RED FLAGS in managers

Last week we covered green flags in a manager and now let's go through red flags. What red flag would you add to this list?
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  • @TheJttv
    @TheJttv10 күн бұрын

    Speaking as a engineer. When your manager doesn't have a super strong technical background you are carrying the majority of the work and they fail to properly review your work with good feedback and corrections

  • @moart87

    @moart87

    10 күн бұрын

    I’m a manager with a technical background. I am actually reluctant to give my opinion on the work itself. They should be the experts, and I cultivate them reviewing eachother. Don’t depend on your manager too much!

  • @caroleharrison8884

    @caroleharrison8884

    10 күн бұрын

    That would be very painful! I'm sorry for your continued headaches!

  • @TheJttv

    @TheJttv

    10 күн бұрын

    @@moart87 I am not saying be overbearing, but there is no point in having a manager if they don't provide feedback. If they ain't adding to the value chain that position is ripe for elimination. A good manager should be able to deligate, support you, provide feedback and have your back if some other department comes storming in.

  • @moart87

    @moart87

    10 күн бұрын

    @@TheJttv a good manager can support multiple ways without being an expert themselves. For instance, I maintain close relationships with universities, so that my team can gain access to state of the art methods. In no way does that require expertise, it’s all about connecting people and understanding what everyone wants.

  • @Worldbuilder

    @Worldbuilder

    10 күн бұрын

    The worst about an inexpert leader is when they don’t listen when the experts do tell them stuff. Listen. If you don’t know what I’m doing or why, yet you feel like you can run roughshod over my work? Yeah. I’m not sticking around long-term, thanks…

  • @cklg88
    @cklg8810 күн бұрын

    I quit a manager and sued the company for bullying by her and WON! I just got out of a job, where the manager was giving deadlines but when you wanted questions answered to get the job done to hit dead-line he would never get back to you with an answer then complain why it wasn't done, when in order to get it done it REQUIRED his answers. Totally manipulative narcissisism. Not there any longer either, after 4 months. I hate working with people in companies it's all compitition to keep their own jobs.

  • @caroleharrison8884

    @caroleharrison8884

    10 күн бұрын

    Nice! I'm hearing f*cked around and found out! 💪

  • @asadb1990

    @asadb1990

    10 күн бұрын

    Wow i had an old boss do the same bs. But somehow deadlines still had to be met. He once tells me 1h before im headed for vacation to complete laundry list of tasks including reaching out to client and contractors after business hours. Then tried to force me to work during my vacation. I didn't want to rock the boat so i just told him i won't respond further. Otherwise i would've demanded my pto hours refunded plus 2x my vacation costs paid back to me. And that a hole bad mouthed me to big boss. Fyi big boss and i never worked together.

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h

    @user-qf7ud5de9h

    9 күн бұрын

    That is the definition of micromanaging isn't it? Someone like that is insecure, that your performance supersedes their micromanaging. I always ask, in that situation, Who won? So that they will see themself in the situation.

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h

    @user-qf7ud5de9h

    9 күн бұрын

    ​@@caroleharrison8884DUPLICITOUS. GOD IS NOT MOCKED BY MYRA

  • @asadb1990

    @asadb1990

    9 күн бұрын

    @@user-qf7ud5de9h i never get bosses who rush their team to the end so much so that finishing on time is more important than doing a good job.

  • @paurience
    @paurience10 күн бұрын

    I got talked into taking a management position that I was not excited about. I have never wanted to be management, but, you know, "next step". "Promotion to failure" is a thing I've seen way too often. Thankfully I ended up getting out of that situation back to a worker bee position and things are much better now.

  • @jasontungjw
    @jasontungjw10 күн бұрын

    My biggest red flag I have seen in a manager/mentor/senior/upper study (whatever you call it) is when they did not guide you properly and refused to answer any of your questions. And when you made mistakes they started to blame and gaslight you as if you are not able to do your job properly. I used to work with someone who was like this and they would berate me loudly in office whenever I made mistakes. However they would never scold my teammate if they made the same mistakes. Huh? During appraisal I was told that colleagues from other departments feedback I was rude to them??? Hmm??? I wanted to take out a mirror and shine back at them like who was the rude one? I'm glad to be out of that toxic place and my mental health has improved significantly.

  • @Krlowanigu-mg6eg

    @Krlowanigu-mg6eg

    8 күн бұрын

    When they have nothing on you they start with non quantitative things like your problem of communication, rudeness etc. Just words.

  • @nighthawkron
    @nighthawkron10 күн бұрын

    Sadly this seems to be the culture in all the companies I've worked for. The most recent was instead of listening to those of us on the front line when we see an issue or find a more efficient/economical process they just ignore our concerns. The latest resulted in the company closing the doors, lost tax base and close to 100 people out of work. You're preaching the truth.

  • @mgk2600

    @mgk2600

    10 күн бұрын

    Saw this too many times at my employer..don't listen to us then act surprised when it filters up to management and they come up with a terrible solution that doesn't work or is too complicated

  • @TriSci42
    @TriSci429 күн бұрын

    I couldn't finish watching past the 5 minute mark 😭 it was too much for me after the job I left 2 years ago, too many flash backs to the crappy place. Thank you for your content.

  • @temple85ton
    @temple85ton9 күн бұрын

    Micro manager: told me I could not work in office with only lamplight. Told me I must use the over head fluorescent light, that gave me headaches. I told her I would be happy to file a grievance.

  • @annapatton4544

    @annapatton4544

    Күн бұрын

    That I believe must be a tripping hazard and most employers would not allow it. Imagine, someone walks down the floor (or comes into your personal office, whichever applies) and trips over a chair leg or something else, they can sue the company for the injury. And so many people go on the workers comp and sit there for months, pretending to have dizziness and/or headaches because they got hurt at work.

  • @NicholasScott83
    @NicholasScott8310 күн бұрын

    As a new development manager, these serve well as tips on what not to do. I'd like to think I don't do these, but it's good to have in the back of my mind. Great work!

  • @nebulan

    @nebulan

    10 күн бұрын

    Definitely reach out for feedback and input from your team. Just because something isn't in someone's job title doesn't mean they aren't skilled at the thing. Good luck. I'm glad you're open to improvement ❤

  • @GetWellSoonR.E.M.

    @GetWellSoonR.E.M.

    9 күн бұрын

    Honestly, you wanting to improve and be self aware already gives you a leg up on other managers. Many of the managers with these red flags have zero ability to self reflect. Good luck with your new job!

  • @NicholasScott83

    @NicholasScott83

    9 күн бұрын

    @@GetWellSoonR.E.M. thanks much!

  • @cuteprincess441
    @cuteprincess4412 күн бұрын

    This is spot on! Why do so many terrible managers exist? Who is promoting these people?! You have such an eloquent way of speaking.

  • @1978dakdog
    @1978dakdog10 күн бұрын

    Both my managers have so many red flags they are created a shortage of them

  • @heiliger1000
    @heiliger100010 күн бұрын

    You are so right. People often leave bad managers as opposed to bad companies. I had a boss that was awful. He simply refused to manage. People got away with murder under him. You'd tell him things were going on and it would go in one ear and out of the other. I was so miserable and unhappy. I would get the majority of the work because he knew he could rely on me. Meanwhile everyone else just chilled. After 2 years it became clear nothing was ever going to change. I got tired of being the only reliable employee in my position so I left. It was one of the best things I've ever done for myself. From what I hear from people that are still there, nothing has changed.

  • @sass1ap
    @sass1ap10 күн бұрын

    Omg the corner on that cabinet is driving me nuts lol

  • @sarahrosen4985

    @sarahrosen4985

    10 күн бұрын

    And now I can't unsee it.

  • @alisonmccrady9289

    @alisonmccrady9289

    4 күн бұрын

    It's an electronic background, not her actual location

  • @davidadams421
    @davidadams4219 күн бұрын

    All good points! One thing I did learn from my time in the 'corporate bubble', particularly when it comes to poor quality managers, is 'carve your own path'. What I mean by that is, in my experience, you hold your own destiny in your hands, make the call that will get you onto a team doing things you might find interesting, apply for x, do the y, ask for z ... i.e. 'carve your own path'. And one thing I learned doing this is perhaps a little cliché to write down, but is true imho nonetheless, 'it's better to ask for forgiveness than permission'. JFDI.

  • @mattb9664
    @mattb966410 күн бұрын

    How about a video topic on visually identifying a toxic work environment - like during a business meeting visit to another company or during an interview. Big one I've identified over the past 24 years- when all the offices are facing the aisle or walkway where the person/people walking in the walkway are under constant view by everyone in the offices or labs. A startup I had to visit in NYC was like that - everyone knew when everyone else was going to the bathroom or going to lunch or arriving/leaving for the day.

  • @KaloyanGeorgiev92
    @KaloyanGeorgiev9210 күн бұрын

    Most of these topics were what happened to me in my previous place, sadly. Good on you for making the vid - it's an important topic and you provided some good context while articulating it.

  • @lisagatchett1
    @lisagatchett19 күн бұрын

    Thanks for the videos. Very helpful. Another red flag that I have encountered is when the manager constantly complains about his/her job to subordinates. From how terrible the pay is, the hours, to his/her boss not returning phone calls or emails. It’s not my business. It’s unprofessional but does send up a huge red flag.

  • @ltlbee
    @ltlbeeКүн бұрын

    Creating competition out of thin air, where there is none - between collegues. Thus braking good relationships between them.

  • @CanadianChick811
    @CanadianChick81110 күн бұрын

    Great stuff to know for someone new to the workplace. I appreciate it! Happy Canada Day!

  • @jwashburn6768
    @jwashburn67689 күн бұрын

    I had a micro managing supervisor who did not like me. When my manager left the company, I was moved under her. She then moved me to sit in front of her and made me set my monitor in a position she could see it. That lasted about a month before I was in the VP's office. She was then moved away from everyone. The VP realized he was going to lose good people because of her.

  • @thefeedback1478
    @thefeedback147810 күн бұрын

    I've now resigned from two companies due to my direct manager. For the recent resignation, my previous manager, who was amazing, resigned (retired), and we've had an interim manager until they can hire someone new. Well, nearly a year went by and I had it with the current manager, she's everything this video described, not sure how she was put into her role. Sad stuff, leaving a company after 7 years, but a new journey begins.

  • @Rickettsia505
    @Rickettsia50510 күн бұрын

    My last manager accused me of colluding with my coworkers. He had a right to be paranoid. After that, he was so awful that all of us began keeping records of his inappropriate acts.

  • @YelloGoGreen1978
    @YelloGoGreen197810 күн бұрын

    I've been in leadership roles for about 20 years. Some of my best "mentors", where the terrible managers where I was able to learn what not to do. The other mentors taught me the best three ways to be a leader. 1: learn from your team. Let them teach you what they do. They will give you the information that you need. What works, what doesn't work, and what may allow for better processes. 2: Collaboration. When your team comes to you for assistance, even if you as the leader know an answer, your answer may not be the best answer. Discover the problem. Give your input. Ask if they would like to discuss that change and see if they have any ideas to build on that answer. 3: Give credit to your team for every success, and be ready to fall on your sword for the failures. You're the leader, it's your team to guide. Love the content. Toodaloo! 😊

  • @jlf6235
    @jlf623510 күн бұрын

    now we need red flags and green flags in co-workers! also red flags and green flags in your employees(as a manager yourself)!!

  • @prachisharma8237
    @prachisharma823710 күн бұрын

    I had a manager who portrayed all these traits and quite frankly my experience on the team was so bad. I decided never to go back and honestly it has been a great decision. I am personally doing better, my current manager doesn't ping me for frequent updates, calendar sharing, and what not.

  • @KarlMalowned32
    @KarlMalowned3210 күн бұрын

    I’m actively seeking a new job right now because I don’t like my manager. The biggest reason why I dislike my manager is her lack of communication. I’m always the last to know about things and I just can’t handle it anymore. The trust I have in my manager is dead. Time to move on. Oh and she also demands coming into the office 5 days a week. I’m ok with 2-3 times a week but all 5 for an office job is ridiculous to me.

  • @nebulan
    @nebulan10 күн бұрын

    Yup, last job quit was management. I kinda wanna go back but decided i won't even consider it until the next contract because the current one is built to prevent work from getting done.

  • @nebulan

    @nebulan

    10 күн бұрын

    My last micromanage experience was the manager insisted on being the one to communicate with other teams. So, someone i was used to working with directly, i had to deal with a middleman directly miscommunicating

  • @nebulan

    @nebulan

    10 күн бұрын

    Not even giving opportunity for input before reassigning to another team when i could be a big help but you assume since my title isn't database admin that i can't help with database so throw a huge project on one dba.

  • @nebulan

    @nebulan

    10 күн бұрын

    I'm just venting. Sorry

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h

    @user-qf7ud5de9h

    9 күн бұрын

    This sounds like our congress

  • @juststoppingby1602
    @juststoppingby16028 күн бұрын

    Does my previous manager win an award if they hit almost all of these flags? You know what? They can politic their way to get that award.

  • @soniakaukonen1263
    @soniakaukonen126310 күн бұрын

    - "Forgetfulness" - intentional or simply incompetent - Intentional withdrawal from a project / then blaming for "others need to do your work" - Lacking basic knowledge of the task at hand but pretending otherwise (or admitting it in front of others) - Night chats, accusation chats at night - Swapping priorities - Setting up for failure. Critical feedback/blaming without camera on. - Keeping in the dark about important issues affecting livelihood - Ignorance to measureable results and pushing all time more and more work. - Considering planning as no actual work. - Isolating you from good feedback of work mates, team, and mentor to keep on backstabbing. - Preventing you from vacation and doctor visits. Robot work. -Telling you something should not have been a meeting and blaming you when you handle something offline/by chat/mail and tell you should have set up a meeting.

  • @samanthahoos9827
    @samanthahoos98279 күн бұрын

    😂 OMG! You just defined several managers that I have to work with and it’s exhausting. I space my vacations out to keep sanity. Most don’t bother with me because I do my job before they can tell me what to do, but I fume when they email me a simple task that I watched them walk by (that only takes a moment).

  • @PatriciaAppelquist
    @PatriciaAppelquist4 күн бұрын

    Thank You for doing this and giving examples. I sadly had to leave a position because the manager didn't understand the process he asked the team to do and equally sadly when I left I was asked about the mentorship process that said principal manager did not approve because they didn't have the bandwidth to do it. This is AFTER I was not in the office physically.

  • @Copyrightbreaker22
    @Copyrightbreaker228 күн бұрын

    Good video, am on my way to become one so I can keep this in mind

  • @blondyh2o2
    @blondyh2o210 күн бұрын

    The worst thing that’s ever happened to me was being “coached” on how I needed to apologize to my counterpart in front of my counterpart, in which I was being particular on what I was going to apologize for. I didn’t feel like what I did was wrong, but was willing to apologize for the approach and yet was corrected in front of the coworker. I was going to apologize to. The whole interaction was shocking considering I’m a grown adult and not five years old and meeting guidance on how to apologize.

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h
    @user-qf7ud5de9h9 күн бұрын

    GOOD STEWARDS ARE EFFECTIVE WHEN THEY ARE HONEST. IT DOESNT MATTER WHETHER THEY ARE RESPECTED BY UNDERMINING PLAYERS.

  • @mariakupper1029
    @mariakupper102910 күн бұрын

    3:40 For me it was even worse when I told them that I lack experience in a certain matter and that I’d like to consult with a colleague. They just said they trust me, that I don’t need to talk to the colleague and that it will just be fine. I felt like I was set up for failure - lost, isolated and when it didn’t work (of course), I felt like a failure.

  • @mapratt

    @mapratt

    10 күн бұрын

    Document document document...

  • @mariakupper1029

    @mariakupper1029

    10 күн бұрын

    @@mapratt unfortunately I didn’t - I was too shocked at the time and didn’t allow myself to be angry. Also was afraid I’d get fired. A year later I’m I dire need of therapy cause I turned that anger against myself and let depression into my life. 😔

  • @mapratt

    @mapratt

    9 күн бұрын

    @@mariakupper1029 Ooof. Dang it. I'm sorry to hear this. But you are recognizing it, which is grand. When I was driving to cancer treatments on a daily basis for weeks, I had to work really hard on my practice of finding something to appreciate, whatever situation I found myself in. Turned it into a game. I know how frustrating it can be for people to offer inane platitudes when you're down, and I hope that little seed doesn't simply irritate...

  • @hollivybez
    @hollivybez10 күн бұрын

    My manager passed on changes and said well it’s above my paygrade - yet this manager never pushed back - just a messenger

  • @YelloGoGreen1978

    @YelloGoGreen1978

    10 күн бұрын

    They could do two things in this situation. Explain better why the changes existed. Take down the concerns of the team about those changes. Take those concerns back to the upper management that made the changes to discover what can be further discussed about implementing those changes.

  • @lambertandcolambert6461
    @lambertandcolambert646110 күн бұрын

    So true !!! 😢

  • @kirsteencampbell6489
    @kirsteencampbell648910 күн бұрын

    Can I just say…. As a manager, my belief is if members of my team shine, then I shine. My job as a manager is to enable my team, use their skills and expertise, empower them to do their best work. I don’t need to keep all the ‘sexy’ work, because I will get to input into it anyway. I feel like my job is to make myself redundant, and give my team opportunities to get new skills. My current leadership exhibit almost ALL of these red flags.

  • @punkypink83
    @punkypink8310 күн бұрын

    everyday i thank goodness i don't work in an office. then again ive also seen bad leadership in my job field. it's how we "poached" 2 instructors from another place they were working at.

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h

    @user-qf7ud5de9h

    9 күн бұрын

    No necromancers

  • @RyanBlackhawke
    @RyanBlackhawke10 күн бұрын

    My wife's new manager contacted her at 2 AM and was fired the next day. Dude completely ruined her team so now she is having to take time away from her actual work to sit on the interview panel to rebuild the team.

  • @rossker123
    @rossker1237 күн бұрын

    I have a really good manager who wants to give me credit for a project, but I was concerned because our customer was being very unreasonable and I am pretty new, so I asked if I could put my manager as a coauthor on my work so he could run interference, as they respect him and don't know me very well. He was kind enough to do so :)

  • @goodwillbunny5773
    @goodwillbunny57738 күн бұрын

    In 2010, I quit my job to relocate to another state. Even with a union, that old job was so toxic. All those managers are gone. None were professional. I thought I'd like to comment but my stomach starts churning at the thought!

  • @andrewdavidson665
    @andrewdavidson66510 күн бұрын

    Seen all of those traits over the years. A couple of managers has near enough the entire set. Awful. When I’ve been a lead I’ve never even considered doing that stuff but some people just suck.

  • @imhotepjasonduncanson6068
    @imhotepjasonduncanson60686 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this video, I wish that was available to University Level, Intro to Engineering Coursework. Usually in that course work guest speakers are invite to the classroom and tell the student body about what to expect in the Engineering industry. Again, thank you.

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h
    @user-qf7ud5de9h9 күн бұрын

    I always listen to your topics at least twice. Sometimes 3 or 4 times. Valuable insight based on experience. Thank you. Sometimes FIRST IS A LONELY PLACE. LEAVE THE STUMP IN THE MIDDLE OF THE GROUND ALONE. RAHAB IS THE ONE WHO SITS STILL. IF SOMETHING IS UNACCEPABLE TO YOU, YOU ARE FREE. THE BIBLE SAYS IF YOU DO NOT AGREE YOU ARE NOT EXPECTED TO STAY, OR LEAVE, IF YOU DO NOT AGREE.

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h

    @user-qf7ud5de9h

    9 күн бұрын

    JOHN 9 SAYS GOD IS LOVE❤

  • @sweetietartcuttie
    @sweetietartcuttie8 сағат бұрын

    Do you mind creating an article or a google excel sheet? So, it can be something that people can look back on? This can be for green flags, red flags etc.

  • @becklee94
    @becklee948 күн бұрын

    My old manager literally has every single one of these red flags 😭 It's been almost a year since I quit but her missuse of me still holds heavy.

  • @w-james9277
    @w-james92779 күн бұрын

    Iv worked for three at three different managers at three different firms and they've all lied, told me to lie to clients, don’t share important information, never give praise but very quick to criticise, bully, threaten, entitled, disorganised, play victim, take credit for our work, never empathise with staff, expect their staff to bend over backwards for them and contact us out of hours, on weekends and even on PTO. And then they have a tantrum when one of their staff cracks and hands in their notice. I literally told my last manager that I he was the reason I was leaving after he screamed at me for handing in my notice.

  • @dalestark9505
    @dalestark95053 күн бұрын

    do you have a video on red flags on employees?

  • @ViciousBurger27
    @ViciousBurger279 күн бұрын

    I need help. I was in a car accident last week. I didn't know that my work computer was injured due to the accident. The next day at work I made the discovery, my computer did not survive. My project manager said in one breathe "I hope your okay. Do you have another computer to remote in and complete your deadlines today?" I said I think I'm okay, and no i have no extra comouter. So I spent time in between meetings trying to get a new computer set up and trying to take care of my car. Anyways I told my direct manager I didn't like how I was treated. So this morning, I called the managing director of our office to talk about the situation at hand and how I think the management team could use a "emotional intelligence" refresher. I found out on the call that this manager was given a heads up, and called this manager prior to me meeting with the managing director. He said he told me to take the day off, and I refused. The director told me i must have misherad him. I had people at my home listening to him asking me to work extra hours that day too. It's very upsetting to be called a liar by the office. Does anyone have any suggestions on what my next steps should be?

  • @darinakalinova2180
    @darinakalinova218010 күн бұрын

    As long as you have made clear you have done the work, just don't respond any question. I am manager and all what you have said is sooo relevant. The biggest if any can be established as the biggest issue is the politics and political correctness. I have learned 1 major thing, if politics is in the place there is no leadership. And Ego, OMG. Thank you for your videos.

  • @carolinemcloughlin9628
    @carolinemcloughlin96289 күн бұрын

    I had one manager who could never give a straight answer even to easy requests. Three managers since, all a dream team.

  • @SaltSweetgroup
    @SaltSweetgroup4 күн бұрын

    My worst is discrimination between the team due to gender or nationality. And when they have feedback to you, they don't tell you directly, instead they went ascelation

  • @mamibrain
    @mamibrain9 күн бұрын

    My manager called me before a team meeting to make sure I used "we" instead of "I" when talking about a project *I* was working on alone. She wanted to be included so her manager wouldn't think she wasn't doing anything. She also never acknowledged my contributions in front of her boss so I could get a promotion or a raise. I'm starting a new job in 3 weeks.

  • @Krlowanigu-mg6eg

    @Krlowanigu-mg6eg

    8 күн бұрын

    Those leeches...

  • @Steventrafford
    @Steventrafford8 күн бұрын

    Been a manager for 25 years, first 10 years I was a failure in comparison. I work as a hotel manager. Normally a high turnover role. I’ve been in roll now 7 years and have the best retention in the company by a distance for last 5 years. 3 principles I hold that influence all decisions I make generally 1) happy people are productive people 2) does the decision effect teams ability to work, create barriers or harm working environment 3) team investment - will it improve team knowledge, working method. The more you invest in your team the more sustainable consistency. My struggles are getting capable people to move on to new positions and grow. No one wants to leave!

  • @casstephens3124
    @casstephens31247 күн бұрын

    Yep. Though I'm still a kid, I retired after 30 years because of a manager. 3 months later called one of my developers. She was laid off, and 5 others quit. The department shut down.

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h
    @user-qf7ud5de9h9 күн бұрын

    THEY TOLD YOU TO READ THE EMPLOYEE MANUAL, BUT YOU DIDNT READ IT, CAN BE PROBLEMATIC😂🎉

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h
    @user-qf7ud5de9h8 күн бұрын

    Let he whom is without sin cast the first stone😂🎉

  • @Ileleana
    @Ileleana10 күн бұрын

    omg so the other day i got told that someone in upper management said that they didnt need to work on the benches in the lab (clinical laboratory in a hospital) to manage the lab.... how are you going to know what works best for employees and the lab if you have no idea how all the processing works?

  • @gryphenicedancer8796

    @gryphenicedancer8796

    10 күн бұрын

    As I have told managers to their face "If you can't do my job how DARE you try to critique me!"

  • @AleTitan
    @AleTitan10 күн бұрын

    1:09 Never met a manager or assistant manager that doesn't do this. "That's what the work handbook is for"

  • @jessm.porthos
    @jessm.porthos10 күн бұрын

    Ooo so I just had a unique/weird experience getting feedback I asked for from a particular workplace I have done about 4 or 5 interviews for different full time and part time (permanent and part time) positions over the last 10 months … do you have any videos on green or red flags on feedback from both unsuccessful and successful interviews?

  • @Pinksugarcandy
    @Pinksugarcandy10 күн бұрын

    A new red flag in a manager for me is being overly supportive in the interview and making me seem like I have a support system. I was unemployed since last February and this February I finally was able to snag an interview for this office and in the interview, I explained to them my story on how I left my previous job because management changed and made working there uncomfortable then my best friend passed away shortly after so I had been out of work due to mental health reasons for the most part and explained to them (bc they asked btw) that my friend passing away made me develop a lot of anxiety and they told me that everything would be perfectly fine and if there was ever any moment where I was feeling anxious because I was new to the job that as long as I was transparent with them that they would make me as comfortable as possible, and then when a situation arose where I got really anxious because I had to man the floor by myself for the first time I got a warning for needing to step away to gather myself after getting everything situated then the next day was fired. So yeah lmao companies and managers never see you as a team member or as family like they make it seem like they do. They only see you as a body and only see you as a number to their ranks

  • @vaughnbay
    @vaughnbay10 күн бұрын

    Red flags in "Besties".....They forget who signs the paycheck!

  • @danberes6602
    @danberes660210 күн бұрын

    I just left an employer (State agency) after 2.5 yrs because all of these red flags. It was so stressful, they never backfilled positions when people left (currently they’re down 2 Sr staff and one entry level).

  • @t.wayne21
    @t.wayne216 күн бұрын

    Lets say that in theory, me and my team are dealing with a narcissistic boss with all of these red flags. People wouldnt wanna leave because the company and actual workflow itself is really great, BUT on the other hand, they wanna leave because of this toxic boss. Any advice on what to do in this theoretical scenario? 🤭

  • @tracynyquist8839
    @tracynyquist883910 күн бұрын

    When they outright LIE over & over!

  • @acleary8011
    @acleary80119 күн бұрын

    Finding out via email to the team of a new project and make one responsible for it with no discussion.

  • @ericberger4511
    @ericberger451110 күн бұрын

    Interviewed for an IT job 15 years ago and definitely asked the hiring manager," does this job pay a bonus?" Hiring manager says yes without hesitation. Flash forward to my first day of work and new hire orientation. Somebody in orientation asked a question about what" bonus level" is mentioned in his offer letter. My offer letter has no bonus level in it at all. It's lunch time that same day and I ask my now new manager, Hey how come my offer letter doesn't mention my bonus? His response" oh gee. I guess I'll have to look into why you're not getting a bonus" I resumed my job hunt that day. I was still stuck with that bastard for 10 years cuz it was right after the Y2K 2001 job crash for IT careers. Learned my lesson boy, double check stuff like bonus status in your offer letter for sure. But the real lesson learned, was what an absolute douchebag that guy turned out to be everyday I worked for him.

  • @kahl4077
    @kahl40779 күн бұрын

    Walgreens Distribution Center in Mount Vernon, Illinois. This is just a description of how they run things there, lol.

  • @KKrazychic
    @KKrazychic3 күн бұрын

    I think if this thumbnail was better, the video would have really done well. Improve the lighting on the photo and make yourself larger and close up. I love your content and I want to see you shine.

  • @excitegugu
    @excitegugu8 күн бұрын

    I worked with a manager who is just like Michael Scott from The Office. She is nosy, selfish, and inconsiderate. She is incompetent and in the way for us to finish our work. I rather work with selfish, but competent manager I had before than this incompetent one who can't do simple math.

  • @tessawijnja5564
    @tessawijnja556410 күн бұрын

    Oh my.. Jep got one with multi red vlags .. it sucks big time..

  • @NebukedNezzer
    @NebukedNezzer8 күн бұрын

    I have been retired for 20 years. thank God and working is hell.

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h
    @user-qf7ud5de9h8 күн бұрын

    I think that everyone needs a reality check if we have any self awareness😅

  • @user-fe7sn9ed3u
    @user-fe7sn9ed3u5 күн бұрын

    Thunder stealers are the worst. And what makes it even more terrible is they have thick face

  • @kayfritz3032
    @kayfritz303210 күн бұрын

    What about Managers who can't make decisions and wait way too long? Am I just too impatient?

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h
    @user-qf7ud5de9h9 күн бұрын

    This reminds me of simon the zealot and judas iscariot. They thought they could supersede God.

  • @sounddude177
    @sounddude17710 күн бұрын

    People being promoted into manager roles: read The Peter Principle

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h
    @user-qf7ud5de9h9 күн бұрын

    YOU CARRY NOTHING AWAY WITH YOU WHEN YOU DIE. PLEASE ADVISE THE NECROMANCERS. SET ASIDE YOUR TRANSGRESSIONS

  • @AleTitan
    @AleTitan10 күн бұрын

    You just described every boss I've had and ever potential boss (I've been ghosted after accepting job offers). It kind of makes this video pointless. If EVERYONE is like this, whats the point of even knowing the red flags? The next place you interview will be full with "leaders" like this. And the next and the next and the NEXT job you move to. What's the point?

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h
    @user-qf7ud5de9h9 күн бұрын

    If you want to be first you must be the servant of all Onesiphorus

  • @michelecox5241
    @michelecox52418 күн бұрын

    What about a great place but, no paid holidays 😮

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h
    @user-qf7ud5de9h8 күн бұрын

    What does it profit a man to gain the whole world, but lose their own soul?

  • @friedrichrubbleheim9917
    @friedrichrubbleheim99175 күн бұрын

    Those that can, do. Those that can't try to teach the even less informed and/or become consultants...... TikTok consultants are the best! Enjoy your unpaid lunches......

  • @MrMndon
    @MrMndon10 күн бұрын

    My current company has no time lines thus everything can become an emergency at the wim of management.

  • @eiame77
    @eiame7710 күн бұрын

    I was told my HR that they would promote a black person who had no qualifications over a white girl who I had recommended bc she had been there for years and proved herself so they could make our work place more diverse. I said that was being racists..they proceeded to talk about reverse racism and that I would have to undergo special training class to understand diversity...

  • @Krlowanigu-mg6eg

    @Krlowanigu-mg6eg

    8 күн бұрын

    Let me guess those hr karens are nonwhyte?

  • @eiame77

    @eiame77

    7 күн бұрын

    @@Krlowanigu-mg6eg oh no she was white. That’s why she was pushing it so hard..

  • @kathleen88863

    @kathleen88863

    6 күн бұрын

    I think the "she had been there for years and proved herself" would have been a clue that she deserves the position. Not some newbie " girlfriend"

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h
    @user-qf7ud5de9h9 күн бұрын

    I think sapphira and aquila were too presumptuous. Apollygon like

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h
    @user-qf7ud5de9h9 күн бұрын

    Synagogue of satan was not supposed to kill Job. So whom is really in charge?

  • @veronicamozee
    @veronicamozee10 күн бұрын

    I'm celibate and not dating but I'm hearing that I've been married and going through a divorce. I'm not even dating. These evil rich ppl stole my freaking birth certificate for this person who's a twin or just a girl who looks like me. I really don't know.

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h
    @user-qf7ud5de9h8 күн бұрын

    IT IS ALSO WRITTEN DO NOT TEST THE LORD

  • @boydr7160
    @boydr716010 күн бұрын

    >>>>>Not available in general.Not getting promotions or raises on a timeline.

  • @YelloGoGreen1978

    @YelloGoGreen1978

    9 күн бұрын

    Raises certainly should come on a timeline. Promotions aren't time based. I've hired people who did their job far superior to their peers within months. Those longer tenured team members would ask questions about processes to those newer, more efficient team members. Performance based advancement every single time.

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h
    @user-qf7ud5de9h9 күн бұрын

    WHEN IN ROME DO AS THE ROMANS DO IS USUALLY THE DEFAULT MODE. YOU ARE EITHER A LEMMING, OR YOU ARE NOT A LEMMING GOING OFF THE CLIFF WITH THE DESPOTS.

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h

    @user-qf7ud5de9h

    9 күн бұрын

    DON'T FORGET THAT VENUS DE MILO LOST HER ARMS. PLEASE ADVISE CAROL THAT BEAUTY IS VAIN. SET ASIDE YOUR TRANSGRESSIONS

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h

    @user-qf7ud5de9h

    9 күн бұрын

    Venus De Milo lost her arms because she was a micro manager

  • @saab6032
    @saab603210 күн бұрын

    for me its weak leadrship.. glued to their seat all day gossip rather than making constructive contribution towards progress cant make connection to imp.stakeholders...but still on seat due to connections or nepotism cant stand for their employees i am in my job due to some problems please pray for my better job now now now

  • @MsUltrafox
    @MsUltrafox10 күн бұрын

    Just being a manager is already a red flag for me.

  • @AleTitan

    @AleTitan

    10 күн бұрын

    exactly. The people that get those promotions are either friends of management or manipulated their way into a promotion

  • @user-qf7ud5de9h
    @user-qf7ud5de9h9 күн бұрын

    HOW CAN YOU IGNORE A MURDERER WHOM MURDERED THEMSELF? ARE THEY REALLY A TRUE LEADER? THEY HAVE NO ATTENTION SPAN, BECAUSE THEY THINK THEY KNOW IT ALL ALREADY, WHICH IS CALLED PRESUMPTUOUS. I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD RECORD THE MEETING AND THEN IT IS OBVIOUS WHO FELL DOWN ON THE JOB. DOES A NECROMANCER HAVE THE ABILITY TO COMPREHEND WHEN THEY ALREADY WENT TOO FAR? I type big for eyesight reasons, im not yelling.

  • @user-ym1pf4lz3h
    @user-ym1pf4lz3h10 күн бұрын

    Gonna play the devils advocate here...your stats about people quitting managers...that stat doesn't tell you how many of them quit because their manager held them accountable for doing their work or held them accountable for their bad behavior. I'm not saying it doesn't happen it absolutely does ... I've quit because of that very reason myself. Being spread super thing and then having to FIGHT your manager to do the job. They ended up having to replace me with 3 people...but we've all known useless co-workers who do nothing but flit around the workplace chit chatting while the rest of us are trying to get our work done or those other coworkers who similarly come to work and do practically nothing all day long. Good managers will call out these behaviors because they kill everyone else's morale. I'm not suggesting I have any idea what the percentage is...but I'm wondering how many of those people who filled out that survey are entitled lazy workers who think they're entitled to a paycheck w/o having to contribute. Because the younger generations seem full of them. And I might have the work ethic of a boomer but I'm totally on board with workplace fairness (i.e. you expect me to be here at 8am SHARP every day...then i expect to leave at 5pm sharp every day. You don't get to demand I respect company hours while you turn around and don't respect mine.) I'm just saying...that percentage might not be as high as 57% if you were able to weed out these types of people.

  • @AAMM101
    @AAMM10110 күн бұрын

    First

  • @user-dh6bj2me5p
    @user-dh6bj2me5p10 күн бұрын

    Complains too much. Go flip burgers if your occupation is so bad. Unsubscribed after a couple years.