an updated link? Your videos are very helpful🌋🌋

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

I will let you know once I update the links♥️

Tunakupenda pia

@NeemahSpeaks

3 жыл бұрын

Asante sana dada😘