Rediscovering sex after a dry spell | Lisa Opel | TEDxFrankfurt

Are you finding that pleasure has slipped down your list of priorities? Have you ever not wanted sex and wondered if that’s normal? Or considered how motherhood reshapes sexual identity? In her raw, honest, funny, and emotional TEDx talk, Lisa Opel, an acclaimed multilingual author, confronts these nuanced and often taboo themes head-on. Lisa's voice resonates across the spectrum of sexual discourse.
Lisa Opel, a multilingual author born in Germany, raised in Portugal, and educated in England, has revolutionised the world of literature with her captivating erotic works. Combining light-heartedness, education, and taboo exploration, Lisa's writing rekindles passion and encourages open dialogue. Her diverse background, from working in offices to factories and a fetish shop, has provided her with profound insights into human desire. Featured on esteemed platforms such as WDR, Spiegel Online, SIXX, and global podcasts, Lisa aims to introduce a new genre of literature to unassuming audiences. Additionally, she serves as a strong advocate for struggling mothers, helping them navigate personal transformation.
Lisa challenges societal norms, encouraging a deeper understanding of long-term relationships and inspiring individuals to embrace their desires. Join Lisa Opel as she unlocks the power of love through her transformative words! This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @shelbyspellman3046
    @shelbyspellman3046Ай бұрын

    This was actually really insightful . I love how she touched on while there may be physical barriers , a lot of it is mental .

  • @mariyagrinina739
    @mariyagrinina739Ай бұрын

    Thank you Lisa for such a vulnerable and important sharing!

  • @pleasepinchmehard
    @pleasepinchmehard2 ай бұрын

    It was such a pleasure being on that stage and sharing my story. Thank you, TEDx Frankfurt!

  • @winstontorr

    @winstontorr

    2 ай бұрын

    this is awesome lisa! absolutely wonderful talk! so proud of you!❤❤❤

  • @ms.ajones7168

    @ms.ajones7168

    2 ай бұрын

    🙌🏾 I really enjoyed this! And will definitely implement what u shared🤎🤎 thank u!

  • @Tykadesor

    @Tykadesor

    2 ай бұрын

    Hey Lisa, thank you for sharing that on stage, I hope it gets the echo that it deserves. PS : Can I get the references of your skirt, it looks so amazing !

  • @arrow0seb

    @arrow0seb

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@TykadesorYeah that skirt is wild! So cool

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    2 ай бұрын

    @@Tykadesor this fabulous skirt is by Marina Hoermanseder ❤

  • @friederikegalland988
    @friederikegalland9882 ай бұрын

    Finally! Dear Lisa, your TED Talk is marvellous. I hope it gets the attention it deserves, and the topic needs.

  • @lananhle9200
    @lananhle92002 ай бұрын

    Thank you TEDx talks ❤🎉

  • @CarniNeen
    @CarniNeen2 ай бұрын

    Been through a few ‘droughts’ myself …got a lot out of this talk. Thank you!!! From a ‘post menopausal’ 56 year old ☺️ 🇦🇺

  • @friederikegalland988

    @friederikegalland988

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for your courageous and encouraging comment!

  • @telviselvis1378
    @telviselvis1378Ай бұрын

    Love this ! You are so much fun to watch. ❤️

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @carlabanc6254
    @carlabanc6254Ай бұрын

    Amazing work and what an important topic for all!😍

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for your kind words and, more importantly, for providing a platform where important conversations like this can be held. Your dedication to spreading awareness on a wide range of topics is truly inspiring. I'm grateful for the opportunity to contribute to such a meaningful dialogue. Thank you for enabling this discussion and for your amazing work in bringing these talks to life! 😍

  • @carlabanc6254

    @carlabanc6254

    Ай бұрын

    @@pleasepinchmehardGlad you apply back in the days! To proud of you!

  • @aestheterisa
    @aestheterisa2 ай бұрын

    Amazing talk! Great Job to Lisa and TEDxFrankfurt!🥳💫🥂

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! It was an incredible experience to collaborate with TEDxFrankfurt. I'm thrilled to hear you enjoyed the talk. Your kind words and celebration mean a lot to me. Here's to more inspiring conversations! 🥳💫🥂

  • @ankithahegde6615
    @ankithahegde66158 күн бұрын

    Ah! this felt so real.

  • @vampireteddygram720
    @vampireteddygram720Ай бұрын

    I feel like that audience may not have been ready for that level of enthusiasm! xD This is just not what I think of when I think of a TedTalk.

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    Ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts! True, tastes vary, but the live audience that day was really into it, showing lots of fabulous reactions. We edited down for time, but the enthusiasm was through the roof.

  • @robertnobles8189
    @robertnobles81892 ай бұрын

    The premise is that the thoughts in her head ABOUT what other people were thinking is correct. I can’t place my confidence in the premise.

  • @naimulIslam503
    @naimulIslam5032 ай бұрын

    Great speech. I loved it thoroughly.

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! I'm thrilled to hear you enjoyed the speech. It means a lot to me to have such positive feedback. Your support encourages me to keep exploring and sharing. Thanks again!

  • @shameemaabdulazeez5165
    @shameemaabdulazeez51652 ай бұрын

    Wow! Amazing Talk! ❤

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you immensely! I'm so glad you found the talk amazing. Your enthusiasm and support mean the world to me. ❤

  • @nicolescott89
    @nicolescott892 ай бұрын

    Such a good talk. Intimacy is so important ❤

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    Ай бұрын

    Absolutely, and thank you for recognizing that! Intimacy is indeed vital, and I'm so glad the talk resonated with you on this important aspect. Your support and understanding truly warm my heart. ❤

  • @kellyrosegreene1698
    @kellyrosegreene16982 ай бұрын

    i need this video thank you

  • @mohamedananyelhadymorad6151
    @mohamedananyelhadymorad61512 ай бұрын

    Just like all of us.... To Do.

  • @BrezzaLover
    @BrezzaLover2 ай бұрын

    Great video busting modern stero types

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    2 ай бұрын

    It is so, so important 💜

  • @mitsunam7001
    @mitsunam70012 ай бұрын

    Great video!! 💗💐👍

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much 🖤 I have so many people to thank for it!

  • @user-fc8nq5sj2h
    @user-fc8nq5sj2h2 ай бұрын

    Perfect 🎉

  • @dongivafoc4493
    @dongivafoc44932 ай бұрын

    All this BS has become so theatrical it's hard to focus with the overexageration

  • @sherylheidecker9025

    @sherylheidecker9025

    Ай бұрын

    I sort of agree.

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    Ай бұрын

    Appreciate your take! Aimed for a bit of theater to keep things spicy-after all, who doesn't love a dash of drama?

  • @runw1ththehunted
    @runw1ththehunted2 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @tareqkhtatbeh7486
    @tareqkhtatbeh74862 ай бұрын

    sooooooo❤❤❤

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    2 ай бұрын

    thank you 💖

  • @ali123mari
    @ali123mari2 ай бұрын

    .

  • @MariaFalconRojas
    @MariaFalconRojas2 ай бұрын

    0:08

  • @cringecorps
    @cringecorps2 ай бұрын

    Kingcobrajfs

  • @achristianrapperjames
    @achristianrapperjames2 ай бұрын

    Lol

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    Ай бұрын

    Glad to add a bit of humor to your day! Thanks for watching and sharing a laugh. 😄

  • @innerlocus
    @innerlocus2 ай бұрын

    Lost libido is like hair loss, thank god.

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    Ай бұрын

    Quite the comparison! Just like with hair, there are always ways to embrace change or find creative solutions. Thanks for sparking an interesting analogy!

  • @Dr_LK
    @Dr_LK2 ай бұрын

    Sheesh they’ll make a talk out of everything these days...

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    Ай бұрын

    Absolutely, it's quite the era we live in-there's a talk for every curiosity under the sun!

  • @AaronHalliday
    @AaronHallidayАй бұрын

    The moral of the story (as of 1:52): "Don't have kids."

  • @friederikegalland988

    @friederikegalland988

    Ай бұрын

    Just do not forget yourself while taking care of them.

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    Ай бұрын

    Appreciate the takeaway, but the deeper message is about embracing life's complexities, including parenthood. It's about finding joy and growth in all experiences. Thanks for watching!

  • @daiyaanhasan2235
    @daiyaanhasan22352 ай бұрын

    oh my days.. how far have Ted Talks fallen

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    2 ай бұрын

    aww, how come?

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    Ай бұрын

    It's true that deeply-rooted beliefs can shape our views on various topics, leading to a rich tapestry of opinions and feelings. Recognizing and respecting these differences is key to understanding each other better. @@hyperadapted

  • @oceandizzle7
    @oceandizzle72 ай бұрын

    Damn... this reads like poetry. 🫂❤

  • @friederikegalland988

    @friederikegalland988

    2 ай бұрын

    it better - that talk was prepared in depth. And Lisa is a writer. Thanks. Delighted you like it.

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you so much! I'm thrilled to hear that it resonated with you like poetry. Connecting through words and sharing these experiences is truly special. Your support means a lot! 🌟❤

  • @isabelcathrink
    @isabelcathrink2 ай бұрын

    💕💕💕💕💕

  • @pleasepinchmehard

    @pleasepinchmehard

    2 ай бұрын

    💖

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