Ram Dass - On Relationships

Ram Dass delves deep into the topic of relationships. He discusses the yoga of relationships, appreciation versus judging, soulmates and "falling into love". He touches on the topic of marriage // monasticism, the spiritual meanings of commitment, overcoming the limitations of deep expression, and much more. Recorded in the Summer of 1989 as apart of 'The Listening Heart' retreat series.
00:00 - Intro
00:15 - Maintaining integrity and identity in a relationship
15:10 - Belief in soulmates
32:01 - Avoiding manipulating others
36:47 - Student surrendering to teacher
50:31 - “Do I have a soulmate?”
54:11 - Difference between marriage and living together
59:54 - Conscious and Supportive Relationships on the Path to God
1:07:34 - “Is our inability to express internal impulses inherent or culturally informed?”
1:13:52 - The similar challenges men and women face today
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  • @mt.annalogue
    @mt.annalogue Жыл бұрын

    i love how this remains relevant and how the tapes are still published and people are waking up and opening up to love thorugh Ram Dass and Neem Karoli Baba

  • @doritoz98

    @doritoz98

    Жыл бұрын

  • @amyward888

    @amyward888

    Жыл бұрын

    😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

  • @CaptainPhilosophical

    @CaptainPhilosophical

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too Anna. Namaste.

  • @michaelrhine8580

    @michaelrhine8580

    Жыл бұрын

    T BBC z c

  • @timmy1874

    @timmy1874

    Жыл бұрын

    timeless

  • @Matthew-mf6xg
    @Matthew-mf6xg Жыл бұрын

    This man practically saved my life through his teachings. He'll never die.

  • @Misssiberiandicaginger

    @Misssiberiandicaginger

    11 ай бұрын

    Him, Alan watts and Terrance McKenna are legends. They will always live on through the right people

  • @Matthew-mf6xg

    @Matthew-mf6xg

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Misssiberiandicaginger yes can't forget Alan Watts, what an amazing philosopher. McKenna is good too if you're into psychedelics. They're all beautiful souls.

  • @deo8886

    @deo8886

    7 ай бұрын

    Ditto

  • @josephuia

    @josephuia

    7 ай бұрын

    This man absolutely saved my life with his teachings, I can relate my friend. And a friend of mine met with Ram Dass and told him this from me, and Ram Dass broke down into tears on hearing this... so you can feel heard by him too 😉

  • @saskiakarels4184

    @saskiakarels4184

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@josephuia, now I feel he would too by hearing my story and your words are healing right now... thank you ❤

  • @tassopicasso6123
    @tassopicasso6123 Жыл бұрын

    Everyone of you are beautiful souls. I hope everyone reading this knows that you are loved. Have a kind day!

  • @CaptainPhilosophical

    @CaptainPhilosophical

    Жыл бұрын

    I love you too 😊 Namaste

  • @shameer3044

    @shameer3044

    10 ай бұрын

    ❤ Same to you

  • @mattieboris1804

    @mattieboris1804

    6 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @rosemarymacphee6646
    @rosemarymacphee664611 ай бұрын

    He is still here, his message, his spirit. I love him.

  • @weegreeneyes3196

    @weegreeneyes3196

    4 ай бұрын

    I have connected with him through a soul I met and he is helping me on my journey

  • @mezlandia

    @mezlandia

    3 ай бұрын

    @@weegreeneyes3196we are all helping each other on our journeys 🙏🏻

  • @Infinityflowyoga
    @Infinityflowyoga Жыл бұрын

    We often say don’t be a dead living person, but rather be a living dead person. Ram Dass’ physical body has left us but his message and truth lives on ❤

  • @ciaraskeleton

    @ciaraskeleton

    8 ай бұрын

    I have found my people ❤ When you leave such teaching and enlightenment, you're never gone. Just in a different form now.

  • @BuBu-uz9qi

    @BuBu-uz9qi

    8 ай бұрын

    First they don't want anyone know about Ukraine, me and Vatican. If they win China , they will attack Russia after Russia is lost. Suddenly, they attack India by the tanks same as Russia attack Ukraine while Ukraine didn't repair on Feb 2022 and then they will attack Japan, Viet Nam, Korea, Taiwan , Middle East and Africa. Because We don't have the paper work about the win but the paperwork just say we corporate with them . If they are serious . They must tell Taiwan, Philippines, Korea and Japan stop fighting. The reason they don't say because it is a best chance to attack those countries due to low weapons. Anyway, I have a question to Taiwan. Do you have a contract with them that Taiwan will take over China or China is belong to them either half of the land??,,?,??? Because their tanks will enter into the India .Another word, their army is on our land. Lastly; after they United all nations. They will announce to the public about the Vatican But we already forgot the bad deed of Vatican by that time same as Zeleski will claim himself Jesus. The bad thing to us , we might become their slaves because we don't have any one help us. Do you remember the Black slaves in the History.??

  • @donilexington4600

    @donilexington4600

    Ай бұрын

    He's still here with us. Where could he go? He just dropped his body, it's no big deal. 😁🙏❤️

  • @AJScraps
    @AJScraps8 ай бұрын

    You singlehandedly brought my Mother to tears (happy tears?) with how poignantly you described the way imposing an agenda or model on to another creates an unconscious paranoia in them. Thank you dearly🙏

  • @shadabonea
    @shadabonea Жыл бұрын

    I realise in the purest form that I love Ram Dass, as I am overjoyed to see many other people do. In that, I believe we reestablish our singularity 💜🖤🧡

  • @agape_music
    @agape_music3 ай бұрын

    Keep coming back to this, slowly it sinks in, slowly I hear what he says. I hope to live it out in my relationship before parting ways.

  • @BabaRamDassChannel

    @BabaRamDassChannel

    3 ай бұрын

    Admin here - Really feeling the sincerity of your comment - Thank you!

  • @agape_music

    @agape_music

    3 ай бұрын

    We found us - again... grace

  • @haraldbredholt9402
    @haraldbredholt94024 ай бұрын

    How wonderful it is to feel that you are right there with these people back in 1989 in that room. I feel I am right there laughing together with them, laughing at the silly nature of my ego and the way that it keeps creating dramas and conflicts between myself and other people. Ram Dass words of wisdom makes me remember that there is only one of us, and that the nature of that one, is love. Have a wonderful day, and love to you all!

  • @cjdingojames3715
    @cjdingojames3715 Жыл бұрын

    ' no matter where you go, there you are '

  • @sowmyak5591
    @sowmyak5591 Жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏 In my inward journey, I found Ram Dass a few months ago . And I have had many Aha moments. I also feel differently from within. It all make sense to me. It’s as if he says things that I knew and could not articulate. Jai Hanuman 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Misssiberiandicaginger

    @Misssiberiandicaginger

    11 ай бұрын

    You should listen Alan Watts and Terrance McKenna too

  • @princesshumbletor
    @princesshumbletor Жыл бұрын

    What a men he was and what a spirit he is !

  • @Misssiberiandicaginger

    @Misssiberiandicaginger

    11 ай бұрын

    Legends never die

  • @JiggaPoppin-sp5lp

    @JiggaPoppin-sp5lp

    2 ай бұрын

    "man"

  • @derekyoung4729
    @derekyoung47296 ай бұрын

    As a 55 year old man with a string of relationships + conententedly single currently this has been a game changer.. loved the 'truthful relationship' concept.. of which I've had just 2 i think.. a beautiful soul who passed away + a close friend who is moving to the other side of the world soon.. thank you Baba Ram Dass

  • @Maximus-gp7td
    @Maximus-gp7td Жыл бұрын

    Thank you God for Ram Dass...

  • @alexforrest4551
    @alexforrest45515 ай бұрын

    I love this guys real and openness to say how it is for him . Real life stuff . RIP brother ❤

  • @rickiefeatherstone
    @rickiefeatherstone Жыл бұрын

    I love Ram Dass. Despite his passing, his light still sheds a way for those of us seeking truth.

  • @icebox_Intruder
    @icebox_Intruder Жыл бұрын

    Heard of Ram Dass before, but never followed or heard or knew anything of him other than his name. His name was mentioned recently and then I came across a live stream lofi video which continually played his talks and views, etc, and I ended up binging on him for days. I love his thoughts and articulation.

  • @mindheartlens2350

    @mindheartlens2350

    Жыл бұрын

    Come on in 🕉️

  • @starofazure5597

    @starofazure5597

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s how we all got here ❤ We’re all just walking each other home

  • @JennieStrahan
    @JennieStrahan Жыл бұрын

    ❤love you Ram Dass

  • @ahutch3835

    @ahutch3835

    Жыл бұрын

    💕 you Jennie Strahan

  • @csc677

    @csc677

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @gg-xb5pu

    @gg-xb5pu

    Жыл бұрын

    Ily

  • @LoveEarthHereAndNow
    @LoveEarthHereAndNow Жыл бұрын

    13:18 "No expectations, no upset".

  • @malyberation
    @malyberation Жыл бұрын

    This is the most powerful talk I’ve ever listened to 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @madilopez7492
    @madilopez7492 Жыл бұрын

    Listening to Baba Ram Dass always heals my heart ❤

  • @Jess-pp4xb
    @Jess-pp4xb Жыл бұрын

    Awesome I hope to apply this to myself and accept others and love without expectation but understand that my negative feelings come from my own problems within myself -

  • @DivineWhispers-333
    @DivineWhispers-33316 күн бұрын

    I read “Be Here Now” when I was 16 and it changed my life forever. That was 23 years ago

  • @RealTalk-mq2ug
    @RealTalk-mq2ug Жыл бұрын

    I think, for the very first time in my life, at 43 years old, I UNDERSTAND there's a difference between LOVE and DESIRE. Desire requires: 1. Strengths: flirty, confident, cute, funny, sexy, wholesome. 2. Fearlessness. I have confidence in my coping if you hurt me, and I have the power to hurt you too. So let’s not hurt each other. 3. Here’s what I love about my body. I’m going to focus on accentuating what I have. Love requires: 1) Connection. 2) Compatibility. 3) Chemistry.

  • @weegreeneyes3196

    @weegreeneyes3196

    4 ай бұрын

  • @mindysmith2087
    @mindysmith2087 Жыл бұрын

    Wonderful! Thank you for sharing ❤🙏❤

  • @BabvBlues
    @BabvBlues27 күн бұрын

    He’s taken me so far and the more I learn from him the farther I’ll go 🩵

  • @DieAerzteFreak17175
    @DieAerzteFreak171758 ай бұрын

    "All of us are just souls hanging out in these funny packages."

  • @indirajpal4244
    @indirajpal4244 Жыл бұрын

    Love this one thank you 🙏🏼

  • @terirobertson3342
    @terirobertson33429 ай бұрын

    You always hit my heart 💜

  • @labreaspivey3074
    @labreaspivey30748 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this!

  • @alissafields3166
    @alissafields3166 Жыл бұрын

    Wow, Ram Dass! Such beauty! I love you!

  • @sibongilemapikitla8905
    @sibongilemapikitla8905 Жыл бұрын

    No expectations,No upset ❤

  • @dandy2405
    @dandy240513 күн бұрын

    Love this!!!

  • @enyab.6939
    @enyab.6939 Жыл бұрын

    Namaste 🙏 We are all travelers on the journey, may we travel well together well. Definitely agreed with you, Ram Dass. Process. 🌺🙏 Transformation. 🌺🙏

  • @sarvotampai5273
    @sarvotampai5273 Жыл бұрын

    Wow!! So Thankful for this great insight that comes at the right time,this is the first time I heard this definitely not the last.Will love to keep reminding myself of these beautiful teachings as often.Thank you for making it possible.🙏

  • @klaraivanovich
    @klaraivanovich Жыл бұрын

    Ram Dass and his message ❤. Timeless

  • @labreaspivey3074
    @labreaspivey30747 ай бұрын

    Been listening to this man for years only to fully comprehend now. Thank you so much!!

  • @djhoward8209
    @djhoward8209 Жыл бұрын

    Things I needed to know and hear thank you

  • @saskiakarels4184
    @saskiakarels41845 ай бұрын

    What a great way to start my day!

  • @MaidenMacabre
    @MaidenMacabre11 ай бұрын

    Thank you Baba Ram Dass for teaching us to smile as you do

  • @TheEmily0erdbeer
    @TheEmily0erdbeer7 ай бұрын

    Wow, the last part about the differences between men and woman is mindblowing

  • @vistian
    @vistian11 ай бұрын

    Interesting to find this on today of all days. I'm not saying anything mystical, but just that it came at the right time.

  • @buihemadu
    @buihemadu Жыл бұрын

    This whole thing...this lecture. The questions and answers addressed here confirm and affirm so much of what I've known in my heart of hearts about relationships and how they're supposed to work. So grateful that Ram Dass put in the hours and work to distill truth in a way that still keeps on giving. 🙏

  • @TheOvenCoven108
    @TheOvenCoven108 Жыл бұрын

    Really loved journaling while meditating and listening to this

  • @vickireithel
    @vickireithel Жыл бұрын

    This human so beautifully speaking to and sharing the Love within the Dance 🙏🏾 still here still here - Love every One 🙏🏽

  • @kyleerhard9284
    @kyleerhard92847 ай бұрын

    I love the Love over Wisdom 💕 heartfelt teachings of this man, it deepens my understanding of the Law of One material.

  • @JasonWilliams-ro8nm
    @JasonWilliams-ro8nm Жыл бұрын

    This whole room is awesome. Namaste friends

  • @greenio2011
    @greenio2011 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Ram Dass I love you❤

  • @brandikent9401
    @brandikent94018 ай бұрын

    Thank You ✨❤Ram Dass❤✨

  • @Anita-hl5qj
    @Anita-hl5qj7 ай бұрын

    Thank you ❤

  • @janelouisewar3633
    @janelouisewar3633 Жыл бұрын

    Truth burns the food… I am Truth. Also, the part about God coming down to God is soulmates…paraphrasing that beautiful quote. Thank you. This was the unburned food.

  • @jagirkaur6216
    @jagirkaur62162 ай бұрын

    Love you my old friend Ram dass, love you all it's wonderful listening together being one.

  • @BabaRamDassChannel

    @BabaRamDassChannel

    2 ай бұрын

    We at the channel appreciate your listening!

  • @dirtywhitehorse
    @dirtywhitehorse Жыл бұрын

    I Love this. I was blessed to have that in my life partner

  • @benzysmommy
    @benzysmommy Жыл бұрын

    Love you Ram Dass

  • @drewbeeSpirit
    @drewbeeSpirit2 ай бұрын

    I'm going to listen to this speech over and over again. So amazing of the things I appreciate you

  • @BabaRamDassChannel

    @BabaRamDassChannel

    2 ай бұрын

    We at the channel appreciate you listening

  • @TheOhSoGorgeous
    @TheOhSoGorgeous Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @beastpoet4335
    @beastpoet4335 Жыл бұрын

    What a timing

  • @LeylaK777
    @LeylaK777 Жыл бұрын

    You are my guru❤

  • @tamparks4
    @tamparks46 ай бұрын

    Hello, keep doing what you're doing. It matters!

  • @sydbarrat1676
    @sydbarrat1676 Жыл бұрын

    My guru is so funny ❤️

  • @connergrant2298
    @connergrant2298 Жыл бұрын

    Live by example 🙏🏼

  • @kathrynross6219
    @kathrynross621910 ай бұрын

    Amazing

  • @bs5167
    @bs51673 ай бұрын

    Thank you 🙏❤️

  • @BabaRamDassChannel

    @BabaRamDassChannel

    3 ай бұрын

    We at the channel are grateful for your listening ears!

  • @asharajoriya8609
    @asharajoriya8609 Жыл бұрын

    Jai guru Dev ji 🙏🏼 Jai guru Dev ji 🙏🏼 Jai guru Dev ji 🙏🏼 Jai siya Ram 🙏 Jai babaji 🙏🏼 Jai siya Ram 🙏🙏🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💐💐🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 Jai siya Ram 🙏 Jai guru Dev ji 🙏🏼 Jai siya Ram 🙏🙏🙏🏼🙏🏼💐💐🙏🏼💐💐💐💐💐🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @kalpataru4781
    @kalpataru478110 күн бұрын

    This channel is doing good job 👍

  • @dreamlessmusic3167
    @dreamlessmusic3167 Жыл бұрын

    my guru

  • @marypalmer1062
    @marypalmer1062 Жыл бұрын

    The best thing about leaving is going home

  • @Michael-ey4yu
    @Michael-ey4yu Жыл бұрын

    Namaste 😇

  • @kathleenwharton2139

    @kathleenwharton2139

    Жыл бұрын

    The Soul is the Real Self. The Ego is the false self. Be Still within yourself and the Soul will surface!

  • @Ankursharma-fm8ti
    @Ankursharma-fm8ti Жыл бұрын

    Ram ram 🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏

  • @DonnaPatrick-hb9ut
    @DonnaPatrick-hb9ut Жыл бұрын

    Yeah both ways, any relationship that is not of service & Kindness is not what I want. I choose real Enduring relationship, with argument only to get to easy & permanently in the bigger matters without degradation to my Spirit!❤

  • @paulwangler4354

    @paulwangler4354

    Жыл бұрын

    In my own experience, "wanting a relationship" is just another stance the mind has taken. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with relationships, I just think they're unnecessary. I see them as ways the mind (out of habit) searches externally to help some part of us internally. Every time my mind produces a desire for a relationship, I view it as another thing the mind thinks it "needs" (like a bigger house, whiter teeth, more clothes, etc.), when in reality I know I don't need anything. Its simply another phenomenon that has spontaneously popped into my consciousness, and i let it go. And if my mind is really persistent, i give myself tons of love, because thats all it really wants anyway. I'm not saying it's the right way to go about things, it's just something I've observed. Kind of neat.

  • @thomquentinleigh
    @thomquentinleigh Жыл бұрын

    Luv u Ram

  • @cianoregan3037
    @cianoregan3037 Жыл бұрын

    Ahhhh what a beautiful man !!!

  • @gregorallnight371
    @gregorallnight371 Жыл бұрын

    Never forget the real goal of life is to become a truly enlightened being..no longer identified with or attached to the error prone ego-mind and body but thru deep meditation,proper teachings,prayer and the grace of God attaining oneness with the true Self,the immortal soul within,free forever from being trapped & enslaved in delusion,having to reincarnate over and over again into this crazy reform school zoo

  • @ElisPalmer
    @ElisPalmer Жыл бұрын

    Thx 🌟🕉🌟

  • @rssrolo
    @rssrolo Жыл бұрын

    40:40 - pure brilliance

  • @Santiago53835
    @Santiago53835 Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful beautiful man, my goodness

  • @forbiddenknowledgeseeker
    @forbiddenknowledgeseeker Жыл бұрын

    🙏

  • @paulwangler4354
    @paulwangler4354 Жыл бұрын

    To anyone reading this, I became enlightened in 2 weeks by doing nothing other than holding onto the feeling of "I" for roughly 3-5 hrs a night. things will progressively become more and more beautiful, and your reality will turn into a mushroom trip, although you're completely sober. Ram dass's whole bit about giving maharashi acid, and it did nothing, well, same for me. I should mention that functioning in the world is extremely difficult in this plane, so be prepared. You will get used to it, but it's quite disorientating. I reincarnated as some guy from a very small town in North Dakota. Nothing special. If I can do it, so can you. Love you all ❤️

  • @anid3v838

    @anid3v838

    7 ай бұрын

    I love this comment. I tried it the first time at 16. I was tripping hard and felt out of my mind. I didn’t drop again for two years and in that time i began my journey. I vividly remember how different i felt the second time. I felt so normal, and i credit that to taking time to be present within myself and within the world. It is beautiful.

  • @paulwangler

    @paulwangler

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@anid3v838excellent! Enjoy your journey my friend

  • @navneetsinghgaur7358
    @navneetsinghgaur73584 күн бұрын

    जय माँ महाराज जी

  • @angelacadieux1972
    @angelacadieux1972 Жыл бұрын

    6 years 💔 I thought he was cheating on me. I turned out to be the other woman 💔. I loved him deeply. I haven't seen him for 6 months now and my heart still hurts. There's no contact now. This almost ruined me. I packed up my family and moved away from him. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him 💔

  • @baddreams3850
    @baddreams3850 Жыл бұрын

    I truly only use relationships as yoga for this reason. I have no desire for sex anymore after being in the one consciousness ❤

  • @ghostintheshell21

    @ghostintheshell21

    7 ай бұрын

    Thats a bit scary to be honest

  • @SL-ws6gg

    @SL-ws6gg

    4 ай бұрын

    One consciousness doesn’t mean getting rid of sexuality; it means appreciating all parts of being and living without being attached. But whatever works for you. 🙏

  • @baddreams3850

    @baddreams3850

    4 ай бұрын

    @@SL-ws6gg I understand that but it's truly something I can't help at this stage in my journey. Ram Dass said that it can happen to the more devotional focused practitioners. So far it hasn't changed, all women I see are the great mother and I just don't have the lust I used to. Clearly it's just different for different yogis. I'm not a "horny celibate" or anything to use a Ram Dass term. I simply enjoy the dance of all of it, and just because I have lost interest in sex doesn't mean I'm not burning through my desire trips, I just happened to get lucky enough for that trip to become uninteresting. Paraphrasing ram Dass again, once you have orgasm with the divine, no lover can come close.

  • @gabyguala
    @gabyguala Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤love love love❤❤❤❤

  • @rorywilson3474
    @rorywilson3474 Жыл бұрын

    this is a cheeky ram dass

  • @ibckishandubey4335
    @ibckishandubey4335 Жыл бұрын

    Sita ram

  • @Yakuo
    @Yakuo Жыл бұрын

    🙏🌀🙏

  • @xuxiltamang7680
    @xuxiltamang7680 Жыл бұрын

    Jai Baba Ram Dass

  • @motivationweightloss34
    @motivationweightloss34 Жыл бұрын

  • @jayc326
    @jayc326 Жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @johnnoon9999
    @johnnoon99995 ай бұрын

    at 43:00 somethin it cuts off suddenly and starts playin a different talk!

  • @OrcintheBasement
    @OrcintheBasement Жыл бұрын

    Wait why is there a cut at 43:00 He was just about to tell a story about maharaji in the mountains and it immediately cuts to merging in a relationship.

  • @avicadogreen793
    @avicadogreen793 Жыл бұрын

    ❤️💗💚

  • @florenciajerez8108
    @florenciajerez810810 ай бұрын

    Is there a way of finding this podcast in text? Or other's dass podcasts to read?

  • @jeanlindgren4068
    @jeanlindgren4068 Жыл бұрын

    🥰

  • @coryshaw7810
    @coryshaw7810 Жыл бұрын

    🤘🤘🤘🤘

  • @DropDieter
    @DropDieter Жыл бұрын

    Thanks! Who is asking the question at the mark of the hour?

  • @evadebruijn
    @evadebruijn Жыл бұрын

    🙏❣️ ✌️

  • @anilkrishnan4894
    @anilkrishnan4894 Жыл бұрын

    🌼🌹❤️

  • @brandymariagrove
    @brandymariagrove5 ай бұрын

    26:24… got me to contemplate the idea of “heritability” and “environmental” factors of how an individual behaves in their life. Their emotional disposition or behavioral attributes. How much does the idea of karma/past lives have to do with such ideas (personality, behaviors, etc..) or the likability that someone for instance bipolar or anxiety or depression. What if these come as karma from the past?

  • @marypalmer1062
    @marypalmer1062 Жыл бұрын

    Yes! Break the chain. It's about breaking the chain. From 72 yr old white woman.

  • @tayrene8688
    @tayrene8688 Жыл бұрын

    1:02:00-1:05:00 That gentleman and I would be best of friends and lovers. Just my kinda partner 🤣 You can come to my retreats, honey 😌