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@shubhamsinha4432

6 жыл бұрын

What if your best friend and your family members are taking you for granted

@michllesalv3356

6 жыл бұрын

Skillopedia - Skills for the real world Thank you. You all guys are amazing. I wish to have friends like you people 🌹

@sardarmalikqayyum5432

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot

@sofi.sarmas

5 жыл бұрын

Mam, can you please suggest a book for this problem.

@ganeshanparamasivan975

5 жыл бұрын

I wanna to get rid of negative thoughts... I know it doesn't bye anything... I needed more from your. dont react just respond😎😎😎

Respect your self Learn to say no Don't over explain Don't burden URSELF with feelings of others Don't stop ppl from leaving your life

@VibeWithVida

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@maelenapalustre1459

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@paulettestokes1727

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@ashaybansod3236

3 жыл бұрын

But why always reality is hard to believe and to accept 😓😓😓

I have cut a lot of people because I became awake being too kind has severe negative consequences

@LoveMusic-dv4sl

5 жыл бұрын

Sometimes that's what you have to do. Cut people off that ask too much & don't give back in return or you say no and they try to put you on a guilt trip when you know you said yes more than no.

@ashaybansod3236

3 жыл бұрын

May be I am changing when I was in 10th I was very kind and truthfully now a day I lie a lot and started abusing 😓😓😓

When you say no, they say you're selfish. I say you're right.

@Rebekahh

5 жыл бұрын

This is so true..

@sheenamaybello4758

5 жыл бұрын

Yea you're right.

@aishuspeaks5526

3 жыл бұрын

Truee

@ashaybansod3236

3 жыл бұрын

But I don't want to be selfish 😔😔

@robertfrate9738

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Janie, your absolutely right, well said, ty, Bob,

I was nice and kind to others but some selfish and manipulative people tried to take advantage of my nature. I am now careful about whom I should help and how much I should do for others without allowing anyone to take me for granted. Help only those who genuinely need help and do not let anyone take advantage of you. Beware of fake people.

@ashaybansod3236

3 жыл бұрын

I am form 2 category

@rowenaiway7534

3 жыл бұрын

me too mostly my friends and co church too.now i am aware of this thanks for this.

@chikens6844

2 жыл бұрын

Trust issues? Same here :(

Nice tips.... I am a victim of being too nice.. Forgot to live my life.. End of the day feeling unhappy for having not satisfied all

@pujabharti2694

5 жыл бұрын

me2

@LoveMusic-dv4sl

5 жыл бұрын

Me3

@blokmsquare301

5 жыл бұрын

Fell sorry to hear that...big hug😊

@juhiqazi7750

5 жыл бұрын

I am also

@carlyjohn4705

5 жыл бұрын

That's totally me so sad 😣

My classmates take me for granted and tease me even if I help them, unwillingly. But now is the time to say no

@aartilamba

3 жыл бұрын

The same is with me, brother.

@beastpubg1675

2 жыл бұрын

Same here

“I feel guilty if I didn’t please my friend or others” I feel I did something wrong for not being there for others when they need me!

@bholebhakta3823

3 жыл бұрын

It's totally okay!.....

@xdd236

3 жыл бұрын

I am happy for you because the thing is no one realize this until you lost someone very close... you realized. Make sure that you're not doing that mistake again..

@rajeshkadam2434

2 жыл бұрын

Are u Pisces ♓

People didn't walk away from my life but I had to get rid of many who were simply toxic to my well-being... I have no regrets after cutting off such people from my life. It is better to be alone than surround yourself with negative and fake ppl!

My take away is - Don't let someone's feeling, emotions rule you. Thank you for the wisdom 😊

"Don't link your feelings with others" thanks so much dear am just fed up of being tooooo nice

She narrated exaxtly my life in 11 mins and 45 seconds

@Anu20810

3 жыл бұрын

Mine as well😔☹

@blaster211

3 жыл бұрын

@@Anu20810 Same :(

@ashaybansod3236

3 жыл бұрын

True 😓

@sailajasandilyasa43

3 жыл бұрын

Mine too

From today onwards I have gain confidence to say 'NO' without feeling guilty .....Thnx to you dear 👍

I used to takecare of others more than i takecare about myself... Sometimes i don't care about my health condition.... I hope this video helps me ... Thank you for the video. ..

@amulyame2058

5 жыл бұрын

Me too

@wk.klsmwsmrs5758

5 жыл бұрын

Same here dear

@priyak2575

5 жыл бұрын

Please don't do it anymore, I was like that too, take extremely good care of yourself.

@HhfGs2478

5 жыл бұрын

NO Clickbait Do what you have to take care of yourself. If can’t do that then taking care of others could become difficult and eventually prevent you from doing so later on because of lack of self care for yourself. Do your best to take time for self care! Good luck and hope your life gets better for you.

@aamirakabbasi9474

5 жыл бұрын

What u get

"let them go".....some times it seems quite impossible....but it's not 😎😎😊😊

@kalpanafating4438

6 жыл бұрын

Nilanjana Saha indeed true dear

Thank you. I've been too nice to people that I ended up being treated with disrespect. I'm headed out for work and you just made my day. 😊😘

I’m way too nice that I’m not respected..my family’s and certain friends drains my energy, time, happiness, peace and strength 💯 out..my 2021 got to be different. So thank you.

"Don't burden yourself with the feelings of others "... this is the best thing that I am gonna implement in my life .Thank you mam for such beautiful lesson .

"Don't over explain yourself " 👌 👍 💖 i damn have to follow this. Seriously 🙏 very nice video. Nicely explained 👌 👍 💖

You have inspired me to be myself instead of wasting my valuable time and life to please others

I have a sister who made me an ATM. Since 16 years.. Paying her rent and skool fees for her kids. Thanks a lot dear, u are an eye opener.

Best Motivater on the planet.Her speaking style & way of explaining is amazing & really nice. We have life,so we don’t need to give up our life for anyone.People will overuse you,then they’ll throw you in a dustbin.plz you don’t need this kinda people,let them go out 💯

@debbiemclean1420

5 жыл бұрын

This is how I really looked at it I have been very nice to people ,most times but they will take ur kindness for weakness do good alternative the time don't let negative People stop ufrom doing the right thing when I realize I was going over board I draw a line some people are not conc ciderrate but do good to them anyway but have a limit to how far you go

@SevensMarkedSeven

5 жыл бұрын

Piratheepan Varatharajan yea!!

@LoveMusic-dv4sl

5 жыл бұрын

I have also been too nice to people. I don't mind at all helping when in need, but like she said in the video people appreciate it, but can also start expecting it too much & taking you for granit (not everyone, but some). I'm learning to say no, but still struggle with it & after feel guilty.

if you are not able to say NO to your friends or relatives, then don't pick up their calls, they may call you 2 to 3 times max, but then everything goes smooth, this what I m doing for past two years and all my friends and relatives don't have any issues, because I meet them occasionally whenever I get some times

@judykowalski3256

5 жыл бұрын

ratnesh vikrant good point.! Ur right!

In case of relationships, if you're too nice, they'd walk all over you and eventually get bored and leave you. If you keep them at arms length, they'd leave you cuz you're not giving them what they want a 100%. How to win then?

Great video! Being taken for granted is something I've been struggling for all of my life & I live constantly depressed thinking that I am not worth anything.... but the more I start looking at my life from the outside, the more I realize that I've been people's door mat for too long! Thank you for this video!!!

Being " too nice" kills me everyday. these points are totally relating to me. thnk u so much mam!!

😬Thank you so much i am one of those persons who were abused but thank God i did the right thing before its too late. More power to your program

Based on my experience, it helps a lot... i forgot to love myself..

How could you be so clear and to the point ,I have watched many videos , but this is everything. You have answered all my unanswered doubts , I needed to learn that , unfortunately I get affected by people ‘s emotions and push myself till I’m all drained out and in return , I don’t get the same actions from others , till I have reached a point of saying no without even listening and shutting down the closest people . This made me unable to differentiate between who could I help or who shouldn’t / must not help . Thank you a lot 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Tq....so....much! I just realized that how....introverted i was!!!😔 Ur words changed my thoughts!💜

Thanks for uploading this encouraging video.this WAS my habit for being nice to everyone, anytime.But now i came to how to say NO to people u take u for granted,or to people who use you.thanks again.

Just awesome ! You just don’t know how much your video has helped me. I just escaped and I mean escaped from a toxic relationship. This past Saturday I could not take it anymore and your video showed me that I was too nice to this man but he also over- powered me. I respect myself that I do, you confirmed that I had to leave no matter what. It’s amazing that I am not crying for him or wanting to go back to him. I feel so FREE and happy. But I do feel a little traumatized and so drained emotionally, physically, and spiritually. I have been sleeping and resting for 3 days now. But I know when I get my strengths back, I will blossom in my business life, my social life because he stole that, I will regain all if have, not lost but been hindered and just put on hold because he always tried to stop me or get in my way. Buy now I am so free and your video confirmed that I did the right thing and taught me how not to be too nice. Thank you thank you.

Thanks for this video it helped me a lot. Saying yes every time is deteriorating my health and just leaves me feeling used and abused and I’m rarely even told THANK YOU.

Thats my story maam, no matter how i try to see good in people but some people even friend in my life , remember me when they need !!

@LK-pb4no

5 жыл бұрын

Suprona Jidung I would bring that to their attention with examples. When they walk away then consider you blessed.

@ayushgamer6483

5 жыл бұрын

Its really a very good video... I have learnt a lot...great going ..Thanks a lot

Ty for this video, I was really feeling a bit broken inside from some days thinking abt people who never valued my emotions, for whom I tried my best to keep them happy all d time bt I just got more disappointment each time.. but now I realized dt they too have just taken me for granted n even if I bring stars for them still they aren't ever going to appreciate.. Some people r really not our cup of tea n it's better to let them go, not for their happiness bt for d one who deserve our 1st priority #ourselves😊😊

@KAyala-mk2qu

5 жыл бұрын

Sonu Das. I read ur comment several times, this was exactly what I feel right now. Now I want talk to myself if I really give up for the person who not value my emotions.who not value the love and care I was giving. I care and give love too much but still not appreciated.. :(

@Proches91

5 жыл бұрын

@@KAyala-mk2qu same here😥

@nicaannalynmolina

5 жыл бұрын

Sonu Das I feel the same way but they still dumb me! Thanks to this vid! I’ll try to help myself to regain my self confidence

Great advice! I have been too generous to people just to show off and I found out I made a big mistake. You have changed my life from now on.

Thank you, I'm tired of being very nice and being taken for granted. This is a path I find myself returning to often. I've literally have the smallest circle.

I learned this after soooo many years. But it really works. And it makes me feel so much confident and happy too. You just give words of my feelings. Thanks a lot.

I feel so empowered now. I finally said no. What took me so long. Thank you for this.

Thnxxxx..... It did open my mind. Thanks. Yup I m being used & abused by every single one including my own younger sister. I m not being treated well by anyone . Everyone bullies me. But if they need a favour they drastically change for the work to be done. Probably my fate is due to my own self. I even had a few councilling sessions for a change in my behaviour but it didn't work out. I don't think I will change just like that but I will try. I do know all these things but it didn't hit my mind upto this level . Thank u

Your channel is a blessing for me. I have a narcissistic mother that takes me for granted. Recently she turned 90 and my younger sister and I went all out and threw her a beautiful party close family only due to the pandemic. Fast forward to my birthday 6 weeks later and all I get is when you're in town I have a card for you. It really made me feel worthless.

Thank you ma'am for your encouraging words.i really need this.i am abused because i always give in to friends who need help all the time even relatives but i've learned now to say NO trying to distant myself from those who are taking advantage of my kindness and generosity.God Bless.

I have had Problems with relatives when i am in a troubled situation ,taking advantage of you while in a Hospital these are the worst Kind.

Thank you I bend over backwards to help others and now find that im used up. Your tips i have taken to heart and will use them. Thank you.

Always discarded in life but confused of my mistakes but now I understand that the ways I was employing to get people was letting me down. Thanks for this life changing video

Really good tips! I've been there done that! And bailed myself out of this 'being too nice' web! I've practiced similar tips even before watching this video! But I've always had doubts whether what I've done is right or wrong. Now I feel that I've done the right thing. I couldn't thank my self enough for that! Now I feel more confident and my self esteem is much higher. I feel good now overall.

Very useful video for those who are too good to everyone.

@ashaybansod3236

3 жыл бұрын

☹️ ya true we need to change

Hi, when I do favors for people and help them I’m so sweet and helpful and kind, omg such a great guy, when I decline a favor, I don’t have to explain myself, now I’m the most selfish and self centered man anyone ever met! I stopped people pleasing when I realized my kindness is taken for weakness all the time, I please myself only there opinion is not my problem, excellent quality video ty, Bob,

I love the fact of cutting unnecessary relationships, this is just fantastic, thank you for the great sharing💗

Love this. Glad I clicked on your video! Please continue to inspire more people.

Phenomenal advice. Clearly describes the relationship between my friends abusive and toxic grandson who lives with her while at college. Thank you soooooo much for this video which creates a base for deep reflexion and discussion about her status at home. You put in concise order what do passionately was telling her for the past year. Subscribed!!!!

Thank you... I feel like watching this video now and again in order to gain back my self-respect.

Thank you so much for making such a quality video. All the tips mentioned in the video are really very useful. All the best for ur future journey ! Keep it up !

This is what happening to me they forget I also have a life n my own family to see to and when situations get tough no1 offer to even give a little concern. I just cut off all negative people that only brought problems in my life. This is very good to know n learn how to deal with this because it's getting out of hand and I'm losing my cool.

@HhfGs2478

5 жыл бұрын

Fatima Junaid patel Good luck on developing better boundaries and better friends who care for you and your family!

@blokmsquare301

5 жыл бұрын

Be strong fell sorry to hear that...big hug from me😊 good luck and fell much better right on.

I was too nice a few years ago, but people still respected me...at least I think they did.

I commend you on your shared wisdom. I share the same mindset on all of the things you have shared and if anything you have confirmed that my mindset is correct. I am quite spiritual, I have been a Christian for approximately 27 1/2 years and I do my best to be a giving person and a great friend, however, I am still taken advantage of by some people who call themselves my friends and/or family. I often say no to certain people but then I've felt guilty at times when I wondered if I was being selfish. I agree that you must respect yourself before you can respect others and I just want to say thanks for confirming what I've believed for some time. I hope you will continue in what you are endeavouring to do because I find it to be very enriching. Blessings to you and I pray that you will continue to have good fortune.

Wow! I had no clue it would be so simple :) Thank you very much for this video! It has helped me heaps!! :D

Actually...it doesn't matter whether others respect us or not.....also it is not necessary that all those who r respected are really hving a good personality.....we just hv to be positive and develop a good personality.....I think we should always try....try....and try....to be a better person today than yesterday....

@limaakter1163

5 жыл бұрын

I feel the same

@Mili-mi4hd

5 жыл бұрын

Who tries to make m feel guilty he always dumb themselves ...I don't care about his talking or his words.. I only 😀..& say nothing.. Some months ago I get upset for those ppl with whom I was much connected but they insult m.. I share everything with my boyfriend he saves m.. Now I can control my mind almost all time & treat that typ of.... I love him

thank you for this. i deal with being taken advantage of nearly everyday at work, and i’ve been trying to change.

i learnt to urgently stop saying yes instead of no. personally this tip will make people stop calling me a fool & then i'll be wise. thanks.

I have been facing this problem at my Office. Thanq soo much..its very useful

Very encouraging. This video hit me hard 😕.

The point you described is really good. I am very emotional and sensitive person. thats why when i am sad or something happens to me I instantly share the feelings with my closed ones ,but they took advantage of me , they never understood me and I always feel very guilty about being nice to them

Thank you so much. I am going through tough time. I was so nice to my boyfriend. Whatever he says I always say agree with him. But after 3 years he left me alone for his career and for his life. When I asked him, he said like if you want me to have everything in my life,please leave me alone. I didn't have anyone to share my feelings or to guide me. Because my parents and sisters didn't know about this. At last I saw this video. Seriously this video will help me so much in my future. THANK YOU SO MUCH.It really means alot.

I am learning at my old age. Anyhow it will help me for the remaining life. 21.12.2018

Tqsm... These r the best steps..! I was really in need of these advices❤️

I can relate to each word that you have spoken. Thanks for this video. People have used me for years and ultimately I ended up with having nothing with me.

Yes! Acknowledge.. Really these small things I sold for taken for granting for my close one!! But, it is in other way, how people see me in their mode!! Fantastically explained in detail!! Thanks for the video

Thank you very much madam teacher, in fact you really described how I was in my teenage age I was somuch drained by fake people

Excellent video...this is going to be sooo helpful ..!! Thanks a lottt ! Keep up the good work.😍

That's true and I have been victim of accepting all my friends promise instead of saying No that I can't be able to do it.thank you for enlightenment.

Ohh! My God you are amazing. You just helped me out from a great stress I was going through at my office. I Love You and God bless you. You are a blessing from God to millions of people. Thank You for all your brilliant videos and advices.

Self respect is very important. I agree...

Thanku very much. Now I need to change my attitude..

From now on I m going to respect myself...cos being too nice drains out money, emotions, n not being important to any1...m always being taken advantage off..but from 2day it's gonna be never... thank u sis for helping me out

there are users in this world. they think your there for their convenience. you are just an option. so it's good to say No to these people.x

I do so much things to the people but I never get respect and even when I need help no body is willing to help me on time and I was so confused what did I do wrong? now I understand and I will try to change my mined. Thank you so much👌👍❤

@Seenseeker

4 жыл бұрын

Same With Me And Did You Change Yourself

I set my boundaries. However, my husband constantly overstep them. Without a care And then tells me to stop going on on about it.

@teresagueli4113

5 жыл бұрын

Mel Rose I know! That’s how most males are!

@astgoddess

5 жыл бұрын

Well that needs to change! Stop being nice about it.

@LK-pb4no

5 жыл бұрын

Stop cooking his favourite dishes and when he starts going on about that than you do the same you tell him to stop going on about it.

@ravesos7898

5 жыл бұрын

@@LK-pb4no eeth ka jawab patthar se

@danaricci5044

5 жыл бұрын

Nobody can overstep your boundaries endlessly if you keep them firmly in.

WOW !! thank you mysterious beautiful woman !... I am going to watch this video over many times until it all sinks in....I am so tired of being taken advantage of....all these comments are right on too....come on all ...we can be better for ourselves !!...

You’re absolutely right & will do the same that need to take care of myself first than others

It is very very very soooooo much use full for me because many people mock at me thank for uploading this video

To nice and helpful information. Respect yourself before others, BE A LEGION OF GREATNESS and YOU ARE.

My day started with this video...I hope today is going to be a great day not only today but everyday from today.....

Congrats from the bottom of my heart!!! Just amazing how clearly you summarized these and I see it's been also worked in your life. RESPECT😀

This video is totally based on my sorrowful life till now

Thank you.. I was searching this😊

Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Now I completely understand myself for being abused and used. I appreciated indeed. Keep helping people.🙏🙏🙏❤️

Very good... It really helped me.. Especially the treating us concept and the negative thoughts.. Thank u

You are awesome. Thank you so much!

This has been so very very helpful for me,some of the best advice I have had.So glad I have found this lovely young lady.

Wow...thanks for your tips... I have this problem coz I'm too nice that people come to me only when they need me. I always feel guilt if I say no. Now I know what to do. I learnt a lot from your tips

Tq from at right point I'm changing my life

Very encouraging ..Thank you

@kjtamf

5 жыл бұрын

Buds of Wisdom 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

This videos are exactly what I need in this time, I wonder how KZread knows that. Thank you for the enlightenment, this will help me a lot. New sub here in 🇦🇪

Wow, Great speech. Most people who take advantage of you are those who are close to you or someone who helps you in the past

One of the most helpful video 👏👍 thanks

thanks very nicely explaned 😊😊 very true,i will try your tips

Hey dear...your words completely match to my actions of being toooo nice,tooo helpful,not having a concept of saying no in my dictionary... I am speechless by your PERFECT tips... Thankyou sooo much...

I clicked several videos and haven’t even understood what they were saying until I clicked this..thank you so much I have learnt much in this Your new subscriber 😍

Helpful ....thnku miss❤😊😇