Should You Play Music During Sex? The Pros And Cons

Playing music during sex is a “hell yes!” for some and a “hell no!” for others. Join us as we talk about the pros and cons, find out what WE like in the bedroom, and of course, some advice for you!
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  • @christopherbrady8962
    @christopherbrady89622 жыл бұрын

    Had one time that Christmas music was playing when my wife and I got going. Totally threw us off. 🤣🤣 Other music's never been an issue. That Christmas stuff was definitely a no go for us. It was funny though. Got us laughing.

  • @vanessaandxander

    @vanessaandxander

    2 жыл бұрын

    Haha definitely getting you in a specific kind of spirit 😂

  • @kettrickj
    @kettrickj Жыл бұрын

    I like music in the background. Instrumental preferred, like Enigma. Favorite song. Pat Methany, the truth will always be, from the secret story album.

  • @takeflypics
    @takeflypics Жыл бұрын

    I just gotta say that you two seem like such a fun couple! I've never had music playing during sex. I don't know why I haven't, lol! As a musician(drummer), I love music but it's hard for me to sit still when anything is playing. The beat makes me wanna move or dance, which might play in my favor lol! I'm gonna have to try it!

  • @crocodilestantv734
    @crocodilestantv734 Жыл бұрын

    For me music while making love is a distraction for orgasmic concentration! That’s just me 😂

  • @arkham947
    @arkham9472 жыл бұрын

    we tried a bit once, but never did again. disney films are always in the background LOL; also, i love this channel!!

  • @vanessaandxander

    @vanessaandxander

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!

  • @barymoynihan8153
    @barymoynihan8153 Жыл бұрын

    Sade

  • @forevermymoon
    @forevermymoon2 жыл бұрын

    We have never, but I would like to. I think our biggest hindrance is just not knowing what to listen to. My husband thinks music with words would be distracting, so that makes it harder as not sure what are sexy instrumental songs. Anyone want to share their playlists?

  • @vanessaandxander

    @vanessaandxander

    2 жыл бұрын

    We have ideas on our Spotify that have been crowd-sourced from our community: open.spotify.com/user/hox7hb47vjyndwuuuxht0x0uk

  • @nathanielgray4235
    @nathanielgray42352 жыл бұрын

    can help with rhythm

  • @vanessaandxander

    @vanessaandxander

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great point!

  • @thesilentu
    @thesilentu2 жыл бұрын

    Alexa , play Tame Impala. Problem solved.

  • @vanessaandxander

    @vanessaandxander

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nice!

  • @speedemons455
    @speedemons4552 жыл бұрын

    For my wife and me I just tell Google to play soft rock love songs from the 70's and it's off to the races. So "hell yes"!!

  • @vanessaandxander

    @vanessaandxander

    2 жыл бұрын

    Love!!

  • @Deepinthesky755
    @Deepinthesky755 Жыл бұрын

  • @EricSkyeMusic
    @EricSkyeMusic2 жыл бұрын

    Missy Elliott's album "Supa Dupa Fly"

  • @LacedwithLacey2424
    @LacedwithLacey24242 жыл бұрын

    Cant go wrong with some Keith sweat☺️☺️

  • @karenfedele1934

    @karenfedele1934

    5 ай бұрын

    No body!!!

  • @LacedwithLacey2424

    @LacedwithLacey2424

    5 ай бұрын

    @@karenfedele1934 babyyyyyy!…

  • @nicolnicolaou8671
    @nicolnicolaou86712 жыл бұрын

    Two Feet is amazing for this

  • @vanessaandxander

    @vanessaandxander

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the suggestion!

  • @laurenbauer2275
    @laurenbauer22752 жыл бұрын

    Amber Mark!!!!!

  • @vanessaandxander

    @vanessaandxander

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great suggestion!