I absolutely love every single time Dabney screams "YOU DO IT!" It is my favorite part of the video any time it happens.

@DAISNAID214

9 ай бұрын

You also know when it's gonna hit cuz it's the same build up each time.*consistency*

@danidenial

9 ай бұрын

Yes! Reminds me of that episode of Oprah where she gave away all the cars, same energy 😂

@wickiwo1098

9 ай бұрын

It's so funny when Dabney screams "THEN YOU DO IT!", I just hope I'm not drinking something at the time! 😂

@corinnenorem7093

9 ай бұрын

Same 😂😂😂

@pandoratheclay

9 ай бұрын

Dabney saying “THEN YOU DO IT!!!” is literally like Phoenix Wright shouting “OBJECTION!”

The absolute glee in RSlash's voice when he tells hypocritical people, "Well... _then you do it!!"_ honestly gives me life

@CreatureOutOfTime

8 ай бұрын

This should be merch at this point

@Shield-ul9tx

7 ай бұрын

@@CreatureOutOfTime I would 100% buy merch if that was one of them

@jessevancooney6963

5 ай бұрын

Fr. Any time I see the words "you do it" I can only hear his voice

Story 1: I also get frustrated with hypocrites. If they constantly complain about "Family supports family," then unless those relatives are broke as peck and are literally unable to financially support the sister, then THEY can do it. Complain? Then YOU do it. No excuses!

@devisweeta

9 ай бұрын

This sister could have recommended adoption instead. She is totally bizarre and out of her mind.

@N0xiety

9 ай бұрын

​@@devisweeta Bringing a kid you don't plan on looking after into the world is the actual bizarre and out of mind thing to do...

@annika5893

9 ай бұрын

But it's just easier and more convenient to guilt trip the one family member who already mostly takes care of the irresponsible baby mommy. If she opts out, they are going to have to take over the burden or reveal themselves as being hypocrites.

@devisweeta

9 ай бұрын

@@N0xiety Ya, but she doesn’t have the rights to tell another person to abort or not, she could have suggested a better option

@BunchyPanther42

9 ай бұрын

@@devisweetaand the sister doesn’t have the right to expect OP to pay for her second child

There was an update on the last story.. the lady that denied ops kid candy, did apologize and worked with op to get more educated on autism and other disabilities etc, and it's become a beautiful thing in the whole neighborhood where they all help each other.. so something good came from this after all!!

@thenightmaricsenpai524

9 ай бұрын

I'm glad that story at least has a happy ending

@minnarosenqvistmr

9 ай бұрын

@@thenightmaricsenpai524 for real! Because it sounded so awful.. some people just have an attitude,when kids don't behave like they think they should.. some kids are even just shy,and would have a hard time talking to adults.. So the lady's attitude from the beginning, was out of line...

@crimson5pider

9 ай бұрын

Wow, that's rare but good to hear

@GeminiRainbow

9 ай бұрын

That's glad to hear because honestly I was thinking who the heck expects a 6 yo special needs or not to consistently say trick or treat or whatever especially when they are getting tired.

@minnarosenqvistmr

9 ай бұрын

@@GeminiRainbow exactly.. I felt so bad for that kid . Momma bears are the best! Sometimes we get heated and a bit angry,but if we see our babies get hurt or cry, it's hard to contain the emotional turmoil inside of us . I totally get why op did react the way she did . I think I'd been much much worse in my reaction...😂😂

I think the sister in story 1 deserves more…cuz not only is she purposefully dragging OP down with her…she willingly tried to break up a couple to prove a point…not saying the deadbeat is absolved of any blame but she is far worse than 2.5/5

@j-zk6tf

9 ай бұрын

Gotta love that the deadbeats fiance didn't even care

@Richard_Nickerson

9 ай бұрын

Don't forget she's willing to bring a child into this mess just for a petty personal vendetta

@ArcanineEspeon

9 ай бұрын

I do think that she was perhaps worse than 2.5 but IMHO trying to break up a couple where one half is a deadbeat and a CHEATER is a great idea. She got really carried away but her initial idea was a noble one.

@kranberry3318

9 ай бұрын

@@ArcanineEspeonI mean I kinda agree but I don’t think I’d call it “noble” it’s just that the fiancé has a right to know… and I don’t get why she doesn’t care that part is weird

@abiean222

9 ай бұрын

@@kranberry3318 maybe the deadbeat is lying to his fiancé and she believes him over the random crazy lady.

"I can have this deadbeat cheater whenever I want 💅" Yassss girl, get your prize. Lmfao. I can't with some people. ALSO HE DIDNT EVEN LEAVE HIS FIANCE. SHE STILL TECHNICALLY DIDNT GET HIM

@davidwatson6202

9 ай бұрын

This cheaters going to cheat it’s not impressive when they cheat with u never really got how that’s a flex

@squeaktheswan2007

9 ай бұрын

When she said that, I imagined a possum hissing over a trash bag.

Story 1: 3 people are helping her with one child but she gets pregnant with the same deadbeat because He move on, she doesn't get to come running the you crying about making the same mistake twice. And she didn't even prove her point he went back to his fiance, and I don't think he's going to be helping with child support for this one, so all she proved was he has her wrapped around his finger. You shouldn't be forced to support your sister even more because she did something stupid out of spite for a woman that has nothing to do with her, R/ is right the rest of the family can support her and the second child you don't have to and shouldn't.

@cindyharrison8997

9 ай бұрын

Now there will be another kid in the world who shares the kids’ parents DNA. Our world is doomed

@snpr1022

9 ай бұрын

O.P. is the A-hole for making it an ultimatum "get an abortion or else". If she didn't wanna be supportive that is fine no fault there but making it an "or else" is toxic and coercive. Two toxics don't make a right.😢

I have no sympathy for you if you let yourself get pregnant by the same deadbeat TWICE. Having kids by Two different deadbeats is one thing, but to have multiple kids by one singular deadbeat that’s pathetic

@fdm2155

9 ай бұрын

For real! Condoms are much cheaper than raising children... Sister is an idiot. Though if he marries the dumb fiance, sister should sue for child support. Let the court garnish her wages. 😂

@miniman649

9 ай бұрын

"Having kids by Two different deadbeats is one thing," honestly, even then I am starting to lose sympathy. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice. Shame on me. At some point people just gotta learn to not jump in bed with others so fast and instead wait and see if they are even good breeding material.

@SoldierSpiderx

9 ай бұрын

that what I was said I have no doubt she was look for any reason to sleep with the guy and she was stalk his social media and I bet all my money she expect OP to take care of now baby number 2 and if her family call him evil bitch then they can take care of her and her kids and I bet she still sleep with the dude to

@ObeyLucifer

9 ай бұрын

Exactly!!!!! I feel no pity for her at all. She actively is choosing the have another one of her cheating deatbeat baby daddy's children. I genuinely don't know what's wrong with her and her backwards reasoning.

@CSKaras

9 ай бұрын

What boggled my mind is that she didn't use any kind of birth control. No condom. No after pill. No actual birth control she is already on. FFS, she has a kid. An IUD is easy and cheap.

Story 1: Not only is the sister putting her support and her children's support on the sibling but she didn't even accidentally get pregnant! She slept with her dead beat dad for a petty reason! That's ridiculous!

@abiean222

9 ай бұрын

she slept with the deadbeat to prove a point, and she didn't even use protection. i have no sympathy for her.

@user-hi5me5ix5v

9 ай бұрын

She wanted her baby daddy so bad for what we can tell, she's just full of jealousy and thinking ruining his baby's daddy fiancee would get him back

@DoritoBot9000

9 ай бұрын

she is dangerously dumb, it’s sad but OP is better off putting some distance with her

Story 3: She called up to apologize? My first thought is: "What does she want?" OP, she wants something from you. And she's trying to pay for it ahead of time with a crocodile-tear laden apology. Do. Not. Trust. Her.

@Y3w3lz

9 ай бұрын

I dont disagree with you... I do disagree with Slash, OP has all the leverage. The "daughter" wants to move in with her and she was basically given roommate expectations with some parental guidance. What does the kid think she's going to find out in the big bad world if she rents somewhere else? Sunshine, rainbows and everything in a silver platter? No honey, dad made you an independent adult, act like it.

Story 2: if it was so small then why did she try to hide it? Never say something's not a big deal when you are actively trying to keep it a secret, if she wanted to change the situation then she could have talk to you about she waited for you to be out of the house to have visit. Which makes me wonder if he were just visiting his son.

@RobDaCajun

9 ай бұрын

I’m a cynic on these things. So, imho, she didn’t tell him because the ex was blowing her back out on those visits as well. When her kid spilled the beans that dad had been over. She then went into full damage control about the details. I bet if OP confronted the ex. Then the ex would laugh and rub it into his face about smashing his girl on your bed. Even if that didn’t happen and it was innocent visits of the ex seeing his kid. It’s a huge red flag that she doesn’t respect you.

@fdm2155

9 ай бұрын

Yeah, if OP wasn't available now or visit was last minute, why not meet up at a McDonald's or something? Why do the ONE thing your partner was against... in his house!?

@RobDaCajun

9 ай бұрын

@@fdm2155 it’s simple, rules only apply for betas. I’m not saying OP is a beta. I’m saying she saw him as one. Ditch and move on. Life is too short to be second fiddle in your own home.

@immasnakeee6460

9 ай бұрын

@@RobDaCajunstop with that beta bullshit😕

@It-is-me...Melsie

9 ай бұрын

@@immasnakeee6460 Yeah, anyone who talks that crap - and it is indeed crap - is really offputting.

at this point ''YOU DO IT!'' should become rSlash's catchphrase.

@minnarosenqvistmr

9 ай бұрын

T-shirts!!!

@darkmask5933

9 ай бұрын

It's amazing how applicable it is in any situation where busybody, entitled family comes out of the woodwork to shame someone for not bankrolling a loser when they are doing nothing themselves to help.

@itsOasus

9 ай бұрын

worrrrrrrrrrrrrd lol

@yabe-kfptentacultist

9 ай бұрын

"YOU DO IT" alongside "SEE YA, WOULDN'T WANNA BE YA" & "Don't mess with the IT guy" are pretty much catchphrase for rslash.

@thenightmaricsenpai524

9 ай бұрын

​@@minnarosenqvistmrI was just about to say that

My mom would do the “what do we say?” Thing to get kids to say “Trick or Treat!” On Halloween but she never denied candy to kids who wouldn’t say it bc she’s not a horrible person, unlike the lady in the last story. My mom knew the holiday was supposed to be fun for the kids… ALL of them

@strawberrysoulforever8336

9 ай бұрын

I never make kids say it. I put a bucket or pumpkin on a string out the window of the main room and tell the kids to help themselves. Who cares if they say trick or treat or not? I'm just glad the kids are enjoying the holiday like I used to. I never finished most of the candy I got, but collecting with friends was the fun part.

@TiffWaffles

9 ай бұрын

That story brings back a story that my mother loves to tell about my first few years doing trick-or-treating. I had a form of selective mutism when I was young due to an abusive father, and only spoke to the people closest to me that I specifically trusted. Apparently, on Halloween, I would knock on people's doors and whoever would open it would receive a pointed stare while I just held out my little trick-or-treat bucket and swing it back and forth until I got the candy. I can't remember from that far back since I would have been a toddler, but according to my mother, the entire neighbourhood was apparently in stitches because the little girl who was dressed up as a cat could keep in character. Apparently, I did this until I was in grade one where I finally found my voice. Honestly, trying to remember those years are extremely painful, so I don't much like to think about those days. Especially since I remember my bio dad being an absolute monster.

@kentario1610

9 ай бұрын

@@TiffWaffles Not intended to make light of your experience around that time! That is honestly really funny and sounds a lot like how I was at that age. Staring at them like "you know why I'm here, so do it" with a bucket held out sounds like me.

@mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072

9 ай бұрын

@@kentario1610I don’t know why but reading your comment reminded me of “I’m in your house” for some reason

@wizwitch5318

8 ай бұрын

I love handing out candy on Halloween and my rule is "you have some way to carry it, you're getting candy". You never know why a child isn't saying Trick-or-Treat (even barring disability, young kids aren't always willing to talk to strangers and as the night goes on any kid is going to get tired) Heck, I don't even care how old you are--have fun, glad you're staying out of trouble, enjoy your night

I love how each time Rslash says “Well then you do it” he says it with more energy

Story 4: she didn't want anything to do with you first, one apology does not fix everything that's wrong, it's a star but then when you immediately asked for a favor after that makes it hard to forgive. The only thing you owe your husband is not forcing him to cut off his sister, you can not deal with her if you want and he's just going to have to live with it.

@jessicao5766

9 ай бұрын

Honestly the husband sounds lazy and completely unenvolved. Where was he when his in laws were giving her this shit treatment?? How come she had to organize everything with HIS own father?? dat fam is toxic af, and I feel bad for op

@RBrown-uk4xt

9 ай бұрын

I'd be wondered what the SIL wants. What trigger this "change" in treatment? Is there someone else that is sick, and they want OP to care for them? Was there something in the FIL's will?

@jessilynallendilla5014

9 ай бұрын

OP should've been petty and charged them for their father's care since she's not family just the help SIL diffidently wants something now

@abiean222

9 ай бұрын

@@RBrown-uk4xt i immediately thought that there was something up with FIL's will. its always the will when toxic assholes suddenly start acting nice to you.

*4th Story:* After the amount of animosity the SIL showed OP, a simple apology ain't enough. She & the other in-laws need to _show_ their apology as opposed to just _saying_ it.

Love the stories RSLASH, and I especially love it when you say “then YOU DO IT”!!! Stupid and entitled family and friends like to tell others what they should do but won’t do it themselves. 🤦🏻‍♂️

@anthonyramos3310

9 ай бұрын

I legit wait for it every time!!

@minnarosenqvistmr

9 ай бұрын

❤ for real! It sounds so funny! Then you do it! We should get t shirts with it!!!

@dracko158

9 ай бұрын

Because they didn't have to pay, so they said it. I hate "family" like this.

@anthonyramos3310

9 ай бұрын

@@minnarosenqvistmr $$$

@summersolstice884

9 ай бұрын

@sparklejarret5825 - - Had a friend who was all upset because relatives were telling her that she had to do all sorts of extra, expensive things for her mom's funeral and she did not have the money or want to go into debt ... Mean old me, advised her that should these relatives continue to harass her, that she should ask for their credit card, so that they could pay for those extra services ....

Third story: NTA. Anyone would dream of a deal like that, but her spoiled brain doesn't realize that she was turned into a weapon by the real villain of the story, her father. She spoiled her just to stick it to OP without any care of the consequences for his own daughter, and it worked.

The 1st story: sister reminds me a lot of my oldest sister. She was extremely irresponsible; after she got divorced from the only good man she dated/married bc she beat on him, she lost custody of all 4 kids(none of them have the same dad btw), she is currently in prison for robbing a gas station at knife-point to buy drugs for her boyfriend who promptly dumped her after she got arrested. She was only supposed to do 2 years but since she’s a glutton for punishment, she won’t be eligible for parole until I think 2035. Tl;dr OP’s sister needs to get her shit together before she ends up like mine.

@SoldierSpiderx

9 ай бұрын

and I bet she never learn to like your sister was abuser lost custody of her kids and now in prison that they don't learn and OP sister was for sure stalk his page and got mad he was get married slept with him to and I bet she expect OP to take care of her kid and their family call him evil that how about they take care of her kids and I bet she still sleep with the guy to and also I hope you still in contract with the first guy since he probably got your niece or nephew

@TawnyRoyal

9 ай бұрын

@@SoldierSpiderx unfortunately not, even though we were on the ex-husband’s side, he went no contact with us solely bc we are related to her. And since the children don’t have the same father, I believe they were put in custody of each of their dads, which means they are having to deal with being separated on top of being taken away from their mom…

@SoldierSpiderx

9 ай бұрын

@@TawnyRoyaldamn that sad and since she was abuse him, he probably thought you guys knew or something and want nothing to do with you guys even those you was on his side maybe one day you guys become family and should tell him your sister in jail for years and heard sibling spilt up so sad cause they probably miss each other

@TawnyRoyal

9 ай бұрын

@@SoldierSpiderx She accused him of breaking her arm in a fight, but actually she was attacking him after he found out she was popping pills again, hence the divorce. I really hope he believes that we don’t support her actions, we went no contact with her years ago when we found out she faked having cancer to gain our sympathy during the beginning of her prison sentence and she started sleeping with one of the CO’s and the warden of the prison called my mom because that CO created a jPay account(an app where you can send letters and commissary money) in my mom’s name and was investigating it. I will never forgive her because shes put me through hell my whole life and then her actions are the reason I can’t see my nieces and nephew. The oldest is almost an adult and probably doesn’t know I exist bc she was a baby and I was a kid when she got taken away.

My mom and her sibling are Irish Triplets. The three of them were born within 18 months. They’re also actually Irish 😂

Story 1: Even if she had the baby with her long time BF, it's still OP's right to move at any time. She screwed up. Guess she has to figure out her options.

@ollehkacb

9 ай бұрын

Sure but to tell a woman to abort their child or else is messed up

@nzkshatriya6298

9 ай бұрын

That wasn't a woman, that was an older female child@@ollehkacb

@tailsofchaos

9 ай бұрын

@@ollehkacb ironically, it be also mess up having the 2nd child but you take care of it as you already struggle with the 1st l. Plus, it was out of spite which is worse imo

@ollehkacb

9 ай бұрын

@@tailsofchaos you know its funny. Because even if she doesn't get an abortion she doesn't have to take care of it. Adoption is a big thing in usa. But yeah I do think its wrong to be irresponsible to have a child like that bit its still worse to tell someone to end their own flesh and blood.

@tailsofchaos

9 ай бұрын

@@ollehkacb Except for this. she would not want to put the child up for adoption. And another thing is, it's still worse because the fact remains is she got pregnant due to a scandal petty reason. Imagine for that child to grow up finding out what their real parents did. Don't give me wrong. There's plenty of adopted children manage to find their real parents and saw histories. Also it seems abortion is not as bad as many make it out to be based on comments in here.

The build up for that “well….then…..YOU DO IT!!!” was excellent 👌🏻👌🏻 10/10 no notes

@kristashafer93098

9 ай бұрын

That build-up was fantastic! I grinned with anticipation that he was gonna say it AND THEN HE DID!!!

Story one: WHY DONT THEY PAY HER FOR HER APARTMENT, AND SUCH?!?!?, because it’s obvious the sister is probably entitled and a karen and don’t want to uproot their lives to catter to her and be free baby sitters

@spydersoup8447

8 ай бұрын

You know how it is, it's never the elders' job to support their adult kids, that job goes to the sibling.

The last story seems like something my mother would do. Shes a retired nurse who often thinks she knows better than medical doctors, psychologists, psychiatrists, etc. Def NTA.

Story 3: please, she'll me back, all it takes is a little bit of time in the real world where people are not as kind as OP. Believer beg her father to take care of her like a pathetic leach, and or if that doesn't work she'll run back to mom taking that offer. OP's requirements boil down to be an adult and not even a complete one because the terms are pretty chill and only require the bear minimum.

I know I always try and get a Trick or Treat from kids on Halloween, I'll even sometimes give a prompt of 'can you say Trick or Treat?'. But if they still don't after the one prompt for whatever reason (shy, tired, neurodivergent ect) then I drop it and simply say Happy Halloween and give them the candy regardless. It's a FESTIVAL not some form of military boot camp.

At this point, I want merch that says "YOU do it!" Rslash isn't wrong tho.

When I heard the "family is pissed" bit I expected it, the legends foresaw it, the "YOUUUUUUUUUUU DO IT" was near.

Last story: and let other kids like your daughter be mistreated over something so trivial even after explaining why she didn't say trick or treat? You did those people a favor, it's good to know where the terrible people are so you don't have to deal with them while trick or treating. She can be mad all she wants I bet she's not giving the full story in her version.

@destinedtogame

9 ай бұрын

Read the update in the comment above yours

@tawnyacosta9091

9 ай бұрын

I agree. As a person with autism, if someone were to mistreat me, then everyone deserves to know who the terrible person is!

@d.phantomfan1216

9 ай бұрын

​@@destinedtogame I don't see it.

@destinedtogame

9 ай бұрын

@@d.phantomfan1216 the woman apologized, asked for help to understand kids on the spectrum, and the neighborhood came together to work on healing.

@d.phantomfan1216

9 ай бұрын

@@destinedtogame oh okay that's nice.

First story: Bagging a cheater isn't a flex. Last story: Ablest Karen gets called out for her behaviour and acts like a Karen. Typical.

3:41 i felt rslashs passive aggressive energy and i knew he was gonna hit us with a YOU DO IIIT

Story 1: I was so giddy and filled with glee at Dabney's catch phrase "yyyyeeeeEEEEWWWWW do it!!!" that I wiggled my feet 😂 The exasperation in his voice is so funny 😆

OMG the in law story is practically my life!! I don't have a relationship with my in laws, 10 years in now. My husband wasn't really understanding of it nor truly supportive but I finally got him to understand. In laws just aren't it anymore. Family in general just isn't it anymore.

Every time I hear about hypocrites like in story 1, I keep remembering that hilarious story where OP kicked out her deadbeat lazy brother, and then her busybody aunt tried to guilt trip her into letting him continue to mooch off her because "family helps family." Well, OP agreed with her. So, she dropped off her brother at her aunt's house, and then the aunt started getting hysterical demanding to come pick him back up. From what I've heard, he was living with the aunt for quite a while.

First story, the second me and my husband heard that the family was mad that OP wasn’t helping and told her to help, we paused and said “I bet rSlash is going to say “Then YOU do it”” and lo and behold, the second the story is done he did xD

*First OP:* First of all, OP's sister sleeping with her baby-daddy to prove a point to his fiancee that's he's unfaithful is just ratchet. Also, if OP's family was mad that OP won't support her sister and the baby, _in my best rSlash voice:_ "Then why don't *YOU* do it?!" OP is NTA. Best of luck to her nibblings. *Second OP:* OP had a simple request, and not only did Sara not honor it, but she lied about it through omission. And she would have gotten away with it if Nathan hadn't said anything. OP is NTA. I do feel bad for Nathan. I hope doesn't blame himself for getting him and is mom kicked out. I also hope Sara doesn't blame him. :/ *Third OP:* OP gave Maria reasonable guidelines and was willing to let Maria move back in with her after everything that happened between them. OP is NTA. I do wish Maria the best of luck. *Fourth OP:* OP _did_ say she didn't want to be around her in-laws. And it wasn't like she told her husband he couldn't see his original family. OP is NTA. I _do_ wonder about the relationship between OP's FIL and SIL. 🤔 *Fifth OP:* OP was warning fellow parents about the neighbor's indifference toward OP's daughter. It's not OP's fault people pulled pranks on the woman. OP is NTA.

Irish twin isn't a racist term. My grandfather was Irish and he even had two kids less then 10 months apart and was bragging he had Irish twins

@DrunkSamurai

9 ай бұрын

Well obviously it isn't since Irish isn't a race.

@fayeslover

8 ай бұрын

I guess they're called Irish twins because of how most Irish are Catholic and don't use birth control.

@amandabear707

8 ай бұрын

And also Irish don't get insulted by the smallest things. If we did we would cry about the joke everyone makes us on Saint Patrick's day...

@DrunkSamurai

6 ай бұрын

@@fayeslover But not all Irish are Catholic.

@Azulakayes

6 ай бұрын

​@@DrunkSamuraiExactly...if I recall, there was a whole lot of *trouble* because not all Irish are catholic.

Story 2: OP, the "violating your visitation boundaries" is a distraction. The true issue is that she betrayed your trust. If she is going to betray your trust and boundaries in this way, then she will undoubtedly betray your trust and boundaries in others. Bad-faith antagonists will minimize the "betrayal of trust" issue, while trying to gaslight you into believing that the "visitation boundaries". Ignore these people. Keep your head up high. Keep moving forward.

As the father of an autistic girl, the last story really pissed me off. It took quite a bit to get my daughter to say trick or treat. Luckily all the houses we went to were all kind and praised her for it. I don't blame the mother, I blame that horrible old woman.

@Yumi_Jay

9 ай бұрын

Exactly. We shouldn't need a blue pumpkin pail to indicate anything. Kids should not have to put on a song and dance to get candy on Halloween. It is ridiculous and I say that as an Autistic woman myself.

@strawberrysoulforever8336

9 ай бұрын

It's not even just autistic kids who might have trouble. Some kids are painfully shy when they're a certain age and even some of them will be too shy to say it. Punishing an autistic child for being autistic is disgusting, especially if they have trouble with verbal communication. It's the same as when any other child makes progress - praise them, and when there isn't progress, encourage effort for progress to come in the future.

@TiffWaffles

9 ай бұрын

I can't even imagine withholding candy from a child just because they wouldn't or couldn't say trick or treat to somebody. This woman sounds horrible. I would have put that woman and her house on blast because of how she thought she could bully a child. What would her response be for a child who is deaf or has some other disability where speaking is difficult for them? Let's be honest here, I suspect that even if OP's daughter signed 'trick or treat', this woman would still have refused to give her candy because she doesn't believe in disabilities and how those disabilities impact communication.

@TiffWaffles

9 ай бұрын

@@strawberrysoulforever8336 Due to having an abusive father who always screamed at me to shut up, I had a form of selective mutism (not sure if I am autistic since I don't have a diagnoses), but I refused to speak to anyone I didn't specifically trust until I was in grade one. My mother said I had quite the forceful personality when I was a toddler. On Halloween even though I barely spoke to anyone, I'd knock on the door and whoever would open would receive a pointed stare while I swung my little trick or treat bucket back and forth until I got the candy. To my recollection, nobody gave me any trouble for it. Apparently, the entire neighbourhood thought it was cute that the little girl dressed up as a cat could remain in character. Or at least, that's what my mother told me.

@i3loody-rainbow736

9 ай бұрын

@@Yumi_Jay wait. so kids are entitled to free candies but the free givers are not entitled to kids asking nicely for them :D sure

I'm autistic and the same thing happened to me when i was younger on halloween, it always made me nervous to go tick or treating after that year, it's something i've never been able to forget

0:27 Heyo! As someone who’s part Irish I think I can say it’s not a racist or offensive term - it’s more or less like slang (at least to me, my sibling, or dad’s side of the family who are Irish and my dad was raised Catholic, and the term is used a lot with them). Hell, me and my older sibling are Irish twins (Him born in December, and me in November the next year) and when we are on the occasion referred as “Irish twins” we don’t get offended or upset by it.

Story 2: "I can't think of any situation where I would want my partner's ex around them if I'm not around. Even if nothing happens, it is fundamentally disrespectful to you." Man I can relate to that so fucking much.

@alexanderhenby1362

9 ай бұрын

Any situation, you mean like the 18 year commitment of having a child with someone. That situation os literally court mandated for that ex to continue to be in their life. If you don't like that DONT DATE PEOPLE WITH CHILDREN.

@Serilaene

9 ай бұрын

​@@alexanderhenby1362 I'm not so, there you go

Pretty funny on the mom not having leverage over her trash daughter. It's free housing with requirements or nothing. It's pretty good leverage if you ask me. If the daughter can't cope with her mom's rules then she can find someone else to bum off of

Jesus, that last story really pissed me off. Even after explaining that she was wrong and that the kid was autistic and didn’t speak much, she STILL bullied her. What a grouchy old woman

@davidscott1340

9 ай бұрын

It's pretty simple. You say trick or treat for candy. If you don't saybit you don't get candy. Her house should not have been vandalized. You and Dabney have it wrong here.

@danielbrant6740

9 ай бұрын

​@@davidscott1340 She had a chance to own up to bullying an autistic child but chose to double down. It's just like the meme where the cyclist puts a stick into the spokes of their front wheel while riding, causing them to crash. The grunty neighbour lady only has herself to blame.

@ravenandpawprint1142

9 ай бұрын

@@davidscott1340 Bullshit! Does this mean that mute kids can't get any candy?

@ZombieSazza

9 ай бұрын

And then cries online because she’s being judged harshly for her own behaviour!

@ransomnotes666

9 ай бұрын

​@@davidscott1340thats not the rule. Who tf forces kids to do things for candy. Wtf is wrong with u

I don’t think it’s racist to call them Irish twins, especially considering a lot of people who are ethnically Irish don’t take offense to it. That said if you were to go to Ireland and ask for a car bomb in a pub, expect a bar brawl

@mar-shagazorpazorp6431

7 ай бұрын

Lol my Irish mom always uses that saying. I always understood it as how the Irish love to screw, but isn’t that just a human thing!? 😂

@rachelranderson

4 ай бұрын

I have a friend with 10 months between him and his brother-- we called them Catholic twins. Maybe it's like an Irish goodbye, where people just randomly make a group up?

Story 1. Op's sister is an idiot. I think she's trying to get away with having another baby because there's no way someone would do this just to make a point.

The trick or treat story reminds me of Kanye trying to get everyone to stand up, even the person in the wheelchair

People with candy on Halloween only have one job: give kids candy. Mean old lady made no sense to me

that last one is so infuriating. a lot of kids didnt say trick or treat to me when i handed out candy, i still gave them some. i was wearing a pretty spooky costume so i completely understood if they didn't want to talk to me lol

5:04 I guess you could say she skipped Point B and went straight to Point D…

I really like the way r slash says “if it’s so important then YOU do it”. It’s like the perfect balance of anger and enthusiasm and you know he’s going to be spitting facts immediately after.

"Family is getting mad at OP for not helping" Say it R Slash. Say it. Do it! Say it! "THEN YOOOOOU DO IT!!!!!!!" 🤤 Oh yeah...that's the good stuff

Apparently this is the 'bUt weRe faMiLy' episode. Pretty much every OP that has a grievance with someone in the family is told to suck it up instead of actually trying to fix things or take care of it themselves. Also, last story, NTA and that woman has issues for getting angry instead of taking a second for self-reflection.

Story 1: NTA. OP covered the majority of expenses when sister was working less. Sister is irresponsible as hell. 2.5/5 for sister. Story 2: NTA. Sara violated the agreement with OP that visitations would happen while OP is home. Im just hoping Sara wasn't cheating with the ex. 3/5 for Sara. Story 3: NTA. OP set reasonable standards for daughter to live there RENT FREE. Unfortunately, her dad spoiled her rotten to the point of irreparable damage. Daughter's probably gonna be on her own then. 2.5/5 seems a little low. I'd say 3/5 is good. Story 4: NTA. The in-laws treated OP like the help for their dying father!? Well, in that case, OP's "job" to them is finished and no longer needs to interact with them. Also, husband is not doing enough to be behind OP. 1.5/5 for the husband for sure. I think the in-laws should get no less than 3.5/5 for treating OP like the help and for not seeing their father before he passed. Story 5: NTA. Shes a douchebag. Plain and simple. Good job, OP. Mean lady definitely gets 2/5.

As a British person, I can confirm that Irish-Twin is not racist. I have family from all corners of the UK, primarily Scottish, and it's not rude in the slightest - the Irish use the term themselves with no rude connotations.

I LOVE HOW ATLEAST ONCE A VIDEO HE HITS US WITH THE “THEN YOUUUUUUU DO ITTTT”

“Well, then yOU DO IT!!!!” I fucking love it every time 😂

One thing I love when I do come see rSlash, even if he is a hypocrite about mental health, is when he yells, "YOU DO IT!"

I can just imagine an r/slash t-shirt that says "Then yoooou do it!" 😂

@LunaP1

9 ай бұрын

I'd buy that shirt.😂

@danielbrant6740

9 ай бұрын

​@@LunaP1 I'd buy one for every day of the week in different colours even.

Hey everyone, if you’re going through a hard time right now, you got this! Love y’all ❤

@danaevelyn7384

9 ай бұрын

You’re a light in this world. I’m having an incredibly hard, dark time in my life right now. I needed this so much. Thank you

@Iknowthishandleistaken

9 ай бұрын

@@danaevelyn7384Aww thank you! You’re so sweet! You’re doing amazing for even existing, even though sometimes it’s difficult.

@destinedtogame

9 ай бұрын

Hey if you can adapt to losing your eyeballs and then joining a band with the guy who knocked them out. I can survive today!

@Iknowthishandleistaken

9 ай бұрын

@@destinedtogamelmao u got this!

@yourlocalraccoondealer8611

9 ай бұрын

no u

Surprised you've never heard the ancient term "Irish Twin"... It's also no more racist than the interchangeable term "Irish goodbye" and "French goodbye" (both referring to simply departing a party or gathering without notifying anyone that you're leaving)...

@kaykay8855

9 ай бұрын

I’ve never heard the term either

@RobDaCajun

9 ай бұрын

I think Irish Twin also applies when you Dad also Father’s your half sibling at the same time. For example Brian’s wife and mistress had their sons 2 months apart. So, Mickey and Tommy are Irish Twins.

@realbadger

9 ай бұрын

@@kaykay8855 Maybe it's an age thing; that it's probably less in use in recent years. I'm in my 60s and I've known it since at least my 20s.

@75ur15

9 ай бұрын

​@@kaykay8855the amount you don't know, will be far greater than that which you do....and that is true of everyone

I had an abortion and it was the hardest, most traumatic, gut wrenching thing I’ve ever done. And yet if I had to do it all over I would do the same thing. I HATE women who can’t just admit to themselves that THEY CANT DO IT! And that’s okay!! I was devastated about my baby but I knew for a fact that at that point in my life I couldn’t provide what I wanted to for my children. Especially not alone! And my BD wanted NOTHING to do with it or me and ended up getting married to a woman o didn’t know he was engaged to the day I had my abortion.🙃 My point is, I made that hard decision because I knew my family would help but it would have been so unfair for me to expect hand outs from them or free child care etc. It’s not fair or easy but you have to do what’s best for everyone involved. When you’re struggling and pregnant YOU ARE NO LONGER THE ONLY ONE THAT MATTERS IN THE DECISION MAKING! Those who help deserve to voice they’re concerns and opinions too.

@katlynnmyers5927

9 ай бұрын

Just curious why didn’t you adopt the baby out? Genuine question no hate just curious.

@amandawestman4914

9 ай бұрын

@@katlynnmyers5927 Adoption was an option I considered but I was really sick at the time (extremely malnourished even not pregnant) and I worried about being able to bring the baby to term, having a healthy baby, being put on bed rest at some point which I could NOT afford. Not to mention how broken the system is. Sure my baby could have gotten a beautiful family to grow up with but that’s a best case scenario and I guess I just don’t think that’s usually the case. What happens if baby had a birth defect?? It’s a horrible thing to have to think about but that makes a big difference in adoption sadly. I didn’t want to worry that I made the wrong choice every day or have a child out there who didn’t think I loved it. It was a little selfish on my part maybe but it was the best thing I could have done for both of us. I didn’t want my baby to hurt or feel alone, I wanted him to be at piece. I’m not really religious but I think my baby is more at peace this way than either of my other options.

@tailsofchaos

9 ай бұрын

​@@amandawestman4914i would not say it was selfish reason. You did what you could based on what you went through and all

I’m so confused WHY the op in the first story’s sister even decided to sleep with her first baby’s dad AGAIN, AFTER finding out he had a fiancé and AFTER he called her crazy. What the hell is going on with her????

I always find it funny how much energy he puts behind THEN YYYOOOOU DO IT!!!!!!! 😂

She only apologized so she could stay at their house. I wouldn't have responded.

the first story actually made Rslash swear so you know they are bad people

On Halloween this year, the only trick-or-treater I got was a little girl in a flower costume. She didn't say a word, which the parents seemed embarrassed about. You know what I did? I told her her costume was cute, gave her a big handful of candy, and wished them all a Happy Halloween. I have no idea if the girl was neurodivergent, nervous, or just tired. It's none of my business. My only job on Halloween is to give candy to kids, so that's what I did. It's not that hard to be a decent human being!

Rslash, I hope you know the absolute joy I get from you yelling "Then YYYYOU do it!!!!". Whenever I read a story with a hypocritical family, I can hear your voice in my head lmao.

Fourth story: NTA. Is clear she isn't really sorry and probably wants something from OP. Also, why OP's husband hasn't shown any support to OP? I say advance carefully, and at the slightest sign of defiance divorce that unsupportive douchebag.

My favorite rslash quote; "WELL THEN, YOU DO IT!!!" XD

Story 3. When I was 19, I flunked out of college. I had untreated clinical depression, my grandmother had just died, and I was living alone in a state where I had no support structure. I called my parents in tears, begging them to let me go home. Their response was a lot like this mom's. I could come home, but I would have to go to counseling, help out around the house, get a part-time job, and take classes at the community college until I figured out what I wanted to do with my life. This bit of love saved me. I now have a masters degree, a career, a cat, and friends.

Last Story: ngl I would be a little irritated to give up my king sized candy bar (though I guess it helped prove a point).

‘This feels like a needlessly racist term’ LOL! And yet, here we are 😂

Who's gonna tell R/slash that Irish isn't a race?💀

With that last story, from what I could tell, OP didn't directly tell anyone not to go to that house, they simply relayed their experience and everyone else chose (with good reason in my personal opinion) to now go to that house.

bro how is that a needlessly racist term? Anyway I love your videos

@Ravenor907

9 ай бұрын

When did Irish become a race?

@75ur15

9 ай бұрын

​@@Ravenor907even if it was, and it could be argued that it's a specific group that largely has a seperate race....the term isn't prejudiced in its current form, however it started....but I agree, national origin, and religion aren't races

@magical_pixie_horse7346

9 ай бұрын

​@@75ur15 If the term is malicious, then it would be xenophobic. It's no less bad than racism, but a group of people living somewhere for centuries doesn't make that group a race. Especially nowadays, people from all over now live in mostly different places.

@75ur15

9 ай бұрын

@@magical_pixie_horse7346 mostly agree, but can't agree that most using it today have malicious intent (not saying you said that, but it is implied)....as for the other. Living apart kinda is how races form...it juat takes, forever to happen, and with tech what it is, likely is impossible (on earth) to actually differentiate enough now...otherwise I agree

Story 1: The most most messed up part of this story is that this sister cannot afford the child, but at no point does it even remotely occur to her that she should terminate the pregnancy. She's just been brainwashed that keeping it is the normal thing to do.

Story 3: NTA But is anyone else concerned of the fact that the girl is 21 and doesn’t even have a GED?! She must’ve been 100% convinced that she didn’t have to do anything in life but to be her father’s mooch. That is extremely concerning behavior OP😨 I don’t suggest even talking to her

I can relate to the last OP, I have kids, 2 boys who are non verbal, and one who has autism. Fortunately people around here are more accepting, plus these kids are criminally adorable, and infectiously happy.

The "then you do it" will always make me laugh

7:47 I litterally had the exact same situation with my last girlfriend Like it felt almost word for word my experience

Gawd, I love you Dabney Bailey!! "YOOOUUU do it!" gets me every time.

Story #3: The first time she cursed me I would have slapped her back to the original factory settings!

This is why when you move into someone else's home, they have the power to kick you out, and it's worse when they have kids, cause when you violate someone's trust it's a stupid move. Be smart people don't move in together til you're married and in a home you're both on the lease she was at fault her,

@Tustin2121

9 ай бұрын

Bad advice. You definitely want to move in together *before* you get married because that period of time living in the same area will tell you if you’re actually compatible with one another. If you only move in after you’re married, then you have to go through divorce if and when you realize you can’t stand each other.

@lisaclark7810

9 ай бұрын

@@Tustin2121 That's bad advice. If you have kids which she does, that's going to send a bad message to the kid(s), cause they won't have a good relationship with anyone true though with marriage to, just depends on the couple.

The Sister and the Deadbeat getting into an argument about him being a deadbeat and not loyal only to have him cheat and her get pregnant again. It's like ending a fight with a headbutt where both go to the hospital with concussions and neck injuries 😑

That last story really hit me hard. I’m autistic and in my younger years was nonverbal is certain settings and situations, one of which was daycare. I was only silent when adults were around and would talk to other kids just fine. One day I guess a teacher took it upon herself to fix me and demanded I speak in order to get a certain color toy. I pointed and made clear what I wanted but she refused to give it to me. Naturally I cried and that memory is still etched into my brain as trauma. Side note: trauma depends on how an an individual experiences something. While that sort of situation may have had little to no impact on another person it was traumatic to my tiny autistic child brain.

SIL story. SIL: you're not gonna see me? Op: this doesn't concern me. Plus I need to get my nails done or something.

Then YOU do it!!! Lol, never gets old for me. Thanks for the video.

While the last op was completely in the right, what was she realistically exprecting when she texted 20+ people about not going to a certain house?

@verngrl

9 ай бұрын

Right? Like, full support to her: sometimes you gotta go to war. But, in this day and age of social media and things going viral, it annoys me when people are like "I had no idea this would blow up!" Of course you did; that's why you did it. Otherwise you would have just grumbled to yourself and then moved on.

I love stories like the first because i die to tell them that "Oh! She is family right? Then you help her because we are familyyyy!"

Hearing a story about family getting mad at someone for choosing not to support another family member, just waiting for the “YYOOOOUUUUUU do it.”

I just love the "then you do it!" rants. xD

How on earth is "Irish Twin" racist?

3:46 the genuine ANGER in his voice is unlike anything i have ever heard from him

rSlash - I NEED you to know that I absolutely love the "Then YOU DO IT" response everything you say it. Nothing infuriates me more than when people pressure one family member to just do x -- but no one else is willing to do it.

Full size candy bars? HA! I give out books. The experienced kids skip saying Trick-Or-Treat to just calling out their grades so I can give them an age appropriate book at the right reading level. Points to Anne Rice. When she learned of my doing this about 32 years ago, she sent me 50 autographed book plates to put into her books. I have collage kids coming by because they have been coming to my house since they were a baby in their parents arms.

@danielbrant6740

9 ай бұрын

Hap Shaughnessy, is that you? 🤥

@annoney9693

9 ай бұрын

@@danielbrant6740 Someone else is giving out books? This is (mother) Theresa.

Spoiled daughter story: i think the dad deserves twice that butthole score for raising such an entitled person. You're supposed to teach them how to survive on their own while still being there for them. Not make a monster out of them to terrorize society.

@bibigamer502

9 ай бұрын

I think the dad in that story either skipped that lesson or ignored it all together

......... "Well... then... YOU DO IT!" 🤣🤣🤣

After a year of rslash videos it gets more more predictable when a "then YOU do it!"-rant is about to happen I call it every time lol

Story 2: I bet he's not actually an ex...

@bibigamer502

9 ай бұрын

Far from it