Social Anxiety & Why We Forget People's Names 🥵

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  • @andrewhopkins1677
    @andrewhopkins16774 ай бұрын

    Glad to see you're still around! You were one of my favorite channels to watch during my teenage years so long ago. I took a little micro dose and sporatically remembered your videos and am now in the process of rewatching everything haha. Much love, never stop posting!

  • @benbrown

    @benbrown

    4 ай бұрын

    Welcome back my mushroomy brother :D thank you for being here, I hope you find some value in this new style of sharing insights! sending love 💚

  • @seanjamescameron
    @seanjamescameron4 ай бұрын

    I'm in awe of people who can remember my name even if we haven't seen each other for 5 or 10 years. Bumped into a past colleague who I couldn't remember at all from 30 years ago but she remembered me. The one name I will never forget is Ben Brown. Since leaving London two months ago and returning to the mountainside of South Wales I've far more happier. Within 2 minutes from my house I can be on the mountainside and in the forest and within 10 minutes I can be stood by a waterfall. If you ever feel like visiting Ben, you are most welcomed.

  • @benbrown

    @benbrown

    4 ай бұрын

    Ahhh big love Sean, I'm so stoked to hear you're feeling happier in the countryside, great move my bro! If I'm passing though I'll be sure to let you know ;) have a blessed week brother x

  • @musicswede1
    @musicswede14 ай бұрын

    Lovely words my friend. Thanks for sharing

  • @BelindaFarage
    @BelindaFarage4 ай бұрын

    Got my tickets!!! Can't wait - going to try to get into the live stream though that will be during work hours. I will be watching it one way or another! Stoked!

  • @benbrown

    @benbrown

    4 ай бұрын

    Wonderful! Thank you Belinda 🩵

  • @BelindaFarage
    @BelindaFarage4 ай бұрын

    "Deep Presence. The ability to show up for Life." This is bringing tears to my eyes and opening my heart. Peace and blessings. 💮🕉

  • @benbrown

    @benbrown

    4 ай бұрын

    🩵🙏🏼👁️

  • @nbsmith23
    @nbsmith234 ай бұрын

    Being present is so important. Id you live in your head thinking sbout the oast or future you miss life happening. Your message of being present is right on the money.

  • @benbrown

    @benbrown

    4 ай бұрын

    Happy that we're riding the same wave! Total game changer, wish they taught this at school!

  • @Khawlalhasan
    @Khawlalhasan4 ай бұрын

    I love your videos and your podcast.. you changed my life.

  • @benbrown

    @benbrown

    4 ай бұрын

    🤍🙏🏼🤍

  • @prodreemer9952
    @prodreemer99524 ай бұрын

    More workshops please! Will the replays be available for purchase?

  • @AdAsteris
    @AdAsteris4 ай бұрын

    In meeting so many new people at work I remove a lot of the social anxiety by telling each and every person up front - "What was your name again? It'll take me a couple of times to get it but I will. I'm more of an intuitive/planning type person than a sensory/remembering person, but I'll get it don't worry!"

  • @benbrown

    @benbrown

    4 ай бұрын

    Love that! Being authentic eliminates the tension of trying to 'get it right' all the time, thanks for sharing :)

  • @AllPathsLeadToWater

    @AllPathsLeadToWater

    4 ай бұрын

    Just the other day I told a coworker whose name I tentatively remembered that “I wasn’t good with names,” which really was a way of saying “I hope you didn’t take offense to the fact that I wasn’t sure if I got your name right.” Still working on getting to the point where I truly don’t care what others think of me versus just telling myself “I don’t care”.

  • @AdAsteris

    @AdAsteris

    4 ай бұрын

    @@AllPathsLeadToWater I try to think of it more as "I don't mind, think what you like". I always think of the idea of surrendering the need to be right, or for the truth to be seen (when interacting with people) if they can't see it or see who I'm really showing up as, that's their issue. So I just tell them how my mind works and why I might not remember their name, if they think that's weird, they're not for me

  • @benbrown

    @benbrown

    4 ай бұрын

    I actually forgot to mention in the video that I now intentionally say to myself 'I'm getting better at names' and have compassion as I improve this skill, that's the new program that doesn't cause a contracted anxious state, and gives me a chance at actually recalling the name :)

  • @AdriannaxJesus
    @AdriannaxJesus4 ай бұрын

    It's not me bragging but I had and have good memory for names. In some cases even last names. If I meet a new person I try to save that name and face if we ever meet again (for example a co-worker or a friendly shop assistant) even people that were a class above me or below me cuz I made some little friends from different classes when I was in elementary school or in middle school. I have good memory in general :D

  • @rijd2304
    @rijd23044 ай бұрын

    I remember an exercise in the workbook called 30 Days to Reduce Anxiety by Harper Daniels in which you can use a different name in public, essentially realizing you are not your image of yourself or your thoughts. We're all connected.

  • @Jay-mcr
    @Jay-mcr4 ай бұрын

    🙌🏻💚

  • @Monkeegenesgroup
    @Monkeegenesgroup4 ай бұрын

    Ben, are you still doing the podcast?

  • @benbrown

    @benbrown

    4 ай бұрын

    I've not recorded a podcast in a while but I've got so many messages coming through right now I think I'm going to get back on it again :) thanks for the nudge!

  • @Sseean
    @Sseean4 ай бұрын

    Hey Ben 😄

  • @benbrown

    @benbrown

    4 ай бұрын

    Hellooooo 😄

  • @kaliefking9272
    @kaliefking92724 ай бұрын

  • @benbrown

    @benbrown

    4 ай бұрын

    💚