6 Signs That it's Time to Let Go of a Best Friend

Do you have a best friend? Real friendships are ones that make you feel happy, safe, and secure. True friends are so rare and special that when we do have them, we can’t help but wish it would last forever. Having good friends like this can be one of the greatest pleasures in life, so it can be devastating for us to lose our friends. Saying goodbye to best friends is heartbreaking, but trying to salvage a friendship that’s not meant to last does more harm than good. Do you suspect that you have toxic friends? Toxic friendships can be hard to spot, but hopefully this video can help you shed some light on how to end a friendship. Bad friends can be very toxic for your mental well being.
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Writer: Michelle Gaston & Chloe Avanasa
Script Editor: Denise Ding & Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Grace Cárdenas Cano
KZread Manager: Cindy Cheong
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References:
Johnson, A. J., Wittenberg, E., Haigh, M., Wigley, S., Becker, J., Brown, K., & Craig, E. (2004). The Process of Relationship Development and Deterioration: Turning Points in Friendships That Have Terminated. Communication Quarterly, 52 (1), 54-67.
Oswald, D. L., & Clark, E. M. (2003). Best Friends Forever?: High School Best Friendships and the Transition to College. Personal Relationships, 10 (20), 187-196.
Collins, A., & van Dulmen, M. (2006). Friendships and Romance in Emerging Adulthood: Assessing the Distinctiveness in Close Relationships. Journal of Social Psychology, 24 (12), 205-216.
Finchum, T., & Weber, J. A. (2000). Applying Continuity Theory to Older Adult Friendships. The Psychology of Aging and Identity, 5 (3), 159-168.
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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go4 жыл бұрын

    Comment the name of your enemy below and we shall slay them for you. =)

  • @tsuki5993

    @tsuki5993

    4 жыл бұрын

    me, kill me

  • @JLo-qp7dw

    @JLo-qp7dw

    4 жыл бұрын

    TheEggMan

  • @goawaykaren1057

    @goawaykaren1057

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well it's a boy but he hits me and his name is kody

  • @serein7963

    @serein7963

    4 жыл бұрын

    also slay me in the process

  • @terra5176

    @terra5176

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jamie

  • @tjarkneubrandt9204
    @tjarkneubrandt92044 жыл бұрын

    The worst feeling is seeing how your best friend slowly gets another best friend and stops caring about you.

  • @binxgoat3752

    @binxgoat3752

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ikr.

  • @Tea-tv3qi

    @Tea-tv3qi

    4 жыл бұрын

    Felt that

  • @Spocx

    @Spocx

    4 жыл бұрын

    that happened to me before... i lost my best friend in the 6th grade , and we had been friends since pre-k

  • @grapeabbas7043

    @grapeabbas7043

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know how that feels, except that my friend's friend is actually his childhood friends.

  • @uwuhehe8485

    @uwuhehe8485

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have two best friends but part of me knows that one likes the other more as they like the exact same things. They both like Ariana grande and I like Lady Gaga they have both gone to one of Arianas concerts together and I didn’t go.

  • @lampy1932
    @lampy19324 жыл бұрын

    Summary: 1. You’re second guessing your friendship 2. You don’t communicate anymore 3. You want different things 4. You’ve found other friends 5. They’ve broken your trust 6. You’re the only one holding on

  • @geoleo965

    @geoleo965

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thanks.

  • @lampy1932

    @lampy1932

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hatice Aydın You did what was right for you and that’s what matters.

  • @sinister2423

    @sinister2423

    4 жыл бұрын

    2nd one is a bit misleading. I left for another state 3 years ago and hence was unable to meet my friend. We rarely talk like once every 2 months. But when we do, we talk for hours. We share everything, even the most embarrassing thing like old times. We trust each other a lot. We both are busy with our lives but if anyone of us decides to initiate a chat, the other doesn't hold back. Both of us have found new best friends but we can't ever forget each other. It's complicated I know but we're far from letting each other go.

  • @tanihehe

    @tanihehe

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sinister2423 agreed. My bff for over 6 years is a grade above me. So when she gets time (which is once a week usually a weekend.) We talk our hearts out and it feels like there was never a time gap. Even my ldbff. We've been bff's for 2 years. And we have a rule (due to circumstances) that we only get to talk on sundays. And boi do we utilize it. Every goodbye feels heartbreaking but the hello the next sunday makes it all worth it.

  • @tanihehe

    @tanihehe

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sinister2423 i think communicate means in general interacting with each other. And even when they do you don't get the same joy of meeting them as before....

  • @cezarblack13
    @cezarblack13Ай бұрын

    "Sometimes you miss the memories; not the person..."

  • @yakumotatsuro4886

    @yakumotatsuro4886

    Ай бұрын

    When i see a specific place, bench, wall. I remember the when we were (fill in blanc)😢 I gues i just miss my friend😢

  • @Shobharani-xk3df

    @Shobharani-xk3df

    27 күн бұрын

    So true , this comment is underrated

  • @nissy9776

    @nissy9776

    6 күн бұрын

    Grieve the loss 😢. My best to you

  • @cezarblack13
    @cezarblack133 ай бұрын

    Sometimes people grow apart and it’s hard to let go but we have to to keep moving forward

  • @cezarblack13

    @cezarblack13

    2 ай бұрын

    Yeahhh

  • @cezarblack13

    @cezarblack13

    2 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @cezarblack13

    @cezarblack13

    Ай бұрын

    @Alicefox657 ;;)) :) xDDD

  • @odiodichoi8854

    @odiodichoi8854

    Ай бұрын

    Is it that easy??

  • @duchi882
    @duchi8824 жыл бұрын

    6 Signs that its Time to Let Go of a Best Friend: 1. You're a Toy and your Best Friend is about to go to College

  • @ekramm219

    @ekramm219

    4 жыл бұрын

    Duchi this one hits different

  • @engineerbot

    @engineerbot

    4 жыл бұрын

    For me it’s: 1. You’re a toy and they keep insulting and treating you like crap because they’re a spoiled brat who grew up in a rich family and is narcissistic.

  • @rjsmiley4872

    @rjsmiley4872

    4 жыл бұрын

    Toy Story 3.......

  • @XenoKnightAlpha

    @XenoKnightAlpha

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's a good one

  • @0001Mxrcel

    @0001Mxrcel

    4 жыл бұрын

    BRO NO

  • @KL-xs5qq
    @KL-xs5qq4 жыл бұрын

    The fact that this appeared in my recommendations is a sign on its own.

  • @princesswena1841

    @princesswena1841

    4 жыл бұрын

    omg i love your profile pic XD

  • @heyitzmae

    @heyitzmae

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think my phone listens to my conversations 0_0

  • @imalenow8484

    @imalenow8484

    4 жыл бұрын

    After whats my current situation same it did come up on my recommended but im in denial im loosing her..

  • @deadmeme1763

    @deadmeme1763

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same and I’ve been going through this

  • @briannalamanteer277

    @briannalamanteer277

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @mmcs4973
    @mmcs49735 ай бұрын

    Very timely. I just acknowledged to a "best" friend of 35 years that I was carrying the burden of single-handedly trying to maintain the friendship, but no more. A short letter, only best wishes, inside a lovely card, and I felt very sad, but relieved, to finally articulate what needed to be said. 🙁

  • @moody_8190

    @moody_8190

    5 ай бұрын

    Im proud of u, thats very brave

  • @Joyleafheather

    @Joyleafheather

    Ай бұрын

    35 years… wow❤

  • @nissy9776

    @nissy9776

    6 күн бұрын

    Well done ❤

  • @alexwatterson9334
    @alexwatterson93344 ай бұрын

    I once had a really close best friend, but like this video, I had to let her go. We had become distant and when we did talk, it was fights. It was still hard though. To whoever needs to hear it, it’s all right to let go of that friend. It may hurt at first, but it’s better than constant pain from trying to keep it together

  • @rajatacharjee4569

    @rajatacharjee4569

    2 ай бұрын

    First reason and the reason of getting new friends and getting diverted are most reasons for letting go

  • @Agheel963

    @Agheel963

    Ай бұрын

    I left my best friend after reevaluating the last few years. Constant put downs repeatedly breaking confidences trying to control me and re writing history to their benefit I don't regret moving on it's them that forced the split but they play the victim and blame me even though they know they caused it

  • @scarymclairy2029
    @scarymclairy20294 жыл бұрын

    *It hurts when you realise you aren’t as important to someone as you thought you were* Oh my... 1.7K likes; thanks so much!

  • @otuskigaming6764

    @otuskigaming6764

    4 жыл бұрын

    Scary Mclairy it hurts even more when you know you’re not important to anyone...

  • @crossplayed

    @crossplayed

    4 жыл бұрын

    Scary Mclairy *it hurts when someone takes all of your friends and they all turn against you.*

  • @keirajackson1711

    @keirajackson1711

    4 жыл бұрын

    XxRidgedWarsxX yea lol

  • @isabella1330

    @isabella1330

    4 жыл бұрын

    ...

  • @anabia8547

    @anabia8547

    4 жыл бұрын

    it does hurt

  • @nixystixx
    @nixystixx3 жыл бұрын

    The saddest part of life is when the person that gave you the best memories becomes a memory.

  • @zyrissdev5075

    @zyrissdev5075

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah

  • @chocolatemilk7908

    @chocolatemilk7908

    3 жыл бұрын

    True.

  • @andrada4010

    @andrada4010

    3 жыл бұрын

    damn

  • @hinomotolanka7729

    @hinomotolanka7729

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah :(

  • @wyattlee4188

    @wyattlee4188

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mind if I ask could it be a good thing to try and connect with that memory? Cause I guess a friend of mine kinda cut me off and idk I still kinda see her as a friend

  • @taphyisj
    @taphyisj7 ай бұрын

    My best friend, who I only met 4 years ago when we were both 9, and I hit off really well instantly. We were never more than friends, but we were really close, and we both really enjoyed each other's company. But recently, she just randomly became distant, and it's gotten to the point of coldness. This video made me overwhelmingly sad, but also allowed me to consider the situation deeper. I also write songs, and I have A LOT, but I've been feeling held back, but after watching this video, I am able to write about it in song form. It feels good, but also really really sad.

  • @Lovely_Layla123
    @Lovely_Layla1236 ай бұрын

    I stopped talking to my best friend of 10 years 1 year ago and this is kind of helping me let go. Ty for helping me feel a bit better!

  • @jessfcx
    @jessfcx3 жыл бұрын

    When you feel like your bestfriend that you have had for seven years doesn't feel like a friend but just a stranger

  • @d.ecaffeinated2496

    @d.ecaffeinated2496

    3 жыл бұрын

    😢

  • @nibileabc8607

    @nibileabc8607

    3 жыл бұрын

    Mine feels like an opstacul in my life

  • @Elyseon

    @Elyseon

    3 жыл бұрын

    7? Try 17.

  • @ariannasardinas6173

    @ariannasardinas6173

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yea 😔

  • @ariannasardinas6173

    @ariannasardinas6173

    3 жыл бұрын

    I had a best friend since kindergarten and she hasn’t even called me since December

  • @kathleen2158
    @kathleen21583 жыл бұрын

    Not friends, not enemies, just strangers with memories.

  • @peppiam9806

    @peppiam9806

    3 жыл бұрын

    that is true

  • @oswaldtheshadowknight7213

    @oswaldtheshadowknight7213

    3 жыл бұрын

    This comment is underrated

  • @alyssiabalzhiser4493

    @alyssiabalzhiser4493

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love this quote but I'm not sure who made it

  • @arunkhurana1898

    @arunkhurana1898

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @hanzoreiss4144

    @hanzoreiss4144

    3 жыл бұрын

    this Hits me so hard

  • @kyram123
    @kyram1236 ай бұрын

    I love the objective advice. Sometimes people grow apart and it’s hard to let go but we have to to keep moving forward

  • @orchid851
    @orchid8517 ай бұрын

    And that one bestie who not only leave You but leaves the world 🥲🙌hurts like damn

  • @kathykonkle1097

    @kathykonkle1097

    4 ай бұрын

    Yes. The best friends I ever had have passed away. It hurts so much that the shitty people just carry on and on.

  • @milk6-

    @milk6-

    2 ай бұрын

    I had both experience, the one is passed away and the other telling you they're not feel comfortable with you and starting avoiding you And i preferred losing friend by death

  • @somethingtwice2297
    @somethingtwice22974 жыл бұрын

    the biggest sign is that you're thinking of someone while watching this video, and that's what really sucks.

  • @JaskaranSingh-ml2if

    @JaskaranSingh-ml2if

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well not even a single point in the video implied to me but your comment......your comment killed me from inside

  • @miavi4227

    @miavi4227

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well i was thinking of all of my friends and they all got 6/6 or 5/6 signs..

  • @Rachel-ew2bi

    @Rachel-ew2bi

    4 жыл бұрын

    i have to agree with you

  • @zakiyamerritt6814

    @zakiyamerritt6814

    4 жыл бұрын

    Im attacked

  • @Chiller-pc1dv

    @Chiller-pc1dv

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well, I had a bit of a morbid curiosity, and am kinda paranoid, but none of the people who I consider my best friends have a 1/6 at most. And that's only cause college, but we all still make an effort to talk to eachother, at least once a day or more.

  • @fannilukacs2599
    @fannilukacs25994 жыл бұрын

    Me: crying because of my bestfriend. KZread: HEEEYYYYYYYYY. I HAVE SOMETHIN FOR UUU

  • @bvbyface9876

    @bvbyface9876

    4 жыл бұрын

    I hope you find new real friends, I understand what you're going true :)

  • @user-or1uh5vs9o

    @user-or1uh5vs9o

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @fannilukacs2599

    @fannilukacs2599

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you guys, I wish y’all the best

  • @yikes5880

    @yikes5880

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@bvbyface9876 sorry but i like your pfp cuz im a bnha fan too!

  • @ivyagrina_

    @ivyagrina_

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fanni Lukács I feel you 💙

  • @JaneChristensen.
    @JaneChristensen.2 ай бұрын

    I thanked my friend of almost 50 years then bid adieu some weeks ago. I have undergone some major life changes in the past few years, this necessitating some recent changes, which they disapproved of. That was a moment of disappointment. I thought I could always trust this person to be supportive and then suddenly I couldn't feel that any more, despite having been there for them through so many crisis over the years. The loss is still quite painful, and beyond that, I feel that I might never have another friendship like that again, because I no longer feel that we truly know any one.

  • @Fearnot_gamah
    @Fearnot_gamah6 ай бұрын

    Thank you. You really helped me with all your videos, I had a very toxic relationship, I never had the guts to end it but now it’s over for my own good I appreciate you ❤

  • @allieserignet6881
    @allieserignet68814 жыл бұрын

    Who else is crying over the fact that you need to let go of your bestfriend who doesn’t really care.

  • @absollinazimmer2883

    @absollinazimmer2883

    4 жыл бұрын

    Allie Serignet me

  • @julieeeluvsu

    @julieeeluvsu

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @julieeeluvsu

    @julieeeluvsu

    4 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭😭

  • @kurapikakurta1997

    @kurapikakurta1997

    4 жыл бұрын

    They say online friends are worse than real, but we’re not even sure that our “real friends” are real.

  • @kurapikakurta1997

    @kurapikakurta1997

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Loco I’m crying because I’m confused

  • @mhmtasty8876
    @mhmtasty88764 жыл бұрын

    "Sometimes you miss the memories; not the person..." -Anonymous

  • @ericrincon7

    @ericrincon7

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @darkclaw12

    @darkclaw12

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @bluina5974

    @bluina5974

    4 жыл бұрын

    I really miss all of those happy and fun memories we shared

  • @Kimbrly_xo

    @Kimbrly_xo

    4 жыл бұрын

    the_ fucking_weeb same😔

  • @Frofrofirjfgnhvbhdfivgojlf

    @Frofrofirjfgnhvbhdfivgojlf

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too but I don't miss the person just the memories

  • @its_lil_eve1283
    @its_lil_eve12836 ай бұрын

    I related to this a lot. Since graduation I have lost my closest friends and since I was the only one trying I gave up a while ago but never truly left them behind. Now I know I did the right thing to try to move on, now I can fully. This channel has helped me through a lot and now this. Thanks P2G.

  • @matldn2697
    @matldn26977 ай бұрын

    So many good points, I had to let go a person who I had such a strong understanding it was so painful I still feel it 24 years later.

  • @Naekko
    @Naekko4 жыл бұрын

    broken friendship hurts more than relationships break up.

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    4 жыл бұрын

    What do you feel is the main difference?

  • @artrash4583

    @artrash4583

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go I think it has something to do with how we view and value friendship and romantic relationships and also Friendships invest more time because before one can become lovers, they have to be friends first, right?

  • @ivana5812

    @ivana5812

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go i always felt like my escape from bad things in relationships is talking with my best friends, when i lost my best friend i felt like im alone and too exposed to my boyfriend.

  • @TamiUwU420

    @TamiUwU420

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go i mean... People have many gf's and bf's but best friends are like more special and rare.. It's just different... It's just different and friends are more important to me than lovers

  • @angelab29

    @angelab29

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yea i know

  • @yuukakeru5437
    @yuukakeru54372 жыл бұрын

    I always envy people with bestfriends... I just want someone to talk to without overthinking if I bother them.

  • @nahidyar8622

    @nahidyar8622

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey If you want to talk with a stranger with out overthinking ,I'm here

  • @SamMorey3691

    @SamMorey3691

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me to ill never judge you ur thoughts are valid

  • @nicklleees1571

    @nicklleees1571

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too! Way to go awesome people! ✊🥳

  • @tanoymajumder2358

    @tanoymajumder2358

    2 жыл бұрын

    Today I shattered my heart for the 1000th time by making friends my friend started ignoring me and told me to shut up so I unfriend him

  • @changbean2679

    @changbean2679

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same... I have a bestfriend but I still overthink a lot. I even check my messages properly to see if I appeared rude and try to message them and hope that I didn't bother them...

  • @dawn_to_dusk
    @dawn_to_dusk8 ай бұрын

    I've been with my best friend for over 6 years and known her for nearly 10. I've always trusted her, and I sacrificed many friendships to stay with her. But in these last two years she's just been so awful to some people in my friend group and caused so many problems. She's a different person... It's just so heartbreaking when you relied on someone for so long and then you realise you can't trust her. Best wishes to anyone out there struggling with their best friend :)

  • @Nunyabusnnes

    @Nunyabusnnes

    2 ай бұрын

    Same problem here

  • @Agheel963

    @Agheel963

    Ай бұрын

    Same

  • @St4rlightxm00nlight

    @St4rlightxm00nlight

    28 күн бұрын

    EXACTLY THE SAME LIKE GENUANLY IDENTICAL SITUATION😭

  • @glenfenderman
    @glenfenderman4 ай бұрын

    I just ended a friendship with a person who turned out to be a toxic, narcissistic, guilt tripping, manipulative bigmouth. I feel a lot more free now.

  • @aparnakj4969

    @aparnakj4969

    4 ай бұрын

  • @shaarav9113
    @shaarav91132 жыл бұрын

    The worst feeling is when you think you two are close, and then you find out you aren't even that close to them

  • @Zei019

    @Zei019

    2 жыл бұрын

    frrr its genuinely so hurtful to me😫

  • @okay6558

    @okay6558

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ouch

  • @aplsmpl

    @aplsmpl

    2 жыл бұрын

    frik all of it i just lost mine

  • @tiffanyzhang4544

    @tiffanyzhang4544

    2 жыл бұрын

    Like when you think their your bff but they have a diff bff that’s not you

  • @ar3IIano

    @ar3IIano

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah they easily replaced me when we stopped being friends -and broke up- with my other best friend too and that best friend acted like nothing happened :/

  • @wengbalaba6944
    @wengbalaba6944Ай бұрын

    Losing a romantic partner is too painful. But losing a partner and a bestfriend altogether is on another level of pain. You don't just feel twice as broken, you feel like your heart is shattered into a million pieces and there's just no way of putting it back together. What's worse is the post-breakup period. You feel so lost and it seems that the more you exerted an effort to forget, the more it seems that the world is brushing it to your face.💔🖤

  • @urfavsh1teditor
    @urfavsh1teditorАй бұрын

    After her pulling away for months I just asked her do you not want to be friends anymore she said "yeah, your just not someone I want to be friends with" probably the worst pain I've felt in a long time

  • @jasminerericha3940
    @jasminerericha39404 жыл бұрын

    Losing your bestfriend is like losing apart of your heart, it sucks. Bad

  • @naj8324

    @naj8324

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me yesterday 🥺

  • @goodmalaka5072

    @goodmalaka5072

    4 жыл бұрын

    Najmaa Ali I'm sorry to hear about that

  • @aksanapikse3333

    @aksanapikse3333

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@naj8324 same me and me best friend broke up yesterday

  • @CloseToMeJSAB

    @CloseToMeJSAB

    4 жыл бұрын

    It does, im crying as i watch the video, it just makes me so sad

  • @aksanapikse3333

    @aksanapikse3333

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@CloseToMeJSAB same

  • @anegg1962
    @anegg19622 жыл бұрын

    The worst insecurity in a friendship is when you don't know if they're genuinely as busy as they say or just try to avoid you

  • @gurdianangel5440

    @gurdianangel5440

    2 жыл бұрын

    AWARD WINNING COMMENT RIGHT HERE💀💔💯

  • @user-oz2ur5gd8x

    @user-oz2ur5gd8x

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have a friend but I'm trying to avoid her. I have told her in the past that I didn't want to be her friend anymore and that I wouldn't talk to her for now. She would keep coming back with her problems. She still keeps coming back with her problems which is why I don't want her as a friend.

  • @stargamer8878

    @stargamer8878

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@user-oz2ur5gd8x at that point just cut her off bro.

  • @user-oz2ur5gd8x

    @user-oz2ur5gd8x

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@stargamer8878 you're right. I have to.

  • @Ari.basket

    @Ari.basket

    2 жыл бұрын

    im litterally crying right now thinking if my first best friend. i was friend with her for my whole life until she moved when we were 5 and i havent seen her since. our parents stillknow each other and im debating if i should reach out and talk to her i dont know what to do but i miss her so much and i feel like if we met up it wouldbe very awkward because we would be like strangers. i dont know what to do but cry. help me decide plss

  • @karenglenn6707
    @karenglenn67075 ай бұрын

    I let go of my bestie of 42 years in February. We had been through so much together and were always there for each other. My dad died last December and she couldn’t be bothered to come and see me, and my son reminded me that it had been over 4 years since she had visited me. It was always me going to her, I’m slightly disabled and it’s a bit of a drive. She had surgery to remove large benign cysts from her ovaries and I took my own shower chair for her to use at home and went to stay for a week to help look after her through the day. This was last June 2022, and I have a carer myself. I sent her a message telling her that I didn’t want her to contact me anymore. And it hurt to do that. We had been besties for 2/3 of my life, her kids are family to us. But she just didn’t want to bother and to be there for me as I was for her last year. So that’s it. Never had the decency to return my shower chair either, I had to get another. Said all I needed to know about her. Her oldest and dearest friend she called me, what a joke. Bye Jan.

  • @TrokaRC

    @TrokaRC

    5 ай бұрын

    Same had a kindergarten friend been few years had to cut few "friends" out my life. Learned that at 35 not everyone is a "friend" best decision I could have done. It has been hell but being on your own means less issues. We become dependent unfortunately.

  • @Third_Eye_003
    @Third_Eye_0032 ай бұрын

    I just lost my best friend a few days ago. They started bullying me. This video really showed me how a good friend should act. 🙂

  • @ElsaMusicVideos

    @ElsaMusicVideos

    Ай бұрын

    I was in the same situation.

  • @tesawilder365
    @tesawilder3652 жыл бұрын

    1. You’re second guessing the friendship 2. You don’t communicate anymore 3. You want different things 4. You’ve found other friends 5. They’ve broken your trust 6. You are the only one holding on

  • @friedrichnietzsche4569

    @friedrichnietzsche4569

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks! Saved my time :D

  • @peytonferkel222

    @peytonferkel222

    2 жыл бұрын

    My bff has been mad at her stepsister and I did something "wrong" after she pranked me then she stopped talking to me the 24th

  • @jndkinternational7856

    @jndkinternational7856

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks! This saved me 5 minutes and 55 seconds! :) I'll subscribe

  • @TitaniumTronic

    @TitaniumTronic

    2 жыл бұрын

    I just-, Idk, I still am holding on because... Memories..

  • @notCelestee

    @notCelestee

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yep,it’s time to let go…

  • @tencho3492
    @tencho34923 жыл бұрын

    Imagine if your friends also watched this thinking about you

  • @dominik8225

    @dominik8225

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ikr that kind of scares me

  • @a.i5487

    @a.i5487

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@dominik8225 Well i can imagine fiction so

  • @ayoutubeviewer8816

    @ayoutubeviewer8816

    3 жыл бұрын

    Probably

  • @tencho3492

    @tencho3492

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Peachy Jikook i see, one step ahead😉

  • @themandocolt5830

    @themandocolt5830

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Peachy Jikook same here 😐

  • @cringenugget
    @cringenugget7 ай бұрын

    thanks. I’m struggling letting go. I needed this.

  • @alfredtafadzwabandera630
    @alfredtafadzwabandera6307 ай бұрын

    Wow! This has opened my eyes. l have a best friend l love wholeheartedly but l have discovered that she has lots of friends in her life to the extent that she forgets about me sometimes. l am the one who does everything: the caring, the effort, the calling, the texting , the support, etc and l never get that same energy ... it hurts because l always value true friendship, but it's okay l know EVERYTHING IS GONNA BE ALRIGHT. Love and Light to all genuine people reading this...we shall overcome.

  • @Hi-sj4xg
    @Hi-sj4xg2 жыл бұрын

    It sucks when you have the best friend title but don’t feel treated like one Edit: thanks so much for all the replies! I thought I felt so alone before this but I hope everything gets better for you all!

  • @pugs_play7321

    @pugs_play7321

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah. Thats whats up with me. I just dont know...

  • @eimanb3887

    @eimanb3887

    2 жыл бұрын

    It does hurt alot, but eventually you get over it. Happened to me once Also nice pfp :P

  • @Hi-sj4xg

    @Hi-sj4xg

    2 жыл бұрын

    Eiman B yeah Ik it’ll get better soon :/ and wow matching :)))

  • @eimanb3887

    @eimanb3887

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Hi-sj4xg I hope so too! Yep haha

  • @Hi-sj4xg

    @Hi-sj4xg

    2 жыл бұрын

    Eiman B tyyyy :)

  • @madsross4491
    @madsross44913 жыл бұрын

    i’m so sorry you had to watch this but nothing lasts forever i love you

  • @amruthavalli1260

    @amruthavalli1260

    3 жыл бұрын

    😔🤧 ily too

  • @dumbassnamedsoph6550

    @dumbassnamedsoph6550

    3 жыл бұрын

    ily too

  • @lonelyscarygirl

    @lonelyscarygirl

    3 жыл бұрын

    My best friend said they couldn't trust me because I said I wouldn't post song lyrics anymore and I did. That how stupid things got.

  • @TamWam_

    @TamWam_

    3 жыл бұрын

    im showing this video to my best friend, who has another best friend that became more toxic

  • @11Kenjii

    @11Kenjii

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@TamWam_ life is so toxic

  • @SaiyanPup
    @SaiyanPup10 күн бұрын

    I just lost my best friend today. This video truly confirms that I need to move on with my life, as I broke his trust.

  • @zoniagega.

    @zoniagega.

    9 күн бұрын

    Me today..

  • @patienceeekawuma285
    @patienceeekawuma2853 жыл бұрын

    The fact that this wasn't in your recommend and some people had to search it up,that in itself is sad dude :/

  • @aiyanaharleyroberts7533

    @aiyanaharleyroberts7533

    3 жыл бұрын

    I searched up “how to deal with best friends leaving you out” because I’m in a group of 3 friends and it’s so difficult, and I’m always the one that’s left out and the other 2 have so many inside jokes and it’s so heartbreaking because I’ve known her for 6 years and she’s only known the person we’re in a group of 3 with for less than a year and it sucks.

  • @aiyanaharleyroberts7533

    @aiyanaharleyroberts7533

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Airyana De Leon oh I’m so sorry

  • @sidharthsharma2637

    @sidharthsharma2637

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@aiyanaharleyroberts7533 if it's making you unhappy, leave it asap

  • @aiyanaharleyroberts7533

    @aiyanaharleyroberts7533

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sidharthsharma2637 thanks, my real best friend gave me some advice and it made me realise “what’s so great about them anyway? all they do is leave me out”

  • @aiyanaharleyroberts7533

    @aiyanaharleyroberts7533

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Airyana De Leon thank you

  • @soulassassin0g
    @soulassassin0g3 жыл бұрын

    Friend: "Alright, I gotta log off. See you tomorrow." _Last seen online: 3 years ago_

  • @mana....8143

    @mana....8143

    3 жыл бұрын

    that hits diff :(

  • @kopiiseverything994

    @kopiiseverything994

    3 жыл бұрын

    Deadmeme

  • @faithr9776

    @faithr9776

    3 жыл бұрын

    Bruh this happened right now it’s already been a month

  • @basketballchickensod

    @basketballchickensod

    3 жыл бұрын

    Fake friends is your stalker social media

  • @randomannas

    @randomannas

    3 жыл бұрын

    ..my friend and i mutually "saying im not gonna disturb u then"...she has anxiety ..but it okay may she's. happy then...

  • @etlimenemen
    @etlimenemen2 ай бұрын

    what's worse is finding out how much of a narcist that person is. When you're ignorant about narcissism it will take years until you realize their true character and what they really think and feel about you. my advice to everyone out there is to really understand what makes a narcissist and think carefully about that person.

  • @anosh_988-athemovies
    @anosh_988-athemovies7 ай бұрын

    yeah! this has happened but i didnt even think bout it even a day thanks for the support 🤗

  • @brofam9015
    @brofam90154 жыл бұрын

    *me crying while trying to convince myself that this isn't true* Edit: woah i didnt realize how much attention this comment has gotten... dw guys i got over that person and now i cant get over somebody else B)

  • @flowerfellfrisk3878

    @flowerfellfrisk3878

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know what that’s like

  • @Scary-Eire

    @Scary-Eire

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bro Fam *AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA*

  • @janethedoll

    @janethedoll

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yea..me too

  • @cheyenneblackendorf3643

    @cheyenneblackendorf3643

    4 жыл бұрын

    I cried too but i had to let go :(

  • @Urawizardharryy

    @Urawizardharryy

    4 жыл бұрын

    Stay strong💪

  • @angela-sh8zy
    @angela-sh8zy4 жыл бұрын

    Guys remember, “Friendship is like a piece of paper, it can be crumbled and smoothed out again, but it will never be the same.”

  • @harshulifestyles..3725

    @harshulifestyles..3725

    4 жыл бұрын

    Soo truee

  • @elilundberg3457

    @elilundberg3457

    4 жыл бұрын

    But not Necessarily worse

  • @angela-sh8zy

    @angela-sh8zy

    4 жыл бұрын

    Eli Lundberg It can be for the worst, some friendships aren’t meant to last. Ik it hurts to say that but it’s happened 2+ times to me,

  • @elilundberg3457

    @elilundberg3457

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@angela-sh8zy sorry to hear that, it is probably most common to be for the worse, it have happened to me too once, but I also know some people who became close friends after being not so close friends and falling apart

  • @trevorscott1587

    @trevorscott1587

    4 жыл бұрын

    AngoTheBanjo man wise words but honestly just fuck off

  • @cameforthemen8132
    @cameforthemen8132Ай бұрын

    2 minutes in and i'm crying. Matched my current "best friend" perfectly.

  • @KingMLK1
    @KingMLK1Ай бұрын

    Yesterday, me and my friend had a massive fight, and watching your videos always calms me down

  • @PieroMinayaRojas
    @PieroMinayaRojas3 жыл бұрын

    The worst part is when that best friend was the only friend

  • @lillian.catherine

    @lillian.catherine

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm in this situation right now... :/

  • @DarkLeaf

    @DarkLeaf

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same and he just left me

  • @randomyoutuber9704

    @randomyoutuber9704

    3 жыл бұрын

    It's true.. she.. we grew apart..

  • @harithegreatest

    @harithegreatest

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hope u can make new friends buddy👍

  • @randomyoutuber9704

    @randomyoutuber9704

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@harithegreatest agreed..

  • @linusbucher6579
    @linusbucher65794 жыл бұрын

    6 signs let Go of good Friends 1. You're Seconds guessing the friendship 2. You don't communicate anymore 3. You want different things 4. You found other friends 5. They've broken your trust 6. You are the one Holding on

  • @tulip5210

    @tulip5210

    4 жыл бұрын

    This is me and my friend

  • @tulip5210

    @tulip5210

    4 жыл бұрын

    Alivia :3 we stopped being friend a week ago. I feel so bad.

  • @zom_zooz

    @zom_zooz

    4 жыл бұрын

    ohgod ohno

  • @gavorina2045

    @gavorina2045

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @gavorina2045

    @gavorina2045

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@SealsLoveAseel Me too actually and the person that doesn't communicate anymore

  • @niloofarfallah3293
    @niloofarfallah32932 ай бұрын

    This video was all I needed to hear, thank you❤

  • @prithvirajsrinivasan1077
    @prithvirajsrinivasan10775 ай бұрын

    I've had both lost friendships and rejections and trust me the former hurts more because they know you yet they don't feel it's worth it to be in your life.

  • @fragmentation6924
    @fragmentation69243 жыл бұрын

    It's funny how someone you know so well turns into a complete stranger ...

  • @JDABORDUM

    @JDABORDUM

    3 жыл бұрын

    yeah it sucks

  • @Dirt4Worms

    @Dirt4Worms

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s not funny at all actually.... but I get what your saying.

  • @debbienoble-pepple3828

    @debbienoble-pepple3828

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Dirt4Worms it’s sarcasm

  • @Dirt4Worms

    @Dirt4Worms

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@debbienoble-pepple3828 Ye I know 😂

  • @kaylarblx3474

    @kaylarblx3474

    3 жыл бұрын

    I just lost my friend and found out she was fake now she left me for other friends and she is wishing me not to make new friends and get out if her life

  • @aleezaa13
    @aleezaa132 жыл бұрын

    it hurts when you feel like your close/best friend is replacing you with someone else but you know you cant do anything about it. Update if anyone cares: the person i made this comment about still talks to me and still friends

  • @clownoftheyear8425

    @clownoftheyear8425

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same my best friend and me have the same friend group and one weekend she any everyone else was invited to this girls house and I wasn’t their excuse was I was and you didn’t answer Their text to invite me was “hey girl” like come on like am I not supposed to be mad And when I confront them about it they brush it off or make it seem like I’m overreacting Please comment some advice should I just drop them

  • @aleezaa13

    @aleezaa13

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@clownoftheyear8425 if they're treating you like that maybe it best to find more friends who are more considerate of your feelings and will invite you when making plans to hang out instead of staying with the people in your current friend group.

  • @clownoftheyear8425

    @clownoftheyear8425

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@aleezaa13 I ended it with them today 🤠👌

  • @aleezaa13

    @aleezaa13

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@clownoftheyear8425 i hope you find more caring friends! :D

  • @arolemaprarath6615

    @arolemaprarath6615

    2 жыл бұрын

    The worse case scenario is that, your BESTFRIEND was your childhood friend. Whenever you think of your past especially your childhood and that BESTFRIEND was always there in your memories. That BESTFRIEND is always present in ur memorable moments. I'd say, it FVCK!NG HURTS SO MUCH! Much hurt than losing your bf/gf. Imagine after decades of friendship, it just suddenly snapped and "IT'S OVER." Remember, aside from ur family, Friendship is the second relationship we have after our families or relatives. So yes, losing your Bestie hurts more than losing your BF/GF.

  • @DannyStanley-Porritt-ji6jm
    @DannyStanley-Porritt-ji6jm5 ай бұрын

    i always thought that my bestie and i would be best friends forever, but ever since the start of year 7, we just grew apart, not to mention that she's really flighty, and we only hang out when SHE wants to, or when SHE'S free, and i've been wondering if maybe its time to let go, and this video confirms it. Thank you.

  • @Vhvjdow0ajsbcdhcuei3o22-om4sm
    @Vhvjdow0ajsbcdhcuei3o22-om4sm10 күн бұрын

    The worst thing is the sacrifice, time, money, and it all got invested into nothing in the end. Best friend for 12 years and it's just so over.

  • @Liiaac5
    @Liiaac52 жыл бұрын

    I stopped having a "best friend" when I realized that they'll just leave you in the end anyways, people don't stick around forever.

  • @Moolaroo2

    @Moolaroo2

    2 жыл бұрын

    All the more reason to cherish those in your life. People might not stick around forever but that doesn’t mean having relationships is pointless, the times you had together still meant something. “ ‘tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” -Alfred Lord Tennyson

  • @kimjisoo7844

    @kimjisoo7844

    2 жыл бұрын

    Actually some people do stick around. My current bsf is my bsf since the day I was born, she's my cousin, and we hung out like almost everyday.

  • @Armyblink-sq2cd

    @Armyblink-sq2cd

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kimjisoo7844 my best friend love me so much and I also love her so much but she is moving to Dubai forever 😭😭😭😭😢

  • @yellowtf328

    @yellowtf328

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Armyblink-sq2cd Move with her

  • @kimjisoo7844

    @kimjisoo7844

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Armyblink-sq2cd Oh no! That's not good! But don't worry, I'm sure you guys will reunite again, everything happened for a reason, so you'll be good for now.🤗❤️

  • @tomheisenburg266
    @tomheisenburg2662 жыл бұрын

    The worst feeling in the world is when you're practically begging for their company and they constantly have excuses why they can't but then willingly and effortlessly do the same things you wanted but with someone else.

  • @prasadacharya2525

    @prasadacharya2525

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same is happening 😢😕

  • @ivanieleslie1036

    @ivanieleslie1036

    2 жыл бұрын

    same thing is happening to me right now. My best friend got a boyfriend two months ago and i’m happy for her. But when I went to see her a few weeks ago I begged her not to go to to a practice that she didn’t have to go to. She just wanted to spend more time with her boyfriend and told me straight to my face that she had nothing better to do even though they were seeing each other again the same night and I live 30 minutes away so I only see her a few times a year. Then she invited me somewhere, never gave me the details and went with her boyfriend instead. It’s truly the worst feeling

  • @Sweetheart0189

    @Sweetheart0189

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes this is me!! Especially on holidays. Birthdays etc. but when they see me living my life & moving on, they want to know why I didn’t include them… we deserve so much more so I’m cutting those people loose, grieving/healing & find people that want me just as much as I want them..

  • @ivanieleslie1036

    @ivanieleslie1036

    2 жыл бұрын

    @• K a z u k i • i’m sorry you’re going through it too it’s been 6 days with no communication and this morning she tried texting me to crack a joke like everything’s fine. I tried talking to her about it last week but she kept dodging my calls and never texted me back. I haven’t even been referring to her as my best friend anymore lately. I hope things are reconciled for you eventually love I’ve made peace with the fact that she probably won’t be a part of my life anymore :(

  • @adrianeflores8332

    @adrianeflores8332

    2 жыл бұрын

    how can they do that so easily?? why do people can easily forget the person that shared their lives for a long time? just because they have busy schedules? a lot of work to do? have a family? have kids? no!!!! thats not a valid excuses! have seen these kind of people with busy lifestyle but still can manage to meet their friends even in short time! the reason is its either you found another friend, you replace so easily! or you're in a relationship and you just set aside your dearest friend for a new person of your life or worst you don't value your friendship anymore!!! those kind of people disgust me! because they don't know how it hurst so much!!!

  • @sheriehalvajian4422
    @sheriehalvajian44227 ай бұрын

    Actually and unfortunately 😢EVERYTHING that you said made sense! You REALLY know how to put it! You sound like you are a therapist. Thankyou

  • @anastaciamorgan596
    @anastaciamorgan5965 ай бұрын

    My former best friend abruptly told me that we had nothing in common anymore, but wasn't specific until years later. Turns out it was over having children and I guess she thought that I was anti children.. What she didn't know was that I am infertile, When she recently attempted to return to my life it was only then that she told me about the children issue, not when she broke off our friendship. I then told her about my lack of ability to have kids, and she regretted her decision from the past and wanted to come back into my life. My guard is up around her now and I'm the one walking away. Probably for the best, I don't want to hurt again. I made my peace with our initial break up and you know the old phrase "you can't go home again"

  • @maharaniarya465
    @maharaniarya4654 жыл бұрын

    That's so terrible when our special people start evolving to be strangers....

  • @tabbywaslostflyhightweek4992

    @tabbywaslostflyhightweek4992

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mine is never letting go

  • @ravenouskatelyn4884

    @ravenouskatelyn4884

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@tabbywaslostflyhightweek4992 The rope is kinda breaking every day, you sure bro?

  • @tabbywaslostflyhightweek4992

    @tabbywaslostflyhightweek4992

    4 жыл бұрын

    Katelyn UwU it’s not gonna break cause it’s made out of true friendship not a fake one

  • @hooman4406

    @hooman4406

    4 жыл бұрын

    not evolve to stranfers, but devolve to strangers

  • @quloo1655

    @quloo1655

    4 жыл бұрын

    I still never have a fight with my bestie and we are not even at the same class but we still best friend ^^

  • @dracomalfuahstan1902
    @dracomalfuahstan19023 жыл бұрын

    The worst feeling is passing your best friend like strangers.. i need someone.

  • @glitchsmy3463

    @glitchsmy3463

    3 жыл бұрын

    me too, you can talk to me if you want :)

  • @mlzxs_

    @mlzxs_

    3 жыл бұрын

    We are here for u :>.

  • @dracomalfuahstan1902

    @dracomalfuahstan1902

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mlzxs_ thank you 🥺

  • @gachabunnybear652

    @gachabunnybear652

    3 жыл бұрын

    I’m here for you❤️❤️🥰

  • @Tobirama258

    @Tobirama258

    3 жыл бұрын

    I use to have lots of friends but I ended my relationship with my friends because it’s really hard 🥺😭💔and I will never make friends again

  • @HarmonyHeart_13
    @HarmonyHeart_137 ай бұрын

    I’ve had a best friend since 10 years now… Lately tho she stared hanging out with a girl who is an absolute bad influence on her and since then I feel distanced to her… Even tho she sometimes wants to talk with me and do stuff with me, she still chooses the fake friend over me for most things… I have experienced every point stared out in this video…

  • @annn8389
    @annn8389Ай бұрын

    I've known this friend for over 14 years. All of a sudden, anything I say to her becomes an argument. Even when I ask about the ingredients in her purchased ingredients. She starts to swear in public and acts like a kid. She stops calling me all of a sudden which was a huge favor for me because I did not know to end the friendship. So, thank you fir not talking to me any more

  • @Bncbngyu
    @Bncbngyu2 жыл бұрын

    For those who don't have time :: 1:22 You are second guessing your friendship 2:01 You don't communicate anymore 2:35 You want different things 3:00 You have found other friends 3:35 They have broken your trust 4:15 You are the one holding on

  • @lts_mary

    @lts_mary

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @darkfighters8997

    @darkfighters8997

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @animaaliv1615

    @animaaliv1615

    2 жыл бұрын

    Finally I just realized that I don't have friends. It was my imagination that I thought I had them, but they've already left me. Ahahhaha well this video is so helpful!!! I just need let them go!!!

  • @M1NTAE

    @M1NTAE

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@animaaliv1615 Aww just remember there are many people for you! 🤗

  • @tittimoboy8566

    @tittimoboy8566

    2 жыл бұрын

    i dont communicate with a best friend and found another one...

  • @Teardroppedd
    @Teardroppedd4 жыл бұрын

    Me: doubting my (kinda toxic) friendship. KZread:

  • @108turquoise

    @108turquoise

    4 жыл бұрын

    Feels like it's an old marriage? Cause sure mine's do and some people have told me about it

  • @leelie592

    @leelie592

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same she was so nice to me before and never fought irl but now we fight so often and mostly irl but there is no one else I can be with :/ everyone likes her more than me

  • @Teardroppedd

    @Teardroppedd

    4 жыл бұрын

    Before this school year we were sooo close now.. they have a new best friend (who hates me) and I feel like they say stuff behind my back...

  • @marissamars1186

    @marissamars1186

    4 жыл бұрын

    Jill Msp same here

  • @gamernanami914

    @gamernanami914

    4 жыл бұрын

    Omg literally today my friend did something I didn’t like and this gotten recommend

  • @LeonPlayz129
    @LeonPlayz1295 күн бұрын

    This made me cry, I miss by best friend he's changed so much I cry all the time now

  • @BonnieTheGuitaristTherian
    @BonnieTheGuitaristTherian6 ай бұрын

    My best friend broke my trust :/ she's kinda my enemy now and she's the majority of what I talk about in therapy. I need help learning how to get over her because she really rude to me and so is her cousin 😭. This video really helped me understand, thank you so much for making it!! ❤❤❤ You've earned a subscriber 😁

  • @briannamarie7555
    @briannamarie75554 жыл бұрын

    i bet your thinking of your “best friend” while watching this.

  • @planetsj527

    @planetsj527

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am. Not sure what to do about him😒

  • @daniquethomason4367

    @daniquethomason4367

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yea i am and in tears :(

  • @l5001

    @l5001

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oof my bestie I mean my bestest bestest friend we where so so so close but she got new friends and she so umm once I was standing with them and with her they where also my friends and she said to them that they where her best friends and not me I was so so so sad I got replaced so I dint see them for like three days then returned now I call her bestie and she doesent answer me it changed it changed a lot.

  • @kaikat1430

    @kaikat1430

    4 жыл бұрын

    bri xx she’s my ex best friend She left me

  • @RuthlessDarknes5

    @RuthlessDarknes5

    4 жыл бұрын

    i was

  • @windy6587
    @windy65874 жыл бұрын

    KZread recommended: Me: KZread is stalking me he knows I got problems *help*

  • @cupidoscandles.

    @cupidoscandles.

    4 жыл бұрын

    KZread WANTS TO KNOW YOUR LOCATION

  • @md.golamrabbi2448

    @md.golamrabbi2448

    4 жыл бұрын

    Man #relateble

  • @privyoutubechnnl

    @privyoutubechnnl

    4 жыл бұрын

    Erm yt isnt a gender

  • @nothingatall7027

    @nothingatall7027

    4 жыл бұрын

    Z H mk and?

  • @sophiekoenig1093

    @sophiekoenig1093

    4 жыл бұрын

    FelineFelix m2 Its probably WhatsApp I mean like Facebook read oure messages!!

  • @potatoextreme4252
    @potatoextreme425217 күн бұрын

    The problem with me and my friend is that we have too much in common - we do pretty much everything together. We have arguments pretty much everyday, and although we apologise it’s like putting a poster over a hole in the wall. But we can’t just STOP being friends because we’re in the same clubs together and we take the train to school together. We’ll always have to stay friends no matter what. I don’t know if this is just me, but I sometimes get feelings of “If I don’t have ___, then who do I have?” Not trying to trauma vom, just share my thoughts.

  • @mzmkysquad-zmky_
    @mzmkysquad-zmky_7 ай бұрын

    I have all of those problems but when i heard the last one realised this video is actually right and that it was a good choice to watch this amazing video and this should be known worldwide

  • @user-gv5hm8po6b
    @user-gv5hm8po6b3 жыл бұрын

    The worst part is when you lose a best friend because they can’t see why they’re so toxic.

  • @nollypetal7897

    @nollypetal7897

    3 жыл бұрын

    omg yes

  • @zoeeeeeeeeee3644

    @zoeeeeeeeeee3644

    3 жыл бұрын

    Or maybe im toxic. I have trust issues 😓

  • @chaehlvvr

    @chaehlvvr

    3 жыл бұрын

    YES I HAVE 2 BEST FRIENDS AND THEY BOTH KICKED ME OUT OF THE GROUP.

  • @xhwjkwh4551

    @xhwjkwh4551

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes so true

  • @svvatig

    @svvatig

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@zoeeeeeeeeee3644 it's okay. You can always work on yourself. Take some space for yourself and sit with yourself. Being toxic has everything to do with what's within us. Let your loved ones know you are trying to improve. It will be okay. Don't beat yourself up. Take it slow. Everything will be alright

  • @ghostwizard7597
    @ghostwizard75974 жыл бұрын

    Me: *struggling with my feelings because of my """best friend""" * KZread: Me: Is that a personal attack on me or smt? Thank you

  • @anessamartinez5828

    @anessamartinez5828

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ghost wizard brooo thinking the same thing, me and her are not friends anymore and this all happened yesterday

  • @ghostwizard7597

    @ghostwizard7597

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@anessamartinez5828 For me, it was over 6 months, but they tried to contact me again some days ago, they only wanted to use me again as i expected, so it brought all those past feelings back to hit me in the gut. Luckily, it all passed pretty fast and i reassured myself, reminding of why i ended the friendship in the first place

  • @annacarenina767

    @annacarenina767

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ghost wizard saaame

  • @anessamartinez5828

    @anessamartinez5828

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Ghost wizard it sucks having to go thru that and feel that way for a friendship. I cried so hard yesterday Becuz my heart felt truly broken, but I hope ur ok now and I hope that u keep moving forward and know that u deserve better ❤️

  • @airapajarillo9512

    @airapajarillo9512

    4 жыл бұрын

    exactly what I said when I saw this video, ended up watching tho

  • @user-nj5nr6nk9f
    @user-nj5nr6nk9fАй бұрын

    I recently let go of my best friend and it all started when he moved to a different country. He found a new best friend in his newfound country with his parents and he started playing with him the same amount of time as we used to play when he was still in my country. Then he stopped texting me as often and calling me. My usual schedule was wake up, eat breakfast and play with my friend all day long, but when he got his new friend he started playing with him on the daily. I understood that the timezones with a little bit different like an hour difference, but that wasn't the answer. He started playing a new game with his NEW friend and left me behind. I struggled to keep this friendship on and i just gave up. It wasn't worth keeping this friendship alive because i was the only one keeping it still, like building blocks. The moment i gave up on my best friend made the boulder get off of me. But there came another problem which is still relevant to this day. I am very shy and can't make new friend all of the sudden. I want friends like my old best friend, i am doubting that if i even can make a new friend like him. And now I'm lonely, without a sibling to play with because I'm was a single child and no one to play with. I don't want virtual friends, i want real friends but i can't make new friends because im shy. being on the computer just feels like wasting time on playing games and torturing my mind.

  • @VGB004
    @VGB004Ай бұрын

    I agree. Im choosing to end a long term friendship. I haven't seen this friend in almost 8yrs and we live in the same general area. The person feels like texting is a way to keep our friendship going but all I ever get are depressing and sad things in their life. I chose to end the friendship bcus as much as I have put in, I get a bunch of lies and false perceptions of what they want me to feel their going thru. I feel like now at my age I am mature enough to let go of Fake pple that dnt really care about the contact or effort to keep a real friendship alive.

  • @mocowan6642
    @mocowan66423 жыл бұрын

    When you realize your best friend has become someone you don’t recognize anymore, it’s time to let go.

  • @holliekuber4992

    @holliekuber4992

    3 жыл бұрын

    I had a friend like that from high school. She used to have my back and vice versa and I had to let her go coz her boyfriend is a controlling prick and eventually she sided with him and thus I left.

  • @nadiaelsa3850

    @nadiaelsa3850

    3 жыл бұрын

    true 😭

  • @rondonnis6588

    @rondonnis6588

    3 жыл бұрын

    if you dont recognize your friend anymore means you never knew them at all in the entire friendship and you have failed them

  • @holliekuber4992

    @holliekuber4992

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rondonnis6588 sorry I'm going to disagree with you on that one just because my "friend" was one that I could easily recognize however when someone tries to control that person and "friend" sides with the boyfriend-they weren't my friend to begin with. They actually failed me if you really think about it.

  • @MovhisMocjaoa

    @MovhisMocjaoa

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rondonnis6588 no it’s where they’ve got to the point where they’ve changed into a different person and judging by this comment you’re probably one of them

  • @DillyDazzle
    @DillyDazzle4 жыл бұрын

    Who else doesn’t want to let go of their friend but knows they should

  • @Apolloy.n

    @Apolloy.n

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me but ive tried and he dint let go so......who is the one really hurt here

  • @judith-mw9cg

    @judith-mw9cg

    4 жыл бұрын

    Alycia Cardamone me

  • @ttkunknown4344

    @ttkunknown4344

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me

  • @_.dak._

    @_.dak._

    4 жыл бұрын

    Alycia Cardamone bro meeeee. she has been my best friend for the longest time, but she is a bitch lately. but I don't want to loose her cause she knows everything about me. I'm afraid she will expose me is i make her mad. also we have way too many fights. so I just want to stop being her friend, but I can't for some reason.

  • @crist638

    @crist638

    4 жыл бұрын

    me

  • @Theoneauthor123
    @Theoneauthor1236 ай бұрын

    I've been having issues with who used to be my bff, and then this popped up. Thank you

  • @MultiCatPro
    @MultiCatPro4 ай бұрын

    Tysm for making this video it helped me so much

  • @adrianacasavant7088
    @adrianacasavant70884 жыл бұрын

    “Are you lucky enough to have a best friend?” I felt that.

  • @pieowo6082

    @pieowo6082

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @mesuper240

    @mesuper240

    4 жыл бұрын

    I gave up already and have myself as my best friend.

  • @catherinerichter8317

    @catherinerichter8317

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same Im a loner

  • @ShadowMastery_

    @ShadowMastery_

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have

  • @ironicdan597

    @ironicdan597

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm happy I have. Don't give up. Ur best friend ist waiting for u anywhere :)

  • @a.rtomboy6202
    @a.rtomboy62024 жыл бұрын

    Disney: We will be best friends forever nothing will ever Drift us apart. Reality: It time to let go. Move on. Quit crying to our past friendship.

  • @komarunaegi9719

    @komarunaegi9719

    4 жыл бұрын

    How are your words so wise yet so simple? It's a true poetry that is beautiful.

  • @KanatooktheL

    @KanatooktheL

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lol my friendship is actually weird . She went to diffrent country for collage and so I but we still meet togheter in our childhood neighbourhood bc our parents still live herr

  • @mackenziemcdaniel-paul8163

    @mackenziemcdaniel-paul8163

    4 жыл бұрын

    Reality isn't always like that. There no such thing as absolutely cutting all ties with friends. You can drift apart, meet up again. Be friends all your life and never seperate. Hell, you can even kill your friend in a crime of passion. Think about every friendship that has happened across all of human history. Every relationship I've ended is because I started overthinking things and I ended up tearing down my support system. The best thing to do with friendship is to let it happen. Don't overthink it or play into your parnoia.

  • @rhys9786

    @rhys9786

    4 жыл бұрын

    A.r tomboy oSWALD THE LUCKY RABBIT-

  • @sussycatto30

    @sussycatto30

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mackenziemcdaniel-paul8163 that's not what best friend means for me.. best friend is a friend that is more than normal friend and they always there for you.. but if you move away example , yeah you don't have to cut all ties but that's not best friend anymore more like normal friend cuz you're not always there for each other anymore

  • @Ilove4queens
    @Ilove4queens6 ай бұрын

    Trying to forget someone u love is like Trying to remember someone u never met

  • @miryamsamad9993
    @miryamsamad99933 жыл бұрын

    Summary 1. You are second guessing the friendship 2. You don’t communicate anymore 3. You want different things 4. You’ve found other friends 5. They’ve broken your trust 6. You are the one holding on Hope this helps!

  • @shitface1593

    @shitface1593

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thankss

  • @user-xy3rz9hc7b

    @user-xy3rz9hc7b

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hmmmm I'm second guessing the friendship I have with my best friend.... I text him but, he never rlly respondes..... He's rlly into anime, and I know nothing about it..... He found a friend group, and I found a different one..... He likes to tell my secrets :/....... I just can't let him go.... 💔

  • @bluejuly2633

    @bluejuly2633

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@user-xy3rz9hc7b I don't know who you are, but I think if a so called "friend" shares your secrets then that person is toxic and you should let go, I personally haven't let go of a friend yet but the moment you realize that you deserve something or someone better is the moment you can finally let someone go. I think the best way to let go is to just let it happen naturally, like stop texting or ignore that person the same way that person ignores you.

  • @user-xy3rz9hc7b

    @user-xy3rz9hc7b

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bluejuly2633 Thank u for the advice. And ur right, I should just let the friendship end naturally.

  • @presidentfood2675

    @presidentfood2675

    3 жыл бұрын

    Do you know what the background music is?

  • @basementchild8294
    @basementchild82944 жыл бұрын

    Who else is crying over the fact they have lost a best friend

  • @gone3305

    @gone3305

    4 жыл бұрын

    One of my best friends moved far away at the End of 4th grade can’t believe it’s almost 5 years since then

  • @kookoo5037

    @kookoo5037

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have lost a best friend in elementary its a sad story i NEVER want to talk about but one of them is that she started talking s*** about me

  • @BigKickSarah9103

    @BigKickSarah9103

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mack Werner I’m almost........... but I rlly hate my old bff. I mean how am I almost crying over a really bad relationship............?

  • @charlottewilken991

    @charlottewilken991

    4 жыл бұрын

    me :(

  • @inactive1550

    @inactive1550

    4 жыл бұрын

    😞

  • @Fortunnne
    @Fortunnne24 күн бұрын

    A year and a half after a huge huge break of trust with my friend I’ve tried and tried to keep us friends but it’s been so hard in the past months to keep being best friends we’ve has 7 disagreements in the past 3 months all have just ended with me feeling empty and there’s no sorry my friend just kinda acts like it didn’t happen I feel so wrong with her and this video helps me a lot also with being scared that she’ll be mad I’m so glad I found this channel

  • @johnysimps1191
    @johnysimps1191Ай бұрын

    Used to go to his place when i was younger. Have always had a rocky relationship with my mother and everytime i felt scared or hurt I'd go to his place and his family welcomed me over ALWAYS. I could sleep over at their place and my mother would come the next day to come get me. This cycle went on for over 10 years. This friend has been an integral part of my upbringing. He and his family will forever hold a special place in my heart no matter what. They made a hellish childhood infinitely brighter. I owe them everything

  • @InsaneGold
    @InsaneGold4 жыл бұрын

    Me: *best friend and I had been having troubles in our friendship for a long while now* Psych2Go: *recommends this vid* Me: *..... oh...*

  • @anonymoususer4412

    @anonymoususer4412

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah same....

  • @user-zf1xu3nj2q

    @user-zf1xu3nj2q

    4 жыл бұрын

    Relatable

  • @leowang4454

    @leowang4454

    4 жыл бұрын

    same.....

  • @doodooshart

    @doodooshart

    4 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @rashidbaidoobaidoo2647

    @rashidbaidoobaidoo2647

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @wizardjpeg7237
    @wizardjpeg723711 ай бұрын

    Saddest thing is watching your best friend get closer to someone else.

  • @libicohanim9839

    @libicohanim9839

    10 ай бұрын

    happened to me too!!!😰

  • @LikeableAden

    @LikeableAden

    10 ай бұрын

    I feel like my friend is avoiding me

  • @wizardjpeg7237

    @wizardjpeg7237

    10 ай бұрын

    @@LikeableAden I'm sorry. You should never beg for someone to stay in your life especially if they're making you feel like that. If you haven't tried talking to them about it, you should. If you have and they dismiss it, you're better off without them.

  • @libicohanim9839

    @libicohanim9839

    10 ай бұрын

    @@LikeableAden then stay away from him! Be with who you love to be. or you should talk to him and if he does not listen, be with other friends. you are better than him!

  • @shootingsmilla1239

    @shootingsmilla1239

    9 ай бұрын

    I want to tell my best friend this, but I’m afraid of my ex friend seeing the messages and insulting me.

  • @tanukrishn8383
    @tanukrishn838327 күн бұрын

    People get feelings this get messed and to avoid pain ppl be apart for both of the parties.. Best friend and memories..

  • @ElskaTheAnimator
    @ElskaTheAnimator2 күн бұрын

    Two years ago I watched this video thinking « Lol it’s not time that we break our friendship at all, then! We’re still besties » but in the last year… She became a whole new person… We share literally no interests anymore and we never text and I keep on telling her when we speak our friendship doesn’t seem to be working anymore and each time she says it’s all gonna be solved but it’s clearly not for now… She went from a gamer and anime lover and long hair to rock n roll, short hair and no more video games, only social media…

  • @phooblet
    @phooblet4 жыл бұрын

    It hurts to know the best friend you’ve always had a bold bond with is slowly drifting away... especially when they have been with you for more that 6 years

  • @randomdragen1015

    @randomdragen1015

    4 жыл бұрын

    it doesnt have to be that way. You neednt listen to these type of vids. We are free

  • @ninjaformer5889

    @ninjaformer5889

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel like that 'cos my rival stole my best friend and I am desperately trying to get him back 😔

  • @yuribarragan120

    @yuribarragan120

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me and my best friend have been friend now for 4 years and I would never want to let that go

  • @microsoftpowerpoint3039

    @microsoftpowerpoint3039

    4 жыл бұрын

    I haven’t talked to my best friend in 3 years...I’m really sad now Edit: I’ve known him since we were babies

  • @god_muffin6418

    @god_muffin6418

    4 жыл бұрын

    beephybo hehe is even more sad when you alredy have drifted away but they still talk to you but very little

  • @TheIceDragon42
    @TheIceDragon426 ай бұрын

    These videos always make me realize something, and always help me cope with some stressful times in my life right now.☺

  • @aashycoconut
    @aashycoconut4 жыл бұрын

    House is on fire: *this is fine*

  • @kenwalkensdeadchannelcanal2886

    @kenwalkensdeadchannelcanal2886

    4 жыл бұрын

    That was a Nice touch!

  • @gabbychavez4744

    @gabbychavez4744

    4 жыл бұрын

    Coco and her coconuts MOOOOOODDD

  • @PGOuma

    @PGOuma

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me lol

  • @zigsynx5364

    @zigsynx5364

    4 жыл бұрын

    Moon shine down, hello kh fan

  • @luminoussoul5266

    @luminoussoul5266

    4 жыл бұрын

    The fire's spreading on around my room, my world's so bright...it's hard to breathe but that's alright 😁😆

  • @crystalcclark
    @crystalcclark4 жыл бұрын

    It’s sad when people move on, and leave you and find a new bestfriend.

  • @itsliyah3066

    @itsliyah3066

    4 жыл бұрын

    ii jxzzy yh me and my bff have never been apart since the start of reception /kindergarten and we dont understand how ppl can just gonand find a new friend

  • @zoeslair

    @zoeslair

    4 жыл бұрын

    ii jxzzy i lost my freind because i had to move away........our 5 year friendship is a heartbreak to me..............i hope she found some body better,caring,loving and not as annoying as me.we are still in contact so I’m happy

  • @leyre4386

    @leyre4386

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have feel that once in middle school

  • @unique8213

    @unique8213

    4 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 so true

  • @jesusgutierrez6852

    @jesusgutierrez6852

    4 жыл бұрын

    You're right💔

  • @mumutting5837
    @mumutting58376 ай бұрын

    thx for the solution and help

  • @dianagiacomelli3650
    @dianagiacomelli36507 ай бұрын

    Thank u very very much ❤🙂❤ you make mi day Psych2Go❤