Strict Parents: "No friends, no dating, no social interactions until you graduate college!" *Also Strict Parents:* "Why aren't you married yet!?"

@SuperPeterok

3 жыл бұрын

"Where are my grandchildren!?"

@debshaw680

3 жыл бұрын

When will you get the degree I want so I will be proud even tho you’re constitutionally unable to perform that job?

@cheshire_skatkat9093

3 жыл бұрын

Why arent you married? Hell you'd almost think she'd had an arranged marriage.

@mike-sk2li

3 жыл бұрын

It's a form of abuse to be that controlling. So the abusers produced a twisted kid that took revenge

@gabriellemadrid2831

3 жыл бұрын

⚰️, hilarious! Omg... So accurate tho!

Its always baffled me that people just have hitman friends on standby. I’d obviously never need/use a hitman, but I’m like 1000% sure that I’d have no clue where to find one. Lol

@misscyanic2484

3 жыл бұрын

Haha, the ol 'I know a guy who knows a guy' 🕵️‍♂️

@Leoprincess3038

3 жыл бұрын

Right!!!!???

@aryianut14

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah and imagine that conversation....

@JesusGunfighter

3 жыл бұрын

I’m 5,000% sure.

@lynditidball845

3 жыл бұрын

I have the same feelings about this. Like, do you just post an ad on Craigslist or something? It’s also very disturbing that most of the people who hire hit men are so young

Parents sounds like a nightmare Shame she didn't just say f*ck them and leave

@gristamshackleford2102

3 жыл бұрын

i know that wouldve hurt them more than any bullet. she couldve called up her racist father and said shes pregnant with phillipino babies just to piss him off

@kateoleary4984

3 жыл бұрын

She wanted that moneyyyyy

@gristamshackleford2102

3 жыл бұрын

@@kateoleary4984 yeah she did i bet she thought that 500K would make her more desireable to the boyfriend. he was a drug dealer and drug dealers do LOVE money. either that or it was his idea from the getgo

@addie_is_me

3 жыл бұрын

@@kateoleary4984 Do you understand what Tiger Parents are, what they do to a kids mind? A lot of these kids commit suicide.

@lainiwakura1776

3 жыл бұрын

@Scarlett O’flara Too bad the money had nothing to do with it.

Having an abusive Asian mom, I liked juvenile detention (arrested for trespassing to get away from a beating) for the freedom and the macaroni and cheese. I'm not proud of it but loved that my mom was not around at the detention center. I wanted to harm my mom but didn't want to spend the rest of my life in prison. Thank goodness for that stop sign.

@vipr1142

3 жыл бұрын

Jennifer Pan is so cute. Wish there was more photos of her

@TannerisSmol97

3 жыл бұрын

Riiiiight. You got arrested, which should get you beating... To miss a beating? Lmfao how'd that work out for ya

@mariamz4

3 жыл бұрын

I hope ur doing better now, and not become like ur mum when ur a parent

@aurea.

2 жыл бұрын

That's sad, I hope you're faring better.

@briannawaldorf8485

2 жыл бұрын

vIPR stop sexualising her

this is one of the cases that i can watch 100 different shows about and still be interested in watching another one

@npickle54

3 жыл бұрын

what is it for you about this case that makes that so

@aceykrew5207

3 жыл бұрын

I agree!!!

@abdourjawara022

3 жыл бұрын

Same here...

@rachexl

3 жыл бұрын

@@npickle54 i think its a case where you can relate to her, everyones gotten caught lying to their parents before, but then she takes it to such an extreme that you cant believe she wanted her parents dead because of it. plus the interrogations are interesting and the audio is clear and you can really hear her story unraveling and her lies being called out.

@kellie5476

3 жыл бұрын

Yep, even though I've watched the JCS video on Jennifer at least 10 times, I'll still happily watch this.

I have watched her story sooo many times and I'm still in awe of the whole thing...

@amlacy9127

3 жыл бұрын

Same. It’s one of those stranger than fiction stories.

@Samurai78420

3 жыл бұрын

Me too...

@MissBeatrixKiddo

3 жыл бұрын

Same. I watched when JCS did this story and I listened to it on one of my crime podcasts.

@MsTinkerbelle87

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah she seems so meek and not capable of it! Creepy!

@wiredgamez9929

3 жыл бұрын

She So bad Tho 😍😊

I had such parents too, I lied to them a lot too, to avoid getting beaten or yelled at. I had many instances of angry thoughts against them, but instead of trying to murder them I felt like I would rather commit suicide to escape. I endured a bit more, then as soon as I graduated college I left the city and got a job as far away from home as possible.

@kristinebailey6554

Жыл бұрын

I had an aunt that was a total b*tch. All of her 5 kids except her favorite left home and never went back. Karma

@joonspotatoo8345

Жыл бұрын

i’m happy ur still here

@presidentevil9951

Жыл бұрын

@New Jack City unless she gets paroled

@presidentevil9951

Жыл бұрын

@New Jack City doesn't matter. sentence is life WITH parole

@kevinkant6817

Жыл бұрын

Dirty skank

I DIED AT "she doesn't do any handstands and she doesn't sing amazing grace" LMAOOO

@detrajackson5992

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! I totally caught the Jodi A. Reference too! 🤣😂🤣😂

@vt-yp7yq

2 жыл бұрын

@@detrajackson5992 and the Shayna Hubers case where she sang Amazing Grace. That case was disturbing.

@leviathandrumming2175

2 жыл бұрын

@@detrajackson5992 Dude I didn't even think of that until I saw your comment. I haven't seen a JCS episode in forever he's not ever able to, but amazing channel

@leviathandrumming2175

2 жыл бұрын

@@vt-yp7yq I've never heard of that one, I'll check it out

@cpfs936

Жыл бұрын

I caught that, too! Does that mean we watch too much of this stuff? 😉 "Oh, look, an Ed Kemper reference!" 😆

When your child is 22 you tell them what the rules are for them living with you. I think no smoking in the house, no coming home so drunk that you wake everyone in the house up are reasonable rules. Taking the phone from a grown adult, grounding them and dictating what they can do is unacceptable and absurd. Basically they thought the owned her. Totally not excusing her for what she did

@truth4004

2 жыл бұрын

They took her phone because she broke the rules of having a BF. And picked a winner smh. Didnt go to school.... lied. I'd be pretty pissed as a parent also. She should have moved out not kill them.

@robinstewart6510

2 жыл бұрын

Okay, we only have Jennifer Pan's word for what her parents supposedly did. It's very easy to demonize the dead. Of course, she also lied to her boyfriend about being raped and pregnant. And to the interviewing detective about receiving threats. And to police about being tied up during the murder. And to police about nearly everything related to the crime. This girl will lie whenever it's convenient.

@mercuryy94

2 жыл бұрын

@@truth4004 she was 22, she should’ve been allowed to have a bf

@ammiller3911

2 жыл бұрын

My house my rules. If my rule is stand on your head and cluck like a chicken every time you enter the house, if you want to live in my house you will do it or get out. As OP pointed out, she's an adult. With a job. Perfectly capable of getting her own place. "Don't come home so drunk...." My a$$. If your gonna get drunk you better plan to stay at your friends house. That's not tiger parenting, that's setting boundaries. I would also note that if I am paying for your phone, I'll take it away whenever I please. Once again, she's an adult with a job and can get her own phone. I swear half these responses have to be from kids or people who don't have kids.

@ElaAusDemTal

2 жыл бұрын

@@ammiller3911 Exactly! We've got a really popular proverb in Germany (popular among parents, that is) which goes "as long as you put your feet under my table..." followed by whatever the particulars are for that respective person. I moved out with 19 since my boyfriend (of 4 years) wasn't allowed to sleep over and I still had to ask for permission to go out on school nights (Germany, 13 years of schooling). Again, their house, their rules - easy decision. Stay and do what they want or move out and take charge of your own life.

I mean I only woke up at 3:30 am to use the bathroom, but I guess I’ll watch this before I go back to sleep

@lordichenzo8521

3 жыл бұрын

Weirdddd me too lol 😅

@HeidiSchweichler

3 жыл бұрын

@@lordichenzo8521 omg, me three! 😂😂😂

@lizardking6864

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@kd_kane9845

3 жыл бұрын

So when you went to pee you figured, "let me check the tube." Yea me too.

@michpratt1

3 жыл бұрын

I woke at 5am and did the same LOL I just woke back up at 8am in NY. I get excited for the story when I see this channel post!

"he drives a Mercedes and he loves that baby" might be my favorite line from an interrogation video.

@tru3293

2 жыл бұрын

But they're not rich they just have two expensive cars a house and go on vacation to the US. Poor people problems

@JamesJohnson-sv6dd

2 жыл бұрын

Lol their so called luxury vehicles are pieces of junk ...so old probably worth $3,000 each ...such pretentious transparent losers

I hope her brother is doing ok. He lost his whole family in the blink of an eye. I understand that his dad is still alive, but from what is said, he is a shell who is very traumatized.

@sg-cg6lr

3 жыл бұрын

Very true. And very overlooked. Good vibes to him

@damianchurchill6982

3 жыл бұрын

I thought the dad lived I could be wrong haven’t watched her story in a while

@poelomokgotho8127

3 жыл бұрын

The dad is still alive

@fonkamex

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe his brother wasn’t that sad after all. Maybe he also hated his parents too but never tried to oppose their will.

@yeshuasage3724

2 жыл бұрын

What a stupid comment my goodness, unless being a sociopath runs deep in the family, of course he’s gonna always be deeply grieved no matter how his relationship with his parents was.

As an asian/pacific islander I can relate to this so much, most asian families are so toxic, it’s not just parents too even uncles, aunts, and grandparents, especially if y’all live in the same roof, they inflict do much trauma and cause tons of mental health issues (most don’t believe in mental health, atleast from my family) and would never acknowledge it. Sad that she had to resort to this but they really fucked with her head. I hope she heals and finds peace in her life.

@thecommonchumps3937

Жыл бұрын

Not just Asian families. Eastern Europeans are like that as well. I think it's applicable to nations that struggled (poverty, famine, wars, etc). That fear of poverty takes on that weird form and gets passed down from generation to generation.

@allisonhogg5131

Жыл бұрын

Its abuse.

@BTSisMyUniverse68

9 ай бұрын

I do understand but honestly that doesn't give her the right to kill her parents

@chorizoramen93

8 ай бұрын

​@BTSisMyUniverse68 no one stated that. But you treat people like animals with no will of their own, they might snap one day. They didn't treat her like daughter, they treated her like a low wage employee they brought over on an indentured servant contract

To all, no one can live up to anybody's expectations at the end of the day. Choose your own fate and rely on its Journey

@chrisgomez860

3 жыл бұрын

Your last sentence is a good quote

@jalex3645

3 жыл бұрын

I was just about to comment on Robert's quote.

@nabooster

3 жыл бұрын

Wise words indeed.

@OddJames

3 жыл бұрын

Very wise words but they are double-edged because she inevitably chose her fate and the journey was extremely deceitful and destructive.

@mariamz4

3 жыл бұрын

This isn't an option for most ppl, her choice to kill doesn't make this type of parenting wrong

My boyfriend’s (estranged) parents were tiger parents. Watching anything about this family with him is super eye-opening because it apparently isn’t too hard to get to this place in your head when you’re raised in a family like that. Such a shame.

@angla3383

Жыл бұрын

@Belltown Daisy easied said than done they sheltered her and basically had her isolated she probably had no idea what to do

@tundrawomansays694

Жыл бұрын

My monster “mother” was also like this and I severed the relationship with her completely as an adult. You abuse your kids, you loose them as adults.

She fell in love with the first person who gave her unconditional love, sad story.

@truth4004

2 жыл бұрын

Even he didn't since they did break up and he got another gf and lied about it. lol It was conditional.

@anneperry9014

2 жыл бұрын

As people do!!!!

Lol I bet Daniel really wishes he stayed with Christina instead

@aaron-gz

3 жыл бұрын

Wasn't he friends with the hitman? He was already shady and might have been a matter of time befote he got involved in something

Tiger parents, Tiger King... man why we gotta do tigers so dirty

@mscar7609

3 жыл бұрын

It’s okay Tony the Tiger is holding it down. He’s greaaaaaat!

@MidnightGarou94

3 жыл бұрын

Tiger Uppercut ! Sagat Street fighter

@debshaw680

3 жыл бұрын

@Sandra Turajlich not strictly true. Males don’t stay dominant forever. They’re taken out by a bachelor who is probably their offspring. And incest is the name of the game.

@cccycling5835

3 жыл бұрын

@Sandra Turajlich Yeah but Tigers will kill their cubs for dominance.

@rayneezy9255

3 жыл бұрын

@@mscar7609 if u shoot a tiger, it'll never forget and stalk you for days and wait until the perfect time to aggressively tear you apart and eat you alive..

When you move to another country, do NOT expect your children to befriend and/or marry with someone from the same country you immigrated from. That is the dumbest thing ever. If you want your kid to be with a Viet, then living in Vietnam would be your best bet. It's pretty simple logic.

@draftmagicagain1000

3 жыл бұрын

Your right. But Logic is not life experience. In their culture that's what is done. Even when they moved, they knew nothing else but to continue their culture. They are wrong to do so, but it is logical to see why they did it.

@dezzywikins

2 жыл бұрын

@@draftmagicagain1000 logical but still tarded. They paid with their lives.

@Gaybraham.Lincoln

Жыл бұрын

Yeah but if her dad moved into rabbit culture he'd be like, "GIMME CALLAT, GIMME RECTTUCE

@di3486

Жыл бұрын

That has nothing to do with the fact she is a psychopath.

@JP-wx6uh

Жыл бұрын

@@di3486 Her parents helped to bring out the psychopathy. Based on how she was raised.

I love how she describes the intruder as "gentlemen".

@stevengallant6363

2 жыл бұрын

The politeness of Canadians really rubbed off on her...

@seka1986

9 ай бұрын

@@stevengallant6363BLACKFACE TRUDEAU

@zammmerjammer

5 ай бұрын

@@seka1986 Get a therapist.

my life was similar to hers. but instead of murder i tried to off myself, and i guess after the 4th or 5th time, my parents finally realized something wasn't working in our relationship as parent and child. it's a constant reminder that you *owe* them, that your existence is to succeed and that if you're anything "less" you don't live up to the debt that was being born. i wouldn't ever lay a hand on my mom or dad. but my own body was always something disposable or not worth having due to my disabilities and lack of achievements. it really is a culture of pressure, and i envy those who don't break or crack.

@missmodern

Жыл бұрын

Glad you're OK now. Peace.

@kristinebailey6554

Жыл бұрын

Glad you harmed no one and survived it. I hope now that you can live a happy life. My daughter's best friend became her friend in 6th grade, and to this day they are best friends. She was raised by a Korean aunt and uncle that were controlling and abusive. Karma eventually wacked them hard and the daughter married an American man that treats her like the bright, talented woman she is. My best wishes for your happiness.

@StarfayeArt

Жыл бұрын

I was adopted by an abusive woman, so I get that. Being the trophy, being told you’re entire existence is owed to them, you would have been nothing without them. It’s rhetoric that would make anyone go crazy if they’re stuck under it for 18+ years

Unfortunately in my experience, strict parents never lighten up. I'm 34 years old and had to move back home when the pandemic started. I have a curfew, my parents blow my phone up if I take longer than what they think I should, am made to keep my location on, and I have to ask their permission before I leave for anywhere. I put up with it because I would be screwed without their help right now. But I can also tell you it's a huge point of contention between us and it's ruining our relationship. However, with all of that said, her parents didn't deserve any of what she did to them.

@emytann7838

3 жыл бұрын

💖💖💖💖💖💖💖🤟🤟🤟🤟🤟🤟 Stay strong.

@fantacmajure

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry you have to go through this. I had a similar experience, and I can offer you one thing: they are doing it out of love. They just don't know how to show love normally, is my guess. Try to appreciate that they care and want you to be safe. Best wishes for you and your situation to get better.

@Tomi-oe5mz

3 жыл бұрын

That sounds so sad.

@BettyWhite2171

3 жыл бұрын

There's people out here that wish they had parents like yours. I know they're annoying but you'll miss them when they're gone. 🌸🌸🌸

@cheshirecat2641

3 жыл бұрын

Dude, get a job and move out. Best yet go no.contact. toxic people like your parents are only gonna ruin your life. They see you as an object not as a human being. Learn how to be independent. I had controlling mother but as soon as I was legally adult and could support myself financially I would not let her have any control over me.

I'm the daughter of an Asian mother (with traditional and 'tiger parent' values), and a Caucasian father (who is so chill and would be happy no matter what level of success I reach, as long as I am happy). Obviously their marriage was doomed but they stayed together, with me being an only child torn between two polar opposite role models. My tiger mum was unsurprisingly far more vocal, pushy, demanding etc. I also lied about my academic achievements and forged my school reports to make them better (even though I was excelling already as one of the top students, I knew it wasn't good enough). She never picked up on my embellishments because my teachers legitimately had nothing but praise, and I brought home real awards every year. All along, I'd also developed deep depression, crippling anxiety, and anorexia. I started a medical degree and quit attending classes maybe a month in due to my depression, suicidality, and eating disorder worsening... but couldn't face telling my mum, so I kept going to campus and acted like I was still studying. I did that for a whole year until it came crashing down and she found out. She showed nothing but rage.. even accusing me of 'teaching myself' how to be mentally ill etc. It was like she didn't see the damage she was doing to me.. I was literally wasting away, skin on bones, but all she did was use it as more fuel to criticise me.. calling me 'disgusting' for my weight. I'm in my 30s now. Still battling the same issues, still have my mother in my life, still having her constantly criticise everything I do... from the way I walk, the way I talk, the way I look, the things I like, the friends I have, the partners I've had, etc etc etc. I don't feel pity for Jennifer despite knowing how it feels to be under constant pressure and criticism and unrealistic expectations.. but I do think there's something so sickeningly toxic about parents with those sorts of values. It's amazing how cold they can be to their own children... yet oblivious to their cruelty, believing they're only doing what is best for them (and being better than every other parent too).

@Kevin-cy2dr

2 жыл бұрын

IDK your situation but seems like your mom is abusive to me(just my opinion not judgement). Why do you maintain contact with her? Just asking

@TheBOG3

10 ай бұрын

Dump your toxic mom. Is your dad still married to her?!

@zammmerjammer

5 ай бұрын

Your father should have protected you.

@jothriny

2 ай бұрын

yes, this is absolute abuse, please cut contact with your mother for your own healing..I did so and going to therapy and it is getting much better...she is a covert narc....

@Sharon_L_W

2 ай бұрын

​@@jothriny The timing of your reply couldn't be better. I read it this morning and pondered it, and still thought I couldn't do it to her.. it would crush her, be cruel, be selfish, etc if I did that to her. Then she visited like she does most Saturdays. My most dreaded day every week.. but tonight it was one of the worst and I realised there's no saving this relationship no matter how hard I try to change, and it's doing neither of us any good. So when she stormed out and slammed the door (because I tried explaining why I might do the things she accuses me of, without realising, like talking too loudly, and she does this thing where she says I talk really aggressively in a staccato kind of way, then mimicks it in a very dramatised way... maybe I do talk like that? Maybe I'm being gaslighted? I've asked friends, psychs, even recorded conversations to listen to how I talk and I don't hear it so.. anyway). Here I am, re-reading your comment, and I'm doing it. Blocked her on everything. Told her as she was leaving that if I'm that awful and anger/frustrate you that much, you can cut me out of your life and be happy. But I've told her that countless times over the years and she obviously chooses to insert herself into my life when I'm 36 and live independently. So I'll take the step for her, and myself. I hate the thought of this... especially because my dad passed away in 2022 and its still raw, and I have no siblings or other relatives. But thank you for the comment and giving me the courage. I'm so sorry you suffered and had to make that choice, but I'm glad you're healing and are looking after yourself. Thank you again (and the previous replies I didn't get to).

Naming a children's hospital "SickKids" is like naming a funeral home "DeadPeople".

@kitteekittee4010

2 жыл бұрын

Seriously 😑

I remember this story. If u watch her interrogation, she had no remorse whatsoever. All she kept saying was what happens to me?? She said that a bunch of times before she confessed. She didn’t plan on her dad living and testifying against her.

@debshaw680

3 жыл бұрын

Here’s the thing, she’s been forced to be dependent on them for practically the air she breathes at 23. She had a brief whiff of freedom and they dragged her back and forced her to break all contact. How old would she have been when forced into becoming a doctor and still never had the freedom to date? Of course she would want to express that if she were innocent. I’m sure even guilty she wondered how, if she got away with it, she would live.

@guardiansanimalrescuestate7289

3 жыл бұрын

@@debshaw680 I so agree. And she didn’t even apologize to her father who lived.

@guardiansanimalrescuestate7289

3 жыл бұрын

@@loveforeignaccents idk if he testified in court because she confessed, but he told the police his side. And she didn’t even tell her dad she was sorry. I can’t remember if it was blue dot or red dot interrogations but one of them. I watched all of it. I mean if she wants to know some abuse I’ll share my story. She was being controlled but maybe because they knew how manipulative and how much a liar she is. Idk. Just a thought.

@Jane-ic5gy

3 жыл бұрын

Not to excuse the behavior, but when you are raised in an environment in which the parents have no interest in you as a real person with feelings, needs, and thoughts of your own, you disassociate from your real self and your emotions to protect yourself. Her lack of remorse is not surprising and tragic for her and the whole family.

@ElRojo651

3 жыл бұрын

Her parents had no remorse abusing her all her life. I'm with her here

Parents may have meant well but they failed their children.

@superdavelane4

3 жыл бұрын

True, to a certain degree its hard to feel bad for the parents.

@saniyahphillips1210

3 жыл бұрын

superdave honestly

@belmaomanovic8590

3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@fonkamex

2 жыл бұрын

Looks like they didn’t care about their child happiness, just the money and the reputation they will get from them when they grow up.

@FC-hj9ub

2 жыл бұрын

Parents are narcissistic Nd abusive.

I can understand why she felt like this was her only option. However she could have just ran away from the whole situation. Being 21 or 22 she is an adult and should be able to have her own life. This is very sad.

@FoxyCAMTV

3 жыл бұрын

Excellent point,she is a lazy leech who just lied through everything and wanted all her parents property. I am not saying you can't live with parents or ask ffor help but her situation is different.

@sethchandler4170

3 жыл бұрын

The only way one could see this as their only option is if they have already numbed their own moral compass with repetitive selfish or destructive behaviors. To get to the point that personal responsibility is not an option a human being has to indulge in selfishness over and over to deaden their conscience.

@sethchandler4170

3 жыл бұрын

Which by the way, compulsive liars can accomplish rather quickly. Which is why teaching your children the importance of telling and adhering to the truth is so important. When you commit to lying you open the door to justifying any and all actions.

@WayraRose

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. She should have left. I did when my parents were too involved in my adult life. I was happier for it. Then again, I NEVER considered murder as an option. She always was twisted.

@torachan23

3 жыл бұрын

She’s female so nothing is her fault whatsoever

My dad was horribly strict. A lot of her story reminds me of my dad. It never...ever...crossed my mind to take his life.

@kimmi67386

2 жыл бұрын

It did me. Beaten, sexually abused for years. Believe me i wanted to. But i overcame it and led a better life.

@chengchiu957

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think your dad was strict enough.....has it ever occurred to you that the train of thought "I suffered, It didn't make me that way" can be flipped around as "I never suffered that badly to become that way!"

@haleyguthrie3113

2 жыл бұрын

@@chengchiu957 has it crossed your mind that I have and you simply don't know shit about me? To include a minority heritage on a damn 1 acre reservation with 800 other people who didn't want their children to leave because of old scars and racism? Watching my mother leave us for a life of prostitution to pay for drug habits? Only to watch her brother shoot her in front of her 2 daughters? Being disowned for marrying a white man? Disowned for leaving the Baptist faith. No internet, no dating, no car or even friends that could afford cars. Physical and mental abuse abounds from my DNA as it does for almost all of my people. Victims of own sins and our own wrath. No...I still never thought to kill anyone. I ran. I left. That's what normal people do.

SickKids is a brutal name for a children's hospital!

@oldmandoinghighkicksonlyin1368

3 жыл бұрын

SlickKids might be worse.

@FreeChild777

3 жыл бұрын

Right?

@JohnGalt916

3 жыл бұрын

I saw this comment and was like huh. Then 12 minutes later I was like WHY

@UnwrittenSpade

3 жыл бұрын

I know that’s weird to me too I was thrown off

@Chris-dy1cb

3 жыл бұрын

Sick 🤙🤙🤙

Always felt a bit sorry for Jen. No need to off yr parents tho.

@jamesblue5906

3 жыл бұрын

its a shitty upbringing for sure but it costs $0 to say "fuck this, I'm out." lmao

@ijustrealllylikecats

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. I had very similar parents (narcissistic and violent mother, and super controlling like Jens parents) and it was absolute hell. But Jen really could have just left and gotten a job. She would have been financially cut off, but she'd have been ok and much happier, and not in prison.

@ijustrealllylikecats

3 жыл бұрын

@@jamesblue5906 E X A C T L Y

@aliashere993

3 жыл бұрын

Naw she deserves way worse I don't feel sorry for anyone why has the world handed to them and at the first bit of inconvenience, they kill🙄🥱

@TannerisSmol97

3 жыл бұрын

@bodd boward you don't think her parents went too far

Ever since I saw that episode of Crime Watch Daily where they called Daniel Wong a "Bad Boy", I can't help but chuckle every time I see him on screen.

@chubbiMommi

3 жыл бұрын

Omg crime watch daily is sooooooooo dramatic lol

@danielwong5378

3 жыл бұрын

@@chubbiMommi Did you see the Jennifer Pan episode???

@chubbiMommi

3 жыл бұрын

@@danielwong5378 oh yes! I have! Its the first time I heard about this case... and heard the term tiger parent.

@nickyblue4866

3 жыл бұрын

Lmaooooo yes ive seen that. So over the top

@TheBOG3

Ай бұрын

Why does he look like he could be Jennifer’s brother when her own brother, Felix, doesn’t even look like her?

“Sick Kids” is a really weird name for a children’s hospital.

@2012misstee

3 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the very same. 😬

@Amp5150

3 жыл бұрын

derek zoolander's center for kids who cant read good and want to learn how to do other stuff good too

@derp195

3 жыл бұрын

@@Amp5150 2/5 stars. Good idea, but way too small.

@Leotaa_

3 жыл бұрын

It's actually called The Hospital for Sick Children but the organization/charity that owns it is called SickKids. They're a charity that focuses specifically on treating children with life threatening conditions and they put a lot into medical research. SickKids is the organization that discovered the gene responsible for cystic fibrous and they performed the world's first cardiac surgery in utero, among other things

@kimmoreels7950

2 жыл бұрын

lol so true!

Monster parents can end up making monsters...

@wiredgamez9929

3 жыл бұрын

AND Beauty 🤩😍. She need be free Right now

@ghoulishtoad

3 жыл бұрын

@Mp Cops Yeah, i agree, not everything is black and white, everything is way more nuanced than we like to think. that is the one thing i dont like about this channel, its such a bad name, im gonna be honest. calling horrible people "monsters" to me is a weird grasp at trying to differentiate yourself from them. humans arent monsters, theyre still a HUMAN. we call them monsters because we are uncomfortable with the fact they are just as much of a conscious human as you are, as we all are.

@ghoulishtoad

3 жыл бұрын

@@wiredgamez9929 Why do people find scary people who do horrible things to others hot? ... guess shes on the list of killers that people think are hot and dont care that theyre a piece of shit

@wiredgamez9929

3 жыл бұрын

@@ghoulishtoad not my Fault She Good looking 😍

@aaronmcginnis4596

3 жыл бұрын

@@wiredgamez9929 big facts

I absolutely LOVE how he puts the helplines at the end of every video!! Much needed!!

35:12 “the gentleman asked my father if he had money in his wallet” I wouldn’t use “gentleman” to describe someone who just robbed and killed my parents...

@superdavelane4

3 жыл бұрын

Thats a Canadian for you!

@supermariomaker2glitchhunt329

2 жыл бұрын

I wouldn’t call them *Parents* tbh. I’d call them “Control freaks”!

@robertcarrillo9365

2 жыл бұрын

Hey yo Beter!!!!!

@anneperry9014

2 жыл бұрын

If her parents didn't show her love, then why should she feel any???!!!!🙄

When her parents found out about all the lies and deceptions, did they ever think about the stress she was under that made her act this way? Apparently not; instead they gave her an ultimatum totally inappropriate for a young woman of her age. I wonder how her father feels now? His wife dead and his only daughter incarcerated? No doubt he still thinks he was in the right. All “tiger” parents should pay heed to the tragic story of this highly dysfunctional family, and what can happen when parents put social achievement for their children above anything else.

@subrosa4792

3 жыл бұрын

A narcissist will never accept responsibility for how their narcissistic behavior effects other people. They are incapable of seeing themselves as anything besides a victim. In this case, they actually did become victims, but in most cases the narcissistic parent only sees themselves as a victim. Their child is just an extension of their personality, the child of a narcissist is not their own person in any way.

@vanessapham6914

2 жыл бұрын

@@subrosa4792 Vietnamese parents can be narcissistic but not all of them are. If you are not Vietnamese, please don't speak in certainty. It can give others the wrong idea of what a narcissist is like. Vietnamese parents in that decade, narcissistic or not, raise their children this way because it's the only way they know. However, right now there are less parents who do this because our society is changing, more parents are respecting their children's wish nowadays.

@creepersonspeed5490

2 жыл бұрын

@@vanessapham6914 no-one said all or only Vietnamese do this

@mattwayne9128

2 жыл бұрын

Literally victim blaming. People have been through worse and walked away without feeling the need to resort to murder. The only person at fault here is Jennifer, and her parents can not be, in any way, blamed for what happened to them. Like, yeah, her parents absolutely suck, but you're sympathising with the wrong person here. She had a whole bunch of alternatives to take outside hiring hitmen.

@truth4004

2 жыл бұрын

She was only stressed out because she LIED and the stress caught up with her. Her bad.

Her parents high standards created a monster. Maybe they pushed too hard, but they didn't deserve that!

@NikkiC777

3 жыл бұрын

She should have just left she was an adult. The problem was she didn't want to leave she still wanted their money. She could have made it on her own though if she had just left. People do it all the time. She even could have used their money until she got through college then left and just done whatever she wanted. The problem was she didn't even go to college.🤨 What she was doing didn't even really make sense. She wasn't even going to college so she didn't need their money for that she had a job so why didnt she just leave?🤷‍♀️ The whole this is just f*@$ed.

@SilentTrip

3 жыл бұрын

@@NikkiC777 not trying to excuse her behavior, but when parents like this dismantle their child's ability to be dependent and free, the child grows up to be codependent only on those who took their power from them. That's probably why she couldn't live without them, not just l8ve, because she literally couldn't survive without them.

@NikkiC777

3 жыл бұрын

@@SilentTrip That makes sense. It was a messed up situation and I can't imagine a parent taking away a 22 year olds phone. The whole thing just sounds so awful. I hate to say it but in a way I do sympathize with her. It's just that I know she should have just left too.

@antoniogarza2020

3 жыл бұрын

Thats exactly what happened to me 🤣

@SilentTrip

3 жыл бұрын

@@NikkiC777 I have seen this dynamic in households with abusive parents. They literally control what the child know and shouldn't know. So they can keep the child in control (resources + knowledge) and the child would never leave them. Most of these kids grow up not knowing how to do basic adult things on their own. Because they were never raised to be on their own, the abusive parents use this method to keep the child with them forever (preferably take care of the parent when they get old as well). It is abusive and disgusting parenting style, usually damages the child forever and the child who turns adult resorts to be codepened on toxic people, just so they can survive.

Hey man - I know it's been almost 2 years, but I still want to thank you for this in-depth look at Jennifer Pan. Your videos handle her story in a fair light and allow her story to really come out. Very well done! Keep up the good work!

Her brother throughout this entire thing: 👁️👄👁️

@itstysonpham

3 жыл бұрын

Her mom throughout the entire thing: 🪦

This is one of those cases where you can't condone the actions, but you can completely understand (in hindsight) why things occurred the way they did, and if you were put in the same situation, it's hard to say that you wouldn't do similar things. Desperate people do desperate things. Doesn't make it right by any means, though.

@emb5048

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. It's definitely not okay, but you can see why she cracked.

@jer8279

Жыл бұрын

No, i wouldn't kill my fucking family nor condone it. Wtf is wrong with you people? Is it because she looks harmless? She'd easily rob and kill you

My upbringing was a lot like Jennifer’s. 100% her parents would’ve bragged to their friends about how successful and hard working she was. See, most people disappoint their parents gradually over time until their parents come to terms with the fact you’ll never be a heart surgeon. She did it all at once; because she lied about school, the truth threw everything into turmoil.

@doctorshell7118

2 жыл бұрын

Trust me, they’re disappointed in you even when you’re a heart surgeon. You just can’t win with some parents.

@33Jenesis

Жыл бұрын

The bragging is what I dislike the most. They want high achieving kids as bragging right. I always call it out when I hear it. Instead of “how wonderful!”, I ask if the kid is happy.

This case is messed up. There's another great video on it on Jim Can't Swim's channel, JCS, where he breaks down the entire interrogation. Thanks for this!

@merediths2cents

3 жыл бұрын

Love Jim can’t swim

@deepstatethrombosis

3 жыл бұрын

@@merediths2cents check out Matt Orchard :)

@namco003

3 жыл бұрын

Is that what JCS stands for? I first watched this interrogation break down on that channel. Then saw the That Chapter episode and now this one. Interesting

@noka1979

3 жыл бұрын

@@namco003 yes. It was called that previously

@namco003

3 жыл бұрын

@@noka1979 JCS started my rabbit hole on KZread crime docs. Chris Watts and Stephanie Lazarus interrogations were too good not to watch the whole thing.

This is a brilliant channel I discovered by accident and am slowly working my way through the library. This is a really professional channel the analysis and presentation are first class and I love the way the narration is interspersed with trial and interrogation footage which links seamlessly into the story. Really impressive guys and unfortunately you will never run out of subject matter the world seems to have plenty of monsters readily available. Great channel guys!

@shantini2911

Жыл бұрын

Agrred

I can’t help but feel sorry for her. Lying to cope gets out of control so easily. It’s a mental burden that constantly eats away at you. In my opinion tiger parents are abusive. To not let your own child take time for themselves (play, be bored, relax) is cruel.

@FOXAMG63

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed however having your parents murdered isn’t the answer.

@ladyville3

2 жыл бұрын

And you have kids running around hurting people because of no discipline. My parents were strict, I turn out well, successful, my sister didn’t. No perfect thing, but statistics show strict parents have more successful kids than, just look at the generation now. And the so many young girls pregnant……….

@jer8279

Жыл бұрын

She's a murderer. I dont feel a damn thing for her. I am not mentally stable, but hey this young innocent looking girl. Give me a fucking break

I’ve always been so torn with this case. Her parents didn’t deserve to die but I don’t think they were especially fair on Jennifer....idk, man

@debshaw680

3 жыл бұрын

That’s serious abuse. It wasn’t a matter of fairness.

@wiredgamez9929

3 жыл бұрын

SHIT is Fucked 😤

@gristamshackleford2102

3 жыл бұрын

they were terrible parents that abused her. she didnt have to kill them though

@wiredgamez9929

3 жыл бұрын

@@gristamshackleford2102 Eh.🤷🏿‍♂️

@myLizardisgreat

3 жыл бұрын

@@gristamshackleford2102 I’m with you

Those helicopter parents ran straight into their own tail rotor.

@angiet7380

3 жыл бұрын

It's really a shame. Most helicopter parents aren't killed by their long-suffering children

@Ottedikkie

3 жыл бұрын

@@angiet7380 they should...

@cheshirecat2641

3 жыл бұрын

They weren't helicopter parents. They were *controlling* parents - massive difference. Though neither is good 1st type is about overprotection 2nd one is about tyranny

@LaKeithD

3 жыл бұрын

Thats a hyper accurate analogy 🤣

@nima7205

3 жыл бұрын

​@@Ottedikkie 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝖔𝖓𝖑𝖞 𝖕𝖊𝖔𝖕𝖑𝖊 𝖜𝖍𝖔 𝖘𝖍𝖔𝖚𝖑𝖉 𝖇𝖊 𝖐𝖎𝖑𝖑𝖊𝖉 𝖎𝖘 𝖞𝖔𝖚 𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝖗𝖊𝖘𝖙 𝖔𝖋 𝖞𝖔𝖚 𝖆𝖙𝖍𝖊𝖎𝖘𝖙 𝖉𝖊𝖌𝖊𝖓𝖊𝖗𝖆𝖙𝖊 𝖈𝖔𝖈𝖐𝖗𝖔𝖆𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖘. 𝖄𝖔𝖚 𝖜𝖎𝖑𝖑 𝖇𝖊 𝖐𝖎𝖑𝖑𝖊𝖉 𝖔𝖓 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕲𝖑𝖔𝖗𝖎𝖔𝖚𝖘 𝕯𝖆𝖞 𝖔𝖋 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕾𝖊𝖈𝖔𝖓𝖉 𝕮𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖔𝖋 𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝕷𝖔𝖗𝖉 𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝕾𝖆𝖛𝖎𝖔𝖚𝖗 𝕵𝖊𝖘𝖚𝖘 𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘𝖙. 𝕴𝖓 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝖒𝖊𝖆𝖓𝖙𝖎𝖒𝖊, 𝖍𝖊𝖗𝖊 𝖎𝖘 𝖊𝖛𝖎𝖉𝖊𝖓𝖈𝖊 𝖙𝖍𝖆𝖙 𝖆𝖇𝖚𝖘𝖎𝖛𝖊 𝖕𝖆𝖗𝖊𝖓𝖙𝖘 𝖆𝖗𝖊 𝖘𝖆𝖎𝖓𝖙𝖘, 𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝖙𝖍𝖆𝖙 𝖎𝖙 𝖎𝖘 𝖍𝖔𝖜 𝖆𝖑𝖑 𝖕𝖆𝖗𝖊𝖓𝖙𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖘𝖍𝖔𝖚𝖑𝖉 𝖇𝖊: 𝕻𝖗𝖔𝖛𝖊𝖗𝖇𝖘 23:14: 𝕿𝖍𝖔𝖚 𝖘𝖍𝖆𝖑𝖙 𝖇𝖊𝖆𝖙 𝖍𝖎𝖒 𝖜𝖎𝖙𝖍 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝖗𝖔𝖉, 𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝖘𝖍𝖆𝖑𝖙 𝖉𝖊𝖑𝖎𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖍𝖎𝖘 𝖘𝖔𝖚𝖑 𝖋𝖗𝖔𝖒 𝖍𝖊𝖑𝖑. 𝕰𝖝𝖔𝖉𝖚𝖘 20:12: 𝕳𝖔𝖓𝖔𝖗 𝖞𝖔𝖚𝖗 𝖋𝖆𝖙𝖍𝖊𝖗 𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝖞𝖔𝖚𝖗 𝖒𝖔𝖙𝖍𝖊𝖗, 𝖘𝖔 𝖙𝖍𝖆𝖙 𝖞𝖔𝖚 𝖒𝖆𝖞 𝖑𝖎𝖛𝖊 𝖑𝖔𝖓𝖌 𝖎𝖓 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝖑𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕷𝖔𝖗𝖉 𝖞𝖔𝖚𝖗 𝕲𝖔𝖉 𝖎𝖘 𝖌𝖎𝖛𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖞𝖔𝖚. 𝕴 𝖌𝖆𝖗𝖆𝖚𝖓𝖙𝖊𝖊 𝖙𝖍𝖆𝖙 𝖞𝖔𝖚𝖗 𝖇𝖑𝖔𝖔𝖉 𝖘𝖍𝖆𝖑𝖑 𝖇𝖊 𝖘𝖕𝖎𝖑𝖙 𝖔𝖓 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕲𝖑𝖔𝖗𝖎𝖔𝖚𝖘 𝕯𝖆𝖞 𝖔𝖋 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕾𝖊𝖈𝖔𝖓𝖉 𝕮𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖔𝖋 𝕵𝖊𝖘𝖚𝖘 𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘𝖙 𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝕷𝖔𝖗𝖉 𝕬𝖓𝖉 𝕾𝖆𝖛𝖎𝖔𝖚𝖗. 𝖄𝖔𝖚 𝖉𝖊𝖘𝖊𝖗𝖛𝖊 𝖓𝖔𝖙 𝖔𝖓𝖑𝖞 𝖉𝖊𝖆𝖙𝖍, 𝖇𝖚𝖙 𝖆𝖑𝖘𝖔 𝖊𝖙𝖊𝖗𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖞 𝖎𝖓 𝕳𝖊𝖑𝖑. 𝕵𝖊𝖘𝖚𝖘, 𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝖗𝖊𝖘𝖙 𝖔𝖋 𝖍𝖎𝖘 𝕾𝖆𝖎𝖓𝖙𝖘, 𝖘𝖍𝖆𝖑𝖑 𝖕𝖗𝖊𝖘𝖎𝖉𝖊 𝖔𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖞𝖔𝖚𝖗 𝖏𝖚𝖘𝖙 𝖊𝖙𝖊𝖗𝖓𝖆𝖑 𝖕𝖚𝖓𝖎𝖘𝖍𝖒𝖊𝖓𝖙 𝖎𝖓 𝕳𝖊𝖑𝖑, 𝖜𝖍𝖊𝖗𝖊 𝖙𝖍𝖊𝖗𝖊 𝖜𝖎𝖑𝖑 𝖇𝖊 𝖜𝖊𝖊𝖕𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝖌𝖓𝖆𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖔𝖋 𝖙𝖊𝖊𝖙𝖍. 𝖄𝖔𝖚 𝖜𝖎𝖑𝖑 𝖇𝖊 𝖇𝖗𝖔𝖚𝖌𝖍𝖙 𝖙𝖔 𝖏𝖚𝖘𝖙𝖎𝖈𝖊. 𝖄𝖔𝖚 𝖆𝖗𝖊 𝖓𝖔𝖙𝖍𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖇𝖚𝖙 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝖕𝖗𝖔𝖕𝖊𝖗𝖙𝖞 𝖔𝖋 𝖆 𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖓. 𝕿𝖍𝖎𝖘 𝖜𝖔𝖗𝖑𝖉 𝖘𝖍𝖆𝖑𝖑 𝖇𝖊𝖈𝖔𝖒𝖊 𝖆 𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖓-𝖔𝖓𝖑𝖞 𝖉𝖔𝖒𝖎𝖓𝖎𝖔𝖓, 𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝖞𝖔𝖚 𝖜𝖎𝖑𝖑 𝖇𝖊 𝖏𝖚𝖘𝖙𝖑𝖞 𝖐𝖎𝖑𝖑𝖊𝖉. 𝖄𝖔𝖚 𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝖗𝖊𝖘𝖙 𝖔𝖋 𝖞𝖔𝖚 𝖆𝖙𝖍𝖊𝖎𝖘𝖙 𝖇𝖆𝖘𝖙𝖆𝖗𝖉𝖘.

This case blows my mind. Her actions and decisions on how to get out from under her parents control are abhorrent and despicable I really wish she had the courage to walk away from her family - at least until she became more confident and stable as an adult. I absolutely think this type of parenting is abusive and beyond controlling. It’s not a parents job to turn their children into whatever they believe they should be.

@yeshuasage3724

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely flabbergasted too. Many many of us who come from conservative backgrounds have really domineering and controlling parents and even down right abusive parents (especially dads) to the point where we feel we are drowning, then we simply rebel and go through a reckless phase, then when we grow up and calm down, we and our parents make up and make amends and explain to our parents what they did wrong. I just cannot fathom what would drive someone to put a hit on their parents unless they sexually abused them or something which almost never happens. Jennifer’s upbringing was nothing out of the ordinary…..

@PyrrhusBrin

2 жыл бұрын

I'm surprised she didn't just keep bartending and talk with her friend about being her roommate. While it wouldn't have been what she was used to she could've taken steps to build her life from there. Hell she could've used it to prove to her parents that she was stronger than they expected and that she didn't need them anymore.

@6lacksappho456

Жыл бұрын

​@@yeshuasage3724 you literally just explained what would possibly drive someone to put a hit out on their parents, even before any mention of sexual abuse

@tundrawomansays694

Жыл бұрын

@@6lacksappho456 Right?! And “abusive asshole” isn’t a “culture.”

@jothriny

2 ай бұрын

I think it was more the rage for the abuse, not only the walking away...

I guess I have sympathy for her because she couldn’t see an end to her torment. My mother was like this but also violent. Never when my dad was around and we never wanted to hurt him by telling him. But we had him. And I adored him. But I know exactly how she saw her life turning out. Even if she did everything right there’s no pleasing the abuser and it never ends.

@draftmagicagain1000

3 жыл бұрын

Couldn't see an end!? They told her leave if you want to, but we wont help you. She didn't want to work hard and have responsibility. So she stayed cuz she was lazy.. What BS...

@PyrrhusBrin

2 жыл бұрын

@@draftmagicagain1000 I think she wasn't completely lazy, I think she was a product of her environment. All of her successes didn't matter to her parents because it was never enough for them so she felt she had to lie once she wasn't able to keep up with their expectations.

@tatt4music

2 жыл бұрын

Then this idiot should have left. Instead she chose to murder her parents. Genius.

My parents were strict as hell. Promise. I never wanted to kill them. And I didn't spin a web of lies to them. I DO understand her mentality, but this was no excuse for murder.

@debshaw680

3 жыл бұрын

I’m betting your parents were nothing like hers.

@Ajin718

3 жыл бұрын

@@debshaw680 exactly, she was already in her 20’s living like a grounded 16yr old

@lucaa.9709

3 жыл бұрын

I would just disown them

@incognito4522

3 жыл бұрын

Same and my dad was an alcoholic and we were living in poverty. I married at 18 a real creep instead of killing my parents

@roleat

2 жыл бұрын

@drew scrivers she wasn't raised right and was never empowered as an individual. Killing them was her "escape".

They went full North Korea mode on her. No access to internet, no access to cellphones, 9pm curfew, forced to quit her job, forced to choose her parents or her boyfriend (ultimatems), etc...she was a 22 year old woman at the time To all the people saying her parents just cared about her and she is wrong and it's all her fault...you do realize thats all abuse right? She was made a prisoner...her parents didn't deserve murder...but don't act like they didn't do anything wrong.

@booyas4023

3 жыл бұрын

Isolation is a form of abuse...

@kylerdalton4488

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@Elgallonegro666

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed .

@reneeboyd80

3 жыл бұрын

100 percent correct.

@dennislp3

3 жыл бұрын

@Belltown Daisy Nobody said that and nobody asked...also you are not even comparing the same things...

I feel terrible for this girl. I felt this fear of disappointment from my Mom when I was 17. It’s overwhelming. I would never hurt my mom though. I hurt myself at the time. Then we worked on things.

@addie_is_me

3 жыл бұрын

Your parents were not tiger parents.

@misscyanic2484

3 жыл бұрын

I hope things are better for you now

@jupiterssong8127

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t feel bad for her. I wouldn’t want to live next door to something like her. Manipulative , lying murderer who had her own parents shot. Disgusting. She could have just left home and gotten a job to pursue the life she wanted.

@MsTinkerbelle87

3 жыл бұрын

@@jupiterssong8127 what would make her a bad neighbor lol

@deadseven3474

3 жыл бұрын

@@addie_is_me seems like a weird assumption but ok

Great video, You can see the investigator getting more pissed off as the story Jennifer is telling gets more unbelievable, Cant wait for part 2! Much Love guys! 😊

It's eerie how calm she is.

@worsethanjoerogan8061

3 жыл бұрын

Apparently she was on anti anxiety drugs. That could explain it.

@JLynnEchelon

3 жыл бұрын

There's something about her voice that scares me. It's not just calm, it's so~~~calculated.

@debshaw680

3 жыл бұрын

She’s part of a culture where expressing negative emotions is frowned upon. They may have been punished for doing so given how her parents were.

@addie_is_me

3 жыл бұрын

@@JLynnEchelon She learned to do that for her parents.

@justagirpup

3 жыл бұрын

I don't think she realized how much actual trouble she would be in. Just the vibe i get

Having had an Asian freind with tiger parents I can totally understand her. Thay are viscous when it comes to their kids success

@debshaw680

3 жыл бұрын

@Mandolin Tierney typos happen

@cheshire_skatkat9093

3 жыл бұрын

@Mandolin Tierney get real, its youtube not the SAT's. 😣

@subzero07094

3 жыл бұрын

@@debshaw680 Tell that to his "freind."

@stevedavis2473

3 жыл бұрын

@Mandolin Tierney & perhaps you can go F×K yourself. It was a typo miss perfect

@MsTinkerbelle87

3 жыл бұрын

@Mandolin Tierney Jerk..

I already saw this case on other channel, but there is something on the way you recount these stories that it never matter to hear about them again. A natural story teller.

You know I grew up with one , " Tiger Parent" who was also physically and emotionally abusive, and another who was emotionally absent, and lying does become a regular about certain things just to survive, but something else really had to be wrong with her in order to have them murdered, because at 18 you can leave home. You don't need to lie anymore 😢❤ Sad for everyone

Damn it... I clicked on but Lord it's 3:12 am work comes at 7am and I'll be back listen to this between calls.. Blessed to be working from Home and have been before the pandemic and this will be Perfect With My Blunt and Coffee The breakfast of Champions 😂😂🤞🤞

@mecolewilliams4752

3 жыл бұрын

@@tomorrow3556 lol u know it....

Once I fell asleep while listening to the raw police interrogation footage and was zapped right into a lucid dream where I was sitting in on said interrogation, in real-time. Same detective, same questions, however, instead of a stuffy cold room, we were seated in a beautiful atrium around twilight time. Needless to say, it was rad.

@blondechick9804

3 жыл бұрын

How cool!

@FionavanDahl

3 жыл бұрын

if there's a weird 2021 remake of Myst, this scene will be in it

@uAintliveifudontthiz

3 жыл бұрын

No relation to Lorne Armstrong by chance?

@yungpo9853

3 жыл бұрын

Wow Lorn you're pretty.

@nickyblue4866

3 жыл бұрын

@@uAintliveifudontthiz whale yell at her whydoncha?! She hasnt even had a kiss yet!!

IDK...if someone tried to impose themselves on me at 16, I was an a-hole. At 18, belligerent. At 20... indifferent and busy doing other things. This lady sounds like a high achiever who was forced into the wrong field - as she clearly has a creative mind - I think this would be damaging. I have sympathy for Jennifer Han. NOT for her crimes...but for her situation..This environment could destroy anyone living in the 'standard' Western society. Can't condone the effect, or the cause here. But they fit a logical progression. This should never have happened.

I've seen so many videos about her but I'll still watch this one because i love your content!

addicted to this channel . keep up the great work

With such a long, detailed, elaborate tall tale, it is truly impossible that Ms. Pan will be able to keep all of this straight.

“She doesn’t do any hand stands and she doesn’t sing Amazing Grace.” Nice little Easter eggs thrown in there!

"His dreadlocks were flopping all over the place" Dude wtf was he headbanging or something

Ngl as a child with ‘tiger parents’ i thought about killing my father often 🤷‍♀️ Relatable

@weirdautumn

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@phoenixbrenn8596

3 жыл бұрын

mood

@stephenthompson1338

3 жыл бұрын

Damn,that's a little scary

@breanna_xo

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe I’m crazy but I feel like as long as you’re not acting on those thoughts, that’s a normal response to what was happening too you. Again maybe I’m crazy but no one deserves that. especially as a child/teenager.

@phoenixbrenn8596

3 жыл бұрын

@@breanna_xo its totally a normal response! many abuse victims (and tiger parents can be classified as abusive, emotional and verbal abuse are recognized forms of abuse) feel anger and violence towards their abusers because of the way that abuse has prevented them from being able to develop normally

Notification on and here I am thank you Jiles always a treat when I receive your Notification for a new upload, much appreciated. Keep up the Great work! Stay Safe!

This is the most detailed information I’ve heard about this case. Can’t wait until Wednesday!

This 4 AM upload time is great for insomniacs like me! I just hope my Monday is going to be way more peaceful than my Sunday. I accidentally created chlorine gas by putting bleach on the kitchen counter and forgetting about it when I added white vinegar three hours later. I went to the ER just in case, and of course I was fine when a doctor finally saw me hours later. I still had to do minor shopping and kill ants while I ate dinner and washed the kitchen floor and created a sugar and Borax mixture...

@marikadolinsky9912

3 жыл бұрын

Oh wow

Yaaaay thanks for another video Mr. Monsters ☺️👍🏻

As someone who had very strict parents, I don't see why she didn't just take up their offer to leave, PI or no. The separation is necessary for parents like that to not see you as a possession but as a person. Coulda spent that money that she spent on the hit on a place to stay. Instead she took the extreme solution route, like burning your whole house down because the kitchen has an ant problem

Your videos are the perfect supplement to JCS and others on the youtubes. In a similar way that musicians comp, or compliment each other for solos, you find a way to tell the stories in your own way and show different things while retaining the important details.

I've seen this story a few times from different creators but yours is the most in depth version I've seen, it really digs deep into Jennifers back story, I don't condone what she did but it puts the whole thing into perspective. I love your channel and your commentary is the icing on the cake. Thankyou for the time and obvious effort you put into all your content. Bravo sir👏

*Damn she really just referred to the assailants that murdered her mother & tried murdering her father as the "3 gentlemen" to the interrogator I wonder if he noticed it as well at the time that she said it*

@TamicaToutLeMOnde

3 жыл бұрын

yeah that's a red flag right there!

@woodenleg

3 жыл бұрын

Big ups liquid Richard

@elainarose6073

3 жыл бұрын

People misuse this term constantly. This gets on my tits big time.

@shaaronie

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sure he did as it sure made my head pop up... like what did she just say?!!!!

@AllezlesParisiens

2 жыл бұрын

Hi leens channel

Tiger parenting is never a great thing I dont think. Smothering and controlling another so forcefully is bound to build resentment

@oldmandoinghighkicksonlyin1368

3 жыл бұрын

And sheltered children who turn out weird and are adept at lying.

@angiet7380

3 жыл бұрын

I think it depends. If communication is healthy and the parents explain why they do things, it's possible to raise well-rounded children. My own parents were tiger parents, and I love and understand them

@HeidiSchweichler

3 жыл бұрын

@@angiet7380 just curious, did your tiger parents control you as Jennifer’s parents did... at age 22?

@youtubeistrash2

3 жыл бұрын

Oh shut it. Just cause ur mom failed you doesn’t mean you have a right to criticize them. Asians are rich for a reason.

What i love about this channel is that unlike other channel is all about the case, no dramatization, not some guy on screen talking the whole video or a comedy show. This channel shows factual videos, and evidence....love it

I love binge watching things like this... I also love your voice ...you could talk about anything and i would listen ... Big Thank you

Loving these longer videos

She put so much effort into that lie that she probably could have actually accomplished the real deal if she tried.

@joshthemediocre7824

3 жыл бұрын

missing the point, she should have never had to lie about her life, she was always good enough but was told she wasnt, by her general laboring loser parents.

@gristamshackleford2102

3 жыл бұрын

the first thing she shouldve done was not be in the house when it happened. thats beyond stupid.

@tony58300

3 жыл бұрын

but she didn't want to, it was obvious the pharmacist stuff was imposed by her parents

@lilianavarela7439

3 жыл бұрын

It didn’t sound like she was “smart” enough or disciplined enough or flat out she didn’t want it but her grades weren’t even good enough. And that’s ok we aren’t all Smart enough to be pharmacists or whatever lofty dream job her parents had. Thank god my parents didn’t go that far. They were strict and still tried to be even after my divorce and 2 kids (yes can you believe it) but I was able to tell them to knock it off or you don’t get to have us in your life. Guess what? They stfu

I thought i knew alk about thhis story (almost didnt watch) however u covered it from such a new and interesting angle..im glad i watched. BRAVO!👏👏👏

44:11 "Oh he has to be interviewed too?" Amazing how she planned something and didn't see that coming

Honestly, I cant imagine growing up and never feeling good enough or loved. Conditional love and abuse and manipulation, I can understand why she isn't remorseful about what she did, her parents seemed to barely care about her rather more so how she made them look.

@kristinebailey6554

2 жыл бұрын

same ! They treated her like shite.

Me watching this with my mom: Mom: You know your father and I don’t care what you go to school for right!😳 Me: Ooookkkaaayyy! You know I would never! Mom: Just checking! 😉🤣

@jdrobinson3468

2 жыл бұрын

Right most normal people would never do this.

@USNMelDaria

2 жыл бұрын

@@jdrobinson3468 I couldn’t imagine harming anyone, let alone my parents!!

@jdrobinson3468

2 жыл бұрын

@@USNMelDaria I swear

Great video, and love the helpful resources you share at the end.

Most of the cases are really about soulless animals, but it is a bit different. Yes, she should not have killed her parents, but technically she was kept like a studying robot at the age of 22. I feel a kind of understanding here.

@BettyWhite2171

3 жыл бұрын

She could have just ran away. She was 22 years old.

@justinea5936

3 жыл бұрын

Me too. She was so trained. She could have walked away from her parents. Especially since she was supporting herself

@sailormoon206

3 жыл бұрын

She had a choice to leave, but didn't.

@kenco4208

3 жыл бұрын

@@sailormoon206 true

@poetry.in.motion...

3 жыл бұрын

She could have moved out... She began to act the fool AFTER her boyfriend hit that G-Spot... EXCUSES are for those who make them... She's a prime candidate for those who should be UNDER the JAIL...💯💯

This is why I stay up till 1am on Sundays before work :D

@angiet7380

3 жыл бұрын

Ayy fellow westside dweller

@gbmarsh64

3 жыл бұрын

Lol, same! Just looked at my phone, yep 1am. Oh well Mondays are usually pretty chill at work so...

I truly do feel terrible for her. Her life was absolute hell and no one around her could help. I am in no way condoning what she did, but we’ve certainly let off murderers for a hell of a lot less reason.

@derp195

Жыл бұрын

Same. It's obviously not ok what she did, but her parents are basically a textbook example of how you raise a child to be a demotivated liar who has no idea how to escape.

@seka1986

9 ай бұрын

MURDER IS A CRIME

Just found out your channel. Great work, really looking forward to the next video while checking your catalog. The tone and cadence of your voice is perfect for the subject matter and the scripts are usually tight (I noticed some structure/phrasing repetition between videos but nothing too serious). Keep it up!

I know the story as multiple you tubers have covered, however I did not know she had a brother… I find your videos to go the extra mile and I’ve now spent hours watching them! (I’ll invoice you for my time eventually lol).. Just to say thanks and please keep it up!

I’ve never heard of this case, but you can understand how she turned out the way she did. It’s child abuse.

@youtubeistrash2

3 жыл бұрын

No it’s not

@draftmagicagain1000

3 жыл бұрын

Justified?

@publiusventidiusbassus1232

3 жыл бұрын

No, its not. The average person is not going to turn out a *murderer* because of super strict parenting. She's just evil and not very smart.

Love your informative videos. I enjoy watching JCS's content and in his absence your true crime coverage is great. Nothing but respect for you 👍🏾

@chickenlittle5095

3 жыл бұрын

If you enjoy the JCS type, try Matt Orchard.

@Sssilk84

3 жыл бұрын

@@chickenlittle5095 thanks ill have a look!

I usually don't click on videos of cases I've already heard of, but I watch cases im familiar with on this channel because i know ill learn something new and fascinating about the case I've never heard before. I 🖤this channel!

random, but cannot express how much i love this youtube. THANK YOU !!!! your hard work means so much !

This case has some of the most classic Columbo-style detective work. I really think that they made the final decision about her potential involvement & to pursue questioning her as a suspect based on one pivotal thing... the safe. There's a big safe in her parent's bedroom. She doesn't mention it in her story; the detective has to ask about it. The intruders didn't even try getting into it. Why? There was no money in the safe. But they wouldn't have known that it wasn't worth their while... unless Jennifer had told them. If they were actual robbers, they would have at least tried to get it open, or demanded the combination from her family while asking where their wallets were. It would've, at the very least, featured in her story. She honestly just didn't think it through logically, and towards the end of her interrogation it's a huge (but subtle) tipping point where she realizes her story is completely crumbling as the detective confirms that she had knowledge that the safe was empty of valuables.

@FA-dv5he

3 жыл бұрын

oop

@laradesautel3013

2 жыл бұрын

Plus, her dad lived and knew the truth so…

@kaceycruz3870

2 жыл бұрын

Ooh good clue I have t heard of that before

@seka1986

9 ай бұрын

Why is it Colombian?

@srahhh

9 ай бұрын

@@seka1986 Hahaha, "Columbo" is the name of a fictional detective from a TV show back in the 1960s! Not Colombian 😄

OAC hasn't been a thing in Ontario since like 98.... At least not in any school I know of... I also remember this case... I've seen this case so many times but it still intergues me

I'm from Toronto and still remember when this happened! Its was such a twist no one was expecting. Especially since the dad survived the attack.

GREAT CHANNEL! You find all the interesting details and video that other channels leave out

If only she would have went no contact with her parents and lived her life the way she chose... Everyone would still be alive.

@wendynothaft8197

3 жыл бұрын

Or....would they?????🤤🙄🤔😁🙃

@aceykrew5207

3 жыл бұрын

Not if her dad hired up private investigator like he said he would. There was literally no way for her to be free and live her own life.

I keep forgetting I live down the road from Jennifer’s home for life: Kitchener’s “Grand Valley Institute for women”. Probably not the type of ‘institute’ she was wanting to attend.

Thank you for another great video!

Thank you so much for the exit stories! God bless!