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Huge condolences to BUCK about his mum 👊🙏 stay strong

@Metz9031

5 ай бұрын

Amen.

There is an Irish saying: 'Every cripple finds his own way of walking' We are all 'cripples' emotionally but we have to find our own way on the journey that we are all on. Both these gentlemen are on the right path. I wish them well. Great interview.

This felt more like a therapy session than a podcast. What an amazing episode. As a veteran I discovered allot about myself. Definitely an interview I'll watch multiple times. Like a good book, you have to read it more than once.

My sincere condolences Buck. I had a similar childhood (very poor, single mom...drugs/alcohol who died when I was 32, largely absent dad), and after the military turned me around, have lived my life as a paramedic/firefighter, and now ER RN...hero syndrome is an excellent way to describe it.

@andrabook8758

8 ай бұрын

what's wrong with ''hero" mentality? why you calling it a syndrome?

@JohnOscar93

8 ай бұрын

@@andrabook8758 A hero mentality is a ego defense mechanism that people, particularly men, will use to elevate themselves in their own eyes and in the eyes of others. It's based on shallow things like accomplishments and experiences for the sake of making yourself look special, or heroic. I've seen it a lot in the fire/rescue services- people with the "hero syndrome" will overtreat a victim for the sake of doing the cool skill or making themselves look heroic so others look up to them. Firefighters will take crazy risks to show themselves tough and brave....often at the expense of their team or of a victim they are trying to rescue. (These are the more extreme examples, but I've seen it a lot). Ultimately, it's self-defeating as you can't possibly keep up with that facade you have put in front of the world, and people will generally turn to alcohol or other drugs to numb the deep wound that they keep trying to fill with accomplishment instead of just learning to love who they are.

@eric97909

6 ай бұрын

@@andrabook8758Did you listen to the podcast?

Love Tyler Grey. He's able to articulate a lot of things that many people can't. His observations about veterans are spot on and it connects a lot of dots in my head that I've seen over the years that even I wasn't able to draw conclusions from like he can. You can tell he's done a lot of thinking and reflecting about himself. I think all of us veterans should do the same.

Tyler's words here mean so much to every veteran, SF or not. Thank you for talking about these points, and for bringing him on. Great podcast.

I can not wait for Tyler's book. Im almost 54 and have only reached a good place within the last two years. I was lost for a long time. My whole life actually. I still have no emotions, but I feel happy. My wife got a German Shepherd against my will. That Dog has changed my life. We now have two and they are my life other than my wife and children. Thank you both so much.

Seal team and The Unit are the best military series ever IMHO

⚠️ OUTSTANDING INTERVIEW ! Thank you Tyler and Buck! Very rarely is such insight on display and it’s appreciated. I first saw Tyler’s Podcast/Interview with Shawn Ryan and was very impressed with his honesty. Thank You!

I’ve never been military/police, and I’ve never read a self-help book, but as someone who has dealt with lifelong mental illness and trauma, this conversation was profound and inspiring, and I can’t wait to pick up both of your books

Sorry to hear about your mom. Don't worry about what you are or are not feeling everyone grieves in different ways. With regard to what you are reading I'd suggest another George Orwell. If you haven't read it take a look at "Shooting an Elephant" it's a short story so you'll zip through it pretty quick but it's talk about expectations you have for yourself and the expectation others have for you and how the pressure between the two sometimes forces you to act in certain ways.

I usually play episodes like this while I'm working, but I decided I wanted to give this one my undivided attention and actually sit down to watch it on its entirety and I am so glad I did. What an excellent episode. I really hope you're able to sit down with Mr. Grey again in the future.

Sorry to hear about your mom bro...may she RIP Condolences❤

Buck, brother, condolences on your mom passing. You may not think you’ve felt it, but we witnessed it hit you.

This is gonna be great! * grabs a glass of whiskey * 😎 Sorry to hear about your mom, Sean. Sorry for your loss my man 😔

Thank you for bringing Tyler on. Every time I listen to him, Tom Satterly or Chris Van Sant, I learn something about bettering myself, by changing my outlook.

This is one of the most impactful conversations I've ever heard. Seriously.

MORE TYLER AND BUCK!!!!! let's fuckin goooooooo. It's official. Tyler has to be part of crew permanently. The people have spoken.

Buck, it is to you and Unit members and their stories that has solidified my choice on driving myself to become SF. Thank you.

Awesome episode, really visceral and honest guys. I think this would help anyone who is struggling with trauma. Even if it isn't military related. It's awesome to hear that even a guy that has gotten and archived what a CAG operator has, is feeling like you and giving you tools to fight it, is just perfect. The world needs this output and this kind of information. Can't wait for the books.

It is nice to see and hear the top guys talking about what we all struggle with… I gave 10 year to SF in France and nearly all of us around the world think we are not enough. And that perception of other of your person also hit home. I suffer more from childhood trauma than what I indured in the military… Thank you for your testimony

Dude, that was genuinely the best fucken interview/ conversation I've heard. Be comfortable with yourself and accept yourself....just shared with my son who is struggling with self esteem. Thanks for these!!!!

@FNGACADEMY

8 ай бұрын

that means a lot thank you!

Tyler is a good dude. He has been through a lot but has overcome. Kudos to him for having so much character and resilience.

Condolences for your loss Buck, this was one of the best podcasts I have ever seen and I agree with you 100% that the last talking point will have massive impact on many people. Thank you both for making this happen.

Love you both. Don't know you but just wishing you ALL the best in life. You deserve it, you've earned it and no one can say anything else about that. Thank you for everything you did. You guys have a great heart, a great mind and you're doing so good!! Keep on kicking ass! We're all cheering for ya! 💙💙

Hands down the best podcast I've heard. Awesome work guys!! Straight from the heart with the wisdom of true experience. Thank you!!

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Some of the best content I have come across. Fantastic perspective from someone with tremendous credibility.

What an amazing episode, first of all condolences for your mom buck, but you and tyler r nothing but inspirational.

❤ A Mom is such a great part of our lives, regardless of their faults. Condolences to you Buck….

Just catching up on FNG. Sorry to hear about your loss, Sean. Hang Tough.

Already know this will be a great pod! Love this channel guys!

41:24 Validation from hard people and hero syndrome, resonated with me so much I almost started crying while driving What a great talk, thank you both

@FNGACADEMY

6 ай бұрын

glad our stories can help brother

Damn, I felt bucks voice when he mentioned his mom. Love your story on Andy’s podcast and love the beer n breakdown

Yes, PS my condolences for your loss. Moms are still our mothers.🙏❤️

I’m really sorry to hear about your mom’s passing. I can’t begin to understand the pain your enduring but sending prayers over to you and your family ❤

Condolences on your Mom. Much Love and Respect from AZ.

wow this is really Amazing, i almost forgot its a podcast, tyler really shine's the light on almost eveything. am a huge fan of seal team. keep the good work. we really appreciate u bringing tyler on show. much love

Thank you guys so much for this episode. These are gold. Tylers explanation of emotion threw movie makes so much sense to me. Then Buck follows up with being told he doesnt show emotion. This hits home, then to finish it off with he lost his mother a couple weeks ago and hes back at it. Brother, my condolences. I lost my mother when I was 21 with 3 teenage brothers. I just went at it head down, no emotion. It wasn't until 12 years later after having my first child realizing I never took time off and never grieved. Please take time and allow yourself to deal with your emotions. You owe it to yourself.

So sorry to hear about your mom! Such an amazing interview, thank you! Seal Team is my favorite show on television. Can’t wait for you to get further into it!

Very much enjoyed listening to your chat guys. All the best to both of you.

Really enjoyed this podcast, learned a lot from this. Thank you guys!

My man...I'm so so sorry to hear about your mom's passing. Hopefully she's somewhere better looking over you, I know she is proud of the man you became. Sounds like she had a tough life to deal with and I'm sorry to hear that.

Thank you both for sharing. Deep wisdom shared. Hope several people are able to take this in. I asked library to buy your second book but she won’t. But we did get first.

I definitely need to read that book I’ve been blamed with having hero syndrome from literally everyone in my life mostly from the ones that left my life saying it was more important than they were to me so can’t wait for that release

A very great interview, one of the best. And your book is very well written. It can sure help people from various backgrounds and challenges to overcome obstacles, especially in this ever changing society today.

Sorry for your loss Buck! Keep crushing it! Great interview with an icon!

Love listening to you guys talk about this, good motivation!

@FNGACADEMY

8 ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

Amazing interview. With all this tyler grey content coming would be awesome to potentially see him more on B&B with Seal Team or other shows!

I LOVE the mental health discussions!

My condolences. Great interview. Keep up the great work.

This was absolutely fantastic. Thanks boys. Great conversations.

Mad respect to Buck for sharing about his Mom. Strong dude. Respect.

I loved "THe Unit". I hope you don't trash it! This guy is an absolutely awesome human being, as are you all.

So sorry to hear about your mother, Buck. My condolences to you and your entire family.

50 mins in, thanks for the dialogue.

I love the honesty about their feelings. All men need someone to open up to. It doesn’t make you less of a man to have those conversations.

These guys amazing. I love the self reflection. As for fiction, I would recommend the Dresden Files by Jim Butcher.

Great interview Buck. Best I’ve seen. Majority of podcasts is just a dude stiffly asking questions to cool people who frankly deserve a better platform. You actually sit a person down and CONVERSATE with them. The casual laid back atmosphere, and the genuine, sincere talks you have with your guests really stands out on this sphere. I believe you should be the guy talking to the legends of the community on YOUR platform. So I’m here to say keep going and don’t be afraid to reach out to any/everyone to be guests on the show. Great stuff dude

Condolences, Buck.. Sending out love to you and yours. ❤‍🩹

Yay full one!!

Buck, Tyler: Thank You very much for this interview! I surely will "steal" some ideas about movie military advisory. I wish You all the best!

Wow I haven’t enjoyed a podcast that much in a while mind you im very new to these it’s one of my self improvement steps to watch 1 or 2 a day instead of being a zombie in front of the TV. First i have to say thank you both for your service i’m so humbled by both of you Mr Grey i never miss an episode of seal team and my drive towards joining the military as a young kid was “Tour of Duty” also never missed an episode, also a huge hero to is Tim Kennedy and sheepdog, Jocko hell all of you can literally turn my worst days around. I feel like some kind of stupid crazed fan but you guys literally are one of the top reasons i’ve not given up and called it quits not to be morbid but at 42 i ran away from everything in my life and became homeless in western 🇨🇦 and eventually became an extreme fentanyl addict because it was the only thing that numbed the loneliness, i just now and with very little acceptance from family have tried to reconnect now this is 7 years after leaving i think after they made no missing persons report or any effort to find me i just grew an extreme abandonment issue which has in turn kept me from allowing anyone get close to me. But anyway i now have a job helping the homeless addicts here and have an apartment and i know these are big accomplishments and i allow myself to give myself that win but one thing and this is when you guys brought up the hero impulse we have huge issue with human trafficking here and to me there is no person more evil willing to have anything to do with that so i’m really seeing that almost as why i ended up out here going through and seeing the horrific things I’ve seen living on the streets. The most important thing I wanted to let you guys know keep doing the great work you’re doing these podcast help more men i know regain their inner strength & warrior and they start truly get inspired and i’ve personally witnessed some of what I thought were lost causes getting off the street and finding their purpose i really wish there were more mental health professionals that could relate and have one on one discussions like you cause from what i see that is one of the biggest issues here in western 🇨🇦 so again a huge thanks keep up the great work ALL OF YOU!!!! I felt it was important for you guys to lnow how truly helpful these conversations are to lost, alone & basically on the verge of suicide men from horrible childhoods, addicts and ao many that feel that there is no place or need left in this world for real, solid, tough, educated true gentlemen and its guys like you that help give them hope with your stories thanks again you guys are fantastic keep up the great work!!!!!!!

What an awesome podcast! Thank you for your service and hooah, my brothers! P.S. I agree with a few folks below. It was a therapeutic session; in some cases almost cathartic… “knowing and accepting are two different things”. Very powerful.

Excellent podcast, great conversation.

condolences man. thank you for interviewing TG

This was awesome! Love u guys and the podcasts!

@FNGACADEMY

8 ай бұрын

thank you!

Great show

One of my favorite interviews. Made so much sense. Shawn you kick ass at Interviews.

@FNGACADEMY

8 ай бұрын

thank you!

Thank you for an awesome episode and my sincere condolences.

Thank you. And condolences on your loss bro. To God we Belong and to God we return

@FNGACADEMY

8 ай бұрын

Amen

"Tour of Duty" was such a great guide in Leadership.✔👌👌

Sex addiction is the least understood addiction even by doctors who specialize in addiction. It’s also dangerous because most people don’t take it seriously, they say things like “you’re just a stud” laughing etc. I’ve seen people with sex addictions engage in it so badly they’ve almost died from it, but keep doing it. It needs to be studied more than any other addiction imo because there’s the least research on it compared to other addictions.

5:34 tour of duty I love that show I have the box set right now I used to watch it religiously too because my father served in Vietnam 3rd brigade 82nd airborne 69 /70

Movies be inspiring so much it’s crazy

As an actor of 11+ years honing my craft, Ive been wrestling with this new nagging desire to enlist. I’ve been training hard, eating right and feeling like I would regret never taking my shot at SFAS. This was a very timely discussion because I believe the desire stems out of feelings of worthlessness that I feel the tab can fix. Thank Sean & Tyler. This has given me a lot to think about.

@srsmedic8285

8 ай бұрын

The Army is the way to go . This way.. if you don’t make it.. at least you’re an infantryman in the worlds greatest Army and get the military experience. I’m not sure if they still have 18x program but they certainly have option 40 ranger. Being a decade older than the other people is definitely an advantage. I was in the Navy first as a corpsman.. wanted to go big… but decided if I didn’t make it I definitely didn’t want to be on a ship. Went into the Army and got the experience I was looking for

thank you

Awesome episode

Wow...I also grew up with single parent, mom, who wasn't, ah, the best, lost myself in films of the 80s and 90s which informed my choice of going into the military. Now almost 55, and finally feeling my station in life. Buck, you are where I was 10, maybe 15 years ago. I am good, and you will be, too.

Rock solid podcast, dude. keep it up

Dude, man soo sorry about your loss

Hell YEAH! 🥂🥂

So sorry to hear your news, Buck. Take care mate

Condolences. Watching you guys we feel like we know you personally. I'm so sorry.

Honestly, Tour of Duty with "Zeke" had a huge impact on me as a kid. Maybe subconsciously a resume I enlisted and became a scout. I hadn't thought about it until now.

2 of the best

Great interview so fascinating to hear the backstop of how the show was made

@stephenrask536

8 ай бұрын

Hugs, so right about about when you think you beat it you lose, I thought I was free twice but it truly is about progress everyday!! Let's go!!

good words Brothers.

I appreciate y’all.

What a great talk and open reflection thanks for that.👍

@FNGACADEMY

8 ай бұрын

Thanks for listening

I'm sorry about your loss Buck.

Can we get Tyler back on here? The conversation between Buck and Tyler was really good.

Fuckin aye. Two legends, this is gonna be a phenomenal interview

Opening up. Rambo and Tour of Duty is what made me want to join also.

Wild that him and Stumpf were hurt on the same target

Sorry about your mom Buck. I know she was a shitbag but it always sucks. Thanks for everything you do. Incredible content

TOD generation *hifive* yeap that opening on helo scene where everyone racking their cool commando really sells apparently.😂

that was one hell of a therapy session ..... my condolences btw

Condolences