The #1 Cure for Your Broken Heart - Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy

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I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had.
If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my normal self. When you’re feeling that pain of losing someone, food doesn’t taste good. TV shows depress you. Your favourite places feel cursed because they bring back bittersweet memories. Life feels like white noise, and your every waking moment goes back to that feeling of loss and pain.
We’ve all been there, right? But there is a secret to emotionally recovering from a breakup, one that is shockingly simple but so crucial that if you forget to do it, you will inadvertently DOUBLE the amount of time it takes to get over your ex. See, most of us make bad decisions in a breakup. We drink to numb the pain, we have one-night stands with people we don’t care about, or we eat ourselves into oblivion with junk food.
It sucks now, I know. But it will get better, trust me....
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  • @theabyssofthoughts
    @theabyssofthoughts5 жыл бұрын

    Who else Is watching with a heavy heart

  • @The_uCe_

    @The_uCe_

    5 жыл бұрын

    I don't even have an appetite.

  • @ju3782

    @ju3782

    5 жыл бұрын

    Im crying while watching

  • @annamariecaro1476

    @annamariecaro1476

    5 жыл бұрын

    me :(((

  • @realynigana7376

    @realynigana7376

    5 жыл бұрын

    Cant eat..just happened yesterday

  • @bluefish752

    @bluefish752

    5 жыл бұрын

    Realyn Igana Same here,I guess we just have to be strong and accept the truth.im still heartbroken and can’t get over her since last month.

  • @kevinhopraah1844
    @kevinhopraah18443 жыл бұрын

    Got my heart crushed 2 days ago, Never felt this type of pain before. Please pray for me

  • @teamnodoyuna8826

    @teamnodoyuna8826

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sorry to heard that..I'm hurting too. It feels horrible. Now she found another guy...

  • @itscandelight1766

    @itscandelight1766

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@teamnodoyuna8826 trust me he is very perfect at reuniting broken relationship I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster okay

  • @teamnodoyuna8826

    @teamnodoyuna8826

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@itscandelight1766 shut up please, I don't want her back..

  • @itscandelight1766

    @itscandelight1766

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Kimberley hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay

  • @teamnodoyuna8826

    @teamnodoyuna8826

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Kimberley welcome to the club..I hope you don't get depression and anxiety like me and some people do..

  • @brobs0463
    @brobs0463 Жыл бұрын

    One day you’ll get up, brush your teeth, eat breakfast and go about your day. Then you’ll realise you haven’t thought about them once. Then you know you can start to forget

  • @khimmybee322

    @khimmybee322

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes.. eventually... Time heals everything.

  • @sagivijayaramaraju1153

    @sagivijayaramaraju1153

    Жыл бұрын

    Then you Better Call Saul

  • @brobs0463

    @brobs0463

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sagivijayaramaraju1153 🙂

  • @sharkglizzy

    @sharkglizzy

    Жыл бұрын

    💔💔💔💔💔

  • @SMILY5200

    @SMILY5200

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so broken 💔 😞 😢

  • @mvn_dn
    @mvn_dn Жыл бұрын

    Hi, if you’re reading this please know that the pain is temporary. I love you, keep going.

  • @roisintelaso8353

    @roisintelaso8353

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you ❤

  • @Tina-ez4xi

    @Tina-ez4xi

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @guptahaha

    @guptahaha

    10 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much :')

  • @jonathanacolon2012

    @jonathanacolon2012

    10 ай бұрын

    It's not always temporary, people hope that its temporary, just like one hopes that they'll come back with a clean bill of health after a check up and in many cases they do, but in many cases they don't. The reality of the situation it is either temporary, and if it isn't you're going to have to live with and it might never go away, but you're still going to have to live with it even if it doesn't.

  • @VirgoQveen

    @VirgoQveen

    6 ай бұрын

    thank you 😢💔💔this hurts

  • @itsjustyana6323
    @itsjustyana63233 жыл бұрын

    The worst kind of heartbreak is when you’re in love with the person to the fullest.

  • @heatherdenise4022

    @heatherdenise4022

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello friend

  • @heatherdenise4022

    @heatherdenise4022

    3 жыл бұрын

    Do you need help to get your soulmate back?

  • @heatherdenise4022

    @heatherdenise4022

    3 жыл бұрын

    I recommend you to a powerful relationship restorer who helped me get my soulmate back when he broke up with me

  • @heatherdenise4022

    @heatherdenise4022

    3 жыл бұрын

    Chat him on his WhatsApp number below 👇 for help. He will help you too

  • @shreeshchhabbi

    @shreeshchhabbi

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree man.

  • @lianbiss8247
    @lianbiss82474 жыл бұрын

    The hardest part of being heart broken is that, he is happy and you're struggling on how to move on.

  • @charlene1264

    @charlene1264

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lian Biss true. That is where i am

  • @lianbiss8247

    @lianbiss8247

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@charlene1264 sorry bout that. Moving on is a process. The longer the process is depends in your personality and environment

  • @iEatGophers

    @iEatGophers

    4 жыл бұрын

    She*

  • @heatherhaddon1171

    @heatherhaddon1171

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been there since this time last year. He was IT for me. The minute I saw him. Talked to him. DONE. I felt it in my gut. I tried for 5 years I don’t think he really did ever love me and that’s what really hurts. I was doing ok for a little bit but In December we lost a very mutual friend. We I saw him I collapsed in his arms. He held me both of us crying. Then here walks over his new girlfriend that I sorta new about from Facebook but that’s when I knew it was real. She had already moved In his house. In less then one year he moved on to a girl( with zero personality I may add but it’s true I’m sorry ) he gave her one of his vehicles ( bc apparently she did not have one ) and let her and her 3 children move in his house. Its sad It’s embarrassing. It’s heartbreaking it’s lonely. It’s ultimate depression. And now a year later when I sit home alone and she has him I can’t stop my mind or tears. My heart hurts so bad physically from all this it may actually be broken permanently this time.

  • @ja-nice

    @ja-nice

    4 жыл бұрын

    It hurts like shit

  • @itsmahsa2541
    @itsmahsa25412 жыл бұрын

    I feel so broken and alone. I keep crying at random moments, in random places like on the train or at work. I was the one who ended things, because I realised I deserve to be with someone who truly loves and appreciates me and my ex wasn’t like that. It still hurts like hell though, and I don’t remember the last time that life was so much of a struggle. I wish I could give all you heartbroken people a hug and tell you you’re not alone.

  • @Clouttokens731

    @Clouttokens731

    Жыл бұрын

    Worst feeling when you have to leave , I left my ex to for the same reason . It hurts because you still love them but you know it won’t work . Stay strong

  • @juliah5760

    @juliah5760

    Жыл бұрын

    him n i agreed to end things because i deserved more and he wanted to experience more than being tied down. I can’t sleep, can’t get up, cry at random, and can’t think of what’s past this. My first semester is just starting and we broke up the day before my 18th birthday, on our anniversary. I wish he came to me sooner and we could’ve worked on things. I tried really really hard. He’s been pulling away since april and i’ve been trying to have open communication to work on this pulling away. We planned our futures together, we planned to grow old together. I still love him and will always love him. but he wants to be friends but he’s also not talked to me since. my heart yearns for my baby again :((

  • @jentistaa2854

    @jentistaa2854

    Жыл бұрын

    Howre u now?

  • @andrea23849

    @andrea23849

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m going through the same thing right now. It’s hard to let go of someone especially when you still love them. But the relationship became toxic. And I don’t think we can move forward with our goals if we’re together.

  • @destined8949

    @destined8949

    Жыл бұрын

    Need s hug m husband cheated on m n m daughter is 2 months old

  • @haruka5167
    @haruka51672 ай бұрын

    i love this comment section, we’re all in this together guys

  • @henrietta859
    @henrietta8593 жыл бұрын

    The pain you are all feeling cannot compare to the joy that is coming.

  • @lizhay1232

    @lizhay1232

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can’t see that

  • @blakstallion3

    @blakstallion3

    3 жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @zainabkuluthum1892

    @zainabkuluthum1892

    3 жыл бұрын

    I wish oooh God help thru t my mind z so far failing to 4get him

  • @zainajenkins

    @zainajenkins

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! A lovely reminder I keep telling myself.

  • @robertlee8400

    @robertlee8400

    3 жыл бұрын

    Henrietta Nwokocha that’s bullshit I’ve been waiting 17 years & bad shit keeps happening to me .

  • @MissJenniferSolo
    @MissJenniferSolo4 жыл бұрын

    Who else is heartbroken in April 2020, right during the Corona crisis 😢

  • @avitalakerman5370

    @avitalakerman5370

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me today... It's hard but we Will be ok

  • @dahianmarie8032

    @dahianmarie8032

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me ik it’s hard and painful we’ll get better. And we have so much time to think bc of quarantine 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @avitalakerman5370

    @avitalakerman5370

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@dahianmarie8032 yeah it's the hard part. I hope you're ok

  • @dahianmarie8032

    @dahianmarie8032

    4 жыл бұрын

    Avital Akerman I’m hanging in there

  • @carmen8685

    @carmen8685

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yep, working hard on snapping back to myself.

  • @baa8104
    @baa8104 Жыл бұрын

    I’m not okay right now, I leave this message hoping one day I come back and say I’m myself once again.

  • @fortisconcierge3542

    @fortisconcierge3542

    Жыл бұрын

    Mate hope you’ll be better.

  • @Doseohnehose

    @Doseohnehose

    Жыл бұрын

    You will!

  • @chillingwithtice7709

    @chillingwithtice7709

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope so too🤞🏽

  • @lucypeezy7377

    @lucypeezy7377

    Жыл бұрын

    Let’s just hope you never come back to this comment because you’ll be so healed and happy in your life that you’ll never have to remember or listen to this video again.

  • @iPostiPodiEatiYuri

    @iPostiPodiEatiYuri

    Жыл бұрын

    you better now?

  • @minelabsryan4485
    @minelabsryan4485 Жыл бұрын

    I just discovered my ex is already dating after a month of our break up, we dated for over a year and it makes me feel unwanted or useless when she just forgot about me like that. This truly is one of the most intense pains I have felt in my life, I will pray for everybody who got their hearts broken and felt useless because of it. Stay strong and keep moving, even though I feel like crap now, I know someday I’ll be with someone who loves me for me.

  • @veronica587

    @veronica587

    Жыл бұрын

    When things happen like this it just puts you in the position to know what is not for you. Honestly fake people move on real fast. They have no remorse whatsoever for their actions and you just wonder how you fell in love in the first place! Take heart. Sending you lots of love!

  • @latchkeykidd1415

    @latchkeykidd1415

    Жыл бұрын

    Same thing happened to me. Within a month someone from her past happened to come back. They were talking about kids and everything. We were together for 6 yes. I feel your pain 1,000,000,000%. Hope you're doing better my friend 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @badlander6369

    @badlander6369

    Жыл бұрын

    My Ex Wife rebounded with someone else while I decided to be alone until I felt better. Stay strong.

  • @Matalinoako90914

    @Matalinoako90914

    Жыл бұрын

    that's rebound don't panic, love yourself first don't think that you are shit because of you think that she moved that easily. Go to the GYM and we will make it bruh.

  • @caesarsun82

    @caesarsun82

    Жыл бұрын

    same here mate, 5 months was getting into it, with the normal unsecurities at first, but then, she dumped me and 3 weeks after when I asked if she could feel again the same, she just replied things have changed, I am.with someone else. God, feel most useless thing alive, unable to enjoy company, family or friends focus at work just take some drugs to sleep and hope another day goes on ...

  • @mylasaldasal9029
    @mylasaldasal90295 жыл бұрын

    He didn't deserve the love I had for him but I also don't deserve to be hurt like this. Lord, please heal us who are heartbroken. 💔🙏

  • @DSEEUtkarshSinghParihar

    @DSEEUtkarshSinghParihar

    5 жыл бұрын

    You'll not be healed, you'll be renewed 😎Just wait n see😎. I'm also like you😂🤦.Just wait, eventually everyone will get their answers😎❣️

  • @mylasaldasal9029

    @mylasaldasal9029

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@DSEEUtkarshSinghParihar yeah you're right. Thanks. I know it gets better in time. I am helping myself get through the pain and heartache. I am almost okay.

  • @DSEEUtkarshSinghParihar

    @DSEEUtkarshSinghParihar

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@mylasaldasal9029 thats very great ❣️

  • @DSEEUtkarshSinghParihar

    @DSEEUtkarshSinghParihar

    5 жыл бұрын

    @ahmed hakeem it'll heal buddy.time heals everything.i know you feel like its end of everything but its not,we all think this way.You'll heal just like everyone else.face everything fearlessly.😎

  • @mylasaldasal9029

    @mylasaldasal9029

    5 жыл бұрын

    @ahmed hakeem I feel you.yeah every heartbroken person has to go through this. We try to fake everything to ourselves to let everyone see that we are not that affected. But deep inside, it's the opposite. We suffer. Not only can time heal but I guess distance too.

  • @gabbynichelle123
    @gabbynichelle1236 жыл бұрын

    Whoever is reading this, lets fight okay?;) we can get thru this painful heartbreak! We can do this. And we deserve better!

  • @michelleward1991

    @michelleward1991

    5 жыл бұрын

    gabbygsh you are right. We deserve better.

  • @b063

    @b063

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @lukegravity3911

    @lukegravity3911

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes we can

  • @dorisbota8941

    @dorisbota8941

    5 жыл бұрын

    gabbygsh thank you for the psyche..we in this together

  • @yohanan3821

    @yohanan3821

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh gosh mate, thank you so much! You made my morning with your comment! Love to all of you, keep going strong

  • @kathymaxted6151
    @kathymaxted6151 Жыл бұрын

    It's this sorrow of not being able to be with someone you had such deep feelings for

  • @nuckle5525

    @nuckle5525

    Жыл бұрын

    It is I know exactly how you feel it's hard to let go !

  • @alanchang5037
    @alanchang5037 Жыл бұрын

    My heart is like aching at random moments and it hurts so much

  • @eynnieboo

    @eynnieboo

    Жыл бұрын

    I get this )): its been a month for me and it feels exactly what u said but im getting better

  • @arisha473

    @arisha473

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel you, I really do. The amount of pain it takes to let go of someone you loved so much is horrifying and potentially one of the worst feeling ever but we got this. The first step to letting go is realizing that you have to let go, we got this

  • @Ropeadopeya
    @Ropeadopeya7 жыл бұрын

    Time. You will not care eventually. Trust me.

  • @maloufrancisco2744

    @maloufrancisco2744

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ben Alexander i hope so

  • @darylrenceramil6626

    @darylrenceramil6626

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ben Alexander i hope so.

  • @sarahquijano1063

    @sarahquijano1063

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ben Alexander I wish I could finally say those words.

  • @Ropeadopeya

    @Ropeadopeya

    7 жыл бұрын

    How long has it been?

  • @sarahquijano1063

    @sarahquijano1063

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ben Alexander 1 year and counting

  • @KarluxASMR
    @KarluxASMR5 жыл бұрын

    *My heart is more than broken.* I wish I have never met that person.

  • @dynastyj1152

    @dynastyj1152

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @holywhitelie5545

    @holywhitelie5545

    5 жыл бұрын

    I feel you bro like dead ass

  • @kimberlygipson7856

    @kimberlygipson7856

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @jamaladem9945

    @jamaladem9945

    5 жыл бұрын

    Omg iam dying

  • @rafiashraf2769

    @rafiashraf2769

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank god we did. Coz now we know what we don’t want. Now we know the red flags. And now we can help others going through the same thing. They were a mistake, but your breakup was a blessing. Never forget that. Don’t get me wrong. It hurts so much, yes. But the more it hurts you, the happier you should be. Coz that means you loved them. You’re loyal at heart. And if they’re not here for you anymore, that just means they don’t deserve that. Period. So don’t worry. This just means one day you’ll meet someone who’ll match your love and dedication. Chins up 💪🏽

  • @skeleton599
    @skeleton5999 ай бұрын

    Honestly, when i was going through heart break, i genuinely believed it was never going to get better and that i’ll always miss them, turns out that wasn’t true, time truly does heal

  • @lilianajohn4173

    @lilianajohn4173

    3 ай бұрын

    ❤true

  • @SugarPlumFairy9
    @SugarPlumFairy9 Жыл бұрын

    It's been two months and it feels like my heart is literally shattered to pieces. Whenever I remember of him (almost all the time) I cry until I throw up. I'm crying right now. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I miss him every second of every day. I've been having panic attacks lately and it's getting worse. I can't express how much I love him still. He means the world to me. So if you're going through this, just know that you are not alone. Hopefully everyone will heal. Sending you hugs and stay strong!

  • @RazzorTM

    @RazzorTM

    Жыл бұрын

    Hope you are better! I d like to see how things are going now. Take care of yourself

  • @ixsane4100

    @ixsane4100

    Жыл бұрын

    how are you doing now?

  • @SugarPlumFairy9

    @SugarPlumFairy9

    Жыл бұрын

    @@RazzorTM thank you! I'm not better, but I try to distract myself. I go to the gym, I go to interviews and try to find a better job... Otherwise I'd go crazy. Take care! :)

  • @SugarPlumFairy9

    @SugarPlumFairy9

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ixsane4100 just trying not to think about him, although it's very difficult. But I try to focus on myself, as much as possible:)

  • @SugarPlumFairy9

    @SugarPlumFairy9

    Жыл бұрын

    I actually have an interview for a job tomorrow. I just found out and I'm really excited about it :D

  • @jennifer8929
    @jennifer89293 жыл бұрын

    The hardest part is loving someone who you know deep down inside isn’t meant for you. I think our ego takes control.

  • @sophiamick1145

    @sophiamick1145

    3 жыл бұрын

    My dear I can recommend to the powerful man who once help me get back my love in 3days

  • @sophiamick1145

    @sophiamick1145

    3 жыл бұрын

    He is really powerful and he can help you

  • @sophiamick1145

    @sophiamick1145

    3 жыл бұрын

    Text him on WhatsApp now for hwlp

  • @lexizhu3407

    @lexizhu3407

    3 жыл бұрын

    What if deep down knowing he is meant for you

  • @diegogarcia8863

    @diegogarcia8863

    3 жыл бұрын

    My ego took control Jennifer , it was the best fairy tale it was the best love and yes both sides want it the same but when there is family that comes between and one have to choose between me and her family everything changed and I wasn’t going to fight for the 6 time all I want is her to be happy.....

  • @zac-tactical7625
    @zac-tactical76255 жыл бұрын

    2 years together and it's all gone. I need virtual huggs from you people...

  • @lilhumblebee

    @lilhumblebee

    5 жыл бұрын

    ZAC-TACTICAL sending you hugs. You will get through this! Remember that

  • @zac-tactical7625

    @zac-tactical7625

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@lilhumblebee thank you

  • @beautycurlqueen

    @beautycurlqueen

    5 жыл бұрын

    Almost 3 years and its all gone..

  • @victoriahouse5908

    @victoriahouse5908

    5 жыл бұрын

    🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @Sandhu3230

    @Sandhu3230

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same here bud. One day, it’s like I don’t love you anymore, i have feelings for someone else. And it’s all my fault too. Lol. Crying myself to sleep every night. Why? Why? Just keeps drowning me deeper and deeper. And she doesn’t even care.

  • @angelavalos4499
    @angelavalos4499 Жыл бұрын

    My wife of 7 years doesn't love me anymore and left me. I shared my best memories with her and did so many things for the first time with her. My bond is so strong and i just feel dead inside and don't have anything to distract me or anyone to talk to. I sit and think of memories and I can't stop it. I've gone through this many times but this time as I'm an adult it's so hard to even smile and say I'm fine. To anyone that's going through heartbreak your not alone be strong with me and well learn to live again.

  • @badlander6369

    @badlander6369

    Жыл бұрын

    I am in the same boat. I work out 4-5 times a week, get on the treadmill 4 days a week, go to church on Sunday, eat right. It's been 5 months (after 15 years together) and I feel better and look better. Not saying it's easy but it gets better.

  • @divorcejournal7961

    @divorcejournal7961

    Жыл бұрын

    @@badlander6369 happy to hear it gets better, it just feels like the pain will never go away. One week in and all I want to do is to forget. 20 years of marriage.

  • @badlander6369

    @badlander6369

    Жыл бұрын

    @@divorcejournal7961 Keep watching Michael Hussey's videos. Focus on taking good care of yourself. Like I said, eat well, exercise, go to church. Buy some new clothes. Find a new hobby. It all adds up to a new you.

  • @RoyalGeeker

    @RoyalGeeker

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey brother, I'm right there with you. This type of pain is different and unbearable especially during a separation with them and you haven't moved out just yet.

  • @latinaalma1947

    @latinaalma1947

    Жыл бұрын

    I lost my mate to death four mos ago. I have an otherwise good life in a lovely place and am financially secure but he was everything to me...for decades. I dont know if I will ever feel SINGLE again. I am not a young woman but men often say to me including today "beautiful" as they come towards me on the street. These are men of a certain age, the appropriate age for me, yet I never see anyone who attracts ME. Im not ready for a relationship...conversations yes, but as I say, no one moves me. It is like I died too. No one is asking me out, so I must be giving off unapproachable vibes. I am socializing but with married friends..,couples over the holidays. The funny thing is I approached HIM all those years ago and we hit it off and were an item right away and we were always great together. I'm a very positive and otherwise happy person, but I really, really feel lost..not like I only lost HIM, but myself as well. And the really odd thing is I am a professor of clinical psychology and have worked with many people in my exact situation. I am using all the insight and advice on myself. I know I will be in a better place psychologically a year from now, but right now is awful.

  • @mrfox5165
    @mrfox51652 жыл бұрын

    To whoever is going through this...I swear you will overcome this pain. I had the worst anxiety and panic attacks and my heart was on auto pilot I had zero control over my anxiety I could be in a room full of people but felt so lonely and was scared to be alone. But honestly what helped me was going to the gym and working out (focusing on a goal is a brilliant idea, find something with purpose and will make you feel good) I am now in the best shape of my life and I feel good about myself. there is no easy fix all I can say is, in time the pain will pass and you will regain control over your heart but you just got to be patient. Honestly I honestly wish I could take away that feeling from you, it's the WORST!!! But Inn Shaa Allah you will be fine ❤

  • @webeforyou

    @webeforyou

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your postive words ...wish i could chat with you ?

  • @zt7564

    @zt7564

    Жыл бұрын

    InshAllah . I’m finding comfort in religion.

  • @thedev8980

    @thedev8980

    Жыл бұрын

    My gf just broke up with me and I need this thank you :)

  • @madipennington6457

    @madipennington6457

    Жыл бұрын

    going through a bad heartbreak and relate to this so much, thank you❤️

  • @mrfox5165

    @mrfox5165

    Жыл бұрын

    @@madipennington6457 It is rough as shit right now but honestly I promise you it will get better in *TIME*. Just navigate yourself and surf 🏄‍♂️ 🌊 this Ginormous wave and *YOU WILL* come out stronger for it you will see. And *WHEN YOU DO* please message me so I know you made it through the storm. *Luv YOU Buddy* 😊❤

  • @jazzkaur8284
    @jazzkaur82845 жыл бұрын

    Heartbreak is the hardest but we must move on... Life goes on. There is no point wanting someone who doesn't want u.

  • @Ohkeh640

    @Ohkeh640

    5 жыл бұрын

    Glitz Glam this is so trueeeeeee

  • @andrewngoma4006

    @andrewngoma4006

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wish it was that easy

  • @ofeliabautista4520

    @ofeliabautista4520

    5 жыл бұрын

    Glitz Glam its hurts to hear the truth but your right

  • @louieray1027

    @louieray1027

    5 жыл бұрын

    Glitz Glam thank you

  • @lex1223

    @lex1223

    5 жыл бұрын

    amen

  • @TheJaafar1
    @TheJaafar15 жыл бұрын

    when you cant even focus on the video because u think of her

  • @randlebuckets9036

    @randlebuckets9036

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jaafar Bousserra that’s really true for real man

  • @shashashahminan420

    @shashashahminan420

    5 жыл бұрын

    Or him. 😢

  • @nhanguyen3136

    @nhanguyen3136

    5 жыл бұрын

    That is so sad

  • @jaysilver5957

    @jaysilver5957

    5 жыл бұрын

    I felt this 😭 we have a son together so I took her back after the first break up, after 13months back together she decided to leave me once again after promising she wouldn’t again

  • @squadbnk7896

    @squadbnk7896

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thats fucking sad man. I'm still hurt.

  • @facepalmjesus1608
    @facepalmjesus16082 жыл бұрын

    there is no greater pain than remembering happiness in a time of misery

  • @thecakefather
    @thecakefather2 жыл бұрын

    I’m hoping this helps someone out there going through a horrible breakup. I know you’re feeling like it’s the end of the world or that someone died. But trust me!!!!!! Had I not gone through it once I would’ve never met the woman and companion of my dreams. We’ve Ben together 23 years and I’m still in love today like I was 23 years ago. In fact we just both retired and are more in love than ever. I say this to say, you never know what’s around the corner and when that someone will change the way you see life.

  • @jessiej6715

    @jessiej6715

    2 жыл бұрын

    He was the one around the corner...

  • @latinaalma1947

    @latinaalma1947

    Жыл бұрын

    How beautiful...I was a young widow when I met him and now HE too has died...life is so unfair...I envy people who never lose a love to death amd to have it happen twice in one lifetime seems so unfair, but we had decades together. I am SO grateful. I COULD have been alone all this time instead of with him. I tell myself this all the time trying to make myself feel better...I AM grateful, but I dont feel better.

  • @thecakefather

    @thecakefather

    Жыл бұрын

    Big hug

  • @thecakefather

    @thecakefather

    Жыл бұрын

    Big hug

  • @thecakefather

    @thecakefather

    Жыл бұрын

    Big hug

  • @raymondbaariu5697
    @raymondbaariu56973 жыл бұрын

    Its hard to forget someone you thought (and planned) you would spend the rest of lives together.

  • @AmiraMira-ku8yv

    @AmiraMira-ku8yv

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agree

  • @cliann2453

    @cliann2453

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s true.

  • @daniella1439

    @daniella1439

    3 жыл бұрын

    So hard and they told you that they loved you and want to spend the rest of their life with you, it really hurts so bad

  • @francesmayfulay99

    @francesmayfulay99

    3 жыл бұрын

    Enjoy being single

  • @janelbelarmino2784

    @janelbelarmino2784

    3 жыл бұрын

    😔

  • @shreenjandutta
    @shreenjandutta Жыл бұрын

    To all my heartbroken people out here, Let's give each other a tight hug and tell ourselves it'll be alright 🫂 Maybe not today, but it'll for sure even though it doesn't feel like it right now. Gratitude 🙏

  • @citichic2311

    @citichic2311

    4 ай бұрын

    Very true 😊

  • @97LovelyBabe
    @97LovelyBabe Жыл бұрын

    This video is GOLD . I have used this technique . I did EXACTLY what he said . I still cried but I changed for the better . I’ve done many new things . I went bar hopping something that i’ve never done . I change my hair , something I’ve always wanted to do . I started to lose weight . I have started changing my ways for the better. I did all of this while doing no contact . after 10 whole months , he came back . He realized that there was no one like me . But because I have flipped my life for the better , i’ve realized that I didn’t want him anymore & I’d never thought about rejecting him but i did . He has a family with someone else & he still manages to contact me . But I refuse . Please , you guys I PROMISE YOU LIFE GETS BETTER !!!!!! My little sister went through her first heartbreak last year (16YRS) & she swore she was gonna die … now we literally laugh at that memory . Heartbreak is a blessing in disguise because i believe it brings the best out of you . 🥀

  • @whatsapphim4599

    @whatsapphim4599

    Жыл бұрын

    👆👆The main reason we see our love life like this is because we don't fight hard for what we want I was once like you but I took a bold step with the help of Dr Clinton am happy once more try him ###

  • @whatsapphim4599

    @whatsapphim4599

    Жыл бұрын

    Message for help ##

  • @whatsapphim4599

    @whatsapphim4599

    Жыл бұрын

    __

  • @apilsapkota4495
    @apilsapkota44955 жыл бұрын

    Lucky are those who get back the same pure love from the person they love. Lord please heal all the broken hearts.

  • @zalanaz6014

    @zalanaz6014

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's goddamn rare!!

  • @charlottepembroke8111

    @charlottepembroke8111

    4 жыл бұрын

    So beautifully said, Apil. A rare gift that is, but it is my wish for all of you. Hoping that this August has been less painful. They say it gets better? I don’t know how...but they say it. Sending virtual love and support to all members of the heartbreak club. The WORST club to be in. But at least we’re here together.

  • @carmenkamberos1156

    @carmenkamberos1156

    Жыл бұрын

    How sweet of you for posting this comment. Blessings

  • @DeeBeatsfoo
    @DeeBeatsfoo2 жыл бұрын

    Condolences to all with a broken heart. You're never alone. There are millions just like you. We're in this together. ❤

  • @hannahbeghi8148

    @hannahbeghi8148

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤️💔😆

  • @soufbeauti

    @soufbeauti

    2 жыл бұрын

    How tf do we get out of this lmao

  • @bertoonz

    @bertoonz

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol nice yo know that (sigh)

  • @bertoonz

    @bertoonz

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@soufbeauti just hang on trust the process

  • @derekalumbaugh3545

    @derekalumbaugh3545

    Жыл бұрын

    This really means a lot. I’ve never felt this alone and I’m around more people than I can count. Thank you from the bottom of my heart🖤

  • @daynabasnight5654
    @daynabasnight5654 Жыл бұрын

    I’m going through my 2nd breakup with the same person after about 10 years together. So devastated and sad. Terrified that I’ll be alone forever and unable to heal from this pain. I’m grateful to have found this video.

  • @manisha_156

    @manisha_156

    Жыл бұрын

    I just hope you get over it ...More power to you and you are strong enough to deal with this ...But trust me it will get better

  • @latchkeykidd1415

    @latchkeykidd1415

    Жыл бұрын

    Just did the same this. Its soul crushing. Hope you stay strong🙏🏾

  • @Rere-O

    @Rere-O

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too. This time, he left in the worst way imaginable. A month to our wedding. He is treating me like an enemy including his family. Which surprises and confuses me.

  • @amandavictoriasewell7393

    @amandavictoriasewell7393

    Жыл бұрын

    I've been through all of this. Zero contact is vital. You at least get your power back. Resist contacting them. Walk away. Teach them a lesson.

  • @maestrodon175

    @maestrodon175

    Жыл бұрын

    @dayna ..did u happen to get over that person?

  • @withering.poppies247
    @withering.poppies247 Жыл бұрын

    I just got broken up with yesterday and it was so sudden. They were my best friend, the one person who was always there. I’ve never felt a pain like this. My heart aches.

  • @photovi
    @photovi4 жыл бұрын

    I pray all of the broken hearts can heal today ✨

  • @maricarmanon-og2012

    @maricarmanon-og2012

    3 жыл бұрын

    * After all love we shared, He will get marry soon, an arranged marriage 😢😢😢😦💔💔💔💔

  • @edelyntadios9028

    @edelyntadios9028

    3 жыл бұрын

    💔😭😭

  • @sandylyle621

    @sandylyle621

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Clinton Ose things happen for reason

  • @JoseVazquez24263

    @JoseVazquez24263

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Clinton Shaun what's the web site dat let u here the conversation I need it please

  • @PritiSharma-mq3ps

    @PritiSharma-mq3ps

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@maricarmanon-og2012 I can feel it my ex just left me because of his parents and he didn't even try one 💔💔 I am now feeling so alone even no one to talk but hoping that I will survive ...

  • @SailorSerenitySaturn
    @SailorSerenitySaturn3 жыл бұрын

    Heartbroken in August 2020 anyone? We can get over this guys, I wish everyone the best 💔

  • @katienelly3453

    @katienelly3453

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sailorserenitysaturn, don't worry ok if you want your ex back to you, I will recommend you to a man that can help you get your ex back

  • @katienelly3453

    @katienelly3453

    3 жыл бұрын

    The man helped me get my ex back when I was in a problem like this before

  • @katienelly3453

    @katienelly3453

    3 жыл бұрын

    Contact the man on WhatsApp to get your ex back as soon as possible

  • @katienelly3453

    @katienelly3453

    3 жыл бұрын

    +2349050861314

  • @justin-ln1kd

    @justin-ln1kd

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @craftinggoodvibes4182
    @craftinggoodvibes41822 жыл бұрын

    Just watched this and I think I'll rewatch it again. My husband of 16yrs just left me and our girls and I'm still in love with him and we are broken. I'm struggling to function. So I'm going to give this a try. Thank you

  • @joannapatlan8837

    @joannapatlan8837

    Жыл бұрын

    How do you feel today?

  • @luzallegriaShaw82

    @luzallegriaShaw82

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry for your recent loss.

  • @babaib3513

    @babaib3513

    Жыл бұрын

    Pls pray God will help

  • @danielleyva3353

    @danielleyva3353

    Жыл бұрын

    I can relate … it’s so difficult ,,But I believe time has to heal

  • @SandraFernandes621

    @SandraFernandes621

    Жыл бұрын

    hang in there, going through it too.

  • @samboriboun2213
    @samboriboun2213 Жыл бұрын

    I feel happy when i break up because if that person loved you they would not leave. I just feel relieved to know that person was not for me.

  • @khimmybee322

    @khimmybee322

    Жыл бұрын

    Yep. That's looking on the other side of it. If they left us, it means there's someone out there for us, who we truly deserve (better to be in our hearts)

  • @Gumball002
    @Gumball0022 жыл бұрын

    I just had a breakup yesterday at 2 days ago and I can’t eat, sleep, or even workout. I loved this girl so much and I feel lonely. I’ve been getting heartburns and heart aches from my anxiety of thinking of her moving on. It sounds selfish, but I thought we would last. To anyone feeling what I’m feeling. I hope you find peace throughout your pain.

  • @achonugenevieve3497

    @achonugenevieve3497

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate

  • @achonugenevieve3497

    @achonugenevieve3497

    2 жыл бұрын

    He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay

  • @achonugenevieve3497

    @achonugenevieve3497

    2 жыл бұрын

    Whtsaap him"**

  • @achonugenevieve3497

    @achonugenevieve3497

    2 жыл бұрын

    +2348140799323⏩⏩⏭⏭

  • @dalymarithe3381

    @dalymarithe3381

    2 жыл бұрын

    My dear I can Introduce you to the same powerful Relationships Restorer and healer who helped me got back my ex few days ago, he can manifest your ex back to you real quick.;;

  • @yanaybolbachan
    @yanaybolbachan3 жыл бұрын

    The hardest part is not moving on, it's that you don't want to move on.

  • @mikerobert2127

    @mikerobert2127

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yanay Bolbachan, Don't worry ok there is a solution to every problem, I know of a man that can help you bring your ex back to you

  • @mikerobert2127

    @mikerobert2127

    3 жыл бұрын

    The man helped me get my ex back when I was in a problem like this before, he will bring your ex back to you as soon as possible

  • @mikerobert2127

    @mikerobert2127

    3 жыл бұрын

    Contact the man on WhatsApp to get your ex back

  • @mikerobert2127

    @mikerobert2127

    3 жыл бұрын

    +2339050861314

  • @programmingkitten1326

    @programmingkitten1326

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah....

  • @bgj0ker
    @bgj0ker Жыл бұрын

    Leaving this comment to come back too when I fully heal, this is my first heartbreak and my longest relationship 2 and a half years, honestly nothing could’ve prepared me for such pain, the feeling of literally losing a loved one that you did everything with,I’ve reached out I’ve tried keeping myself busy, some days are good other days I feel like I’m back to square one, constant vomiting,can’t eat,sleep and my mind is thinking about her from the moment I wake up until I go to sleep, I hope I get through this and for anybody else going through this bless you, I wouldn’t wish this on anyone but at the same time I am thankful to experience such distress knowing one day I hope to be happy again.

  • @kawengee2062

    @kawengee2062

    Жыл бұрын

    Same feeling. I hope someday we find our better half. The one that we truly deserves. Im heartbbroken right now. I dont know what to do. Im trying to get myself busy to some other stuff but i cant help myself thinking about him. Specially were on the same company and i get to see him every single day. I. Just want this to end soon. 😥😥😥😥

  • @ronnyrakete4279

    @ronnyrakete4279

    Жыл бұрын

    It‘s been 5 months since my breakup and I‘m still a mess. I never thought it possible to feel like this. I‘m hoping for better days. Next month i will hand in my master thesis and finish my degree. After that i will move and leave this town. I guess it‘s progress. But i can‘t help myself from thinking about her every single day 😢

  • @Sunnysunnysunny673

    @Sunnysunnysunny673

    7 ай бұрын

    How are you doing so far? :)

  • @jirehsicworld
    @jirehsicworld Жыл бұрын

    it's been six months after the breakup, and the pain still hurts as much as it did on day one. 😔 sometimes i really wish that my ex could feel it as much as i've been feeling it.

  • @brandenrhodes26
    @brandenrhodes268 жыл бұрын

    Just amazes me how someone can date for 3 plus years...the one person struggles really hard through everything and the other quickly moves on like you were nothing...

  • @Jeff.cl.

    @Jeff.cl.

    8 жыл бұрын

    Yeahh for real ... So weird ... I feel you brotha

  • @drifterrudss17jvr90

    @drifterrudss17jvr90

    8 жыл бұрын

    +brandenrhodes26 Yeah exactly , my girlfriend left my heart in peaces and I tried everything but she ignors me and its seems she has moved on .

  • @lainesinkala5311

    @lainesinkala5311

    8 жыл бұрын

    +brandenrhodes26 yes it really hurts when u love someone soooooo deep and they move on like u ment nothing... However in my case I told him he would never replace me.... but what hurts is the weekly/monthly texts... that I ignore of course... But I agree with Matt working and loving oneself really helps to heal the hurt.

  • @luckyahad

    @luckyahad

    8 жыл бұрын

    Same here. 3 years. She moved on and got intimate with someone. I am a complete stranger now. This broke me so bad. Trying to be the best I can be.

  • @donkeywaxplay9168

    @donkeywaxplay9168

    8 жыл бұрын

    +brandenrhodes26 Exactly me. Up till now it has already been over a week since my breakup and I'm struggling to get over the one I Love while i saw how quickly she has gotten over me and got someone else already in her mind, it was like the thing we had never meant to her.

  • @laurens_creation
    @laurens_creation7 жыл бұрын

    Heartake is literally the worst feeling ever

  • @tymitchell3345

    @tymitchell3345

    7 жыл бұрын

    Lauren Woods u ain't lying sister

  • @eugenebauder454

    @eugenebauder454

    7 жыл бұрын

    yea the worst that pit in your stomachs you visualizing them e some1 else that

  • @rolsonDotcom

    @rolsonDotcom

    7 жыл бұрын

    I really is heart ache! My heart hurts from front to back. Some days are better than others! I love her and told her I always will. She is moving on and that's what hurts the most. Sometimes I feel alone in my heartache. Would be easier if I had someone else to at least get to know like she is.

  • @rolsonDotcom

    @rolsonDotcom

    7 жыл бұрын

    Yeah..my recent ex is actually a co-worker (mistake, never do that! Lesson learned). Our relationship had been slowly fading. Now we have agreed to "just be friends" Ladies! Let me tell you. Guys cannot be friends with women they have deep love feelings for or have had sex with. It just doesn't work. Now I am working along side her...trying to keep a plastic smile on while she is moving on. Karma! It's what I get for getting involved with a co-worker. Seriously! Never do that.

  • @thestick52

    @thestick52

    6 жыл бұрын

    I've lived the same situation a few times before and worst of all... I think it's happening now again. The only remedy for this is TIME! It heals better than anything on Earth. Be patient it will come to an end believe me 😉

  • @SNEAKVS
    @SNEAKVS10 ай бұрын

    Y’all pray for me please I’m really going thru a tuff break up

  • @svman21
    @svman212 жыл бұрын

    What hurts the most is the difficulty to believe that the most unexpected person-someone who was your only happiness, peace, support, someone who made you feel loved to an extend that you took her for granted- leave you like her promises and commitments were just lies and how they move on so quick and is so happy without you.

  • @lijay1377
    @lijay13773 жыл бұрын

    Im here scrolling through the comments, finding comfort in the fact that im not the only one who feels like their heart has been ripped put of their chest. 5 days post-breakup, im hoping things will start to get easier soon.

  • @user-xi2xi4cs5v

    @user-xi2xi4cs5v

    3 жыл бұрын

    hello from korea, and i am doing the exactly same things that you commented. i hope both of us start to get easier soon

  • @donnafoster1336

    @donnafoster1336

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@user-xi2xi4cs5v I got my relationship problems fixed through the help of Dr James Dr James can help you get your ex back and solve all kind of relationship issues

  • @donnafoster1336

    @donnafoster1336

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@user-xi2xi4cs5v what'sapp him_.

  • @donnafoster1336

    @donnafoster1336

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can introduce you to the most powerful relationship restorer who helped me get my ex back permanently with more love and commitment. He can help you and bless your relationship perfectly_.

  • @donnafoster1336

    @donnafoster1336

    3 жыл бұрын

    what'sapp him_.

  • @dennisshredda
    @dennisshredda6 жыл бұрын

    Heart break is so intense, when you only want to be with that person..

  • @holywhitelie5545

    @holywhitelie5545

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fucking right

  • @Keahualanix3

    @Keahualanix3

    5 жыл бұрын

    :’(

  • @ruthweeks4796

    @ruthweeks4796

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @mikajendreas

    @mikajendreas

    5 жыл бұрын

    Make you drop to your knees

  • @nunya257

    @nunya257

    5 жыл бұрын

    And for me, it's not like it goes away quickly. I'm 50 and this is the fourth time in my life I've been seriously heartbroken. I'm at four months and still crying daily. Even though I know without question that he is not right for me, I still truly love him and the suffering continues. I'm just not willing to let the thoughts go yet...it's all I have left of him. Ridiculous waste of my precious time on Earth. It's an addiction.

  • @olakacperczyk2616
    @olakacperczyk26162 жыл бұрын

    ive never felt such pain from a breakup. I truly was in love this man filled a void,he completed me,its been moths and my brain rewinds to the memories.He promised to ever leave and yet he still did :(

  • @jessicacorradini7644

    @jessicacorradini7644

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here. After 7 years. He told my mum "our relationship will last, I don't want to leave her, it will end only if she leaves me". Yeah. He broke up with me one month ago 3 days before our dream travel which we booked 3 weeks prior. I feel like shit and like I won't be going on with my life ever.

  • @JaxCover

    @JaxCover

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jessicacorradini7644 Ok. I'm sorry for what your ex did, but you have to realize that he was a person of poor character, and is not worth crying over. Maybe watch some videos about narcissists because he might have been one. A man should not "fill a void". If you're walking around like an open wound who needs a void filled, you are just gonna get hurt by the next user. Fill your void with God and self worth. Go through all of these comments. All this crying and wasted energy over these losers is a pandemic. One day we females have to wake up. I do suggest therapy and wish you the best.

  • @AT-pw9dx

    @AT-pw9dx

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@jessicacorradini7644you will move on with your life

  • @Kansas2SaltLake
    @Kansas2SaltLake3 ай бұрын

    For me it’s the anxiety, sometimes it’s so bad I feel like my chest will cave in.

  • @ritabinsry8239

    @ritabinsry8239

    3 ай бұрын

    me too 😢

  • @sass5960
    @sass59604 жыл бұрын

    Who else is heartbroken in October 2019?

  • @jayc7017

    @jayc7017

    4 жыл бұрын

    What a start to the month hey

  • @riqaazafareed3153

    @riqaazafareed3153

    4 жыл бұрын

    Meeee ✋

  • @itsbritneybitch5350

    @itsbritneybitch5350

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lets meet here again if any one of us is over the breakup

  • @riqaazafareed3153

    @riqaazafareed3153

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@itsbritneybitch5350 it's feels good to know I'm not alone in this 😅

  • @RayonChan

    @RayonChan

    4 жыл бұрын

    Got rejected today. Yaaay.

  • @DonnaVen1991
    @DonnaVen19915 жыл бұрын

    Whoever reading this, let's stay strong. I just lost the love of my life. :(

  • @Vis89

    @Vis89

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm trying but its so hard. I had to cut communication with her a few weeks ago but i think this will last forever.

  • @DonnaVen1991

    @DonnaVen1991

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Vis89 i know but keep moving. It's been a week for me of not talking to him, 2 weeks since the break up and it kills me. I miss him everyday for sure. But I've already tried my very best to keep the relationship and you really just cant force people to stay in your life. And then i realized my self worth. I stopped pursuing and now, i may still not the old me but im somewhat better. Love yourself!

  • @smartkookie

    @smartkookie

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @known9295

    @known9295

    5 жыл бұрын

    I've been cheated on :/

  • @DonnaVen1991

    @DonnaVen1991

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@known9295 sorry to hear. Remember that it's not ur loss; it's theirs. They lost an amazing person who loves them. You'll be fine, babe. 😊

  • @richardwilliams2205
    @richardwilliams2205 Жыл бұрын

    Would’ve never thought I needed to watch something like this. Never thought I could get hurt this bad I feel absolutely horrible life seems so grey at the moment.

  • @hairobeato8617

    @hairobeato8617

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m with you brozay don’t worry this month my ex girlfriend left me. Been going through it

  • @bridgetgullison8848
    @bridgetgullison8848 Жыл бұрын

    The only thing that healed my broken shattered heart was giving it to God. He gave me a new heart filled love.

  • @barbararomeo9817

    @barbararomeo9817

    Жыл бұрын

    AMEN!! Only Almighty GOD can cure my heart & heal me..

  • @devankurmitra4118

    @devankurmitra4118

    Жыл бұрын

    @@barbararomeo9817 fell in love with a Christian girl and it's because of it, that we had to stop talking

  • @austinleap5924

    @austinleap5924

    Жыл бұрын

    Im going through a break up right now and i am trying to do the same. 5 years down the drain and i am completely shattered in my spirit. I keep asking and trying to trust god to help me through this but i just keep feeling the same pain in my chest and racing anxiety. PLease pray for me i am really really weak and i dont know how to get through this

  • @devankurmitra4118

    @devankurmitra4118

    Жыл бұрын

    @@austinleap5924 force yourself to go to gym

  • @austinleap5924

    @austinleap5924

    Жыл бұрын

    @@devankurmitra4118 I can but right now I can't even force enough food in my belly. I'm 6'5 already somewhat skinny. After a week of not eating practically anything I have definitely shrunk my stomach and put myself in a even worse situation. I want to eat food but when I try I gag. I'm just going to take it day by day I'm really at a loss of how to take care of myself right now. It's all on me now though and no one will be around to help me out. So I will have to use this pain and time to grow as a man. The pain in my chest is sickening I just wish this wasn't reality right now

  • @ProjectCDRFIT
    @ProjectCDRFIT7 жыл бұрын

    We're all gonna make it

  • @MiDesertLife

    @MiDesertLife

    7 жыл бұрын

    Yes we are, sooner or later!!!

  • @bassma852

    @bassma852

    7 жыл бұрын

    yes we're gonna make it!

  • @daisytiny421

    @daisytiny421

    7 жыл бұрын

    I hope I make it through this

  • @xcuite5493

    @xcuite5493

    7 жыл бұрын

    ProjectCDRFIT we're all gonna make it

  • @Onlylovecanwait

    @Onlylovecanwait

    7 жыл бұрын

    ProjectCDRFIT no we not wtf i cant sleep im gon die

  • @rayhanislam5768
    @rayhanislam57686 жыл бұрын

    Anyone is in tears while watching this vid..

  • @svpercell

    @svpercell

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ray currently? yes

  • @milaalt1141

    @milaalt1141

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ray yes sadly

  • @kandita7

    @kandita7

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @sethclow6318

    @sethclow6318

    5 жыл бұрын

    yeah

  • @kat3633

    @kat3633

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yup

  • @rrajput3816
    @rrajput3816 Жыл бұрын

    If you have to watch this, trust me you are not alone❤️

  • @adrienplancarte3266
    @adrienplancarte3266 Жыл бұрын

    I’m fresh on this break up (happened yesterday) what hurt the most is loving someone the most but you know you’re not meant for each other . Also after realizing , I loved her so much I lost myself . I’m using this opportunity to better myself and what I loved most about this video is to start a project that would bring lots of meaning to your life . Thanks for the advice . Made me feel a lot better .

  • @shannay1511

    @shannay1511

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here. Worse is he told me he loves me now he's talking about not loving me the same anymore. And I'm about to write final exams. I pray for us all to get through on the other side of this.

  • @noussaibahaiker8936

    @noussaibahaiker8936

    Жыл бұрын

    It happened 1 hour ago, and it s my first one

  • @guitarboy73

    @guitarboy73

    Жыл бұрын

    how are you three months later

  • @khanyisileshezi4703

    @khanyisileshezi4703

    Жыл бұрын

    this happened two days ago but I'm realizing how I deserve better I deserve to be loved just as much as I love and that was something I lacked to understand about our relationship I thought I'd give him time to realize this sit down and talk to him but it's not worth it having been together for almost 5 years and still feeling like I'm not being loved the way I want to be loved says alot but I'm letting him go and learning to understand that if he was the man of my dreams like I painted him out to be then this wouldn't have been the case but it's okay I'm a lover by nature I believe that love heals all wounds any kind of love. sending my love to everyone going through this

  • @shaunrios6980

    @shaunrios6980

    Жыл бұрын

    How are you now? My heart has just been broken.... I was with someone for over three years and he ended things with me over a text message and no explanation.

  • @Clo95
    @Clo955 жыл бұрын

    it hurts when you both still love each other, but we know it's best to go our separate ways. it just hurts so much

  • @camerondaniels598

    @camerondaniels598

    4 жыл бұрын

    happened to me two months ago, still hurts. praying for you ❤️

  • @circusbunnies3959

    @circusbunnies3959

    4 жыл бұрын

    it hurts when only one of you love the other and the other literally hasn’t felt upset since the day it happened. it’s been 3 months since it happened and he’s doing great but I’ve been feeling awful since

  • @SimoneBogus

    @SimoneBogus

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am exactly there Carmen! We love each other but are from different planets! And we cannot find a midlle way....

  • @mariaruning4919

    @mariaruning4919

    4 жыл бұрын

    carmen lara it would have been better if he was a dick - then it would be easy and you could just leave him .. but because you love each other and get each other... it’s like the hurt is in the skin :( it hurts so fucking bad

  • @shanemarizparedes8084

    @shanemarizparedes8084

    4 жыл бұрын

    i feel you :(

  • @jamesedwardlawrenceteofilo5378
    @jamesedwardlawrenceteofilo53785 жыл бұрын

    To everyone who's heartbroken, please be strong. You are not alone. I know it's painful but time will come we'll get over this. Edit: Hello! How's everyone doing especially those who commented on my post? I hope you're all doing better now. It's been a good 3 years. 😊

  • @ashleynguyen4160

    @ashleynguyen4160

    5 жыл бұрын

    James Edward Lawrence Teofilo thank you

  • @gladysmuthoni5725

    @gladysmuthoni5725

    5 жыл бұрын

    James Edward Lawrence Teofilo I can’t wait to heal

  • @aayaseenanda84

    @aayaseenanda84

    5 жыл бұрын

    Can't wait for that day to come. This pain is becoming unbearable day by day

  • @Thejasonrogers

    @Thejasonrogers

    5 жыл бұрын

    James Edward Lawrence Teofilo thank you brother, much love ❤️

  • @brendanzisa4291

    @brendanzisa4291

    5 жыл бұрын

    Can’t wait for that time to come

  • @alevikx
    @alevikx Жыл бұрын

    “If Love is one of the most important things in life then Suffering (because of love) is clearly one of the most painful things as well”

  • @VincentStrickland-oq4tr
    @VincentStrickland-oq4tr3 ай бұрын

    Im so hurt rite now 💔💔😢 i just wish god would take it away

  • @arnavmohapatra7833
    @arnavmohapatra78336 жыл бұрын

    For everyone who is heartbroken...... *I love you guyzz* ♥️☹️

  • @lucyonyango1669

    @lucyonyango1669

    6 жыл бұрын

    Areus Z'Duka I love you too😢😖😖

  • @liepajaonboard7368

    @liepajaonboard7368

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you😟

  • @dezlow7791

    @dezlow7791

    6 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭😔 thank you

  • @michicalamartiniere6067

    @michicalamartiniere6067

    5 жыл бұрын

    I love you too 😏❤️

  • @suprahk2605

    @suprahk2605

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @travisprater1709
    @travisprater17094 жыл бұрын

    Any one else heartbroken in July 2019?

  • @Headniz

    @Headniz

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me, so bad :(

  • @travisprater1709

    @travisprater1709

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Headniz I feel you man it suck I feel like I can't even keep going on it is so hard and she she doesn't even give a crap about me?

  • @rjalvlkw

    @rjalvlkw

    4 жыл бұрын

    My boyfriend just left me, when my dad is in hospital and I become a bit “too emotional” for him. He never truly cared for me

  • @ett2

    @ett2

    4 жыл бұрын

    Torn into a million pieces bro...

  • @travisprater1709

    @travisprater1709

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry too all of you!! I have been going through it since the 4th of July and she did me that crap hasn't said anything to me I still wake up everyday hurting over her and the kids that isn't even mine but according to her I don't love her and now I see I deserve better than that and I'll get by this pain there is someone for me I hope...

  • @eleanorskylerchan3262
    @eleanorskylerchan32623 ай бұрын

    Just had my first heartbreak ever, commenting on this so i wish one day I can come back to this and see how much progress I've made

  • @HH-gv8mx
    @HH-gv8mx8 ай бұрын

    My boyfriend, and went to work one morning last month never came home. There was no argument, there was no discussion, in fact he was intimate with me in the morning that he left to go to work. I found out that he quit his job that day, and moved to another state. I was completely blindsided and devastated. He was my best friend. And now I am left with this apartment where we just signed a lease together that I cannot afford on my own. If I don’t get a roommate in here soon, I will be evicted as I can’t afford the rent on my own. But I have no energy or desire to meet with random strangers and try and rent my spare room out. I’m just so sad and the pain is so deep. Everything reminds me of him. So I’m not only suffering a heartbreak, but I’ve got to do something fast before my situation spirals out of control.

  • @marskingdoms

    @marskingdoms

    8 ай бұрын

    I will pray for you 🥺

  • @fmagana27
    @fmagana274 жыл бұрын

    hardest part is knowing that she moved on so quick and you’re laying in bed not knowing how to move on

  • @harshithvarma7637

    @harshithvarma7637

    4 жыл бұрын

    That sucks so bad! Like it really does. You just can't process how the other person has moved while you're a total mess. But the truth is we never know if they've actually moved on. If they're with someone else, they've probably made a mistake because they've rushed into it to escape the pain which is definitely not a healthy sign.

  • @mrmarco259

    @mrmarco259

    4 жыл бұрын

    I will introduce you to someone who help me restore my relationship with my love and now we are happy together again

  • @mrmarco259

    @mrmarco259

    4 жыл бұрын

    He will surely help you

  • @melissagreene6960

    @melissagreene6960

    3 жыл бұрын

    This shit hits in all other level

  • @anthonygonzales3523

    @anthonygonzales3523

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ugh that’s really hits deep to the core :(

  • @gtonon18
    @gtonon187 жыл бұрын

    Reading all the comments down here I actually feel less lonely. I mean, I'm not the only one who has been through a pain like this and this kinda conforted me.

  • @faizanullah9353

    @faizanullah9353

    6 жыл бұрын

    World is full of such people

  • @gabecook3500

    @gabecook3500

    6 жыл бұрын

    Exactly what i was thinking. Its nice to not feel alone in something this destructive.

  • @thanos5220

    @thanos5220

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yes bb we are all in this together. Why else would we go to this vid

  • @Williamblaq

    @Williamblaq

    6 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @tyronealberts6734

    @tyronealberts6734

    6 жыл бұрын

    Giulia I have also been through this n it happenes to everyone but heres the good thing good times dont last forever and even bad times....nothing lasts....cheers

  • @GioVargasMachuca
    @GioVargasMachuca7 ай бұрын

    Four years ago I saved this video because it helped me. Now after a difficult breakup I came upon it again and I understand why I saved it in the first place. Thank you very much for giving us hope and making us feel understood.

  • @x.mhuang631
    @x.mhuang6318 жыл бұрын

    you cant focus when you go through extreme heart break

  • @BrunoLucenadesign

    @BrunoLucenadesign

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Xiaoming Huang So true

  • @AnnaKhKem

    @AnnaKhKem

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Xiaoming Huang You cannot concentrate on an exercise?

  • @mickeymedhat5053

    @mickeymedhat5053

    8 жыл бұрын

    that's write we were together since 2001 and he broke my heart before yesterday till now i didn't get out of my bedroom I'm actually crying right now

  • @x.mhuang631

    @x.mhuang631

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Mickey Medhat its been 4 months since my break up and i am over it. i can tell you right now... you're blind from reality. trust me when i say in a few months time the chemical elements in the emotional side of your brain will normalize and you will be like "oh wtf was i Thinking allowing myself to feel so sorry for myself over the break up, out you go!" Let him go, don't force yourself to move on if you're not ready. address your sadness, not be the so called "focus on yourself and keep busy stuff" but by being good to yourself, allow yourself to do nice things for yourself that you wouldn't normally do like buying that dress youve always wanted, or eating that cake youve always wanted. but please please please promise yourself one thing DO NOT CHASE AFTER HIM. NO CONTACT!!!!!! trust me!

  • @mickeymedhat5053

    @mickeymedhat5053

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Xiaoming Huang yeah your right i could delete his number as i always wanted your words really helped me but is it ok to stop texting him once to the end of my life because we were soooooooo good couple alot of people wanted him but i kept him tight so i have to let him go of my face

  • @moonriversteph
    @moonriversteph4 жыл бұрын

    Who else is heart broken, lost and trying their hardest to keep going in February 2020💔

  • @mitzilou9560

    @mitzilou9560

    4 жыл бұрын

    i am..

  • @gabrielastefania4236

    @gabrielastefania4236

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me ...

  • @AkashGupta-zx9iw

    @AkashGupta-zx9iw

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me😭😭

  • @meathooksmcgee662

    @meathooksmcgee662

    4 жыл бұрын

    Youre beautiful; their loss

  • @gabrielastefania4236

    @gabrielastefania4236

    4 жыл бұрын

    We are all in this together. We need to stay strong no matter how hard seem to goin’ ... the process of healing is not easy .. it s a rollercoster of emotions ... the heart aches 😥 and the brain loses control... how you all are fellin now ?

  • @Rala000
    @Rala000 Жыл бұрын

    First, thank you Matthew for this wonderful advice. You are a gift from heaven. Im writing this at 8/27/2022 . I have been in No Contact rule for 5 days now. Sometimes I feel confident. Sometimes it hurts like hell. Tears are flowing like shits and it doest care even if Im on something. While Im eating, before I sleep, when Im listening to music and I feel real shit, I wanna hug myself. Unrequited love really sucks. It makes you feel pitiful. It makes you feel unworthy of love. And it makes you question about everything. Am I not good enough? Why cant he love me? When you know you were in your best version and still you were not chosen. But I realized that self respect should be always louder than your love to other person. Your worth shouldnt base upon on if he would love you or not. We are worthy before we try to love them and still worthy after they broke our hearts. Right now Im on my self healing journey. Im gathering myself again after it shattered into pieces. Realizing the world will never give a shit whether I feel shit or not. So theres no other way but to keep going. The next time I visit this video, I hope the reason is not because I’m broken hearted again. I hope that the next time I watch it, I will see my comment here and I’ll just smile coz I have moved on and glad I chose to be strong. Let’s heal ourselves folks. Everything will be brighter soon💛

  • @OutlawedCreationss

    @OutlawedCreationss

    Жыл бұрын

    Damn! This encapsulates how I’m feeling and I hope I can do this cuz ..

  • @vminmymuse

    @vminmymuse

    Жыл бұрын

    so proud of you !!!

  • @constance6761

    @constance6761

    Жыл бұрын

    Well said. We are always worthy, that feeling is just blurred for a while.

  • @derekdiltz5978

    @derekdiltz5978

    Жыл бұрын

    Your worth was never on trial here - so to speak. Love is not something you earn by being worthy. It's not Thor's hammer. It's a feeling. Your worth as a human was never in play. What was at play was a chaotic, illogical emotion. What was at play were the psyche of the two involved persons, and all the traumas that they both carry. He could have an avoidant attachment style. He could have a fear of intimacy. There are so many possibilities that only involve you because you were there. I'm 6 months into a breakup, and I've never loved like that before. I'm still not over her. I cannot imagine a time that I will be. But something I've learned is that we are like sculptures emerging from marble. We are not destroyed by what is lost. We are defined by what remains. There are always possibilities, and the universe will unfold as it should.

  • @imissme8313

    @imissme8313

    Жыл бұрын

    Update

  • @Peter-lx5mn
    @Peter-lx5mn8 ай бұрын

    if you are reading this i want to make you sure the pain in temporary! Keep fighting keep working keep living! Just start and let it happen.

  • @androidenthusiast7930
    @androidenthusiast79306 жыл бұрын

    A dude here. You will be fine, TRUST ME!!!. - Embrace the pain. - Take out time to grieve everyday - DO NOT CONTACT THEM, I Repeat, DO NOT CONTACT THEM. This does not help You AT ALL. You'll feel worse after you drop that phone (unless it's very important) - Spend your time doing something that gives you daily rewards of that sense of accomplishment. - If you are religious, do not engage in the "please bring him or him back to me and I promise I'll never do this or that " prayer. - Create new memories, cause when you really look at it, this is what causes the hurt right? -Take good care of yourself.Start working out, buy new clothes, get a makeover and don't engage in excessive use of cigarette and alcohol like I did.In fact, now is a good time to get rid of those bad habits. This will give you something else to be proud of. - Although it might not feel like it right now, you will find love and happiness again.The odds are in your favour on that one.

  • @Msmariselaful

    @Msmariselaful

    6 жыл бұрын

    100% correct. Wise advise!

  • @robertkirsten6650

    @robertkirsten6650

    6 жыл бұрын

    Android Enthusiast I think this advice is what I need right now

  • @shobhabhattacharya6236

    @shobhabhattacharya6236

    6 жыл бұрын

    But I don't think that I will get a person who is better than him.. I know that in the world there are many good people but what if it's just an illusion and what if he was the best one.. he had not loved anyone but he found me pure n loved me but I think he thought I ignored him as I really did but I didn't want him to fall for me as I am having bad days n now I love him but he is gone.... 🙃

  • @elsavillarreal7067

    @elsavillarreal7067

    6 жыл бұрын

    OMG!!!! This is perfect!

  • @sabster79

    @sabster79

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thank You so much! But I feel like contacting him. I feel like telling him how I feel and why we’re good together. And his response or lack of response will be my closure...

  • @victoriaocher812
    @victoriaocher8122 жыл бұрын

    I watched this video 5 years ago … now I’m back watching it because my heart got broken again by the same person. Time doesn’t change people, you just go round in circles

  • @idikekasie4941

    @idikekasie4941

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hello dear I know of a powerful man who can make your ex to come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me to get back with my ex and we are living happily together so far.

  • @idikekasie4941

    @idikekasie4941

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wh@t's@pp him

  • @adamchapman1007

    @adamchapman1007

    2 жыл бұрын

    Shiiiiiiit I'm so sorry

  • @chankrisnachea7083

    @chankrisnachea7083

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry to hear that. Often time, the pattern implies that there’s more lessons that we haven’t learned. So it replays for us to really learn. Take the time for self-reflect and learn the lesson. We usually take an easy route to distract and numb ourselves that I neglect to learn from the painful experience. I wish you a quick healing.

  • @victoriaocher812

    @victoriaocher812

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@teresapower1495 I wrote a letter to myself, listing everything he did, how I felt, every awful, mean, hurtful thing, all the lies. When I feel myself slipping down, I read it, reminds me that even though it hurt so badly and I’ll still have parts that hurt, I don’t want to have that pain in my life or the person who caused it. I know I’m happier without and will be happier with someone who doesn’t do all those things. It’s a fight but reading the letter to myself, makes me stronger and keeps me looking forward because backwards just opens old scares.

  • @SaiyanWarriorU7
    @SaiyanWarriorU7 Жыл бұрын

    I'm heart broken right now, I was imagining my future with the one, that one girl that I probably will never find anyone like her ever again... She used to care about me but not anymore. I'm really going through a very hard time, and I'm trying to believe that one day my life will be back on track and that I will feel better in the future, because all my mind is telling me now is that I lost the perfect girl I'd ever wish for.

  • @appleskitest1

    @appleskitest1

    Жыл бұрын

    How are u feeling now? Am currently going through the same thing

  • @mxtorres30
    @mxtorres30 Жыл бұрын

    I’m 23 years old and got heartbroken by a girl who went back to her ex who cheated on her 3 times. She said she loved me and I loved her because she was my first official girlfriend. We did a lot of things together and I can’t even go to the movies or a restaurant because it reminds me of the times we would go there. I can’t watch my favorite movies or listen to my favorite songs because of the same reason. I’m currently on my last semester in college and graduate in December. I realized that she went back to her ex because he is 4 or 5 years older than her and he would buy her stuff that she couldn’t afford. What i don’t understand from her is that after everything he has done to her (cheating on her, making her cry, etc) , why would she leave me and go back to him. It has been almost 5 months and I still miss her. I’ve done many things to try and get over her but nothing works. I started doing drugs and my drinking was heavier, drinking almost everyday and spending my entire paycheck on alcohol. There are some days where I’m doing something I enjoyed before she dumped me and Matthew is right, I always say “I wish she was here with me”. It hurts me emotionally. I always believed the saying that everything happens for a reason, but I really don’t understand why this is happening. I pray to God answers and ask him to help me with my suffering. I will try and update my comment each month with my progress.

  • @inututee8846

    @inututee8846

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey, how are things now?

  • @mitzilou9560
    @mitzilou95604 жыл бұрын

    when you have a brokenhearted with this pandemic going on.. worse

  • @Microbiome101

    @Microbiome101

    4 жыл бұрын

    Agreed. 😞

  • @mitzilou9560

    @mitzilou9560

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Microbiome101 all i do is cry and im SO tired

  • @Microbiome101

    @Microbiome101

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mitzilou9560 Do you want to describe what happend?

  • @TinaKai25

    @TinaKai25

    4 жыл бұрын

    Agreed I'm alone with my thought

  • @Microbiome101

    @Microbiome101

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@TinaKai25 Well alone besides the millions of people that feel the same way right now

  • @user-on7et9ok6r
    @user-on7et9ok6r3 жыл бұрын

    We were soulmates. He left me so suddenly and never gave me proper closure. He went from hot to cold in an instant. I’ve never loved anyone like him. And I’ve never felt this kind of pain in my life before. Being all alone in lockdown makes it even worse. This is way too hard.

  • @enterscreate298

    @enterscreate298

    3 жыл бұрын

    my dear let me introduce to you dr usifoh who help me bring back my ex after many months of separation

  • @enterscreate298

    @enterscreate298

    3 жыл бұрын

    On WhtsApp message him and thank me later

  • @mariados3941

    @mariados3941

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hello dear let me introduce you to (Dr oguna) who helped me bring my ex back after many months of separation

  • @mariados3941

    @mariados3941

    3 жыл бұрын

    Via what'sApp

  • @enterscreate298

    @enterscreate298

    3 жыл бұрын

    my dear dr usifoh will help you better okay

  • @zairademexicoacanada3453
    @zairademexicoacanada34534 ай бұрын

    Happened yesterday, nothing have ever hurt like this...I know is for the best, but it is still the biggest pain I've ever felt in my life....thank you for this....❤

  • @lovewins3321

    @lovewins3321

    3 ай бұрын

    How are you feeling today? Mine happened 3 weeks ago and I'm still struggling to function 😢

  • @lopezotoole631
    @lopezotoole631 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve never known pain like this before in my life it’s horrific 😞

  • @jackhammond2901

    @jackhammond2901

    Жыл бұрын

    I know what you mean. It fells like nobody will ever fell that bad and nobody knows how you fell. Good luck. I’m trying to get over my best friend that left me for no reson after 2 and a half years😔

  • @Kekodile

    @Kekodile

    Жыл бұрын

    same. he just broke up with me ive never loved anyone more I feel like i am dead I cant even breathe.

  • @constance6761

    @constance6761

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Kekodile It's a form of trauma to our brains, emotions and body.

  • @Kekodile

    @Kekodile

    Жыл бұрын

    @@constance6761 Honestly now im feeling a lot better, that is honestly fascinating.

  • @ryanjames3260

    @ryanjames3260

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too it’s horrendous

  • @Sharkenite
    @Sharkenite5 жыл бұрын

    To all the heart broken, let us become friends together, we don't have to deal with this pain alone! We heal together!

  • @joevanbruyne3114

    @joevanbruyne3114

    5 жыл бұрын

    David Hernandez. I've heard so much about this great spell caster baba zulu in Africa. He is very powerful and works very fast,here is his WhatsApp number :+2347018686302......

  • @joevanbruyne3114

    @joevanbruyne3114

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol....I was in a situation like this before,message baba zulu on WhatsApp he is very powerful and works very fast +2347018686302😊

  • @appleskitest1

    @appleskitest1

    Жыл бұрын

    Are u ok now?

  • @Helenvalo
    @Helenvalo7 жыл бұрын

    The pain is truly real. But we're so strong, every single one of us, and we'll get through it babes!

  • @bhagyashreemali9348

    @bhagyashreemali9348

    6 жыл бұрын

    Helen Valo thank youb

  • @oldstyledrinker100

    @oldstyledrinker100

    6 жыл бұрын

    Helen Valo thanks

  • @arsalaniftikhar5920

    @arsalaniftikhar5920

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @sarahonifade9606

    @sarahonifade9606

    5 жыл бұрын

    Am going through hell now,everything is seeming like am dreaming,it’s 2 days now

  • @petargaric4082
    @petargaric40822 жыл бұрын

    1 year, 3 months, 10 days, all gone withing the blink of an eye. Everything was so normal just 2 days ago. My biggest fear has come to reality and it is the hardest moment in my life.

  • @SmeraSK
    @SmeraSK2 ай бұрын

    Got my heart crushed yesterday. Worst part is he completely ignored me after giving him my all.

  • @jusohkasparov7254
    @jusohkasparov72544 жыл бұрын

    who else have heartbroken in November 2019? I got you 😭

  • @elenaa1131

    @elenaa1131

    4 жыл бұрын

    jusoh kasparov today

  • @alm6832

    @alm6832

    4 жыл бұрын

    I did. How are you all getting on? I’m feeling rough.

  • @harshdeshmukh5701

    @harshdeshmukh5701

    4 жыл бұрын

    5 days back

  • @menasala270

    @menasala270

    4 жыл бұрын

    🤗🤗🤗😭😭😭

  • @oyuki7066

    @oyuki7066

    4 жыл бұрын

    2 weeks ago and it hasn't gotten any better. It ended because it was toxic and for a year and a half tried everything. At the end we just hurt each other even more and he broke me in every way possible. I don't honestly know what to do with myself, I feel like it might not ever get better.

  • @NoBody-ht1oh
    @NoBody-ht1oh4 жыл бұрын

    The pain is beyond compare. It’s like a shadow, never leaving you alone.

  • @ziggy5141

    @ziggy5141

    4 жыл бұрын

    No Body finally someone understands, I don’t stop thinking about her and everything reminds me of her

  • @ydmorales

    @ydmorales

    4 жыл бұрын

    I liken it to asking someone to change their skin. when people tell me "just get over him", I compare it to asking me to switch out my skin, I just can't, it's that difficult, the heartache, the pain, because he's just everywhere, he was my everything, he is a huge part of who I was. going 2 years now and he has slowly faded in the background, in my past.

  • @meathooksmcgee662

    @meathooksmcgee662

    4 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely!

  • @Maps4346

    @Maps4346

    4 жыл бұрын

    ydmorales hang in there

  • @iselili2

    @iselili2

    4 жыл бұрын

    No Body hope you are feeling better by now

  • @saveyourselves5923
    @saveyourselves59232 жыл бұрын

    I managed to heal my heartbreak and finally moved on... then got heartbroken again... and again... and again! It's gotten to the point where I dread feeling love for someone.

  • @davidb6477
    @davidb64775 ай бұрын

    I was absolutely crushed 2 weeks ago. I went through a hell of hopelessness, sleeplessness, and not even being able to eat. I'm getting my feet under me and I agree with working on something. But when you're crushed, working on anything seems impossible. I had to start extremely small with focusing on drinking enough water. Literally, that was all I could manage. I'm now walking and trying to focus on hope and love of my ex while tearing down my fantasy of them and reliving memories that showed me the reality of how I was not valued and respected. These baby steps have been invaluable for me making it this far.

  • @misery8264
    @misery82644 жыл бұрын

    The amount of broken hearts in this comment section is making me sad. I hope all of you find the right match, and that the feelings you are felling right now are worth the experience you got and the lessons you learned.

  • @Mary-wq9he

    @Mary-wq9he

    3 жыл бұрын

    It really is heartbreaking.

  • @anthonygonzales3523

    @anthonygonzales3523

    3 жыл бұрын

    Depressed asf :(

  • @misery8264

    @misery8264

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Clinton Shaun dude thats crazy. Don't go look into her phone. Confront her and if she doesn't react at all just leave her alone

  • @rawrmonster78

    @rawrmonster78

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for saying this

  • @envydiamondz
    @envydiamondz3 жыл бұрын

    I hate drowning in my thoughts of him 😢 i just want to be free.

  • @envydiamondz

    @envydiamondz

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Bianca Cortez i dont want him back. I want to forget him

  • @sharonnjeri3581

    @sharonnjeri3581

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here.

  • @envydiamondz

    @envydiamondz

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Diraksh Sangma i dont want him back

  • @lukebryan2871

    @lukebryan2871

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@envydiamondz are you sure you can forget about him totally while not let me recommend you to a great spell caster who could help solve all your issues and you will be free under 24 hours.

  • @lukebryan2871

    @lukebryan2871

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@envydiamondz wht@pp him.

  • @fredadamo7540
    @fredadamo75402 жыл бұрын

    this is so true! I was writing my bachelor thesis the last time me and my ex broke up. However, we got back together after a while. However, we broke up again this fall and it was heartbreaking. But now I am writing my master thesis and I am about to finish my studies, which really means something to me. I am really feeling that I am doing progress, and although there are times when I get sad and feel lonely because of the break up, I still feel that I am going in the right direction. So, I totally support this advice.

  • @chucklos391
    @chucklos391 Жыл бұрын

    I'm halfway through the video and I can confirm what he says is very helpful. I had this important goal for a few years that I procrastinated on. I finally finished the first big step of this particular goal. It was extremely difficult, but it was huge. I started a couple of weeks after the heartbreak. I was in serious, unbearable, seemingly forever pain. Normally I sleep or date others to cope with things, but it was completely futile. I couldn't even bare to date anyone new because in my mind no one compared. Filling my days with work or activities would not have helped either. Friends and family? Nope. It was this huge personal goal I had set a few years back that I needed to start. Completing the first step was critical in this goal. Now I'm on the path towards this life goal. The heartbreak thrusted me into that. I felt good about myself again. It gave me a huge confidence boost and it made me feel I achieved something. I shared this with everyone and I got positive feedback. I felt great again. This didn't make my heartbreak disappear, but damn it made me feel I could survive. You need to feel as if you could survive in order to give time to heal those wounds. Otherwise you do stupid desperate crap and compromise your self worth. A very serious heartbreak ruins your confidence. Defeats you. I found a way to lift my confidence. This is my story. About almost 3 months after the heartbreak, I'm feeling close to myself again.

  • @darshinirajawati5414
    @darshinirajawati54144 жыл бұрын

    Who else is watching this while in Quarantine & Going through a breakup in March?

  • @julieadamson6398

    @julieadamson6398

    4 жыл бұрын

    Darshini Rajawati me too hurts so bad.

  • @Microbiome101

    @Microbiome101

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes..

  • @annedeguzman7821

    @annedeguzman7821

    4 жыл бұрын

    Count me in😭

  • @karljayson9702

    @karljayson9702

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me. Getting harder everyday lol

  • @oliR34

    @oliR34

    4 жыл бұрын

    Im in and it is suck

  • @ayoomary1
    @ayoomary14 жыл бұрын

    Who else is heartbroken, August 2019? 🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @ayoomary1

    @ayoomary1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Its like i'm getting used to it...

  • @Adam-Alfa

    @Adam-Alfa

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me 😔

  • @laylamijares6908

    @laylamijares6908

    4 жыл бұрын

    me, 10 months together & lately it's been nebulous. What painful is I do not know where I was lacking.

  • @laylamijares6908

    @laylamijares6908

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too, I gave everything more than anything else but why it wasn't enough?

  • @mamoketesiphomotlhaole1457

    @mamoketesiphomotlhaole1457

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @sachindevbumbum
    @sachindevbumbum2 жыл бұрын

    First time ever in my life, so much in pain and above all becoming so numb from the inside yet can't stop loving.

  • @lutfidandy
    @lutfidandy2 жыл бұрын

    i remember watching this 3 moths ago after a breakup. looking back it really was the worst feeling i've ever had i was crying while watching this. after all this time i finally feel better and im getting better by day

  • @humlo1128

    @humlo1128

    2 жыл бұрын

    same!! rlly happy for you!! i just ended it 2days ago still dealing with it, my first time hearbreak never thought was this hard

  • @lutfidandy

    @lutfidandy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@humlo1128 stay strong, you can get through this. it will be okay 🤗

  • @humlo1128

    @humlo1128

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lutfidandy tysm!!❤

  • @yasirsiddig2605
    @yasirsiddig26055 жыл бұрын

    dying is not an option but living while dying is worse :(((

  • @jasminkelly9493

    @jasminkelly9493

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yasir Siddig so fucking good quote

  • @oneshadowdragon

    @oneshadowdragon

    5 жыл бұрын

    dying is easy living is not.

  • @GoofyVortex

    @GoofyVortex

    5 жыл бұрын

    I think I've thought but I haven't tried

  • @aisham7244
    @aisham72445 жыл бұрын

    I'm scared of dating anyone else cuz I feel they'd hurt me like he did 😭😢😢

  • @hollisomeone8197

    @hollisomeone8197

    5 жыл бұрын

    heart pain same

  • @stepherokie325

    @stepherokie325

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@hollisomeone8197 I agree

  • @crimzon5100

    @crimzon5100

    5 жыл бұрын

    Just turn gay😂😂

  • @dudadadu6907

    @dudadadu6907

    5 жыл бұрын

    if it happened before it'll likely happen again. patterns, are difficult to break. I see people getting into same relationship over and over. just means you're into the type that exhibit that kind of behavior.

  • @Almedicosis

    @Almedicosis

    5 жыл бұрын

    me too

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