This entire channel is a psychopath's goldmine.

@TheFopsy

6 жыл бұрын

LMAO :D

@yourlieinkentucky4004

6 жыл бұрын

Is that a bad thing?

@Sneakyturtle18

6 жыл бұрын

Your Lie in Kentucky Yes very bad 😂😂

@diacrane

6 жыл бұрын

It may be but for people like me who are scared to death of being disliked its amazing to be able to have techniques to make it more likely that people will at least like you on a surface level

@camdavbax

6 жыл бұрын

Murdrocks yes it's very useful. Social rules can be hard to figure out to make it work for you.

Here's a quick recap to copy and save! (But still watch the video for details!) 1. Compliment people on what they achieved, instead of what they were born with! 2. Get people to share with you what they love, and you'll forge a deeper connection. 3. Be totally honest with people about what's in their best interest (not yours). Even if it means losing their business, you'll win their respect. 4. Use open body language. For example: hands out and relaxed, but respectful. 5. Exceed expectations without asking! Surprise people by being extra thoughtful. 6. Be the first person to joke or put people at ease! This makes people respect you even more for helping them relax and enjoy themselves.

@shrif1313

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the effort, gonna screenshot that

@ryanpolacek9346

6 жыл бұрын

wow your a great organizer and care about saving time for those in a hurry great job

@reubenc.7208

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for exceeding expectations without asking permission 👌🏽

@shmuelmetz3323

6 жыл бұрын

.

@DashingPartyCrasher

6 жыл бұрын

@ Reuben: Haha! I didn't even think of myself doing that, but thanks!

This can't continue, I'm seeing you more than I see my boyfriend.

@yeetwchybaban

5 жыл бұрын

Ok

@sophiemarie6885

5 жыл бұрын

Ok

@fkhan2006

5 жыл бұрын

Ok

@fkhan2006

5 жыл бұрын

Ok

@hookstavaris

5 жыл бұрын

He deserves better

Bet that person who complimented your singing voice added: “Oh and also, you have an awesome smile”

@damncandi9830

4 жыл бұрын

Haha

@caitlyncurtis5458

3 жыл бұрын

haha well yeah he does :)

@JCI19

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@vampire_soul

2 жыл бұрын

HE HAS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL SMILE. THIS IS TRUE!

@RaccoonNation

2 жыл бұрын

@@vampire_soul his bone structure is easy to compliment as well

It's crazy how you guys make these videos without any cuts, you just talk the whole time. I feel like this is very rare on YT (also why I stick to animation) What is your routine before getting in your "Charisma state" Do you work out? Meditate?

@Charismaoncommand

6 жыл бұрын

I mostly just mess the intro up 10 times haha. Once I get that part, I am in the zone and I can usually roll straight through. I think that speaks to the power of making yourself talk to people before the big moment (getting on stage, an interview, whatever)

@MasculineMan

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah well said, you definitly seem "In State" If you are ever interested in creating another animation video, I would be happy to do it for you for free. Love your work!

@Sellipsis

6 жыл бұрын

If you think that's good, watch ReportOfTheWeek's review on Great Value Spring Water and Filtered Water.

@muizzkhan2426

6 жыл бұрын

Masculine Man what software do you use for animations ?

@MrDiMES123

6 жыл бұрын

Masculine Man soilluminati does it too. It means they are not acting

Whoever subscribed to this channel, know that you are upgrading and improving yourself and that is the best thing you can be doing right now

@Charismaoncommand

6 жыл бұрын

That's super kind of you!

@Stivonim

6 жыл бұрын

well, kindness provided by this channel should be rewarded with more kindness.

@peao010109

6 жыл бұрын

Ur Mans As long as you arent a lonewolf.

@TheFinalsTV

6 жыл бұрын

Who's mans is this?

@rosegold2969

5 жыл бұрын

Yes im 20 in college and my 2019 year plan is to improve myself in all ways.. this channel is just God sent ❤️

I was awkward as hell before i found this channel. Now im awkward with style.

@milkyway-fb9ni

3 жыл бұрын

yessirrr 😎

@abigailcody6405

3 жыл бұрын

Ah yes the kind of awkward that everyone likes bc you're funny abt it- same bestie

@edenmckinley3472

2 жыл бұрын

That's the best kind of awkward, and people love you more for it than if you were truly comfortable.

9:23 I used to have a classmate who's father had terminal cancer. We became friends during that time, in part because he said I was one of the only people able to make him laugh due to his saddening home situation. When I was talking to him at his dad's funeral, I could see that the loss was crushing him, but I managed to make him smile a couple of times. He hasn't been in my class for 3 years now, but we still hang out once in a while because we grew so close during what was such a hard time for him.So although I agree that it is generally not a great idea to be cracking jokes at a funeral, if done correctly it can be an incredibly powerful way of lifting the spirits of those affected.

I can't stress enough how we are first humans and then a job description or position. When people finally digest that reality, they start connecting with others much more easily. Great content! (as usual)

@Charismaoncommand

6 жыл бұрын

Yup, definitely one of the most important mindsets I could hope to impart :-)

@tiffanypersaud3518

6 жыл бұрын

Truth!

@luffyyyyyy703

5 жыл бұрын

Hey, you comment stealer

@hellofellowhumans9353

2 жыл бұрын

Well said!

Could you cover the charisma of Jack Sparrow?

@chocos4183

6 жыл бұрын

Drink excessive amounts of rum.

@ed-xs3pu

6 жыл бұрын

The secret? ZFG

@LOVEAapjes

6 жыл бұрын

Omg yes

@calebstewart3191

6 жыл бұрын

YES!

@bensnow4046

6 жыл бұрын

YES

Notes: 1. Compliment people for what they've earned (not what they have) 2. Ask people: > How do you like that? If not good, move on. If good, follow up with: > Tell me what you like about it! (Active Listening, ask people to expound) 3. Be honest with what you think is in people's best interests 4. Open body language 5. Be thoughtful and do a favor for people without them knowing (for people you know) > i.e. getting a drink for your friend 6. Be the first person to joke

I'm sitting here listening to every word but also thinking "I wonder what tricks he's using to capture my attention, and why do I suddenly love him?".

Video idea: How to respond to people’s jokes? I find myself forcefully laughing at other people’s jokes because I’m worried I may make them feel bad if they think I don’t find it funny. Your videos are a great help by the way. I’ve implemented much of these lessons and have found myself enjoying social interactions more than I already did. Thanks!

@Mastermind-tx9ob

6 жыл бұрын

Elijah Cedeno I have that same problem with responding to people's jokes. Charisma on Command please upload this video idea.

@Charismaoncommand

6 жыл бұрын

I don't know if this is big enough a topic for it's own video, but I'll keep it in mind as an element of a future video

@Mastermind-tx9ob

6 жыл бұрын

Charisma on Command that's fine, thanks.

@pizzapizza2225

6 жыл бұрын

Elijah Cedeno Be quick and and respond to the joke in a kind manner, it doesn’t have to be a laugh. Someone makes a joke(let’s say) about the professor’s tie or school in general. Just joke back, like “yeah he’s not lookin too hot today” or “yeah this course is boring as hell” Then follow these responses up with a question, like “what are you majoring in anyway?” So it rebounds back and becomes a genuine conversation. An awkward silence or fake response is what kills someone’s confidence and the conversation itself.

@LovingLifeasEmma

6 жыл бұрын

Soooo true! Another great idea!

1. Specific compliment to things they've worked to gain. 2. Find out what people like then get them to tell you about it or their love for it. 3. Display your honesty without pretending to be honest. 4. Open body language. 5. Spoil people with your service. 6. Be the first to joke or be funny.

@Charismaoncommand

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the summary!

@studentuser101

6 жыл бұрын

Time saving :D

I love asking people if they liked something and if yes, why they liked it. Their answers always give me an insight into who they are.

I watched this right before an interview to stay on my major and tip number three worked great! The interviewer said she appreciated my honesty and self awareness. It was like magic.

I do a lot of research about this and have tried many of these tactics, with great success I evolved form semi awkward teenager into a social butterfly. Thank you for this content, and I hope the viewers take these tips as seriously as I do.

@alexsmith2910

6 жыл бұрын

Congratulations! :)

@zo3651

5 жыл бұрын

Please can you give me some advice😞🙏

@ofcourse4189

4 жыл бұрын

Bruh sammmmme. Even my friends have noticed and they’re all like “wtf happened to you”

@Dj-br6gh

4 жыл бұрын

Congrats!

I just hand out hundred dollar bills and blow every time I’m in a social situation. Works like a charm.

@Alorand

6 жыл бұрын

Once I had to give money as a gift since I didn't know almost anything about a person. So I looked up how to fold the bill into an origami shape of a bird. The last time I was at her house she still had it sitting on top of her piggy bank.

@pizzapizza2225

6 жыл бұрын

Alorand That’s really cool man, shows how they valued the act of the gift more than they valued the bill itself to open it and spend it. Great idea!

@pr0l0gue

6 жыл бұрын

Blow what

@Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733

6 жыл бұрын

Pr0l0gue Blow the noun DA

@ec6769

5 жыл бұрын

I'd like to hang out with you often...js

So humble in your speech,love what you are doing out here mate !

I'm SO glad you got right to the point in your video. So many videos on YT seem to take FOREVER to get to the point lol.

Dude, I'm a business major and the tip you said about honesty is BIG. It's a great marketing skill. Thanks for the information.

Clarity is king. It's so easy to get overwhmeled when you're trying to learn and implement something new. That's why I just have to say thank you tor teaching me your framework for how to connect and making a good first impression - 1. Fun; 2. Trust; 3. Respect 4. Show interest. It has given me a simple model to think about and not get too up in my head when talking to new people. "First we have fun Alex!" Have an awesome day:) /Alex

@Charismaoncommand

6 жыл бұрын

Glad you're liking the structure!

Charlie, I just stumbled across your channel and have been listening for 2 hours because I am learning so much. I am humbled that one so young, can teach me, one so ( relatively speaking) old so much. Thank you for sharing your gift with all of us ❤️❤️🎄🎄🌹🌹🍀🍀🍀🐕🐕🐕

I love how your videos are not edited. Like straight 10 minutes kf talking about multiple critical points. Awesome channel

My fiancée and I have been working out everyday since October and my family needed help carrying a couch downstairs. I ended up on the bottom end of the couch and was able to carry it relatively easily and my step-dad said “wow, someone has been working out!” It made me feel awesome!!

I really Love number 3: Putting Honesty as a Principle above your interests. It's difficult to do for sure and it hurts sometimes, but I'm confident that it'll pay off in the end.

Great video. Loved the personal specific examples given too

You're awesome. It's amazing that you care about people's interest even if it doesn't support your interest. Lots of love

I've been basically binging on these videos, they're really interesting!

@Charismaoncommand

5 жыл бұрын

~ Thanks Diana! That binge watching keeps us in business ;-)

How is your smile so large? Example: 4:13

@yassinlwest6258

6 жыл бұрын

Someone Joker got nothing on Charlie

@blee22

6 жыл бұрын

Someone He has a big mouth if you know what I mean

@wakwak7511

6 жыл бұрын

Someone cameron diaz

@Charismaoncommand

6 жыл бұрын

Seriously. If I could act, it'd be the perfect casting

@Papada00

6 жыл бұрын

His mouth is super large... and the distance of his eyes and his brows is too short.

I like the way you communicate your ideas. It's a gift. Very positive

I like the way you tell stories of how you reached the point. It helps to remember...

Hey charlie, just want to say i started watching your videos 1 and a half years ago and recently joined CU on trial basis and I have to quit cos i am a student and I don't have the money to pay that much. I have come a long way to improve and change the most important thing according to me that is mindset, I'm not there yet but going strong and patting myself after every attempt doesn't matter if it leads to success or not. So I thank you for that. You are the same hero to me as Tim Ferris was to you. It's 4 am in Melbourne I always stay awake to just comment on your video and get that first hour interaction. Saw your FB live and know that you travel places so if you ever find yourself in Melbourne just make an announcement or mail. Know that I WILL FIND YOU AND I WILL HUG YOU!

@Charismaoncommand

6 жыл бұрын

Haha I can't wait!

"Attack!" Haha I laughed out loud, thanks for the video!

Thank You for giving notes in the discription, I liked it!

This chanel in not only good for social skills but also for creating characters. This is a gold mine for artist/ilustrators/animators! There are so many ways of making the charecter sumpathetic through little things, without directly saying how good and awesome the character is (Sorry for my english)

It all comes down to adding value - whether it be making their lives easier or adding positive emotions. Great video !

I do all of this. People like me but don’t particularly respect me. So now I’m trying not to please people as much

@messismo1058

3 жыл бұрын

I'm in 8th grade and basically have a beard and moustache, people respect you so much more lol.

Thanks! You always create so valuable videos. I'm learning and implementing.

This is the best video you've made this year!

I love this channel.

Good advise for people pleaser.

Great info. Definitely helped with all my appointments! Thanks

Such a great video!!! Bless you for this!

I love this channel, but I've always been thinking...that a lot of these videos are for *self*-improvement in order to appear more socially acceptable for *other people*. So it gets me thinking, are we just defined by society? It's something that has always been on my mind, and something I've accepted since I was a kid...but it makes you wonder why other people's opinions matter so much. Also... ...the quality of this channel has always been great in the beginning, but now it's almost as if you are trying to tell people to be someone they're not (kind of like those guys who make videos on how to pick up women) in order to gain tacit approval from others. I just hope that you guys in Charisma on Command be sure to stay in touch with the roots of your philosophy.

@aneeqa1047

5 жыл бұрын

i think that's true because I've noticed that too. Like, it just doesn't sound right when you see the video saying something like ' why everyone likes her' (don't know if that is a video, but it's something along the lines of that. To me, it's as if we're trying to change ourselves in order for people to like us. But i don't know, it's just my opinion, and I still like the videos they put out, because some of it can be useful. But yh..

@martinsolorzano9071

5 жыл бұрын

incogito well yeah you can always improve yourself to be a better you. You can’t change the world but you can change yourself.

@lj-wp3sf

4 жыл бұрын

If someone tries to improve their charisma, they are objectively trying to influence how they are perceived. That is not debatable. They're the same thing.

@ElCthulhu

4 жыл бұрын

I agree that the videos try to make people more socially acceptable. But I don't think that is betraying your core or your values. It's just smoothing social interactions to help you show who you are.

@xgamer-ju8sq

3 жыл бұрын

Great thinking men. Thanks.

can you do a video about Aubrey Plaza? she's so awkward and wouldn't seem like she'd be charismatic and yet everyone loves her. i'd love to see an analysis there

@moharmon770

5 жыл бұрын

step one: be really attractive

@jareddeleon8836

5 жыл бұрын

I never noticed she was good looking until you now mentioned it.

@turnleftaticeland

4 жыл бұрын

there’s a certain kind of awkwardness that can be charismatic

@lj-wp3sf

4 жыл бұрын

@@turnleftaticeland There's a certain kind of attractiveness that makes awkwardness moot. People do not like her because she's charismatic. If anyone else that is less attractive acted like her they wouldn't be perceived in the same way.

@ItsAsparageese

4 жыл бұрын

@@lj-wp3sf Nah, it's way more nuanced than that. There's a video on this channel about her now, and it breaks it down really well

I love that kind of dog. Thank you this has been so helpful.

Have loved this channel for a while ads continue to do so :) thanks for the great content

"How to make friends and influence people"

@IrredeemablyEvil

6 жыл бұрын

Lucas Guimaraes lol

@TheEternalOuroboros

6 жыл бұрын

Great book.

@TheEternalOuroboros

6 жыл бұрын

The book is ‘how to win friends and influence people’. I guess you weren’t talking about that, but that book is one of the most influential books ever written.

@joycefinu6763

4 жыл бұрын

Hi am new here add me up in your Joycefinu11 @gmail. com

@marguskiis7711

3 жыл бұрын

Pretty much a naive and unrealistic.

Killin' it Charlie :)

@inkysplash2975

3 жыл бұрын

Epic Gardening!!!

This guy is absolutely great and that more people should watch him because this is all true.

Your camera presents is so captivating! Defining will be implementing theses! I'd say be cautious about joking make sure your jokes can't be mistaken as subtle insults dont make jokes on people you just met. I learned that the hard way 😂

Hello Charlie, love your videos 😘 first time managing to catch the video in the first hour it is out! Thank you for the fantastic content as always 😍😍😍

@Charismaoncommand

6 жыл бұрын

Woot! Welcome to the first hour club ;-)

Could you do a video on where to put your hands when talking to people and what body gestures to do so that it doesn’t look awkward

@terellslaughter6567

6 жыл бұрын

Watch literally any of his vids

@CalebJones-vr9ul

6 жыл бұрын

Greg Myers okay so where do you put them then?

I clicked on the video with the purpose of looking for a summary in the comment section but I ended up watching the whole video because you seem like such a nice person

Long time fan of the channel (thank you for taking the time to often respond to me) - I am working on a video for my own channel and at one point I mention diffusing tension in a work situation with a bit of humor and playfulness. I want to refer them to your channel to learn more and I'm looking for the perfect episode to refer them to, which one do you think would be best? Also I think people would really like a whole video on that topic. LOVE yall's content, such high quality, thanks!

Your smile is huge... That's really cool... You radiate happiness :)

Actually you are showing how to be a better human... I really like your channel! 🤗🌷

I have seen a lot of your videos and i tried to not subscribe it for months. But your openness is quite charming and content is quite good. Keep up the good work, you just got another subscriber. :)

This channel has helped me so much with my transition into a human society, keep up the good work and my buddies and I can stay hidden till the time is finally right!

@yeager9263

2 жыл бұрын

My guy, what?

I really want to be your friend. You seem like a wonderful person brother! Love your work and personality!

I dont know if u have watched HIMYM but after seeing your analysis about the rock etc. I think u should do a Barney Stinson analysis because I think he is really great on many levels his charisma and so on

The thing where you said about if you're getting groceries and you see something that somebody would like, I can say that I have done that before and people really appreciate that. It's one thing if you get something because they ask for it, but if you get it without them mentioning it, it shows them that you think about them even when they aren't around.

Omg I have done some of these tips even though now I just searched for this video, omg I have talked to my friend & I asked her a lot of questions, with some of these tips, after that she doesn’t show her attitude to me, she is nice to me but now nicer, I feel like this is so great to make people feel cared or supported! But I think I’m doing wrong so I searched for this video, I have things to learn her, these are really great tips!

It seems like good conversational skills are hard to come by today. Hopefully many people learn from this! Thanks for sharing these tips with us bud!

@alexsmith2910

6 жыл бұрын

It does seem to be that way. Especially online.

@kouIShereNOfear

6 жыл бұрын

It's a good thing though because when you do it, you become rare person in their lives and anything that is rare is more valuable than anything else.

@DepressionTalks1

6 жыл бұрын

Very true. :/

@DepressionTalks1

6 жыл бұрын

That is some deep stuff right there! Let's make sure we continue to strive to be more valuable than anything else and be a great example for others!

@rosalinosilva9836

6 жыл бұрын

Just subbed my dude !

Thank you Charlie, this was a great video and very Interesting but mostly informative. Ps. How can I deal with people who are taking charg of my life and bossing me around and telling me what to do/ making desitions for me.😒 Is this something you can make a video about?

@TK3C

6 жыл бұрын

Sarah A. Work on your confidence, quit seeking people's validation and don't be afraid to voice your opinion like they do theirs.

So useful and helpful, thank you very much for this!

Charlie, this video has exceptionally valuable content, you are remarkable!

You're a very inspiring young man, I wish I had your knowledge when I was younger, life would have been different. 'Youth is wasted on the young' , but not in your case. 😘

@jadew6795

4 жыл бұрын

You can still get people to like you and make friends when you're older!

@correctionguy7632

3 жыл бұрын

the guy is like 30

@user-vo7rz5kg8b

3 жыл бұрын

@@correctionguy7632 34

@THESIGMAFROMOHIO

2 жыл бұрын

@@correctionguy7632 oh....

Great tips! I especially agree with the ‘joke first’ tip.. every time I do that, I see people instantly relax and warm up to me. Another thing I’ve found that helps is, mention something in conversation that you remember from the last time you spoke to them. Most people don’t remember details about other people, so when you show that you do remember details about the person, it really blows their mind that you care. 😊

@siamaknooraei853

3 жыл бұрын

i like the point you made about bringing up something from the last time ya''ll spoke.

I definitely subbed to your channel after watching this video! Great tips👍🏾

Thank You ! For being a bigger person in life! I love your chance ! Your are definitely a smart young man! 🙏🏼⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

So simple

His tips work cause when he mentioned liking Avengers I knew I had to subscribe

Thanks man. Your very helpful 😊

i started wachinga video about social 5 days ago and i finded your 2 days ago since that i can"t wait my free time to wach your videos.it"s all so good.you are different any youtuper in there talk they just wanna give you one point. thank you for the loyalty.

I'm not very good at making jokes. Step 6 is a problem

@charimuvilla8693

5 жыл бұрын

You got the honesty perfect

@RicoZaid_

4 жыл бұрын

Learn it? 🤔

Damn... I dont know how to joke

@anthonykhoury9292

4 жыл бұрын

Abigail Lee me neither 😂

Been following you since your blogging days, keep it up!

Hi Charlie... I just wanna thank you for doing summarised in the description below your video here. Well, english is not my first language so it's a bit hard for me to digest all what u have said in the video immediately However, whatever written in the description help me to understand better. THANK YOU for that... You're awesome. .

What a great video

At a moment I realized that I kept smiling the whole time for seeing his smile

Great advice. I think that you are helping people.

This is really nice and so logic ! Thank you

It feels amazing when someone compliments you. yeah My burning self-hatred is held back by that one time a girl said my hair was smooth 4 years ago

Me: *has nobody that likes them* Me:*sees title of this video* Me: “Oh yaaaaaaa!”

Thanks so much Charlie. And by the way, you have a great singing voice

True, some of these ideas are put forth in the book 'How to win friends and influence people' by Dale Carnegie, but it feels good to be reminded and to hear it with contemporary examples.

I learned a lot from this video. You should upload a video about Joe Rogan's ability to come up with interesting topics for a conversation with his podcast guests. I want to hear how you analyze Joe Rogan's techniques for conversing with different people even when many of them disagree with some of his own opinions. Would you consider uploading that video in the future?

@pr0l0gue

6 жыл бұрын

Mastermind123 You gotta say “yeeeeeeah” and “that’s crazy” a lot

Random Person: Hey, you have a nice smile! Charisma on Command: Oh, yeah, thanks, I guess. Other Random Person: Hey, you have a good singing voice! Charism on Command: Oh, thanks!!! Me on the other side of the screen: Oh, wow. That works? Cool, I guess

Honestly, your smile makes me smile

I'm not sure how I've found this channel, but man... what a nice talk! I will dig it deeper for sure!! Cheers

@Charismaoncommand

6 жыл бұрын

~ Awesome! Glad you found our channel. :-)

I feel like a sociopath looking g for ideas watching this.

Peter McKinnon is about to hit 2 MILLION subs! You could do a special on him for it! Just sayin' 🤷‍♂️

@Charismaoncommand

6 жыл бұрын

That's a good call!

@Newtperc

6 жыл бұрын

This!!! Peter's personality is so infectious

@JohannesLilover

6 жыл бұрын

Brandon Sallinger cool idea

@LovingLifeasEmma

6 жыл бұрын

Love this idea!!! And this supportive community. What the heck, go team internet!

7:02 that is so true. a few days ago at school i was talking to my friend and i mentioned that i woke up late and haven't had time to drink coffee. duiring the next break a guy that i have barely talked to comes up to me, gives me a cup of coffee and says that he had overheard our conversation so he decided to bring me some since he was already going to get smth for himself. it made me feel so great and i've been talking to him everyday since that day

This is THE BEST KZread CHANNEL IN THE WORLD YOUR VIDS ARE SO AMAZING

Can you make a video on how to tease people in a good nature way, instead of coming off as mean? I notice it's a common trait charismatic people in my life have

Please talk about David Goggins on why he is effecting and changing so many people. Do an interview with him and ask him the questions no one else is asking. I like your channel but Goggins ripped me apart and made me face my flaws.

Thank you this channel has really helped me change my life.

I love this Charlie, it helps a lot, thanks