Rejection therapy = door-to-door sales

@mrssomeone2143

3 жыл бұрын

lol

@abandonedtiger7

3 жыл бұрын

Most certainly! I’m in the business

@frankwolftown

2 жыл бұрын

Door-to-door is one of those things that's hard even when you're good at it.

The point of the game is to being rejected, really gave me the courage for the first time in 10 years to finally post a comment in public. Thank you for such an inspiring talk.

@freespiritbe

6 жыл бұрын

jlau66 well done!

@karanjaggi8438

2 жыл бұрын

not a good comment

@Goldenmaskduets

Жыл бұрын

And 6 years later you have one of your first responses! ☺️ I’m going to do 100 days of rejection.

@mirzahusetic9620

Жыл бұрын

Wasnt hard...was it?

@Goldenmaskduets

Жыл бұрын

@@mirzahusetic9620 oh it’s bloody hard

Love that girl who made donuts for him....

@tro4371

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah, we fuckin banged. It was aight I guess.

"If I open up myself to the world, the world will open up itself to me." Truly inspiring. Great TED talk, Jia Jiang.

Jackie is the bomb! She could've just easily said no seeing that it wasn't in the Krispy Kremes menu, but not only did she go out of her way to make those, she even gave it to him for free. What a legend!

Itis not rejection that defines me, it is my REACTION to rejection that defines me.wow this is a great message and great video Thank YOU!

This made me happy. I have gotten so many job rejections and I'm a bit depressed today. This talk certainly made me feel better :)

@VanessaKlinger

7 жыл бұрын

Try getting hired then getting fired. for the past 16 years

@gentleeyes

6 жыл бұрын

I am going through this now, Billie. It has me so crushed right now. I hope it worked out for you.

@jadehunter7617

6 жыл бұрын

billiebillie I had a teacher till me, to not be afraid to Ask, because all they can say is Yes or No. but if you don't ask, You will never know if they answer would have been a Yes to what you wanted or needed, so go for it. ASK, ASK ASK.

After 6 years of waiting and 5 rejections, I finally got the job of my dream. I will be starting it in two weeks. I'm nervous about it because I am afraid it might not turn out to be what I want but I know I will never be happy until I get it. Persistence and believing in myself did pay off at the end. Don't stop believing in yourself. Thank you for the great advice.

@ZosiaSamosiaOo

10 жыл бұрын

I'm eagerly waiting for an update. :)

@ethanxowh

10 жыл бұрын

So far, I have enjoyed it. Thanks.

@Dumsvensk

9 жыл бұрын

Mai Lee Yang What kind of job was it if I may ask?

@ethanxowh

9 жыл бұрын

Niclas Holmsten It's a county position.

@redcrazymonkey

9 жыл бұрын

That's awesome Mai

Jia Jiang i ddid it twice this morning it was great. when i got into a taxi, i asked him if i could drive it till we get to the destination. if u just saw the surprising look on his face! then he rejected very politely. i admit it, i pushed my self into doing it and i was really nervous, but it was not as dangerous as i thouhgt. and im very happy to do it again and again.

ted talks is one of the best things to ever happen...

@matbaysa6338

9 жыл бұрын

True that

@Loving1999december

7 жыл бұрын

+Cierra Johnson. You said it, girl!!

He was rejected 34 times on KZread, Awesome stuff.

Wow! By far one of the best TED presentations by far!

@youngmo77

9 жыл бұрын

I agree. Dude is coming very far

Love this guy! He talks about rejection in a way that actually wants you to face it.

I'm a pro at being rejected.

Love this concept, law of averages shows us we are capable of succeeding in different areas as long as we keep trying.

@JiaJiang

8 жыл бұрын

+Loui V's Journal +1

I should maybe do this to rediscover people's kindness, I am so cynical and bitter, I'm sick of it.

@perrito1989

3 жыл бұрын

Same!

@yushamush9849

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, sometimes human kindness seems to come out nowhere and it's almost a surprise to witness it

I love his attitude and how unassuming he is about something that is actually incredibly courageous. The fact that he makes this seem like a fun challenge that anyone could take up is one of the most inspiring things about his talk! Yay!

It's always easy to say no when you don't fully understand a problem or are not prepared to accept a challenge that involves stepping outside the circle and doing something different. The important thing is to try and keep trying.

Very inspirational. But I think fear of rejection is more to do with expectations: if we think we'll be accepted and we are rejected, we'll become afraid and start thinking we'll get rejected to protect ourselves, but we are just hurting more. By thinking we'll be rejected about something we don't care and then being accepted builds our confidence back to try something that might hurt us again.

behind every good man, is a great woman

Jia Jiang: Thank you for sharing your courage, efforts and strengths. Your presentation at TEDxAustin really made my day. Upon relating to your experience with the surprising kindness of strangers (Jackie), the gratitude and beauty of such moments in life conjured appreciative tears for the beauty in life. Thank you for sharing such a well structured and uplifting presentation upon your experiences living a life where you've lived life at its best: A life where you've minimized fear by cleverly utilizing a mechanism to deal/accept/cope with rejection.

You, Sir, are awesome !

I want to try this but with an online setting. I'm get so much anxiety from criticism online from just giving my opinion to posting my art. I want to try some kind of exposure therapy but online but without actually offending/hurting anyone. If anyone's got any ideas I'm all ears.

What a great wife!

A movie came out this year, and I was waiting a long time to see it. I found out I had to have surgery the day the movie premiered! So naturally, after the simple minor surgery, while the nurse was pushing me around in the wheelchair, I asked if I could borrow the wheelchair to get good movie seats. She said no, but hey, it was fun. I did end up seeing it that weekend, in a normal seat.

WOW! He is so uplifting and motivating. I needed this right now, thank you!!

Well done....per usual......

Agree. Rejections with feedback are worth gold!

Enjoyed this immensely, although I do feel one component that wasn't covered as much as it could have been is that he survived! In other words, fear of rejection can be terrifying but the actuality is that we live on! But a great piece, and has given me optimism for the future...

¡¡¡The donut thing was AWESOME!!!! I understand her being thankful for someone breaking the routine

I have not listened about rejection, but it is very interesting method. Jia Jiang has a very amazing charm ( I have been more surprised knowing someone rejected him) and sense of humor as well as a good skills in speech. Also, his lessons are very useful in our life. Pain is against Pain. Thank a lot for the good advice!

Amazing talk...thank you for being so courageous Jia, you've truly inspired me!

this is like handling job rejections!

We are all very fortunate to have exposure to such meaningful talks ....thanks to TEDX

amazing. I listen to this every morning. Thank you.

i never thought of that.. go out and get rejected on purpose.. what a GENIUS idea. that would add so much humor to my life!! i feel like i have this same fear of rejection that has prevented me from many opportunities, but it's subconscious, hiding in the dark, and thanks to this great man, it has come to light. now to go out and put this rejection seeking into practice

This is amazing, I want to try this thank you for this Jia! Much love

Awesome Jia Jiang. Thanks for sharing and being very inspirational

I'm reading his book in the end of 2020 and he talks about how nervous he was for this TED Talk... But seriously, I loved so much!!(this TED and his book)

This video really hits me, I get rejected so many times whether it be college, jobs, girls, basically everything really that all those specific events just kinda turn into one big rejection. It happens so many times it doesnt even bother me anymore but hopefully one day Ill get accepted by something or someone... I really hope some time in the future when that happens it will look like a big middle finger to everyone who rejected me in the past

@gennybrezina8165

7 жыл бұрын

stupid2574 so sorry for your pain.

@stupid2574

7 жыл бұрын

Genny Brezina I appreciate it. its good to know at least someone feels that way

@MegaMeanDean

7 жыл бұрын

A good start is to stop calling yourself "stupid". Yeah yeah, you are learning, just like all of us. Well, if you are going to put yourself down, then others will do that too even if they don't want to. You are part of the whole, and you are awesome. I hope one day soon you will get this. Love ya.

@stupid2574

7 жыл бұрын

Dean Smith I made this name probably in the 5th grade because I thought it would be funny but thanks alot for the advice

@freespiritbe

6 жыл бұрын

stupid2574 just remember all the things you have to be grateful for, I know things can seem hard sometimes, but there is always hope, possibilities are endless if we open ourselves to life :-)

Thank you for a well-presented, articulate presentation! I know you've inspired many persons, most of whom you will never meet personally, so you'll never know the great, positive impact you've had on their lives, but you did it anyway...your poised and smooth delivery are also most probably due to your experience of many rejections before your victories. you deserve all the successes you've already had, and the many more you will surely achieve! I salute your courage and dedication! All the best to you, your beautiful and supportive wife, and your son, for whom you will surely be the best inspiration!

One of my life themes has been "no regrets", so this talk really hit the nail on the head for me! Bravo!

Been watching him for a while now glad to see him going places

说得挺好的，翻墙出来看，值了。作为从小父母责骂中长大的孩子，我跟人打交道的时候，特别没有自信。看了你的视频之后，发现被人拒绝，没有想象那么严重。真是换了一种思维方式之后，真是海阔天空！

That was great! I have no fear of rejection, but your talk will get me moving. Thanks.

I wish I could talk with that guy

@JiaJiang

9 жыл бұрын

I'm all ears, Adria.

@amitbirje

9 жыл бұрын

Jia Jiang Congratulations, it was a memorable talk

@asamtoy

8 жыл бұрын

Jia Jiang This talk is amazing, and this reply is amazing.

One of the best TEDx talk so far.

I have just finished his book. It's fantastic. READ IT

I laughed so hard and at the same time, really appreciated his great advice. Best speech from tedx .

I got rejected from the University I want to get in so so so badly today. I feel as if my life is over but this video did make me laugh. I don't even know how to tell my family who were just as hopeful as me. It is a very sad day for me

@MysteriousMartin

Жыл бұрын

@@anniinthewoods8287 I know I am not @Sanya but I am sure their life is going great! How is yours!?

@quitshame9659

Жыл бұрын

@@MysteriousMartin I know im not @Anni but I am sure their life is going great! How is yours!?

I love you Jia. Well done and thank you!

Brother, you HAVE found the solution for our fear of rejection. We just gotta go there. Thank you for leading the way with such fun and discovery. You have inspired me to step into my own fear of rejection. I'm going to play too.

Thank you Jia, this was an excellent and inspiring talk.

Amazing! Thank you!!!! Beautiful message!

Thank you Jia, you seriously just made my day!x

You're so strong and I really like you!

Thank you so much ted talks,I overcome my fears and bring back my self confidence.Thank you..

Best Tedx talk ever

@JiaJiang

9 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Matus.

"We cannot have another regret", wow that's powerful

Thank you! Gina in Lights

Man youre awesome. Im summoning all my courage to give a try and see how far i can go. Hope i can start by tomorrow :)

Amazing speech, Jia. Seriously, just loved every minute of this.

This was great!!!!!

DUDE you got 'CLASS', very smooth... How you carry yourself.

Great talk . miracle some time occur. Thank you, bless you . All your dreams come true.

very inspiring, and a reminder of what kind of support we can be for others

Thank you Jia this was very inspiring

Fantastic! Absolutely FANTASTIC! JIA!

Thank you. This is something I definitely needed. :)

Truly amazing, I wish I could meet him, and talk to him face-to-face.

Whoa good job, Jia! You are an inspiration to us all.

Easily one of Ted's best talks!

Great talk! Thanks for sharing.

Great TED talk. Jia is a very inspiring person!

well put. what a positive guy

So much respect for this guy and yes I subbed to his channel

Thank you for sharing.

Hi Jia, I have been following you almost from the beginning. I think you have grown in your confidence so much it is unbelievably. This was the best speech ever. Hope you will write a book or publish other inspirational speeches. Maybe you should put being an entrepreneur on hold for a while and become an inspirational speaker. Just a thought! I'm sure your other followers will agree with me on this one.

This speech just changed my view to see the world. I will go out there and get rejected more! Haha

Thank you for sharing

Loved this video! gr8 speech... :)

You are great!!! Wish you more luck!

A beautiful, inspirational story.

awesome. people need to hear this.

Beautiful story.

I love this guy! Amazing ted talk

Thank you, inspiring!

The winner of all mah people: Door to door reaching out, Jehovah's Witnesses.

OUTSTANDING!

this was so amazing

Hey NOW, Jia Jiang! Enjoyed it!

im defnitely sharing this video.

Love this. Inspired...

Amazing!

Amazing

A well accepted rejection summary..Great talk.

Awesome Talk!

Thank You Jia Jiang

@JiaJiang

8 жыл бұрын

+Sanjaya Wickramasinghe You are welcome, Sanjaya!

what an inspiration

Beautiful!