Please be kind to Grace - they are the most special person in the world to me, and I want to make sure the comments section is filled with love and support, thanks pals :) Here is some FUN STUFF: Neat Hat: store.dftba.com/collections/ash-hardell Patreon (HELP us start a Podcast :D): www.patreon.com/MxAshHardell ^_^ What is your post-op advice to share?

@lucycastang618

5 жыл бұрын

Why don't you have more suds you and your girlfriend deserve them

@Hugito_popito

5 жыл бұрын

Of course I wuld never do that to grasce (I forgot how to spell correct me 😐) love you and your vids thay help me ther funny I hope this comment gives some happiness that your helping a lot of people with your vids stay happy continew doing your vids and have a good day😉😉😉👍👍👍☺️🙂❤️❤️

@alixtheace_9391

5 жыл бұрын

how could we NOT be nice to you guys?!

@apetty5918

5 жыл бұрын

"They" 🙄

@gabitpaiva4370

5 жыл бұрын

Ahhhh grace and ash! Both so cuteeee really inspire me

Well, now we know the answer to the ultimate question: they are not human. They are dancers.

@katharinag3283

5 жыл бұрын

*singing dude* are we humaaaan... or are we danceeeers

@TheWormzerjr

5 жыл бұрын

Believe, repent, be saved. Its that simple, even hillary could do it. God is that gracious, but better hurry up. Time is short. click my name to watch Son of Perdition part 4. July 2 full solar eclipse over south america when China, Russia, and US are in Venezuela is no coincidence, they are waiting

@andyo3637

5 жыл бұрын

yass that song is gr8

@legsperhaps2

5 жыл бұрын

@@TheWormzerjr Okay dude shut up, real cristians love all people

@Call-me-Al

5 жыл бұрын

@@legsperhaps2 Jesus was kind to and hung out with the sick, prostitutes, disabled, and the poor. These kind of people would throw a hissy fit if they were expected to be kind to anyone but themselves...

“You ruined one of OUR shirts”...that’s bloody adorable

i love when married people like,, have adventures together? not literally but when you still go through change and support each other, i just find that really sweet

Grace saying "you can see me" is such a powerful statement. It means so much to see non-binary/trans folks in a public setting, regardless of how "traditional" their bodies are. It makes my heart so happy to see the two of you living in your best bodies and the world will benefit so much from seeing the both of you.

Love you both so much! Old grandmother to a pre-op Trans teen here. You have taken away so much fear and confusion! THANK YOU!

I'm a closeted genderqueer teen, and seeing this video made me cry. I didn't know bodies like this could exist. You two are such an inspiration to me; thank you for sharing your stories.

@user-ly3pj1yz4l

5 жыл бұрын

Me too! I’m nonbinary

@jackiesante

5 жыл бұрын

Me too! I am non binary, but I am out of the closet!

@user-ly3pj1yz4l

5 жыл бұрын

@ Muevegirl Jackie, LUCKY!!! I’m still in the closet... my parents might kick me out of the house if they knew I was nonbinary.

@lilygail4197

5 жыл бұрын

Llama PANwaffle hey I’m a non-binary teen too and I’m closeted can we talk?

@mementomori417

5 жыл бұрын

Same! (I know this was 2 months ago but whatever) I am gender fluid and am out to close friends as well as my girlfriend!! (I am also pan btw)

I just had top surgery two weeks ago, I have wanted this since I was 11 years old, I’m 65, that’s a long, long, did I say long time. I had nerve block surgery, my pain level was zero after surgery with the exception of the drains they were bloody brutal. I came home same day but the following morning I started feeling nauseated and passed out twice, needless to say I ended up back in hospital for a second operation I was bleeding internally. I lost 5pints of blood. I was very fortunate that there was a surgeon on call who did cancer mastectomies and she followed the stitch line of my plastic surgeon. Forgive my rambling and I hope this makes some sense. I so enjoy your videos. Thanks for sharing you story. ❤️

@mothboy420

Жыл бұрын

@holyoke62 Lmao cry about it, "the young ones" are happy

Omg Grace’s results look.. AWESOME 😍 I’ll probably get surgery at the beginning of 2020, can’t wait 😃 (Edit: got my date in October, my top-surgery will be on the 23rd of January 🥳)

@fidlyfufuclayton3638

5 жыл бұрын

Deven Youandi 👍🏻

@sourpatcn3620

5 жыл бұрын

ahhhh that's amazing!!! good luck!!!

@jazminyepez631

5 жыл бұрын

Wish the best for you!!

@kerstiesweeney

5 жыл бұрын

Good for you!! 💖💖💖

@rodhasmana7306

5 жыл бұрын

all the best xx

Grace's lion tattoo is so cool looking!

@HeyThere005

5 жыл бұрын

Sarah Kuntzman I agree 😍

I just got top surgery (FTN) yesterday and I am SO happy - you've both helped so much with being able to do it and feel such pride in my body and decisions. Visibility is so crucial - thank you both!!

@GHOZTSHXRKZ

2 жыл бұрын

yoooo that's so awesome, congrats on the surgery! /g /pos

@simonb4689

2 жыл бұрын

Are you still happy about it 7 months later?

@Wimboify

Жыл бұрын

What is ftn

@HelveticaPickles

Жыл бұрын

Congrats!!!! If I may ask, how is FTN different in appearance from FTM?

@Robb3636

9 ай бұрын

@@HelveticaPickles If you mean the top surgery, it probably isn't. There's a few different types of top surgeries available to AFAB (assigned female at birth) folks, often non binary people's top surgery looks exactly like what a trans man's results look like, like Ash's and Grace's results in this video. Sometimes people choose not too have their nipples reattached, or some non binary people will just have a chest reduction, rather than remove all of the fat, but usually they're the same as the ones trans guys get.

Grace’s arms and upper body look amazing!

@HeyThere005

5 жыл бұрын

September Maeve I know 😍

I love Grace's tattoos, they look so gorgeous on them!!!!!!

@notyourlioness1625

3 жыл бұрын

@Sdrrshock1 1 They use "they/them" pronouns, not "she/her" :) (At least they did a year ago)

@notyourlioness1625

3 жыл бұрын

@Sdrrshock1 1 Ah you mean the ones which you were wrongfully socialised to assume are the only correct or "real" ones instead of the ones that they say suit them best? Sure, sounds rational.

@notyourlioness1625

3 жыл бұрын

@Sdrrshock1 1 Even if biology would equal gender identity (which it doesn't, that's why non-cis-people exist) there are conditions such as gynecomastia which is an unusual enlargement of breath tissue in cis men. So that "argument" of yours is not valid. But I don't think you'd like to be convinced why basic human decency should apply to all, so I'll stop my efforts right here. Have a good day.

I gotta get me that neat hat right now!! Also I adore you both with my whole heart!! 💗💗💗

@HeyThere005

5 жыл бұрын

AW, you would look so cute in a "neat hat" Chan!

@mikelmontoya2965

5 жыл бұрын

@@HeyThere005 omg Chan is just the best nickname for Chandler, had never thought it was an option! Also lots of love Ash, loveee youu!

@gracehiltner

5 жыл бұрын

ChandlerNWilson 😘😘😘

Grace looks incredible! They've clearly been working out, so muscly! Ash looks great too! I would feel the same about my scars expanding slowly. But, the results are still so worthwhile

I've been waiting!

I had surgery after a motorcycle accident, and ended up with some nerve damage. I had the problem with unscratchable itches and tingly pain at first. Now it's two years later, and a lot of that has gone away. Some is your brain trying to remap to the new nerve locations. One thing that helped me was to have acupuncture, and doing your best to stimulate the nerve damage areas to help your brain figure it out!

@kerstiesweeney

5 жыл бұрын

I always recommend trying acupuncture for scar issues. Helped me a lot with scars I got from a car accident. 💖💖💖

@yuzurunishimiya5931

4 жыл бұрын

Unscratchable itches... Hell.

@IceKreacher

4 жыл бұрын

Cool! Thanks! Sorry about your accident.

Love that grace just has their shirt off for their whole section just feeling themselves I love it 🥰 I can’t wait till I’m actually able to have top surgery

@Flareontoast

5 жыл бұрын

Good luck for when you have it!! I hope it goes well!

The way you two look at each other is so clearly full of love and admiration and I’m definitely not teary-eyed because of it...

I also have the white puss/discharge thing you've talked about. I'm really glad you mentioned that (especially because I've never heard anyone else talking about it) and that I'm not he only one ^^°

@kniferoomba4682

5 жыл бұрын

Enjoji it's happened to me as well! I'm a year post op and it's not constant but it keeps happening occasionally

@SomeoneBeginingWithI

5 жыл бұрын

I haven't had top surgery but I get it ocassionally too.

@beebale1356

5 жыл бұрын

Yh no I haven't had top surgery but I do too

@eterlinblue99

5 жыл бұрын

It sounds like mastitis, which is common for lactating women but can happen to anyone at any time.

@FynnJonah

4 жыл бұрын

Finally someone mentions it! I am 6,5 years post op and have NEVER met a single person with the same white stuff coming out of their nipples.. 😅 I still have it and I just got used to it 🤷🏼‍♂️😅

I'm so happy for you and Grace!I

I love you two! You're an huge inspiration for the whole LGBTQ+ community and I'm really proud of you ❤ I remember when Grace didn't like to be on camera that much and I'm super happy that they show their top surgery results so openly and that they are so happy about it 😘 Keep on going 💪

Vitamin E cream helps deep scar itch that you can't scratch I have a scar on my wrist that is more that 5 years old and it will itch even still and that is the only thing that helps. My mom had breast cancer and has breast implants and she also uses it. So it's just a suggestion. Love you guys

@HeyThere005

5 жыл бұрын

Tonni Lasley thanks for the tip! 👍🏻

Ash I know this video is years old and you don’t check KZread comments anymore from what you’ve said on your socials, but I want to say I am finally getting top surgery and this video has made me so excited. I really hope my scars heal similarly to how yours did and that my results look anything near as lovely as yours and Gray’s. You’ve been such an inspiration through this journey, I came out at 14 and am not 20 for reference. Again, don’t know if you’ll see this but it you do thank you for giving me hope and the ability to see a future.

@Kagomai15

7 ай бұрын

Oohhh congrats on your top surgery!!! I hope you're healing well ♡♡♡

I really admire how you've changed, thank you for sharing this!!!

Lmao I decided to just watch the first video in my subs while eating my lunch in this busy bus terminal and BAM NIPPLES and I turned the brightness ALL THE WAY DOWN lmao Very sweet video y’all

Just another small queer voice but heck grace’s chest turned out AMAZING and I’m so happy for both of you. Being Trans and Non Binary sometimes feels like, hard to explain to people. And I feel like there can be uncomfortable judgement out there regarding surgery for Non-Binary Gender Affirmation. But like y’alls say, our bodies are OUR bodies, and we are allowed to make our own choices for ourselves, based off of what we are comfortable with, and what we want/need. And there’s so many different (and fabulous) ways to not fit the gender binary. Thanks for being so visible and for making content that makes people like me feel included and part of a larger community. You guys are the best ❤️

@jackgold7391

3 жыл бұрын

💝 You spoke well, person

thank you for featuring my song in the video! much love!!

@HeyThere005

5 жыл бұрын

Miki Ratsula your music is sooooo 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻💛💛💛💛💛💛

@tishratcliff9601

4 жыл бұрын

It’s a great song!

So happy for you both! Thank you so much for making this video!

Seeing you two go through this process together is so heartwarming! I love watching the process over the years of y'all leaning more into who you are. It makes my heart wanna dance. ❤😘

I really love how helpful and safe these videos are. Whenever I’m doubting anything I can always come watch one of your videos and feel ok. Thanks!

Find you someone who looks at you the way Ash looks at Grace💕💕💕

Have the discharge issue as well, I just ignore it most of the time. Also went to Garramone btw.

Question for Grace: Does your tattoo affect your chest and top surgery in any way/ the other way around? Did your tattoo change after top surgery?

@HeyThere005

5 жыл бұрын

Grace here - it did not affect the surgery or change after surgery! (I was worried about that though)

Grace looks SUPER happy in this video. Congrats to both of you for your recoveries!

Distracted by the camera-action back in the right corner... :-D

I love Grace's tattoo. Really nice placement and very clean lines. Really nice looking. And both of your chests look amazing, in my opinion. 💖💖💖

CW bodily fluids: Hi I’m 6 months post op and just chilling with my shirt off but noticed I had a small zit on my nipple and then I squeezed it and white stuff came out and I freaked out for a second but then I remembered this video!! So thank you so much for sharing your experience and being a resource

I really appreciate the both of you ! Thank you for sharing your experiences and story 💓💓

I know this is a second-channel thing but when you were going to end it my brain was like _here comes the Splish splash waterfall give a dog a bone!_ and the actually-usual outro/goodbye? for this channel managed to 'catch me off guard' XD

@e.s.lavall9219

5 жыл бұрын

Same and then there were TWO OF THEM?!?!

Loads of love from me atleast to Grace and you both

The thumbnail... just those cuties smilin'... 😍😘😂 favorite non-binary pals...

I’m so excited to get my top surgery. I am pretty young, only 14 (15 in August!) and I’ve identified as trans since I was 10 or 11. I have two autoimmune diseases, and a long family history of cancer, so I’ve decided that I want to live my life to the fullest while I still have it. This video was extremely inspiring as I haven’t started any type of blocker or hrt, and to see feminine humans with top surgery means a lot to me. Thank you 💜💜

I'm so happy for you two! Thanks for this video

Love you guys, so happy your doing well. You inspire me and your videos always cheer me up. 😀

Ash your book is in my school library and I’m literally obsessed lol

@pjmbutterflies

4 жыл бұрын

Ashlyns_expression What’s the book called?!?

@jordanb4644

4 жыл бұрын

@@pjmbutterflies I'm pretty sure its "The ABC's of LGBT+"

@pjmbutterflies

4 жыл бұрын

Jordan B Omg thank you SOOOO much!!

I've just got my letter for top surgery, and I am so excited! Thanks for making such helpful videos! It's so wonderful to hear about your experiences.

It's been so inspiring watching the real Grace shine through. Their smiles and laughter are catching. I look forward to watching both of you on your journeys.

Your so amazing 💛 and your so inspirational

If the tingeling scars is the same as it was for my selfharm scars it's because they're healing :) it's uncomfortable, but a sign of progress and healing!

My heart is always so happy watching your videos. Especially when you get to go a video with grace! You both are so great! I wish i would meet you guys someday but that would most likely never happen. But i wanted to say that your videos helped me during my first year of college and trying to accept myself. It took me a while to come out and okay with who i am, but your videos definitely helped me reach a point of accepting myself, coming out to MYSELF and leading a much more happier life. You both are great and amazing! Thank you for all the videos and education you bring to this platform

I love ya two ♥ Thank you for sharing your journey!! It's so awesome to actually see how the results got and that you are happy with it! ♥

Ash its looks good be happy of your body❤❤💋

You both are so amazing! ❤️ I wish I had supportive people in my life.

You guys are just the cutest! So great to see how happy you both are! 😁

I’m so happy for y’all and that you can support each other through your surgeries and recovery period. That’s very special and I’m really thankful that y’all are open and happy to share your experiences 💖💖

Grace’s smile is infectious. I so appreciate both of you sharing your genderqueerness with the world. You make me (and I’m sure many others) feel more normal in a world that’s constantly telling us we’re not. Can’t thank you enough for that gift.

Great video! It was very helpful, and btw, just wanted to say you both look really happy AND beautiful in this video. Even if things are hard, hope you keep on being happy for a very long time :)

I love how much time and effort you put into all of your videos! You are actually my favorite KZreadr EVER! I love you and Grace so much and you guys are actually so cute together! Keep up the hard work, love you!❤️

Also I love how much more animated, happy, and comfortable Grace looks after their surgery too. Compersion is my feeling while watching!

Thank you BOTH for being the representation of top surgery without testosterone that lit the spark in myself realizing that it was something I wanted. I remember being a middle and high schooler and researching to see if surgeons would do breast reductions on chests as small as mine, and then shoving that feeling wayyyy down until my mid/late twenties. I'm now a little over a week post op and I'm dealing with the crappy parts but overall I'm so glad I was able to get this done and SO grateful that you both shared your stories.

@ascotter

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you get it!

I think you are really cool and I think it's awesome that you shared this with us.❤️❤️

the only reason I’m subbed to you is because you’re so gentle and your voice is so soothing and makes me feel safe and valid, thanks so much for sharing everything uwu

You’re both so cute!! Glad you’re feeling more like your true selves. Thank you for sharing your journey.

Honestly I think both your results look absolutly fantastic! And I'm happy to see you happy and more comfortable. Can't wait till that's me some day

Grace looks SO comfy in their skin😻

I really adore grace's laugh. It's so hearty and genuine and real. It makes me smile c:

Grace spoke such kind, inspiring and beautiful words

YES GRACE!!! YOU LOOK SO GOOD!!! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

you two are just the cutest ❤️

There’s something about you two that makes me feel so relaxed 💕 and what you are doing is really important 💕 my heart sings knowing that you’re making people going through this feel so much less alone 😭 keep it up you wonderful humans xx

You both look so good! Glad you guys told your stories and gave a good example of what people can experience. Love your content!

gosh you two are so wholesome and cute together! I am so happy for both of you and you made me cry because I can see how happy you are with your transition and this motivates me to keep going and look forward to mine. much love, thanks for making this great content, you two really help me with it

Holy frick Grace's chest looks so... _clean_ if you know what I mean

This is seriously wonderful, thank you so much for sharing all these details with us - it's so common to only see the positive sides of top surgery and these videos have made me feel really well informed and a bit more prepared (as well as scared!) when it comes to my own decisions re surgery! Thank you so so much - you both look wonderful!

This was such a beautiful video and it’s so amazing that you have each other through this 💙

SUPER interesting video 😊 About the "zings": After I had major surgery in my left hip/leg area, my doctor and the physiotherapist both told me that it is the nerves reconnecting and making new connections. Kinda cool, if you ask me 😮 Still happens from time to time even after one and a half years post surgery. But not something I worry about at all now. Keep up the videos 👏

I happy for you both, you guys do what you wanna do. Also, you two are the cutest couple on KZread.

You two look so happy! You're both glowing. I'm so happy for you two. Thank you so much for the video! Your experiences with top surgery are helping me prepare for mine. I'm so grateful that you're willing to be vulnerable in this way. It's definitely appreciated. Sending so much love to you two!

Grace's results are sooo amazing and they look great. Also Ash your results are great too. I hope someday to get top surgery, but watching your vids about it have helped me get through the time that I have to wait.

thank you guys for sharing your results! I'm Agender and hope to get top surgery when I'm older, so this helps a lot! (I'm 16 😅) ~ Sam 🖤

You guys are so cute and optimistic! The surgeries look so good, I one day hope to get reduction or just full top surgery ^-^

Congrats to both of you, Ash and Grace! I'm glad your surgeries went well, and you're pleased overall with the results. :)

you're the cutest omg 💕 also, thank you, these videos about top surgery are super helpful

Grace's chest looks phenomenal!! Idk what it is but I feel like I would look similar if I got top surgery maybe because our proportions are similar. I got a binder recently and I'm really feeling it - LIKE DANG I'M HOT - but I also have sensory issues so I can't wear it a lot. Anyway. You're such a cute couple !! It's awesome you can talk about these experiences with one another and doing these things for yourselves whilst still being able to support one another unconditionally.

Ahhh grace's results look awesome can't wait till I can get top surgery

I've been looking a lot of Top Surgery videos because I'm getting mine on February 26th and I'm so exited! Thank u for sharing your experiences ♡

Congratulations! Way to go finding how to feel more yourself!! Your very brave and unique and we all love and support you and your decisions!!

this was super interesting also well done grace!!!! (or something??)

Your scars look so good! I had a breast lift around the same time and mine still have reddish areas.

I love how they both listen to each other. Like truly listen. 100% paying attention. ❤️

this video makes me so happy!!! i'm not exactly sure why. i'm so glad that you exist and that you've decided to share your experiences with us. :)

you made me smile

GODDD I LOVE U SO MUCH

So happy for you both! You are both such inspirations and spread so much knowledge and self-love :)

Im just overwhelmed of you two. Hearty and really warm persons♥️

Grace probably itches more when they work out because their heart it beating faster, so blood is moving more quickly through the veins around their chest (probably)

Honestly I love your videos Ash and I’m not even queer. I want to be educated so that I can know more about queer folks. Also I live in Minneapolis too!

@violet-ge9wj

5 жыл бұрын

OMG OMG OMG! Oh my gender. Get what I did there?

@J2thePower0f3

5 жыл бұрын

artsy violets wait, are they in Minnesota??

Dude. Oh my gosh. Both your results look incredible!! Near perfect!!

I’m not entirely sure if I want top surgery yet, but your videos give me confidence to keep being me! Thank you so much !