The 6 Habits Of HIGHLY EFFECTIVE People You Can Copy! (CHANGE EVERYTHING) | Brendon Burchard
On Today's Episode:
It’s easy to admire people that have reached extraordinary levels of success, it’s hard to imagine what it takes to get there. Passing off someone’s excellence and success as unattainable for ourselves is a b.s. and it’s not what we’re about at Impact Theory.
Your beliefs are malleable and what you believe about yourself matters. How you decide to live your life and show today matters also and if you’re not happy with the way you show up or how you’re living your life then do something about it.
Brendon Burchard is one of the world’s leading high performance coaches that has impacted and trained millions of people globally. His online personal growth platform is dedicated to teaching people how to bring the joy, live with intention, love the life you live, and matter to yourself and others everyday because you show up to go all-in on whatever you decide.
You’ve heard what it takes to be successful, but very few people share how to get beyond passion and shoot for obsession to attain insane levels of success, but today we are, so let’s go.
SHOW NOTES:
0:00 | Introduction to Brendon Burchard
2:22 | Generate the Energy You Want
10:15 | Raise Necessity with Obsession
15:51 | These 2 Things BUILD Your Identity
26:33 | Build These Skills Achieve More
35:47 | Honor the Struggle to Win
QUOTES:
“If you’re not a fun person when you're broke, you’re not going to be that much more fun when you’re rich.” [4:00]
“High performers are generating the energy, and that means the mental, emotional and physical energy, that they feel is necessary to serve with excellence in a certain situation.” [9:45]
“People don’t want to exude that much passion which becomes obsession because they’re fearful of their obsessions.” [12:36]
“If no one thinks you’re crazy you’re not yet operating to the outer limits of your potential.” [13:43]
“Being obsessed about something that gives you no feedback is not scary, being obsessed about something, like trying to make an impact in the world you’re going to get feedback.” [14:39]
“If you want to win, your identity has to be tied into that thing in which you are trying to succeed at and give to, and that takes a lot of guts to ut yourself all in…” [18:32]
“This is who I’m going to be and I’m going to build into that, and it is necessary for me to become that person.” [26:22]
“High performers are consistently seeking clarity in ‘who do I want to be?’ [...] in every situation.” [31:15]
“I don’t want a friction free life, [...] The journey to greatness begins the moment that our deep desires for comfort and for ease are overpowered by our desires to connect and contribute.” [40:08]
“Determine what the questions at the end of your life are going to be.” [42:49]
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Пікірлер: 116
What is your favorite takeaway from Brendon?
@rogergladei5428
Жыл бұрын
Necessity, as a life driver, which seems not so juicy as e.g. the purpose, but is much more down to earth and valid.
@anshulgajbhiye6883
Жыл бұрын
Obsession
@YSaenz
Жыл бұрын
When you are feeling negative emotions- set the intention of healing/love/growth/peace, see the emotion, acknowledge it and release it because you know it's you trying to serve the best you know how at this moment but knowing and understanding that that is not the way anymore so choosing to release so you can open space for how you truly want to feel, then think of how you want to feel NOW and choose THAT! And let that image of love/joy/success/abundance consume you whole.
@ltskinbarbie7874
Жыл бұрын
Ask your dying questions now and can live intentionally.
@Jenalai
Жыл бұрын
He definitely has passion, but Brendan’s comment of ,“I saw my woman sleeping under the bills”… implies she was a kept woman. Maybe she was. But honestly.. why was she sleeping while you were working your tail off? Is she incapable of getting a job? “My woman”? Really??? Something about that hits me as archaic, and quite frankly the entire discussion was not as genuine as most of the conversations that I have heard on your show. Was Brendon fighting a cold? The whole vibe was off. Cut this clip and re record when you have an authentic vibe:) You are both great, but this was not your best.
“If no one thinks you’re crazy you’re not yet operating to the outer limits of your potential” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
What I love about Brendon is he is SO grounded and humble. A beautiful person who is honest and true. Thanks for having him on!
I did the quick breathing technique he performed and i swear i felt this rush of joy straight away. It's insane how much oxygen affects our entire state of being. Breathing exercises are so vital for mental health whether it's to energize or calm down especially coupled with guided meditation/self-meditation.
His strategy for the suicidal gaining momentum is also true for those recovering from cancer. As a cancer survivor, what radiation and chemo does to the body is brutal. So I posted this note on my refrigerator: Today's #1 Priority: FEEL GOOD. If feeling bad, then today's #1 priority is to feel better! "This is the day the Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it." Psalms 118:24 That helped me get through my recovery. I stayed positive in my thoughts during and post the cancer ordeal.
Brendon, thank you for bringing attention to and explaining how people with depression or who feel stuck can struggle just to do the “simple” things each day. Breaking out of it is so hard.
Brendon is one of the key people who've influenced my life in a tremendous way. Happy to see him on again for another interview with you.
The title reminded me of Stephen E. Covey’s ‘7 Habits of highly effective people’ . Great interview as alway Tom, I listen to your stuff daily in efforts to rewire my thinking. You and your wife have truly had an Impact on my life and my husbands as well. We appreciate all you do! 🙌🏻
HOURS, literally hours before I saw this video, I told myself it was time to claim the title "writer". I quit my career in the veterinary industry with just hope, passion, and a growth mindset. This video came at the perfect time. Thank you!
@g-movies7375
Жыл бұрын
I'm a writer and it's one of the most challenging careers, but if you have passion and perseverance you'll get there. Just make sure to write every single day!
@writethroughtheheart
Жыл бұрын
@@g-movies7375 Thank you! Already landed a job writing blogs for a marketing company, just one a week for now, but it's a start. It can be hard to get my ass in the chair sometimes, but I'm committed to making this a full-time dream come true.
@igorschimidt1985
Жыл бұрын
@@writethroughtheheart Can you tell how you landed the gig? Cold email?
@writethroughtheheart
Жыл бұрын
@@igorschimidt1985 A bit of luck, as my sister got me a call with her boss who runs a marketing agency. But I also have a portfolio of writing that I've done for fun, as well as the social media posts I've created for the veterinary hospitals I've worked for in the past. I was honest about my experience and told him about the various courses I'm currently taking on Skillshare and Coursera. He said he'd give me a shot and so far it's working out great for both of us.
@igorschimidt1985
Жыл бұрын
@@writethroughtheheart Congrats, that's awesome! Any specific courses there that you'd recommend? Or any other helpful resource for a new freelance writer?
"Learning is the ultimate lever to levelling up". 💯💯💯💯💯
You matter intrinsically. You don’t need to have, be, or know Impact theory any “philosophy” to feel that you matter. From there creating is easy
Love you guys, thanks for a great motivational talk!
Loved that ending. Great answer, and food for thought 🙏🏽
You just provided a spark that I've been needing. Thank you 🙏
Grateful for your wisdom and eloquence. Fantastic messages.
What a awesome awesome interview ... This interview is golden ...
One Love! Always forward, never ever backward!! ☀☀☀ 💚💛❤
thank you for this! i love brendon, have had his book high performance habits for years💜
Just to pick one (out of many great takeaways in this episode), I would pick the idea/ reminder of "what critical skills do I need to develop". Thanks for another great episode! 👍🙏
Man i have to pause and think in every major point and see how it's connected with my life. Very impactful
I don’t know how I found this but it is incredible. It’s already unlocked some boxes.
*MUST READ FOR EVERYONE* I started this channel 2020 but it got to a point i got tired and quit because I thought growing Channel would be so easy but now i realized i need to keep onto it and to create a very good CONTENT that you will benefited from and i also realized that *SUCCESS TAKE TIME and to NEVER GIVER UP ON THE PURSUIT OF ONES DREAM* so am back fully now with high determination, persistence and relentlessness. So my aim of telling you this story is to let you know that *SUCCESS TAKE TIME AND TO NEVER GIVE UP ON THE PURSUIT OF YOUR DREAM* I Love You 💗
5 minutes in and for me probably the best episode ever.
Oh I love this guy!
Thank you🙏
'Feedback' explanation was so on point! 🔥
powerful, thank you both
Great video, thanks to the both of you 😊
We forget that therapy is expensive ...so for those of us struggling with motivation and depression following a huge financial disaster, for whatever reason, the thought of that, is just another shovel.... Im learning to cope after our business took a dive in Nov 2019, while relocating our Saab shop after 20yrs, our moving truck stolen, lost all physical business assets, employees tools and equipment and eventually the $100k+ claim during covid, after 2 exhausting years of, fighting with city, and everything it takes to move 20yrs of 7ksf mostly solo, then 2020-22 ....im burnt out, like alot of us, effects private life, my relationship, etc... and now my wife's company is tanking fast... talking to strangers helps!!! Free therapy...
I can feel Brandons Emotion at 25:07. Now what I am going to say might sound like a joke but its not. My problem is nobody is suffering in my family because of my failures. How is it so? I am not going to reveal. But because I don't feel the pain that Brandon felt..........my "Why" is all messed up.
@Kevin-kj5th
Жыл бұрын
Framing is very important to move ourselves forward I noticed. Instead of using purpose like most do as a frame of reference the other day I thought of the word duty. It’s my duty to take care of myself and do x. Maybe this framing will help you
I would really like to hear about those six habits
Excellent 🙏🏻🌹✨
It is not who you are, it is what you do.
Amazing
Energizer 👍👍👍
Awesome :)
Thanks
I am curious about this guy’s diet. He doesnt age. He looks like that since i was a student!!
@nocando89
Жыл бұрын
Yep.. you're right! I'm guessing he must have at least 1 KZread video on his personal routine, but who knows?
Which book of Brendans was tom referring to
Two GREATS...💝
“It's never the circumstances that determine success in life but what you DO with the current bad circumstances that determines your success in life.” - Dani Johnson. Incredible person reading this, have an awesome day! I believe in you! Love ~ Nat ✨❤️
You can almost feel the emotion Brendon was having when he talked about seeing his wife in pain at 25:02, making him work so much harder. Very inspiring.
Interesting
this is great I love Brendon, i mean im not saying something new, but his energy, damn! i rememeber reading HPH a few years ago, well actually i never finished it, you know lack of discipline, so this workshop comes so in handy (for many im sure) thanks so much Tom, you the man :)
@yasminb2817
Жыл бұрын
@Whatsapp±1707𝟼𝟹𝟸𝟷𝟹51 Tom Bilyeu sure pal ;)
what is the title the aforementioned book?
#Legends
Can anybody guide me to the video "How to come back from being dead broke" that Tom mentions at 26:40?
@samrat447
Жыл бұрын
Well looks like I found it but I would like to confirm so any help is appreciated.
That was a great conversation , thank you so much Tom🙏
What takes 7 days? 🤔
@callmeqi
Жыл бұрын
I was wondering about that too 😅
This is a reposted (and slightly edited) video from 4 years ago (kzread.info/dash/bejne/p5uIl7ikds-aiNI.html&ab_channel=TomBilyeu)
Interesting he’s got the same breathing technique as Wim
Incredible. Thank you so much for sharing these conversations. I'm enlightened.
“ A lot of people don’t do the work because they don’t believe the outcome.” Brilliant. Thank you.
@dabulls1g
Жыл бұрын
@Whatsapp±1707𝟼𝟹𝟸𝟷𝟹51 Tom Bilyeu I’ll send you 1 million dollars, message me right away
@jordonschwedas4621
Жыл бұрын
I struggle with this. What did you talk with him about Tom ?
Hey Tom, i know you compete with garyvee in your head probably all the time, i just want to say that you already won because people like people that listen to others not that have everything figure it out. Peace.
Give out good energy to the world and good energy will inevitably flow back to you :)
Wrong. I am a joyous person but when I could not feed my child, I lost my sense of humour. I did not care for others' jokes, neither could I generate any. I did not care about anything but how to earn the money to feed me and my kid and pay for the school, flat and essentials. When I got more money, I felt more relaxed. I exhaled. The pressure was off. I did not feel guilt. And I could laugh again. My energy became light again.
@kennethhall9202
Жыл бұрын
Bless you money worries is a big stress I am feeling it but I am starting to manifest more money more business to lead a more relaxed life !!
@kennethhall9202
Жыл бұрын
Please remember their are social services for food insecurity food banks food stamps ebt you can apply over the phone for emergency food needs it’s their and nothing to be embarrassed about 😘
The journey to greatness begins the moment our deep desires for comfort and ease are OVERPOWERED by our desires to connect and contribute. WHAT A QUOTE!
I'm so happy to see 2 people I've admired for a long time having a great conversation.
First few minutes: blowing smoke up each other’s backside. Yeah, turned-off right there.
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Жыл бұрын
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Жыл бұрын
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Жыл бұрын
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Жыл бұрын
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Жыл бұрын
How can I get in touch with her I’m in need of her assistance
Instead of this kind of fodder can we get a video on resources , business planning, resume making, small business resources ect?
@nocando89
Жыл бұрын
I agree...
you look tired tom!
Nah. You lost me at full body patting.