Just Tara's voice alone, is therapy....

@joannaedwards6325

Жыл бұрын

Funny. I have to try and get past her voice and just get the lesson. Not soothing to me. Annoying.

the phone calls from the planes on 9/11 held no hate, no revenge, or some line by a poet...they spoke in one voice of LOVE

Thanks for this lecture. It is a source of healing and inner clarity.

...pearls, abalone shells, & gold nuggets.. of wisdom...thank you...

One of Tara. Brach’s best lectures. Great tools to use “in the moment”! Thank you Tara - once again. 🧘‍♀️🧘‍♀️❤️

@purpleFluke

2 жыл бұрын

I couldn't find it Please is there a link?

this has made me more calm anger is a human emotion , we will always react but it will not be on purpose if ur happy with ur own self u will be more likely to respond.

Thank you. Thank you for your teachings. Your gentle tone of voice us so soothing and soothes my soul.

So special to learn from ms Brach! 🙏🏻

Thank you for your generosity and guidance! 💗

Wonderful to come across this subject matter. Thank you, Tara!

I think this talk was totally meant for me

Thank you for your soothing words on Responding not Reacting. Special for me .Namaste 🙏

i am so stuck in my trance and cant enjoy anything , depressed ,sad, angry, frustrated, lost to name a few , im afraid so afraid that I will not move away from this .

@elvastaudinger4991

6 жыл бұрын

feel exactly the same.

@nellynel3027

4 жыл бұрын

Listen to her audiobook Radical acceptance. Also look up Veronica Krestow on KZread. She’s amazing at helping you tap into your inner world so you can feel joy again. It’s a practice, won’t happen overnight but this has really helped me and my anxiety or feeling like I’m depressed. Hope this helps you too love ❤️

Idiot compassion: "The third near enemy of compassion is idiot compassion. This is when we avoid conflict and protect our good image by being kind when we should definitely say “no.” Compassion doesn’t only imply trying to be good. When we find ourselves in an aggressive relationship, we need to set clear boundaries. The kindest thing we can do for everyone concerned is to know when to say “enough.” Many people use Buddhist ideals to justify self-debasement. In the name of not shutting our heart we let people walk all over us. It is said that in order not to break our vow of compassion we have to learn when to stop aggression and draw the line. There are times when the only way to bring down barriers is to set boundaries."

@blackrocktile5855

6 жыл бұрын

It's not about letting people walk all over us.......if it's an unsafe place one needs to get away if they can from that.....

@kit93

6 жыл бұрын

olivier nguyen I completely agree. Compassion cannot become a weakness whereby others abuse us.

@davidk3009

5 жыл бұрын

👌🏻 this is very helpful!

@hoaha8903

4 жыл бұрын

Mindfulness is the key helping us to respond in a harmoniously without hurting self and others. Understanding, forgiving, forgetting of our inner powers including: compassion; tolerance; wisdom and letting go from training the mind will transform anger to loving kindness, happiness and peace. Thank you all friends for your inspiration and wonderful inputs🙏🌼💐🌼🙏

@jettiarts

4 жыл бұрын

Acting in compassion protects the practitioner from future rage.

This was a blessing to hear. Thank you. Namaste.

Thank you Tara. The quote idiot compassion struck a chord. As always, I feel blessed by your talk.

Thank you! Bless!

Broken heart makes it even harder. But you have to remember that you're not alone ...🇬🇧

This was amazing thank you

Thank you, learned so much 🙏😌

This is so helpful....thanks 🙏🙏🙏

Beautiful human being x

Thanks Tara! Helpful.

Such sage advice. I got to put into practice today. A game changing experience. Thank you!

Your amazing Thank you Namaste 🙏❣

Sometimes I feel so hollow and angry inside....I want to crawl away and hide. It's funny I used to feel whole...now it feels like I am losing my soul. Loss of life ....time fading away. Why do I feel this everyday? Maybe I'll never know..... In this game of life, I must grow.

I wish I could retain some if not most of the subtleties weaved in this talk Or let me meet their confirmations with other ways through my life

People who make promises that they can't keep continuously becomes very tiring... and you do not have to take it.. I had to change my shift in thinking for certain people. It is ok to recognize your feelings (of anger and resentment). How do we work with it is a constant skill.

@menandi5795

Жыл бұрын

What specific things helped you make it a skill?

Wonderful Awarenesses!

Loved the John O’donoghue poem at the end ; magic x

Beautiful - your are not your thought, stay in love - my new mantra

@dadyankatayoun1347

4 жыл бұрын

Sitting in silence I reconnect scattered pieces... profoundly beautiful

This was a just what I was meant to hear today. Thank you

Amazing ideas

Thank you

The famous porcupine fable is by Schopenhauer, by the way.

@bluejay2931

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful way to live in meaningful life ,

@michaelmuir5293

2 жыл бұрын

...a great survival story...and making wise choices...

ES Bueno conocer alternativas para responder con serenidad, pensando lo que se debe responder.

Yes..... last time I implemented the sacred ''gift'' of righteous anger, I did get my point across and I did get my needs met. Not all anger is bad. Maybe we need more righteous anger and a better understanding of the difference kinds of anger?

@kalosevillinas

3 жыл бұрын

Very well said...Alot of these teachings? Well not even the famous gurus could do....

🙏❤️🙏 ty Tara namaste

My oldest daughter thinks she can run our life’s. My husband and I are retired she stop talking to me for two years because we had a falling out all she ever does is point our your faults and we need help yet she doesn’t think she has a problem and this is why I’m watching you because she’s coming next week and she is my trigger

@ButtersCCookie

6 ай бұрын

I hope everything worked out for you. I hate my Dad. It's only because he's a loser. He can't even do prison well. He's a fraud in every sense of the word and remorseless about what he did to his kids. Often kids are angered by parents not being the person they want their kids to be. But that's the point. Real parents want you to be better. Generational rage it seems is because Boomers and after have made the World worse in every facet. There's that underneath, no matter what. I can't help but wonder where and why raise children who are resentful? If they cared and loved you more than peers or fads? How does this happen?

@faithnorks

4 ай бұрын

I understand trust me. I haveca 26 year too old to live in the house, feels entitled. She is a terrible person and my biggest trigger.

Taking responsibility for my feelings n life has led to inner freedom compassion n love Let negative feelings ALERT you to your unconsiesse thoughts/habits that are creating the negative feelings and you are no longer a victim or blamer .The truth will set you free n give you peace love n joy Takes practice until it becomes natural n effortless You can go a long way with WILLINGNESS to look within backed up with action /reflection.💚🙏✌️💚

Helpful

I used to be the most positive person then menopause happened and so much anger.

@AvitalShtap

3 жыл бұрын

Aw, it sounds difficult. I hope that the change was temporary and has stabilized since :) regardless, I hope that you handle anger well in all your moments.

@janicemcgill7082

2 жыл бұрын

Me too

@joannaedwards6325

Жыл бұрын

There are helpful supplements and vitamins. Ask at your local GNC or Whole Foods. Also eating salmon ev day damps down the anger. Of course meditation. I kind of miss my anger...it was habitual..like a bad friend.

Thank you Tara. Hahaha, always love your jokes 🤗♥️

If all else fails count to 3 before reacting unconsiesley this takes practice 💚🙏✌️

I do suffer from depression and she did call earlier this week and I spoke on the phone with her and then her father said she was coming out and I freaked because I was so afraid of what was gonna happen when she was going to say what she was going to do and so I’m trying to deal with the anger I feel when she is around. She’s 38 years old I am 69 and my husband is 67 so I’m really happy that my friend sent you this video because I have had high anxiety all week

the Tv is on im lost in aguish, someone talks to em im lost in trance, pain, sadness. thoughts over n over in my head. it feels like im insane .

What do you do if someone you love does this to you?

If we can keep in mind - that is, to know this in our bones - that life is an illusion, then no reason to fly off the handle. On another note, the philosopher John Paul Sartre insisted that "hell is other people."

If you are angry just be angry. Pretty sure there is a reason for it.

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This sounds great..but what do when the other person wont even listen at all? I am responsible for my anger and will sit with ir...But that person wh0 has hirt me so many times..Wont even want to hear anything...What aby do unto others as u wld have done unto u...if that person wont even listen..well i disassociate...

i want my life to be different than as it is !!. people tell me im the only one who can change it !!! thats not what i need to hear.

@margaretbarry4689

4 жыл бұрын

It is what you need to hear but certainly not what you WANT to hear

@theressdavanzo2938

4 жыл бұрын

Posted teach this in grade school I'm sorry I learned it this late in life

@barbiekalev6188

4 жыл бұрын

Who else could change it but you?

@aliciaaskenase4030

3 жыл бұрын

In that case we often need a helper, a couselor, a therapist, someone smart, and trained, neutral. I've been in therapy all my life. Now I am learning that there are ways I can cope with my pain, my dissatisfactions, disappointments, etc.. Sometimes it just means getting up and having tea and reading, already I"m not in my head. If I sit still, I will keep thinking, if I just do almost anything, my mind changes. Good luck

@yogablossom100

3 жыл бұрын

I wonder then, what would it be helpful in this case?

At ×1.5 speed to 6:57 ... so how soon are some solutions spoken of?

I'm angry, I'm stuck, I've lost interest in everything, art, life, no joy, no conversation, gee i am in trouble .....no involvement in life, im existing not living,

@cinmac3

4 жыл бұрын

Accepting is very hard, I in that place.

@hoaha8903

4 жыл бұрын

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@danashannon8234

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@stevecampbell1305

4 жыл бұрын

Wow...me too...I think on this every day...which don't help! Tara helps...but still....stuck... no clue

@stevecampbell1305

4 жыл бұрын

as Thom Yorke sings..." I'm not living, I'm just killing time..." Sadness

im a control freak. i listen but how do I take it all in and make it a part of my daily life ???????????

@muireannin09

4 жыл бұрын

Patricia Chalmers take the PAUSE every time.

@brendarollins6017

4 жыл бұрын

MaryAnne P was

Too many manipulative people who are just waiting for a kind heart to come along to step on it.If you forgive once,they will do it again.Too many emotionaly unhealthy people.For example,narcusists can never learn or change.

@barbaraannesmith6896

4 жыл бұрын

Either handle the situation or leave. They never change.

@charlenenorman3644

4 жыл бұрын

barbara anne smith Unless they want to! I can only hope!

@charlenenorman3644

4 жыл бұрын

I can only hope they can and want to! It’s so hard to care about a person that is a narcissist! Guy it hurts! I like what she has to say! Pause, and reflect on my actions. And name it, why I feel so hurt! Rage is horrible! And unhealthy! Right

You talk, I get sleepy.....

@coolhluke8089

3 жыл бұрын

Works though. Hard to be angry when your sleeping. ;)

@michaelmuir5293

2 жыл бұрын

@@coolhluke8089 ...sounds like my dad..snoring on the sofa...time to retire...

Interestingly enough, the best way for the porcupines to gather closely for warmth, but safely- would be to join in a circle, facing the center. Which means they would have to look eachother in the face, especially when someone gets jostled and wounded and needs a little extra space and validation. The best practice means facing eachother, speaking with authenticity about our needs, and recognizing that others needs are valid too.

@eileendeerdock5820

5 ай бұрын

Dec 22, 2023 - The definition of a PARABLE is a usually short fictitious story that illustrates a moral attitude or a religious principle;😉

I am response for the experience I have. I am. I give myself space to feel my feelings and listen to music to feel better. I create boundaries now. I am being harmed. This is hurting. It's the inner weather it is here and feel and move through it. I have a need to feel safe and cared about. Create boundaries. I won't be around you raise your voice. Not have anger take over, but something needs attention inside me. Create space. At my workplace care aids passive aggressive withhold communication from me. The cook is passive aggressive withhold communication for me. Residence's lash out in anger to me a lot. The operator ignores my presence. I leave. I go to a space to feel my feelings hurt, pain and I listen to music to feel good again. It's is such a shame to act like this.

Good talk however you told 4 jokes and they where all anti male, Misandry is not okay.