Ted Mosby's speech (John Swihart - You're all alone) How I Met Your Mother S08E20
-Ted, this moment already is gone. The whole Minnesota Tidal Wave thing happened five years ago. It's just a memory. And the rest of this never happened. Right now, Marshall and Lily are upstairs,trying to get Marvin to go back to sleep. Robin and I are trying to decide on a caterer. And you've been sitting here all night, staring at a single ticket to "Robots vs. Wrestlers" because the rest of us couldn't come out. Look around, Ted. You're all alone.
•Kids, it's been almost 20 years since that cold April night in 2013, and I can safely tell you, if I could go back in time and relive that night, there's no way in hell I'd go to "Robots vs. Wrestlers". No, I'd go home. I'd go to my old apartment, see all my old furniture, my old stuff. I'd see my old drafting table, where I sketched out my first building. I'd sit on that old couch and smell the Indian food cooking three stories below. I'd go to Lily and Marshall's place,be back in that old living room where so many things happened. I'd see the baby. I don't know if you can picture me holding your six-foot-seven cousin Marvin over my head, but back then I could. I'd go have a drink with Barney and Robin, watch them fight about their caterer or whatever it was they were fighting about that night. But none of those things is the thing I'd do first.You know the thing I'd do first?
•Hi. I'm Ted Mosby. And exactly 45 days from now, you and I are gonna meet, and we're gonna fall in love, and we're gonna get married, and...we're gonna have two kids. And we're gonna love them and each other so much. All that is 45 days away. But I'm here now, I guess, because...I want those extra 45 days. With you. I want each one of them. Look, and if I can't have them, I'll take the 45 seconds
before your boyfriend shows up and punches me in the face, because...I love you.I'm always gonna love you, till the end of my days and beyond. You'll see.
-Can I help you?
•Oh, hey, it's, uh, Louis, right?It's okay, it's fine, um...I'm in love with your girlfriend, and, uh, we're gonna get married.
-What?
•Yeah.
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Watching this while being sad and drunk wasn’t my best idea
@SirSpinalColumn
4 жыл бұрын
getting drunk while sad isnt the best idea either.
@C3dr4c
4 жыл бұрын
It will be fine Dude! I know its two days ago but hope you're not sad anymore
@Kareems_pie
4 жыл бұрын
Oh jeez that's me right now
@testa5687
4 жыл бұрын
Cedric Larouche thanks! There aren’t many people out there who really care, so bless you. And depression kicks in like hell lately, that was probably the reason I wrote this comment or even watched the video while I was drunk and should have a good time. But that’s something I have to handle on my own, but again, thank you and have a great day/night whenever you will read this.
@testa5687
4 жыл бұрын
Btw to everyone who reads this, feel free to send me a message on Instagram (@leo.187.187). I am struggling with shit too lately but often writing with someone helps even if you write just random bullshit that doesn’t even fit into the topic.. have a great day everyone
This is so much more sad when you realized why he would do that first.
@ashleyfaminial964
6 жыл бұрын
I love how we don't even realise who Lewis is until the next season "How I met Your Father" episode. When you watch this for the first time, he looks just like a random guy but he's ACTUALLY someone in the story....like that girl he bumped into at St.Patrick;s Day
@lightfast7966
6 жыл бұрын
Quarz_dk ouch
@YoXeV
6 жыл бұрын
Huh?
@gentleheart7107
6 жыл бұрын
Because he wanted 45 more days with her.
@katieathanasiou9605
5 жыл бұрын
For those who don't understand this comment, it's because she dies at the end and he wants those 45 more days of knowing her...
Look around Ted. You're all alone. This scene made me cry. I'm 31 years old. The last relationship I had was 6 years back. All my peers are married and here I am. Sitting on a Sunday night with no one to talk to. HIMYM hits me home so strongly. Edit: Thank you for all your messages. There is some positivity in this world. I met a lovely girl. Getting married to her soon. ❤️❤️ Edit 2: Thank you everyone for your replies. Fills my heart with so much gratitude and happiness. Yes, I am married to her now for those who are asking. 🙂🙂
@thedramaclassfan715
4 жыл бұрын
you are going to find her because you deserve to be loved just always remember everything does happen for a reason God has a plan for every one ❤
@letsnotjinxit
4 жыл бұрын
I feel you. But Youll gonna find her.
@shersyril6495
4 жыл бұрын
I hope you met her! If not, she's on the way. Hang in there! ❤️
@HimanshuSingh-jr3pg
4 жыл бұрын
Yaar, one day you will find a way our of your misery and you will reconnect to your friends or make new one. You will find someone to love or someone will find you to love.... Have faith babe
@Emrys91
3 жыл бұрын
Im.29 and im in the very same boat you are. I truely hope you find someone oneday
Never understood the comparison between HIMYM and FRIENDS. FRIENDS is a feel good show about friendship. HIMYM is life.
@ismailreborn1259
3 жыл бұрын
@Noah Lasry friends doesn't feel real though
@muhammedadnan9393
3 жыл бұрын
@Noah Lasry overrated friends aint even Close to the perfection that is HIMYM. Imo
@muhammedadnan9393
3 жыл бұрын
All facts. Not to mention HIMYM has amazing writing and actual plot and story. Something which friends obviously lacks
@deepsharma8591
3 жыл бұрын
@Noah Lasry It has no writing lol Monica is cringey lol and Chandler is a narcissistic fuck lol...
@def7158
3 жыл бұрын
@@muhammedadnan9393 i think what makes HIMYM great is its "imperfection" the fact that the gang's friendships are still filled with secrets, lies, some 'betrayals', all in all the not-feel-goodness of the story, compared to the 'perfection' of the story of Friends
Moments like this is why I think this show is better than friends
@benno3299
4 жыл бұрын
Everytime I see this scene I think exactly the same...
@shadowgarra360
4 жыл бұрын
Alexia Beaulieu-Bellemare ive seen friends... no theres not. Any drama is made immediately comedic as the show tried to maintain its stance as a sitcom and not waver. Additionally there is not much in the way of character growth. All the characters not only remain their archtypes but don’t grow or learn from anything in their life. Where as HIMYM wasn’t afraid to have more serious moments with character building without having a joke in there.
@superwarquest0987
4 жыл бұрын
@@shadowgarra360 very true mate
@fredymendez3864
4 жыл бұрын
Yea I don’t think friends had a single dramatic moment even if it did it was ruined when a lame joke came right after. My crying moment from how I met your mother was when Marshall dad died, Barney broke up with Nora and robin didn’t break up with her significant other, and Barney holds his daughter there is 2 more but anyway this show is definitely better than friends and I grew up watching friends!
@clawjet6069
4 жыл бұрын
And also friends adds laugh track to inappropriate scenes
"Look around ted, you're all alone". The camera zooming out & revealing an empty bar is a feeling that cannot be put into words, but can only be felt.
@HerrFrutex
10 ай бұрын
It's so....relatable.
@ajayrajan8882
10 ай бұрын
@@HerrFrutex Too damn relatable
@Sgtturtle22
2 ай бұрын
Felt this the other night after I paid my tab….I just sat there 2 hours before them closing
RIP Bob Saget. This is one of the best VO monologues of this series. Very heartfelt. ❤
@moonlightcaroline2423
2 жыл бұрын
I agree, one of my favorites too. Rest In Peace, Bob.
@vova_ike
11 ай бұрын
Bob 😮 Saget 😂 raped 😊and killed 🎉girl❤ in 1990 😅😅😅
@lunaxxx674
10 ай бұрын
He made disgusting, pedophilic jokes about mary kate and ashley, fuck that guy
@aqlanimations4822
3 ай бұрын
It's crazy after all that, and he goes to robin to me. The ending was probably one of the worst let downs I have seen on tv, next was Andy and Erin from The Office. These two were the biggest let downs. Imagine if this was the ending and the wife comes out and says yes I will marry you. Would be insane, After all the barney and Robin growth, let them stay married and have a good one. Have Mosby steal the blue horn again and have that same kind of thing he did for robin but for the wife instead.
@LenKirin
Ай бұрын
@@aqlanimations4822 It kinda sucks but it also makes sense in a way. Most of the series was about Robin + Ted and it even started with how Ted met her. I think the most disappointing thing for the ending wasn't ending up with Robin, but the complete backpedalling of many characters and their growth. Woulda been easier to digest if: - Barney didn't have 2 complete switch ups at the end - more foreshadowing moments of the mother's death (or if it was confirmed earlier tbh) - if the kids didn't instigate Ted to go back to Robin, but if it was some sort of realization internally
This legit makes me tear up every time I see it. Knowing what the story behind it is...
@ameensalih7371
3 жыл бұрын
What’s the story behind it I haven’t watched the show but I’d like to know
@prisonerofcapitalism
3 жыл бұрын
I gasped and teared up the first time I watched this scene, because when he said, "I want those extra 45 days." . . . I knew. I just knew. And it fucking broke my heart.
@d.golden8270
3 жыл бұрын
@@prisonerofcapitalism me too, cry for 1 min and really want to stop watch the next eps
@TheNikolai123
3 жыл бұрын
@@ameensalih7371 did u see it yet?
@N3O1999
3 жыл бұрын
For me it's even just how Barney is like "look around Ted, you're all alone"
"look around ted. you're all alone." GAAAAAHHHH THE FEELS
@TheCosmicFailure
4 жыл бұрын
When he says that and that the minnesota tidal wave happened years ago. I was like WTF.
@apurvapatel9699
4 жыл бұрын
I still feel that line like i felt it the first time
@drewaureangeronimo7816
3 жыл бұрын
Ghad feels like my heart just got broken again.
@akshatsharmasre
3 жыл бұрын
This is how i feel most of the time in my daily life😔.
@vishwajitmahesh
3 жыл бұрын
Having no friends makes this hits hard :((
It’s sad watching it back knowing why he wants the extra 45 days
@gjlipana881
4 жыл бұрын
I need those extra 45 days playing with you black lung
@hsmileyface8308
4 жыл бұрын
Arthur Morgan oooohooh black lung, you aint gone reach for that gun, you lost, my sick friend. YOU LOST.
@bbbbbbbb3158
4 жыл бұрын
@@hsmileyface8308 After this clip, you saying this? Fuck you fucking evil prick!
@arthurmorgan4501
4 жыл бұрын
Henk Aarts I’m still alive up in Strawberry
@tonym3413
4 жыл бұрын
If this is a contest then i think i win 34 and single never married. Still goin strong. Absolutely miserable lol
The background piano piece is one of the most hauntingly beautiful music ever.
@gijsbergman8299
3 жыл бұрын
What is the name of this piece?
@amangoyal923
3 жыл бұрын
@@gijsbergman8299 You're All Alone by John Swihart
@fierybulblax
3 жыл бұрын
You know what else is hauntingly beautiful? The meaning of the word "karaoke".
@maxkuiper996
3 жыл бұрын
@@fierybulblax empty orchestra
@jonathanthorshammer4968
2 жыл бұрын
@@amangoyal923 I used to think this piece sounded pretty similar to The Funeral (The Song that played when Klaus was giving his famous speech 8x01)
Imagine being his kids though and having to hear this and wishing your dad could've gotten those 45 days too. And then wishing they could have 45 more years with their mom.
Josh Radnor was the absolute heart of this show. I don't think there has been or will ever be a character with as much heart as Ted Mosby. I'm all alone in this world. I don't have many friends, but one just got married, the other is in a long term relationship, and then there's me, alone, constantly being screwed over by girls that don't want me. I've focused on myself for the past 3 years now, and the waiting for the one to walk into my life isn't getting easier. I relate to Ted so much, as I'm sure many of you do. We just got to hang in there and wait a little while more. She's on her way, and she's getting here as fast as she can.
@ringisaifarai9271
4 жыл бұрын
Dale You are not alone, bit keep the faith my brother
@ikromtamat1681
4 жыл бұрын
Always improve yourself and be the best version of yourself.. Always be ready.. You'll aligned yourself to her.. She won't be that far away..
@simonbegovic490
4 жыл бұрын
Ikrom Tamat who Tf says she‘s Not far away? Not everyone get girls in Life, its not tragically at all
@jamieabbi
4 жыл бұрын
That’s real talk. You can do it brother.
@theworkshop6914
4 жыл бұрын
Focusing on yourself. Probably the best thing you can do for yourself. Don't worry, she is on her way and she is gonna get ya sooner than you'd think.
:p
@JustinBailey91
5 жыл бұрын
Same, I think I've rewatched the entire series 12 times and I'm still not bored by it.
@allthatremainsx6
4 жыл бұрын
this show literally kills me. especially this and when marshall's dad dies.
@skypekai
4 жыл бұрын
I cant watch it anymore as I got older. Ive had severe social anxiety my whole life and now Im the same age as them and I have nobody in my life anymore, it reminds me I will never find love and will live the rest of my life alone.
@jelleh7379
4 жыл бұрын
@@skypekai Stay strong and keep going man, I feel like it'll get better. Just try to interact, be nice and everything will go right. That's the most important part. People love and appreciate you, though you might not realize it 😁
@theriVClips
4 жыл бұрын
Marshall shouting with the answering machine of his dad makes me very every time
Anyone ever wanted to just give Ted a hug and just tell him it'll get better?
@amangoyal923
3 жыл бұрын
In Cleaning House (S06E02), Marshall does that but as a joke.
That “you’re all alone” hits me in the face like a truck every single time. It fills my chest with an empty void that torments me
@thinkandsea
10 ай бұрын
same...
@HerrFrutex
9 ай бұрын
I just can't..... :(
At this moment, I am in a bad mood, don't know why. I decided to watch this. Again I don't know why. But thank God that this show exists.
@MelkisgoedvoorJan
4 жыл бұрын
Purba Mukherjee This made me so fucking sad, holy cow
@riteshsawant81192
2 жыл бұрын
I feel that ❤️
@norbertnorkenster1103
2 жыл бұрын
@@riteshsawant81192 Good To see People are still here, watching this heartbreaking moment
@mukool7477
2 жыл бұрын
Indian fan here.. feeling the same
@Sgtturtle22
2 ай бұрын
Because sometimes it makes us realize the reality and we have two choices, keep going with it and give up or….change it
I'm 26, almost 27 years old, and single. Every time I watch this, it hit me so hard, I almost gonna cry. I don't know where is my love, but I want to be with her. Ted give me hope every day, that I'm gonna find her. :(
@bharathbhat
5 жыл бұрын
I am 30. Every single friend I have is married or dating. I am the only person who is single. My flatmate has gone for 3 months. Every night I go home, it is dark and cold. I sit all alone and eat my dinner. I know how you feel man. But the hope remains. One day I will find my true love. We have to hope.
@bharathbhat
5 жыл бұрын
@@aaaabb2977 I agree. I have learnt so much being alone. Brings a different perspective to life. :)
@wolflover6972
5 жыл бұрын
Love isn't real
@abheethakker
4 жыл бұрын
Remember what stell said to Ted... She will search for you as much as you are..she is coming as fast as she cam
@HiuBii1816
4 жыл бұрын
@@bharathbhat I hope you can find your soulmate.
The way he loved Tracy is so pure and unconditional. I can't even compare it to other of his relationships. She was the right one, his true love, his soulmate and i'm still not over the ending.
As the only person in my friend group who isnt married and/or a parent the line "you're all alone" hits much harder than it did when it first aired.
@coryfoster9373
2 жыл бұрын
You should be proud to be that guy :). Just continue to travel and meet new people and women - have fun! Go explore! Just keep doing that - you probably don’t even need a woman good sir to date, just have fun! I’m 31 and don’t really focus on being single. Cheers!
@Spooderman-sq5uj
Жыл бұрын
@@coryfoster9373 tfw when money
@ceciliazem1080
Жыл бұрын
Same here
@nerenax2132
Жыл бұрын
You're never alone, my dear❤
@ImranMostly
8 ай бұрын
you call that life a happy life? Just have fun? with no one to care for or by? Youre 31 you should know better but even youre talking like a teen! Truly the western lifestyle has whacked human species for good! seems like Going around fornicating random women until you get herpes or aids is the goal now!@@coryfoster9373
friends is a pure comedy show, its fun to watch and to relax with, but that's it... i still watch friends just to relieve my stress after work but HIMYM is more than just comedy, they took us to feel train, a lot of scenes in HIMYM hit me hard and i actually learn some "love tips" from this show i dont replay HIMYM as much as i replay friends, but when i do, it is in a good moment, and i love that moment
@saythetruth1396
4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree to your comment and can relate to it, HIMYM isn't a show you watch her and then while eating or chilling for entertainment only (like king of queens, you could watch every episode anytime) you watch it when you feel like to repeat the whole series from starting to ending
@riisntsryc3771
4 жыл бұрын
What love tips
@MrHarshaagousta
4 жыл бұрын
@@riisntsryc3771 a lot, proper question woukd be "which one?" Example: - remember when ted talked about his old shirt and start to rethink his exes could be actually the one? My last ex was one of the old acquaintance of mine, i remembered her when i wanted to clean my storage. - when ted let stella off after when stella choose her ex-husband, ted saw how happy stella was and decide to make peace with her, i did the same and still be friend with my ex after that eventhough she personally hurt me. - many of barney's theories and plays are actually worked in real life... - Like cheerleader's effect - the "ted mosby, architect" (not the architect part but when you say something in confindent) - the famous "have you met ted?" - The mermaid theory (where ugly girl turned into beautiful girl when you spend much time with her) - THE NAKED MAN, damn this still shock me that it works... 4 out of 6 now, self five! And many more...
@stephenbilldybuco6249
4 жыл бұрын
In himym I felt like I was part of their journey. I don't rewatch it because it'd feel differently like I'm just looking back at those memories.
@amossanjeev3524
3 жыл бұрын
exactly.. 💕💕
It's sad when you realise this is what Ted wants to say to Tracey six years on after she died. He isn't saying this in raw grief directly after losing someone. This is man who's adapted to living without his wife who still desperately wishes he could go back in time and have his wife back. These words he is saying are a truth that he knows with certainty and has lived with for so many years and which he knows are eternal. This is meant to his parting to her if you will and at this point in his life he's getting closer to Robin but still there's nothing in there that shows he's ready to let go of Tracey now like he said to Robin on the morning of her wedding or what Tracey said to Max. He's still seems like a man yearning to have his wife with him and it's like he knows he'll forever yearn for her and she's a part of him and there's no way he can truly let her go and he's ok with that. All he wants to let her know is he loves her as much as he did day one and that he misses her and if he could have her back he would and he'd give anything to have more time with her even if it's a few seconds and he wants her to know he'll love her till the end of his days and beyond and that's something that won't change no matter what or who comes his way. His parting words to Tracey aren't really a parting but a declaration of eternal love and rememberance and something he knows he'll forever live with.
@TobiasHolmPiano
4 жыл бұрын
Very well written - you nailed it! 🍀👌🏻 :)
@bananatiger
4 жыл бұрын
Damn that's deep.
@rollingstairs1
4 жыл бұрын
@Bradley James i thought the entire show took place after her death?
@Hyperko2
4 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭
@thedramaclassfan715
4 жыл бұрын
are you a poet because this was awesome
This is honestly one of the best foreshadowing i've ever seen on television
@red2977
10 ай бұрын
yes you are right, because he wouldn't be that intense about it if she was still alive. He would still love her but there wouldn't be the same urgency where every minute every second counted.
@lisev415
19 күн бұрын
Extra being the word that gives it away
The fact that this was a hallucination really kills me, he’s trying so hard to hold onto the past, to feel safe. Safe from the changes happening all around him. Really hits a hard with a lot of us
Nothing goes over the speech of Klaus about the "Lebenslangerschicksalsschatz"
@juliuskaruso
4 жыл бұрын
Bro, I am German and this word doesn't even exist haha
@hassanalkhalaf1115
4 жыл бұрын
Immer diese Deutschen
@hassanalkhalaf1115
4 жыл бұрын
@@juliuskaruso ich klau dir deinen Job
@hassanalkhalaf1115
4 жыл бұрын
@@juliuskaruso stell dir vor
@hassanalkhalaf1115
4 жыл бұрын
@@juliuskaruso bisher dachte ich das hier ist Spaß aber scheinbar hast du rassistische Tendenzen
As a single man, this scene hurts, when you see your friends get married, have kids, succeed in their dreams, and you realize how alone you are, as you notice that time is all you wish for with that someone.
The energy of these musical moments: •Ted sees Victoria (Soul Meets Body) • Ted and Robin rooftop (Inside of Love) •Ted kisses Victoria (Spit on a stranger) •Milk (Mother of Pearl) •Ted kisses Robin, Lily leaves Marshall (This Modern Love) • You Stole Blue French Horn for Me (No One Here) •The Platinum Rule (Black Tears) •The Yellow Umbrella (Beautiful Beat) •Right Place Right Time (Glad Girls) •The Leap (Prophets) •ProFFessor and GOOD ENOUGH (Oxford Comma) •We've been on this date before (Rewind) •A Kid needs a hoop (I'll Come For You) •Victoria returns, Barney sees Nora (Victoria) •Barney and Robin, Disaster Averted (Hey) •Tick Tick Tick (Heavy Hours) •Robin moves out. (Shake it out) •Lebenslangerschicksalsschatz (The Funeral) •The Pit (If the Hudson Overflows) •The Robin (Let Your Heart Hold Fast) •The Girl With The Yellow Umbrella (Simple Song) •Bass Player Wanted (Forest Whitaker) •Sunrise (Eternal Flame) •Ted Meets The Mother (Downtown Train) •The End (Heaven)
@sorunke2002
3 жыл бұрын
Just because I'm gonna come back here
@mariselaremigio5648
3 жыл бұрын
Ward
@BigWheezer2000
3 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget about Maggie (The window is open) reconnecting with her first love after so many years.
@frederickylagan7812
3 жыл бұрын
I also like: Ted meeting Victoria and explaining their first dance, before she disappears after he counts to 10 (You Don't Know Me - Michael Buble)
@blazinsmokes3164
3 жыл бұрын
I wanted to know the song Funeral.. Thank you so much
In my opinion this is one of the saddest, yet most touching scenes in this show. “Look around Ted, you’re all alone” that phrase is so haunting. This and the end of episode 14 of season 6 when they are at Marvins funeral and Marshall thinks he left him a pocket dialed voicemail.
Anyone who’s looked around and found there all alone don’t worry....you won’t always be...it’ll happen...it did for me after being left alone in March 2018....you’ll find your one like ted did...their out there....❤️
@thesoapboxopera7316
6 жыл бұрын
Not everyone, sadly
@monicagonzalez291
5 жыл бұрын
I hope
@SerbAtheist
4 жыл бұрын
If only that were true. Some people never really manage to find someone and do end up dying alone. Be grateful. I know I am.
@MelkisgoedvoorJan
4 жыл бұрын
76Superdude theyre, good speech tho sorry
@qwertyqwerty4603
4 жыл бұрын
76Superdude i know this was put more than a year ago, but i just wanna say thank you, i really needed to hear it
This is what HIMYM has over friends. Friends was an over glorified sitcom, HIMYM was more than just some comedy. It was life captured is simple moments, the hardships people go through, the highest of highs and The lowest of lows. It was more than just a show for cheap laughs. It was so much more
@johnmurphy7674
4 жыл бұрын
Who cares? Let’s enjoy those sitcoms, why do you guys ALWAYS compare? Seriously?
4 жыл бұрын
@@johnmurphy7674 Oh thank you finally the one
@connorerhart6038
3 жыл бұрын
Friends had the better series finale
@hanizawady6555
3 жыл бұрын
@@connorerhart6038 did it? They both kind of sucked
@connorerhart6038
3 жыл бұрын
Ethio King Friends knew how to say goodbye
Dublin, Saturday December 17th 2022: I went to this event at this pub and I was sitting at this huge table by myself because my friends were too busy to come out cause they have their own things going on and that's life, but... I suddenly felt like I was disconnected from what was happening all around me and decided to go home. The walk home took me about 25 minutes. It was cold but I didn't mind, I could even say I enjoyed it. On the way home this phrase keep popping into my head "you're all alone". Then, I remember this episode and as soon as I was home I pureed myself a drink and watch this episode. Look around Leo, you're all alone.
Who's watching that now when he is alone at the new year :(
@guigahernandez4564
4 жыл бұрын
Does me watching alone at my birthday count?
@masterbeangamer3634
4 жыл бұрын
@@guigahernandez4564 Unfortunately yes
@juliuskaruso
4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for you :(
@faiyazsaqifkhansummit792
3 жыл бұрын
Lol, tough luck
This show will always be my favourite. This show made me realise how hard it is to find the right person for you especially when you have Ted's personalty and passion about love which is exactly my problem. After years of searching and pain through different relationships, I think I've finally found "the one" for me a few months ago. We've just started our journey together. But hopefully, if we made it that far, I'm going to show her this comment at our wedding.
@Adrenaline0413
4 жыл бұрын
I watched this show at such a young age that this show is the reason why i am the way i am. I am an up in the clouds romantic because of Ted Mosby. It's really weird how this show can really change a person.
@ultramate_noodle5367
4 жыл бұрын
Right!? Same here
@KrishanVaish19
4 жыл бұрын
Did u ?
@ahmadsamiatiqui9080
3 жыл бұрын
Did you?
@sreekarvanga8524
3 жыл бұрын
Reminding you this thread’s still alive
I relate to this more than I should. I feel that I’ve been alone for a long time, just waiting for that perfect moment, that perfect timing even though it won’t come true. All of my friends are successful in their individual endeavors and I can’t seem to find something to someone that can truly make me happy. I want nothing more than to just feel good about myself. This scene at this point in my life gives me a small glimmer of hope that happiness is out there. Somewhere. I just hope it comes soon.
@dylanm3181
5 жыл бұрын
its so weird man. But i found the perfect girl by accident. It's too long of a story now. But now, i do admit, that finding love is totally random. Like searching for a needle in a haystack. You'll eventually find it. But after how long? Took me 21 years. And i'm not even sure we're going to stick together. But every moment i get to talk to her online, i cherish it. Of course we will be meeting soon in person. But, for now, i'm just happy i get to talk to her. took me 21 years of my life. don't give up. Never stop believing. Just like i did. But remember to put yourself out there. It'll take you lots of trial and errors to eventually find the perfect key that fits the lock
@itsyaboidale
4 жыл бұрын
@@dylanm3181 if you don't mind me asking, did anything happen with this girl after you met her in person?? I need some inspiration and hope
@ericorenato88
4 жыл бұрын
Oddly... it happens when you jus let go of searching and you give up on everything and relationships and just let life take care of you. I was thinking exactly like you 2 months ago. It will happen when you least expect it
@dylanm3181
4 жыл бұрын
@@itsyaboidale 8 months...8 months have passed. Such a long time. So many things have happened. Girls have come and gone. I can't really give you a clear update, because things didn't end up anywhere with that girl xD. What I learned is that real love doesn't exist. But the possibility to find that special someone is there. This year so far, I've had my first kiss and my first taste to what it means to be in a relationship. Short lived, but fun nonetheless. Currently, business is booming. This coming week I have a date with another girl and I have a few in queue. Meaning that I'll go out with them when I find an empty slot for both of us. In summary, I've learned to just go with the flow and date as many girls as possible. Doesn't matter if you're a perfect match or not. It's important to at least give it a chance. Gain experience. Of course always be a gentleman about it. It's a numbers game after all
@dylanm3181
4 жыл бұрын
@@itsyaboidale oh right. Nothing happened with the girl I was talking about 8 months ago. But Sparks flew with another one. Once we kissed, the chemistry was off the charts. We made out half the night. So don't lose hope. Be bold. Be assertive. If you have to ask if you can kiss her, do it. Who cares. Thats how I ruined my first kiss. If you have the balls, just go for it without saying anything. Brush her hair, so you let her know you're going in for the kiss and then just do it. Of course, make sure the atmosphere is there. Don't ever lose hope! I was the same tbh. Felt hopeless for years. Then I started working on myself and finally, the results came. You have to believe! No matter how hard life can be. Persevere!
WHEN HE SAYS “until the end of my days, and beyond” JESUS I DONT WANT TO CRY STOP IT
This show helps me feel like everything will be alright.
2020 and I’m being recommended this 😭😭
And this is why Ted is one of the best characters
This show connects with the viewer all the time, a true masterpiece. I don’t think I’ll be able to live without watching HIMYM it’s so damn good that I wanna watch it all the time and I don’t get sick of it.
@razzy9172
Жыл бұрын
the ending it sucked though 😕
@Noorutska
Жыл бұрын
@@razzy9172 I used to think so too. But given some time and after rewatching (doing it again now) it feels... understandable. It's tragic, sure. But Ted had raised his kids 6 years without his wife and his kids encouraged him to move on... "It's been 6 years, it's time". Yes the ending was rushed and the last season could have been paced differently but still, the idea behind the ending, I get it, it's life. Sometimes life is not the happy ending what you wished for.
@BratShemi
3 ай бұрын
@@razzy9172It didnt , but they rushed it
They always make fun about Ted being such a romantic. But for real, I would do everything for a man like Ted.
@JamailvanWestering
3 жыл бұрын
That’s understandable
@f.9658
3 жыл бұрын
Being a Ted can be - and often is - incredibly painful.
@jacinto1477
3 жыл бұрын
At the end o f the series (with the alternative ending) he was my favourite character
@Mirda-bg3pi
2 жыл бұрын
People today who are like Ted are getting run ower and stepped on in dating world...
@lraeb2007
2 жыл бұрын
Same, he's so dedicated and tries so hard to find the one and when he finds her he just falls so hard for her and treats her like a princess. I want someone that will treat me that way
The one moment i come back to on himym, i grew up and realized that this was all too good to be true, to even happen in my life. But this scene is too beautiful, its the only scene i come back to
@senn2463
4 жыл бұрын
You’re forgetting the scene on the bridge of Ted talking to Jaenette. That is a great scene as well about what love it is
This is so me...all my friends are employed...most of them married...and here I am broke single waiting for destiny
@kaiyol6160
5 жыл бұрын
Ur not alone brother
@frankyace4371
5 жыл бұрын
You have to act. Destiny doesnt exist. Dont give up and fight for your dreams.
@rithrius5384
4 жыл бұрын
At least you _have_ friends.
@iceuckdik4160
4 жыл бұрын
@@rithrius5384 I felt that
@iyyappandhanasekaran1432
4 жыл бұрын
Hold on brother ....
It hurts me in my soul to see the pain of the people in the comments. If you feel the same way as Ted, please let the comments be a reminder that you are not alone in this. God has a plan for your life and I were with you right now I would hold you till all the pain left your tired soul❤️
@normalgirl0z139
9 ай бұрын
❤️
This series had so many moments that had a heavy impact on many of us. That should always be appreciated
Scenes like this is what makes HIMYM my favorite sitcom ever
I've watched this show so many times over and over again. This scene always got me crying. So magical and deep
This episode literally broke me. I cried my heart out to this. It's just so realistic. As u grow up, things just change, idk how but they just do, no matter how deep the friendship is. The way ted ran to her house and gave that speech made me want to cry after i finished the show and realised it. He deserved so much more, idc what anyone says. He just wanted his soulmate after all.
"look around Ted, you're all alone" That little twist really fucking hits you out of the blue
I can’t watch this scene without getting moved😢 doesn’t matter how many times I’ve seen it.
I once fell asleep while heavily intoxicated listening to this episode. I cried in my dream and woke up with swollen eyes. Thank you HIMYM for all the feelings
It's cold, I'm alone, in my apartment, I've been thorough years in college and havent graduated yet, I've lost my high school friends, my close friends through some selfish stuff, I'm 23 years old and my everybody started to go through their own lives.. I'm single, haven't had a girl since birth. . For years I wasn't looking for someone but now I feel so sad and alone.. Just wish my so called "one" would just come and comfort me.. Understand my problems and live through with it.. This scene is just hitting me hard.. Love this show really and this was 7 years ago.. Can't believe it..
@Keysi_6
4 жыл бұрын
And how is your life now?
Bob saget was criminally underrated in this show. This episode had the best narration I’ve heard. Makes me wonder why he is uncredited. His role as older Ted in the episode made me feel for the character.
@thetitanofwallstreet7839
2 жыл бұрын
His voiceovers and general usage as a story telling device sets this show apart from other for me.
Where everybody cried, it is one of the most beautiful scene in television shows industry. Simply perfect.
This is such a beautiful scene for so many reasons.
The line You are all alone it hits so hard! Like all Ted's journey make it most special!
RIP Bob Saget. The voice of Future Ted.
I cried when I watched this scene for the first time.
@jokesonyou7191
5 жыл бұрын
I cry every time i watch this and im not ashamed
This is the single greatest scene in every sitcome ever. The depth, the emotion. None of the other sitcoms even came close to this! And this is not biased. I've watched and loved friends,the big bang theory, modern family etc. But this. This is another level.
This show will forever be legendary........ There won't be anything that can be comparable to it
This is the most sweetest yet haunting moment in the entire show. Everything about this specific scene is perfect.
This scene makes me cry my eyes out every. single. time.
@user-kc5jn4qv4j
3 жыл бұрын
What apisode?
This is one of the most sobering and harrowing moments in himym. When Ted finally realized that he needed to move on with his life. Either by meeting The Mother or following through on his commitment to Chicago
@SardonicJosh
3 жыл бұрын
this is also kinda the moment when Ted realised that Tracy was right. He shouldn't be a man living in his stories and should move on...
Friends was never creative like this with episodes, it was a traditional sitcom through and through. HIMYM had a wider span of emotions and much more character development. The writers on HIMYM were truly creative. Actors as well.
@cesarm.3656
3 жыл бұрын
I always tell my fiancee, whenever I watch Friends with her it's so shallow. HIMYM on the other hand hits you hard at times and makes you laugh too, it's great.
@fyfyi6053
2 жыл бұрын
@@cesarm.3656 Can I just ask "why"? One is comedy the other one is a profound comedy-drama. Trust me you do need comedy in your life. Maybe a lot more than drama.
I think the most beautiful thing Ted's friends did was stick around despite being in totally different places. TV shows like to add the baby trope to spice things up but realistically parents are so busy they usually forget about their friends. Lilly always says "be there for the big moments" but nothing hurts more than being lonely
How I Met Your Mother is entirely different from any other sitcom; they skillfully handle dramatic moments without inserting a silly joke that disrupts the mood.
I was 16 when I first saw this episode, I didnt really understand the deep sadness that Ted experienced. I am now 24 years old, I am doing my Postgraduate in a foreign country unable to return to my country because of this pandemic. In social media and IRL I see my friends getting married, graduating, getting a job or moving up in their jobs. My friends from school and Uni have all moved on with their lives. Seeing this again now I feel that sadness, the realization that to each is their own cross to carry and at the end of the day you're ultimately alone.
This scene is so relatable and close to my heart because I'm all alone. What a gem.
Such a meaningful episode...clinging onto older memories while you're actually alone
I'm sick of the whole Tracy v Robin argument. Tracy was the one, the Mother of his children but she was taken tragically, as her first husband was taken from her BUT the narrative from the first episode has been about Robin and Ted. Look at when we see Tracy first arrive at Farhampton while THE FUNERAL plays, then realise this scene is a thought from an older Ted, still processing Tracy's death talking of how, if he could he'd try and spend 45 more days with Tracy. He loved her, she was what the universe was going to send all along. The ending wasn't rushed, it was always meant to be. This is life. Ted was just lucky that, like Tracy, he found two people who he connected with unconditionally. Life isn't about quitting when you first hit a roadblock, it's not about stopping just because society has deemed you already got your happy ending. There's no happy ending, that's the fable here. Tracy was incredible and tragically died but that was NOT Ted's ending. That is what you need to take forward in life, regardless of who you are.YOUR ending is the moment you breathe your last breath. Ted just got lucky that he met two soul mates, the first just not being who he needed at any point, until Tracy died. In short Tracy Robin. Life isn't simple, it's not black and white. The series ended perfectly.
@emmetfield5026
5 жыл бұрын
Wow
@pleasedrivecarefullytheres7494
5 жыл бұрын
David Gibson right? RIGHT?
@baongocnguyen9955
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah you see people are mad not simply because Ted ended up with Robin, not the mother. They are mad because Ted ended up with SOMEONE LIKE ROBIN. She is a self centered bitch who never once realize how much Ted loves her. She bails whenever things get bad. Robin always wants people to give things up for her. She can not give up on her job to save her marriage. But she’s disappointed at Barney for doing the same thing? And when Ted’s happily in love with the mother Robin couldn’t bare seeing that while Ted tried his best to gather his shit together to encourage Robin to go after Barney. You see my point here?
@emmetfield5026
5 жыл бұрын
@@pleasedrivecarefullytheres7494 sandwich?
@hectorarredondo6929
5 жыл бұрын
Sure the ending sucks and i have an idea how the show could have ended and maybe a revival but in the end it was satisfying him talking to the mother at the end and complaining about tbe ending is not going to do anything
this hits close to home. thanks for posting.
I grew up with this show and I watched the whole thing again, and now that I've lost loved ones and watched people walk out of my life, I understand the meaning of the show and how it teaches to move on and grow while also showing how hard it will be.
The feels this show gives me will never get old, I always come back to it when I'm down. This show taught me so much and its a lot deeper and smarter than anyone gives it credit for
I think the speech is really really touching, but the part that gets me is at 3:42 just seeing how lost and defeated Ted is standing in front of Maclaren’s. In that instant, he had no idea that everything he had hoped for was right around the corner. The only thing he knew then was the life he had grown so accustomed to living over the years was slipping away. That depressing shot of him sitting alone in the bar that they showed at the end of the episode was how his entire night had gone and probably how many of his nights had been at that point in time. He tells his kids that knowing what he knew, he would visit the mother, but he didn’t know any of what was to come. He just knew at that point in time that he was unhappy and not ready to let go of his old life. I’ve always noticed that hard times always seem way better in hindsight when they precede something good and unexpected. And that’s why I think the rest of the episode is so upbeat and why past Ted is smiling after getting punched in the face in the shot that fades into the shot that I first mentioned
This is the future awaiting every man. Look around you, you’re all alone.
The irony of me sitting here watching this alone after the shows been over for this long...
This was one of the most touching moments i've ever seen in this show💔
This is my favourite scene in the entire show. Sure, it’s even more sad because of the ending. However, who doesn’t want an extra 45 days with their lebenslangerschicksalsschatz, no matter what.
Ted is the reason for the show’s success. He has taken up on a ride if playful sadness like no other. This show will always be his
Christ when you watch this back when your 30 and without your own family it hits different
I think about this scene way too much. Waaaaay too much. There’s this weird feeling of melancholy in this scene that just lives in my head rent free. It bums me out everytime, and yet I’m addicted to this scene.
one of the best scenes to ever put on film.
even with his wife dead they shouldve left the part with robin... that really destroyed the whole im always gonna love you part
@ronayusan4047
4 жыл бұрын
Ikr.. and maybe keep barney and robin together to not waste all that character development for barney.. it wouldve been a sad ending for ted, but still would be better than the actual
@DS-wp8do
4 жыл бұрын
Ronnie Jusan Its not a waste. The point was that no matter how strong you love someone and how much you try to change for them life is life and things can still turn in different direction. And at some point you realise in the case of Ted and Robin that you need the comfort of sharing things with one of your closest people even thought your relationship hasnt developed as planned.
@GigaNiga7
4 жыл бұрын
I was also pissed. But, then i realized this whole show was about Ted and Robin. Although i wish if they wanted to end Barney and Robin relation, thrn they should have given more time to end relationship. They spent whole 2-3 seasons to build relation and it ended in just one episode.
@hegluj6796
4 жыл бұрын
HollowBoy the whole relationship was developing since season 4 and the show was not about ted and robin, it was about how ted became the person he was when he meets Tracy
@hegluj6796
4 жыл бұрын
D S exactly and that point was already proven when robin chose Barney and not ted and ted had to let her go, the creators just wanted to use the ending they filmed in the beggining without realizing it that characters were already developed past that point and that the lessons they wanted to give were already given
This show is so much more relatable than anything I’ve watched. At each point of the series we can relate to each character. We’ve all been ted at one point or another.
@Cuteemogirl94
2 жыл бұрын
This and Scrubs
@marklupo3441
2 жыл бұрын
@@Cuteemogirl94 I love scrubs.
When you know how it ends, it es even more sad. HIMYM gave me all emotions from my Teenager to my grown up years. For me it's the best and most emotional TV Series. Love it and watch it 1x every year
i cry everytime
Sitting alone and watching this suddenly hits u hard!!
Due to its wide range of emotions I always rate himym better than friends 🙌🙌
@bbkramam1663
4 жыл бұрын
Agree completely 💯💯💪
@amangoyal923
3 жыл бұрын
Not just emotions, it actually has a WRITING doing something new everytime (Trilogy Time, Three Days of Snow, Platinum Rule, Slapsgiving and this episode here)...
@amangoyal923
3 жыл бұрын
HIMYM only has 8.3 rating on IMDB. Episodes like THE TIME TRAVELLERS only 8.4 rating, while BROOKLYN 99 and PARKS & RECREATION are getting ahead. Please sign up on IMDB and support the show. 🙏🙏🙏
"look around ted, you're all alone" gets me everytime
Didn't really catch it the first time I watched the show, but on the second watch through I got it, and man did I cry so hard after that.
It's really emotional to watch this again, years after finding my special person. I still remember the suffering I felt. I had absolutely no reason to believe my life would change for the better, but it finally has. Don't let the uncertainty crush you like I did. Let it inspire you. Accept that you can't know your future. Don't hope, and don't despair. Look for places to share your common interests with others like you, and build friendships that can teach you how to be your best self for that future partnership. Focus as hard as you can on the value of your own journey, and not on what you don't have yet. People who start life lonely and sensitive make each day count once we get where we want to be.
Makes me tear up in 2021 just as it did when it aired in 2013. The GOAT show!
There comes a point in life, maybe your late 20’s. Maybe your early 30’s. Where you see your friends, the same friends you came of age with, spent many wild, fun nights & days with in your earlier years, begin to peel off and start their own lives and families. Maybe they get married, have kids, move to LA or overseas. They still love you and will be there for you, but things change. In those moments if you’re like Ted (and me, currently Ted’s age at the start of the show) you look around, find yourself alone in a big city, a little lost. And this show has so much heart and is so brilliant that the writers are dead on, if I knew right now what & who I hope to know in 10-20 years the first thing I’d do is go find that person I hope I build a life with someday. I know that being confused, feeling alone & making your way is part of growing up but we all want to know we’re gonna be ok one day. Miss this show
and exactly these moments are what made himym so so special in a way that even most dramas lack to express. my deepest respect to the authors of this episode
1st January 2020....I am all all alone :((
@tdan89
4 жыл бұрын
Where is she?
@rafff6177
4 жыл бұрын
Same here man, gotta keep going though, no matter how things seem! Good luck to you☺️
@shubhashishsarkar4686
4 жыл бұрын
We all are!!!
It's sad not having to watch this show continue. Its just the best.
Everybody right now talking about friends reunion. But this show is so much better than any aspect. For real!
Is anybody out there feeling the same vacancy in their heart watching this scene? It's like the eternal desire to tell these words the person you've lost. And the music just perfectly backs up these feelings. Great Show Great Music Pure emotion.
Watching this in my house while my siblings are on their phones talking and chatting with their loved ones while I'm still waiting for her
@amangoyal923
3 жыл бұрын
And trying best not to let them see us crying...
I always come back and watch this when I’m feeling lonely. Idk where my yellow umbrella is but this gives me hope that I’ll find her someday, somewhere
Watching this video right now on youtube I am a 20yr old dude, I rly wish to be married 7 or 8 yrs later watching it again later in life with my wife just for the sake of it