This might be hard to hear but it's time to be smart! I get why women cling to the idea of being with a man but ladies let's do better!

@Skaniathespartan

Жыл бұрын

I agree. We got to do better. Guard our hearts first and foremost ❤️🙏

@ritasjourney

Жыл бұрын

Imagine if all women refused to date disrespectful men.

I learned this 7 years ago, do not date just to get a man, he has to meet my standards or I am happy to remain single. I am not settling for a subpar, below average man just to come down off my standards. He need to level up to be with me. 🎯

@Bri-nc8yp

Жыл бұрын

Amen- sister!!! Proud of you

@princessgigiking

Жыл бұрын

@@Bri-nc8yp Thank you 🙂, feels good

Few books women should read 1. Why men love bitches 2. Why men marry bitches 3. Act like a lady, think like a man These books are a must read

@fareenchijo9927

Жыл бұрын

Thank you starting why men love bitches tomorrow

@WinyMary

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!! 🙏🏾💯

@centykaia4450

Жыл бұрын

True especially in steve harveys book, he says how men shame women for being gold diggers just as a way of making women avoid asking for too much.. He even says that a man should claim you first He also says that you should only get a man who has met his needs such as his career, and finance so I guess Steve harvey is against Bob the builder

@sm-yj7nu

Жыл бұрын

@jenesaisquoi1953

Жыл бұрын

All in my personal library and gifted to my four daughters.

When you speak life into a narcissistic, unappreciative man, he will turn on you, and tell you he is a good man; because that is what you told him. Only uplift a man who uplift you. 🎯

@deejames1st

Жыл бұрын

💯🎯

@no-one00

Жыл бұрын

I generally feel like I don’t want to be single or can’t be single rn. So what I’ve been doing is dating men that I can use or that can bring me peace or benefit me in areas that usually drain me or wet me out for example financially. I have multiple streams of income alone but before I used to feel tired a lot of times like I had to sustain myself. I do but using men helped me a lot

@cocomocha

Жыл бұрын

The ones who hate themselves will be passive aggressive with you if you love him and he doesn’t love himself

I do not or will not ever again, accept the bare minimum from a man and hell no I will not lower my standards 🎯

Men will embarrass you stay woke my sisters

@NeemahSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

this message🥰

I agree with everything in this video men do not like nice women. They do not appreciate what you do for them. Don't do it! If a man is not up to your standards don't entertain him at all. Even if you don't give him anything. Men feed of our feminine energy. They will try to bounce ideas off of you. Get advice. And cry on your shoulder. Only to marry a lady who is dumb as a box of rocks. Who does not listen to them, doesn't cook or clean etc etc.

Ladies the old saying is true even if men try to argue and say it’s not they show us every day that is true, rest in peace to my mother she always told me this” A man has to love you more than you love him in order for it to work “

I always say men don't need compliments because they don't know how to act... The only times i say cute things to my "bf" is after he does something for me. Otherwise im kind but not nice. And i say "bf" because i don't do boyfriends but he thinks he is, meanwhile im dating and waiting on a husband but not in a rush! The "bf" does a lot for me and pays my bills, buys me stuff and takes me out he is super romantic but nothing too serious yet so i won't let him keep me from meeting a husband 😏

@oa8463

Жыл бұрын

Naturally. 💕

@666numberofthebeast

Жыл бұрын

@@oa8463 👑💅😍

@nataliesparks4829

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

@fabfati

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💯

I don’t think he embarrassed her at ALL! She did it to herself. He telling the truth but she can’t accept reality. I recently embarrassed myself by being a dummy too but we gotta take accountability ladies. Men can’t do what we don’t allow ❤️

@canesugar911

Жыл бұрын

Yes they can. Stop acting like men are simple organisms that respond to stimuli. Men are autonomous beings and act the way they do because they want to.

@Idkjustyet

Жыл бұрын

@@canesugar911 u ain’t gone level up always being a victim. It’s dumb IF u allow men to dog u out & u know their ways. That’s like knowing somebody tryna run u over with a car but u stand right in the way & play victim. Why did u stand right in front of a car tryna run u over? That’s just slow

@canesugar911

Жыл бұрын

@@Idkjustyet you are also not going to "level up" if you don't have the discernment to see what is/what isn't yours. Do you think that people are willingly dragged or are they lied to and manipulated? Mentality like yours are why the men you complain about will never change. Because why should they? Not only are they going to not face consequences but the blame is going to be put on the other person. Just because you choose to bear the burden of mens actions doesn't mean that everyone has to. Stop treating men like they are children. Simply stating that you should not blame one for the actions of another means playing the victim? The funny thing about this whole comment is that this mentality you have is you allowing men to "dog you out" because you are doing basically all the work and you think you are doing something. Mtchw.

@gloriaadegboye2186

Жыл бұрын

@@Idkjustyet why did the car’s driver run them over though? It’s a two way street and the responsibility is mostly on the driver.

@chanela.7786

Жыл бұрын

That part. It’s one thing to be tricked and deceived but when we continue to tolerate it we essentially are just allowing it. When someone shows u who u really are u just gotta learn from it

Diddy so LAME to be acting like this at his old age like he’s a college young boy in the dorms. “We go together now?” 🤡🤡I only entertain a man who want to be married and looking for a wife and serious about marriage and family. I’m not looking for even a boyfriend I’m looking for a husband and my life pattern.

@thepurplequeen256

Жыл бұрын

They never change girl. Women have to change and do better to find their worth.

This is sooo true. I used to date a man and he used to embarrass me all the time by not showing up to events that he had agreed to attend . I would always forgive him and let it go when he would come back and give me some attention. I finally learned how to value myself and set standards. When I realized this, I repaid him with the same energy he had given me for years and just ghosted him….no explanation or good bye.

@no-one00

Жыл бұрын

Periodddd

@Mimi-xv6jm

Жыл бұрын

@@nickkuiper32 the problem is that we give men our power in exchange for the hope of a love relationship. And men chose power over a love relationship, that’s where the embarrassment happens. That man might be into you, but he will deliberately trap you into loving him, while he’s doing everything to avoid loving you. Women need to keep their power, and any man who challenges a woman’s power without reciprocal love is not your man.

@allthingsnaija7108

Жыл бұрын

That's the way to go sister...

It's is 💯 accurate, each time you build a man he breaks you. And you will think you're strong but it's not doing you any good, deep down you can feel being drained and dragged into the grave.

@exclusivegemsforbusymother2314

Жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree 👍

I can't help but shake my head at the women who didn't find that life coach's 'love letter' to his fiancé was disrespectful, because I see it LIKE CLOCKWORK- these same women who tolerated their partner undermining them to the world will ABSOLUTELY be undermined by their partner in front of the children they will share. And these same women complain bitterly to no end about how their partner sabotages their ability to properly raise their children as mothers. Marriage does not make men respect you if they did not respect you to begin with.

We should heal our childhood trauma abandonment and rejection so that we stop chasing these guys who don't care and stop being super nice

Also from that man giving back handed compliments, he also posted a video. That he knew his wife wouldn't like. His caption was literally " I know she wont like when I put this out there" Then followed by the video that would make her cringe. A pathetic man. Men will really embarrass you.

@NeemahSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

there is no way😭

@tothemoon5108

Жыл бұрын

that straight up disrespectful. i hope girl ayanfe run as fast as she could!

@swiitdoll

Жыл бұрын

@@tothemoon5108 lol she’s a pick me, she’s going nowhere

@tothemoon5108

Жыл бұрын

@@swiitdoll yea 💀

The answer is to have self worth. When you know your worth, you don’t accept just anything that comes to you. Being single is the most difficult because it’s knowing you deserve & want better than what is being presented to you. Another great video, I was missing your content since your last post! Keep it up, we need these videos in our community. 💗

If my partner said i wasn't the most beautiful nor intelligent i would sooo make him insecure and then leave him Im still watching the video and this is too much already. Why allow that

Spoke life into a man .. first thing I thought of was young Miami’s “go papi” sign 🤦🏽‍♀️ the most

Neemah, you are saying nothing, but the truth, men forget too soon, in short if you are nice they will not even love you. Women should wise up, enough of trash from us ungrateful men.

@spucutasilvia272

Жыл бұрын

Taking notes 📝

@Mimi-xv6jm

Жыл бұрын

There’s nothing wrong with being nice, but niceness doesn’t trump boundaries and standards. Those men are avoiding love, because they want power over your emotions to control you. All that cheating, ghosting, and other bs is to maintain power over you and to devalue your worth. I took this knowledge as a lesson to know my worth and to not compromise my power by maintaining strong boundaries and standards with myself 1st and then with others. I listen and watch them closely, and then act on resolving the red flags; unresolved red flags deserve an ending of a potential relationship.

This video is so necessary. I agree women are socially validated when they have a man..even if it’s a boyfriend. And alot of women eat it up n think they are more valuable than those who don’t. Until they get embarrassed by their man. My cousin for example tried to flex on me after I ended a relationship with a guy I was dating for 4 months. I wasn’t happy with how he was overall treating me so I ended it. My cousin chose this as an opportunity to flex about her man she asked “ oh do you think you having trouble finding a good man because you keep dating foreigners?” (The guy I was dating was Jamaican.) The family is always talking about how good of a man her bf is so she thought this breakup was a good time to boast. So fast forward months later, her man of two years comes on to me..and right infront of her face. She was literally in the same room. She scolds him when I leave. Two weeks later I wake up to 50 Fb notifications from him. Hearting all my pictures from years ago. So I block him & let her know that he’s at it again and send her screen shots incase she doesn’t believe me. All she does is yell at him. And she’s still with him. Now if I come around for any reason he’s not allowed to be in the same room as me. And my brother recently told me her bf hopped in the dms of a friend we all know. She went from bragging to looking stupid in this relationship. a prime example of women mentioned in this video.

@kayb3327

Жыл бұрын

Dating a Jamaican man you have to allow him to cheat they have a wandering eye. Saying this from experience with one for more than a decade, she’s not gonna leave him block him and outta sight outta mind.

@MzBrOdUs18

Жыл бұрын

@@kayb3327 he can do all the cheating he want single cuz I been ended things w him.

@dailyvitamindee1932

Жыл бұрын

Girl I'm Jamaican and I boy they are sugar and salt in one.

A lot of us who “were” in situationshits know exactly what was going to happen to Caresha. That’s how it usually starts SMH

👏👏 very true sis, it's not our job to uplift men we ain't their mama.

Hi neemah! Your videos have been really helping me to navigate life. I am a 19 year old African woman living in totally different country from her family and I can definitely say you are like the big sister I never had. 💓love ya

@NeemahSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

I love you too Jessie🥰 I am happy to hear that my videos have been helping you navigate life! Which African country are you from babes🥺

@Jescha_r

Жыл бұрын

@@NeemahSpeaks I’m Nigerian ! 🇳🇬

@fareenchijo9927

Жыл бұрын

Yes I feel like she's the older sister I never had. I'm 28 the eldest sister of three. So glad I came across your channel. I'm South Sudanese living in Kenya.

@kathyalex778

Жыл бұрын

Hi I’m 19 as well! God bless you

@faxoxo2306

Жыл бұрын

Same here 24 year old African

I honor my commitment to myself 💅

GIRL that Solomon Buchi situation was a hot pile of cow manure.

Ask Irv Gotti's ex wife if marriage matters. He still out here pining over his ex mistress while she's denying ever sleeping with him. They are so embarrassing!! Y'all husbands be out here actively dating!!!

I only settled for you because I couldn't get any better. That's toxic positivity she should go off on him. 🤬😤🤬

@NeemahSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Don't get me started💀

This perspective is necessary. We as women are the selectors for pursuers, we have to select better. We have to require the bare minimum(not tolerate anything less), and not waste extra energy on guys that don’t go above and beyond for us as the relationship develops. He needs to cherish us and make us feel physically and emotionally safe and secure in public and private. As someone who escaped my first situation-ship, never again. Agreed that if a man doesn’t expressly publicly claim you, then you aren’t his girlfriend or wife and shouldn’t perform girlfriend or wife duties. No sleeping over, no cooking for him, no cleaning his place, no kissing him, no extra emotional energy for free. No staying with men(grown boys) who keep you in the girlfriend zone when you want to be in the wife zone. No more “friendships” with men, because it send the message that he has access to you without claiming you. Be friendly to kind men and even flirt with capable ones, but don’t focus your energy on one guy when he hasn’t asked you to. Explore your options ladies. Go on dates, but don’t be the pretend girlfriend. No more chasing men, he either enthusiastically swoops in to claim you, or you let him go, no resentment, no hard feelings.

talk about men embarrasing women, I have true story of mine. lil bit of background me was stupid naive 19 yrs old and the guy was 33 yrs old recently divorced ( i know💆). Also i think god really want to prove me wrong. bcause at that time my mentality was i prefer much older men bcs they usually calmer,wiser etc. but boy how i was wrong. long story short. we hve been going out for quite a while (not dating) more like hangout friends bcs i never want to date him lol. until this one night. we went to a dessert cafe ,he bring me there bcs i said i never go there. we ordered, everything was fine. we talked and suddenly he just laid back crossed his arm and have this holding laugh face. i stopped talking and asked, "why?" he make this hand gestures pointing to his nose (referring to my nose) im kinda blurred at tht time. then he said " your scar" then proceeded to burst out laughing. At that time , I am speechless. felt disrespected. Never in my life EVER any person mentioned about a scar that i have on my nose. and this manwhore right here have the audacity to do that? and for what?? laughing about peoples scar? every scar have a painful background, hence the scarring. I am stunned. Not long after that he confessed that he liked me and i ghosted him. and that what happened when you give poor,old,ugly man a chance! lesson learned.

@canesugar911

Жыл бұрын

He wad negging you. Look up the definition. It's a fascinating concept.

@yabe1496

Жыл бұрын

So good you gosthed him. Im mexican with a skin color like Eva Longoria. I started dating a white mexican guy (one of many) but this guy seems yo be severely disgusted whe in the 2do date I wore a shorts pants "wow, so you are pretty brown". There was no More dates, disgusting. I just love my skin color.

@centykaia4450

Жыл бұрын

@@canesugar911 what is it

@canesugar911

Жыл бұрын

@@centykaia4450 Negging: its an act of emotional manipulation whereby a person makes a deliberate compliment or otherwise flirtatious remarks to another person to undermine their confidence and increase the person's need for the approval of the manipulator.

@centykaia4450

Жыл бұрын

@@canesugar911 I see, thank you I now remember when some guy told me he doesn't like girls who have dimples, and I have a dimple, He said he don't find them pretty Or when I said I liked a specific type of a car he'd say that car is ugly... Thanks for letting me know.

I honor my commitment to myself

@NeemahSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

as you should🥰

I don’t let men post me on social media.I’ll report the post.🤣and I’m definitely not posting you.I keep relationship stuff off social media completely.

@thepurplequeen256

Жыл бұрын

Me too girl, men HATE that I never post them but it keeps them soo desperate. Only my fiance can post me on social meadia the day before the wedding. My other boyfriends cant see that shit 🤣🤣

This woman that Solomon Buchi is engaged to is a typical pickme, she giving him money, attention, love and he is doing the bare minimum to please her 🥺 she is very naive. One day her eyes will open, you can't tell her too much, she is gonna learn her way, in her time. 🎯

@swiitdoll

Жыл бұрын

She’s the starter wife he’s using her.

@canesugar911

Жыл бұрын

Nothing teaches you better than disgrace.

@krixttysimon2705

Жыл бұрын

Cmon.. No body is perfect, you too you are not perfect but you want someone to accept you and your flaws. I feel like we should be decisive in what we hear, see or do. They are both young in their 20’s both 26, he literally put effort on her which we all see, don’t jump into conclusion because you heared something from someone else. If you keep up with this strict mindset you will still end up with a looser my dear. Your only help is God to direct your steps, people pretend and with your standard or not you might still make a mistake or marry in old age so pls y’all calm down

@canesugar911

Жыл бұрын

@@krixttysimon2705 you are on the wrong place my dear. With your mindset you are the one ending up with a loser or you are going to become a married single mother at best. So yeah getting married in old age is not a threat my dear.

@GoaWay...

Жыл бұрын

She's not with him anymore. She left him.

That’s why I stopped posting who was dating on social media. I prefer to take any Ls & embarrassment in SECRET

@NeemahSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Same sis😭 No face no case

Ugh I never even watched the Diddy interview because I was avoiding the second hand embarrassment - it was actually worse that I thought! I don’t feel bad for caresha anymore - she is a willing participant in the foolishness!

It's really confusing why men get pissed off when a lady said they want to be independent and don't need them🤔🤔🤔. But complains and call her a liability and a gold digger if she always depends on him for financial gain, I come across few youtube videos accusing Feminist for thier claims on independency, and that sounds stupid 🤧🤧, I see they wait to hold the power 🤔🤔, so we will depend on them and they get to treat us however they want ( this goes on both gender), but the rate of misogynist men like Kelvin samuel and his goons is quit alarming😌😌😌😌. Love you neemah😘😘, your videos helps and also guard me to become a better version of myself 🥰🥰🥰, thanks for all you've taught me on your platform mentor😌😌😌😌

I honor my commitment to myself. The story time at the end of the video speaks volumes, never believe a man who says he wants this type or kind of woman. They always want the opposite. She was just a placeholder in his life until he got to where he wanted and then he left. I remember Neemah did a video about why "The bitch always gets the ring". I think that's a video a lot of us should rewatch!.

As usual, I wholeheartedly agree 🤎✨Never speak life into a man. They better go seek it in White Zaddy 😭💀 I love your videos and I love you! Since watching I’ve been taking notes and let’s just say, the progress is shining 💎! I honor my commitment to myself 💅🏾!

'Ihunanya m' means 'My love' in the Nigerian Igbo language.

@NeemahSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for letting me know love😭

* I honor my commitment to myself I didn't know about your channel and I have to admit I was just like "Jane" at the end got hurt. It took me 5 years to realize these, 3 years to actually accept and move on. Now I'm single I play around I tell 'em man straight up "you do this I walk" and make sure I keep my word. Everytime I feel lost or stranded I come to your videos sis, I promise u this I come back as bomb. You're the big sis I needed. Thank you for the lessons.

Love is an illusion 👌 Spec means your type/perfect match in Nigeria.

AMEN NEENAH 👏👏

Love your energy. I listen to another KZreadr with similar advise, but I think she’s Gen Y. I’m so thankful that I can live in a time where I can get valuable insight from people of all ages.

You dropped some gems! Let those folks be mad.

Thank you for always giving real advice. I agree with you totally. Half ass compliments and half ass things, don't deserve our attention. Do some women still find that hard to grasp?

@NeemahSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

yes women find that hard to gasp because they believe in "speaking life" and "fixing" grown men

@evewanjiku

Жыл бұрын

@@NeemahSpeaks sound like free labour. Things that don't pay me should not be on my to do list 😊

Love it Neemah!

Love this one... ❤ thank you so much 😊

Amen! Sis preach that word.

@NeemahSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

i had to🙌🏿

@evewanjiku

Жыл бұрын

@@NeemahSpeaks you are a blessing indeed

Amazing video as always

Women and assumptions are in our DNA enjoying ur video from Ghana 🇬🇭

Gurl do I receive this message loud and clear!!!my story is the same as your friend'friend's! He embarrassed me after I poured into him,furnished the house,tried to be better when he was cheating,cleaned,cooked,did everything to save this love for 2 and half years going to 3years of wasted time!!!and moved on to some younger lady and now does the things I always wanted him to do for me so baibe!say no more am taking notes and am a changed woman now!!!

This video was the truth!!!!

Listen, if that Solomon guy really wanted to highlight the fact that relationships shouldn’t or can’t be perfect looks or intelligence wise, he would’ve included his self in the caption. He would’ve said I was not looking for perfection as I’m NOT perfect EITHER. He is a love bomber and really pissed me off, baby girl run ps: she is so pretty I just don’t get why he had to say that

I was just like Jane and my ex-husband treat me the WORST!!! This is so trueeee.

Thank you so much neema for your hard truth 🙏 🙏 ❤ 💓

I generally feel like I don’t want to be single or can’t be single rn. So what I’ve been doing is dating men that I can use or that can bring me peace or benefit me in areas that usually drain me or wet me out for example financially. I have multiple streams of income alone but before I used to feel tired a lot of times like I had to sustain myself, lol it drained me. I do still but I’ve noticed using men helps me a lot. So imagine women bringing men peace. Must be draining. And Yung Miami is popular and Diddy is sucking it from her and embarrassing her. Ew

@vanessadeleon5386

Жыл бұрын

I've been wanting to do the same. But these men always want something in return. Do you say no to a kiss or touching? What are your boundaries and do they accept them while still providing you with something?

@fosthedoll

Жыл бұрын

@@vanessadeleon5386 “a gentleman would definitely have to prove to move that is a provider and consistent before I were to get intimate with him💋” and “I don’t feel comfortable with us kissing just yet I want you to earn it😉”

@fosthedoll

Жыл бұрын

@@vanessadeleon5386 if he doesn’t listen or says that’s not for him then drop him and get another man. Keep your options at least 3 men at a time.

@vanessadeleon5386

Жыл бұрын

@@fosthedoll thank you! I just think I'm not putting myself in the right places to find gentleman.

Neemah this is a great topic

@NeemahSpeaks

Жыл бұрын

Thanks babes🥰

I”HONOR”My Commitment To Myself👑👑👑👑👑👑👑

Young Miami sounds so ghetto and ignorant in her show. I’m sorry but we gotta stop giving everyone platforms. I lost brain cells listening to them speak. 😵‍💫😵‍💫 & Diddy needs to grow up

Selflove is the most important thing ever

🤯🤯🤯 Diddy, embaarrrrassing 😂😂😂

The word "AYANFE" used by solomon buchi means "loved one", in YORUBA language 💖💖💖

Amen babe

I honor my commitment to myself 💯

yeah relationship with men is so romanticized and glamorized as if men are treasures lmao

I hope Jane is ok and in a better mentality and a better relationship now. I really want her to win

I honor my commitment to myself!

That letter was awful. He embarrassed that woman in front of the entire world. She should not marry such a disrespectful man.

Amen 🙏🏾

Your video specially the part of woman lowering their standards reminded me of how is used this "joke" in tv shows or movies where a couple, specifically the wife when a stressful situation comes or when they are relaxing they fantasize with previous couples they had For example in the disney movie "inside out" after the daughter and the dad had an argument the mom decides to space out fantasizing about her sexy latin lover she had in the past and how good her life could have been with him..it was funny to me back then but now when i remember it.. it just clicks? Like its so sad how normalized is in society for married women to fantasize about ex lovers to the point it became a trope

i honor my commitment to myself.

I honor my commitment to myselfff !

Not Solomon buchi 🤣🤣🤣

@shadebabalola2758

Жыл бұрын

Broooooo😂😂😂😂

Amen girl

I honor my commitment to myself

I honour (before ya'll come ,please know that I'm South African and use " u" in words like " colour " , " favour " etc ) my commitment to myself.

Amen, let's stop ladies... It's embarrassingly, embaarrrrassing 😂

I honor my commitment to myself 🥰

No way she went there 😯

“Is I’m fun”’

Sis lost me at “is I’m fun?”.

Damn girl who broke your heart? You are a Proverbs 31 woman. Queen you deserve a happy family and a blessed godly marriage

Hi neema i was with this guy for more than 5 years i am still studying but when i look back i helped him with finance although i got my money back . But i helped him with his company with my time and energy . Today i work for a top level company in my country on the side building my brand. But every time i see him i feel bad for myself for not leaving him on time . I can’t get out of this trap it’s been more then 10 months.

Amen

Wow , he must need new glasses. she is gorgeous!! 😍

I feel inconfortable of the situation that Mr Combs put this lady 😥😥😥😧🤔

My man isn’t the best looking by NO WAY would I ever think to post anything like that!!!

Caresha got a whole a$$ show on Diddys network. And I’m sure he breaking her off career wise.

I HONOR A COMMITMENT TO MYSELF🍯🍯

I believe the male partner of the engaged couple is a coward. He's TRYING to force HER hand to break off the engagement/wedding. Let's hope she redeems her own worth and gives him what he's too cowardly to tell her like an adult - his freedom. There's more to this and if she's crazy to get married anyway, it won't be for very long. Sis is down real bad😞

@thepurplequeen256

Жыл бұрын

No you dont know how bad men are, he wants to put her down even in her engagement day. His goal is to make her feel soo low that in the marriage he can do ANYTHING HE WANTS TO HER.

@beeznhoney4323

Жыл бұрын

@@thepurplequeen256 yes, I'm fully aware how awful some men can be with their motive. Plus, two things can be true at the same time. It's what manipulative narcissist do. If she married him it will be worse. I'm on target and you're on target as well.

Tunakupenda pia

@NeemahSpeaks

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nakupenda dada😀

Hello Neemah, I love you girl, miss you 😘❤️❤️❤️

@NeemahSpeaks

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Love you too Gigi💃🏾

Ewww Solomon did not post that 😣

Spec means what one wants in a partner. Ihunanya m means my love.

Amen 😂🇳🇬

I can’t wow

Please what's a subpar?

Hi Neemah, They're Nigerians, as a Nigerian I'll explain what a spec is... When you ask me what's my spec, you're asking me what kind of man I'm attracted to? So you're asking me what I look for in a man, from the outside appearance to the inward qualities.

Hey amazing video I wanted to know if loyalty matters in a relationship?

@donne32701

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Absolutely

@missminti

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Never be loyal to any man that isn't your husband

@nazmin635

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@@missminti well said :)

I feel most women accept the bare minimum because of the female biologically system. Child birth and so on......