Resentment & Unspoken Expectations in Marriage | Eps 4 | The Noble Marriage
The Noble Marriage | Episode 4: Unspoken Expectations We Entered Marriage With
Welcome to The Noble Marriage, where real couples have relatable, raw, and real conversations about marriage and life!
In this episode, Travis and Adelle open up about the unspoken expectations they brought into their relationship, setting the stage for their marriage journey.
Here's what you'll learn:
How childhood experiences can shape our expectations of love and marriage.
The dangers of entering a relationship hoping your partner will "complete" you.
Why unspoken expectations can lead to disappointment and resentment.
Are you looking for a trophy spouse or a true partner?
Does your faith (or lack thereof) impact your relationship?
Setting boundaries and having open communication from the start.
Looking back on your own relationship, what unspoken expectations did you have? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
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Through powerful storytelling and inspiring real-life experiences, we uncover the essential tools and mindset required to navigate life's ups and downs in marriage boldly. Discover how embracing personal responsibility can lead to unlocking life's hidden blessings and finding true joy.
Travis + Adelle are certified professional coaches with years of experience in marriage and family coaching. Their personal journey from Brokenness to Restoration has uniquely equipped them to guide couples through challenges. They offer a heartfelt and authentic approach to help marriages thrive. If you're seeking guidance from professionals who understand the complexities of relationships, Travis + Adelle are here to support you.
Betrayal by the person you trust most feels like weathering an unrelenting storm in the dead of night-filled with secrets, worry, fear, and insecurity. The loneliness that follows can be overwhelming. We've been there ourselves, and we know it's a tough journey that can feel hopeless at times.
Their own story of Brokenness to Restoration is a powerful testament to God's work in restoring their marriage after addictions, secrets, and infidelity nearly destroyed it. Through God's leading, they discovered transformational tools that healed their hearts and marriage.
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Thanks for watching! Did you enter your relationship with unspoken, unmet expectations?" Drop a comment below and share what some of your expectations were if this is you!
My husband and I just got married 11 days ago (3/23/24), but have been dating for 14 1/2 years ... we've just recently come out of the heart break of infidelity and me finding out back in August ... and with 7 months of therapy (couples and he went individually) , and him finding Jesus ... he is a different man! He is truly a man that was turned around and is serving the Lord with all his heart and soul. I'm trying not to be a 'helicopter' wife ... and the devil still tries to 'take my mind there' ... BUT GOD ! We are navigating ... but, I have to tell you, when I first found out about the infidelity ... I found your KZread channel and it has greatly helped me with my heart break, and he has also listened to a few episodes with me. We found eachother spiritually and in CHRIST, and now are both committed to eachother, to Christ, and to this marriage. Thank you for your transparency and this channel !
@TheNobleMarriage
3 ай бұрын
I so appreciate your transparency and vulnerability in this post. You add so much value and hope to others when you share. Praise God that you both are after Jesus! Praise God that he turned his life around! I pray for continued healing in your marriage and hearts in the name of Jesus. Amen. We have some great material on our website and several marriage academy courses that you both would get a ton of value out of. God bless you both!
@TheNobleMarriage
3 ай бұрын
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How authentic and honest. Gives many insights into relationship and marriage challenges. Thanks, guys!
@TheNobleMarriage
3 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching the video and for that feedback and what it blessed you with! Praise God!
I love the bloopers😂😂😂😂😂😂 thanks for keeping it “REAL” lol
@TheNobleMarriage
2 ай бұрын
Thank you!
Thank you! You guys are a blessing❤
@TheNobleMarriage
3 ай бұрын
We are honored and it’s our pleasure to bring these videos to you. You just blessed us beyond words! We are GRATEFUL!! God bless you.
I expected my spouse to be 100% honest and loyal. Not a liar and a cheater.
@TheNobleMarriage
2 ай бұрын
Agreed! That would be a great expectation. Amen
My thoughts were “he will change for me bc he loves me.” All the things I knew were wrong about him, “he will be different with me, bc this is different than his other relationships.” I expected a different man when I married a “badboy,” & “player.” He was very kind and sweet and continues to be but the idea that he would “change” for me, for the love he has/had for me was wrong. He reverted to his badboy ways after the “honeymoon.” I as over….13 years later he’s become a better man he has changed but it’s bc he has met God built a better relationship with him and not bc of ME lol We are a in a good place now but boy was it hard
@TheNobleMarriage
2 ай бұрын
Amen. Thanks for sharing this!
So i need help even though my mind is made up now. My husband cheated on me 5 years ago. I fought for it and he eventually let his mistress go. He isnt a Christian. I am the Christian in the marriage. I’d say though, that i was also baby Christian and didnt really have a relationship with God because I don’t understand how. But i stood for the marriage through trying my best to be a proverbs 31 woman. My husband said he wants the marriage and to make it right, however, he doesn’t take initiatives. He said he doesn’t have time yet he started adding online school and regular morning workouts to his daily routine. 5 years is too long of a barely there progress. I am still stuck in the betrayal and i simply can’t get over it. I believe i can forgive once i am out and heal alone without facing triggers from him not putting in the effort each day. I just want to make sure i’m not selfish for being like this because God hates divorce and he said if an unbelieving spouse comes back, we should take him back. I let that keep me captive all this time and have been miserable. I think God doesnt want this for me too…
@TheNobleMarriage
2 ай бұрын
God bless you! Thank you for commenting. I wanted to share this prayer and the whole prayer series with you. kzread.info/dash/bejne/eqR1yqOoc9nOcbg.htmlsi=FENd4uBi1iawYQOK