Red Pilled Pastor Tells Women To Stop Complaining About Being Objectified

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  • @SagittariusQueen1980
    @SagittariusQueen19809 ай бұрын

    My late father told me if any guy wants you for your body and not for your soul and character, he's not for you. Good looks can fade but character is forever.

  • @trueindividual1417

    @trueindividual1417

    9 ай бұрын

    Word 💯💯 As a dude who's sapiosexual, I HEAVILY disagree with his sentiment @ 4:34 ...There have been PLENTY of times I've seen both above attractive and average attractive rank women on IG say or do something morally humbling or charitable and my radar catches on fire all because of that RARE ENERGY from her heart a lot of women don't have out here. So this Pastor trippin. Obviously he can't control his dick and spittin excuses. Just come out and say it playboy 🤷🏾‍♂

  • @denesejamerson2356
    @denesejamerson23569 ай бұрын

    What's so sad, women were "Amen-ing" that nonsense!

  • @VidWatcher01

    @VidWatcher01

    9 ай бұрын

    Yeah the pick mes were killing me. Internalized misogyny is a sad thing. SMH

  • @elysiyah3364

    @elysiyah3364

    9 ай бұрын

    Lost sheep!

  • @amberotl5276

    @amberotl5276

    9 ай бұрын

    Some of them probably resonate with the pastor. Some women can't control themselves either. If I was there, I'd probably stay quiet (my face doesn't know how to stay quiet though) & you wouldn't see me at church no more after that. I couldn't respect him.

  • @kyrianjoseph1403

    @kyrianjoseph1403

    9 ай бұрын

    This is what got me the most.

  • @todayistheday6947

    @todayistheday6947

    9 ай бұрын

    BW tend to be a little slow when it comes to BM.

  • @Theeorie4393
    @Theeorie43939 ай бұрын

    Discipline and self control from men will heal our community

  • @mgh174

    @mgh174

    9 ай бұрын

    Men lead. Yes your right. If majority of men just stop accepting the loose and easy women and stop accepting bad behavior things will definitely change. We keep blaming women but he’s the one that has to hump.

  • @LovelyVibrations

    @LovelyVibrations

    9 ай бұрын

    It’s a man’s job to find a good wife. It’s on him! Proverbs 28:22 Whoso findeth a WIFE findeth a good thing, And obtaineth favour of the LORD.

  • @lelo46

    @lelo46

    9 ай бұрын

    PERIODDDDD. I do not understand how they cannot see that. They have DOMINION over the Earth and they use it to be a slave to their temptation and vices. From acts like pedophilia, rape, incest, molestation, to tearing their families apart and not providing enough support. The men who don't engage in such behavior are the exception, the gems, the rarity. If we were to quantify the probability of finding a man who embodies the opposite of these traits, it would indeed be quite low, regardless of the type of woman YOU ARE. Regardless of how fit, friendly and submissive you are, your chances of finding a gem is as equally difficult as it is for the woman who’s not all of those things. Let's just be brutally honest with ourselves. Yet, despite all this, most men still deflect blame and point fingers at women. It's sad because the more they deflect, the less likely they are to recognize their problematic behavior and mindset. And without recognizing an issue, the chances of changing it are slim. So now, this becomes a fundamental issue deeply ingrained and perpetuated the men. As a result there are broken with women, broken children, broken families, broken communities. I am not absolving women of their responsibility in this, i am just highlighting the VITAL role that men play in society. The wars, bombings, and killings we witness are also outcomes of their leadership. What's truly disheartening is that some men don't realize their POWER and how they could use it for the greater good! Their flesh rules their minds. They cannot be alone, and are averse to the discomfort that comes with growth; they're drawn to instant gratification, they’re never satisfied, and so on. Until this changes, the small amount of “GOOD MEN” might not ever be able to catalyze the necessary transformations, on a scale LARGE enough to effect meaningful positive change, even if they aspire to. What we truly need is change that's substantial enough to influence a vast MAJORITY of men. Until then, the WICKED will continue to hold sway, passing on these harmful ideologies to the younger generations of men, which then impact the women and children, and the cycle will persist. God would literally have to wipe the Earth clean again and start back over.

  • @adaliantsiki

    @adaliantsiki

    9 ай бұрын

    Purity too I'm sick of perversion being normalised

  • @earlinebeaman684

    @earlinebeaman684

    9 ай бұрын

    we'll never get healed then if that's what you're waiting for.

  • @misswill8488
    @misswill84889 ай бұрын

    The preacher contradicted himself. First he says you can’t catch a man at all without putting the right bait on the hook, which he described as showing off body parts, but then turns around and says if you don’t want to be objectified, then don’t show all your goods. So according to his logic the women who don’t want to be objectified will be single and lonely while the women who catch men are okay with throwing away their integrity, discretion, and dignity. None of that sounds Godly to me.

  • @natashabrown41

    @natashabrown41

    9 ай бұрын

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @tjackson4824

    @tjackson4824

    9 ай бұрын

    That's absolutely what bro said.....This was just a failed attempt to justify lusty behavior without consequences. Dude is clearly the type tht will probably commit adultery or be inappropriate with women but use this narrative to justify his ungodly interactions smh.

  • @LovelyVibrations

    @LovelyVibrations

    9 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @CookWithStephh

    @CookWithStephh

    9 ай бұрын

    This the same pastor that cheated on his wife with a stripper

  • @roseinharlem8152

    @roseinharlem8152

    9 ай бұрын

    @@tjackson4824 trust he already Beeeen doing this .. he’s basically an excellent gaslighter to an audience full of mammy azz sheep

  • @mizzmolly7649
    @mizzmolly76499 ай бұрын

    Good grief. BM can't even stop talking about s3x in church. 🙄🙄🙄

  • @MP-pp9nd
    @MP-pp9nd9 ай бұрын

    Just some thoughts.... 1. I have never seen in the bible that Jesus had sex... therefore if a man is to be like Christ; he does not NEED sex, he WANTS sex. 2. There are places on earth, where women are covered from head to toe and they are still sexualized. (and then some) As stated; a man should control himself. When he faces God, Tomica, Dickerisha, and Henrietta won't be there to say it wasn't his fault, we tempted him! 3. So if a woman is NOT attractive to men, how is she suppose to prove she has a good heart? Because I know women with good hearts that have been "incels" most of their teen/adult lives, but they seem to move through life just fine. 4. The peacher needs to brush up on the latest studies: men have biological clocks to. After age 35 they contribute to problematic pregnancies and the older the man the higher probability of health issues physical/mental of the offspring.

  • @Kim67749
    @Kim677499 ай бұрын

    The Bible said that we need companionship. Not necessarily sex. I can’t believe they sat and listened to this pervert.

  • @keason754

    @keason754

    9 ай бұрын

    It's so sad... people have developed "itching ears"...😢

  • @louisewilliams9417

    @louisewilliams9417

    9 ай бұрын

    Pervert 😅 Anything that comes out of a pastors mouth gets rejoiced.

  • @tlashai9902

    @tlashai9902

    8 ай бұрын

    Girl

  • @Dreama68

    @Dreama68

    8 ай бұрын

    Right. He on the verge of taking it. If you catch my drift. Big nasty self.

  • @Kingofthenet2

    @Kingofthenet2

    5 ай бұрын

    I agree. He’s a impostor

  • @Brook-ct3kk
    @Brook-ct3kk9 ай бұрын

    God will destroy false prophets

  • @mizkomunikation9478
    @mizkomunikation94789 ай бұрын

    “A man needs sex…” Men also need money, but that doesn’t mean men don’t have to think about the consequences of how they get it. I swear one minute men claim they’re “logical”, and the next they’re whining that they shouldn’t be expected to control their impulses and urges. This pastor is just explaining why he’ll eventually be caught up in some kind of sex scandal.

  • @tlashai9902

    @tlashai9902

    8 ай бұрын

    Exactly control your sexual impulses.

  • @brittanycarter156
    @brittanycarter1569 ай бұрын

    He made this sermon after some women in that church said he was sexually harassing them. It all makes sense now.

  • @earlinebeaman684

    @earlinebeaman684

    9 ай бұрын

    like i've said when a man/woman is always preaching about sex lust is somewhere around the corner. it never fails

  • @Heat_Rush

    @Heat_Rush

    9 ай бұрын

    Wow.

  • @greenqueen2673

    @greenqueen2673

    9 ай бұрын

    @@earlinebeaman684 Yes, Eddie Long used to teach against homosexuality a lot...

  • @tlashai9902

    @tlashai9902

    8 ай бұрын

    Wow

  • @b.jizzle6077

    @b.jizzle6077

    4 ай бұрын

    WOW

  • @Pinklady6531
    @Pinklady65319 ай бұрын

    And women don’t want a man just looking for sex. It’s annoying. Why don’t he just simply tell a woman he pursues that’s what he is after? That way she can tell him no and neither have to waste time. If he lies and pretends to be serious he can only be mad at himself when he don’t get any after the date. Women don’t have to have sex with him because that’s what he wants to do. 🙄 He said nothing about giving her what she wants.

  • @tcbullock5432
    @tcbullock54329 ай бұрын

    This is exactly why plenty of women leave men alone. Bar for Bar it’s why.

  • @Walkingsoul-qd9cj

    @Walkingsoul-qd9cj

    9 ай бұрын

    yup and if men don’t clean their act up it’s gonna stay like that

  • @Bananahotsauce330

    @Bananahotsauce330

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Walkingsoul-qd9cjlook at 2030 45% of 22-45 year old women will be single on their own accord women are tired of the bs it seems.

  • @Pinklady6531

    @Pinklady6531

    9 ай бұрын

    Facts. I’m seeing it everywhere now. Women are saying they have no interest in men anymore, staying abstinent , and want to stay single forever. We don’t want anything to do with them anymore because they are disgusting.

  • @Alexander44665

    @Alexander44665

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@Walkingsoul-qd9cj We are also starting to do the same to women. If women don't clean up their act then no ring.

  • @cwhite8860
    @cwhite88609 ай бұрын

    If I EVER hear these types of words coming out of the mouth of any man so called Pastor, I will get up and walk out. This male in a suit has not ever studied the bible. Thank you Shumake for the lesson, hopefully blue suit will see this video and learn. Blessing!

  • @greenqueen2673

    @greenqueen2673

    9 ай бұрын

    Right? And did not utter one single scripture.

  • @itspiinkyrose4324

    @itspiinkyrose4324

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes!! I would first tell him off before walking off!! I cannot believe the blasphemy in this video and it’s really making me so mad!!

  • @Balgees24
    @Balgees249 ай бұрын

    I'm so tired of hearing we need to do this and that, and it's a woman's job to get everyone together. and I hate when older women sit there and agree with this. it's your job to have your life together and not your future partner.

  • @adeOLUWA

    @adeOLUWA

    9 ай бұрын

    Like!!!

  • @Kingofthenet2

    @Kingofthenet2

    5 ай бұрын

    Nothing you said here is a lie sis 🔥🔥🔥

  • @teecee1678
    @teecee16789 ай бұрын

    He is the example of a "wolf in sheep's clothing". Men raised following and accepting true biblical instruction respect God’s daughters no matter what she's wearing or not wearing. They can see that if she's wearing very little and doing alot to try to get the wrong attention that she needs protection and there's something broken in her. Real men of God instinctively feel inclined to protect, not act like the animals he has dominion over and be a slave to lust. It's time to renew our minds. People can start with listening to "She deserves better- raising healthy daughters" so that our daughters don't sound like the pitiful women in the backyard agreeing with this representative of the adversary. . .

  • @eac-guy7272

    @eac-guy7272

    9 ай бұрын

    I wonder if the congregation knows the meaning of "Amen"?

  • @ronalddowdell1931

    @ronalddowdell1931

    9 ай бұрын

    Absolutely.

  • @mother_prana

    @mother_prana

    6 ай бұрын

    Exactly. I feel sorry for their souls, but God gave us a choice. They're choosing to listen to a wayward man lost in his own vices. Lost to the point where he has to rationalize his sin.... He's definitely a legion member, but the congregation is the legion's footmen in the making.

  • @gloriamathews6452
    @gloriamathews64529 ай бұрын

    I agree with you, he should have stuck to the word and he never did refer to the bible to back up what he was saying.

  • @hotcocoacinamonbrown
    @hotcocoacinamonbrown9 ай бұрын

    I'm exhausted with this notion that only men desire intimacy. I'm exhausted with the double standard of it's fine for men to sleep around but women are "304s", yet if a woman doesn't sleep with a man on the first date, then a man is allowed to play games on her. If she does, he doesn't respect her. Yet if a woman turns around and plays the game; then she's still a "304". Also, does anyone want to tell pastor women are born with all one million eggs and men acquire their sperm in puberty. Third, a man may have fifty million sperm yet all those fifty men sperm will die during the act, except that gifted one that is needed for implantation. So...what is this man talking about? It's like men don't know they can pick the better presentation but don't because of the work it requires for them; but instead of admitting that their lustful nature gets to them; it's women's fault.

  • @tcbullock5432

    @tcbullock5432

    9 ай бұрын

    It’s sickening and you hit the nail on it

  • @elysiyah3364

    @elysiyah3364

    9 ай бұрын

    Clearly this "Pastor" doesn't understand basic Biology, he was talking about men can have babies in their 90s and I'm like Ummm the QUALITY of the sperm matters to genius!!

  • @wildonez3076

    @wildonez3076

    9 ай бұрын

    Right! And Clearly this pastor isn't in Tune with the Bible or God!! God doesn't make distinction between men and women. And lust is a sin!!

  • @vonnii1013

    @vonnii1013

    9 ай бұрын

    ty

  • @bunnyboo6295

    @bunnyboo6295

    9 ай бұрын

    @@elysiyah3364 It might be possible but yes, the quality is bad leads to a whole lot of potential problems

  • @erickalucas5660
    @erickalucas56609 ай бұрын

    There will be a bunch of people that agree with this nonsense! If you know Gods word then you know that this is NOT it! AT ALL…his mouth is why many leave the faith and leave the church. It’s heartbreaking! He said NOTHING about the scripture warning men not to lust and to sleep with their WIVES! They love to twist scriptures and add in WHAT THEY WANNA DO! And NOT what God told them to do! He needs to stay with scripture or sit down 🤦🏽‍♀️😖There will be men that will use his words to justify their behavior but be not deceived God is not mocked.

  • @restlessfae2407

    @restlessfae2407

    9 ай бұрын

    facts. This type inappropriate preaching don't belong in a church.

  • @ADR-xn6dg

    @ADR-xn6dg

    9 ай бұрын

    This is why there’s a hefty price on leaders (ie pastors) in the Bible. He is contributing to leading his flock astray

  • @Darline_ox
    @Darline_ox9 ай бұрын

    its the women co-signing for me like wth?!?

  • @evaphillips2102

    @evaphillips2102

    9 ай бұрын

    B*tchies ain’t shit

  • @Daily_Peptalks
    @Daily_Peptalks9 ай бұрын

    Thanks for calling him out. Because I know alot of people don’t call out pastors. And I was just telling someone how although I was raised baptist I dislike when they get to far from the Bible and just start free styling or hyping it up like it’s a concert. That’s just my personal preference.

  • @2okaycola

    @2okaycola

    9 ай бұрын

    As a catholic the difference is stark

  • @tjackson4824

    @tjackson4824

    9 ай бұрын

    I agree.. there was no scripture from this mans mouth just his personal opinion being passed on as Gods word. The sad thing is, many in the. Congregation will hold onto what he said like it's law

  • @Daily_Peptalks

    @Daily_Peptalks

    9 ай бұрын

    @@tjackson4824 that is true.

  • @greenqueen2673

    @greenqueen2673

    9 ай бұрын

    @@2okaycola As a Hebrew Israelite, this behavior is unacceptable. When we gather on Sabbath, we have Holy Convocation where we are taught the Word, not this nonsense.

  • @leahl7352

    @leahl7352

    9 ай бұрын

    Freestyling loll 😂

  • @godpilled9077
    @godpilled90779 ай бұрын

    So does he think that the lust is okay? I'm not sure what the pastor is trying to say.

  • @earlinebeaman684

    @earlinebeaman684

    9 ай бұрын

    he's just about to give himself up

  • @tiah5881
    @tiah58819 ай бұрын

    It's like nobody reads their bibles these days including pastors.

  • @jerryhall5759
    @jerryhall57599 ай бұрын

    If a man is chasing jezebels and Delilahs; he'll never know the value of a ruth and/ or an esther

  • @earlinebeaman684

    @earlinebeaman684

    9 ай бұрын

    he's not looking for those kind. Do you all know who jezebel was?

  • @TempermentalTart
    @TempermentalTart9 ай бұрын

    Very “worldly” pastor. I wouldn’t allow him to shepherd me.

  • @charlesolivierdorcent
    @charlesolivierdorcent9 ай бұрын

    Lust is a HUGE problem, I don’t know why us as men tend to think like this, it’s crazy. Usually I’m a quiet, introverted and guarded person but even I have to catch myself at times while I’m walking on campus at college and say “Sir, don’t look, guard your eyes, be careful”. 😂😂 It’s something that I’m working on, it’s hard, you see somebody pretty, and you want to give her a compliment, but you worried that she might take it the wrong way, because most men only see her as an object. But unlike most men, I don’t see women as sexual objects, I see women as a person I can build a empire with. ❤

  • @MelissaLona

    @MelissaLona

    9 ай бұрын

    As long as your comment isn’t sexual in nature, it will be received well.

  • @charlesolivierdorcent

    @charlesolivierdorcent

    9 ай бұрын

    @@MelissaLona Yes, I understand that. Sometimes I’ll compliment a woman I see on campus regarding their nails, toenails, or their hair just to make their day bright. I’m introverted a lot, so I’m trying to open out of my shell trying to talk throughout the day, but I’ll NEVER make sexual advances at all.

  • @rimonique

    @rimonique

    9 ай бұрын

    I've been saying alot lately that what it is that men could do to prevent these situations is bring back the normalization of the question "are you looking for anything" because men act on assumptions based on lust it's what leads to conflict. The issue isn't men being attracted to women it's them assuming the attraction is always mutual and getting sometimes very aggressively upset about rejection. Rejection wouldn't be so devastating to men if they went into things being prepared for one of *two* answers which could be either a yes or a no. Asking will always be better than assuming. What annoys me is men want to get mad at women for men not having much when it comes to men's mental health but men aren't encouraging other men to get help with their lack of emotional composure and self control, they're making excuses for it and avoiding having to get the help. I always try to acknowledge men like you who are mindful of these things but men like you aren't as common of an occurrence as you might think. It's alarming how many men really feel entitled to a woman simply because he's attracted to her. Men that are like and look like this pastor want women to force themselves to stomach the thought of being with his Jabba the Hutt a55 just because what?! He pays his taxes? He works 9-5? He pays a mortgage and owns a house? Because he has a car? All of that materialism and financial stability means nothing if you don't have emotional stability and that's why they end up angry incels blaming the world and all women... because they want a cheat sheet, a shortcut, a easy route to attracting women without having to ever work on themselves. In my personal experience it doesn't matter what I wear because of* the body type I was born with.. no matter if I try to wear baggy pants or even mom jeans.. my body shape is always accentuated and men still make degrading comments. Do the oversized look or the extra layers look and men start making comments like "take it off" or "what's underneath all of that?".. we could wear garbage bags and men would still find a way to swexualize it.. and that's why it's on men to have emotional composure. For the men that don't have emotional composure I personally don't want to be involved with them and wish they would just avoid me altogether.. I get extremely angry in an unstable way when I'm approached by these types of men.. not even joking.. I've had full on mania/manic episodes/mental breakdowns from having to deal with men who swexualize me, get rejected and insist on getting revenge on me for rejecting them. Because the question "why?" plagues my mind and because these men don't give an answer.. the not-knowing and constantly questioning why has caused me to experience extreme anger* especially about these types of situations.. and it's because to me things don't ever have to get that far.. if a man wants to know if I'm interested or not all he has to do is just A.S.K.

  • @OpinionatedBlues

    @OpinionatedBlues

    9 ай бұрын

    @@charlesolivierdorcentit really does feel better and more genuine when the compliment is specific. Keep doing that, you’re on the right track.

  • @wildonez3076

    @wildonez3076

    9 ай бұрын

    I agree! I love genuine compliments from men who then keep it moving!! I've had men compliment my shoes and that's all!

  • @TiffanyRayneOfficial
    @TiffanyRayneOfficial9 ай бұрын

    What he's describing sounds like lust. And lust is one of the seven deadly sins. In the bible, it mentions you're not auppose to lust after someone. I'm glad you're speaking to the men and young boys about self control and discipline. That's not a message that's pushed a lot to the men.

  • @r.walker7986
    @r.walker79869 ай бұрын

    They letting everybody be pastors these days.

  • @earlinebeaman684

    @earlinebeaman684

    9 ай бұрын

    except they be sent ...........

  • @r.walker7986

    @r.walker7986

    9 ай бұрын

    @@earlinebeaman684 God be speaking it into every fat bald man's heart.

  • @Kingofthenet2

    @Kingofthenet2

    5 ай бұрын

    @@earlinebeaman684this guy is a false pastor

  • @ArethaRenee
    @ArethaRenee9 ай бұрын

    I’m glad you spoke to the men on this. I haven’t heard any men do that. While it’s true women need to be more modest in dressing, men need to also understand it does not let them off the hook in being disciplined.

  • @zooey3785
    @zooey37859 ай бұрын

    I have alot of things to say about this man.. and refer to him as a man..lightly. he is using his position as a leader to abuse his power and use the word of God to promote his ideas. That's not how it works. He seems to hate women. He's not funny. He needs Jesus.

  • @natashabrown41

    @natashabrown41

    9 ай бұрын

    Great observation 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @sunshinedoesit8272
    @sunshinedoesit82729 ай бұрын

    This BS is why there's so many ignorant people in the world. Because you have the blind leading the blind smh.. best word of advice is for everyone to get to know the Bible for themselves do not listen to foolish kooning pastures or people like this

  • @ms.evegene
    @ms.evegene9 ай бұрын

    He is not a set apart man to me. Idk

  • @geebee3141
    @geebee31419 ай бұрын

    Thank you for making your points using the WORD. As for this pastor…. No men in that congregation 😒 All I hear is 5 women giggling and saying Amen bishop 🤦🏽‍♀️ Sounds like he want somebody to show a lil booty yikes 😳

  • @jayman9388

    @jayman9388

    9 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @elysiyah3364

    @elysiyah3364

    9 ай бұрын

    That's the delusion of Christianity that most Bw are under! Anything (right, wrong or indifferent) a Bm says is "Bible" but let a woman say she wants a man that embodies at least HALF of the 9 fruits of the spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control) and then you're standards are to high and there will be Hell to pay!! Bw idolize Bm like they're their gods, I can't stand it because idolatry is one of the biggest sins!!

  • @ShanteeHaynes
    @ShanteeHaynes9 ай бұрын

    Holiness has left the pulpit

  • @2006glg
    @2006glg9 ай бұрын

    I'm a sapio and demisexual. The finest man does nothing for me as far as getting my interest going, been there done that and it always ended quickly, usually by me. But a smart, genuine, self aware and kind man will every time. Waterfalls.

  • @bunchielove6893

    @bunchielove6893

    9 ай бұрын

    When I say this people think that I am lying. I get turned on when I see a man working, taking care of his children. One day I saw a guy I was dating stop to assist the elderly man, I LOVED IT.

  • @jessicatsao92

    @jessicatsao92

    9 ай бұрын

    As a fellow sapio and demisexual, I agree. No matter how good looking that man is, if he shows anything negative with his brain or his personality, I just don't want anything to do with him. I literally have trouble finding men around me attractive in any sense unless he unintentionally shows that he's a kind person. And men who don't read tend to make me want to leave them as soon as possible. I'm myself a bookworm and I can't stand a guy who doesn't think books are useful.

  • @cocoblessings
    @cocoblessings9 ай бұрын

    That pastor is carnal. He needs to stick with Scripture and not lean on his own understanding. Christians like him give The Most High a black eye.

  • @Hilarious3ris

    @Hilarious3ris

    9 ай бұрын

    Preach! That’s how they make they money. 2 scriptures, feel good music, and his own understanding. Apttmh for the real prophets❤

  • @earlinebeaman684

    @earlinebeaman684

    9 ай бұрын

    how can they preach except they be sent.....

  • @sweetcheeks4EVER
    @sweetcheeks4EVER9 ай бұрын

    I wouldn't get up, get dressed, go to church to listen to Kevin Samuel re-incarated 😏😏😏

  • @restlessfae2407
    @restlessfae24079 ай бұрын

    I think a lot of preachers today are trying to be " hip with the times". But what they don't realize that stuff that say isn't in the bible. Let alone appropriate in the church. Let's bring back the " shame on you" days.

  • @elysiyah3364

    @elysiyah3364

    9 ай бұрын

    Where there is no pride there is no shame!

  • @TVwriter23

    @TVwriter23

    9 ай бұрын

    Nah I think the fake ones are just being more blatant than they were in the past

  • @PaperMario64
    @PaperMario649 ай бұрын

    Thank you for reading the scripture about looking at a woman. It’s says “keep on”, meaning you’re staring and oogling at the woman. You’re taking time and power to stare every time you see them. That means self control is needed. Yet people always want to ignore that and make it the woman’s responsibility.

  • @TheBLACKboard65

    @TheBLACKboard65

    9 ай бұрын

    Exactly!!

  • @bunnyboo6295

    @bunnyboo6295

    9 ай бұрын

    Well, the women need to realize men are visual there are men out there that are perverts so to be careful in dressing reveling. But a man is also responsible for their behavior they should learn self-control. Women shouldn't be intentionally trying to cause lust. Where quality men have self-respect and would not engage in sexually immorality. The men overall are the bigger problem they sexualize all women for just being female. But have seen a handful of females sexualize themselves in how they dress with can cause even a good man to have unwanted lustful thoughts.

  • @zmcfadgen
    @zmcfadgen9 ай бұрын

    This man sounds very angry, frustrated and resentful towards women! He needs to deal with the state of his heart with the Lord so he can get out of God's way and just give the congregation God's word.

  • @jessicatsao92
    @jessicatsao929 ай бұрын

    Thank you! I was literally told growing up that men value looks far above everything else no matter what, and that if you are not a supermodel then you don't get anyone who wants to date you. That's what I observed throughout my puberty years and onwards, so I made it my resolution to give up on men, especially the men who think that looks are everything. Even if I were the best looking woman of all Existence, I wouldn't want to be valued for my looks. I am so glad that you brought this up. Being someone who has literally given up on love early in life (there was no love in my life and, in my family, love is seen as useless and therefore unnecessary, at least towards me). I grew up not believing in the Disney version of "happily ever after", because I never thought that was anything more than an act. But, what you say kind of gives me hope that someday someone kind and genuine will want to consider me seriously. Even though my upbringing keeps telling me to not believe in anything, period.

  • @2006glg

    @2006glg

    9 ай бұрын

    I relate to this in every word.

  • @ceeceegreene2126

    @ceeceegreene2126

    9 ай бұрын

    I relate to this.

  • @2okaycola

    @2okaycola

    9 ай бұрын

    Please date yourself. You clearly have a beautiful heart. People are flimsy but love is forever & ever

  • @terrybuckley2850

    @terrybuckley2850

    9 ай бұрын

    Awwww Sis -- God made you in his image and you are worthy of everything!! Love, financial stability, health, happiness, a partner, and everything else worth having!! YOU have to believe it though! I have been depressed, suicidal and downtrodden in my lifetime and let me tell each of you THIS -- YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH. Research and get yourself a therapist, if you are a BW, I would highly recommend a BW therapist. But if you cannot find one --- go outside your community. Get a life coach -- get whatever you need to get where you want to be. You may not see if now -- but you are worthy of everything and then some -- DON'T let those around you make you less than or undeserving! That is Satan right there (and yes, that can be coming from your own household -- remember you have no choice of the family you are born into!), but you do have a choice on how you live your life and what you want out of life! Choose you, choose wisely -- and KNOW that GOD has YOU ALL THE TIME! Ok, let me get off my soapbox! You are worthy!! #LOVEANDLIGHT #GODSPROPERTY #NEVERGIVEUP #FALLDOWNMANYTIMESGETBACKUP #GODISLOVE

  • @bunnyboo6295

    @bunnyboo6295

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes, good people are out there avoid red pill men look for ones more like the guy in vid.

  • @tessw9744
    @tessw97449 ай бұрын

    You right...Jesus said *"If you even look at a woman with lust, you've already committed adultery."* Adultery sends people to hell, if that pastor doesn't change his mind, Jesus is gonna have a serious problem with him. There's an excellent video "A Call to repentance by John Mulinde" every man should see it...in fact every woman should too.

  • @ChavisGreenard
    @ChavisGreenard9 ай бұрын

    Smh. Another one misrepresenting the Lord Jesus Christ.

  • @stephaniehenry5617
    @stephaniehenry56179 ай бұрын

    Why is this man acting like women that are fully covered are not SA assaulted by men. He's sitting up here telling men it's okay to SA ,it's her fault she shouldn't be dressed that way it's not your responsibility to have self-control. He needs to explain to these men why women in other countries who do not dress like American women are also being SA.

  • @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq
    @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq9 ай бұрын

    Discipline 💪🏾 on both sides. Humble 🙏🏾 and modesty. Virtuous ❤❤

  • @homehere9817
    @homehere98179 ай бұрын

    Our purpose in life, all men and all women, is to GLORIFY GOD! That’s it! Discipline is biblical also. Blessed is a man who perseveres under trial; for once he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him. James 1:12❤

  • @ritac-wf6js
    @ritac-wf6js9 ай бұрын

    Self Control! PERIOD!

  • @jessinthecomments
    @jessinthecomments9 ай бұрын

    Can we move beyond valuing women on the basis of looks, motherhood, and romantic relationships? Do men like or appreciate women just as people? As just human beings? Without wanting anything from them? Our communities could heal so much when we learn to establish healthy platonic relationships.

  • @T.Alexis926
    @T.Alexis9269 ай бұрын

    I'm just tired of preachers "preaching" sermons that sound like they should have been conversations with their friemds/ family. Ain't no scripture in this! 😒

  • @RobertaS127
    @RobertaS1279 ай бұрын

    "Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body... What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's." -- 1 Corinthians 6:13, 19-20

  • @RobertaS127
    @RobertaS1279 ай бұрын

    "But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed. Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death." James 1:14-15

  • @naimaevans5766
    @naimaevans57669 ай бұрын

    The fact that he even has a congregation is mind-boggling 😵‍💫

  • @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq
    @ShettikkaWoods-jl8iq9 ай бұрын

    Lascivious, one of 7 deadly sins.

  • @keason754
    @keason7549 ай бұрын

    I just wanted to make sure that you know that your choice to stand as a Godly man in this world is MUCH appreciated. Keep doing it! That poor excuse for a preacher didn't provide one bible verse ... because everything he said was his opinion...not biblical. Sadly, no one stood up or walked out.

  • @2006glg
    @2006glg9 ай бұрын

    This pastor is talking to a particular few women in that audience. It's mostly women in that room by listening and from what I glean, they don't sound like the baddie types. But there may be a couple baddies in there and thats who he's talking to. He tried to get with each of them and he's preaching about what every one of them said to him as they were rejcting him.

  • @restlessfae2407

    @restlessfae2407

    9 ай бұрын

    That preacher should be focusing on the good word.. not the women. What he is saying it full on nonsense. Because his eyes and mind are on women in the room... that's his problem.

  • @elysiyah3364

    @elysiyah3364

    9 ай бұрын

    @@restlessfae2407 He's not desirable himself so he got his nerve!!

  • @LoveAngel333

    @LoveAngel333

    9 ай бұрын

    @@restlessfae2407he should be focused on his prenatal care

  • @Shweetie11
    @Shweetie119 ай бұрын

    And people wonder why people are walking away from the church. I have a 1 year old and I literally had the thought that the church would have a BAD influence on him.

  • @jianashantel
    @jianashantel9 ай бұрын

    That pastor needs to repent BIG time. He gives excuses for men and gives all the hard work to the women. He’s the type of pastor to tell a woman to stay with an abusing husband and blame her for the abuse.

  • @angel-ke9vs
    @angel-ke9vs9 ай бұрын

    Listen I was objectified wearing my school uniform down to my knee. So, I never believed this. 😅 Sir, if we cover up you will still be mad talking about us looking frumpy 😂😂😂 we damned if we do and damned if we don't.

  • @nzingahoney
    @nzingahoney9 ай бұрын

    Great content as usual. Be blessed Shumake.

  • @TheShumakeWay

    @TheShumakeWay

    9 ай бұрын

    Thank you! You too!

  • @justcallmelola
    @justcallmelola9 ай бұрын

    My pastor is a woman. I don't have to deal with all of this madness

  • @rosedevereux2391

    @rosedevereux2391

    9 ай бұрын

    Exactly. These pimps in the pulpit are a mess.

  • @shauntikayvette
    @shauntikayvette9 ай бұрын

    The church and the world is too indistinguishable

  • @Thereasonyoudontlikeme
    @Thereasonyoudontlikeme9 ай бұрын

    This is why I stay out of predominately black churches.

  • @Kylynn420
    @Kylynn4209 ай бұрын

    That is why some of these dues goes after these Jezebels and then get butt hurt when Jezebel treats him like Ahab

  • @bd10232003
    @bd102320039 ай бұрын

    This pastor is putting too much on women and not doing enough to teach men self control. Matter of fact, the same message should be given to all. Everyone likes attractive looking partners. We all need self control, and to look for godly qualities in a person when choosing a mate. This pastor dropped the ball.

  • @sheilap9854
    @sheilap98549 ай бұрын

    The Women in the Audience Saying Amen to that Foolishness!!! I Agree Shumake Just Stick to the Word!!!!

  • @deborahjevans7829
    @deborahjevans78299 ай бұрын

    You're right, he should have could have read it from the Word of GOD, just like you did. That's one of our problems in some churches - we'd rather be entertained by an animated opinion or version rather than learn - hear - and put into practice (do) what the Word that comes out of the mouth of GOD says - plain and simple.

  • @bri_b2505
    @bri_b25059 ай бұрын

    This sounds disgusting 🤢 perverted; promoting fornication and adultery. The Lord gives men & women self control which is fruit of the Spirit. Samson fell out of his calling because of lack of self control. It ain’t that serious as Joseph, Daniel, and Jesus himself proves this man is wrong.

  • @cheese.hamburger
    @cheese.hamburger9 ай бұрын

    This 'man of God' is going to influence many women to have kids with the wrong men and when the 'irresponsible' men leave their duties, the women will have to raise the children alone. Then the same pastor will go around preaching that no man wants a woman with kids. SMH 🤦‍♀️ I can't with these false prophets 🤣

  • @Coco-nq3vg
    @Coco-nq3vg9 ай бұрын

    They wonder why ppl are leaving the church.

  • @Chyna65
    @Chyna659 ай бұрын

    Just so saddd..that's why several Men have mental issues and are DAMAGED..because of men like this and other's 🥺😔

  • @karebear78
    @karebear789 ай бұрын

    I would have got up and walked out of his church. Christ never did it. His faith was in his father God. Ridiculous!

  • @shonab36
    @shonab369 ай бұрын

    Whooooo is sitting through this “sermon”

  • @Tealilly1777
    @Tealilly17779 ай бұрын

    I like how you think young man. ❤

  • @cynthiaward4512
    @cynthiaward45129 ай бұрын

    Some were called and Some just went..

  • @sophiaelizabethphoto
    @sophiaelizabethphoto9 ай бұрын

    That pastor or whatever he is should just stick to the word . Teach discipline, self control,

  • @kiarahart3114
    @kiarahart31149 ай бұрын

    Maaaaaaaaan, when it comes to giving the word, just let it rock! Scripture cooks all by itself! It's quick and powerful!!

  • @shuniece7373
    @shuniece73739 ай бұрын

    I can't believe that they are listening to him. I would have walked out. What kind of sermon is this?

  • @adaliantsiki
    @adaliantsiki9 ай бұрын

    I wouldn't even listen to a preacher like that in the first place.

  • @22ValentineRosario
    @22ValentineRosario9 ай бұрын

    How is that a pastor?

  • @ForbsieLaLa
    @ForbsieLaLa9 ай бұрын

    Pastors like these encourage women to go back to their husbands knowing he is physically and emotionally abusive (for the sake of the marriage). The things that have sped up the over and hyper sexualization of women

  • @ChelleyD19
    @ChelleyD199 ай бұрын

    This was very good. Thank you for doing what you do and bringing an honest and balanced perspective.

  • @katiefountain2407
    @katiefountain24079 ай бұрын

    I didn't hear the pastor quote or even reference any Scripture..... Maybe it's just me. But "sermons" of that nature don't sit right. Too worldly. He's speaking like a boy just entering puberty.

  • @arleneaugustahair8393
    @arleneaugustahair83939 ай бұрын

    Nope! This is EXACTLY why I go to Manna. One hour in and out and the message solely sticks to the Bible and nothing else.

  • @ritac-wf6js
    @ritac-wf6js9 ай бұрын

    The Most High Yah said for man to honor his body as a woman supposed to honor her!! So this I’m a man bull crap is a lie made up by man!!

  • @YashivaRobinson
    @YashivaRobinson9 ай бұрын

    Joseph showed himself to be disciplined & obedient to God when the Pharaoh’s wife threw herself at him . And even though she lied on him his obedience to God blessed him beyond measure. Let that be someone from todays culture though; not all men have the willpower but need the discipline

  • @adeOLUWA
    @adeOLUWA9 ай бұрын

    "Just stick to the Word and you'll be fine." Bro Shumake.

  • @123gollc9
    @123gollc99 ай бұрын

    You know what bothered! Saying men and women not husbands and wives while in the pulpit talking about out sex !

  • @Hilarious3ris
    @Hilarious3ris9 ай бұрын

    2:28 😂😂 preach there’s more to life than booty. Go touch grass and breathe on the air

  • @queenajustice542
    @queenajustice5429 ай бұрын

    Great message Shumaker,..no one is born with self control and self discipline. Children do not possess compassion or empathy for their parents who may need rest and a moment of silence. We are supposed to be taught discipline and how to self govern and control ourselves, impulses, urges, and the understanding of what is right( righteous) from what is wrong( unrighteousness) during our early development process which should endure with us and expand throughout our lives. We are to control our minds, tongues, have dominance over our bodies, without the ability to dominate the self, we can not achieve inner peace, harmony, nor balance, that is why over and over scripture commands us to do these things. I have no idea why these things are not expressed on the daily.

  • @coryjackson6944
    @coryjackson69449 ай бұрын

    And these are messages women fill church pews to hear 😞

  • @earlinebeaman684
    @earlinebeaman6849 ай бұрын

    Stop trying to figure out these bandits. they come in all flavors even the pulpit. becky come get toby we are no longer interested and have long since moved on.

  • @amberotl5276
    @amberotl52769 ай бұрын

    If I was one of these loose young females, I could attract that dirty old pastor, and I could do it fully clothed. I am very charming. It's unfortunate, but I always attract married or taken men. I know I can be seductive... Some might say I'm a tease. I'm upfront about myself. I'm a "difficult" woman and I have too much self-respect to give my body to a random, dusty. I could never get past a talking stage because a lot of these guys want to see my body before getting to know me. I let people see who I am. I could be the sweetest girl or I can be very cold. 🌬️ 🥶 I'm turning 31 in December and I've never been in a relationship. I need a mature man. My dad was everything but mature, and it used to (and still does) make me sad that when I needed a wise father for some guidance I didn't have that. I had to be mature and guide myself. My parents are not able to show love & support. They cannot guide me. I'm old enough to take responsibility for how I choose to uphold myself and show up in the world.

  • @adeOLUWA

    @adeOLUWA

    9 ай бұрын

    💐💐💐💐💐 Keep trusting God, stay in His Word and talk to Him about how you feel, what you want and so on. It will end in praise.🎉

  • @AI-ch3if

    @AI-ch3if

    8 ай бұрын

    You might have a spirit spouse. Read about it.

  • @amberotl5276

    @amberotl5276

    8 ай бұрын

    @@AI-ch3if why do you say that?

  • @AI-ch3if

    @AI-ch3if

    8 ай бұрын

    @@amberotl5276 Because you attract the wrong men (married men) and never had a relationship

  • @kittysakuraba1656
    @kittysakuraba16569 ай бұрын

    The pastor on the left (the bigger one) had me fuming…the one on the right that was commenting, I was going “sir, yes! Thank you 😭”

  • @txLALA
    @txLALA8 ай бұрын

    Being fruitful means producing good things. Having a bunch of kids haphazardly out of wedlock is destructive so the opposite of being fruitful.

  • @joybrooks564
    @joybrooks5649 ай бұрын

    The people that listen to Thomas’s are out here doing the most, and he co-signs that way of life..they want to hear their ears tickled

  • @ebele4233
    @ebele42339 ай бұрын

    if they act like a s fiend young majority of them do not overcome it . when someone focus on one thing thats the sign

  • @Royalgazlite
    @Royalgazlite9 ай бұрын

    He was talking to his wife in this sermon!

  • @bdott1538

    @bdott1538

    9 ай бұрын

    Is he even married? And if so…that should be said at home. Not from the pulpit.

  • @Royalgazlite

    @Royalgazlite

    9 ай бұрын

    @bdott1538 I was joking l don't know just sounded really personal!

  • @bdott1538

    @bdott1538

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Royalgazlite got it. My bad.

  • @OpinionatedBlues

    @OpinionatedBlues

    9 ай бұрын

    It was definitely personal!

  • @rhondae8222
    @rhondae82229 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing.

  • @eyme290
    @eyme2907 ай бұрын

    Honestly, I firstly don’t want to hear from a pastor who can’t keep his weight under control. He’s clearly engaged in gluttony, which means he’s giving into his flesh in one way or another. He’s not fit to lead a flock. And what comes out of the mouth starts in the heart so he’s telling everyone where his head’s at. People need water & food. People do not need sex. You’re not going to die if you don’t have sex, that’s a dangerous message for him to be spreading. And thank you for posting the other scripture about how women should present themselves, I’ve been working on my style recently and getting rid of clothes that were revealing & that helped me narrow my focus even more

  • @samanthac8060
    @samanthac80609 ай бұрын

    Preach the word sir! 🙏

  • @TheLeslieMichelle
    @TheLeslieMichelle9 ай бұрын

    He's not there to speak the word of the Red Pill Nation...he's there to preach the word of God. He's a Pastor, so he should stick to the script.