If a guy likes you he will want to see you, if he is only texting and not making dates, guess what? He doesn't like you.

@redfather5342

5 жыл бұрын

Not true

@clairedelunepapika8111

4 жыл бұрын

Ouch really

@Jan-bc3ed

4 жыл бұрын

what if they're nervous to meet you? like maybe the girl is super pretty but the guy thinks he won't be able to live up to his expectations type of thing

@lindazhang8004

4 жыл бұрын

@@Jan-bc3ed I AGREE

@marlieesworklifeadventures

4 жыл бұрын

Or they are dating others..

When even Matthew Hussey is getting curved, you know it’s hard out there

@xuxushushu

4 жыл бұрын

Sarah Santiago fr

@shananne81

4 жыл бұрын

Lol so true

@mrs_is_the_name3377

4 жыл бұрын

Rt

@avaava4669

4 жыл бұрын

Sarah Santiago.. seriously I was thinking the same thing.

@markspancing9343

3 жыл бұрын

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Guy was only texting, I got annoyed, I decided to ask him if he had any plans for saturday, he replied back with a lame excuse, he continued texting and I just stop replying back, why waste my time?

@littlemissblueminecraft5068

8 жыл бұрын

You are so right

@camiii_2468

8 жыл бұрын

the same thing happened to me

@ValiCarry

8 жыл бұрын

But why do they do it? I can't find the reason

@daniargie

8 жыл бұрын

They are bored and want attention, also might want to make you hang in there until they decide if they want to see you or not. And if they do it's prolly just to get laid.

@ValiCarry

8 жыл бұрын

Why so little respect? It makes me so mad...

If a guy acts like this, start talking to other guys because more than likely, he’s seeing or talking to someone else, so unless he steps up, don’t just give all your focus to him.

Drop a guy who doesn't put an effort to see you because you are just wasting your time texting him and to him you are just a diversion to his boredom.

@redfather5342

4 жыл бұрын

If you ain't trying fuck what did you expect

@ilex161

3 жыл бұрын

@@redfather5342 lol did she say that?

@msprettykawaii950

3 жыл бұрын

TRue, you will regret it if you have kids with him

Only texting is disrespectful and if you are disrespected you need to walk away. Wish them luck, because they will need a lot of it.

People who just use you as a side texter, do not deserve any attention you have to give him. Good video.

@daynamartinez1983

10 жыл бұрын

I agree I wuld nvr do that 2 him that chick has nnoooo idea how hard it is 2 come across like matthew n 2 be legit hmmmm

@nstruebluey39

10 жыл бұрын

Dayna Martinez I was thinking the same thing :-)

@daynamartinez1983

10 жыл бұрын

Natalie ☺ 2 do that is #icant team too much

@nstruebluey39

10 жыл бұрын

Dayna Martinez I agree. People eventually get tired of that.

@johnwilliams469

9 жыл бұрын

Natalie Cherie People who just text don't really want to connect with you on any intimate level.

Unfortunately, the actual conversation is becoming a lost art.

@MsSamanthaTKO

5 жыл бұрын

2019 "now non existent

@BeingBrandy

3 жыл бұрын

Imagine it Now

@KurosakiLuvar01

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it is

@redfather5342

2 жыл бұрын

If you want to talk so badly go talk to him in person

Me: I miss your voice, we haven't spoken in so long Guy: * sends three words voice clip then keeps texting *

@judy9521

6 жыл бұрын

Maria Oca - did you say anything to him about it?

@ZXY86

6 жыл бұрын

Maria Oca haha

@miamiorange00

6 жыл бұрын

Hahaha omg. Such jerks

@amaragrace94

6 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@carineii6747

6 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha! Oh my gosh! 😂

This advice actually worked...I text the one about being a robot..he responded a day later...we text some more then I ghosted him. He later text me a long text about who he is and friend requested me on FB..too bad he took too long because while he was texting I met a man who called and stole my heart.

@ebunoluwataiwo9975

5 жыл бұрын

Eleborate

@khaoulamejri1693

4 жыл бұрын

Wow good for u I can't wait until this happen to me!

@shellyroch3622

4 жыл бұрын

Niceee

@kimpollard434

4 жыл бұрын

I need that kind of luck. I keep somehow meeting these sexually deprived men who are pigs when texting.

@lindazhang8004

4 жыл бұрын

@@kimpollard434 HAHAHAHAHA. FEEL THE SAME

Talking on the phone gets in the way of them texting other people while they are texting you.

@humblecornellious4251

3 жыл бұрын

omg this is amazing

@KurosakiLuvar01

3 жыл бұрын

Exactttllyyyyyyyyyy

@beatriceli4615

2 жыл бұрын

Their brain is with someone else, can't concentrate on you for more than 3 minutes.

@YouTubeUzername

3 ай бұрын

They can still text other people while on the phone though.

Alot of older men are starting to do this....40's 50's, 60's. It's outrageous.

@penlopekambanje5622

6 жыл бұрын

Matt just text the guy " my fingers hurt", you will definitely get a response

@Bonner901

4 жыл бұрын

True fact! I can't stand it either!

@claudiafigueiredo4979

4 жыл бұрын

Tell me about it!!!😤

@ab.a683

4 жыл бұрын

They can't hold a conversation. What a shame?!!

@princesssophiawise3560

3 жыл бұрын

Means they’re married. Pathetic men!

When a guy texts me a third time without having called, I respond by saying,, "who is this,? I think you have the wrong person." If he responds by texting I don't answer. Ever. I need the texting to be the exception, not the normal mode of conversation. Know your worth. You are worthy of a phone call and more.

@juanitapnash738

8 жыл бұрын

I agree, only I go a little farther, only one text just to make sure I know the person. If not no more text.

@ashleyramillano1094

7 жыл бұрын

Tanya Carson I'm sure your still single with how you commented lol

@MissBanks777

6 жыл бұрын

Ashley Ramillano read the previous comments. Even when you do ask for a call. You might not get one or you may get called for a short period of time and then the guy still isn't interested

@myjim1121

6 жыл бұрын

You madam are a savage and i love you

@redheadedfreckles2

6 жыл бұрын

Tanya Carson amen..

Trash a guy who only text you, he's not worth it.

@redfather5342

5 жыл бұрын

What makes you say that

@redfather5342

4 жыл бұрын

@@DemonRose69 you sound entitled maybe you need to wake up and smell the coffee

@Khrystal-wl6kz

4 жыл бұрын

@@redfather5342 It's not a matter of being entitled. If I'm seeing a man and sleeping with him, a phone call is necessary here and there. Honestly. Would you want to give your body to someone who you can't call in the event of an emergency? If the answer is no, you have respect for yourself then.

@redfather5342

4 жыл бұрын

@@Khrystal-wl6kz you can't 'give' your body to nobody what kind of retarded logic do you have also just because some guy is fucking doesn't mean he owes you anything

@lindazhang8004

4 жыл бұрын

Haha true and then they will be no guy left

To me if a guy don't reach out, especially in the beginning, I'm out. I've been burnt in love and learned a valuable lesson: better be single than in a toxic relationship.

means he wants to be single. he is not interested so leave him alone

@chuckie826

7 жыл бұрын

Shantell McShane no prob hes seeing someone else, and will come back to you when it fails, but still just someone to kill time with, so just bullshit, next!

@Jojosiwo

6 жыл бұрын

he is gay.

@ilex161

3 жыл бұрын

@@chuckie826 makes sense

@redfather5342

2 жыл бұрын

Hell yeh

I think the problem is that guys like this generally won't change their behavior. They do it with the intent of keeping their options open, not just because they're flakey. Don't waste your time y'all, not even worth playing that game. Calling him out or even insinuating a phone call won't inspire him to try harder. These guys are THE WORST- apathetic as all hell and use you as a fall-back because your attention is convenient. Run for the hills the second you notice the pattern. You don't owe him no damn explanation.

@ozakay6833

7 жыл бұрын

N0LANI trues up. thank you 😀😀

@chuckie826

7 жыл бұрын

N0LANI yea! The best way is just simply dont reply, leaving him like an idiot. I was dealing with a guy like that too, we girls can try give initative ONCE, like letting him know you are free & if theres no more action but just texting, stop replying. He uses you for his backup but we have the choice not being his backup, ill go meet some other guys until he proactively asks me out again.

@thrilla72

6 жыл бұрын

chuckie826 You'll end up missing out on otherwise great guys. Communication is key in any relationship. Men are not mind readers and not all women are the same. Some women feel a guy is too pushy if he calls her. At least give him the chance to try.

@jackob334

6 жыл бұрын

I did it out of insecurence, now i feel like a horrible person :'(

@Adbee123

6 жыл бұрын

N0LANI word. For, word. You nail it!

How about just ignoring his text completely

I don't think I have the energy to go the extra mile like in a relationship if you only text me when your bored. If you don't like me enough to want to call me or hang out with me, why should I even bother inviting you places and texting you. If someone truly likes you, you shouldn't have to pull teeth for them to do more than just texting you. It's a waste of time. There's someone out there who would love to talk/hang out with you. That's just how I feel.

@BROOK69BANKS

5 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯💯💯

@Shadowsong10

5 жыл бұрын

That is what men thinking about women.Congrats u just spoke what men thought about women behaviour.

@redfather5342

2 жыл бұрын

No one gives a damn about how u feel

Dealing with one of these guys now. And he's always saying "I want to see you do this..." "We should do this..." "I wish blablabla so we could blablabla" and just never makes plans and when I try to he's flaky as fuck. It sucks. But I'm moving on now. Like you said, it's not attractive and it's just a bore.

@courtneyfleischman2338

8 жыл бұрын

Definitely the worst. Sometimes I don't understand why those types of guys even bother. I guess just for their own gratification.

@naomitran3182

7 жыл бұрын

Sydney Dively same here :(

@denig2000able

5 жыл бұрын

Sydney I literally just done this to a guy this very minute. I await to see if I even hear from him tomorrow! As they say ......NEXT!!!!!

@ilex161

3 жыл бұрын

@Diana Art xD

@lamuel4004

3 жыл бұрын

He was dating others sorry .

This is EVERY guy I've dealt with that I've met from online dating sites. It's pathetic. I've tried the cute flirty way & I've tried the nasty way that you mentioned lol It's very depressing that people nowadays lack humanity/respect for a person & behave cowardly. Thanks Matt!! Glad you know how to communicate 😄

@Starseedfaeriexx

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly. This is why I don't waste my time with dating sites. Lames

@kaprinawhite1288

5 жыл бұрын

I thought this was only me,I’m kind of relieved that I’m not the only one..EVERY single guy that I have spoken to from online dating is exactly this way.im done with it all now,iv spent so much time with online dating.

@lazarcatalina1176

5 жыл бұрын

yOUR NOT THE ONLY ONE.SAME HERE! IS like a virus that spread,They are crazy, I was a nice girl,saying ok text during work,but at least one day per wek after woork,let saay thursday after 22 pm talk. I was called rude be ci wanna talk.i blocked them.Idont tolerate any bs anymore.i cut in raw meat.Next!

@victorialsaint9046

5 жыл бұрын

Online dating are the chatters... All they do is texting! The Texter,! And they have long list of supplies 😂😂😂

@mariahconklin4150

2 жыл бұрын

You’ve got to realize to where men are coming from has the guy been rejected because that can really bring him down a lot it’s awful to feel rejected so maybe that’s why guys don’t try

Just ended this with a man that was elusive about getting together. Wished him a good day and good luck. Im no ones pen pal.

I don't think it is really worth putting efforts for someone who communicates to you like that. It means that they are really not that into you. Not worth the effort to win them over.

@sanacole1543

7 жыл бұрын

I love your post. I agree 100,00%

@shellywatson2784

5 жыл бұрын

Well put, don't waste your time on someone who doesn't care enough or respect you enough to want to talk to you.

I don’t like playing games. But for the sake of it, when the ball is in my court, I’m fair and check it back. But when he has the ball and suddenly takes eons to play again.... I take my ball and go home. No explanation no further contact. Just go.

They should find a person who also like texting date so they can have texting date together!!

@heymilli

3 жыл бұрын

I dunno why but this really made me laugh 😂 lol!

@somadebnath1901

3 жыл бұрын

Girl.....this is so funny 😂😂

@KurosakiLuvar01

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr? Why the hell won’t they just find someone who is just as insecure? Lol

@redfather5342

2 жыл бұрын

@@KurosakiLuvar01 how are they insecure?

When they text with those long gaps, normally they are dating other people.

@wenzmeetup8643

5 жыл бұрын

or they tell you they are on business trips expanding their business (when really probably with that wife that they married 3 years ago and bragged about online and forgot about the remark. I find it hard to believe someone can marry a 2nd time and divorce that fast).

@anietje78

5 жыл бұрын

No it means they dont have manners! Simple! I always texted right away wen i got a text. But i never got a response wen he red it. Thats rude ! And not well mannered. But now i give him a taste of his own medicine. Im done treated like shit.

@dwisdomNYC

5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!!!!

@Starseedfaeriexx

5 жыл бұрын

I believe this comment cause it's from a guy

@lolacookie453

4 жыл бұрын

What is considered a long gap?

They're are many reasons why he texts and doesn't call: 1. He has been staying with a very strict order of nuns who have asked him to join them in a vow silence. Texting is his only option. 2. He knows the Sister Wives would get jealous if they were to overhear. 3. He is green and red colorblind so he tries to call but keeps hitting "End" instead. 4. There is a really bad echo in his mom's basement. 5. He is hard of hearing since that insane Yanni concert and can only shout now when speaking. 6. He is a phone calling addict and he's on Step 5 of his recovery. One Day at a Time! 7. Guinness World Record Holder for Number of Marbles in Mouth. 8. Afraid to reveal he talks like Mickey Mouse on helium. 9. Shanking his cell mate means no phone calls, only texting, as punishment. 10. He's only setting the bar as low as you allow!!!

@eyesisee

7 жыл бұрын

I laughed so hard, I can't lol

@marijagrujicic1370

7 жыл бұрын

TheShabby Attic ahahaga echo in his Mom's basement and marbles 😂 lmfao

@andreatamati9813

7 жыл бұрын

he will stop txt then

@gizemuysal4031

6 жыл бұрын

TheShabby Attic bravo 😂😂😂😂

@beatricetoscano2247

6 жыл бұрын

This was so fun 😂😂

Thank GOD I found this video. I thought I was the only one experiencing this and thought maybe I was doing something wrong. To be honest with me no shits are given anymore, I've just stopped replying to him. :)

@judy9521

6 жыл бұрын

GracefulDanny - good for you.👏 his loss.

@toyaross8391

6 жыл бұрын

GracefulDanny omg agreed

@waseeliya6198

5 жыл бұрын

GracefulDanny hi

@preciousdavid8854

5 жыл бұрын

Am in thesame mess

@shellyroch3622

4 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing. I just found this video. I'm gonna back off from him. He's a waste of my time. It's gonna hurt but better sooner than later.

Love that you specified how many "W"s to use in "yawwwwn." So precise!

@kristenk708

5 жыл бұрын

he was joking! you can put as many as you like

I could have sworn you were going to say "I've noticed something about you...you only text me when you are bored" at 2:48 lol maybe I am just a straight savage but I have texted that before and was even thanked for my honesty

@addiec.6859

7 жыл бұрын

love that lol

@deespeaks._6315

4 жыл бұрын

Must b nice

@KurosakiLuvar01

3 жыл бұрын

Dee Speaks. _ no, they mistake niceness for weakness.

I am currently in this texting situation and I came across with this video. It breaks my heart, but what the video and comments here said is true. I should move on and make other opportunities elsewhere. I thought we had real chemistry. 😥

@moniamonia1009

4 жыл бұрын

The same. It was only texting. It was fun, but it was too long. I cut him off. I do not think he will ever call me. Lately he has told me, that he actuallt doesn't like to text so much. So why didn't he call me? Why did he text with me so long? Out of boredom. I pressume

@oungh9968

3 жыл бұрын

Same here.. Since for few months I'm in texting relationship. I don't know what name shall I actually be given to this relationship.

@jo355

2 жыл бұрын

Don't think people realise how hard this is

@wanderninay

2 жыл бұрын

I'm actually in a texting situation rn. He says he's terrified with calling or video calls. So I respected it and never asked for it since then but I'm getting tired now 😔

This video and the comments here really opened my eyes.....I finally called her up... thank you

Glad I watch this video man I swear this whole texting epidemic is absolutely repulsive I hope as human beings we will eventually move past this. Most people who only text all the time are usually just terrified of face-to-face communication/confrontation it really is a form of social phobia best thing you could ever do is just to not feed into it whatever you do do not text the person back if that’s all they want to do is just text.

Yes! Ppl like that are so annoying and full of sh*t! I dealt with a guy who texted me everyday for a month straight but when I asked him to meet up or to talk with me on the phone he was all of a sudden "too busy." Then after disappearing for two months he started texting me out of the blue like nothing happened. Wtf? Turns out he had a pregnant girlfriend surprise surprise -_-.The best way to deal with those people is to leave them alone because most of the time they are just playing games.

Lol good advice Mathew I just texted him “I don’t like texting, if you want to talk call me” he calls me 8 hrs later! I never answered and will never reply to his text again!

Ugh tose types of guys are so annoying. I had a guy who texted me for 4 months and we only went out once.. despite him saying he really wanted to get to know me better and that he was interested, he kept rescheduling our dates because he said he was too busy with work.. but he never stopped texting me everyday all day. So I decided I wasn't gonna give him the time of my day anymore and started not answering his texts or distancing myself.. and he gradually but surely disappeared. Guess he just needed to feel that somebody cared about him which is kind of sad when I think about it.. but still, I learnt something from this at least!

@thrilla72

6 жыл бұрын

saraiscixiri Texts you all day but you never meet up. Could he possibly not had much money, been unemployed? Hmm

@cindyjames7673

6 жыл бұрын

saraiscixiri I'm kind of dating this guy right now that he don't text me you don't call me unless he needs a ride or something like that this is been going on for 2 weeks he's change Among the Sleep towards me he don't answer his phone when I call him he don't reply to any texts to me unless it's to do for him

@cindyjames7673

6 жыл бұрын

I've been dating this guy for like 8 months and at first everything was all good but now he's changed you don't want to come over in my apartment he doesn't answer any text messages doesn't answer any phone calls and if I do call him he gets really upset I don't know what to do and when he does come over it's always at night time for sex and he leaves and goes home

@thrilla72

6 жыл бұрын

Cindy James I'm afraid it's time to move on. It sounds like you want more than a casual relationship with him. This guy is just not prepared to offer that.

@wenzmeetup8643

5 жыл бұрын

Sariscixini must have been the same man i met LOL

Wait. Someone blew off Matthew? What a foolish woman. Lol

@brittany1484

5 жыл бұрын

The problem is that she's already in love. When women are in love, they become straight up blind to everyone else. It’s like tunnel vision. lol

@shellyroch3622

4 жыл бұрын

@@brittany1484 this is soo true

@rosieramos3760

4 жыл бұрын

I agree!

@celeste7469

4 жыл бұрын

Right! Is there hope for any of us

@aprilh.9625

4 жыл бұрын

@Esha So true.

i refuse to b the backburner plan. Next!

I am a grown woman who grew up before there were text messages or answering machines. I met a guy at a show last week. We chatted for a while and exchanged numbers. Then we parted company. He sent me a text message at 3 am “are you still up?” Next few messages were long questions about my career, personal life, etc. I felt as if I were filling out a job application. If the guy was truly interested in getting to know me he should have written “I am interested in seeing you again and getting to know you”. How about you? May I call you? The concept of meeting up for a date is a lost art. This man is about 45 years old. If he does not know how to ask a woman out in a date, he is a very poor prospect. Truth be told, dating is not a “magic meeting” guarantee for the man or the woman. I feel like a lot of guys want to hook up or just want to message when they think they are going to get some “action”. So lazy and such a turn-off. Most of my boyfriends I had known quite a while before the “magic” happened. A few cute text messages then a drink at my place? I don’t t think so.

4 weeks of texting after 2 dates turned ugly. I expressed my concerns ,that texting is a turn off to me.. I expressed hearing his voice would be better. Called him my penpal. Finally call it off by blocking him . Lol. Selfish , manipulative as he was dating others and was playing games apparently with me.

Thank you so much for this video. It helped me to stop a 'messages' relationship, where nothing was happening, except messages.

I've always loved that Matthew gives women power. A lot of people accuse him of training women to give men what they want, but he's not. He setting a standard for focusing attention on the men that deserve it. How many women waste their time on people who don't give them anything. Yes, he talks about doing things that make a man attracted to you, but he also makes sure you know that you should never put up with bs from someone who hasn't done anything for you. He stresses having a life and pursuing goals before looking for a man because, incidentally, that will make you more attractive anyway. His videos have literally changed my approach to dating and showed me I should never tolerate being treated badly consistently because there are plenty more fish in the sea.

@successful363

Жыл бұрын

It's 5 years now Hope you found peace and love too.

I'm a guy trying to get the girl i want and I have to say Matthew hussey you have helped me so much with your advice , I just reverse your videos from the girl wanting to get the guy to the guy wanting to get the girl.

Do not tolerate someone who's just looking for penpals-you are potentially enabling a very unhealthy person who needs to take initiative getting help for their issues. I once texted back and fourth with a 38 year old guy for a year. It started to become disturbing realising that someone whose old enough to be married with children (another reason to not engage he may just be cheating 👀👀👀) had the habit of a broke teenager addicted to his screen. I stopped responding to his messages and he tried to contact me again, but I let it fizzle out, I'd given him more than enough time to initiate a date. It's a sign that person is unhealthy, socially awkward or thinks it's okay to engage with women he isn't interested in to boost his ego (UNACCEPTABLE). He needs to figure a way to stop relying on his phone for a friendship or relationship. Stop enabling them and stop responding if they won't meet you in person or talk on the phone. That person has something off about them and you don't need to prop them up with a pen pal thing, they need to work on themselves or whatevers stopping them from interacting with not just you but other people in real life.

When you have to beg for a guy to call you, what do you think it will be like later down the line? Save yourself the time and just move on!

I am going through this right now and I do not have the balls to say these things to him so I'm just going to forget about it lol And being cold and distant will make him just go after someone else. Stay single...less frustrating 👍

@chanthana7694

Жыл бұрын

😂 same, I literally have no balls.

This video came in the right time, I cant handle more texting hahaha its so boring..

Advice worked Matthew! After texting sporadically for months, I sent “ ….you loooove texting” suggestion. Got an actual phone call minutes after!!

This is actually my life right now lol

so glad I found this channel. Really useful advices, and it helps to sober up from crush and think about what I actually want, what I need, what I deserve... Thank you, Matthew.

Just tell him "texting is void and virtual, if you are interested let's set a date to meet in person soon". Quit being afraid to say what you want. If he doesn't respond or say yes, you have your answer and can move on to someone who is mature and interested. Set the bar from the get go.

@dunno9004

Жыл бұрын

so true..

OMG just wanna thank you a mill for this helpful video. Met a guy 2 wks. ago& he was being more than flaky w/ only the sporadic txts.( which I told I don't like). I watched this video on Sun& called him out like you advised. Basically saying lets meet. He was taking long intervals rtng. my texts but eventually said he was already out somewhere watching football & we'd either have to meet later( On a Sunday, mind you)or we could link up nxt. week.... I THINK NOT!..... I did what you said & gave no reply.... Well now he's even calling and leaving voice mails.. LOL....I'm no longer interested cause this proved that he was indeed a jerk content on stringing me along since he thought I liked him... There are plenty of decent fish in the sea, I'll just be patient. I will also be exerting coldness quickly if recognize any pattern of flakiness fr a guy who is not worth my time... THANK U, THANK U, THANK U

@thrilla72

6 жыл бұрын

sana cole It sounds like he didn't want to come on too keen in the beginning. Guys can often end up getting rejected for showing too much interest. It's difficult to get the balance right as each person is different. I'd say if he's making effort, might be worth reconsidering.

Most of this advice kind of doesn't really get to the bottom of what the problem is. It is separating the guys that are interested and will put in the work of a relationship from the ones that don't. None of those "trick texts" do anything, nobody changes their tactics and how much they like you based on any of this. You are just going through a little "test" that helps YOU get that difference, who is interested/worthy and who is not. So now you know who to drop or they drop you. You can't make a guy that is not interested in your suddenly change around and like you and start calling and stepping up the dating behavior.

I met a guy online and after he texted me a few days, I became annoyed that he lacked initiative. So, I texted him back, the "You looooooove to text," message. His response: "Is that okay?" Really dude... Ugh, such a turn-off. That was a signal that he was planning to pull that time-wasting nonsense for a very long time. It's a great way to weed out the time wasters from people that are serious about getting to know you.

@redfather5342

2 жыл бұрын

You do relize texting is faster and more efficient right

As soon as l realized this was happening to me l decided to cut him out of my life. The end.

HAHA. I love that you said "this guy sucks". Love you!

@redfather5342

4 жыл бұрын

He may suck but you swallow

Does the girl realize what a great guy she lost? 😆😉 I adore his kindness and that smile!

One guy wrote to me in the very first chat between us: "Maybe one day we will have a coffee together" and his next phrase was: "Can I add you to my friendshiplist on Facebook?" So I thought about his "maybe" and why he is eager to add me on FB not knowing me yet at all and I responded: "Maybe one day". He replied: "hahahahah" ... and vanished... at least he got my hint! lol

@Flowerrr101

7 жыл бұрын

Mireille Claire LOL you're awesome. Well done!

@redfather5342

5 жыл бұрын

Wtf

Texting has a time and place: to communicate small pieces of info when a conversation is either not necessary or not possible. Texting an *entire conversation* is a moronic waste of time, apparently enjoyed by people who have nothing better to do, and who are not capable of actual conversation. I will never give in to that asinine game again.

Hussey is brilliant! I have watched several of his videos, started reading his book, and just purchased a couple of his programs. Thank you for all your insight! I am rather excited about everything I am learning from you :-)

I am defiantly going through this right now, thank you Matt now I have a game plan :)

this is really helpful. long gaps between texts.

i don't even have anyone that texts me but i love your videos I always learn something..and i'm keeping hope alive.

This is my situation right now...oh god this video is a sign from you...I swear I'm going to respect what I will listen here. Let's press play😊

what if you send the "i miss your voice" and he says the same back to you....then nothing, lol. also don't answer every text he sends. be mysterious.

@MegaSebr

5 жыл бұрын

Lol. Happened to me. I called him out on it. He says that's a fair take. And we're still back to square one

They are texting because they are spending time with others , kick them out of your life… I did one week a go and I’m so great full of myself. We are not break time

I love this! Thank you for being so specific. I'm going to put these ideas to good use.

You're amazing. Of all the dating coaches, you're my favorite.

Story of my life Matthew...if i hear the "ive been busy with work" thing one more time...its gonna get ugly lol. I love your content SO much.

@emilydaniel8423

4 жыл бұрын

Annette to get your ex back

@emilydaniel8423

4 жыл бұрын

Talk to Baba to help you get your ex

@emilydaniel8423

4 жыл бұрын

On his WhatsApp number

@emilydaniel8423

4 жыл бұрын

Very Powerful spell man and kind

@emilydaniel8423

4 жыл бұрын

Here is his WhatsApp number

I don't need dating advice, I just watch the videos for Mr Hussey. Yummmm.

Your so insightful Matthew! Why can't more men be like you!!

He's constantly texting me and even double texts if I don't answer for some hours but he never asks me out. I made it more than clear that I wanna see him again and actually I had the same feeling about him but at this point I just won't respond to him anymore. I'm tired of this texting crap. I dont care how busy you are, you can at least take 1 or 2 hours time to have a walk or whatever.

@redfather5342

2 жыл бұрын

Maby he only likes you as a friend

@seohyunlee3247

2 жыл бұрын

@@redfather5342 He was into me but I rejected him cause he started being creepy damn this is a long time ago I forgot this exists haha

As hard as it is, go with the guy who wants to spend time with you. Trust me you will have the time of your life and realize that he is the real deal, not the flaker!

Thanks for this video. I've had a guy texting every day, and often, but he is flaky about committing to hanging out. He always has a weekend trip and only wants to do lunch by his job...which is a far and expensive ride for me, btw. I'm going to try these texts. Thanks for sharing!

please do this kind of videos again, it is sooooooo useful

Just when I needed it!! You are like an. Angel Matt!! Love you!

Good on You Girls>>>You all Sound Really Smart>>!!>>Being Someone's Ego Boost>>Is a Drain>>and Gets BORING>>>!!!

Oh my God, I'm a guru! I have been through this with so many guys and that's actually how I proceeded

@NN-fb9rq

6 жыл бұрын

beatrice ana-maria and did it work?

@How.Dare.You.

5 жыл бұрын

How?

Oh, thank You for this one. I really needed a line to use.

Matthew, I appreciate and enjoy your humor. Thanks!

I soooooo (see what I did there?) needed this video!!

All of your advice worked 100%on my relationship . Thank you!

Hate texting! Love this video, especially for those that loooove texting

Your advices are excellent Matthew I love all of your videos. Youre nice, enthousiastic, positive and helpful. Thanks a million

OMG...this is SO what I was dealing with the past 5 months with a guy...and he's SO spot on.

🤣 lmaooooo I think I’m talking to a robot , perfect line

THIS is awesome. Tremendously helpful Matt!

I love you Matthew. I use the advice you give in your videos, it works like a dream, thank you

Thank you Matthew for sharing! Love this! Met so many men who only text and it drives me bonkers! I will definitely be trying your advice! Love you and your wisdom!

Why wanting someone to call you who doesn’t puts in the work and calls you by himself, he should when he really likes you. If he doesn’t call, he isn’t that interessed.

Such a relatable video. Thank you!

Thankyouuuuuu So much for this video Matthew! Ive been needing this advice for years! 🏹💯

God has blessed you with so much wisdom! I'm thankful that I can learn from it

Greaaattt video as always Mathew !! 😜 (you had me laughing on the floor when you were talking about extending letters 😂 but great advice!!)

AYY Matthew! Sos lo mas!!! Soy Argentina pero vivo en Londres!! Gracias por estos videosssss!

I love the idea of saying "yawwn". So smart and funny too.

where was this video months ago! lifesaver! thanks Matt

Having this exact situation with a guy I actually like, before even watching the video I asked him once to call coz we were arguing by text. That was the only time we spoke on the phone. He si back texting and telling he wants something serious etc but dude all "BY TEXT" :D now he's texting me "what do you want me to do?" Like I need to tell him dude call me and ask me out WTFFF.. Baby NEXXTTTT

I LOVE this video , your advices are always on point Matt ..!! thank you so much !!

Matthew you're AMAZING!! Love the advice! :)