I’m 40 and live with my mom. I have a full time job but don’t make enough to live on my own in today’s economy. It has been just me and my mom since my parents divorced when I was 9. She is now at the age where her memory is starting to fail and she is having more accidents. So me living at home really benefits both of us.

I'm 34 and my sister is 28. We still live with our parents, and there's no shame in it. Live alone with an expensive rent in this economy? Not for me. We get along well compared with the majority of other families, so I don't see me moving any time soon.

@herbie8675309

6 күн бұрын

I'm 34 as well and still live at home. It's also nice that if something breaks in the house, I can help my parents and chip in to get it fixed.

@amylynnm324

6 күн бұрын

On the other side of that-my oldest son is nearly 20 and he (and his little brothers) can stay with us for as long as they want/need to. We love having our kids around ❤

@BooksToAshes

6 күн бұрын

I only moved out at 28 because I moved in with my partner. Living alone feels almost impossible these days. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with living with family with how the world is right now ♥️

@rosemangofairy

6 күн бұрын

I'm 33 and also still live with my Mum! 😊We're Asians though, so it has always been the norm for children to still live with their parents until they get married, even when they're adults. Most of my unmarried friends also still live with their parents. My Mum has just been on an accident too, so it's nice to be able to help her out.

@hazy_sake5274

6 күн бұрын

I’m 27 and I still live at home. I honestly can’t afford it on my own, I’m saving and my mom is understanding but when I find a state I can afford that my job can transfer me too, I’m home

Gavin: *cries * “it’s time to say goodbye“ 😢 The music:” I SAW THE SIGNNNNN~“ lmaooo 😂

I'm 31 and I live with my mom. It's always been us two and this works the best for us. We split the bills and keep each other company. It's a win-win.

I love that Tobu likes to hang out with your passed kitties 🥺

I'm 28, and live at home. I just really enjoy living with my family. I like cooking for them and I can't take the dogs if I move out. People try to shame me and it sucks. I am saving up. My brother moved out when he was 30 years old and it's why he could afford to buy his house! So good for him.

There is absolutely no shame in living with your parents. One of my kids also came home after college and lived with us until she was about 30. We were happy to have her and she was able to save lots of money. Enjoy your new home!

About the Lego, almost all instructions are available online for free. It can be a little tedious to use a screen instead of the manuals but as long as you still have all the pieces you should be able to fix it 😊

Keep the evidence of the leaks and your messages to the landlord about asking him to fix it just in case he tries to take you to court... congratulations on your new place 🥳🥳🥳

I’m 29 and still live at home, it’s perfectly normal in Latin America. I’ve never felt weird about it. If I didn’t get along with my parents or had no privacy or wanted to leave, I would, but it’s never been something I feel like I need to do for other people to think I’m a grownup or serious person. It’s such a silly expectation in other cultures imo.

Signs of a bad neighborhood, fights breaking out and random accordion players.

I'm 33, have owned and lost my own home and have rented, now back living with family where the mortgage is already paid, there's space for all my stuff and I pay a fraction of what I did before. I absolutely support anyone who stays home as long as they can and also in more cultures than not it is normal to always live with family! That sounds like a landlord that needs reporting to be honest, if nothing else that's a health hazard he's ignored! I love that you're already happier in your new home and I wish you all the best with your new place!

Yay I'm so happy for you that you finally moved! Watching you for years in a house that you were not happy living in, with a landlord who sounds awful. I really hope you're going to be so much happier in your new place

@violetpagesss

6 күн бұрын

T o

Those shirts you could get made into a blanket since you have such good memories with them.

@biteofdog

6 күн бұрын

That's a wonderful idea, I love it!

@modestysnooze6154

2 күн бұрын

Did that with my husband's old band shirts for his 40th. It's a great blanket!

@sucubus4life

2 күн бұрын

Just like Bellas mom in twilight

I'm 30 and live with my wife and my parents, honestly the only difficulty is not having free reign over what the house is like but we all really get along and I don't think there's anything wrong with living with family as an adult, especially in today's economy where it feels impossible to get on the property ladder. :) So glad you were able to move to somewhere better that suits you and the cats more!

I kind of heard that in the UK it is frown about to keep the kitties only inside, but I would strongly advise to not let them go outside, especially if they lived up until now inside. take care!!!

@mikanchan322

6 күн бұрын

I second this!

I am 32 and me and my mom live together bc we can't make it alone. There is no shame in sharing a home with your family you are so right Gav!

Congrats on moving (pretty) successfully! My biggest moving nightmare was in 2021. I live in Japan at the moment, and I was moving from Shizuoka Prefecture to Yokohama City, leaving one teaching company for another because my original company was taking SO LONG to place me even knowing I wouldn't be able to stay because I had to drive to the schools there, and my license was expiring in March. Long story short, I had a literal 2 weeks to find an apartment, go through the application process and be approved, pack, and officially move, because I had to get out of my other apartment by a certain date. And it was prime moving season, so finding a moving company who wasn't booked at that time was a nightmare.

I lived with my dad until he passed away in 2008 at age 85 1/2. Don't listen to anyone shaming you

I’m so glad you got moved!! You deserve it!! 😊 🎉🎉 Also there are outdoor “Catios/cat runs” you can get if you are worried about your boys being outside especially with dogs next door 🤷🏻‍♀️ something to look at if your interested 😊 So happy for you Gavin! 🎉🎉 🤩🤩😁😁

I also wanna add some cultures it’s normal to live with your parents in general. We have a multigenerational household and it’s awesome. ❤

i’m 24 and still live with my parents, this was so reassuring!

@jungtothehuimang

6 күн бұрын

Don't ever let anyone make you feel bad about it, there is no shame in living with family and sharing resources! In many parts of the world it is normal for families to stick together for their entire lives. You're doing fine!

I lived with my parents until last year when I was 30 and only moved out finally because I had enough saved for a deposit for a mortgage which makes my flat way cheaper than a rented one and it's all mine! So worth doing and no shame in staying with family! I love my parents and had no issues living with them but they wanted to move and downsize and I wanted my own place near my work. Now I have a cute little home with a cat and I'm very happy :) this is a joy to watch and I love your cats so much! Being from Newcastle watching you always feels like just hanging out with a friend :)

‘First it was the ice berg, then it was the Hetheringtons’ I’m dead. Loved this vlog. Hope you and the boys are settling in well!

Hi Gavin! My parents paid my rent until I moved with my partner at 28, it is just the way life is. With what I earned I couldn’t support myself, I lived in a not so safe area, but it was near work and it was the cheapest I could find. So ignore people who say mean things. XOXO

Get an outside cat run/enclosed play area for the cats, much safer for them than letting them roam outside. They would love the yard and they will be safe 😊

I'm 34 and 6 yrs ago I decided to live with my mom again ❤ it was a decision for financial stability and also helped me mentally a lot. she was very lonely (we have a dog) and needs someone to take care of her as she's getting older. I'm so glad I'm not the only one here! anyway what. a. rollercoaster! I cannot believe the nerve of these people calling you ON THE DAY THAT YOU'RE MOVING if you have cats. And not your baby giving you the scare of a lifetime during your first morning coffee 😢 I did laugh when you mentioned he was stuck and didn't make a peep 😅

I’m 26 and I still live with my parents. I’ve gotten a lot of judgement from family and friends for doing so, but I’m unable to work and so I don’t have any income to put toward living on my own. My parents are thankfully the best people in the world and I feel super safe and comfortable with them but my ultimate dream is to one day move states and live with my partners 😊 but right now thats pretty much a pipe dream lol

I’m 39 and I still live with my parents. I was chronically ill for a long time and reeling from the end of a 12+ year relationship that I thought was going to be my forever. My parents also need someone here to help them. I’m so grateful to hear from other people living with their parents/families later on in life. 💜

I can't even tell you how happy I am to hear you talk about how its okay to still be living with your parents at whatever age.. Just know it means so much to me (and clearly lots of other people!) thanks Gav

Nearly a 2hr vlog?!?!? YES PLEASE!!

I lived in a place for almost 10 year with a landlord who just didn’t care about the property. It was horrible. I finally moved this past year and I can’t explain how much moving to a new place has improved my partner and I mental health. I hope the new place does the same for you!

When I was in college I moved in with my grandmother and been living with her since and I'm 34. There is no shame in it. Having another person in the house eased my relatives mind, and especially currently now she is in need of a caregiver. Moving story though - back in August my parents and brother were moving from an apartment to a new house, my mother diligently packed as much as she could, and day of the move my brother went there with one of the dogs to help unpack the boxes from the trucks while I stayed behind with another dog at the apartment and help with any last minute packing. Come to find out my brother barely packed ANYTHING up in his room so I was scrambling to help pack up the 80% of what he left unpacked since we had to be out by the end of the day. We managed but oh boy wasn't everyone pissed by that situation on top of the general moving stress.

You should think about building a cattio, an enclosed patio out into your garden perhaps from a window. That way the cats can be outside whenever they want and be safe. Check online! ❤🇨🇦

Aww I'm so glad you were able to make that middle grade book donation happen! I'm sure they'll mean a lot to the recipient hospitals. Also, I just wanted to say that I love how much you love your cats and the way you take time even when you're stressed and busy just to pet them for a bit. It's so sweet and wholesome. Always warms my heart. Hope you and the cats love your new home!

The people you went through to get this house seem so unproffessional Gav I really hope that everything goes well from here on out!!! 💜

@Wndrlnd9

6 күн бұрын

The cats getting approved day of is insane 😅 and requesting passport after forgetting past IDs shared day of key exchange

@jungtothehuimang

6 күн бұрын

@@Wndrlnd9 sounds like typical landlord behavior tbh 🙄 genuinely despise landowners

I'm so happy that you've been able to move out of that hosue!! I could never move back in with my parents, I'm always really jealous of people who have that sort of relationship with their family!

I feel you on the family drama with moving. I had to BEG my brother and father to help me move last time I changed apartments, and they did nothing but yell at me & made it seem like I owed them the world because they finally bothered to lift a finger to help me. Mind you, I did ALL the smaller stuff by myself- it was only the larger furniture I needed their help on. Never again. No matter how much it costs, I am absolutely hiring movers next time instead of trying to rely on my family.

You should always go through the real estate for repairs and stuff, and email it to them, that way it’s in writing and there’s a record so that if the landlord ignores you or tries to pretend you never told them, you can show your emails

I'm 30 and still live with my parents despite also being engaged to my partner of 10 years. I'm mostly staying to help my parents with their bills (because they have been struggling and are close to finally paying off their mortgage). Aside from helping, it also allows me to save up to hopefully afford a down-payment for a place with my fiancé. No shame in having to live with family to make ends meet!

I'm 31 and starting a new job with my dad and will be moving in with him because it's a travel based job and it just makes more sense than trying to pay for rent on a place I won't ever be.

I lived at home until I was 28! And some of my friends still live at home. It's common for mexican families to stay under the same roof. So, no shame, how lucky are we to have that support system. So stay at home as long as you want and leave when you want. It's all good. Also, I'm so excited to see you moving to a new place where you will flourish!

I'm 29 and live together with my mom. I moved out during my university years, but moved back afterwards. I love living with her. She's my best friend and when I move it will be really close by, because I still want her as part of my everyday life. Also we share a dog, that will be living with me. She's retired, so she is taking care of our dog when I'm at work 😊 Without her I wouldn't with good conscious have been able to get my precious little rascal ❤🐶

Love this long form slice of life vlog. i am not upset about it. much like a wedding or vacation, a move never goes as planned. ironically, that is actually the only thing you can plan on

I moved out of my Mom's house and into an apartment in my grandmother's house when l was 17. That way, l could have my own space, but be close enough to help out my grandma when she needed it. In 2020, when l was 29, l moved out fully on my own. I have been on my own since. Athough, now that l have a good job, the plan has always been for my Momma to move in with me once she retires. There should be no shame in living with your parents! Family is meant to support each other!

My cat drools when he purrs and is happy, too. I love to see it! 😻

As a 26 year old still living at home this comment section feels like a warm hug 💜

At first I thought: O great a 52 Minute Vlog of Gavin and his moving journey - great love it! And then I realized that it's actually close to 2 hours and I freaked out and made some hot chocolate and got me few snacks and binged that whole video

That's called a Juliet balcony. Imagine the photo/video possibilities!! ☺️ Congrats on your new home, enjoy it. I'm also moving on Monday 8 July.

WAKE UP EVERYBODY WE HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS!

Am 32, live with my dad and my mum recently moved in. I get lots of cuddles every day and feel very loved

Ugh I had a similar moving experience. I knew I wanted out of my last home almost immediately, but ended up staying there for 5 years (mostly because my rent never went up during the pandemic lol). I moved this Feburary and I was convinced my new landlord had ghosted me because I got my keys 2 days late. It was still a day before my lease officially started so it was fine, but stressful. I was convinced I got scammed. I hope you love your new house! The wallpaper in the living room is so pretty! I can't wait to see how cozy you make it!!

"It's our own idea of perfection we should aspire ourselves reaching for. Every other perfections are just subjective anyways. So if my perfection is being un-perfect I gladly embrace it because it's who I am and I like myself." Practically perfect in every way. 💜💖 That's what I'm trying to to live by these last few years, and I'm way over 40 finally having that epiphany for me.

So happy to see you've finally moved into your new home! Must admit I was as nervous as you watching and waiting to see what would happen. So nice to see your mom and sister! Enjoy your time setting up and settling down! :) Barbara

Love the new place Gav.. Where the garden is concerned..cats just jump up onto the fences no problem at all.. I've had cats and 6ft fences are no problem to fit cats.. Once they start exploring they will start to go further afield but usually come and go once they have lived there for a while.. Maybe you should take them out in the garden with cat leashes if you don't want them going further..but I reckon once they get used to it they will start to go further. They are already interested in the garden sitting at the window.. Good luck in your new home..✨✨❤❤

It's too late now, but a great tip for clearing out your closest (whether moving or just purging) is having something handy to make a list. - well not too late, if you're still unpacking your stuff, you can see what you have & want you need to get. Getting rid of your Marilyn Monroe dress, but potentially want to replace it? Write that down! Throwing out all the holey underwear & holey/single socks? Add those to the list of things you need to buy. Finding out you don't fit in 8 out of 10 t-shirts? Jot down that you want to get 3-5 more shirts. Or you have 15 T-shirts but only 1 long sleeve & 3 sweaters? Make a note that you need more cold-weather outfits.

I'm 30 and moving back home with my parents to save money after being on my own for many years. My rent has skyrocketed and they have a big house and we get along well so why not. Cost of living is outrageous right now and I'd rather pay my parents rent than a landlord until I can maybe buy a small place. Thanks for all you said about this being nothing to be ashamed of ❤

As someone who has moved 11 times in 12 years, it honestly never gets easier, you always end up with loads of crap to declutter and is hell everytime 😂😂 you did amazing packing so much so earlier!

When I moved into my current house; I had 80 boxes of books. It was crazy enough that over the first year after we moved in I did a massive unhaul for the first time in 15 years. Now, I am better about unhauling as I go.

11pm the night before I was supposed to move I got an email saying “actually the apartment is not currently habitable, so you can’t move in”. Everything had already been packed up in a U-Haul ready to go. The next day they said “well you can move all your stuff in, but you can’t stay yet” “if you want to do that you will have a 2 hour time slot to move in everything you own”. Also, it was July 1st which is Canada Day, so no moving companies were open and there was crazy traffic. By the end my boyfriend and I had to live in my childhood bedroom for a week without the majority of our things. Then getting internet hooked up was a whole other issue lol.

Ah, the moving chaos!!! My craziest move was when my sister and I bought our farm together. Fortunately I had the keys to the new place about 2 weeks before I had to be out of my place in town because my mom and I took literally 5 TRUCKLOADS of junk out of the farmhouse to the dump before we could move in.

Sick in bed rn THIS IS LITERALLY EVERYTHING I NEED. Your vlogs are the most comforting >>>

I’m sure someone has already mentioned, but you can get the Lego instructions on their website! I hope you can repair them! Congrats on the new place! Moving is always a nightmare no matter what, but at least it’s over now and you can focus on your new HOME. Wishing the best for you and your adorable boys!

So happy for you, Gavin! Hope you and the kitties get settled soon, and you can finally relax🏡

I used to live on that street, also on the avenues in G/head, was never happier when I moved over the river. Hoping you and the babs adore the new place ❤ edit.... they mucked you about badly! My goodness I'd have been in the lettings office waving an axe 😂 ive even had that crap with guinea pigs, Granted they are free roamers but ffs, what a mess, glad all is well ❤

AHHH!! MAMA GAV!!!! ❤❤❤ God bless her for helping you out so much with this move!

this is so exciting gav!! im so happy for you & hope this does turn out to be the perfect home for you

This video just spoke to me in sooo many ways :) I'm 30 and I live with my mom, Ive got a nice basement suite full of books and figures and over the last two years I helped move 2 sets of family members and when it came time for us to move I hired movers and got the biggest truck I could buy because no....just no. Never again!!!!!! Next time I'm seeing about hiring a company for the entire process from packing to unpacking!

Enjoyed watching this while packing up my own library for my move later this month. Congrats on the new place!

We all deserve to be spoken to like you speak to your cats lol. What a saga this was! Hoping you’ve gotten to chill and recuperate since moving, because wow, what a ridiculous rollercoaster that was. So glad that the new place seems great so far! Your cats look like they’ve adjusted so quickly, too. My partner and I moved twice since 2022, and each time, our tuxedo cat was fine, she was just happy to be and to vibe with us. But our black cat? Poor thing was so stressed for weeks after each time, and would yowl at 3 am, yank on the bottom every door she could find. It was…a lot. Moving with cats, always an experience lol. I hope the new place is a wonderful fit for you and the boys! 💜

ÅH! (as we say in sweden) 😍 I am so envious of your new reading nook, I want one but we have no space for one. Looks so cosy!

Bless your mom for willing to be on the internet and for her help! She seems lovely! You telling Ash to have some "grace and decorum" while zooming in to his grooming hahahaha How DARE the Hetheringtons be so unkind to the Titanic. I love the new space it already looks more homey than the last one!

The moving twice situation is currently happening to me 😂 they moved the date two weeks back (maybe more😂), so I've done the first move into my partners flat, it's too small for our stuff so there is stuff absolutely EVERYWHERE 😂😂 my cat is at my mums so she's somewhere familiar for now 😔 🐈 Congratulations on the move! 🎉❤🎉❤

@carly885

6 күн бұрын

Also, you describing the moving day has made me laugh so so much hahahahah 😅😂😂

Congrats on the new place! it looks so nice! I had to share this story with you. I ordered a desk for my room a year or two ago. When the box arrived there was a huge hole in the box that transferred to the desk. It looked like someone had a bad day and punched it. The desk had a hole in it the size of a walnut in it. I was so upset.

Your haunted series have messed me up. Now I expect a ghost at every second. At one point you explained sleeping on the couch and my mind shouted: AND THERE WAS A GHOST?! 😂

It's lovely seeing you happy in your new home, I'm looking forward to seeing how you decorate and style everything! You should hit a few charity shops to pick up a few bits and bobs. So, here's wishing you the very best, and lots of happiness in your new home. 💕🏡🪴

Yeah for the move, even if had a lot of stress. I totally get not wanting to move twice because I had to and it was not fun! Book boxes are really heavy, and they add up! Hope you love the time in the new place!

If you need a bit more wall space for your bookcases you can remove the doors and store them somewhere else. We did that in our tiny hallway. Of course you can only do that if you have a room or something for storage.

Coconut berry Red Bull is my fave ❤ Maybe you could incorporate the bookish scavenger hunt while you set up your new library! That could be fun!

My favorite tshirts I turned into a blanket. So I could have my memories still but room in my dresser ☺️

That's some crazy moving day shenanigans from your estate agent! Hopefully by now cats are approved. This looks like a much cozier place than your last place

That agency sounds like a nightmare to deal with. Glad you finally moved!

Never been so excited for someone else to move! Also currently moving myself so this vid is just what I need!

I didn't move out of my family's home until last year at thirty lol honestly would have liked to save up more money before moving out but there were 5 ppl living in a three bedroom house and there were some safety issues that convinced me I needed to move. And I love having my own space but could do without living paycheck to paycheck. I'm so glad you've moved in, and I hope all the last-minute things that were brought up work out for you!! The house is absolutely adorable!

I hope you got approved for the cats! I’m so happy for you! So glad you are loving the home so far and just can’t wait to see more of the home and your new life in a bigger place!

I lived at home with my mom until I was 30 (now 47). It was just the two of us for many years. I paid rent and bought my own groceries. I only moved out because her boyfriend (now her husband) was moving in, and I felt 3 was a crowd. It worked out because I met my now husband a few months later. I am very close to my mom.

Bravo Gavin!!! I hope you have many wonderful memories in your new home! That garden looks lush for new beginnings. Spacious kitchen, and the living area looks very cozy! I can't wait to see the bookshelves up and filled. You can never have too many toilets, imo. I love split shower and tub layouts! I hope your lego sets are repairable! Katie is a huge Thursday Murder Club fan. She has a vlog or two of her reading them. Apologies if you are already aware of that 😉 I enjoyed this update a lot😊 Happy unpacking and creating your home 🥂

Great vlog. So happy to have "met" your mom.

Yay!!! I've been waiting for this video!! ❤❤❤

Nooo! You totally haven’t been just complaining but GAH, you COULD. That’s so stressful, and having been through something similar (moving dates move last minute and a gap between apartments) TALKING does help. Glad it got better, but still that’s a lot and so unnerving

Moving is always full of challenges. Glad you got into your new place.

Omgggggggggg congrats!!!! Can’t lie I’ve been waiting for this one 👀🫡

Oh my god the drama and the struggle before you were finally in the new house. And then the drama continues with the neighbors! Hopefully everything will calm down soon. 🙈

Those vague emails are nuts, they've had more than enough time to get their side sorted out. They should be pushing the people on their end NOT yours. Makes me wonder if the person before you dropped out for a different reason.

omfg your cat hanging out with your other cats⚱️😭💚

That Maleficent look is a SLAY😍 I need to start decluttering my house asap now as my move’s creeping closer but it’s so daunting! This has motivated me to get a move on though😅

I’m so excited for you!!

Your new kitchen is a massive upgrade! I am really happy for you

Yay!!!! So happy for you, Gavin! You got this!

Fast Car! I am living for the soundtrack of this feature film!