Please also interview Singaporean guys who dated Japanese girls, and Japanese girls who dated Singaporean guys and see all the responses too.

@sushmagadkari2181

Жыл бұрын

यरयययथधदःणचचच😮नमस्कार टाईम भथलजतभ😐😅😊😊😂😊

@lucyfiniarel2347

4 ай бұрын

Sg guys sound like an upgrade from the crazy Confucian misogyny going on in Japan lol.

Thank you Ghib-san for having us (me again)! 🙇🏻‍♀️✨🥰 It was a fun exchange and it's nice to learn from Japanese POV~🇯🇵 Of course, the things we said were mostly from our experiences (culture shock). Definitely not all Japanese guys are like what we mentioned and not all Singaporean girls think like us, thus it can be subjective. Although we may not have mentioned much, there's also many nice things about Japanese culture that we love too❣️🎌 I personally feel that being in any form of relationship (can be even friendship), takes 2 hands to clap so it's good to learn/understand from each other and also to accept each other's differences/mindset/background. P.S. I hope that we don't scare people with negative 🦁 image about SG girls, there's so many nice and friendly girls out there~ please give them chance ok🙏🏻🥹🙇🏻‍♀️ 🇸🇬

I really liked these 2 ladies! They are so candid! Truly SG!

@GhibOjisan

Жыл бұрын

Yea they are awesome!!

I think bringing your girlfriend or boyfriend to meet your family members just after 2 weeks of dating is not good. It kind of gives the wrong signals when u hardly know the character of the other party. U need to observe your partner for at least 6 months and get to know the character, personality etc more deeply before introducing to your parents. Parents will usually form their 1st initial impressions of the partner. It’s always good to be frank & sincere and to voice up gently instead of keeping things bottle up as once the volcano blows up it’s too scary and too late. Do remember that during dating period, both parties usually put forward their best aspect forward. U need to see beyond that before confirming is he /she the right person for u and your family. Marriage is not just 2 persons getting together, it’s also bringing both parties’ families into a in-law relationship. Surely u want both sides to bless the couple and both in-law families to be harmonious.

Such a fun way to open the video 😂😂 Speaking as a female though, I prefer to live life simply (not all girls are this scary 🤣). I've been trying to understand some Japanese culture and mindsets (for travel purpose) through other KZreadrs so I guess the behaviours are understandable i.e. how privacy is valued and how they're not really exposed to foreign cultures (so they are really unaware as a result). If anyone is really looking to date a Japanese, it's best to learn the culture first before jumping in 😁

Wah, I really like this video. I don't agree that Singaporeans showing their private lives openly on social media. Some of us are rather private and reserved by nature. Perhaps I'm old school but meeting with parents should be done when the relationship's in a stable phase. All in all, it depends from each individual. Ghib, maybe do a video with parents of Japanese+Singaporean couples on their views of their children's partners?

Love to see Ghib-san getting grilled by 3 Singaporean ladies lol! It's all about cultural differences, mindset and preferences. Some people like it slow, some like it quick. Some like to maintain the halal gap some likes it touchy, you just need to find the right partner that could cater to your needs. A little differences is alright as long you're happy with your partner. Thank you for this insightful video coming from a Singaporean man haha!

That was a really fun opening! Diyana and Andrina were so sporting! Nice to see Andrina back! 二人とも面白い人ね！wwwww!

you must feel safe in the train? the way he said he damn funny😂

I agree with the Japanese culture of keeping privacy and not allowing social media posts of photos in a relationship too frequently. That's because of the issues of scammers and abuse of photos under certain disgusting traits evil people will endorse in.

I laughed when Ghib's wife said, "People think you are siao" when Ghib suggested girls to dress up to hawker ctrs.

Eating with mouth open is NOT a Singaporean thing!!! :x

@x3Kiko

Жыл бұрын

Paiseh sia!!!! I have learnt my lesson 🙏🏻🙇🏻‍♀️

@chocolatecheeks5781

Жыл бұрын

Where got people eat with mouth open? I will be put off too

@E1N101

3 ай бұрын

When we were working with a TV crew from Singapore the ALL ate with their mouth open making loud chewing noises and sometimes talking. So maybe there is something to it?

It's nice video! I kinda understand Japanese culture... And also Yogibo is so great! I tried Yogibo at Suntec and was amazing! I will definitely buy one!

My Japanese boyfriend is kind of like Singaporean men acting, he express himself pretty direct 😂 and doesn't really care what outside people thinks of him

@LinksRoyal

Жыл бұрын

I much prefer direct than indirect.

Ah great enjoyment to watch your video, as always happy to know more interesting topics so cute. 😂👍🌷❤️

@GhibOjisan

Жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it

It's definitely not common to meet gf's family after dating for only 2 weeks. Your friend was right to reject the girl's invitation and it's not really a cultural thing, more like a common sense sensible thing. But of course there's a correct way to turn down the invitation isntead of outright no.

Hmmm..I think when it comes to dating we need to understand and respect each other’s differences especially if he is from a different country. He grew up with that kind of culture. When a guy really loves you, he will do everything for you without you demanding for it. He will adjust for you. You cannot force someone to change for you though.

@chocolatecheeks5781

Жыл бұрын

Agree you Dont have to demand for the princess treatment. Be it from local guys or foreign guys

You guys are so so so cute ❤

Actually chinese culture also same lah. You dont eat with mouth open. I would say it is the culture upbringing lah. They are not brought up the asia way.

@x3Kiko

Жыл бұрын

Oops so Paiseh sia I think I throw our Singaporean Chinese face 😭 it was an embarassing point out but now I've learnt! 🙇🏻‍♀️

@supreme87878

Жыл бұрын

@@x3Kiko although i am not that old but i was brought up by my teochew grandma hence a lot of thing that singaporeans fascinated about i was not even surprised, like the korea hierarchy thingy. I wouldnt say this is throw face thing lah. Different family got different style lah, nowadays a lot of chinese family didnt really instil the traditional way because of the english speaking environment and also because of the modern liberal way. That is no right or wrong, but as to say whatever race culture as a whole then that will be another story. 一起加油↖(^ω^)↗

Yah. You should do a video of Singaporean guys dated Japanese girls. Actually you did one similar video if you recall the video of a Japanese girl working in the rojak stall for her Singaporean husband. Because after that video, my impression of Japanese girl was like "Wow"!

Interesting convo! But I don't agree that everything re your relationship needs to be on social media. Sometimes you want to keep your life private and you don't need to broadcast your situation to the world. Just live your life and be happy.

In regards to dining etiquette, I think many Singaporeans open their mouths unconsciously while eating, because we don't have very strict table manners. My wife, who is a Japanese, used to warn me from time to time, even though I didn't intentionally open my mouth while eating. It was quite frustrating. 😅(Intentional relationships/marriages take ALOT of commitment and understanding for it to work) Now that I'm attuned to Japanese rules and customs, I've also become quite sensitive to my family's table manners (opening mouth, chewing sounds, slurping sounds etc.) when I return to SG.

Hi Ghib, i feel it’s not true that all japanese don’t show affection in public. But i feel it might be their personality or environment influencing their thinking. My husband is japanese and im Singaporean, i think he is traditional but he does say “love you” because i do say that to him. It’s just a type of way to express ❤. But there are many ways too. So i feel it is not entirely about nationality but personality too. Really enjoyed this topic. 👍

so funny... maybe can do one on dating japanese girls in sg hahah.. then can know their views of sg guys

2 week into relationship, n so soon introduce him to family! Too fast lah. I m a lady but I not in favour of this. I m not kiasu kiasi! If u r meant for each other, will be tog lah! I m past that stage when I was younger but I m wiser now.

It is polite to eat with mouth closed , so that others sitting at the same table cannot see the food that you have chewed up in your mouth. Even in the Western world/ countries, they see people who eat with mouth closed are polite (eating manners).

haha. watching Ghib kena roasted by wifey is always a bonus feature.

This is so classic bro !

I totally agree with Ghib-san. I am a Singaporean, I do not think it is appropriate to be touchy on the train. It is very distracting. It shows lack of consideration of people around them. This is no different from people who talk loudly on their mobile while on the train. I really enjoyed my train ride in Japan. I saw a few instances when people needed to talk on their mobile when the train was not crowded, they would move away from their seat to a corner and speak softly.

This is a nice video, with more controversial content that is balanced with humor. Also like listening to the contrast of both cultures.

@GhibOjisan

Жыл бұрын

Appreciate it James! Glad you enjoyed

Nice conversation

Girls, stop being so needy! Men in general are ‘cooler’ and would rather be less touchy freely. If you feel insecure going out with someone who likes a more dignified approach, find someone else. Otherwise, try to be a little empathetic as high expectations often lead to bigger disappointment. Life is too short, just enjoy the moment and not be in such a hurry! All fun and joy, words and appropriate actions are all important in any relationship and friendship. Respect cultural differences and enjoy them! ❤️

This is a fun exchange. In California - I did not meet my son's girlfriends parents for 3 years; between Covid, and me just being a bit shy (ok, very shy) and introverted. But mostly I did not think it was necessary to meet her parents for a long time until the relationship was more serious. I don't want to get in the way of their relationship by causing any kind of tension parent-to-parent. My son did show up at my house with his girlfriend after dating her for a month. I've grown to love her like a daughter over the three years I've known her. Her parents love my son too. Eventually we met and hit it off. But it can be awkward for the parents too, if the relationship is not solid yet. Give the parent thing some time. That being said, everyone is different. I feel like if it was my daughter, I want to know who she is dating right away. With a son I worry less.

That was entertaining to watch😂

Hi Ghib あの　土下座　😜🤣,, , its interesting to hear mix dating,, that yogibo looks interesting, must chec it out, thks for d info Ghib,, Hi to the girls 😅😀

Very entertaining point of view. I think it all comes down to culture norm. Majority Sg girls i know cares more about fulfilling their own emotional needs before others which also cultivate strong independent thanking. It is pretty common Sg girls wear the pant in the family.

@aero.l

Жыл бұрын

Majority SG men also care more about fulfilling their own emotional needs before others. In SG, we generally abide by the concept of taking care of ourselves before taking care of others.

Haha wish I can provide you with more HP! I'm the weird type where I won't wanna post on social media and also won't intro to my friends or family until like.... months later?

A nice pl will be for birthdays, anniversary, celebrations of promotions etc.

Bro, you are not alone! I agree with you and how you think... they are crazy lah... hahahaha fun video bro

it is an interesting video i enjoy it watching it

@GhibOjisan

Жыл бұрын

Glad to hear that!

Ha ha I only know slightly about Japanese people through my fav J-pop group MAX for close to 20+ years and my three years of working at a multinational Japanese firm in Singapore. Actually, keeping romantic behavior in check is overall an Asian thing and not just Japanese. Singaporeans are very much exposed to western vibe since young due to our English education and movies/TV that we watch so that our needs/thinking in many aspects are in line with the western way.

This is so hilarious. I think I still feel that Japanese are very prim and proper and I liked their culture very much. Singaporeans on the whole still got a lot to learn from Japanese

@CC-dx6bc

Жыл бұрын

Yeah Singaporean girls are very rough and crude

Ahahahahaha the intro!

These two r cute n pretty lah - let the bees come to you.

Not holding hand in front of your friends? That seems disrespectful to your gf/wife because you feel paiseh. It’s like you think she isn’t as important to you than your “face”. Woman’s perspective not SG girl opinion just a modern girl’s opinion.

This video, the guests are so cute and funny! I think most of us can agree with them hahaha 😂

I think after this video your wife prepared two durian shell waiting for you to go home 😂😂😂

@GhibOjisan

Жыл бұрын

How did you know?

@shadowj3311

Жыл бұрын

@@GhibOjisan do I get it right? 😂😂

Interesting 🤔 to know.. actually Singapore men are very loving in mrt liao. Haha😂 but I can understand coming from Japan culture this is too "warm" .

So brave!!!!!

文化の違いもありますがgenerationの違いもあるような。電車内でのイチャイチャにはたまに眼をそむけたくなることがあるのが本音です。

Mostly but not all in Japan and Korea, you will only be introduced to the parents when you are already planning to get married. :D

Hmm... eating with mouth open, making noises, is definitely not Singaporean thing! Being a 3rd SG generation in my family, I'm taught to eat with mouth closed since a kid otherwise it's extremely rude.

確かにけっこう痛い所突いてるけど彼女達の言う日本人の男性はちょっと極端でステレオタイプかな～？日本人男性でも良い意味でも悪い意味でもはっきりと自分の思ってる事言うヤツけっこういるし特に自分が過去に住んでた神戸ではその傾向が強い(女性もしかり‼️)

@GhibOjisan

Жыл бұрын

彼女たちの経験からはなしていただいているので、確かに男性みんながそうではないですね！

As a Singaporean guy, i also think the points discussed were valid on Ghib's point of view. Am i being weird or do you singaporean guys also feel the same way? Or am i too japanese at heart? 😅

So funny....😂. I feel I'm more like a Japanese man..less romantic but glad my wife didn't complain.

I haven't dated a Japanese girl but ive dated a Chinese mainland girl She is very sweet and kind 😊❤️

I agree with Ghib-san that it is not just a Japanese thing to eat with mouth closed. It is same for Europeans and Americans. Also, it is not just Japanese men who spent a lot of time after office to go and drink with colleagues and business associates; the same with China people from major cities and Hong Kong people. It is a Singapore thing for men to go back home after work.

@s._3560

11 ай бұрын

I understand some are even obliged to socialise on weekends playing golf with the boss. I hope Singapore doesn't change. Colleagues should socialise at lunchtime or the occasional work functions. After work, quality time should be spent with the spouse and children. It makes for stronger family bonds. Singaporeans need to have a good work-life balance.

I hope all Japanese guys, after watching this, do not think all Singaporean girls are like these two ladies. There are some of us who don't text alot, don't post our private/personal life issues in social media, likes to be hugged, engage in hand-holding, touches while out with significant other. Not sure if these two ladies are really fluent in Japanese, but surprised why they had no idea of typical Japanese behaviour and outlook in general, and fail to cater to that. I think they are more suited for local guys or ang moh guys. Overall, an interesting video :)

@aero.l

Жыл бұрын

You mean there are some of you that suck at communication like the Japanese men that have never been abroad? So you will drink alcohol even if it's against your religion? Noted.

@Sephira08

Жыл бұрын

@@aero.l We have better things to do than social media, and prefer to communicate face to face.There is a very fine line between being direct and rude so ample tact is required including taking into consideration of where the other person is from. Even if people do certain things that is against their religion, that is their right and freedom and most importantly, between them and God, and not for us to judge.

@aero.l

Жыл бұрын

@@Sephira08 I didn't ask you your opinion on people doing things that are against their religion. I'm asking if you will drink alcohol if it's against your religion.

@Sephira08

Жыл бұрын

@@aero.l There are people who are allergic to alcohol. Atheist here, but I respect all religions and how people practice their religion is not for us to judge.

Sporean gals bring guys to meet family after 2 weeks of dating, cause want to BTO fast fast. Wait 1 year later housing price already increase until don’t know where already 😂

You seem to have good ideas..haha

Nice grilling party. LOL!

I don't post our photos on social media. Yes, Ghib Ojisan is correct... not all man like social media. Even your bf is chop and stamp doesn't mean is yours. Trust your man... 🙂

As a Singaporean guy, I agree with the Japanese guy complaining about having to upload relationships to social media. Our lives are not for farming likes for narcissists, it's tacky and nauseating. I'm glad my wife isn't that awful.

❤❤❤

シンガポールのみなさん、ヨギボーはガチで良いですよ。 日本で好調すぎて、日本の会社がアメリカのヨギボーを平和的に買収しました。

@neworIeans

Жыл бұрын

ヨギボーサイコーーーー

Hahaha maybe im traditional but i only introduce my partners to my family at least 1 year after dating.

Well you asked for it and you got it😂😂😂

Erm, chewing with the mouth open is generally frowned up in almost every culture! I get super turned off if I dined with anyone doing that, male or female alike… 🙈

I thought Japanese love Singapore because its so easy. They dont have to put on a facade and be themselves. So PDA, being Direct should be easy

Really enjoy the comments. #dontdatelocal

OHMOOI SHIREEH🤣

open mouth chewing is not a singaporean thing but a family and environment thing lol. I can't stand people who openly display the way food is being grinded down to me while dining together.... it's really a major turn off....

I also agree that wanting to meet your boyfriend’s parents after 2 weeks is way too fast. I agree with @ghib-ojisan that we should wait longer, maybe near 1 year after dating.. i also agree why do i need to “announce “ our relationship to the world on social media? It should be a special and private thing between 2 people. On the shampoo part mentioned by one of the ladies, why not just rectify the situation by buying the correct shampoo instead of wasting time asking if she should go and buy again ? Obviously the other party will say “No’ out of courtesy. , be it Japanese or non Japanese guy. LOL. Im commenting from a true blue SG girl point of view

Hahaha !! My Husband SG guy behaving like a Japanese Man. All he does Hold hands only... no touchy or hugging in public

@cocaineminor4420

Жыл бұрын

I think it's the same everywhere It's because guys are too shy in public

ジブさん、シンガポール女子にタジタジですね（笑） 在星時、街を歩くカップルを見るにつけて「そんなちっこいバック、彼氏に持たせるの？」と思ったもんです笑 女子が強い印象でした。

These gals r young n hence expectations quite a bit. Don't hurry to expect a lot fm guys. Slow n easy win the race! U will scare them off!😷

the right term is not "feel safe" the right term might be "sense of connection" lol

Hi Ghib san,can please help to ask japanese embassy to check how many bombs japanese soldiers left over in Singapore during WW2? We were so scared when we heard that a 100kg bomb was found in a Bukit Timah construction site in Sep2023. Please ask them to check as soon as possible so that SAF can go help to remove the bomb if there are still some more left in Singapore. We are so worried one day a bomb may explode suddenly out of nowhere in Singapore. Thanks 😊

I feel if they complain or whine it is better not to date.

In korean -> 杀人黑油 💖

私は日本人としか付き合ったことがないけど、「好きじゃなかったら付き合ってないよ」って言われるのが不思議。 あなたのその態度でこっちが好きじゃなくなるんですけど？私があなたのことを永遠に嫌いにならないと勘違いしてない？って思っちゃう。

6:40 - homogeneous not heterogeneous

JIPPUN BLOOD lmao

恋愛観は個人の自由でいいけど、 最初の方の飲酒の強制は聞き捨てならないね。 同じ日本人として謝りたい。

I’m neutral but my thoughts is that sgrean girls are overly sheltered and empowered. They need to stop complaining, step outside and learn to be appreciative since they are so entitled

This is hilarious

Too funny!😂 SG girls seem to be high maintenance girls.😁

If Japanese man shy, why there are so many molest (chikan) cases happened when women travelling by subway get molested by men who acted like animals / barbarians

She feel unsafe in the MRT Train ? どうして？ 面白いですね。😅

It’s all about the money money money..

Great video, but man that Singapore accent is driving me nuts

@cocaineminor4420

Жыл бұрын

Depends some Singaporean don't have a heavily sg accent some have some don't have.

本当に難しいですね。😅🎉 😂😂😂

Japanese not posting and that kinda contributes to the high cheating rate. I feel

@QueenieMae-pj6em 0 seconds ago Eating with mouth open is a bad table etiquette. People find it annoying when you’re chewing the food with noise.

TLDR: Don't date SG girls 🤣

open mouth eating is Bad Table Manners! eat with open mouth is just like an animal

6:57 the whosoever guy that is. All i can say is. Kiwais fakloy.

Wait, why is your wife not in the video? :) *Okay, I know you cherish privacy a lot and respect that... haha, but many people are curious. She sounds like a very nice person.

日本人の社会人で恋人の写真をSNSにあげまくってラブラブアピールしてたら、ちょっと痛い人だと思われる気がしますね😅 電車の中でイチャイチャしてるのも好意的に見る人は少ないかも…文化の違いって面白いですね✨

🤣🤣🤣