Steps You Need to Protect Your ENERGY and Create a Positive Life | The Mel Robbins Podcast

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In this episode, you’ll learn how to deal with other people’s #toxic moods and bad behavior.
Plus you’ll get strategies to help you dial up your own #positive #energy.
You will always have negative people and situations in your life, but you don’t have to let them drain your life force.
This episode is packed with six super easy science-backed strategies that will help you create an impenetrable force field against bad energy while you send your good vibes back out.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you'll learn:
00:00 Intro
02:41 Jumping right in with Veronica’s question about emails that ruin her day.
04:10 You probably have your own stories of entitlement like this one.
07:05 This technique I use when somebody’s mood is getting all over me.
10:12 The “ snow globe” works best when you’re getting attitude.
13:37 I know this about people when they explode into a tantrum.
16:28 Science explains why our bodies stress when we’re around bad moods.
18:32 Work in a toxic environment? You have these two choices.
23:54 Dealing with a curmudgeon? I got you. Use the law of reciprocity.
25:22 Here’s how I melted the ice when I became a legal analyst with CNN.
32:33 Gossip is bad for your brain and body. Here’s why.
33:30 Here’s the #1 strategy to stop your gossip today.
35:40 Once you see triangulation, you’ll look at your relationships differently.
38:42 This one simple strategy can brighten someone’s day right now.
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  • @melrobbins
    @melrobbins5 ай бұрын

    Did you enjoy this episode? I know I did! If so, please drop a like and comment below what you are going to do to bring more energy and positivity into your life!

  • @myfuturepuglife

    @myfuturepuglife

    4 ай бұрын

    I don't think you actually hate these negative people. I think you hate the negative behaviour and how it makes us feel. I can totally relate! Just last week at my retail job, my store manager, who has had a rough 2023, and I feel so deeply for this person and what they've been through last year, BUT long story short she straight up lied to the owner of the business and used me as a shield to cover her own ass! Yes, most people would say well that's life and that's just how it is but, is it? Why didn't she just own it and tell the truth? I did exactly what I was supposed to do in that situation and my managers dropped the ball, but I took the hit, and they knew I had done my job and did everything I could do but when the owner is there confronting the customer service situation, she did not tell the truth and say yes she did inform me of x y and z but I just didn't care enough at the time to take care of it like I should've. I was furious at her for a whole week, lost sleep, couldn't eat, on and on. Betrayal is a MF and it HURTS! I'm open to good advice! Thanks in advance. Now back to the video!

  • @CarolynWise-nn2ms

    @CarolynWise-nn2ms

    21 күн бұрын

    I'm literally trying to handle my positive nature around those who are negative. I feel like negative people surrounding me are not going to change.

  • @sues6847
    @sues6847 Жыл бұрын

    I, as a long time waitress can back you up 100% on treating difficult people with the most kindness that you can. What we do when we are kind no matter how hurtful they can be is fill a void in their lives. Most of the time, when people are hurtful it's because they don't feel important to anyone. Don't take a difficult person's attitude personally. It's not about you. It's about what's missing in them.

  • @redruby747

    @redruby747

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes n no

  • @juliepowell3566

    @juliepowell3566

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow, that was powerful....it makes sense...t you for sharing.

  • @saskhiker3935

    @saskhiker3935

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah I waited tables in my 20s and it is a great job for learning how to deal with difficult people. My goal was to change people when they walk in angry, tired, or just in a bad mood, to changing their mood.

  • @sues6847

    @sues6847

    Жыл бұрын

    @@juliepowell3566 It's my pleasure. Thank you for receiving the information. I hope it helps you in your life in some small way.

  • @laimaravillon895

    @laimaravillon895

    Жыл бұрын

    But then how is it allowing them to be hurtful??

  • @JenJ2023
    @JenJ2023 Жыл бұрын

    This woman has the most amazing life. Imagine helping so many people without even meeting them. Thank you.

  • @staejaye1910

    @staejaye1910

    10 ай бұрын

    Ikr!!!!

  • @Maxhindle
    @Maxhindle Жыл бұрын

    Protecting your energy is vital . I use meditations and boundary setting to ensure I lead a happy and fulfilled life. Spending time in nature helps too

  • @connieconroy4719

    @connieconroy4719

    Жыл бұрын

    I appreciate u & yr clear & helpful hints & advice! It's tried & true & believable!!! Thank you Jesus😂❤!!!

  • @Maxhindle

    @Maxhindle

    Жыл бұрын

    @@connieconroy4719 😁😁❤️❤️ I’m glad you like them hahaha

  • @connieconroy4719

    @connieconroy4719

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Maxhindle Who r u? What comment that I never replied to??????

  • @connieconroy4719

    @connieconroy4719

    Жыл бұрын

    That's NOT my reply!!?? (To anything) It's a FAKE reply & also a LIE......

  • @connieconroy4719

    @connieconroy4719

    Жыл бұрын

    My name & (12 days ago) was not my reply...........,😇 HELL O

  • @tiffanykelley4619
    @tiffanykelley46199 ай бұрын

    Small minds discuss people, Average minds discuss events, Great minds discuss ideas. - Eleanor Roosevelt One of my favorite quotes since high school!

  • @judiththymes814

    @judiththymes814

    8 ай бұрын

    She was quoting SOCRATES.

  • @tanikajohnson1081

    @tanikajohnson1081

    7 ай бұрын

    I love this

  • @christinemilham2847

    @christinemilham2847

    4 ай бұрын

    ❤ this ! I try to remember it, too.

  • @TreeBee555
    @TreeBee555 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Mel. I am an extremely empathetic and reactive person and I’m aware I need to protect myself from other people’s trauma/drama/negativity because it decimates me if I don’t protect myself. I’m coming off of 2 1/2 weeks of yet again curling up in a ball to hide from life because I was depleted by other people.The snow globe image is genius and I will absolutely be utilizing it. I am aware of the power of the breath routine and I need to implement it consistently. My health was dramatically affected yet again in the past two weeks and I need to take care of myself. Thank you thank you and have a fantastic Monday!

  • @redruby747

    @redruby747

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg I'm like u same❤

  • @redruby747

    @redruby747

    Жыл бұрын

    I too been hiding the past almost 3 weeks 😢 now I feel depleted from life people too

  • @buttercup3ish

    @buttercup3ish

    Жыл бұрын

    magnificent mustang..you are living my life! wishing us both strength and self nurturing..with hugs to you

  • @annastella4348

    @annastella4348

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mal your magnificent and I appreciate all your solutions. I will implement them in my day to day social interactions as it so well needed. May God bless all that you do in improving the lives of so many. Thank you and beyond!

  • @brendadavis5391

    @brendadavis5391

    Жыл бұрын

    I absorb others energy. I'm trying to learn how to block it. I'll give you a try.

  • @denises9426
    @denises9426 Жыл бұрын

    Love this…”Don’t talk (gossip) about people that aren’t present.”. Perfect. ❤️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @christinemilham2847

    @christinemilham2847

    4 ай бұрын

    If they talk about others behind their back, they'll probably talk about you, too.

  • @truthwillsetyoufree2024
    @truthwillsetyoufree2024 Жыл бұрын

    Be willing to offend others, to keep your boundaries and good energy 🙏

  • @staycool163

    @staycool163

    Жыл бұрын

    Well said! I am just recently learning that. It has taken me too long and I've worked too hard at gaining peace and positivity, and I refuse to let ANYONE take that from me!

  • @karenczajka1201

    @karenczajka1201

    10 ай бұрын

    OMG just had to do that and it was tough!

  • @HeatherNoeL-jd6fc

    @HeatherNoeL-jd6fc

    9 ай бұрын

    No. 😢 missing the point. Offending other's is not part of protecting energy. We have to maneuver around negativity,but not ADD to it.tshhhh

  • @peppermint9798

    @peppermint9798

    9 ай бұрын

    Kill them with kindness it confuses them

  • @helenadavies5674

    @helenadavies5674

    8 ай бұрын

    Yes...I had that during the week. Had to block my sister from toxicity and twisting facts. So no more calls. She so needs to behave. Yikes.She is my sister.

  • @elizabethlasseigne5361
    @elizabethlasseigne5361 Жыл бұрын

    LOVE THIS! The snow globe and the policy of not talking about people unless they are in the room is going to change my life. THANK YOU, MEL!

  • @tareichadwick8270

    @tareichadwick8270

    11 ай бұрын

    Love the snow globe story and more so the policy on not talking about people unless they are present. Boy oh boy this is going to be easy...NOT! Lol! maybe it is going to be easier to take up the challenge and change now, as no one wants to be labeled as ‘Gossipers’. Love you Mel. You the Bomb! ❤

  • @rosereporter
    @rosereporter Жыл бұрын

    This episode could not have come at a better time for me. I am very similar to Claudia from the "difficult conversations" episode. Because of my childhood family culture, I have spent my life avoiding confrontations at all costs. But I realized that I was not protecting my peace, nor was I treating myself with any respect and love. But then I heard these two episodes, which helped me tremendously. Fast forward to this morning. I teach a fitness class for seniors. I love it, and I'm good at it. I can confidently say this, because I see the joy on my participants' faces and regularly hear how much they enjoy my class. But this morning I got an earful from one cranky old lady who complained about the dumbest things. Now granted, I welcome criticism. But this was petty. Three petty things. But more than that, she came at me in a very rude and disrespectful manner. The old me would have allowed this to suck the life out of me and question myself. But today I simply saw a spoiled child having a tantrum in a snow globe. Her toxicity stayed right in her little globe. I politely addressed her concerns, but then told her that we cannot accommodate everyone's preferences, so if she is not happy in my class, she is more than welcome to find another class that suits her needs. She huffed away, and I stood tall, with my peace and confidence in tact. I have never, ever stood up for myself like this in my entire life. It felt amazing. Thank you, Mel.

  • @KiwikimNZ

    @KiwikimNZ

    10 ай бұрын

    You kept your power! Well done. If we give into these entitled people they just continue with this behaviour. ! ❤

  • @HeatherNoeL-jd6fc

    @HeatherNoeL-jd6fc

    9 ай бұрын

    Sad. Teacher could and should have,shown dance ways to relax and destress... perfect opportunity to heal a client, instead...you feel only smiling happy people deserve to be in the class. Really sad. This is what I am moving far away from.youre PAID to HELP people, who are stressed, but you don't know how. Publicly making her leave, was what you chose? God, I wish I could comfort her. She's in pain, obviously. Physically. High blood pressure, cholesterol... diabetes,heart issues...she complains because she is in pain. I was a caregiver. She could have been shown how to hold her breath, cleanse toxicity, anything about dance?!?!

  • @rosereporter

    @rosereporter

    9 ай бұрын

    @@HeatherNoeL-jd6fc It is clear you are a very caring and compassionate person. Please don’t assume I am not. This woman’s complaints were voiced to me publicly and disrespectfully, and could have poisoned the class had I not addressed them properly, especially because they included attacks on other participants, whose crime is that “they’re annoying”because they’re so cheerful. Obviously that’s a clear symptom of depression, which as you say, is sad. I agree. Regardless, that behavior is unacceptable in my class. So it had to be addressed. And since it was not the first incident, it had to be addressed clearly and firmly. However, I ALSO care about this woman and have PRIVATELY talked with her and gotten to the core of what’s bothering her. And as you can probably guess, it has nothing to do with me or my class. I am sure to give her individualized attention every class, letting her know I care and asking her how her situation is going. Since this incident, she has not complained once and has told management how much she appreciates me. Heather, it’s important to understand that you can set clear boundaries, not allowing toxic behavior toward you or others, while still being a kind person and showing compassion toward those who may lash out because they are hurting. This was such a groundbreaking turning point for me because historically I have let people walk all over me, which is actually very unkind and cowardly. So please don’t judge my personal victory.

  • @emmy6165
    @emmy61659 ай бұрын

    I just started watching your videos and podcasts and all I can say is, I am so grateful for you and the positive energy along with great wit, you share with your followers. I am 80 years old and have spent the majority of my life working on myself through seminars, therapy, retreats and now,in the comfort of my home, I get to see a wonderful soul called “Mel.” Thank you for the love and light to bring to all. ❤️

  • @JKB-ji6xl
    @JKB-ji6xl3 ай бұрын

    Good strategies! I avoid chronically negative people. Even on-line, some comment feeds get toxic! Sometimes I throw out something positive but anymore I just leave. Thx!

  • @BKDAYZ
    @BKDAYZ Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been a front desk agent in New York City and the nightmarish entitled things that people slammed workers like myself with were incredible. I know exactly who this woman is. I appreciate this video!

  • @buisymom81506

    @buisymom81506

    2 ай бұрын

    I know we're not supposed to gossip but 👀 ..... 😂

  • @gaydarON
    @gaydarON8 ай бұрын

    I wish I could have seen this podcast two to three months ago when I was dealing with this in my job. No matter how I was treated, I was determined not to engage or return their hurtful volleys. I just kept repeating my mantra: " I can't afford this. I'm trying to accomplish something!" So I avoided making it worse. I know this is not easy for most people. It wasn't easy for me, I really wanted to throw their crap back in their face, but I didn't. I just focused on my job. And I finally stepped aside on my own terms. No one needs to work any job under threats, belittling, minimizing and disrespect. Don't ever give your power away to anyone. Choose not to engage. These people don't want to hear you defending yourself. It doesn't help. Just do your job and get out of there. And find a team and a supervisor who respect you. This message for everyone out there, who does a good job and takes pride in it. You've got nothing to be ashamed of. Don't ever make yourself feel small because of someone else's insecurities. And thank you Mel. We need more strong women like you, who are not afraid to tell it like it is. 👍🤓

  • @cc6861
    @cc6861 Жыл бұрын

    I am energy, I give it, I receive it. I'v just received some great energy from you Mel. Love You Mel, thank you.❤ Have a beautiful day.

  • @denises9426
    @denises9426 Жыл бұрын

    Growing up with abusive parents has made me hyper aware of others moods, it’s hard not to try to appease the rude person to prevent further escalation. I get the snow globe thing, but it’s hard to ignore the tantrum.

  • @nurkasyaf4077

    @nurkasyaf4077

    8 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @denises9426

    @denises9426

    8 ай бұрын

    Yep

  • @thetarynexperience
    @thetarynexperience6 ай бұрын

    Wow the universe does work wonders cause it brought me to this video

  • @heathersohappy2833
    @heathersohappy2833 Жыл бұрын

    Mel, that snow globe illustration was brilliant! I so needed that visual and I will be implementing your genius

  • @ginahernandez1209
    @ginahernandez12092 ай бұрын

    You sound like my dear mother ❤ She raised us to always share "joy and sunshine" into everyone's lives. So very true.

  • @Tugboat-R-Us
    @Tugboat-R-Us Жыл бұрын

    Truly, the old phrase, “Kill em’ with kindness”.

  • @Best4last1718
    @Best4last171810 ай бұрын

    I am struggling at work with some grownup bullies to the extent that I spend my days off paralyzed with depression & just stay in bed pretty much ,, finding you on utube today couldn’t have come at a better time ,, you always seem to have the answers! Love you !Thankyou!

  • @kirstenvzumba9246

    @kirstenvzumba9246

    8 ай бұрын

    I wish you the best. Depression and low self esteem from other's bullying and put downs is so hard to deal with!! 😢😢 I get it I've been there. A lot. Remember that you are worthy and you matter just as much as any other person on earth. 😊❤❤👍

  • @jackiedouglas4483

    @jackiedouglas4483

    3 ай бұрын

    Stand up and take a crack at the cowards. Do not ignore or enable their delinquency. Otherwise everyone loses.

  • @christinewright2829

    @christinewright2829

    2 ай бұрын

    I am living the same, workplace bullies!! They must have never grown up, but it still manages to break me!

  • @lisalowrey2230
    @lisalowrey2230 Жыл бұрын

    So much to unpack. Isn’t this how we all want to be in the world? 😅 Thank you for reminding us to be this way with our families as well. We tend to take each other for granted. A side note: my father was the person who would scream and yell at service people and wait staff, until he got his way. Unfortunately, it always worked out for him. During his last days on this earth, he spent much of his time yelling and screaming at the nurses and hospice people that were trying to help him. However, my mother (my parents have been divorced for years) has always been kind to everyone, and wherever she goes in her town, everyone is excited to see her and will literally run up to her with huge smiles on their faces. Could there be any better real life illustration of how to treat people?

  • @dominiqueraymond2174
    @dominiqueraymond2174 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Mel! I'm only 15 minutes in and already feel a bit better.

  • @doreennovak692
    @doreennovak692 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mel. I’m the person who is next in line behind the crazy. I try to smile and complement the poor person who was just yelled at! Bonus.. I am loud enough so if the person that yelled is within ear shot… I know it won’t change them but I get a kick out of it😊

  • @nortiinikki
    @nortiinikki23 күн бұрын

    This morning i got up feeling average left my house and took a drive to get a coffee Purchased a motoneuron disease beanie (its a donation to the research more so) and gave it to a very faired hair young man on the way out the shop I was in) it made me feel so good sharing kindness he was beside himself its crazy cold in Wangaratta Victoria Australia so thank you Mel for all that you have shared with your audience- speaking for myself I listen to you daily and let me tell you your fruitful casts are life transforming and rewarding to say the least- THANK YOU SO MUCH YOU ARE ONE OF MY FAVOURITE HUMAN IN THE ENTIRE WORLD! Much Love god bless you and your kind spirit ❤ ❤❤❤❤🎉

  • @deboraballes9044
    @deboraballes9044 Жыл бұрын

    The snow globe image is epic!!!😂

  • @catherinescott4472
    @catherinescott44726 ай бұрын

    What an episode! A lightbulb moment for me, I can’t wait to use these strategies, negativity has just exhausted me for too long. I am 52 years old and feel like this is going to be a new beginning for me. Love you Mel! ❤

  • @Georgemoore620

    @Georgemoore620

    3 ай бұрын

    Hey Catherine ❤, how are you feeling today ?

  • @YogiLaree
    @YogiLaree Жыл бұрын

    I remember the moment I decided to stop gossiping and IMMEDIATELY I felt so much lighter. Just from that decision. And yes 100% if they do it with you they’ll do it to you

  • @SweetTreatsBy_Marie
    @SweetTreatsBy_Marie Жыл бұрын

    That was so powerful about the gossip. I work in a office full of women and I have found myself in the midst of gossip. I’m so sorry 😢

  • @robincarr2817
    @robincarr28179 ай бұрын

    I start every day listening to something from Mel. Thank you!!!!❤

  • @magdamachado9467
    @magdamachado9467 Жыл бұрын

    And we appreciate you, Mel! I hope you know , you are a light in so many lives.

  • @kristalhumphreys4621

    @kristalhumphreys4621

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely 💯

  • @johnjosiah8839
    @johnjosiah88397 ай бұрын

    Thank you I fall short Mel 😊

  • @sues6847
    @sues6847 Жыл бұрын

    As someone who has always served in one shape, form or another...my best tip for shakin' it off is to remind myself that I have to deal with this person for x amount of time. I go home to a happy home...they go home to each miserable other. I don't feel bad about me. I pity those kind of people.

  • @christinemilham2847

    @christinemilham2847

    4 ай бұрын

    "Put yourself in their shoes" when speaking or listening to others. Also heard: people usually react from within themselves, not necessarily strictly at you.

  • @evaeva9587
    @evaeva95875 ай бұрын

    This talk has really helped me realise how much ownership I take for others discomfort! As though it is my responsibility….when it’s theirs to manage. Beyond empathy. Taking it all on. This talk would be good coupled with getting better at boundaries.

  • @GBEZ
    @GBEZ Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this, Mel! I need to be reminded about these principles every now and again. You always seem to come with the right thing at the right time. Big hugs!

  • @earthstudent1
    @earthstudent1 Жыл бұрын

    Oh and it feels good to be kind , thoughtful , complementary, and present with people! When I falll into a pattern of gossiping I feel awful…. And you hurt yourself and make yourself look bad. Not the person your gossiping about….

  • @kikisiegers
    @kikisiegers5 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video! Something I struggled with for a long time is protecting my good energy. It's really helpful and your examples made me laugh out loud 😊.

  • @chenli9062
    @chenli90625 ай бұрын

    That dog analogy really cracks me up

  • @amytrumbull156
    @amytrumbull1564 ай бұрын

    The snow globe is a good analogy and it’s funny to me because I actually use that kind of visual in reverse, meaning that before I go into a meeting or get together with someone whose energy is negative or chaotic I do closed eye deep breathing and visualize a glass bubble that entirely surrounds me, protecting me from others energy. I imagine that my force field/snow globe is impenetrable. It really helps! I’ve recently fallen into some negative and fearful thought patterns but I caught myself today and I’m back to focusing on the positive and bringing my vibration back up. I appreciate your input and advice, you’re brilliant!

  • @Kimmotion1
    @Kimmotion16 ай бұрын

    I have a coworker who is very negative and difficult. Every day I have to deal with this person and it's sometimes soul crushing. This morning I tried your advice: smile a big, toothy smile at them to make the good vibes contagious. At first, they took offense and told me they didn't appreciate the sarcasm. I just nodded and walked away. So far, they've been in a better mood since 😅 . Seems to have worked. Thank you!

  • @deepakkanna9183
    @deepakkanna91834 сағат бұрын

    Thank you Mel for bringing your voice into my ears to empower my personality to make me a stronger and a good human being. Stay blessed

  • @jaykaye562
    @jaykaye56210 ай бұрын

    Some lovely nuggets in here... th snow globe, the not talking about people who aren't in the room rule, the just being nice to everyone and knowing what an effect it can have Thank you

  • @simonar6492
    @simonar6492 Жыл бұрын

    Amen sister! You said it about gossiping

  • @cheshirecat772
    @cheshirecat772 Жыл бұрын

    Veronica‘s question is SO on point ❤ thanks for asking it !

  • @nuuraalinoor3630
    @nuuraalinoor3630 Жыл бұрын

    Wow wow wow that's awesome talk especially with gossip part I love that thanks,

  • @meko3089
    @meko3089 Жыл бұрын

    I love the snowglobe analogy! 🎉just adore 🥰 it

  • @_jzzyka
    @_jzzyka7 ай бұрын

    I’m a janitor and have been having a hard time at work with a specific person always making comments and treating me like I’m secondary to my more outgoing coworker. I’m working alone this week and it’s been especially hard and making me feel depressed but this podcast helped. Thank you!

  • @finalascent
    @finalascent Жыл бұрын

    12:30 - I'm with Chris. I LOVE the buzz of a busy terminal. People watching. Noshing on various foods from the food court, etc...

  • @michellemorris3473
    @michellemorris3473 Жыл бұрын

    # love positive energy

  • @TeaRoseLover
    @TeaRoseLover Жыл бұрын

    Mel, this is wonderful that you can be a force for positivity! So glad to know you!

  • @lynettehackler7820
    @lynettehackler782011 ай бұрын

    Love this! Love you!

  • @denisestacie2072
    @denisestacie20726 ай бұрын

    Mel, I needed to take some time off this week to remove myself from some negative people and situations, as well as try and figure out who I really am as a person. After listening to this podcast, one thing is for certain: I want/need to find the nice and positive part of myself and bring her back to the center. Thank you, Mel!

  • @betsyb8850
    @betsyb8850 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Mel. Truly. I love you too and greatly appreciate you. ❤️

  • @annsteffes10
    @annsteffes10 Жыл бұрын

    Love the thought of picturing them in a snow globe. I have half my coworkers in their snow globes right now. By visualizing this silence the fit, lol.

  • @kerryfaden94
    @kerryfaden949 ай бұрын

    I am so grateful to you It felt so good when you were kind to us- I learned how to be kind and authentic back to me!!! Have a good day!!

  • @mamalovesthebeach437
    @mamalovesthebeach437 Жыл бұрын

    I think it’s important to remember that we can all be “emotional vampires”. In the instance of the hotel clerk, that sounded like abuse. In the case of abuse, I believe we have moral duty to take a stand for some one who is being abused. You can take care of yourself, use breathing techniques, etc. and respond to an abusive tactic with that same calm energy. It takes a lot of practice and a lot of intention. I believe it’s important for us as a society to stand up for one another. I had an MRI yesterday and I used the 4-7-8 technique and it worked like a charm! Thank you, Mel.

  • @karenwalls1057
    @karenwalls105718 күн бұрын

    Hi Mel❤ I luvved this podcast.I really do try to be that kind person with holding the door , telling someone I luv there hair style help the elderly behind me in the grocery store unload there groceries from there little amigo cart I do it out of my ❤not to get a pat on the back, the trouble with this messed up world is no one’s wants to be kind and loving anymore.So as you say spread the kindness and it comes back.. Now about the snow globe reaction’ OH my gosh I almost laughed out loud at 4:15 am listening to you with my ear bud in my left ear laying in bed next to my husband..I will always use this piece of advice.. Thank you for you and your crew for putting this stuff out there for us.❤ Karen

  • @jayneparkin5075
    @jayneparkin5075 Жыл бұрын

    I really appreciated this podcast from you today Mel. It resonates with changes I'm making in my own life and needed to hear. It's great to know I'm not alone on this. Thank You.

  • @ramikundalini7887
    @ramikundalini78875 ай бұрын

    I will forever remember an illustration about goseping that samewone,once sad. He sad goseping is so damaging to the image of the person you goseping about, like a drop of poison in a clean glass of water, and he continued.. Imagine a pillow that's crushed and all the flaf from inside the pillow starts to flow and disparse everywhere, that message like (gossiping) flys and rich to many and you can't never collect that back. I look forward to see the sacretness in every person I met and complimente instead.❤

  • @wendyg.2993
    @wendyg.2993 Жыл бұрын

    This episode was so great ..like all of them ..I work in a Costco and the customer ( members) are so rude and entitled thank you soo much ..keep being you and doing what you do

  • @GLM-gt7hq
    @GLM-gt7hq Жыл бұрын

    With luv .. thank you Mel

  • @user-ne2pn6zf6x
    @user-ne2pn6zf6x2 ай бұрын

    my dad’s busy with work these days, you’re podcast reminded me of the way he gives advice I love you so much Melll❤❤😊

  • @carries5791
    @carries57917 ай бұрын

    I don’t know what I would do if I didn’t have you in my life everyday! You are my spirit animal ❤️ we all love you so much for you just being you!

  • @joannejohnson7367
    @joannejohnson7367 Жыл бұрын

    What a great topic!! I get so affected by other peoples’ energy and I have a close family member who is quite negative.

  • @maripimenendez9337
    @maripimenendez9337 Жыл бұрын

    ❤Mel you never cease to amaze me!! Ty ty

  • @MCat-yv3hl
    @MCat-yv3hl8 ай бұрын

    I love the snow globe idea. I am definitely using this one.

  • @deanarogers8885
    @deanarogers8885 Жыл бұрын

    Mel, I’m new to you and absolutely love your energy and advise. I used to work at a very high class Salon and performed massage and facials. I would ask the other therapists how to get of the negative energy. I became very sick and couldn’t do my job anymore due to this issue. Now I know how to implement this. Also, when I get upset I‘ll pretend I’m in the snow globe til i get it out!

  • @j.t.1215
    @j.t.1215Ай бұрын

    I love this woman's sincerity. 💚🌹💚

  • @JaneGalvin-sj3ji
    @JaneGalvin-sj3ji3 ай бұрын

    Thank you Mel! You are so inspiring and I love how you present the whole concept of making changes! I love the 4,5 8…. I love the cheering on of your colleagues, the excited to see you and how was your day when they get home. And the gossip….. so simple! Just don’t talk about anyone if they’re not present…. I love telling my friends how much I appreciate them and love them. It keeps such a special bond between us! You are appreciated in all you do with your empowering videos and positive energy! You are new to me when I’m looking motivational messages. So happyI found you! Thank you! ❤️☀️🌴☮️

  • @laurameyeres5590
    @laurameyeres55907 ай бұрын

    Oh my Gosh! Mel you are Amazing!! Love love your personality! I was laughing and it was exactly what I needed today! ❤ I was going through something and everything you talked about was everything I am going through! I am an empath and I absorb so much of peoples energy! I felt with both emotional emature and bully situations yesterday! The snow globe and 4-7-8 helped! Love u!

  • @vanessaval9325
    @vanessaval9325 Жыл бұрын

    I just have to say that I adore you Mel! You put out some of the most helpful content for someone like me. I'm the person who struggles all my life with taking on other people's negative energy. I literally get emotional and I literally lose sleep over every day negative encounters. There are some really intriguing techniques you have suggested and I can't wait to try them out asap. THANK YOU for caring and for giving back. 💗

  • @Sahel_rami
    @Sahel_rami Жыл бұрын

    Youre program is very beneficial thanks ❤

  • @colleenfromsydney4194
    @colleenfromsydney4194 Жыл бұрын

    On point podcast. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, Mel.🏆👏

  • @lizramirez2999
    @lizramirez2999 Жыл бұрын

    Omg! Mel I LOVE LOVE your podcast, I started following you a 2 months ago and I already feel different lighter, happier, full of motivation, energy, positivity and full of hope, I need u in my life long time ago, THANKS MEL, YOU ROCK❤❤❤

  • @suecabral9539
    @suecabral95394 ай бұрын

    Love this episode. Glad I found your channel, Mel. Thank you.

  • @Carolynb444
    @Carolynb444 Жыл бұрын

    Veronica!! Nailed that question! I paused the video just to be sure to tell you! Can't wait to hear Mel's response!❤

  • @MsBuffalopoo
    @MsBuffalopoo Жыл бұрын

    This is one of the best podcasts I have heard.

  • @reginasalazar9435
    @reginasalazar9435 Жыл бұрын

    Such a great video Mel!

  • @salma5216
    @salma5216 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ❤

  • @viewer6912
    @viewer69128 ай бұрын

    Thank you Soo much Mel. I stumbled into your podcast this morning and it’s something I really needed.I work in the most toxic n narcissistic workplace. Despite doing daily morning meditations I lose it most of the time. Thank you for helping bring me back to alignment. Much gratitude.

  • @jenniferfortuin9374
    @jenniferfortuin9374 Жыл бұрын

    THANKYOU Mel 😊...I love you too ❤❤

  • @annetterodriguezmelian2233
    @annetterodriguezmelian2233 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing!!! You made my day!!! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!

  • @elvanorman5069
    @elvanorman5069 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mel , I love you.

  • @cindymombourquette5685
    @cindymombourquette56853 ай бұрын

    I loved and needed this video. Snow globes are one of my favourite indulgences and now my grandchildren’s as well. Its going to be fun to use your suggestion of putting negative people in them. I have very close family members who are very negative. While I love them where they are, they really take a toll on my happy space. Its going to be fun to gently put them in the snow globe for a bit to save my sanity. I do practice the breathing technique often. It does help. Love you have a great day!

  • @trishaeppley6288
    @trishaeppley62884 ай бұрын

    Thank you Mel, your awesome, and I appreciate your podcasts so much! ❤

  • @zahrx9944
    @zahrx99444 ай бұрын

    Thanks, Mel for these great lessons. I came across your channel when my only reason for starting to listen to English podcasts was to improve my English skills.

  • @lovingoldlady4872
    @lovingoldlady4872 Жыл бұрын

    I recently had to cut ties with a friend because of the habit of and apparent joy she felt when gossiping. Gossip is toxic! I love your rule of not discussing any one not in the same room. Thank you for all your guidance. The reciprocity you mentioned is powerful. One of my favorites is, “What a beautiful smile you have. “. This is not offensive and is appropriate for all ages and genders. Keep up your marvelous work. We need your kindness and positivity ❤️

  • @asmith5090
    @asmith50904 ай бұрын

    This is so profound I am so thankful to have found you thank you! This is so needed I feel as if you’re the friend I who is so uplifting and positive and full of great advice

  • @ItsmeImalot
    @ItsmeImalot4 ай бұрын

    I loved every second of this ❤ Thank you Mel. I appreciate you.

  • @kathleen7825
    @kathleen7825 Жыл бұрын

    So very grateful to have found you, Mel, because I honestly do not feel as alone as I have been this past few years ! A good bit of aloneness had been by choice, through a healing process. Pandemic made it easier, but the negativity made it easier to isolate as well. What I'm learning from you, may just get me back out in the world, and Start the next chapter of living for the true purpose I was intended ! Have hit the target on so many issues, it seems as if you had been right by my side in life. Love you too 🙏💗🙏💗

  • @marshee-5425
    @marshee-5425 Жыл бұрын

    Excellent video !!!!

  • @roelewis7683
    @roelewis7683 Жыл бұрын

    THIS WAS AMAZING!!!. Totally needed to hear all of this. You Rock Mel! Thanks so much! ❤

  • @julietbernier1714
    @julietbernier17143 ай бұрын

    I love your podcast and I love you too Mel!!!!❤

  • @margery1111
    @margery1111 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mel ‼️Your knowledge and words of encouragement have helped me tremendously. I love you too 😊

  • @LynQuez
    @LynQuez3 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Mel for this video! It is exactly what I needed to hear today. Your videos are amazing and so uplifting. ❤

  • @user-pl1oc6nm8s
    @user-pl1oc6nm8s4 ай бұрын

    I really appreciate and enjoy how profoundly practical you are and yet so deep❤ very very helpful

  • @thegurskis7732
    @thegurskis77328 ай бұрын

    You bring so much value and I love and appreciate you Mel!

  • @jenallenzito9157
    @jenallenzito9157 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Mel Robbins, I really appreciate these tools and so grateful for your work. What you are doing means the world to me... thank you for letting your light shine on our paths in times when things seem dark. I hear your podcasts and they're like little shimmering lights that say "here you go!! Psst over here!" Suddenly I feel less afraid of the dark.

  • @bluebutterfly320
    @bluebutterfly3209 ай бұрын

    I love the snow globe analogy!! I almost can’t wait to use it! 😂

  • @anushapara4800
    @anushapara48003 ай бұрын

    I may be late yes, managers with negative mindset has tremendous impact on our lives.

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