r/Trueoffmychest I Ruined My Life by Cheating on My Wife
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@Aetium9 ай бұрын
there is no way CPS would call someone, and say ''maybe you should contact the victim's family''.
@LaceBlood
9 ай бұрын
CPS also would HAVE to report it to the cops. I feel bad for the dude
@SRosenberg203
9 ай бұрын
@@LaceBlood I feel bad for him that he's so dumb.
@amandasunshine2
9 ай бұрын
Yeah I wonder how much he's given them so far 😞
@abiean222
9 ай бұрын
like seriously, red flag #1. red flag #2 was the dad going "i don't want to go to the police, so why don't you pay me so i won't"
@ScooterBond1970
9 ай бұрын
When I heard that I was like, dude pretty much up and said "Hey imma blackmail you now."
@SteviiLove9 ай бұрын
I'm so sad for the first OP's wife, not him. I'm glad he has to face the devastation he caused but OP's wife, she didn't deserve that devastation.
@SailorMya
9 ай бұрын
I feel the same. He wanted sympathy but all the sympathy I have goes to the wife who had to go through that betrayal. If the wife really doesn't want a divorce then they really should seek couples counseling, not for him, but for her mental health. She is probably just as upset as OP every time she sees him and she shouldn't have to feel like that every day, he does, but she doesn't.
@liuqmno3421
9 ай бұрын
@@SailorMya I kinda feel the same, but I don't think he wanted sympathy. He even suggested divorce for her that she can heal and feel happy again. I do feel bad for him because he probably gets a way worse punishment than deserved, even for a cheater, having to watch her suffer too every day
@Monasaurus_Rex
9 ай бұрын
The only thing I do feel for him is the struggle of wanting to set her free but not wanting to hurt her any further. Like he wants her to move on and find a better partner but she clearly still loves him and doesn’t want to let go. If I were him I’d push her to try therapy, to help her realize that it wasn’t her fault, and she doesn’t need his love, so she can live her life
@tehking111
9 ай бұрын
Can we all just calm down a little? He cheated. It's bad. It's not like he can't regret his decision and feel shit. He's still a human and its okay to sympathise with the both of them.
@InvasionAnimation
9 ай бұрын
@@liuqmno3421 He only want that to get with the AP.
@alexandriav39569 ай бұрын
Middle story about dude withholding intimacy from his wife had me literally SCRREEAAMMIINNGG in my car on the way to work, “Why are you married to this dude???” it’s so obvious he’s cheating on her and she’s completely blind to it.
@amirue2602
9 ай бұрын
FR it's so painfully obvious that he doesn't even like her i feel so bad for her
@fdm2155
9 ай бұрын
Yeah, she's already a single parent. She might as well cut the cord and end the abuse. It's so sad that she doesn't think he's abusive when he clearly is. It's reasonable to need some time to decompress after work. BUT refusing to interact with your family OR help at home full stop? Nah.
@megnotmegan1966
9 ай бұрын
When she asked how she could earn it back, SMH, she’ll never get it.
@Tortilla.Reform
9 ай бұрын
Yea, considering the fact that Police families have the highest rate of domestic violence and abuse *among any other profession* OP’s police officer husband and how he treats them isn’t at all surprising. He seems like a Christopher Pullease type
@invaderdidi367
9 ай бұрын
That's the first thing I thought of as well!!! He's probably already cheating on her, and the kid "incident" just gave him an excuse to stop doing it with his wife which he already hates. I watched it with my bf and he confirmed that the dude 100% hates his wife and kids, but doesn't want to get a divorce in order to keep the house, have a personal free maid (who's also super easy to manipulate) and not pay child support. I REALLY hope OP wakes up, she in an abusive exploitative relationship! :(
@JokesInBase139 ай бұрын
Tinder Scam OP NEEDS to get the police involved, because even if parts of her story are true (which is VERY unlikely, unless OP is leaving some major things out), her family is clearly extorting him and it will never end if he doesn't put an end to it.
@Mr_Timi1
9 ай бұрын
There is no girl, the child protective services are mandatory reporters they would not have contacted him the cops would have.
@odhaviingdovah3344
9 ай бұрын
I was the victim of the same thing and the police never could do anything about it I lost 4,000
@basvs3906
9 ай бұрын
@@odhaviingdovah3344 thats wh you should do it before you pay. And ofcourse ask CPS for a case number and call their official line to get some validatiion. Or if your in the Muricas: Forward them to your lawyer
@madisonoliver9521
9 ай бұрын
Right? Like if for no other reason than to protect his own ass if there is a real kid.
@pretzelicious4200
9 ай бұрын
Yeah.. I know going to the police cause you flirted with a minor is fucking scary but he has the proof she lied. Probably lawyer up too before going. I didnt think about it until Rslash said it but why would a father NOT want the police involved? That's just so weird. Scam for sure.
@Mr_Timi19 ай бұрын
There is something called mandatory reporting when you work with kids. So you wouldn't get a call from a "child protective agency" they would have called the cops and wouldn't bother contacting you at all.... That was red flag number one, they don't make deals with child predators and wouldn't care that you didn't know. Honestly, it didn't sound like he did much anyway talked to the girl on the phone or more likely texted. When they made a deal and asked for money, he should have been calling the cops.
@DoctorOaks
9 ай бұрын
I remember the first time I had someone try to do this, I told them to never send me any NSFW pictures. Also that I immediately deleted every picture she did send me like that. Then I got a call from someone claiming to be her dad, saying he wouldn't report me to the FBI for what I was doing with his daughter. I told him that he was an awful fucking father if his first instinct was to profit off his underage daughter's nudes, and that I'd love to talk to the FBI about it. Obviously I never heard about it again.
@SRosenberg203
9 ай бұрын
Yeah it's honestly insane to me that anyone is dumb enough to fall for something so fucking stupid. There probably never was any girl, this was always just a bunch of dudes scamming that OP and the OP going along with it because he's a moron.
@gracehollz20529 ай бұрын
The abusive partner withholding intimacy, love, any form of kindness, seems like standard domestic violence, this is backed up by her denial and defensiveness. It's hard for DV survivors to leave, it appears OP is struggling with guilt and shame. It's so upsetting, I hope one day she chooses to leave.
@LilDevyl17
9 ай бұрын
The problem is they don't see the red flags or see this as abuse b/c in many cases Domestic Abuse in their eyes is only Physical Abuse. What he's doing is both Emotional Abuse and Mental Abuse. Unfortunately, b/c of the Media and OP's husband's career, they're all conditioned to believe that the only Abuse is Physical Abuse and nothing else. So, of course, OP will be defending her husband b/c of all the Gaslighting he's been doing to her. She won't see it as abuse b/c in her eyes only Physical Abuse is abuse and not Emotional/Mental and what it seems to be going on is Verbal as well.
@avesatanae
9 ай бұрын
As someone who has experienced domestic violence, no. Violence is... well... violence. Beating, kicking, biting, slapping, throwing boiling oil on them (still got the scars.) While emotional abuse is obviously bad, don't compare it to domestic violence. Its like comparing the fire on the top of a match to a raging forest fire.
@BelBelle468
9 ай бұрын
@@avesatanae lmao. Don’t use your own experiences to undermine the experiences of others. Victimizing yourself like that isn’t cool. Emotional and mental abuse is just another form of abuse. It’s even longer lasting than physical violence. Physical violence literally can cause further emotional and mental scars, so to say one is lesser than the other is to also undermine the effects of physical violence that you’re claiming to have dealt with. You’re literally undermining your own experience too and are limiting the validity of scars to what only others can see and not your own feelings. The pain of physical violence is temporary and the emotional scars last far longer since they exist on the psyche. That sort of mentality is what allows abuse to continue, invaliding victims and reducing their support, which only benefits abusers.
@erauprcwa
9 ай бұрын
@@avesatanae Please stop! Your anecdotal statement does a disservice to domestic violence victims. Violence includes emotional abuse, which sometimes can be worse than physical. Physical abuse is obvious, emotional destroys a person with who they are and can have long term affects that go beyond physical. Remember, many forest fires start because of that match...
@wmdkitty
9 ай бұрын
Saying "no" to sex isn't abuse, WTF?
@d.phantomfan12169 ай бұрын
Story 3: OP stop making excuses for your abusive husband and go, there are much better men out there that won't use sex as a weapon and disrespect you every damn time he sees you. You don't want to be a victim fine get out of the relationship or at least stop letting him treat you like trash.
@DoubtingThomasina
9 ай бұрын
Why I would never date a cop. Half of them are abusive. I hope she wakes up from the denial stage soon, her posting in the first place is a possible sign that she will wake up soon
@Monasaurus_Rex
9 ай бұрын
@@DoubtingThomasina she’ll definitely feel naïve and stupid a couple months down the line when she rereads her post again
@nightrain4749
9 ай бұрын
The second i heard "my husbands a cop" i knew her husband was on some power trip
@juliaboskamp9666
9 ай бұрын
It's easier said than done the victim first need to realized that there are being abused and if they want to leave you have to be careful what type of abuser your abuser is because some abusers will take revenge for leaving them
@KadeStringer2.0
9 ай бұрын
@@DoubtingThomasinanot completely true but very few are
@errantwinds-up8uu9 ай бұрын
In the story with the checked-out husband: the worst thing that stuck out to me was "You need to watch YOUR kids." I'm sorry what? They're your kids too buddy!
@samwilliams3120
9 ай бұрын
Are they? That made me think they were step kids over something.
@rubystone9074
9 ай бұрын
Sounds like the husband may have started taking dating advice from a certain youtube red-pill podcast, lol
@samwilliams3120
9 ай бұрын
@@rubystone9074 Tink about dis, there's a way you can get your wife to listen to you. Look at dees way, there's a possibility that she might listen what's you take something away, but that being said. Yeah probably from podcast that says those phrases a bunch.
@GabrielleTollerson
9 ай бұрын
@@rubystone9074yep!! A certain podcast that Starts with a W I'm sure!
@williambragg61719 ай бұрын
For the scam story this actually happened to me. I was talking with someone who said they were 21 which was around my age, only to find out it was a lie after some dude called saying he was an officer and the girl was actually 15. The bad news is they got nearly 5k from me mainly because I was not in the right mental state due to my mom recently passing. Still it angers me thinking that there are people out there who do this.
@threecards333
9 ай бұрын
There are a lot of honeytrap scams. I have partially fallen for a couple over the years. One was a Pakistani woman who i talked to daily and she kept having medical and food issues, which i helped at first but after a while I stopped which point she calls me to blame me for the death of her mother as I did not help her pay for the medical treatment. I also get a number of American honeytraps where they eventually have some sudden bill they need paid. I even got a crytoscammer from a paid dating site. There is a lot. Thankfully none have used underage blackmail or anything beyond just guilt tripping.
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089
9 ай бұрын
I am so very sorry 😟
@fdm2155
9 ай бұрын
It struck me as odd that a 25 year old would be interested in dating an 18 year old not to mention taking the chance that the person was really an adult... One of my brothers used to stay home during the week when college groups came to our city. He said, no way am I trying to get caught by some girl in a bar with a fake license. Apparently a lot of high school kids would go to bars/clubs to hang out with the college kids! 🤣🤣
@crotchwolf1929
9 ай бұрын
I think the same thing may have happened to me too except it was on a gay dating app and I ended the conversation before it really went anywhere. When I tried online dating, my first encounter was with a strange user claiming to be 19 (I was 22.) At first we just started chatting about normal things but then things quickly started turning sexual. He wanted me to send him my number so he could send me dirty pics but his pushy, aggressive tone put me off so I kept refusing. Eventually I got sick off the guy and blocked him. This interaction actually prompted me to make a rule not to hand out my contact info until after I met the guy in person. Later I went to look up his profile again and found out he deleted it. I met my now husband through a different online app so I know these can potentially work but take steps to protect yourself online dudes.
@JohnWilliams-cr2sz
9 ай бұрын
Similar thing happened to me once, luckily I was only out a couple hundred, but it still fucks with your head. Sending ya internet hugs.
@d.phantomfan12169 ай бұрын
Story 2: hey you're not in control when you're in a situation like that, and the doctor didn't report you that's probably a sign that she's not holding it against you.
@lilydr9364
9 ай бұрын
When I had to go through my hysterectomy before they gave me a spinal block and they gave me something called a liquid cocktail and apparently I asked my doctor for pictures of the surgery I would normally not ever ask for graphic pictures
@darthaino
9 ай бұрын
I talked about MASH while they were delivering my son via C-section. I made everyone laugh, and the birth went well. I have a healthy eight month old .When I had my daughter I punched the nurse in the arm.
@billieking2257
9 ай бұрын
I don’t remember much when I was put under for my gallbladder removal. What I do remember is asking for more of the medicine because I wanted to go back to sleep 😂
@SakuraKotoni
9 ай бұрын
When I was having a tooth removed, I needed to be fully sedated (conscious sedation always resulted in me immediately throwing up) so once I woke up I was very out of it. Apparently IRL I was shouting, practically screaming, and demanding my best friend, distressing other patients, when I am usually very quiet. (In my mind, I thought I was calmly asking for my phone to text him and getting annoyed because no one gave me my phone.) After I fell asleep again and woke up again later, a bit more properly conscious, I got told of what I did and I was very apologetic but the nurses said it's not the worst they've had when someone has been sedated, so yeah. They've seen it all, they've seen people do complete 180s, they've even seen people have disconnects between their brain and IRL. The doctor probably is fine with it. (Also let's take a moment to appreciate good doctors and nurses, real life heroes.)
@sugarkane1571
9 ай бұрын
Reminds me of a post I saw where someone was put under and when they “woke up”, they suddenly sat straight up and started to try to eat their own fist. When the nurses and family finally got the fist out of OP’s mouth, OP just started bawling.
@StupidCatLady9 ай бұрын
There is no pity for cheaters.
@juanvilas8509
9 ай бұрын
Yeah, honestly how stupid and inmature you have to be to ruin your entire life for some random girl or guy. Cheaters are level 90000 aholes, no pity.
@alexvalentine5091
9 ай бұрын
Seriously, like what do they think is gonna happen?
@Sanodi21
9 ай бұрын
@@alexvalentine5091 What they think is going to happen is they don't get caught, that it was a one time thing.
@dinlupus3196
9 ай бұрын
if he really is sorry he should tell her to leave him , because she is never going to be happy with him again
@dracko158
9 ай бұрын
OP is lucky to have that woman as a wife, how very STUPID of him.
@HobieInTheBox9 ай бұрын
Story 3: All we can do is hope that OP wakes up and realises she's stuck in a nightmare. Victims sometimes don't want to admit they're a victim bc they feel ashamed, which is an after effect of the abuse. A lot of them will also use kids as an excuse, but at that point you're endangering the kids as well. By allowing them near an abuser and letting them see this abusive relationship play out, when kids don't know any better and will think that it's a normal relationship.
@AngryReptileKeeper
9 ай бұрын
I stayed in an abusive relationship for 13 years. Why? Because I thought he would get better with maturity, personal development and life experience- things we were both lacking when we got together at 19 and having never lived on our own before. He did not get better. I can relate to the shame. Looking back on the mountain of shit I tolerated and forgave over the years, I wonder what I was thinking. I ultimately feel like I did it all to myself by choosing to stick around as long as I did, and therefore have no right to complain. But then I remember that I did so in good faith and out of a genuine effort to make things work, and in my relatively young, naive mind, I believed that most relationship problems could be solved with love, compassion and patience, even if those things were one-sided. I actually had faith in him to improve- but he eventually whittled that faith down until it broke. After 6 much-needed years of being single and working on my own damn self, I got myself a much better man that my efforts aren't wasted on.
@willlevesconte38169 ай бұрын
As the old saying goes: if this cheater is looking for sympathy, that's in the dictionary between shit and syphilis.
@LeeLuvid
9 ай бұрын
What does that mean? (I'm.noy a native speaker so idk)
@DarkusZarvix
9 ай бұрын
Never heard that old saying yet it fits so perfectly!
@auronheimdall1072
9 ай бұрын
@@LeeLuvidIt's a pun between looking for sympathy, in the sense wanting emotional support and and looking for the meaning of a word like you would in a dictionary. When the cheater is looking for sympathy, point them to a dictionary because you won't give them the support they need, they don't deserve it. They mention shit and syphilis because the word sympathy can be found between these two in the dictionary, and because it insists on ,what the cheater has done.
@brendanboomhour7606
9 ай бұрын
@@LeeLuvidIt's literal, in a dictionary, sympathy is found on a page somewhere between shit and syphilis alphabetically
@threecards333
9 ай бұрын
@@LeeLuvid Sympathy is alphabetically between "shit" and "syphilis" in a dictionary, the point is that sympathy for a cheater is just as repulsive and worthless as shit and syphilis (syphilis being a sx transmitted disease).
@KageKobushi9 ай бұрын
Story 1: I feel sorry for the guys wife. Sorry 2: ouch. I feel sorry the guy feels like he's going crazy. Story 3: divorce him. He's a toxic ass.
@emmaanderson64519 ай бұрын
i am flabbergasted that the guy in the scam portion is actually falling for it. it wouldn’t be his fault anyway because she lied about her age, led him to believe she was 18, he did nothing with the photo and it seemed like he was 100% creeped out by it, and he SHOULD get the police involved. i know it’s most likely a fake story but i’m still heated about it
@mateomorales1653
9 ай бұрын
The cops will still hit you with possession of CP
@LaceBlood
9 ай бұрын
@@mateomorales1653chances are the girl is actually not 15 tho. And she told him she was 18, he had no reason to believe that she wasn’t, and he didn’t contact her again after being told she was underage. So chances are he’d be okay, but if y’all to a lawyer first regardless
@avesatanae
9 ай бұрын
he didn't fall for it. Its an obvious fake karma farm post. Nobody is that stupid but also able to write a reddit post.
@LilDevyl17
9 ай бұрын
Sometimes, those stories aren't fake but is not that hard to set up a scam like this. The family will do this and exploit it b/c "No one wants the Cops involved" Also they get "Free Money" by blackmailing. But the moment you say, "okay let's file the report," or "Okay, let me get my lawyer so we can talk" or "okay, I'll see you in court then." Suddenly they change their tune and you don't hear from them again.
@hyzmarca2737
9 ай бұрын
@@mateomorales1653 That's why you delete it with a shredder program that prevents any sort of recovery. Can't charge you with possession if you aren't in possession of it. But the picture is almost certainly a stock photo grabbed off the internet.
@d.phantomfan12169 ай бұрын
Story 4: OP She told you early in the relationship that she was pregnant, it's not like she didn't not know she was sleeping with other guys. I understand it not changing your son's relationship but this is something you need to discuss with her, because there is a chance she might be baby trapping you with someone else's kid.
@alexanderhenby1362
9 ай бұрын
This is a true off my chest post. Op wants to be this kids father, he is this kids father. He just did a test to see if he was biologically. He isn't. She told him early that she was pregnant and the two of them had been sexually active. False negatives happen on pregnancy tests. Testing too early can lack the hormone hCG to get a positive test, and 40 weeks isn't an exact science. 37 to 41 weeks is term. That is a whole month as a margine of error. This doesn't sound like baby trapping, this sounds like two sexually active adults who were sexually active before they got together and continued to be sexually active when they got together with, like I said, a decently large margin of error on the date of conception.
@hmmtea7438
9 ай бұрын
@@alexanderhenby1362still at least sounds like there's a cheater
@tmansmith21109 ай бұрын
Had something similar to story 7 happen, some guy claiming to be a cop called and give the same speech but said I could talk to the parents to avoid jail, which immediately made me suspicious, and the "dad" of the 15 year old sounded like her grandfather and I essentially told them to come arrest me since I knew I'd not broken any laws and they said they'd come me. Remember law enforcement never calls beforehand
@undrhil
9 ай бұрын
Yeah, I wonder if it was actually a CPS person
@theblacklotussociety7352
9 ай бұрын
Yeah I’ve also had it happen. They spoof the number of the cops then ask for money. I stopped responding and heard nothing back. It’s just a scary scam to get money over a fake person
@Wendy_O._Koopa
9 ай бұрын
@@undrhil You know it wasn't CPS because they were actually _doing_ something.
@LilDevyl17
9 ай бұрын
@@undrhil It wasn't! CPS would never say "Go talk to the victim's Dad to avoid jail" or something like that. Plus, it will never be over the phone it will always be in person.
@renaainnashinoa9 ай бұрын
On the "Not the Bio dad" thing, the mother could absolutely be completely unaware he's not the father. I know because that's what happened with my mom. She was sleeping with a few people openly at the time I was conceived, decided to keep me, did the math and determined it was one guy, told him she wouldn't chase him for money, just wanted him to know in case he wanted to be involved and then raised me as a single mother. Theres no father on my birth certificate. It was more just curiosity. Yeah, 30 years later I did a DNA test and matched with someone who was my biological aunt - my father was a complete different man and I was born 2 weeks LATE.
@idk-something-clever
9 ай бұрын
Paternity might not match for a LOT of reasons. Maybe OP's girlfriend was in a casual relationship(s) before OP and just did bad math. Maybe she was SAed by someone. Maybe the kid doesn't belong to EITHER of them because the hospital sent them home with the wrong newborn. Shit happens. It's not always "she cheated and is hiding it."
@Wendy_O._Koopa
9 ай бұрын
@@idk-something-clever Yes, Slashy normally simps for the wives in these stories, so it took me off guard this time. I'm not saying she's _definitely_ innocent, but she's not definitely _guilty_ either. He should probably do a maternity test, just in case it's the old "swapped at birth" gag; once thought of as a cheap soap opera plot, but apparently is a very _real_ problem that happens much more than anyone would like to admit.
@AngryReptileKeeper
9 ай бұрын
@@Wendy_O._Koopa There's also the fun possibility that mom gestated and birthed the kid, but it's still not a genetic match with her because of chimerism.
@Wendy_O._Koopa
9 ай бұрын
@@AngryReptileKeeper I mean, yes that is _technically_ within the realm of possibilities, but the chances are so slim, I wouldn't hold my breath. Also, it's already happened, so the odds of it happening again are _even_ worse. Um... probably? I'm not a statistician.
@Estarile
9 ай бұрын
@@idk-something-cleverHospitals fucking up like that to the point the wrong kid gets sent home (and not just handed to the wrong mom, and quickly found) is practically zero. But otherwise ya. She probably just did the math wrong.
@stevenandcarminabeedle90899 ай бұрын
For the dating app story: EXTORTION OP, trust but always verify. The calls from CPS, can you verify it was actually someone from CPS? Why would they suggest you contact her dad, when you probably shouldn’t be contacting anyone in that family in an actual scenario of this nature? I know it must be scary what they did, but think a moment and start asking yourself some questions. Also you should probably talk to your mom. You’ll need some support. I hope you can get your money back.
@silverflight019 ай бұрын
Withholding: Geez, I know that some people can be grumpy as peck, but man this guy would make Scrooge jealous with how nasty he is.
@JMemski9 ай бұрын
The only "cheaters" I feel sympathy for are the ones that are in actually abusive relationships and are just trying to escape. I've seen it before and it was a wake up call. I never understood why people cheat until I watched what was happening to her.
@tully6648
9 ай бұрын
This is the only cheating I excuse. If a person has been isolated or financially abused, sometimes the only way out is with someone who can/will help you get out. It's the worst option, but it fits the worst situations.
@akl2k7
9 ай бұрын
And even then, it can be bad idea since their potentially putting their AP in the crossfire of their abuser.
@JMemski
9 ай бұрын
@@akl2k7 yeah sometimes that is the case, more often than not the AP is more than aware and still makes that choice/is even put in a position where they are told they don't wanna be put in any danger but choose to try to help them come away from the abuse. What I witnessed was similar to this. My friend was in a very heavily abusive relationship and when she finally met someone she felt safe around he actually helped her get a place (not with him) that was safe and sat with her while she made police statements. He's an actual angel, at the time I was quite concerned that he would end up being abusive too, but 7 years later and they're still together and in an amazing place- thank god.
@GabrielleTollerson
9 ай бұрын
it's called LEAVING. There is NO excuse!!
@JMemski
9 ай бұрын
@@GabrielleTollerson I'm glad that you have the privilege of not knowing what it's like for it to be dangerous to leave. Or if you do, not fully comprehending that every abusive situation is different.
@AWholeBeew9 ай бұрын
I don't get how cheaters can do what they do. Even the thought of stealing the light in my wife's eyes by being that heartless and selfless guts me. I hope the wife in story 1 finds someone else who makes her happy and takes her wellbeing seriously.
@tiara4481
9 ай бұрын
They have the mentality of wanting their cake and eating it too. They want the stability of a relationship but the still want other people.
@Sage0130
9 ай бұрын
Agreed. I don't know why the wife just doesn't divorce the OP in the first story herself, but I genuinely feel for her, and I hope she gets the help she needs to heal. As for him... I hope he gets everything he deserves.
@GiordanDiodato
9 ай бұрын
I'm guessing the OP wrote it as a warning
@DarkHeartTheEmo
9 ай бұрын
The most stupid thing is, they say them love their partner more than anything if that was true he wouldn't cheat, this guys are trying to lie to us or themself? Because that is a lie and not even a good one.
@robertorojasbalarezo
9 ай бұрын
that is something that always confuses me, is it the thrill of cheating without being discovered or you like hurting your partner? but you can´t never cheat on a cheater bc you would always be the ahole in their eyes, cheaters are the worst but people who stay with a cheater knowingly get no sympathy from me
@davidharshman76459 ай бұрын
I do appreciate TrueOffMyChest stories. Those and BestOfRedditorUpdates are my favorite episodes by a large margin. Thanks, RSlash!
@Justice237
9 ай бұрын
Me too, I always find TrueOffMyChest, AITA, and BestfOf stories the absolute juciest
@nimboss
9 ай бұрын
Same here. I wish the channel was nothing but those. Less Malicious Compliance and Revenge stories videos would be nice, though. Those just feel fake.
@Justice237
9 ай бұрын
@@nimboss I’d probably click on more Revenge and Malicious Compliance stories if they weren’t ALL about screwing over bad bosses, they just get to be all the same after a while. Give me more getting bad teachers or bullies or cheaters fired
@SRosenberg203
9 ай бұрын
Same, but you also have to throw in TreeLaw. Those are the top 3 for sure.
@avesatanae
9 ай бұрын
I like the kevin stories way more.
@evavocative69759 ай бұрын
OP's wife needs therapy in order to leave. I hope she gets away from this man who hurt her so badly and finds someone she can truly trust and be happy with. That poor woman.
@FatedGamer9 ай бұрын
"I love her more than snything! Other than sleeping with other girls" is what OP should have said in the first story.
@d.phantomfan12169 ай бұрын
Story 5: If it wasn't so obvious I would almost give credit, you don't even have to be proven guilty the second someone claims you're a pedophile your life is over, taking advantage of that someone can milk a poor sucker for every penny they have.
@Mr_Timi1
9 ай бұрын
provided there actually was a girl and this wasn't a scam.
@RiveroftheWither
9 ай бұрын
The obvious thing is that this was a money scam.
@orchidoxs126
9 ай бұрын
@@Mr_Timi1 That doesn't mean that's not a scam. Children are often used in scams you know?
@Mr_Timi1
9 ай бұрын
@@orchidoxs126 I'm actually saying there was no girl and I believe this is a scam
@richardcrooks6713
4 ай бұрын
@@orchidoxs126 the person who contacted OP need not be a child. All a group of scammers need is a few photos of young looking women (not even necessarily children), and people who can make the phone calls being allegedly from CPS and the family. OP has never met the "girl" in question, he simply started talking to someone he thought was 18 before the scammers came to him alleging that the "person" he was speaking to was 15 when they had a way of contacting him off the app. I nearly got pulled into a Tinder scam where the person I was talking to wanted to meet to bang since they were in the city at the time, but wanted me to "verify" my identity by giving my credit card number to a random website... I didn't fall for it, and I very much doubt the pictures of them on their profile were real pictures of the person I was talking to.
@LoudAngryJerk9 ай бұрын
So, to the story about the boy who isn't OPs son: R/ did you miss the part where she mentioned that she was pregnant early on? Like, as in she was already pregnant when they got together. It is entirely possible that she doesn't know who the father is. That she very well thought that he was
@soulgazer119 ай бұрын
I choked on my water at the"Morpheus MD" being an anesthesiologist. Genius username 💯
@ajjamsen6949 ай бұрын
Ok, if someone goes on a dating site but lies about their age, they should have to face some kind of punishment. Why is it on the other person to background check or mind read every single person who swipes right on them? "Going against term of service" how about lying about your age?! Pretty sure thats against terms of services, as well. OP should have just gone to a lawyer the moment he found out her age.
@Wendy_O._Koopa
9 ай бұрын
In real life it _is_ the girl's fault for lying. Supposedly a lot of the guys on the show "To Catch A Predator" were let off later because of entrapment or something, all the info I can find contradicts all the other info. But I believe that if she put 18 on the site, and all the chat logs on the phone have her claiming to be 18, he _should_ be in the clear. And yes, OP 100% needs to get a lawyer.
@richardcrooks6713
4 ай бұрын
You're assuming there even is a 15 year old girl using the dating site. He's never met any of them, only spoken on the phone to "CPS" and "her dad". My roommate and I could set up a scam like that by ourselves by one of us acting as the dad and the other one acting as CPS and for the dating profile use a bunch of photos we found online.
@DragonEmperorMycen9 ай бұрын
Cheaters: *describe their partner in a very light of my life kind of way* Also cheaters: btw I cheated on my so
@robertk17019 ай бұрын
Story 2, I say just be like "I don't know if I actually did anything inappropriate, but I feel like I did so I'd like to apologize for anything inappropriate that I did while under."
@thetruth18169 ай бұрын
Story 1 :as Mr.krabs once said on SpongeBob " ohhh boooho here let me play a tune for you on the worlds smallest violin".. File for divorce to set her free so she can be free and happy.. Story 2 : ehhh bleep happens.. when i was going through whipple surgery before the surgery started i literally wanted my nose to be torn right off to be rid of the pain of the stuff they stuffed in it.. i tried to rip it off so badly my doctors had to sedate me with anesthesia.. Substory: kinda sounds like the movie awake which had terrance howard and Jessica alba in it .. Story 3 : The husband is sketchy AF..who flips out that badly knowing who their kid is ?? Edit : shes Gaslight to hell by her husband!! Story 4 : ghost this "relationship " op.. do not raise what's not yours op.. Story 5 : ohhh op you obviously thought with your second head and not your brain.. you got to be careful in this world dude...get a lawyer and stop talking to anyone CPS or the dad you big dummy... Story 6 : hes smashing lilly on the side op.. no one would hey can i take the deal you got for us and use it for me and my "friend" unless hes smashing her..
@ragdollfantasies9 ай бұрын
I had an ex that used that witholding affection crap with me. At the time I didn't realize how manipulative and abusive it was. I can remember the worst incident is when I went to get my hair cut and they were doing a special where haircuts would be free if you donated so much of your length. Being completely broke at the time. I figured I could save the money from my haircut to put in my gas tank so I went ahead and got my hair done shorter than I originally planned. It turned out fantastic and I was so happy. And then when I went home, I was berated for cutting my hair short without permission, for looking like a "f'ing *gay slur*", and I was no longer allowed to initiate any physical contact or conversation with my SO. That was many years and many toxic relationships ago, and I'm in therapy and have decided that relationships are just not for me anymore. And the real kicker is that SOB is married, likely to the person he was cheating on me with. She can have him. Trash belongs with trash, after all.
@samwilliams3120
9 ай бұрын
Man this just goes to shoe that when women say no to sex they see it as empowering but when men do it's abuse or evidence of an affiar.
@toffeejc9 ай бұрын
Story 1: OP’s wife deserves the world, I really hope she leaves OP and finds a man who won’t cheat on her.
@scxiao9 ай бұрын
@second to last story - Not much to say about this scam but thank you rSlash for bringing attention to it and help preventing this to happen to other people. You have a huge platform for good and helpful PSA's and regardless if it's a fake story or not, I'm glad you are using it for good
@KillerOstrich
9 ай бұрын
I doubt the story is fake. Sounds like a scam victim who doesnt know what to do
@scxiao
9 ай бұрын
@@KillerOstrich The story that OP got told was fake, the scam is very much real
@MsRose-ix3xq9 ай бұрын
In the 5 story im so concerned for op's kids and what she's teaching them by defending that dude and what he teaches his kids.
@lekiscool9 ай бұрын
I remember being under sedation as a child and I remember being trapped in a box without light. I woke up screaming that I wanted water like I had never had water in my entire life. While screaming I remember thinking “why is this happening why am I doing this, who is screaming?” I was pretty young.
@idk-something-clever9 ай бұрын
I think the rant about the paternity story was uncalled for. It IS entirely possible that OP's girlfriend is lying about cheating, knowing the true paternity of her child, or both. It IS possible. But it is ALSO possible that MAYBE she was in another relationship before this, didn't know she was pregnant from it, and genuinely believes the child is OP's. She may not know herself. It's ALSO possible that maybe she was SAed and traumatized and doesn't want to believe her pregnancy was a result of that. Maybe OP doesn't know about that. Maybe she was SAed and she herself doesn't remember. Who knows?? We certainly don't. MAYBE the baby belongs to NEITHER OF THEM. Hell, they might have been given the wrong baby to take home following the birth. It happens more often than you might think! There are plenty of reasons for paternity to not match what is believed to be true. It's NOT always "she cheated." OP should talk to his girlfriend about it so he can find out the full truth, and so she can know that he knows (and potentially learn the full truth herself). They need to be on the same page about how to move forward if they want to stay together and continue to co-parent. They need to have this conversation anyway, since OP may not be a good donor match for his child in emergency medical situations, like a bio father would be. Bad take, R/Slash.
@Girlwithafoxhat49 ай бұрын
Me and my sister both have been diagnosed ambien at one point. We both remember on it we felt like it was hilarious to lie. We were aware normally we wouldn’t lie but at the time nothing seemed like more fun than deceit. My sister tried to convince some guy in the hospital that she had 2 children. I tried to convince my family that I couldn’t walk up stairs and intentionally kept falling.
@AngryReptileKeeper
9 ай бұрын
I've taken Ambien before. That's stuff's some wild shit.
@MxBunny9079 ай бұрын
Can't believe you're almost at 2 mil now rslash, I've genuinely grown up listening to your videos
@greed94
9 ай бұрын
Wait, since when is he doing this?
@HobieInTheBox
9 ай бұрын
@@greed94it's been well over 5 years i think
@michaeljenkins178
9 ай бұрын
"Grown up"? Dudes been doing this for 4 years, max. You can sort his videos by oldest. First one was only 4 years ago
@HobieInTheBox
9 ай бұрын
@@michaeljenkins178maybe they're young?
@kentick3795
9 ай бұрын
@@michaeljenkins178well going from example 14 to 18 is a good amount of growing up to be fair
@silverflight019 ай бұрын
Ruined Reputation: I mean, Tyler did say that Lily was like family to him, so he should have seen this coming. Also, OP was the one who booked that room. When Tyler and OP broke up, Tyler can't have that room anymore because it's OP's booking, not his
@jenz45249 ай бұрын
Great, after hearing all of the patients on anesthesia stories, I have an endoscopy coming up and will be sedated. I always wake up and having my mom and the nurse laughing their asses off at me because apparently I love to chat about having a beer with aliens.
@nightrayneraven13239 ай бұрын
Last hits kinda hard for me because my ex boyfriend/daughter's father was way to close with his female friend/coworker (they dated) and I've told him that i was uncomfortable with the closeness of their relationship, he brushed me off. Then they started dating the day after me and him broke up (he denied it) then a week later they got married (i told him it was a bad idea and she was manipulating him, he didn't listen) then i went no contact with him and found out through a mutual friend that they are separated with a son (they had a daughter that's the same age as mine just a few months younger) i contacted him and said I told you so, he said yeas i should have listened to you. Still in contact with him mainly incase of medical information for my daughter
@DoctorOaks
9 ай бұрын
I was wondering if OP was just being jealous or not up until he showed up to claim her reservation at the resort. I've definitely seen some people be overly sensitive about their SO's friends, so it can be hard to tell immediately. For example with the Valentine's Day presents, some people just aren't good at giving presents. It could've been as simple as the friend actually asks for something specific instead of leaving it up to him. I'm glad OP got out of the relationship though. Good for them, and if the boyfriend WAS cheating on her then I hope he winds up old and alone.
@jrockz133t9 ай бұрын
That dating story scares me from dating apps. Its so easy to blackmail a desperate man in modern day
@KillerOstrich
9 ай бұрын
Nah op is just stupid. Always ask for age and proof when on any dating site that doesnt have the required age of use as 18. Even if age of use is 18 still cant be too sure. Chances are once you get the proof if the person was lying its dropped due to them saying they were of age but it greatly depends on the people handling the case or state laws.
@doomdrake123
9 ай бұрын
No it was the girl that broke the ToS. He was fine.
@scuba535
9 ай бұрын
@@doomdrake123i bet there is no girl. He got a call from someone claiming the were with a child protection agency. If all they’ve done is text then he doesn’t know if there’s actually a girl. You can find those nsfw pictures on the internet. But yes if there was actually a person they would be breaking the terms of service.
@stevenjackson_theblueeyegunguy9 ай бұрын
Bruh that's a scam! I almost fell for the same thing! They try to catch you and then demand money to keep from calling the cops. (no, I wasn't chatting with younger women. I matched with a girl on POF and we exchanged numbers then literally that same day I got a call from a random number saying that I was sending NSFW to a minor, I've never even taken a picture of my stuff, let alone sent it to anyone. Then they said that if I don't pay they'll get the police involved. But nothing ever happened)
@WiseWordsbyWiki9 ай бұрын
I will say on the "turns out it's not his son" story, there is a chance she might genuinely think he is the father. If she was given a rough timeline of when it was conceived she might have matched it up to her relationships and decided either because she was with him for most of it besides the first day of the estimate or she only went with the estimate. For example, if she was told the baby was conceived in the first two weeks of March roughly and her last time with someone else was March 1st. She might statistically think that it was likely OP. That's not how it works but some people think that is how it works. Or her last time with someone else was February 26th, which isn't in the estimate, so it can't be that person has to be op. Despite it being an estimate and not how that works. People can be very stupid.
@youarehere5949 ай бұрын
I feel sorry for the wife in story 1. He's right, she didn't deserve that.
@cunningman459 ай бұрын
Story 5: Seems like OP's husband is part of the 40% of cops who abuse their wives. Freaking sucks, man. She needs to divorce him ASAP
@Hybrid3019 ай бұрын
You know someone got absolutely destroyed in the comments when they delete their account.
@buddyburrows
9 ай бұрын
It's happened a ton here even lol
@SuperNintendoGameboy9 ай бұрын
OP from story 1: Boo hoo, I never should've cheated on my wife! Rslash: Oh no....anyway
@KEVIN.-.9 ай бұрын
rSlash there’s another option, it actually happened but you did it to someone else. And for the rest of college there was a random guy like “that’s that guy that grabbed my dingleberries and never said anything about it”
@ostlandr9 ай бұрын
I just can't understand the mindset of cheaters. I stood up in a church in front of witnesses and swore vows. Am I the only one who takes that seriously? Am I the last guy in the world with a conscience and a sense of honor?
@threecards333
9 ай бұрын
I know this feels trite, but I am always mystified by firstly how men can cheat both in that why sabotage their relationship and also how can men find so many women who are interested. I can't even find a romantic partner while other men can find multiple lovers. I just want someone to love me, and I would give her the world....
@ahstiasummers5583
9 ай бұрын
@@threecards333 Some people are just that good at being charming and manipulative simultaneously. I think another part of this are those false romcom tropes of "good guy/girl falls in love with the crazy girl/bad boy and changes them into a good person" and "good people are vanilla, what you want is this crazy person who ignores your boundaries". Sure it's exhilarating for a few weeks or months at most, but what happens after that initial sugar high is the relationship sours very quickly
@LilDevyl17
9 ай бұрын
@@threecards333 Lots of times it's never about being the "Romantic" Partner but some women just love to be the "Other Woman" b/c of the danger of getting caught. And some Women have the mindset of "Well if I'm able to steal you man then you weren't Woman enough for him" and then have the *Shocked Pikichu Face* when the guy cheats on them.
@Tustin2121
9 ай бұрын
I get the sentiment but the wording is iffy. You’re not the only person in the world who doesn’t cheat. There are lots of good people out there, it’s just that we hear about the bad ones more, because they’re out of the norm (and rage-bait generates clicks). If you’re going through something, understand that you are not alone and that there are people out there who will respect you. Unfortunately, they can be hard to find… I’m still looking myself…
@banj_yoyt9 ай бұрын
Story 1: *_WHAT. HAVE. YOU. DONE._* 🤦🏿♀️ Story 2: The commenter's name (AvatarDang), I TOTALLY agree with! *DANG!!!* 😳🤦🏿♀️ and now I _actually_ listened to AvatarDang's story, so *_DANGGGGGG!!!_* 😫 Okay, this ENTIRE 2ND SECTION is *_DAAAAAAAAAANNNNNNGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!_* 🙄 _Mah brain broken..._ Story 3: Divorce him. He *_CLEARLY_* doesn't love you or your kids😡 Story 4: I have no words...😑 Story 5: Bruh, does that girl realize that she could literally ruin his life by lying about her age?! Smh😮💨 Story 6: Again, no words🤦🏿♀️ Nvm, the end results was hilarious and well-deserved😆
@juanhaines72959 ай бұрын
Story 1 if he really loved her then he wouldn't have cheated. Sense she doesn't want to divorce the best you can do for her is do what she asks.
@user-hk2fc4jv2g
9 ай бұрын
I hope she does divorce him. She deserves a real man, not a cheater. He wallowed in self-pity, and did nothing to make amends. There were no apologies, no effort on his part to change. He is complete lowlife.
@vhaelen326
9 ай бұрын
@@user-hk2fc4jv2g firstly, no he doesnt, he isnt sad about him ruining his own life or sad about the fact that his wife doesnt sleep with him anymore or that he got caught he is upset about what he did to his wife, while it doesnt change the fact that he cheated it means he is atleast capable of true remorse for his actions secondly how thefuck do you know there were no apologies or no effort on his part to change? the post is super short and doesnt go into detail about anything, not about himself, the person he cheated with, the reason why he cheated etc, the only detail he gives is essentially of the trauma his wife suffered because of his actions by stating how she behaved before and after, hate him for being a cheater all you want but dont just add details of your own imagination to justify your hate, that is unfair towards op's wife
@fdm2155
9 ай бұрын
Seems strange that they haven't tried going to a therapist to see if they can repair their relationship. I'd say either work on making change OR just separate. Why stay together and you're both miserable?
@user-hk2fc4jv2g
9 ай бұрын
@@vhaelen326 Be less patronising, stop assuming that I am an idiot, and you MIGHT be worth speaking to again.
@vhaelen326
9 ай бұрын
@@user-hk2fc4jv2g ah, my fault, you were acting and talking like an idiot so i thought you might be one, im sure you can see where the confusion came from
@someonebored01009 ай бұрын
Why is it when an underage girl DELIBERATELY LIES ABOUT HER AGE she faces no consequences and it’s the adult she’s manipulated that faces them?
@spikertaker9 ай бұрын
3rd made me a little mad at how OP can't see how she's being abused, she needs some pretty heavy intervention I think.
@badkitty49229 ай бұрын
As for story 2, I can't be fully sedated. So, like OP I've got to be high af and semi-conscious. I had to have an important surgery and I was convinced, CONVINCED that I told the whole OR about a very traumatic incident where I was forced to un-alive my abusive ex out of self defense. I also was convinced that I was laughing like the Joker about saying that I'd gladly do it again and other terrible things. Omg, when I say that I was curled up in a ball bawling my eyes out in the recovery room, I'm not kidding. When my surgeon came to check on me thinking it was severe post -op pain (yeah that area hurt but, that's not why I was crying). I was extremely traumatized thinking I told everyone what happened and etc. Not all post anesthesia stories are funny 😢😢 I always get the fcked up experience.
@scxxt3r_9 ай бұрын
Ugh random thought, I love how petty and sassy Rslash is. It makes me giggle when he should his own personality into the Reddit stores.
@garryandjanepannell85949 ай бұрын
The one about the distant husband is like my cop ex who was cheating on me with the dispatcher. He wanted hardly anything to do with our three kids until his THIRD wife didn't think he should pay child support- the corrupt local courts gave HIM custody! I warn the OP and others like her to be careful! The emotional damage that was dealt to my kids has given them lasting mental problems as adults.
@michelleignatowski83939 ай бұрын
The ending to the last story got me 😂 "isn't that your sister?" "Sweet home, Alabama"
@unknown200059 ай бұрын
the first story i am not surprised op deleted their reddit account cause people were probably trying to track him down to kick his a**
@dachless9 ай бұрын
first story. YOU DONT LOVE HER! Youre feeling guilt. You never loved her in the first place, if you did. YOU WOULDNT HAVE CHEATED!!! I seriously dont understand, and will never understand, how cheaters can say "I love you" and say it with full confidence, as if they arent just lying to themselves, and the world
@insu_na
9 ай бұрын
You can love multiple people at once, but you mustn't break their trust. If you enter a relationship where the expectation is monogamy, you better f-ing stay monogamous.
@RiverRina
9 ай бұрын
@@insu_na This. You're so right about this. It's important to respect boundaries. And if you're in a relationship that's monogamous, you're the worst scum if you still cheat
@dachless
9 ай бұрын
@@insu_na I agree with you in 99% of cases, but in the case of cheating, if you truly love somebody, you wouldn't dare think to hurt them in such an extreme way.
@ameliablackpants75439 ай бұрын
4:00 similar thing happened to me. I got blackout drunk at a friends house, and was 1000% CERTAIN I had vomited all over her couch. When I woke up the next morning i inspected the area and asked if i had puked on her couch. I didnt. I threw up in a bowl and in the toilet, but not on her couch
@AWholeBeew9 ай бұрын
Foster mom here. Dude, no child protective agency would put an alleged perp in direct contact with anyone related to an alleged child victim. Stay off the internet until you have the good sense to not get scammed.
@LowBrosTV9 ай бұрын
Every morning I get up, every morning I wait for new slash video to appear. Thanks for the awesome content it’s a great way to start the day!
@wynngordon42979 ай бұрын
Ooh boy r/TrueOffMyChest is one of my fav subreddits! I'm glad this is posted on my birthday so thanks RSlash!!
@DrgnLdyLizzie2001
9 ай бұрын
Happy birthday!🎉
@Ayimii9 ай бұрын
r/Slash, I have been listening to your videos for several years, and I would like to thank you for including the "It's a scam" story. I was listening until the end thinking about how similar this was to what my friend is currently experiencing. I did not even consider this being a scam until you said it was. I just called my friend who is at work and laid it all out, as well as send the link to your video. Because of this video, my friend finally got the courage to tell someone in his family. I have no idea how it's going right now, but I know that he has more hope in the hour than he has in months.
@remedy8369 ай бұрын
As the child of a cop, I saw my mom and dad in a similar situation to that story. I’m 25 now, and she’s stayed with him and defended him to this day. It’s fucked up to watch, and it fucked me and my sibling up living with a volatile jackass of a father.
@subliminal-damage9 ай бұрын
Story 3: holy frick, this wife needs to leave him. He acts like he's the only one overwhelmed by the kids. She's better off alone and not being abused by him too.
@samwilliams3120
9 ай бұрын
If you think "withholding sex" is abuse. Then you're a "fricking" idiot.
@zacharysieg23059 ай бұрын
Every other sentence in that first story, I had to pause and ask aloud, “Then why did you do it?” LO AND BEHOLD, that’s the question OP did not attempt to answer. To hell with cheaters.
@MarkLLawrence9 ай бұрын
I have no pity for cheaters and drunk drivers.
@shaereub44509 ай бұрын
They made me Ketamine while i had fluid taken out of my lungs. I drifted in and out of consciousness. I was aware of what i said to who. Yes i was aware, i could speak and couldn't move. I remember i occasionally asked my mom how she was doing/feeling as well as doctors. Second story: the boundary, and denial of physical affection, physical touch, THIS is one of many things that gets spouces to cheat in the first place.
@GlitchyOnAChair9 ай бұрын
Cheaters don't deserve a 2nd chance at all Like you did it you consciously made that action and there's no turning back as guilt and regret weighs heavy on your back for life
@hectormarquez2402
9 ай бұрын
Why not everyone deserves a 2nd chance
@ahstiasummers5583
9 ай бұрын
@@hectormarquez2402 Giving them a 2nd chance depends on what they did. They forgot you two were hanging out today? Makes sense to give them a second chance. They cheated on you? That's a worse offense than forgetting you were hanging out today. You ever heard "if they will cheat with you, they will cheat on you"? Many people who cheat don't ever stop. Sure some do, but they're such a small minority that most don't think it's worth taking that chance
@GlitchyOnAChair
9 ай бұрын
@@hectormarquez2402 I do beleive in 2nd chances but cheaters don't deserve any kind of forgiveness nor mercy
@dracko1589 ай бұрын
Story 1: OP having this woman as a wife is honestly very lucky of him. She kisses him every morning saying I love you, being happy and bubbly, and smiling a lot. But why does OP have to ruin that relationship by cheating? Honestly OP, you brought this on yourself, if you hadn't cheated, none of this would've happened.
@senrioflove9 ай бұрын
Oh boy, so I don't know what I was on when i had my appendix removed, but my whole body was burning hot, like, put y hand on the stove hot and I otherwise felt calm, but the staff kept telling me I was just having a panic attack (I've had panic attacks, tis was different). I INSISTED to wash my hands, and eventually they let me because i was talking so much and repeatedly. I woke up mid surgery and 'booped' my 'second bellybutton' and got myself strapped to the bed as a result, got knocked out again. Then I woke up really high and told a nurse I loved her, I wanted to get married and that the 'kink' was cute (Because I was strapped to the bed). She laughed and declined my proposal, I cried. the nurses asked if I used drugs before because the oramorph painkiller didn't work and I seemed to resilient to the anaesthetic, but I hadnt. I explained that my parents used while pregnant and I didnt know if it'd have an effect, but I just got a 'hm' and was moved onto paracetamol I really hoped it was a hallucination, but a couple of amused and bemused surgeons had confirmed that no, I'd just been a nuisance lol (also my appendictomy scar has a stretched bit where i shoved my hand and I had to be on IV antibiotics for an additional week) thank goodness I washed my hands
@facepalmsmom55129 ай бұрын
When I was under conscious sedation and was recovering I told my husband I grew a 3rd arm (my IV). When the nurse came to take my iv out, I told her "that's my arm lady, where are you going with it!?". She laughed and walked out with it. I started to cry and I looked at my husband and I said "she stole my arm!! She's so rude"! I said other weird stuff too but this was his favourite lol.
@Npyne9 ай бұрын
Story 1: I feel sorry for the wife but I don't understand why she wants to stay when she's clearly miserable. If she does _actually_ want to stay with him, then I hope she is able to find a positive path forward with that. Honestly, I hope she finds the self worth/esteem to realise she deserves better. Edit: The title is "After my wife kisses me goodbye every morning, I break down crying until I have to work." if you want to read the comments. Also it just occured to me that he mentioned his wife giving him permission to keep sleeping with the AP, but doesn't say he rejected the deal. He's probably still sleeping with her which just adds to the scuminess
@k3upikachu
9 ай бұрын
She's def still there because of the kids. I wish people realized it's healthier for the kids to have divorced parents than to watch their married parents resent each other
@RainbowdashLT9 ай бұрын
3rd story: Being with the same job as the husband, his situation is so familiar, irritated and low on any patiance, tired and just done with anything, just wanting to do something mindless such as scrolling tik tok. Such behaviour is not justified nor should be defended, instead should be faced and dealt with before it gets worse. In this situation it is either leave the SO or help them, that depends on the person, I chose to deal with the issue, but someone might choose to be even more agressive. Hope OP can see trough it and actually do something, before it gets worse, because it likely will
@cmcrisp429 ай бұрын
In the "It's a Scam" story, it's absolutely a scam. All OP had to do was talk to a lawyer in the beginning to clear up any misunderstanding and boom you aren't in any danger. If you ever suspect you committed a crime by incompetence or neglect you can always talk to a lawyer and see what your options. Lawyers can not help you keep committing crimes but they are to represent and keep confidence with you whatever you tell them.
@Ra88ful9 ай бұрын
To throw my 2 cents to the #2 story a friend of mine no joke said he got so high he say his other friend telport from one end of the room to the other when there hotbox. It scared him half to death
@1985toyotacamry9 ай бұрын
First story: I don't pity cheaters and OP basically emotionally broke his wife after your cheating with another person.
@RainAngel1119 ай бұрын
That first story is such a gut punch. Because, that guy is STILL running away from his marriage. He says he wants to set her free, like he's doing it out concern for her, but honestly it just sounds like he doesn't want to take responsibility for making her happy. He should be worshipping her
@featherflight84469 ай бұрын
Story 1: No sympathy for cheaters! OP deserves to feel bad over what he did to his wife and his wife deserves better!
@kelleyk289 ай бұрын
Part of that last story reminds me of something that happened to me years ago. My brother and I shopped at the same GameStop, but not always together. Sometimes, he'd go with his wife. Once, we were together, and I introduced him to the manager as my brother. She goes, "oh thank God! I wasn't sure how I was going to tell you he was cheating on you. He's come in with another woman". I told her that was his wife. She was really relieved.
@morgandouglas60149 ай бұрын
OP might as well just ask his wife for a divorce and be done with it. It’s clear by the story that he has nuked his marriage and his wife’s trust in him forever.
@CinderXiaoLong
9 ай бұрын
The first one? He did. She cried and asked him if he didn't love her anymore. So, no divorce until she asks for it
@RandomTrinidadian9 ай бұрын
I always find it funny that the cheater always claim that they love the SO, but not enough to stay loyal and only feels "remorse" when they get caught. I really hope the future ex gets the help/support that she needs, si that she can leave OP. And clean him out in the divorce.
@fennec135 ай бұрын
that "CPS" story is a total scam. They are extorting money from that guy, and he didn't even DO ANYTHING !! sheesh !
@ducttaperosey22468 ай бұрын
The withholding story, that's just cold torture. My love language is also touch, I couldn't stay in that relationship. Not just for the s3x, but the general lack of affection.
@danajohnson62739 ай бұрын
I LOVE when rslash tells us a story about himself as relates to the story. Like, grabbing a dudes bits and bobs?! Ha!
@viagraREAL9 ай бұрын
The 25 y/o is still weird trying to date what he thought was an 18 y/o lmao
@neebnabs
9 ай бұрын
Yeah, he should be going for someone like, 22 at the youngest... he was 18 when she was 11.......
@k3upikachu
9 ай бұрын
@@neebnabslol you mean at the youngest 😂
@neebnabs
9 ай бұрын
@@k3upikachu shit you're right
@rosebrown63819 ай бұрын
That last OP needs to send all the ex bf's 'friends' a copy of the reciept for the vacation SHE booked for them and say he tried to steal it with his new side piece. Let the truth me known.
@michamocha9 ай бұрын
Op staying after the coworker confronted her about flirting with a taken man, her boyfriend, is insane. That alone would've made me end things 😭.
@LolBoontai9 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting right at 6, it let's me get my daily dose of rslash on my drive to work
@iamnotme23359 ай бұрын
1:46 lemme get this straight. He cheated, then he wants divorce. His wife just cries and denies him divorce? I don’t get it. Yeah he’s a buttface for cheating in the first place. But why won’t the wife consider the thought of divorce and give herself room to breath from the trash?
@user-hk2fc4jv2g
9 ай бұрын
As usual, you blame women for everything, and never expect MEN to take any responsibility. This is American. In American thinking, the courts will grant a divorce to a MAN on any whim, whilst denying WOMEN a divorce if the man refuses to sign the papers. He chooses to torture his wife, by refusing to proceed with a divorce.
@HackiePuffs
9 ай бұрын
I can definitely understand if she doesn’t wanna let go it’s hard but maybe with time she’ll be more open to the idea.
@DarkHeartTheEmo
9 ай бұрын
Because even after all this, she still love him, we can't say why but she still does also she doesn't want to be Alone she 41 and before of what her husband did anyone would love to be around her by the way she was, but that is now gone, I think she thinks that she can't find anyone for her because of her age.
@Enki10139 ай бұрын
Story 2: My husband started shouting at his anesthesiologist when he had a surgery years ago, telling him, "Who the (f) are you! Get the (f) out of my living room, now!"
@lysandrarenshaw35849 ай бұрын
The withholding story, I think it's ok to put your child on one of those leashes or even have a tracker on the kid because it's probably necessary. However, OP needs help for real like therapy, marriage counselling, a carer for your child because I get they're hard work and may need the extra attention (which your husband isn't giving).
@d.phantomfan12169 ай бұрын
Story 1: you should hate yourself, you cheated on that woman because you wanted to get your rocks off, now here you are whining about how things aren't the same they weren't going to be the same. Aside from offering divorce what if you actually done to show her that you're truly sorry for what you did? Stop crying and go to marriage counseling if you want to truly fix this.
@user-hk2fc4jv2g
9 ай бұрын
He is not at all sorry, and feels no guilt, or remorse. He enjoys torturing his wife by refusing to file for divorce. This is American, so he knows that the courts would not grant a WOMAN a divorce if the man refuses to sign the papers. He is a complete lowlife, and does not deserve a partner.
@KadeStringer2.0
9 ай бұрын
@@user-hk2fc4jv2gyou don’t know how court system works . I mean he does feel some remorse but I don’t think he enjoys torturing his wife. We are giving him too much credit.
@SonLuffa
9 ай бұрын
@user-hk2fc4jv2g he asked her for a divorce she said no
@user-hk2fc4jv2g
9 ай бұрын
@@KadeStringer2.0 This is American. The courts favour men in all things. MALE lawmakers removed womens' right to an abortion, even when the woman has been raped, suffered incest, or the MAN who made her pregnant has scarpered, or is abusive, or her life is in danger. Do not claim that the courts favour women.
@vic69079 ай бұрын
pls do more funny subreddits again!! like storiesaboutkevin
@ItsYaBoiV9 ай бұрын
I have high tolerance to anesthesia and often wake up during surgery, and I don't get to have any of the fun goofy reactions. I'm lucid the entire time. My mom seems lucid and can have a totally normal conversation with you, but she won't remember any of it.
@YoSoyLaPared079 ай бұрын
I was coming out of anesthesia and I was like waking up and nodding back off. There was a nurse sitting with me while I woke up and while I don’t remember what all I said, I did remember saying “oh my gosh! You’re so pretty. You’re so beautiful!!” Not embarrassing but still funny. She was laughing
Пікірлер: 1 000
there is no way CPS would call someone, and say ''maybe you should contact the victim's family''.
@LaceBlood
9 ай бұрын
CPS also would HAVE to report it to the cops. I feel bad for the dude
@SRosenberg203
9 ай бұрын
@@LaceBlood I feel bad for him that he's so dumb.
@amandasunshine2
9 ай бұрын
Yeah I wonder how much he's given them so far 😞
@abiean222
9 ай бұрын
like seriously, red flag #1. red flag #2 was the dad going "i don't want to go to the police, so why don't you pay me so i won't"
@ScooterBond1970
9 ай бұрын
When I heard that I was like, dude pretty much up and said "Hey imma blackmail you now."
I'm so sad for the first OP's wife, not him. I'm glad he has to face the devastation he caused but OP's wife, she didn't deserve that devastation.
@SailorMya
9 ай бұрын
I feel the same. He wanted sympathy but all the sympathy I have goes to the wife who had to go through that betrayal. If the wife really doesn't want a divorce then they really should seek couples counseling, not for him, but for her mental health. She is probably just as upset as OP every time she sees him and she shouldn't have to feel like that every day, he does, but she doesn't.
@liuqmno3421
9 ай бұрын
@@SailorMya I kinda feel the same, but I don't think he wanted sympathy. He even suggested divorce for her that she can heal and feel happy again. I do feel bad for him because he probably gets a way worse punishment than deserved, even for a cheater, having to watch her suffer too every day
@Monasaurus_Rex
9 ай бұрын
The only thing I do feel for him is the struggle of wanting to set her free but not wanting to hurt her any further. Like he wants her to move on and find a better partner but she clearly still loves him and doesn’t want to let go. If I were him I’d push her to try therapy, to help her realize that it wasn’t her fault, and she doesn’t need his love, so she can live her life
@tehking111
9 ай бұрын
Can we all just calm down a little? He cheated. It's bad. It's not like he can't regret his decision and feel shit. He's still a human and its okay to sympathise with the both of them.
@InvasionAnimation
9 ай бұрын
@@liuqmno3421 He only want that to get with the AP.
Middle story about dude withholding intimacy from his wife had me literally SCRREEAAMMIINNGG in my car on the way to work, “Why are you married to this dude???” it’s so obvious he’s cheating on her and she’s completely blind to it.
@amirue2602
9 ай бұрын
FR it's so painfully obvious that he doesn't even like her i feel so bad for her
@fdm2155
9 ай бұрын
Yeah, she's already a single parent. She might as well cut the cord and end the abuse. It's so sad that she doesn't think he's abusive when he clearly is. It's reasonable to need some time to decompress after work. BUT refusing to interact with your family OR help at home full stop? Nah.
@megnotmegan1966
9 ай бұрын
When she asked how she could earn it back, SMH, she’ll never get it.
@Tortilla.Reform
9 ай бұрын
Yea, considering the fact that Police families have the highest rate of domestic violence and abuse *among any other profession* OP’s police officer husband and how he treats them isn’t at all surprising. He seems like a Christopher Pullease type
@invaderdidi367
9 ай бұрын
That's the first thing I thought of as well!!! He's probably already cheating on her, and the kid "incident" just gave him an excuse to stop doing it with his wife which he already hates. I watched it with my bf and he confirmed that the dude 100% hates his wife and kids, but doesn't want to get a divorce in order to keep the house, have a personal free maid (who's also super easy to manipulate) and not pay child support. I REALLY hope OP wakes up, she in an abusive exploitative relationship! :(
Tinder Scam OP NEEDS to get the police involved, because even if parts of her story are true (which is VERY unlikely, unless OP is leaving some major things out), her family is clearly extorting him and it will never end if he doesn't put an end to it.
@Mr_Timi1
9 ай бұрын
There is no girl, the child protective services are mandatory reporters they would not have contacted him the cops would have.
@odhaviingdovah3344
9 ай бұрын
I was the victim of the same thing and the police never could do anything about it I lost 4,000
@basvs3906
9 ай бұрын
@@odhaviingdovah3344 thats wh you should do it before you pay. And ofcourse ask CPS for a case number and call their official line to get some validatiion. Or if your in the Muricas: Forward them to your lawyer
@madisonoliver9521
9 ай бұрын
Right? Like if for no other reason than to protect his own ass if there is a real kid.
@pretzelicious4200
9 ай бұрын
Yeah.. I know going to the police cause you flirted with a minor is fucking scary but he has the proof she lied. Probably lawyer up too before going. I didnt think about it until Rslash said it but why would a father NOT want the police involved? That's just so weird. Scam for sure.
There is something called mandatory reporting when you work with kids. So you wouldn't get a call from a "child protective agency" they would have called the cops and wouldn't bother contacting you at all.... That was red flag number one, they don't make deals with child predators and wouldn't care that you didn't know. Honestly, it didn't sound like he did much anyway talked to the girl on the phone or more likely texted. When they made a deal and asked for money, he should have been calling the cops.
@DoctorOaks
9 ай бұрын
I remember the first time I had someone try to do this, I told them to never send me any NSFW pictures. Also that I immediately deleted every picture she did send me like that. Then I got a call from someone claiming to be her dad, saying he wouldn't report me to the FBI for what I was doing with his daughter. I told him that he was an awful fucking father if his first instinct was to profit off his underage daughter's nudes, and that I'd love to talk to the FBI about it. Obviously I never heard about it again.
@SRosenberg203
9 ай бұрын
Yeah it's honestly insane to me that anyone is dumb enough to fall for something so fucking stupid. There probably never was any girl, this was always just a bunch of dudes scamming that OP and the OP going along with it because he's a moron.
The abusive partner withholding intimacy, love, any form of kindness, seems like standard domestic violence, this is backed up by her denial and defensiveness. It's hard for DV survivors to leave, it appears OP is struggling with guilt and shame. It's so upsetting, I hope one day she chooses to leave.
@LilDevyl17
9 ай бұрын
The problem is they don't see the red flags or see this as abuse b/c in many cases Domestic Abuse in their eyes is only Physical Abuse. What he's doing is both Emotional Abuse and Mental Abuse. Unfortunately, b/c of the Media and OP's husband's career, they're all conditioned to believe that the only Abuse is Physical Abuse and nothing else. So, of course, OP will be defending her husband b/c of all the Gaslighting he's been doing to her. She won't see it as abuse b/c in her eyes only Physical Abuse is abuse and not Emotional/Mental and what it seems to be going on is Verbal as well.
@avesatanae
9 ай бұрын
As someone who has experienced domestic violence, no. Violence is... well... violence. Beating, kicking, biting, slapping, throwing boiling oil on them (still got the scars.) While emotional abuse is obviously bad, don't compare it to domestic violence. Its like comparing the fire on the top of a match to a raging forest fire.
@BelBelle468
9 ай бұрын
@@avesatanae lmao. Don’t use your own experiences to undermine the experiences of others. Victimizing yourself like that isn’t cool. Emotional and mental abuse is just another form of abuse. It’s even longer lasting than physical violence. Physical violence literally can cause further emotional and mental scars, so to say one is lesser than the other is to also undermine the effects of physical violence that you’re claiming to have dealt with. You’re literally undermining your own experience too and are limiting the validity of scars to what only others can see and not your own feelings. The pain of physical violence is temporary and the emotional scars last far longer since they exist on the psyche. That sort of mentality is what allows abuse to continue, invaliding victims and reducing their support, which only benefits abusers.
@erauprcwa
9 ай бұрын
@@avesatanae Please stop! Your anecdotal statement does a disservice to domestic violence victims. Violence includes emotional abuse, which sometimes can be worse than physical. Physical abuse is obvious, emotional destroys a person with who they are and can have long term affects that go beyond physical. Remember, many forest fires start because of that match...
@wmdkitty
9 ай бұрын
Saying "no" to sex isn't abuse, WTF?
Story 3: OP stop making excuses for your abusive husband and go, there are much better men out there that won't use sex as a weapon and disrespect you every damn time he sees you. You don't want to be a victim fine get out of the relationship or at least stop letting him treat you like trash.
@DoubtingThomasina
9 ай бұрын
Why I would never date a cop. Half of them are abusive. I hope she wakes up from the denial stage soon, her posting in the first place is a possible sign that she will wake up soon
@Monasaurus_Rex
9 ай бұрын
@@DoubtingThomasina she’ll definitely feel naïve and stupid a couple months down the line when she rereads her post again
@nightrain4749
9 ай бұрын
The second i heard "my husbands a cop" i knew her husband was on some power trip
@juliaboskamp9666
9 ай бұрын
It's easier said than done the victim first need to realized that there are being abused and if they want to leave you have to be careful what type of abuser your abuser is because some abusers will take revenge for leaving them
@KadeStringer2.0
9 ай бұрын
@@DoubtingThomasinanot completely true but very few are
In the story with the checked-out husband: the worst thing that stuck out to me was "You need to watch YOUR kids." I'm sorry what? They're your kids too buddy!
@samwilliams3120
9 ай бұрын
Are they? That made me think they were step kids over something.
@rubystone9074
9 ай бұрын
Sounds like the husband may have started taking dating advice from a certain youtube red-pill podcast, lol
@samwilliams3120
9 ай бұрын
@@rubystone9074 Tink about dis, there's a way you can get your wife to listen to you. Look at dees way, there's a possibility that she might listen what's you take something away, but that being said. Yeah probably from podcast that says those phrases a bunch.
@GabrielleTollerson
9 ай бұрын
@@rubystone9074yep!! A certain podcast that Starts with a W I'm sure!
For the scam story this actually happened to me. I was talking with someone who said they were 21 which was around my age, only to find out it was a lie after some dude called saying he was an officer and the girl was actually 15. The bad news is they got nearly 5k from me mainly because I was not in the right mental state due to my mom recently passing. Still it angers me thinking that there are people out there who do this.
@threecards333
9 ай бұрын
There are a lot of honeytrap scams. I have partially fallen for a couple over the years. One was a Pakistani woman who i talked to daily and she kept having medical and food issues, which i helped at first but after a while I stopped which point she calls me to blame me for the death of her mother as I did not help her pay for the medical treatment. I also get a number of American honeytraps where they eventually have some sudden bill they need paid. I even got a crytoscammer from a paid dating site. There is a lot. Thankfully none have used underage blackmail or anything beyond just guilt tripping.
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089
9 ай бұрын
I am so very sorry 😟
@fdm2155
9 ай бұрын
It struck me as odd that a 25 year old would be interested in dating an 18 year old not to mention taking the chance that the person was really an adult... One of my brothers used to stay home during the week when college groups came to our city. He said, no way am I trying to get caught by some girl in a bar with a fake license. Apparently a lot of high school kids would go to bars/clubs to hang out with the college kids! 🤣🤣
@crotchwolf1929
9 ай бұрын
I think the same thing may have happened to me too except it was on a gay dating app and I ended the conversation before it really went anywhere. When I tried online dating, my first encounter was with a strange user claiming to be 19 (I was 22.) At first we just started chatting about normal things but then things quickly started turning sexual. He wanted me to send him my number so he could send me dirty pics but his pushy, aggressive tone put me off so I kept refusing. Eventually I got sick off the guy and blocked him. This interaction actually prompted me to make a rule not to hand out my contact info until after I met the guy in person. Later I went to look up his profile again and found out he deleted it. I met my now husband through a different online app so I know these can potentially work but take steps to protect yourself online dudes.
@JohnWilliams-cr2sz
9 ай бұрын
Similar thing happened to me once, luckily I was only out a couple hundred, but it still fucks with your head. Sending ya internet hugs.
Story 2: hey you're not in control when you're in a situation like that, and the doctor didn't report you that's probably a sign that she's not holding it against you.
@lilydr9364
9 ай бұрын
When I had to go through my hysterectomy before they gave me a spinal block and they gave me something called a liquid cocktail and apparently I asked my doctor for pictures of the surgery I would normally not ever ask for graphic pictures
@darthaino
9 ай бұрын
I talked about MASH while they were delivering my son via C-section. I made everyone laugh, and the birth went well. I have a healthy eight month old .When I had my daughter I punched the nurse in the arm.
@billieking2257
9 ай бұрын
I don’t remember much when I was put under for my gallbladder removal. What I do remember is asking for more of the medicine because I wanted to go back to sleep 😂
@SakuraKotoni
9 ай бұрын
When I was having a tooth removed, I needed to be fully sedated (conscious sedation always resulted in me immediately throwing up) so once I woke up I was very out of it. Apparently IRL I was shouting, practically screaming, and demanding my best friend, distressing other patients, when I am usually very quiet. (In my mind, I thought I was calmly asking for my phone to text him and getting annoyed because no one gave me my phone.) After I fell asleep again and woke up again later, a bit more properly conscious, I got told of what I did and I was very apologetic but the nurses said it's not the worst they've had when someone has been sedated, so yeah. They've seen it all, they've seen people do complete 180s, they've even seen people have disconnects between their brain and IRL. The doctor probably is fine with it. (Also let's take a moment to appreciate good doctors and nurses, real life heroes.)
@sugarkane1571
9 ай бұрын
Reminds me of a post I saw where someone was put under and when they “woke up”, they suddenly sat straight up and started to try to eat their own fist. When the nurses and family finally got the fist out of OP’s mouth, OP just started bawling.
There is no pity for cheaters.
@juanvilas8509
9 ай бұрын
Yeah, honestly how stupid and inmature you have to be to ruin your entire life for some random girl or guy. Cheaters are level 90000 aholes, no pity.
@alexvalentine5091
9 ай бұрын
Seriously, like what do they think is gonna happen?
@Sanodi21
9 ай бұрын
@@alexvalentine5091 What they think is going to happen is they don't get caught, that it was a one time thing.
@dinlupus3196
9 ай бұрын
if he really is sorry he should tell her to leave him , because she is never going to be happy with him again
@dracko158
9 ай бұрын
OP is lucky to have that woman as a wife, how very STUPID of him.
Story 3: All we can do is hope that OP wakes up and realises she's stuck in a nightmare. Victims sometimes don't want to admit they're a victim bc they feel ashamed, which is an after effect of the abuse. A lot of them will also use kids as an excuse, but at that point you're endangering the kids as well. By allowing them near an abuser and letting them see this abusive relationship play out, when kids don't know any better and will think that it's a normal relationship.
@AngryReptileKeeper
9 ай бұрын
I stayed in an abusive relationship for 13 years. Why? Because I thought he would get better with maturity, personal development and life experience- things we were both lacking when we got together at 19 and having never lived on our own before. He did not get better. I can relate to the shame. Looking back on the mountain of shit I tolerated and forgave over the years, I wonder what I was thinking. I ultimately feel like I did it all to myself by choosing to stick around as long as I did, and therefore have no right to complain. But then I remember that I did so in good faith and out of a genuine effort to make things work, and in my relatively young, naive mind, I believed that most relationship problems could be solved with love, compassion and patience, even if those things were one-sided. I actually had faith in him to improve- but he eventually whittled that faith down until it broke. After 6 much-needed years of being single and working on my own damn self, I got myself a much better man that my efforts aren't wasted on.
As the old saying goes: if this cheater is looking for sympathy, that's in the dictionary between shit and syphilis.
@LeeLuvid
9 ай бұрын
What does that mean? (I'm.noy a native speaker so idk)
@DarkusZarvix
9 ай бұрын
Never heard that old saying yet it fits so perfectly!
@auronheimdall1072
9 ай бұрын
@@LeeLuvidIt's a pun between looking for sympathy, in the sense wanting emotional support and and looking for the meaning of a word like you would in a dictionary. When the cheater is looking for sympathy, point them to a dictionary because you won't give them the support they need, they don't deserve it. They mention shit and syphilis because the word sympathy can be found between these two in the dictionary, and because it insists on ,what the cheater has done.
@brendanboomhour7606
9 ай бұрын
@@LeeLuvidIt's literal, in a dictionary, sympathy is found on a page somewhere between shit and syphilis alphabetically
@threecards333
9 ай бұрын
@@LeeLuvid Sympathy is alphabetically between "shit" and "syphilis" in a dictionary, the point is that sympathy for a cheater is just as repulsive and worthless as shit and syphilis (syphilis being a sx transmitted disease).
Story 1: I feel sorry for the guys wife. Sorry 2: ouch. I feel sorry the guy feels like he's going crazy. Story 3: divorce him. He's a toxic ass.
i am flabbergasted that the guy in the scam portion is actually falling for it. it wouldn’t be his fault anyway because she lied about her age, led him to believe she was 18, he did nothing with the photo and it seemed like he was 100% creeped out by it, and he SHOULD get the police involved. i know it’s most likely a fake story but i’m still heated about it
@mateomorales1653
9 ай бұрын
The cops will still hit you with possession of CP
@LaceBlood
9 ай бұрын
@@mateomorales1653chances are the girl is actually not 15 tho. And she told him she was 18, he had no reason to believe that she wasn’t, and he didn’t contact her again after being told she was underage. So chances are he’d be okay, but if y’all to a lawyer first regardless
@avesatanae
9 ай бұрын
he didn't fall for it. Its an obvious fake karma farm post. Nobody is that stupid but also able to write a reddit post.
@LilDevyl17
9 ай бұрын
Sometimes, those stories aren't fake but is not that hard to set up a scam like this. The family will do this and exploit it b/c "No one wants the Cops involved" Also they get "Free Money" by blackmailing. But the moment you say, "okay let's file the report," or "Okay, let me get my lawyer so we can talk" or "okay, I'll see you in court then." Suddenly they change their tune and you don't hear from them again.
@hyzmarca2737
9 ай бұрын
@@mateomorales1653 That's why you delete it with a shredder program that prevents any sort of recovery. Can't charge you with possession if you aren't in possession of it. But the picture is almost certainly a stock photo grabbed off the internet.
Story 4: OP She told you early in the relationship that she was pregnant, it's not like she didn't not know she was sleeping with other guys. I understand it not changing your son's relationship but this is something you need to discuss with her, because there is a chance she might be baby trapping you with someone else's kid.
@alexanderhenby1362
9 ай бұрын
This is a true off my chest post. Op wants to be this kids father, he is this kids father. He just did a test to see if he was biologically. He isn't. She told him early that she was pregnant and the two of them had been sexually active. False negatives happen on pregnancy tests. Testing too early can lack the hormone hCG to get a positive test, and 40 weeks isn't an exact science. 37 to 41 weeks is term. That is a whole month as a margine of error. This doesn't sound like baby trapping, this sounds like two sexually active adults who were sexually active before they got together and continued to be sexually active when they got together with, like I said, a decently large margin of error on the date of conception.
@hmmtea7438
9 ай бұрын
@@alexanderhenby1362still at least sounds like there's a cheater
Had something similar to story 7 happen, some guy claiming to be a cop called and give the same speech but said I could talk to the parents to avoid jail, which immediately made me suspicious, and the "dad" of the 15 year old sounded like her grandfather and I essentially told them to come arrest me since I knew I'd not broken any laws and they said they'd come me. Remember law enforcement never calls beforehand
@undrhil
9 ай бұрын
Yeah, I wonder if it was actually a CPS person
@theblacklotussociety7352
9 ай бұрын
Yeah I’ve also had it happen. They spoof the number of the cops then ask for money. I stopped responding and heard nothing back. It’s just a scary scam to get money over a fake person
@Wendy_O._Koopa
9 ай бұрын
@@undrhil You know it wasn't CPS because they were actually _doing_ something.
@LilDevyl17
9 ай бұрын
@@undrhil It wasn't! CPS would never say "Go talk to the victim's Dad to avoid jail" or something like that. Plus, it will never be over the phone it will always be in person.
On the "Not the Bio dad" thing, the mother could absolutely be completely unaware he's not the father. I know because that's what happened with my mom. She was sleeping with a few people openly at the time I was conceived, decided to keep me, did the math and determined it was one guy, told him she wouldn't chase him for money, just wanted him to know in case he wanted to be involved and then raised me as a single mother. Theres no father on my birth certificate. It was more just curiosity. Yeah, 30 years later I did a DNA test and matched with someone who was my biological aunt - my father was a complete different man and I was born 2 weeks LATE.
@idk-something-clever
9 ай бұрын
Paternity might not match for a LOT of reasons. Maybe OP's girlfriend was in a casual relationship(s) before OP and just did bad math. Maybe she was SAed by someone. Maybe the kid doesn't belong to EITHER of them because the hospital sent them home with the wrong newborn. Shit happens. It's not always "she cheated and is hiding it."
@Wendy_O._Koopa
9 ай бұрын
@@idk-something-clever Yes, Slashy normally simps for the wives in these stories, so it took me off guard this time. I'm not saying she's _definitely_ innocent, but she's not definitely _guilty_ either. He should probably do a maternity test, just in case it's the old "swapped at birth" gag; once thought of as a cheap soap opera plot, but apparently is a very _real_ problem that happens much more than anyone would like to admit.
@AngryReptileKeeper
9 ай бұрын
@@Wendy_O._Koopa There's also the fun possibility that mom gestated and birthed the kid, but it's still not a genetic match with her because of chimerism.
@Wendy_O._Koopa
9 ай бұрын
@@AngryReptileKeeper I mean, yes that is _technically_ within the realm of possibilities, but the chances are so slim, I wouldn't hold my breath. Also, it's already happened, so the odds of it happening again are _even_ worse. Um... probably? I'm not a statistician.
@Estarile
9 ай бұрын
@@idk-something-cleverHospitals fucking up like that to the point the wrong kid gets sent home (and not just handed to the wrong mom, and quickly found) is practically zero. But otherwise ya. She probably just did the math wrong.
For the dating app story: EXTORTION OP, trust but always verify. The calls from CPS, can you verify it was actually someone from CPS? Why would they suggest you contact her dad, when you probably shouldn’t be contacting anyone in that family in an actual scenario of this nature? I know it must be scary what they did, but think a moment and start asking yourself some questions. Also you should probably talk to your mom. You’ll need some support. I hope you can get your money back.
Withholding: Geez, I know that some people can be grumpy as peck, but man this guy would make Scrooge jealous with how nasty he is.
The only "cheaters" I feel sympathy for are the ones that are in actually abusive relationships and are just trying to escape. I've seen it before and it was a wake up call. I never understood why people cheat until I watched what was happening to her.
@tully6648
9 ай бұрын
This is the only cheating I excuse. If a person has been isolated or financially abused, sometimes the only way out is with someone who can/will help you get out. It's the worst option, but it fits the worst situations.
@akl2k7
9 ай бұрын
And even then, it can be bad idea since their potentially putting their AP in the crossfire of their abuser.
@JMemski
9 ай бұрын
@@akl2k7 yeah sometimes that is the case, more often than not the AP is more than aware and still makes that choice/is even put in a position where they are told they don't wanna be put in any danger but choose to try to help them come away from the abuse. What I witnessed was similar to this. My friend was in a very heavily abusive relationship and when she finally met someone she felt safe around he actually helped her get a place (not with him) that was safe and sat with her while she made police statements. He's an actual angel, at the time I was quite concerned that he would end up being abusive too, but 7 years later and they're still together and in an amazing place- thank god.
@GabrielleTollerson
9 ай бұрын
it's called LEAVING. There is NO excuse!!
@JMemski
9 ай бұрын
@@GabrielleTollerson I'm glad that you have the privilege of not knowing what it's like for it to be dangerous to leave. Or if you do, not fully comprehending that every abusive situation is different.
I don't get how cheaters can do what they do. Even the thought of stealing the light in my wife's eyes by being that heartless and selfless guts me. I hope the wife in story 1 finds someone else who makes her happy and takes her wellbeing seriously.
@tiara4481
9 ай бұрын
They have the mentality of wanting their cake and eating it too. They want the stability of a relationship but the still want other people.
@Sage0130
9 ай бұрын
Agreed. I don't know why the wife just doesn't divorce the OP in the first story herself, but I genuinely feel for her, and I hope she gets the help she needs to heal. As for him... I hope he gets everything he deserves.
@GiordanDiodato
9 ай бұрын
I'm guessing the OP wrote it as a warning
@DarkHeartTheEmo
9 ай бұрын
The most stupid thing is, they say them love their partner more than anything if that was true he wouldn't cheat, this guys are trying to lie to us or themself? Because that is a lie and not even a good one.
@robertorojasbalarezo
9 ай бұрын
that is something that always confuses me, is it the thrill of cheating without being discovered or you like hurting your partner? but you can´t never cheat on a cheater bc you would always be the ahole in their eyes, cheaters are the worst but people who stay with a cheater knowingly get no sympathy from me
I do appreciate TrueOffMyChest stories. Those and BestOfRedditorUpdates are my favorite episodes by a large margin. Thanks, RSlash!
@Justice237
9 ай бұрын
Me too, I always find TrueOffMyChest, AITA, and BestfOf stories the absolute juciest
@nimboss
9 ай бұрын
Same here. I wish the channel was nothing but those. Less Malicious Compliance and Revenge stories videos would be nice, though. Those just feel fake.
@Justice237
9 ай бұрын
@@nimboss I’d probably click on more Revenge and Malicious Compliance stories if they weren’t ALL about screwing over bad bosses, they just get to be all the same after a while. Give me more getting bad teachers or bullies or cheaters fired
@SRosenberg203
9 ай бұрын
Same, but you also have to throw in TreeLaw. Those are the top 3 for sure.
@avesatanae
9 ай бұрын
I like the kevin stories way more.
OP's wife needs therapy in order to leave. I hope she gets away from this man who hurt her so badly and finds someone she can truly trust and be happy with. That poor woman.
"I love her more than snything! Other than sleeping with other girls" is what OP should have said in the first story.
Story 5: If it wasn't so obvious I would almost give credit, you don't even have to be proven guilty the second someone claims you're a pedophile your life is over, taking advantage of that someone can milk a poor sucker for every penny they have.
@Mr_Timi1
9 ай бұрын
provided there actually was a girl and this wasn't a scam.
@RiveroftheWither
9 ай бұрын
The obvious thing is that this was a money scam.
@orchidoxs126
9 ай бұрын
@@Mr_Timi1 That doesn't mean that's not a scam. Children are often used in scams you know?
@Mr_Timi1
9 ай бұрын
@@orchidoxs126 I'm actually saying there was no girl and I believe this is a scam
@richardcrooks6713
4 ай бұрын
@@orchidoxs126 the person who contacted OP need not be a child. All a group of scammers need is a few photos of young looking women (not even necessarily children), and people who can make the phone calls being allegedly from CPS and the family. OP has never met the "girl" in question, he simply started talking to someone he thought was 18 before the scammers came to him alleging that the "person" he was speaking to was 15 when they had a way of contacting him off the app. I nearly got pulled into a Tinder scam where the person I was talking to wanted to meet to bang since they were in the city at the time, but wanted me to "verify" my identity by giving my credit card number to a random website... I didn't fall for it, and I very much doubt the pictures of them on their profile were real pictures of the person I was talking to.
So, to the story about the boy who isn't OPs son: R/ did you miss the part where she mentioned that she was pregnant early on? Like, as in she was already pregnant when they got together. It is entirely possible that she doesn't know who the father is. That she very well thought that he was
I choked on my water at the"Morpheus MD" being an anesthesiologist. Genius username 💯
Ok, if someone goes on a dating site but lies about their age, they should have to face some kind of punishment. Why is it on the other person to background check or mind read every single person who swipes right on them? "Going against term of service" how about lying about your age?! Pretty sure thats against terms of services, as well. OP should have just gone to a lawyer the moment he found out her age.
@Wendy_O._Koopa
9 ай бұрын
In real life it _is_ the girl's fault for lying. Supposedly a lot of the guys on the show "To Catch A Predator" were let off later because of entrapment or something, all the info I can find contradicts all the other info. But I believe that if she put 18 on the site, and all the chat logs on the phone have her claiming to be 18, he _should_ be in the clear. And yes, OP 100% needs to get a lawyer.
@richardcrooks6713
4 ай бұрын
You're assuming there even is a 15 year old girl using the dating site. He's never met any of them, only spoken on the phone to "CPS" and "her dad". My roommate and I could set up a scam like that by ourselves by one of us acting as the dad and the other one acting as CPS and for the dating profile use a bunch of photos we found online.
Cheaters: *describe their partner in a very light of my life kind of way* Also cheaters: btw I cheated on my so
Story 2, I say just be like "I don't know if I actually did anything inappropriate, but I feel like I did so I'd like to apologize for anything inappropriate that I did while under."
Story 1 :as Mr.krabs once said on SpongeBob " ohhh boooho here let me play a tune for you on the worlds smallest violin".. File for divorce to set her free so she can be free and happy.. Story 2 : ehhh bleep happens.. when i was going through whipple surgery before the surgery started i literally wanted my nose to be torn right off to be rid of the pain of the stuff they stuffed in it.. i tried to rip it off so badly my doctors had to sedate me with anesthesia.. Substory: kinda sounds like the movie awake which had terrance howard and Jessica alba in it .. Story 3 : The husband is sketchy AF..who flips out that badly knowing who their kid is ?? Edit : shes Gaslight to hell by her husband!! Story 4 : ghost this "relationship " op.. do not raise what's not yours op.. Story 5 : ohhh op you obviously thought with your second head and not your brain.. you got to be careful in this world dude...get a lawyer and stop talking to anyone CPS or the dad you big dummy... Story 6 : hes smashing lilly on the side op.. no one would hey can i take the deal you got for us and use it for me and my "friend" unless hes smashing her..
I had an ex that used that witholding affection crap with me. At the time I didn't realize how manipulative and abusive it was. I can remember the worst incident is when I went to get my hair cut and they were doing a special where haircuts would be free if you donated so much of your length. Being completely broke at the time. I figured I could save the money from my haircut to put in my gas tank so I went ahead and got my hair done shorter than I originally planned. It turned out fantastic and I was so happy. And then when I went home, I was berated for cutting my hair short without permission, for looking like a "f'ing *gay slur*", and I was no longer allowed to initiate any physical contact or conversation with my SO. That was many years and many toxic relationships ago, and I'm in therapy and have decided that relationships are just not for me anymore. And the real kicker is that SOB is married, likely to the person he was cheating on me with. She can have him. Trash belongs with trash, after all.
@samwilliams3120
9 ай бұрын
Man this just goes to shoe that when women say no to sex they see it as empowering but when men do it's abuse or evidence of an affiar.
Story 1: OP’s wife deserves the world, I really hope she leaves OP and finds a man who won’t cheat on her.
@second to last story - Not much to say about this scam but thank you rSlash for bringing attention to it and help preventing this to happen to other people. You have a huge platform for good and helpful PSA's and regardless if it's a fake story or not, I'm glad you are using it for good
@KillerOstrich
9 ай бұрын
I doubt the story is fake. Sounds like a scam victim who doesnt know what to do
@scxiao
9 ай бұрын
@@KillerOstrich The story that OP got told was fake, the scam is very much real
In the 5 story im so concerned for op's kids and what she's teaching them by defending that dude and what he teaches his kids.
I remember being under sedation as a child and I remember being trapped in a box without light. I woke up screaming that I wanted water like I had never had water in my entire life. While screaming I remember thinking “why is this happening why am I doing this, who is screaming?” I was pretty young.
I think the rant about the paternity story was uncalled for. It IS entirely possible that OP's girlfriend is lying about cheating, knowing the true paternity of her child, or both. It IS possible. But it is ALSO possible that MAYBE she was in another relationship before this, didn't know she was pregnant from it, and genuinely believes the child is OP's. She may not know herself. It's ALSO possible that maybe she was SAed and traumatized and doesn't want to believe her pregnancy was a result of that. Maybe OP doesn't know about that. Maybe she was SAed and she herself doesn't remember. Who knows?? We certainly don't. MAYBE the baby belongs to NEITHER OF THEM. Hell, they might have been given the wrong baby to take home following the birth. It happens more often than you might think! There are plenty of reasons for paternity to not match what is believed to be true. It's NOT always "she cheated." OP should talk to his girlfriend about it so he can find out the full truth, and so she can know that he knows (and potentially learn the full truth herself). They need to be on the same page about how to move forward if they want to stay together and continue to co-parent. They need to have this conversation anyway, since OP may not be a good donor match for his child in emergency medical situations, like a bio father would be. Bad take, R/Slash.
Me and my sister both have been diagnosed ambien at one point. We both remember on it we felt like it was hilarious to lie. We were aware normally we wouldn’t lie but at the time nothing seemed like more fun than deceit. My sister tried to convince some guy in the hospital that she had 2 children. I tried to convince my family that I couldn’t walk up stairs and intentionally kept falling.
@AngryReptileKeeper
9 ай бұрын
I've taken Ambien before. That's stuff's some wild shit.
Can't believe you're almost at 2 mil now rslash, I've genuinely grown up listening to your videos
@greed94
9 ай бұрын
Wait, since when is he doing this?
@HobieInTheBox
9 ай бұрын
@@greed94it's been well over 5 years i think
@michaeljenkins178
9 ай бұрын
"Grown up"? Dudes been doing this for 4 years, max. You can sort his videos by oldest. First one was only 4 years ago
@HobieInTheBox
9 ай бұрын
@@michaeljenkins178maybe they're young?
@kentick3795
9 ай бұрын
@@michaeljenkins178well going from example 14 to 18 is a good amount of growing up to be fair
Ruined Reputation: I mean, Tyler did say that Lily was like family to him, so he should have seen this coming. Also, OP was the one who booked that room. When Tyler and OP broke up, Tyler can't have that room anymore because it's OP's booking, not his
Great, after hearing all of the patients on anesthesia stories, I have an endoscopy coming up and will be sedated. I always wake up and having my mom and the nurse laughing their asses off at me because apparently I love to chat about having a beer with aliens.
Last hits kinda hard for me because my ex boyfriend/daughter's father was way to close with his female friend/coworker (they dated) and I've told him that i was uncomfortable with the closeness of their relationship, he brushed me off. Then they started dating the day after me and him broke up (he denied it) then a week later they got married (i told him it was a bad idea and she was manipulating him, he didn't listen) then i went no contact with him and found out through a mutual friend that they are separated with a son (they had a daughter that's the same age as mine just a few months younger) i contacted him and said I told you so, he said yeas i should have listened to you. Still in contact with him mainly incase of medical information for my daughter
@DoctorOaks
9 ай бұрын
I was wondering if OP was just being jealous or not up until he showed up to claim her reservation at the resort. I've definitely seen some people be overly sensitive about their SO's friends, so it can be hard to tell immediately. For example with the Valentine's Day presents, some people just aren't good at giving presents. It could've been as simple as the friend actually asks for something specific instead of leaving it up to him. I'm glad OP got out of the relationship though. Good for them, and if the boyfriend WAS cheating on her then I hope he winds up old and alone.
That dating story scares me from dating apps. Its so easy to blackmail a desperate man in modern day
@KillerOstrich
9 ай бұрын
Nah op is just stupid. Always ask for age and proof when on any dating site that doesnt have the required age of use as 18. Even if age of use is 18 still cant be too sure. Chances are once you get the proof if the person was lying its dropped due to them saying they were of age but it greatly depends on the people handling the case or state laws.
@doomdrake123
9 ай бұрын
No it was the girl that broke the ToS. He was fine.
@scuba535
9 ай бұрын
@@doomdrake123i bet there is no girl. He got a call from someone claiming the were with a child protection agency. If all they’ve done is text then he doesn’t know if there’s actually a girl. You can find those nsfw pictures on the internet. But yes if there was actually a person they would be breaking the terms of service.
Bruh that's a scam! I almost fell for the same thing! They try to catch you and then demand money to keep from calling the cops. (no, I wasn't chatting with younger women. I matched with a girl on POF and we exchanged numbers then literally that same day I got a call from a random number saying that I was sending NSFW to a minor, I've never even taken a picture of my stuff, let alone sent it to anyone. Then they said that if I don't pay they'll get the police involved. But nothing ever happened)
I will say on the "turns out it's not his son" story, there is a chance she might genuinely think he is the father. If she was given a rough timeline of when it was conceived she might have matched it up to her relationships and decided either because she was with him for most of it besides the first day of the estimate or she only went with the estimate. For example, if she was told the baby was conceived in the first two weeks of March roughly and her last time with someone else was March 1st. She might statistically think that it was likely OP. That's not how it works but some people think that is how it works. Or her last time with someone else was February 26th, which isn't in the estimate, so it can't be that person has to be op. Despite it being an estimate and not how that works. People can be very stupid.
I feel sorry for the wife in story 1. He's right, she didn't deserve that.
Story 5: Seems like OP's husband is part of the 40% of cops who abuse their wives. Freaking sucks, man. She needs to divorce him ASAP
You know someone got absolutely destroyed in the comments when they delete their account.
@buddyburrows
9 ай бұрын
It's happened a ton here even lol
OP from story 1: Boo hoo, I never should've cheated on my wife! Rslash: Oh no....anyway
rSlash there’s another option, it actually happened but you did it to someone else. And for the rest of college there was a random guy like “that’s that guy that grabbed my dingleberries and never said anything about it”
I just can't understand the mindset of cheaters. I stood up in a church in front of witnesses and swore vows. Am I the only one who takes that seriously? Am I the last guy in the world with a conscience and a sense of honor?
@threecards333
9 ай бұрын
I know this feels trite, but I am always mystified by firstly how men can cheat both in that why sabotage their relationship and also how can men find so many women who are interested. I can't even find a romantic partner while other men can find multiple lovers. I just want someone to love me, and I would give her the world....
@ahstiasummers5583
9 ай бұрын
@@threecards333 Some people are just that good at being charming and manipulative simultaneously. I think another part of this are those false romcom tropes of "good guy/girl falls in love with the crazy girl/bad boy and changes them into a good person" and "good people are vanilla, what you want is this crazy person who ignores your boundaries". Sure it's exhilarating for a few weeks or months at most, but what happens after that initial sugar high is the relationship sours very quickly
@LilDevyl17
9 ай бұрын
@@threecards333 Lots of times it's never about being the "Romantic" Partner but some women just love to be the "Other Woman" b/c of the danger of getting caught. And some Women have the mindset of "Well if I'm able to steal you man then you weren't Woman enough for him" and then have the *Shocked Pikichu Face* when the guy cheats on them.
@Tustin2121
9 ай бұрын
I get the sentiment but the wording is iffy. You’re not the only person in the world who doesn’t cheat. There are lots of good people out there, it’s just that we hear about the bad ones more, because they’re out of the norm (and rage-bait generates clicks). If you’re going through something, understand that you are not alone and that there are people out there who will respect you. Unfortunately, they can be hard to find… I’m still looking myself…
Story 1: *_WHAT. HAVE. YOU. DONE._* 🤦🏿♀️ Story 2: The commenter's name (AvatarDang), I TOTALLY agree with! *DANG!!!* 😳🤦🏿♀️ and now I _actually_ listened to AvatarDang's story, so *_DANGGGGGG!!!_* 😫 Okay, this ENTIRE 2ND SECTION is *_DAAAAAAAAAANNNNNNGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!_* 🙄 _Mah brain broken..._ Story 3: Divorce him. He *_CLEARLY_* doesn't love you or your kids😡 Story 4: I have no words...😑 Story 5: Bruh, does that girl realize that she could literally ruin his life by lying about her age?! Smh😮💨 Story 6: Again, no words🤦🏿♀️ Nvm, the end results was hilarious and well-deserved😆
Story 1 if he really loved her then he wouldn't have cheated. Sense she doesn't want to divorce the best you can do for her is do what she asks.
@user-hk2fc4jv2g
9 ай бұрын
I hope she does divorce him. She deserves a real man, not a cheater. He wallowed in self-pity, and did nothing to make amends. There were no apologies, no effort on his part to change. He is complete lowlife.
@vhaelen326
9 ай бұрын
@@user-hk2fc4jv2g firstly, no he doesnt, he isnt sad about him ruining his own life or sad about the fact that his wife doesnt sleep with him anymore or that he got caught he is upset about what he did to his wife, while it doesnt change the fact that he cheated it means he is atleast capable of true remorse for his actions secondly how thefuck do you know there were no apologies or no effort on his part to change? the post is super short and doesnt go into detail about anything, not about himself, the person he cheated with, the reason why he cheated etc, the only detail he gives is essentially of the trauma his wife suffered because of his actions by stating how she behaved before and after, hate him for being a cheater all you want but dont just add details of your own imagination to justify your hate, that is unfair towards op's wife
@fdm2155
9 ай бұрын
Seems strange that they haven't tried going to a therapist to see if they can repair their relationship. I'd say either work on making change OR just separate. Why stay together and you're both miserable?
@user-hk2fc4jv2g
9 ай бұрын
@@vhaelen326 Be less patronising, stop assuming that I am an idiot, and you MIGHT be worth speaking to again.
@vhaelen326
9 ай бұрын
@@user-hk2fc4jv2g ah, my fault, you were acting and talking like an idiot so i thought you might be one, im sure you can see where the confusion came from
Why is it when an underage girl DELIBERATELY LIES ABOUT HER AGE she faces no consequences and it’s the adult she’s manipulated that faces them?
3rd made me a little mad at how OP can't see how she's being abused, she needs some pretty heavy intervention I think.
As for story 2, I can't be fully sedated. So, like OP I've got to be high af and semi-conscious. I had to have an important surgery and I was convinced, CONVINCED that I told the whole OR about a very traumatic incident where I was forced to un-alive my abusive ex out of self defense. I also was convinced that I was laughing like the Joker about saying that I'd gladly do it again and other terrible things. Omg, when I say that I was curled up in a ball bawling my eyes out in the recovery room, I'm not kidding. When my surgeon came to check on me thinking it was severe post -op pain (yeah that area hurt but, that's not why I was crying). I was extremely traumatized thinking I told everyone what happened and etc. Not all post anesthesia stories are funny 😢😢 I always get the fcked up experience.
Ugh random thought, I love how petty and sassy Rslash is. It makes me giggle when he should his own personality into the Reddit stores.
The one about the distant husband is like my cop ex who was cheating on me with the dispatcher. He wanted hardly anything to do with our three kids until his THIRD wife didn't think he should pay child support- the corrupt local courts gave HIM custody! I warn the OP and others like her to be careful! The emotional damage that was dealt to my kids has given them lasting mental problems as adults.
The ending to the last story got me 😂 "isn't that your sister?" "Sweet home, Alabama"
the first story i am not surprised op deleted their reddit account cause people were probably trying to track him down to kick his a**
first story. YOU DONT LOVE HER! Youre feeling guilt. You never loved her in the first place, if you did. YOU WOULDNT HAVE CHEATED!!! I seriously dont understand, and will never understand, how cheaters can say "I love you" and say it with full confidence, as if they arent just lying to themselves, and the world
@insu_na
9 ай бұрын
You can love multiple people at once, but you mustn't break their trust. If you enter a relationship where the expectation is monogamy, you better f-ing stay monogamous.
@RiverRina
9 ай бұрын
@@insu_na This. You're so right about this. It's important to respect boundaries. And if you're in a relationship that's monogamous, you're the worst scum if you still cheat
@dachless
9 ай бұрын
@@insu_na I agree with you in 99% of cases, but in the case of cheating, if you truly love somebody, you wouldn't dare think to hurt them in such an extreme way.
4:00 similar thing happened to me. I got blackout drunk at a friends house, and was 1000% CERTAIN I had vomited all over her couch. When I woke up the next morning i inspected the area and asked if i had puked on her couch. I didnt. I threw up in a bowl and in the toilet, but not on her couch
Foster mom here. Dude, no child protective agency would put an alleged perp in direct contact with anyone related to an alleged child victim. Stay off the internet until you have the good sense to not get scammed.
Every morning I get up, every morning I wait for new slash video to appear. Thanks for the awesome content it’s a great way to start the day!
Ooh boy r/TrueOffMyChest is one of my fav subreddits! I'm glad this is posted on my birthday so thanks RSlash!!
@DrgnLdyLizzie2001
9 ай бұрын
Happy birthday!🎉
r/Slash, I have been listening to your videos for several years, and I would like to thank you for including the "It's a scam" story. I was listening until the end thinking about how similar this was to what my friend is currently experiencing. I did not even consider this being a scam until you said it was. I just called my friend who is at work and laid it all out, as well as send the link to your video. Because of this video, my friend finally got the courage to tell someone in his family. I have no idea how it's going right now, but I know that he has more hope in the hour than he has in months.
As the child of a cop, I saw my mom and dad in a similar situation to that story. I’m 25 now, and she’s stayed with him and defended him to this day. It’s fucked up to watch, and it fucked me and my sibling up living with a volatile jackass of a father.
Story 3: holy frick, this wife needs to leave him. He acts like he's the only one overwhelmed by the kids. She's better off alone and not being abused by him too.
@samwilliams3120
9 ай бұрын
If you think "withholding sex" is abuse. Then you're a "fricking" idiot.
Every other sentence in that first story, I had to pause and ask aloud, “Then why did you do it?” LO AND BEHOLD, that’s the question OP did not attempt to answer. To hell with cheaters.
I have no pity for cheaters and drunk drivers.
They made me Ketamine while i had fluid taken out of my lungs. I drifted in and out of consciousness. I was aware of what i said to who. Yes i was aware, i could speak and couldn't move. I remember i occasionally asked my mom how she was doing/feeling as well as doctors. Second story: the boundary, and denial of physical affection, physical touch, THIS is one of many things that gets spouces to cheat in the first place.
Cheaters don't deserve a 2nd chance at all Like you did it you consciously made that action and there's no turning back as guilt and regret weighs heavy on your back for life
@hectormarquez2402
9 ай бұрын
Why not everyone deserves a 2nd chance
@ahstiasummers5583
9 ай бұрын
@@hectormarquez2402 Giving them a 2nd chance depends on what they did. They forgot you two were hanging out today? Makes sense to give them a second chance. They cheated on you? That's a worse offense than forgetting you were hanging out today. You ever heard "if they will cheat with you, they will cheat on you"? Many people who cheat don't ever stop. Sure some do, but they're such a small minority that most don't think it's worth taking that chance
@GlitchyOnAChair
9 ай бұрын
@@hectormarquez2402 I do beleive in 2nd chances but cheaters don't deserve any kind of forgiveness nor mercy
Story 1: OP having this woman as a wife is honestly very lucky of him. She kisses him every morning saying I love you, being happy and bubbly, and smiling a lot. But why does OP have to ruin that relationship by cheating? Honestly OP, you brought this on yourself, if you hadn't cheated, none of this would've happened.
Oh boy, so I don't know what I was on when i had my appendix removed, but my whole body was burning hot, like, put y hand on the stove hot and I otherwise felt calm, but the staff kept telling me I was just having a panic attack (I've had panic attacks, tis was different). I INSISTED to wash my hands, and eventually they let me because i was talking so much and repeatedly. I woke up mid surgery and 'booped' my 'second bellybutton' and got myself strapped to the bed as a result, got knocked out again. Then I woke up really high and told a nurse I loved her, I wanted to get married and that the 'kink' was cute (Because I was strapped to the bed). She laughed and declined my proposal, I cried. the nurses asked if I used drugs before because the oramorph painkiller didn't work and I seemed to resilient to the anaesthetic, but I hadnt. I explained that my parents used while pregnant and I didnt know if it'd have an effect, but I just got a 'hm' and was moved onto paracetamol I really hoped it was a hallucination, but a couple of amused and bemused surgeons had confirmed that no, I'd just been a nuisance lol (also my appendictomy scar has a stretched bit where i shoved my hand and I had to be on IV antibiotics for an additional week) thank goodness I washed my hands
When I was under conscious sedation and was recovering I told my husband I grew a 3rd arm (my IV). When the nurse came to take my iv out, I told her "that's my arm lady, where are you going with it!?". She laughed and walked out with it. I started to cry and I looked at my husband and I said "she stole my arm!! She's so rude"! I said other weird stuff too but this was his favourite lol.
Story 1: I feel sorry for the wife but I don't understand why she wants to stay when she's clearly miserable. If she does _actually_ want to stay with him, then I hope she is able to find a positive path forward with that. Honestly, I hope she finds the self worth/esteem to realise she deserves better. Edit: The title is "After my wife kisses me goodbye every morning, I break down crying until I have to work." if you want to read the comments. Also it just occured to me that he mentioned his wife giving him permission to keep sleeping with the AP, but doesn't say he rejected the deal. He's probably still sleeping with her which just adds to the scuminess
@k3upikachu
9 ай бұрын
She's def still there because of the kids. I wish people realized it's healthier for the kids to have divorced parents than to watch their married parents resent each other
3rd story: Being with the same job as the husband, his situation is so familiar, irritated and low on any patiance, tired and just done with anything, just wanting to do something mindless such as scrolling tik tok. Such behaviour is not justified nor should be defended, instead should be faced and dealt with before it gets worse. In this situation it is either leave the SO or help them, that depends on the person, I chose to deal with the issue, but someone might choose to be even more agressive. Hope OP can see trough it and actually do something, before it gets worse, because it likely will
In the "It's a Scam" story, it's absolutely a scam. All OP had to do was talk to a lawyer in the beginning to clear up any misunderstanding and boom you aren't in any danger. If you ever suspect you committed a crime by incompetence or neglect you can always talk to a lawyer and see what your options. Lawyers can not help you keep committing crimes but they are to represent and keep confidence with you whatever you tell them.
To throw my 2 cents to the #2 story a friend of mine no joke said he got so high he say his other friend telport from one end of the room to the other when there hotbox. It scared him half to death
First story: I don't pity cheaters and OP basically emotionally broke his wife after your cheating with another person.
That first story is such a gut punch. Because, that guy is STILL running away from his marriage. He says he wants to set her free, like he's doing it out concern for her, but honestly it just sounds like he doesn't want to take responsibility for making her happy. He should be worshipping her
Story 1: No sympathy for cheaters! OP deserves to feel bad over what he did to his wife and his wife deserves better!
Part of that last story reminds me of something that happened to me years ago. My brother and I shopped at the same GameStop, but not always together. Sometimes, he'd go with his wife. Once, we were together, and I introduced him to the manager as my brother. She goes, "oh thank God! I wasn't sure how I was going to tell you he was cheating on you. He's come in with another woman". I told her that was his wife. She was really relieved.
OP might as well just ask his wife for a divorce and be done with it. It’s clear by the story that he has nuked his marriage and his wife’s trust in him forever.
@CinderXiaoLong
9 ай бұрын
The first one? He did. She cried and asked him if he didn't love her anymore. So, no divorce until she asks for it
I always find it funny that the cheater always claim that they love the SO, but not enough to stay loyal and only feels "remorse" when they get caught. I really hope the future ex gets the help/support that she needs, si that she can leave OP. And clean him out in the divorce.
that "CPS" story is a total scam. They are extorting money from that guy, and he didn't even DO ANYTHING !! sheesh !
The withholding story, that's just cold torture. My love language is also touch, I couldn't stay in that relationship. Not just for the s3x, but the general lack of affection.
I LOVE when rslash tells us a story about himself as relates to the story. Like, grabbing a dudes bits and bobs?! Ha!
The 25 y/o is still weird trying to date what he thought was an 18 y/o lmao
@neebnabs
9 ай бұрын
Yeah, he should be going for someone like, 22 at the youngest... he was 18 when she was 11.......
@k3upikachu
9 ай бұрын
@@neebnabslol you mean at the youngest 😂
@neebnabs
9 ай бұрын
@@k3upikachu shit you're right
That last OP needs to send all the ex bf's 'friends' a copy of the reciept for the vacation SHE booked for them and say he tried to steal it with his new side piece. Let the truth me known.
Op staying after the coworker confronted her about flirting with a taken man, her boyfriend, is insane. That alone would've made me end things 😭.
Thank you for posting right at 6, it let's me get my daily dose of rslash on my drive to work
1:46 lemme get this straight. He cheated, then he wants divorce. His wife just cries and denies him divorce? I don’t get it. Yeah he’s a buttface for cheating in the first place. But why won’t the wife consider the thought of divorce and give herself room to breath from the trash?
@user-hk2fc4jv2g
9 ай бұрын
As usual, you blame women for everything, and never expect MEN to take any responsibility. This is American. In American thinking, the courts will grant a divorce to a MAN on any whim, whilst denying WOMEN a divorce if the man refuses to sign the papers. He chooses to torture his wife, by refusing to proceed with a divorce.
@HackiePuffs
9 ай бұрын
I can definitely understand if she doesn’t wanna let go it’s hard but maybe with time she’ll be more open to the idea.
@DarkHeartTheEmo
9 ай бұрын
Because even after all this, she still love him, we can't say why but she still does also she doesn't want to be Alone she 41 and before of what her husband did anyone would love to be around her by the way she was, but that is now gone, I think she thinks that she can't find anyone for her because of her age.
Story 2: My husband started shouting at his anesthesiologist when he had a surgery years ago, telling him, "Who the (f) are you! Get the (f) out of my living room, now!"
The withholding story, I think it's ok to put your child on one of those leashes or even have a tracker on the kid because it's probably necessary. However, OP needs help for real like therapy, marriage counselling, a carer for your child because I get they're hard work and may need the extra attention (which your husband isn't giving).
Story 1: you should hate yourself, you cheated on that woman because you wanted to get your rocks off, now here you are whining about how things aren't the same they weren't going to be the same. Aside from offering divorce what if you actually done to show her that you're truly sorry for what you did? Stop crying and go to marriage counseling if you want to truly fix this.
@user-hk2fc4jv2g
9 ай бұрын
He is not at all sorry, and feels no guilt, or remorse. He enjoys torturing his wife by refusing to file for divorce. This is American, so he knows that the courts would not grant a WOMAN a divorce if the man refuses to sign the papers. He is a complete lowlife, and does not deserve a partner.
@KadeStringer2.0
9 ай бұрын
@@user-hk2fc4jv2gyou don’t know how court system works . I mean he does feel some remorse but I don’t think he enjoys torturing his wife. We are giving him too much credit.
@SonLuffa
9 ай бұрын
@user-hk2fc4jv2g he asked her for a divorce she said no
@user-hk2fc4jv2g
9 ай бұрын
@@KadeStringer2.0 This is American. The courts favour men in all things. MALE lawmakers removed womens' right to an abortion, even when the woman has been raped, suffered incest, or the MAN who made her pregnant has scarpered, or is abusive, or her life is in danger. Do not claim that the courts favour women.
pls do more funny subreddits again!! like storiesaboutkevin
I have high tolerance to anesthesia and often wake up during surgery, and I don't get to have any of the fun goofy reactions. I'm lucid the entire time. My mom seems lucid and can have a totally normal conversation with you, but she won't remember any of it.
I was coming out of anesthesia and I was like waking up and nodding back off. There was a nurse sitting with me while I woke up and while I don’t remember what all I said, I did remember saying “oh my gosh! You’re so pretty. You’re so beautiful!!” Not embarrassing but still funny. She was laughing