Ram Dass: How to Be Responsive, Not Reactive - Ep. 246
In this classic talk from 1987, Ram Dass explores working with suffering, keeping our hearts open, finding the intuitive heart space, and being responsive rather than reactive. This episode is a continuation of the talk started in Here and Now Ep. 245 - Taking Off Our Spacesuit.
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In this week’s episode:
Using his stepmother’s death as an example, Ram Dass explores how pain and suffering can become a curriculum through which one awakens.
Ram Dass discusses how he has begun to fall in love with everyone, and how his guru opened him up to the possibility of unconditional love. If we’re caught in our separateness, it’s hard to keep our hearts open.
Ram Dass shares classic stories of how other beings, including a dolphin, have helped him escape the trap of his own mind and find the intuitive heart space. He talks about taking care of his aging father and learning how to just be present with him.
Finally, Ram Dass explores the difference between being reactive and being responsive, reading a story from ‘How Can I Help?’ to illustrate his point. He talks about how, when we are quiet enough on the inside, we can begin to hear how to awaken through the journey of the spirit.
“As you quiet your mind just a little bit, you get so that you’re not automatically reacting to everything. You become what’s called responsive rather than reactive. In other words, something happens and there’s a moment when it’s just happening, you’re just with it. As your awareness expands to include more than your separate self, it’s as if you’re part of the gestalt of it all, and you experience the totality of it. And then, out of that quietness comes an act that is appropriate to that moment.” - Ram Dass
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The wonderful teachings from Ram Dass will endure throughout time. He's a joy-seeker, a sage and just your garden variety soul being in a human spacesuit. I'm so grateful that I discovered him during my formative years. (70's-90's) He's the most gentle sage that lifts the world to this day! I hope the younger GENS find him and love him. May all that are reading this be joyous, loved and free. ❤💫✌
@TheWorldTeacher
10 күн бұрын
Sings: “It ain’t necessarily so...” 🎤
@YourWorstEnemyIsYourBestFriend
5 күн бұрын
I wanna be free. We have to free ourselves though. Whether the teacher will remain behind the scenes or manifest as a person, the guru is always within. Joy isn't my goal. Freedom is. But the paradox is that freedom brings joy, so. But not the kind of fleeting joy that's conditional. It's probably more like a profound acceptance of ourselves as we are, and the world as it is.
9:15, Ram Dass
@Themacintheroni
2 ай бұрын
🙏🫶
@solidaritytime3650
2 ай бұрын
Bump
@tommannix199
2 ай бұрын
Phew..
@colejc
2 ай бұрын
Thank you,
@michaeljanes4484
2 ай бұрын
Lmao I was about to comment this 😅
This is my first ,and im looking forward to many more,i am very grateful, thank you so much 🙏. I'm 47 and am at a point in my life where i feel i must become a student, thank you for your intelligent application, and your honesty with just the right amount of humour, awesome, i am from the UK, please don't hold it against me lol
@maaaaaaaaaa247
2 ай бұрын
beautiful, sir!
@brave6467
2 ай бұрын
One Love 💚
@mikemck420
2 ай бұрын
That is awesome. Many people will leave this life without ever getting to hear a first. Great job making it to this new chapter of your experience
@SantiagoYO
2 ай бұрын
You are begining a a beautiful journey sir.
@niteglow980
2 ай бұрын
Nothing wrong in being from the UK 🇬🇧. You’re not the only one.😄
This is what I was thinking last night when I went to sleep... awake now, smoked a couple bowls and I'm ready to listen... Namastè
during great times of suffering i must remember it is all for the souls growth, much love ❤️
I can’t explain, how much these teachings have helped me help myself. Forever grateful. I ruined the relationship with the woman I loved most because I didn’t know the things I know now, when I was a younger man. Even though I miss her so, I’ve learned to still live a good life without her. And I’m a better person now everyday, then I ever was then 🙏
@shareerussell9517
2 ай бұрын
May the rest of your life honor your relationship with yourself, and through that, grow in relationship with others❤
@astrocat88
Ай бұрын
How beautifully spoken. ❤@@shareerussell9517
@Sheisthecheekygoddess
Ай бұрын
❤
@10Qsir
Ай бұрын
Would you share 2 things that you learned? I love learning from people's experience. :)
@VisibletoanyoneonYoutubes
Ай бұрын
222
❤ loved this episode. Full of laughter and meaningful moments.
First timer here. Although I’ve heard many quotes from Ram Dass but didn’t look him up! I am delighted by this first time exposure of really hearing Ram and I cannot say enough about how spot on his messages are! His humor took me by surprise which was so beneficial & timely. What an incredible human being/Guru… I’m so grateful & I’ve subscribed & cannot wait for more from this beloved Man. I feel Blessed how this popped up ! No accidents! Wonderful. Thank you for this Channel 💚🙏🏻✌️ Buffalo, NY Instant Fan @81 yrs young. 🦋 Notes & saved.
I’ve never seen anyone with such lights around their eyes as you do.. SO BEAUTIFUL 🤩
Love this talk! I shared it with many people new to Ram Dass!
@ReneeKnightYogaRani
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind like of my comment!
I live near Knoxville Tennessee, too bad that I was only 6 years old when he came to speak here lol. Thank you to whoever recorded this so that I may learn from it all these years later.
@carolinewells4355
2 ай бұрын
me too I live in Maryville TN
Hello (sorry did not get your name) 🌸 RamDas is of course RamDas and great, BUT I loooved your intro, your voice sounds sweet and inspired, full of lightness. Oftentimes intros disappoint, but yours is absolutely WONDERFUL and interesting to watch. Thank you 🙏 blessings and keep going 😻🫶🏻 much love to all xxxx
@elizabethp17
Ай бұрын
Totally agree
Thank you so much for making these available. Infinitely grateful.
I’m hearing this at exactly the right time. I needed a reminder of unconditionality because I’ve been drifting into more of it lately. I long for one thing but live out another. Thank you for posting this.
Welcome back! Great topic and wonderful refresher on the basics we often forget.
Wow! This message hit me to the core of what I'm experiencing right now. I'm taking care of my mother as we speak. I definitely can understand the complexities of just life itself. I'm learning how to experience my journey on this earth with no judgment just understanding with compassion. And being open and vulnerable with the acceptance in it Thank you for sharing this beautiful message message of Mastery🥰❤❤❤
Coffee is my reward for getting up. ☕️❤ Not sure why it's trendy to hate on it just because some people react poorly to it. I dont expect everyone to give up gluten just because my body rejects it.
Thank you once again Ram Dass. It's been fifty plus years now. ❤🎉
What if pain is “the awful grace”? A divine gift we all hate and take for granted.
@joeblakeukeman
Ай бұрын
Maybe it’s “awe-full” grace?
Doc Albert, like WOW. Last time I saw you was back home, another life ago. He is an oldie and a goodie. So happy we got to spend any time together.✨🙏✨
Thank you ❤❤
The intellectuality he brings with the divine experiences is beautiful to hear, What a sense of humour. Thankyou !!
I really appreciate your comments before Ram Dass! Thank you
Great intro thanks. No more coffee… with you on that one!
I Love You Ram Dass... I Love You Maharaji.. Ram Ram ... Love Heals All :)
Beautiful woman. Loved the intro.
@donna6165
29 күн бұрын
Agreed; she is lovely. ❤
I appreciate your sincere introduction ❤Resonate and prescient ❤
9:30 Nameste 🙏
Hi! I’m right now deep stydying a teaching from Marshall Summers called ”Healing Relationships” which is an excellent guide for going through your past relationships and letting go (no need to make a call to each of them haha). I so much recommend to read it. It is free to read and not even very long. But packed!
@tangle1300
Ай бұрын
Good to know. Thx!!
@mirelgoi7855
Ай бұрын
@@tangle1300 oh nice you found my little message. Good luck!
Much love from Dublin Ireland ❤
This is so beautiful ❤ thank you
Everything I needed I have ❤ This was absolutely powerful and amazing; thanks for sharing 🙏
Thank you. This is a beautiful Ram Dass. Rock on. Namaste
Unfolded rather well🙂⚡️ Teaching these skills, is so beneficial to not lower, your most authentic self. Too bad, our government leaders, and those we look up to don’t come from this place. But we’re just as responsible for putting our hopes and failures on them. So many of us sit around and complain, but never do anything to set the example. Regressing, becoming rigid and angry. Free yourself and believe what is best for you will happen if you go with the flow .
This was exactly what I needed to hear right now❤️💗❤️ Life changing 🙏❤️🙏 Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
WoW! Thank you for sharing this. Just what I needed! Love the humor he blends into the spiritual quest for knowing ❤❤❤
What an amazing introduction!!! I can’t wait to listen to what he says. On my way to teach elementary school for the day!
Brilliant as much can be ❤
That was beautiful! Thank you for sharing!
Love me some Ram Dass ❤
That was beautiful thank you 😊
Thank you I love you all
Loved the intro
Such a good talk!!!!! 💖
I enjoyed this experience 😊
Thank you for sharing!
Thank you!❤
Love you ram Dass thank you
Beautiful... inspiring and wise ❤
Thanks for the beautiful intro ❤. Really got me present.
"'When the student is ready, the teacher appears!!!"
Hi with LOVE to all of you who are out there and see this. I found Ram months ago by chance while listening to Trevor Hall music and coincidentally heard Ram speaking about sitting around the fire for eternity...that's another story. What I'm here for now is to admit that for 60 years I have deeply identified with loving WHOLY, (HOLY?..) EVERYTHING I know.. from a tree to a stranger...I feel that love for all, but yet I myself feel worthless, undeserving of love and unlovable. I am humbled to the point of tears by even the slightest kindness and weep daily at my yearning to simply be loved. I feel I have so much love to give away but none for me to give myself or any comfort in living so lonely. I'm 4 in a 60yo body just counting the days to disappear. I have endured loss and abuse and trauma. Neglect, injustices, failure, and broken-hearted pain. I have raised children to become good and kind, lived a creative life of small successes... yet I am nothing. What am I? Enlightened doomed or merely human? I'm very tired. I just want to be held by something who genuinely loves my being. I'm a good person, I think. I try. I am kind and gentle...and always there for those in need of any non-judgemental considerate love. How can I feel so empty and lonely still.? Is this a common place to be? Others out there like this? Help. 🙏
Thank you thank you thank you much love and light
I really enjoyed this show, Thank y🙏🙂
Fantastic talk
I am so very grateful Oh I am I am Thank you 🙏🏼
I loved this, thank you.
Thank you lady!
Thank you for that it was very enjoyable listening to you💯💞❤️🔥
Thank you 🙏
Is he eating a lollie 😂 great talk , he is very engaging
Crazy, amazing i have no words.
Just Right Just Now...Namaste Ram Dass
Thank You!
Love Ram Dass.
I love magic mind. First time I have watched this channel. What a coincidence
@dalor4906
Ай бұрын
There are no coincidences when you're seeking
I love .ram das. osho. and .alan watts.
@idontknowhatodo
2 ай бұрын
dont forget krishnamurti
@sarthak8350
2 ай бұрын
Osho and krishnamurti just play with words nothing else
@idontknowhatodo
2 ай бұрын
@sarthak8350 can you explain that to me I don't quiet understand this statement
@idontknowhatodo
2 ай бұрын
@sarthak8350 the only thing I can see in that is that ram dam speaks with stories and real life things and krishna and osho speak more abstract
@sarthak8350
2 ай бұрын
@@idontknowhatodo yea that's what im saying , ram dass has got the experience from lsd and his guru, osho nd krishnmurty are just speaking language of books which Indians are good at. A wise man once said never trust someone who just speaks and gives different logic
wow. how exciting. I have been to that center in Ashville. it's amazing.
Thank you.
We could "break down our ego" in the same way we broke down our tooth fairy and our Santa Clause. Considering they all share the category of fantasies once believed in. They have no existence apart from assuming them to be real. We are told that the childish ideas can be dropped as we mature, but they never drop the ego fantasy. I won't wait for others to tell me.
@mogeaux
2 ай бұрын
Pushing down others as leverage to elevate yourself is a perfect example, illustrating an inflated ego disproportionate to your self esteem. 'That Freedom Guy' is fiction. It's all fiction. The ego. The absence thereof...fiction. Fiction is story telling. Story telling. It's what we humans do....but what do I know? Maybe you are right and everyone else is wrong....I would be interested in learning about it but in the meantime, why don't you create content elevating others which resonates?
@theresefournier3269
Ай бұрын
YAHbsolutely
@brookestokes8830
Ай бұрын
You are awesome
@That_Freedom_Guy
Ай бұрын
@brookestokes8830 Aww, thank you! You are too! 🥹✌🏻🧡
@joeblakeukeman
Ай бұрын
Well said!
Peaceful
stumbled upon this - thanks Universe!
Thanks ❤
Damn listening to this and also having a conversation via text with my wife I Accepted a blow against my ego rather than accept her explanation that it was a misunderstanding
Thank you very much
Thank you so very much 🤝🤲✋🤚🙏
29:39 i can relate so much to this, wow.
Love You guys
Ty❤❤❤❤
Intro ends at 9:30 - Ram Dass begins at 9:30 - for those interested in such things….
First time, Thank you
Well spoken Thank you. I feel all those formsations and I laugh because it’s my truth not theirs. I don’t say anything. Although I did tell a friend recently that she disappointed me because she cancelled once again. I always take a higher road whenever I’ve been vulnerable with girlfriends the relationship ends. I do not care to that anymore. It’s my feeling
Wow I was at that lecture in Knoxville in '87!
I grew up in Asheville and never heard of the center of conscious living and dying. I looked it up and it’s located in Swannanoa, North Carolina.
For the love of, can we PLEASE normalize what he does with actually taking his time to think before responding? I think that’s so cool. irl I had always felt embarrassed to do that, like people will think I’m slow
Good morning!
12:46 an awesome quote
Loneliness fears agitation 😮 wow
@theresefournier3269
Ай бұрын
? say what🤔
@theresefournier3269
Ай бұрын
Love, unconditional love, knows NO FEAR❤. Not even and especially not what certain ones call "death"! ♥️🔥🌹
My heart breaks every day. I'm so tired of this trip. Back and forth all the time. Happy, sad, pleasure, pain, despair, rapture. Mostly confusion. I'm tired of being human. They say its a gift. Is it a curse as well? There's nothing in this world you could offer me that I would want. Love is the ONLY thing that's worth breathing for. But nature is so cruel. Ugh.
@samanthaluy781
2 ай бұрын
I have found Bhagavan Ramana Maharshi's teachings, by a man called Sanjay on a KZread channel called CONSCIOUS CIRCLE to be really helpful. It helped me to tie everything together for a much easier practice. Hope it will help you too.
@janicebollman1039
2 ай бұрын
love is the only thing worth breathing for…sounds like you know the path even tho you are heartbroken…we can have broken hearts yet love fiercely & purely…confusion comes when you are separate from love…❤❤❤
@YourWorstEnemyIsYourBestFriend
2 ай бұрын
@@samanthaluy781 🙏
@YourWorstEnemyIsYourBestFriend
2 ай бұрын
@@janicebollman1039 Thank you. 😊
@yassinesekkoumi3143
Ай бұрын
@@janicebollman1039✨💯✨
This is very helpful, as he explains something allot of us are familiar with and struggling with to implement, to , well try to become out of the fallen state, and this geezer, explains it in an whole different lighthearted humorist way. This other perspective is illuminating, and opens doors, and explains concepts familiar with but not fully understood. He is a Gem. I resided in the state he described for 2 weeks, it was broken by a guy who recognized my state and seemed to notice me praying to Yeshuah internally, he ran towards me with a ferocious hate foaming at the mouth shouting profanities about Christ and God, though I bicycled hard enough felt back into the fear state. And gone was the perception of the divine presence in every person. I am deeply thankful for this 2 weeks, I know now, I don't believe. Ofcourse I recognize their are other Christ's and that it's not in the labeling or the images, but about the frequency, the state wich I call the Christ consciousness, because he pointed toawards this state, and teached how to reach it, the teaching is mostly outside of the bible though, for obvious reason of the ego driven institutionalized gatekeeping Church, who ignore his essence, wich is a travesty.
@theresefournier3269
Ай бұрын
I'll say this! Every thing, you ever wondered about, questioned, doubted, falsely were made to be-lie-ve, etc., since you were even born, will be revealed to you, from within your own precious h-eart, mind and soul. Be still and KNOW you are the temple of the One who's true and set apart name, will also be revealed to you. You are very much, also set apart. Which they have wrongly translated, from the original Hebrew, to "saint"!
@theresefournier3269
Ай бұрын
The Messiah was in-deed anointed, which is what CHRIST means. Where Cisco comes from. Anyway, truth is obviously weirder than fiction and for most, hard to swallow.
Man this guy's guru sounds like a real trip lol
starts at 9:30
I shall 😌
Sorry. Can’t listen to Ram Dass when eating candy whilst speaking. But allready heard >100 hours. Thanks Richard 🙏
…I live in Asheville ❤
Hey there. I can’t find any info about your Asheville based community. I’ve been living in AVL for 5 years and I very much still in need of this type of community here. Could you share more about the meet ups?
So many teachings like this one from what has been called candy coated spirituality. Try being jewish in Poland after the German invasion and the terrible months of suffering that existed as reality before ultimate death. Talk about the terrible grace of God. And yet Victor Frankel wrote about witnessing it. Im just so grateful to be born baby boomer USA post that horror and hippie turned on by the likes of Ram Das who danced into our lives and teaches us still. Life and death in these times can surely be beautiful.
Start 9:06
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