STOP SEEKING REVENGE
Even if you are hurt about what someone did or said to you or about you, seeking revenge still wont make you feel better. None of us get away with hurting ppl. EVER!!
Even if you are hurt about what someone did or said to you or about you, seeking revenge still wont make you feel better. None of us get away with hurting ppl. EVER!!
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be not deceived God is not mocked whatever a man soeth that's what he will reap. my colleagues at work looking at me wierd, gossiping, talking & keeping up NONSENSE. God will fight my battles for me. karma usually comes back worse than what you gave out
@malkumhessx1796
3 жыл бұрын
No he won't...fuck they ass up while you can....cause when you lose the chance to get revenge its gonna be the second reason why you hate they ass!
For a longtime now I've been really wanting to get revenge on a few people that did some pretty rotten things to me. Although its not easy, this video really, really helped let go of it. From the bottom of my heart: Thank you :)
@ytchi1
2 ай бұрын
Everything time you feel that anger keep watching this as a reminder I know I will
thank you ma'am for setting the record straight for my son...you are truly able to understand that vengeance is the lords thank you for talking to my son Justin
@missctolbertvoh
7 жыл бұрын
Justin Sandolph no problem.
Yes it is hard to do. Keep trying and putting forth effort. You will definitely get there! God will give you the strength too.
I needed this. I struggle with this sooo much.
So true! I am a firm believer in the saying: "You reap what you sow."
@missctolbertvoh
7 жыл бұрын
Shay4YourMind81, yes ma'am. Nobody gets away with any wrong they do. Even if it takes 20 yrs for payback it will happen. Ppl need to try and be the best they can be.
revenge is childish in a relationship because it cause more problems..and on the street level, revenge is a never ending cycle..like u said "square 1" which is still feeling the same and ending up where you started at...I'm still tryna work on letting go and letting God..✌💯
@missctolbertvoh
6 жыл бұрын
James Gladney let God fight your battles!!!
@jamesgladney3298
6 жыл бұрын
+missctolbertvoh - u right..im trying to let God fight my battles but it's that unforgiving, childish, angry, hurt side of me that wanna do things my way..but as a man I know my way is destruction and fruitless...I'm learning to move forward..it's true when they say "it takes more energy to frown than it does to smile"..
@missctolbertvoh
6 жыл бұрын
James Gladney it's not worth it. Don't put your energy into it.
Vengeance is mine saith the Lord, Amen ♥
@alphasuperior100
3 жыл бұрын
What about my revenge.
God does not play about us seeking revenge or harboring unforgiveness in our hearts! We MUST let go of ALL offense as hard as it might be..and you're right it is a process. I'm speaking from experience. The Lord said vengeance is His. That is not a load that we need to carry. It is too heavy! We must have patience and wait on Him. And in the process we should be working on ourselves and our relationship with Jesus. We must get out of His way and let God be God. Thank you for this video Queen! You are awesome! God bless❤
@missctolbertvoh
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Queen!! All praises to the Lord for using me as a vessel for his messages. Revenge is most definitely the Lord's. He repays every single person for what they do.
@ca7117
5 жыл бұрын
@@missctolbertvoh Amen!
I've been so angry lately because my friend got with my abusive ex even after my warnings But I don't want to seek out revenge I know I shouldn't and damn this video helped with that Your strong words weren't harsh but weren't sugar either they were the firm truth You knew what you were saying and you wanted to help us Damn I feel so much better ma'am
@missctolbertvoh
4 ай бұрын
Wow God is good!
Vengeance is mine! -Almighty God
Thank u for this,this really helps me with my anger and feelings of revenge.I have cerebral paulsey people have mimicked me here in bermy top earning professionals and it has left me bitter very revengeful.
@missctolbertvoh
8 ай бұрын
Oh no!! Unacceptable!!!!! They're disgusting but you better believe God is gonna handle every single one of them who has made you the butt of their jokes!!! Don't you worry about it!!! I hate you have to go through that!
love you sis.... Thank you so much for yr words may the lord continue to bless you beautiful....
@missctolbertvoh
5 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome. I love you too.
am sorry your right your really right sorry for what I said revenge is not better that's just the demon in said me am going to take your advice and let God handle my battles pray for me please
@missctolbertvoh
7 жыл бұрын
Justin Sandolph trust me God will get back whoever hurt you!! You don't have to lift a finger for revenge. It's always better when God repays revenge anyway. You will get over your hurt. I promise you will!!! It may take time but you will let go of the pain.
Lord I needed this! Amen
@missctolbertvoh
6 жыл бұрын
Ariel Dawson praise God! I'm so happy you enjoyed it.
I really needed that message. Thank you so much.
I don't always seek revenge but when I do, I'm definitely satisfied with the outcome. If you're not satisfied then your revenge didn't fit what was done to you. Everyone has sought revenge at least once in their life, regardless of how big or small the situation. It's a normal human emotion that should be experienced. Imo it's not wise to get back at people every single time they do you wrong.....but also you shouldn't let everything just pass you by. Sometimes revenge can come in the form of lack of words or lack action.....not speaking up or not taking action when it's needed. I wouldn't tell anyone to never seek revenge.....you just gotta learn to pick your battles. Your act of revenge may go too far.....a point of no return.
@missctolbertvoh
7 жыл бұрын
Yo Kel, you're right we've all sought revenge or completely acted on it in our lifetime. However, the bible states that revenge belongs to the Lord. It's not our job to try and pay back anybody. God does that. Confronting someone or speaking up about something they did to you is totally different from seeking revenge.
@Talube101
6 жыл бұрын
Your thoughts are the most logical I have heard on the topic thus far and I totally agree with you.
@suave_d
5 жыл бұрын
@@missctolbertvoh but I understand where he's coming from. There are some hardcore, ruthless people in this world, who might push one to a breaking point. Sometimes, they will mess with you, and possibly do it again because you didn't do anything about it. I understand the concept and biblical command to not seek vengeance, but some people need a swift foot in their asses to let them know that you are someone with whom to not be played. You don't want to go there, but people will push your buttons -- I know because I have dealt with those kinds of people. There is a line that has to be drawn, and people must be sent a message to not cross it, or there will be repercussions.
At a point where I don't need anyone, and don't care, period
@missctolbertvoh
6 жыл бұрын
MyBffis Food I understand your frustration honey!! Don't be discouraged. You just have to get someone around you that has your best interest at heart. You need a real loving and supportive circle. They're out here.
@nomorefood6742
6 жыл бұрын
missctolbertvoh OK thanks
Gosh, I wish I could send this to Iran, revenge is bad.
@missctolbertvoh
4 жыл бұрын
Me too
Omg thank you so much for this messege i am going tru so much and kep fighting myself about it going back and forth on what to do but yes i know better and will let god take care of it thank you again 😍
@missctolbertvoh
5 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome! Let God handle it all!!! Trust me the person who did you wrong will reap what they sow. It may be worse than what they did to you when their karma comes.
Yes! I love this! I have been blessed by your vids sis. God bless you. I have been sharing them with family. 💖
@missctolbertvoh
7 жыл бұрын
jodieswife hello to you again beautiful! Thanks so much for sharing my videos! I'm glad they're helping people. Praise God!
Please pray for me. Its so hard for me not taking revenge 😫
What goes around comes around 🙏...the score has finally been settled 😎
so happy I found your page! u will reap what you sow tenfold
@missctolbertvoh
7 жыл бұрын
Jonelle Jones, yes queen! People do stuff thinking they'll get away with it. Everything we put out is what we get back.
Thank you for this video. Seriously. May God bless you and yours.
@missctolbertvoh
4 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
I needed this... But I've learned to just sit back and watch... The Most High has a way of making things work out in my favor...
@missctolbertvoh
6 жыл бұрын
southernphunkadelic God will deal with everyone who has done wrong to you. None of us get away with anything.
@MrDeeboi1775
6 жыл бұрын
missctolbertvoh agreed
@pinkgal206
4 жыл бұрын
Why hasn’t he done anything for me
Good Teaching, this will help a whole lot of sisters 😁
Stop seeking Revenge I know its hard to stop but revenge is mine said the Lord
I hear you. Amen.
Please watch the 1987 movie called “Tin men” everything you’ve said here is so true and is tied in with this comedy drama.Everytime I play this episode of you I think of tin men.
I was watching I Spit On Your Grave!!! I understand its tough but that girl had enough she took her anger out. Vengeance is mine says the Lord!!
I want revenge on a few people, but after watching your video...I'll let it go.
@missctolbertvoh
6 жыл бұрын
Hello Hi you've made a very wise decision!! I'm so happy.
@hellohi7738
6 жыл бұрын
missctolbertvoh Thank you Queen.
@missctolbertvoh
6 жыл бұрын
Hello Hi no problem!
excellent presentation. you helped me a lot
@missctolbertvoh
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!! Let God handle your enemies. He repays!
It all depends on what they've done. Some things you just can't let people get away with. I'll pray about it later, cause no way.
I felt like you were my mom or my older sister talking to me about LIFE while I was watching this
@missctolbertvoh
2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Praise God!! I'm honored to be your big sis if you'll have me!!
I love her accent
@missctolbertvoh
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks honey!!
Revenge IS NOT justice, it will bring u more pain, revenge lead to pain and suffering.
@missctolbertvoh
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯. It's not worth it!!!
@hajarasiren6055
8 ай бұрын
But don’t forget some scars will never be gotten rid of !!.
@RobTheRonin
Ай бұрын
FUCK Forgiveness, once I seek revenge I'm ruthless and relentless
This has really helped me thank you and i like your lipstick
@missctolbertvoh
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! I'm happy this video message helped you.
You’re an absolutly brilliant speaker just a thought…would u ever do a video on never quitting on God when times are tough?
@missctolbertvoh
5 ай бұрын
Thank you. I have done a video on that topic
@phillipingham7538
5 ай бұрын
Great I’ll look it up what’s the video title?
Vengence Is Mine Said The Lord, I Will Repay. Maybe that's why we got issues today getting in these hellish situationships and always caughtup by an evil karma...SELF? .
Thanks this sorta helped me I mean I think I really have depression like at school I feel like nobody likes me and nobody wants me around and when I look at my friend everybody loves him and the girl I like is hanging around with him and he’s the leader of are little group and I sorta feel like getting revenge sometimes I feel like why does he deserve all of the happiness and then I remember it’s not his fault but it just happens when I have that moment anyway this sorta helped me
forgiveness is a process
@Talube101
6 жыл бұрын
Yes, indeed it is.
@DonArmandoRobles
5 жыл бұрын
Forgiveness I don't know that word
You’ve certainly got your head screwed on properly! Love your videos ❤️
@missctolbertvoh
2 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha thank you baby! I try! Glad you enjoy my video messages. ❤❤
On the karate kid movie (1984) Daniel: Will u teach me Karate? Myagi:Depend Daniel:Depend on what? Myagi:Reason Daniel:For revenge Myagi:Daniel when you look revenge that way start digging own grave,Karate for defence only!
@missctolbertvoh
8 ай бұрын
Exactly! Agreed!
@phillipingham7538
8 ай бұрын
If u wanted to rewire your house and u knew nothing about rewiring you wouldn’t try to do it yourself incase you were electrocuted you take to an electrician.Same with God you take it to him instead of taking on the revenge yourself cuz he knows what he’s doing otherwise if u take revenge you will be electrocuted yourself trying.
So true!
This is the truth!
Thank you beautiful ❤️😘
@missctolbertvoh
5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
REAL TALK 👍👍👍👍👍👊👊👊
I can't let it go am I wrong for not forgiving them?
@missctolbertvoh
5 жыл бұрын
No I won't say you're wrong I'll say you're not healed from the pain they caused you. It's totally understandable. Some betrayals, pain and hurt take time to be forgiven. I believe in time you will let go of a lot of what was done to you.
Thank you for that messgae.
@missctolbertvoh
4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
I am going through a very difficult time with my sister. I did a great deed for her, and I did it with the understanding that she would uphold her end of the agreement. She has deceived me; her communication with me has been very poor; and she is not accepting any responsibility for her mishandling of our agreement. She has placed me in a very difficult situation in which I have to make two tough choices. When this situation is over, I will never help or speak to her again. Can I forgive her in time? Yes, but I will not communicate with her again because she has brought drama into my life for the past two years. I am not seeking revenge on her per se, but I will cut her out of my life. Anyone who brings drama into my life (even a relative), has to be removed.
I feel like if someone fucks over you intentionally or hurts you. Do what you have to do to feel better. Holding all if that hurt causes cancer, heart problems, high blood pressure ect. Holding hurt is not good. People continue to hurt others because no one gets them back. We have to stop that, pay the person back
@missctolbertvoh
2 жыл бұрын
I feel what you're saying but according to the bible paying people back is something God should do. He tells us that vengeance is his. When you do things to get others back things will come back to you and you block certain blessings.
so hard to do. Im learning.
Me aka Sean Mark ❤😂❤
thnk u sister thnk u
@missctolbertvoh
6 жыл бұрын
RANVIR VEER you're so welcome honey!
@x...z7278
6 жыл бұрын
:)
for some reasons......(sigh)revenge is not matter to just fightback, It's matter about let people who hurt you to realize what he have done.
I’m very close to seeking revenge cuz a co worker is mean not helpful is embarrassed that I have disability
@BackInDeDay-ii8xg
Ай бұрын
I’m reaching my end point
@missctolbertvoh
Ай бұрын
Keep a paper trail of their treatment of you. Don't allow anyone to disrespect or disregard you because of your disability!
@BackInDeDay-ii8xg
Ай бұрын
@@missctolbertvoh yes thank u I need Gods strength not to be vindictive
Revenge is the biggest time waster and you may hurt someone that did nothing to you unintentionally.
@missctolbertvoh
5 жыл бұрын
That's so true!
@pinkgal206
4 жыл бұрын
Oh shut up
Loving that bun on top
NEVER !! LONG LIVE VENGEANCE !! VENGEANCE FoR THE WIN !! 😈😈
@missctolbertvoh
4 жыл бұрын
But allowing God to get vengeance is so much better. There is no vengeance like God's! 💯💯💯
@DannyConeHeadOnceLer
4 жыл бұрын
@@missctolbertvoh yeah right My damn ASS !! Yahweh doesn't do shit all he does is stand there and watch
@DannyConeHeadOnceLer
4 жыл бұрын
@@missctolbertvoh HELL he probably let a poor baby die from hunger or a rapist rape and to run off never to be seen again
You speak the truth but a person who cheated or did something wrong to someone can go to God and repent so if he or she does get into a relationship and no one cheats on no one but yea you are right god sees all so revenge is not worth it you will have to pay the price for trying to hurt someone even if they did you wrong
I never ever seeking a revenge some off my ex gf at all some of my ex gf used to hurting me on used me for my money or my life who I used to be in love wit I just praying to god all the time I not perfect at all what up
I had 2 subscribe her 🙋🏾♂️
@missctolbertvoh
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! I appreciate you.
❤️👍
Malachi 3:5 testifies to what your saying.
Whatever energy you put into the universe is exactly what you will receive back from it
it's only natural someone hurts you, you want recompense
@missctolbertvoh
7 жыл бұрын
pyrostrike uk that may be true but it doesn't make it right. Just because you feel a certain way doesn't mean you act on it.
@thecreativemillenial
7 жыл бұрын
missctolbertvoh i am.a forgiving person I've never kicked someone who previously falsely accused me.of something or turned on me when they were down but when i see others get revenge on others, it makes me question on my own actions maybe I'm too kind to people who do not deserve it
@missctolbertvoh
7 жыл бұрын
pyrostrike uk no you're just a person that's mature, wise and of good character!!! You're exactly how you should be. I know it can be difficult and unfair allowing others to be vindictive, spiteful, and revengeful. However, you not getting out of character shows more of who you are than the one who is rotten. I hope you don't ever change because trust me when I tell you that people that's evil, hateful, rotten, and spend time hurting others have their day when they fall. I've seen so many people that's lied on me, slandered me, tried to set me up to get hurt etc have gotten dealt with. When God does it, it's not a pretty sight! To be honest I've seen people die early from being a rotten and black hearted person. God has moved them right out of my way. Let people who do you wrong put a rope around their own neck.
@thecreativemillenial
7 жыл бұрын
missctolbertvoh well, it does make me a happier person
@missctolbertvoh
7 жыл бұрын
pyrostrike uk I understand. Many people feel the same way you do.
I thought I was the only one
@missctolbertvoh
7 жыл бұрын
Natoya beckford nope you're not the only one.
Stupid is what stupid does.
@missctolbertvoh
7 жыл бұрын
Laray, yeah you have a point. Depending on the situation stupidity has caused ppl to do crazy, off the wall stuff.
What about being positive of revenge
@missctolbertvoh
Жыл бұрын
You mean returning positive revenge in exchange for negative revenge?
My ex wife and her mother will get their karma sooner or later. God said vengeance is mine i will repay.
@missctolbertvoh
4 жыл бұрын
God indeed does repay
I don't care some people did me so much wrong in life and I wish them nothing but eternal damnation even worst than that.
@missctolbertvoh
3 жыл бұрын
It's normal to feel that way but trust me they will get their come upping's! I've seen it too many times. It won't happen when you want it too but it will happen.
lol love you
@missctolbertvoh
6 жыл бұрын
ALLCAPSRAGENOSPACES I love you too.